This is crazy because I just did this tonight. I saw a good looking guy, asked him his name and where he was from. Then I said,"well, I think you're cute soo do you want my number?" And the rest is history. He hasn't texted me yet. Nervous now but at least I had the confidence
Yes he did contact me. Lol I kept on hanging up on him apparently because I was expecting a text. I don't answer unknown numbers. SMh but yes . he contacted me we are still talking.
Whenever I look at a hot guy, I keep on wondering he must have a girlfriend and I simply cannot be the reason for their breakup or him cheating on her. This is so embarrassing!
A guy here and honestly the best lesson I keep hearing underlying the advice he gives is to be a decent woman (or man). It's a beautiful thing to genuinely care about an utter stranger. Very wise perspective and I appreciate the videos!
Matthew is right, there's many guys that WON'T ask for your number cause us guys are getting labeled "players" too much for asking for a girls number the first time we are around her. I'm one of those guys, if you talk to me, I'm NOT going to ask for your number, I have to signs of interest and I figure if you like me enough, you will suggest it, if not I'm walking away politely.
Wow, talk about a misconception on both sides haha. I had a guy flirt with me at a party last night, in this case it was pretty obvious that he was only out for one thing and I'm just not that kind of girl(no shame if you are, you do you!). What really sealed it for me was when he never attempted to ask for my number or my last name. Asking for a number doesn't make you a player in my book, the reason women don't ask for the guy's number is because in my experience that just kills the whole attraction... I know in another video Matthew talked about investment vs attraction and how too much investment can kill the attraction.
Wow!!! Thats enlightening. I almost never get picked up on when I'm out but I find men staring at me a lot. I'm shy and a little old fashioned and have a SUPER hard time chasing men. I'm not sure I will ever get over that. Even with online dating I get likes every day but I feel if they guy really does like me, I'll stand out and he will want to message. Maybe I'm wrong. Women are supposed to be the pursuor now?
Stevie C: I think it's more about sending out clear 'Receptive' signals. That said, I find the signals need to be enunciated very well. Perhaps you could practise observing nice things about men and telling them, in your daily life. Start with elderly shopkeepers...
Sofie.... Ha, "only out for one thing"... my gawd, how many things do women want??? The list is endless. The great comic Patric Oneal sums women up with one word. "More" :)
It is so awkward to see someone on the subway who might be interested but with the crowds one can feel too awkward to respond. No idea how to deal with this!
Try living in Germany where it's like playing the dating game on highest difficulty because we don't usually just start talking to random strangers. Even at a bar it's kinda rare, we usually stay at our tables. Same goes for all other places.
Talking to guy in class Me: yea I've really got to go my friends will be mad if I don't so yeah Boy: umm ook Me: walks out of classroom Teacher: GET BACK IN HERE! SCHOOL'S NOT OVER!
Oh my goodness. I loved the way you presented each of the 4 ways 💜 They were more entertaining as you went through them hahah. You definitely demonstrated aspects of what seems like a fun, quirky personality you have Matt!
When I'm listening to you everything seems to be sooo simple :P I'm starting to be a little bit addicted to your speeches! Keep going cause you're doing an amazing job! A lot love from Poland 💕
Or was it ..."did you lose your number? Want to borrow mine?" Haha oh well it was fun to say and make it obvious and not give a sipidie do dahh about the outcome.
Well said Matthew. I always believe women are strong and can be happy in their life. They can be confident and meet other people who they want to introduce themselves to
Matthew, YT fam...do you know what just happened though?! He JUST gave me his number...HAPPILY! And refused to leave without mine! Do you know how long I've been crushing on that delicious smooth-whipped Godiva chocolate and this is all I had to do?!....oooo such eye candy AND I GOT HIS NUMBER! Ladies, y'all better listen to this man!
Thank you for sharing this dating tip. You always present material and content in an authentic and dynamic way. And I appreciate your candor and perspective. Keep up the great work! Cheers :)
this is so true!I have done that in the past in different ways and met great people. Had great dates I actually though I was doing it wrong because the men supposed to ask for the numbers but did it anyway because I was tired of waiting lol thanks Matt. I would def keep doing it
Can you do a video on tip on being playful/flirty in a classy way?! I am so afraid of going overboard and scaring guys off-- I go for the conservative Christian kind of guys so they scare off easily. But then I become so reserved it's just not letting guys know I'm into them. TIPS, Matthew?
All your examples are in the night. I don't find any guys I like in the night. In the day I do though I find a lot of hot guys, how do I approach them and get their number?
Matt you resemble my bf.. not only your face.. your height and your muscles ... even your body language.. that is why my eyes fill with tears when i watch your videos.. as we are not together any more..
Tip # 5: The one that works for me, it works better if you know him a little first, is that you pretend you lost your phone in that big purse we have. For me, I pretended I lost my phone in my car. I actually did lose it for less than a minute and then thought that this would be a good opportunity for the guy that's dragging his feet to get my number. I said "I lost my phone." He says, "I can call it so you can find it" :D ! He did. I found my phone. That night, he called me. I remember thinking, geez, so he was interested, but he didn't make a single move. If he doesn't call, it might mean that he isn't interested.
Something that I like to do when I'm with other people and want someone's details is to stop them and ask if they can take a picture of my friends and I for Snapchat/ Instagram Then go onto say thank you and ask if they have snapchat/ Instagram. The good thing about this is that it works in clubs or even on the street giving you an excuse to stop someone If I'm feeling ballsy in a club dancing with a guy I'll make a remark like "I think we look good, let's get a picture" get a picture with him then say "what's your Facebook so that I can send it to you?" (This also works really well at comic con with cute boys in cosplay)
Several times since I have been out young men have started high fiving me, to hit on me? is this a new thing? i was in a relationship for awhile so I think I forgot how the world works. I miss when men would just come over and talk to you. Some nice conversation. It's either staring at me for ages or high fiving me. I get that it's hard to go up to someone as I struggle to do that. But I'm not scary XD
I enjoyed this video. Emily was the one who pointed me to Konevita Jelken’s website, she insists it helped her find get her man and make him her boyfriend. I’m getting texts from a man I like now, so I really have to thank her and this video.
I'm here single, bingewatching his videos hoping to get some intel into this whole relationship thing. And my my my, this is mooore work than I thought. But it also sounds so logical... This stuff is some level of weird.
I did the venue exchange. I did get his number. We were sharing a room in the hostel to be very exact. It's pretty funny because it looks like he has things to say yet kind of shy away from it. Nice guy, just that too bad we are so far away from one another..but good thing about it, I've made another friend. Good tips you've got down there, Matt.
I found your channel yesterday and since then I watched a lot of your videos and I have to say you're amazing! you're so helpful in all these things you say! You opened my eyes and I'm truly grateful for it. Thank you so much :)))
There is this cute guy at my job I asked him if he wanted to hangout sometime he said yes. My contract at my job end soon I am going to give him my number.
The most effective way I have ever used is, if I'm talking to a guy and we're having good conversation and connecting, I smile and take his phone and put my number in his contacts.
How would you politely refuse a guy if he wants to get your number? Im not the kind of person who can easily say no to someone, Id get so awkward if I do.
+Sareenah Singh That's a good question but we should learn to say 'No' and not feel guilty after all. You've the right and you're free to express yourself and in the end to decline a request. Some people give an invented number but it's not a good move.
+Sareenah Singh I hope Matt sees this comment! He should do a video on it. I'd love to hear his advice. I always feel bad if I say no to a guy, even though I know I shouldn't.
+Sareenah Singh I'm the same, even now that I'm more confident and assertive, I end up feeling bad about saying no! So what I do instead, is say something like "I don't give my number out to strangers, but you can give me your number and (maybe) I'll get in touch". It's hard for them to refuse this really, and I think many of them even realise that I'll probably never get in touch, but there's nothing they can do about it haha
I really like it. I didn't know it would be ok to how to ask their numbers. Matthew you really helps me to have more self confidence. thank you! I read your articles on Fb also! when ever I'm bored, I watch your videos because of your cute accent, like a fresh breath!
So I did the one Matt suggested, where you tell him something is behind him, he turns around, and you put the napkin with your number in his back pocket.. it was SO awkward!! because he turned the wrong way so that he could still see me and I had to maneuver around him AND he could feel me slip it in!!! Why did he advise us to try that one?!
I love that you give real practical advice that I can put into practice straight away, keep it up! By the way, your hair is looking especially James Dean in this video Matt!
I like the whole if we get on over the phone thing, but it sort of implies talking on a phone call... which I hate doing at first, but it's actually great once I get comfortable.
I really enjoy your videos most of the time and I have learned a few valuable things I think but I always just wish they were snappier. You kind of beat around the bush in getting to the point. It'd be great if you kept it between 5 and 7 minutes.
Theres someone at my work I want to give it to. I was about to today but he left early so couldn't do it. Was gutted, will try again next week. 😂 I don't know much about him but I am intrigued to know more. 😊 Wish me luck.
Did you do it? If so, omg help, there’s this guy at work who always makes it go quick and easy, he was great, but he’s got a few weeks left before he leaves, and I kinda want to talk to him even after he leaves, should I ask him? He’s got a girlfriend and I respect that, I just want to be friends.
@@LavaLampLady heya I ended up asking him and he unfortunately did have a gf but I just said 'I respect that' and took my number back 😂 proud of myself so I am. I'm not sure in regards to your question though as he has a gf. Are you guys already good work friends?😊
i have done the writing on paper to a guy. felt humiliated after that, he felt he was "all that" (although he was the one that was staring at me in the first place), he was a player and broke my heart. some say you should not initiate number exchanging with guys. i also think its not the same for men and women, and no point giving unisex advices ...
What about if I'm dancing with a guy at a club but then later he tells me he has to leave but doesn't ask for my number? Should I suggest we exchange numbers then? This happened to me last week and I froze and did nothing and just let him leave, so now I'm kicking myself because I really liked him and all I have is his first name!! :(
First he asked me if he can drive me home then I said No but I am the one who asked his number hehe. We are very good friends now.... Hi Matthew. Emelyn from Miami I am your biggest fan
What the hell do you do if you’re into a guy at work who you think is into you but you aren’t completely sure. How do you go about asking for their number then?
So there's this super cute waiter at the local coffee shop I go to weekly. I'm shy, and I know he is too. I don't know how to small talk very well and can't seem to get past the formalities. I don't know how to go about this. Do any of you have any tips without me looking pathetic or desperate? Thanks a mil,I'm crazy attracted to him
Jess F Not sure if you still need this suggestion, but you could write a note with a message asking him out for a beverage/dessert casual date, with your phone number for him to text you if he is interested. Give the note to him when you are about to leave so you minimise the timeframe of you feeling awkward. I am a rather shy guy and I understand your situation, but that’s what I plan to do the next time I see the waitress I am attracted to. My message would go something like “Hey I think you are cute but I figured I would be too nervous if I were to ask directly and I didn’t want to put you in a spot while you are working. Would you be interested in a coffee date with me? Drop me a text if you are! -name, phone number” Leaving a note while they are working is a good idea as you won’t throw them off their thought flow during work, as opposed to asking them directly, since they may need the time to consider and make a decision too. It should also prevent you from stumbling on getting your message across, since you are shy! Keep me updated with your story if you do go through with this! If you hesitate in passing the note to him, just take a deep breath and calm your mind! Ask yourself - what’s the worse that could happen?
How about online dating when the guy wants your number right away. shouldn't you exchange a few texts. There are a lot of creepy guys out there in cyberspace.
Hi Mathew most of your videos which i have been following since a long time happen to cater to women who are extrovert and extremely confident thus your tips n tricks become easier for them can you suggest something for someone simple yet introvert (shy)
Those are very helpful methods but what if you’re alone at the mall or a lunch place or grocery store? I’m a single parent close to 40 and I don’t get out much. I still try to look my best and be aware of my surroundings for potential social or romantic opportunities.
I love love loveee sending hand written letters, but I have been pretty busy and been traveling a lot lately. Good thing I came across an app where you send a text and they turn it into a pretty letter…. Let me know if you want to know what app I used :)
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My uncles wife approached him in McDonald’s and said I’m leaving and I got tired of waiting for you to ask for my number. So, here you go.
One question, that work with ugly guys?
She took a note from good will hunting haha
😏👊🏼Love it!
I wouldn’t hit on someone in a McDonalds unless they were Brad Pitt-level hot.
@Perry Rose I do put a lot of value on looks, indeed... No apologies from me.
I am curious why you felt the need to mention gender. It sounds bitter.
there's a really cute Asian guy that works at the bakery shop I think I'll go for it wish me luck
+Delle Emme actually we're just really good friends
lee loo Did it work Lee?
How did it go?
lee loo did you get him?! 😱 I gave my number and it’s a waiting game
...... does have corona virus lol
This is crazy because I just did this tonight. I saw a good looking guy, asked him his name and where he was from. Then I said,"well, I think you're cute soo do you want my number?" And the rest is history. He hasn't texted me yet. Nervous now but at least I had the confidence
+Tolindra Collins Wow, good on you! You're so brave!! I hope everything works out :)
+Tolindra Collins Did he ever text you?
Yes he did contact me. Lol I kept on hanging up on him apparently because I was expecting a text. I don't answer unknown numbers. SMh but yes . he contacted me we are still talking.
That's good to hear, something good came out of you making a move. You've inspired me. :)
+Tolindra Collins how's it going with him! and kudos!
Whenever I look at a hot guy, I keep on wondering he must have a girlfriend and I simply cannot be the reason for their breakup or him cheating on her. This is so embarrassing!
Well there is nothing wrong is approaching him if he has one he will say no and that's it
And I am also a boy.
Why do you assume he would cheat if the occasion arose?
@@caycic1 because she knows that she’s that bitch. She’s confident
I consider myself attractive and I am a woman. I have been single for awhile. Don't assume attractive people are attached.
Who's wishing they were in Miami on that night so that they could use those tips on Matt?
*raises hand*
+elky360 lol
elky360 Omg that would so be me if I lived in Miami
Belinda meeeee
Hell no.
fr i was lowkey mad he looked this good in this video because im actually tryna focus n learn
A guy here and honestly the best lesson I keep hearing underlying the advice he gives is to be a decent woman (or man). It's a beautiful thing to genuinely care about an utter stranger. Very wise perspective and I appreciate the videos!
Matthew is right, there's many guys that WON'T ask for your number cause us guys are getting labeled "players" too much for asking for a girls number the first time we are around her. I'm one of those guys, if you talk to me, I'm NOT going to ask for your number, I have to signs of interest and I figure if you like me enough, you will suggest it, if not I'm walking away politely.
Wow, talk about a misconception on both sides haha. I had a guy flirt with me at a party last night, in this case it was pretty obvious that he was only out for one thing and I'm just not that kind of girl(no shame if you are, you do you!). What really sealed it for me was when he never attempted to ask for my number or my last name. Asking for a number doesn't make you a player in my book, the reason women don't ask for the guy's number is because in my experience that just kills the whole attraction... I know in another video Matthew talked about investment vs attraction and how too much investment can kill the attraction.
Wow!!! Thats enlightening. I almost never get picked up on when I'm out but I find men staring at me a lot. I'm shy and a little old fashioned and have a SUPER hard time chasing men. I'm not sure I will ever get over that. Even with online dating I get likes every day but I feel if they guy really does like me, I'll stand out and he will want to message. Maybe I'm wrong. Women are supposed to be the pursuor now?
Jack Bravo awwwwwwww😊
Stevie C: I think it's more about sending out clear 'Receptive' signals. That said, I find the signals need to be enunciated very well. Perhaps you could practise observing nice things about men and telling them, in your daily life. Start with elderly shopkeepers...
Sofie.... Ha, "only out for one thing"... my gawd, how many things do women want??? The list is endless. The great comic Patric Oneal sums women up with one word. "More" :)
It is so awkward to see someone on the subway who might be interested but with the crowds one can feel too awkward to respond. No idea how to deal with this!
Makes me think of the scene from the movie Shame
*Jameson isn't real*
Curious Lights He is. Inside our hearts.
Yes he is! I seen him.
Try living in Germany where it's like playing the dating game on highest difficulty because we don't usually just start talking to random strangers. Even at a bar it's kinda rare, we usually stay at our tables. Same goes for all other places.
theponsway we Germans a bit of a loner 😂😂
Totally agree ! Even making friends is hard
Pretty much the same in Norway 😠😢
C’mon it‘s not that hard in Germany 😂
ClaraMP // 羊 Subliminals geh doch einfach hin, stell irgendeine Frage also nutz einen Vorwand und versuch ein Gespräch entwickeln zu lassen
Talking to guy in class
Me: yea I've really got to go my friends will be mad if I don't so yeah
Boy: umm ook
Me: walks out of classroom
Teacher: GET BACK IN HERE!
SCHOOL'S NOT OVER!
matthew is so handsooome, can't-concentrate-on-the-video
Oh my goodness. I loved the way you presented each of the 4 ways 💜 They were more entertaining as you went through them hahah. You definitely demonstrated aspects of what seems like a fun, quirky personality you have Matt!
When I'm listening to you everything seems to be sooo simple :P I'm starting to be a little bit addicted to your speeches! Keep going cause you're doing an amazing job! A lot love from Poland 💕
My favorite time is when I asked a guy at Starbucks..." I lost my number can I borrow yours?" 😊
Or was it ..."did you lose your number? Want to borrow mine?" Haha oh well it was fun to say and make it obvious and not give a sipidie do dahh about the outcome.
Lol,that’s funny! 😂😄
Very cute!!
Matt always talk about Jameson which made me so curious to see his face.
I wish to see him at least once.
Jameson is in other vids... you have to almost watch all of them to find him... he's a young, tall blonde bloke ;-)
b dal I watched most of the videos but i didn't notice. looks like ill have to re-watch them. thanks
+Michelle Ross You can find him on Twitter as @jamesonjordan
+Lauren Chafin thank a lot xx
Michelle Ros
Well said Matthew. I always believe women are strong and can be happy in their life. They can be confident and meet other people who they want to introduce themselves to
Oh my gosh this is the coolest funniest guy. His dance moves and facial expressions for the tips are the best!
Matthew, YT fam...do you know what just happened though?! He JUST gave me his number...HAPPILY! And refused to leave without mine! Do you know how long I've been crushing on that delicious smooth-whipped Godiva chocolate and this is all I had to do?!....oooo such eye candy AND I GOT HIS NUMBER! Ladies, y'all better listen to this man!
Do you know what people have corona virus because they fuck animals
Haha. Dating is much harder than it used to be!!
I love the venue exchange one!
Hi Matthew, I just wanted to say thank you so much for all your videos. They have helped me a lot with everything is going on in my life.
Thank you for sharing this dating tip. You always present material and content in an authentic and dynamic way. And I appreciate your candor and perspective. Keep up the great work! Cheers :)
what if Jameson doesn't exist?!
this is so true!I have done that in the past in different ways and met great people. Had great dates I actually though I was doing it wrong because the men supposed to ask for the numbers but did it anyway because I was tired of waiting lol thanks Matt. I would def keep doing it
That venue change number exchange was real cute Matt! :D
Can you do a video on tip on being playful/flirty in a classy way?! I am so afraid of going overboard and scaring guys off-- I go for the conservative Christian kind of guys so they scare off easily. But then I become so reserved it's just not letting guys know I'm into them. TIPS, Matthew?
Suggest ‘going for coffee’ or sessions together? Approach from a ‘friend’ angle first.
Can i get ur instagram id?
@harry callton and what's your suggestion?
All your examples are in the night. I don't find any guys I like in the night. In the day I do though I find a lot of hot guys, how do I approach them and get their number?
kottonkandyx
So trueee
Same, a lot of his videos are geared towards bar scene culture, which is not where I want to meet anybody.
Matt you resemble my bf.. not only your face.. your height and your muscles ... even your body language.. that is why my eyes fill with tears when i watch your videos.. as we are not together any more..
Tip # 5: The one that works for me, it works better if you know him a little first, is that you pretend you lost your phone in that big purse we have. For me, I pretended I lost my phone in my car. I actually did lose it for less than a minute and then thought that this would be a good opportunity for the guy that's dragging his feet to get my number. I said "I lost my phone." He says, "I can call it so you can find it" :D ! He did. I found my phone. That night, he called me. I remember thinking, geez, so he was interested, but he didn't make a single move. If he doesn't call, it might mean that he isn't interested.
dont play damn games - ask number or give yours
Great tips, if you’re out every weekend. Difficult as a single parent though
Being a single parent shouldn't be an issue.
*Hussey's a genius.*
Matthew is very cute wonder if his tips would work on him. hey a girl can dream.
the fact that he's kinda a goofball is refreshing :)
you got a shoutout from Coach Corey Wayne. ima share you to my female friends for sure. they need it.
Something that I like to do when I'm with other people and want someone's details is to stop them and ask if they can take a picture of my friends and I for Snapchat/ Instagram
Then go onto say thank you and ask if they have snapchat/ Instagram. The good thing about this is that it works in clubs or even on the street giving you an excuse to stop someone
If I'm feeling ballsy in a club dancing with a guy I'll make a remark like "I think we look good, let's get a picture" get a picture with him then say "what's your Facebook so that I can send it to you?"
(This also works really well at comic con with cute boys in cosplay)
Several times since I have been out young men have started high fiving me, to hit on me? is this a new thing? i was in a relationship for awhile so I think I forgot how the world works. I miss when men would just come over and talk to you. Some nice conversation. It's either staring at me for ages or high fiving me. I get that it's hard to go up to someone as I struggle to do that. But I'm not scary XD
I was thinking about doing the first idea.
I enjoyed this video. Emily was the one who pointed me to Konevita Jelken’s website, she insists it helped her find get her man and make him her boyfriend. I’m getting texts from a man I like now, so I really have to thank her and this video.
I'm here single, bingewatching his videos hoping to get some intel into this whole relationship thing. And my my my, this is mooore work than I thought. But it also sounds so logical... This stuff is some level of weird.
I did the venue exchange. I did get his number. We were sharing a room in the hostel to be very exact. It's pretty funny because it looks like he has things to say yet kind of shy away from it. Nice guy, just that too bad we are so far away from one another..but good thing about it, I've made another friend. Good tips you've got down there, Matt.
I found your channel yesterday and since then I watched a lot of your videos and I have to say you're amazing! you're so helpful in all these things you say! You opened my eyes and I'm truly grateful for it. Thank you so much :)))
Venue change number exchange !!!! This made my day ... Watched it again n again !!
There is this cute guy at my job I asked him if he wanted to hangout sometime he said yes. My contract at my job end soon I am going to give him my number.
The most effective way I have ever used is, if I'm talking to a guy and we're having good conversation and connecting, I smile and take his phone and put my number in his contacts.
Sounds very charming, thanks for the idea :)
I think these are all doable strategies to create a smooth transition into getting a number
How would you politely refuse a guy if he wants to get your number? Im not the kind of person who can easily say no to someone, Id get so awkward if I do.
+Sareenah Singh That's a good question but we should learn to say 'No' and not feel guilty after all. You've the right and you're free to express yourself and in the end to decline a request.
Some people give an invented number but it's not a good move.
+MW25
I suppose I could do that, but wouldn't it be weird to give an email?
+Sareenah Singh I hope Matt sees this comment! He should do a video on it. I'd love to hear his advice. I always feel bad if I say no to a guy, even though I know I shouldn't.
+Sareenah Singh I'm the same, even now that I'm more confident and assertive, I end up feeling bad about saying no!
So what I do instead, is say something like "I don't give my number out to strangers, but you can give me your number and (maybe) I'll get in touch".
It's hard for them to refuse this really, and I think many of them even realise that I'll probably never get in touch, but there's nothing they can do about it haha
+MW25
Okay, that makes sense. Thank you very much for your input :)
lovely, too bad I hate talking on the phone.
I needed this omg yes I’m going to try this method
I really like it. I didn't know it would be ok to how to ask their numbers. Matthew you really helps me to have more self confidence. thank you! I read your articles on Fb also! when ever I'm bored, I watch your videos because of your cute accent, like a fresh breath!
Spark in your eyes.
So I did the one Matt suggested, where you tell him something is behind him, he turns around, and you put the napkin with your number in his back pocket.. it was SO awkward!! because he turned the wrong way so that he could still see me and I had to maneuver around him AND he could feel me slip it in!!! Why did he advise us to try that one?!
Lol
Haha! 😂
Welcome to Miami!!! I hope you had a great night!!
I love that you give real practical advice that I can put into practice straight away, keep it up! By the way, your hair is looking especially James Dean in this video Matt!
3:40 omg that’s the cutest thing ever😆😆
Someone needs to cast you in a movie already... too fun!
bruh just walk up to the dude, tf he gonna do kill you?!?!?!?! I cant believe this video is a thing lmfaoooo
Hilarious and so informative- love it! Matt you're amazing:)
Heyyy didn’t I see u in that ad?
Hi , yes Miami is very nice but hope you have a little rest since you are looking a little bit knacker out . Take care, you to Jameson
It’s actually funny this popped up-my crush gave me his number with a smooth pick up line~ are u proud Matthew? 😩
Idk how but this stuff is working for me.
Thank god you exist. 😀
I like the whole if we get on over the phone thing, but it sort of implies talking on a phone call... which I hate doing at first, but it's actually great once I get comfortable.
Great video Matthew - and funny too! :)
Cutest thing ever!! “The venue change number exchange!!!”
Jameson and I....noticed that.
Omg!! My birthday was Oct. 10th and I live in Miami!! Would been sso awesome to meet you! Love your videos!!
"These are getting more mental as we go." Hahaha!!! That was too funny.
Jameson is an illusion O.O Like seriously, he doesn't have a reflection in the window. VAMPIRE!
No you are
3:38 - When you watch too much of power rangers
I am really enjoy watching this video and I will take it and use it with my next future man 👍😄
I really enjoy your videos most of the time and I have learned a few valuable things I think but I always just wish they were snappier. You kind of beat around the bush in getting to the point. It'd be great if you kept it between 5 and 7 minutes.
love this video. Definitely using this tips from now on. Thanks!!
Wow Matthew thanks alot of your videos I really learnt alot ....
Theres someone at my work I want to give it to. I was about to today but he left early so couldn't do it. Was gutted, will try again next week. 😂 I don't know much about him but I am intrigued to know more. 😊 Wish me luck.
Did you do it? If so, omg help, there’s this guy at work who always makes it go quick and easy, he was great, but he’s got a few weeks left before he leaves, and I kinda want to talk to him even after he leaves, should I ask him? He’s got a girlfriend and I respect that, I just want to be friends.
@@LavaLampLady heya I ended up asking him and he unfortunately did have a gf but I just said 'I respect that' and took my number back 😂 proud of myself so I am. I'm not sure in regards to your question though as he has a gf. Are you guys already good work friends?😊
That's a funny video apart from helpful. well done Matt!
Where is cj damn he is fine
i have done the writing on paper to a guy. felt humiliated after that, he felt he was "all that" (although he was the one that was staring at me in the first place), he was a player and broke my heart. some say you should not initiate number exchanging with guys. i also think its not the same for men and women, and no point giving unisex advices ...
I love your videos matt
tried doing this over online dating and he was basically like, peace out.
Matthew is so gorgeous
seriously mat, you must come to italy!!!!
What about if I'm dancing with a guy at a club but then later he tells me he has to leave but doesn't ask for my number? Should I suggest we exchange numbers then?
This happened to me last week and I froze and did nothing and just let him leave, so now I'm kicking myself because I really liked him and all I have is his first name!! :(
Same, but I was the one who was leaving and he didn't ask for my number, and I found him on Facebook. What did you do?
First he asked me if he can drive me home then I said No but I am the one who asked his number hehe. We are very good friends now.... Hi Matthew. Emelyn from Miami
I am your biggest fan
Oooh, this is the video they've all been watching!! :D
My life, you were in Miami and i missed you.
I had to handle things over here so now I can travel
What the hell do you do if you’re into a guy at work who you think is into you but you aren’t completely sure. How do you go about asking for their number then?
Matthew you are so awesome
Wow, Im early! lol Hey, Matt, is there any way you're going to do live somewhere in Asia? Philippines, maybe? ;)
So there's this super cute waiter at the local coffee shop I go to weekly. I'm shy, and I know he is too. I don't know how to small talk very well and can't seem to get past the formalities. I don't know how to go about this. Do any of you have any tips without me looking pathetic or desperate? Thanks a mil,I'm crazy attracted to him
Jess F Not sure if you still need this suggestion, but you could write a note with a message asking him out for a beverage/dessert casual date, with your phone number for him to text you if he is interested. Give the note to him when you are about to leave so you minimise the timeframe of you feeling awkward.
I am a rather shy guy and I understand your situation, but that’s what I plan to do the next time I see the waitress I am attracted to.
My message would go something like “Hey I think you are cute but I figured I would be too nervous if I were to ask directly and I didn’t want to put you in a spot while you are working. Would you be interested in a coffee date with me? Drop me a text if you are! -name, phone number”
Leaving a note while they are working is a good idea as you won’t throw them off their thought flow during work, as opposed to asking them directly, since they may need the time to consider and make a decision too. It should also prevent you from stumbling on getting your message across, since you are shy!
Keep me updated with your story if you do go through with this! If you hesitate in passing the note to him, just take a deep breath and calm your mind!
Ask yourself - what’s the worse that could happen?
You have very bold, defined eyebrows 👍🏽
How about online dating when the guy wants your number right away. shouldn't you exchange a few texts. There are a lot of creepy guys out there in cyberspace.
how do I deal with the fact I'm not good looking and that is why men don't approach me
Great and solid advice to get out there. We are all cool lol :)
i love your accent
Okay, I had to replay Matt saying, "VENUE CHANGE! NUMBER EXCHANGE!" A couple of times. He's just too funny! 😏
Hi Mathew most of your videos which i have been following since a long time happen to cater to women who are extrovert and extremely confident thus your tips n tricks become easier for them can you suggest something for someone simple yet introvert (shy)
Those are very helpful methods but what if you’re alone at the mall or a lunch place or grocery store? I’m a single parent close to 40 and I don’t get out much. I still try to look my best and be aware of my surroundings for potential social or romantic opportunities.
single moms are no go for guys who dont have own children
Hmmm... but what if the man is not single and he's just out with friends at that time...? How do you save face if that should be the case lol 😯
When you realize she is terrorizing my life
I love love loveee sending hand written letters, but I have been pretty busy and been traveling a lot lately. Good thing I came across an app where you send a text and they turn it into a pretty letter…. Let me know if you want to know what app I used :)
so where r u going afterwards?
im going to a friends house
oh me and my friend wanted to there too. You should tell me how it was