I was sexually abused most of my childhood By my father, and I’ve done a ton of emdr and also IFS which is internal family systems, parts work has helped me a lot! I also was adopted. My adopted dad sexually abused me from 2-15. I couldn’t remember my memories till 28. I felt like I had two different people abuse me but it was the day dad and the night dad. I had to separate them in my head to keep myself safe. I also was filmed as well… My mom Also was very passive and didn’t help and still to this day denies what happened to me. thank you for sharing your story. You give me hope and strength and just wanna send you so much love and healing! ❤❤
I am proud of you gor speaking about this. You are so brave❤you are my daughter's age and i cant imagine ever doing anything to jeopardize my relationship with her, she is my life. You deserved so much better and the mom in me is giving you a hug😢im so sorry.
I am sorry that so many people failed you growing up. Your grandma should be your everything and make you feel loved and safe. She put herself and her problems above yours. She is a shit show. Your grandma may have started your dad issues and intern yours but your dad is 100% at fault for his own actions. I can hear in your voice that regardless of what he has done you are still defending him in part and putting that on grandma. Why didn't anyone step in until you said something? Didn’t people see what you were growing up around. It’s very sad.
I married a woman who had been assaulted by her stepdad from 12 to 17. I was 20 and she was 31 when we married. We have two adult children both were completely protected and made it to adulthood without being raped. Some people think SA victims can't enjoy sex. It's not true. My wife jumped on me often so it's possible to beat your abuser and give them the middle finger by enjoying your spouse like crazy lol. All the healthy sex will begin to replace the bad memories is what happens.
Your comment is so beautiful. Glad she found such an amazing man in you!! It’s so healing to have a corrective sexual experience, also just romantic/emotional/mental In general and to feel safe with a man and be loved and protected!
@@Deegirlnthestars What amazing terminology "corrective sexual experiences". You have to imagine what an abused woman endured and do not act like a creep to her. Just be really romantic, loving, tell her how beautiful she is, enjoy her entire body. Yes that means get down on the kitty boys and make your lady go crazy. There are youtube video teaching how to do it propperly
How can a man hurt a child EVER? Let alone their own child? And how in the h"" can a mom know and not do anything?? They are all monsters. Anyone who ignores it is part of it in my eyes period. Just so everyone knows if I ever even suspect someone is hurting a child AT ALL I won't stay silent. I know so many people who went through this. Sadly one didn't even remember when they grew up until little pieces come back a little at a time and to this day still don't remember how far things went even though we know. I don't know how normal that is but it is so sad.
Im glad that you were able to move on with your life and turn something terrible into something positive by advocating for other victims. It's so easy to sink into depression and Im happy for you that you seem to be doing very well. Sometimes people in your life are toxic and not capable of doing anything but disappointing you, it's hard but sometimes it's best to cut them out. Although it still hurts and I'm sorry that happened to you. About the main issue its hard to hear but I believe by looking away and pretending it's not happening you become an accomplice. I think that it's so important to educate yourself about abuse, and what the signs and systems are especially when you have little girls. We have to be willing to put the men in our lives under a microscope and not just trust blindly. Even biological parents. You just never know. When my mother was a girl her moms boyfriend abused her and when she went to her mom to tell her she accused my mother of trying to steal her boyfriend. She was a drunk and an addict. But as a result, my mom was hyper-vigilant about me, and thanks to her stories I was the same way with my daughter. Best wishes thanks for sharing.
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It is amazing that despite being raised by these monsters, you have grown into the intelligent, beautiful, compassionate person that you are.
I was sexually abused most of my childhood
By my father, and I’ve done a ton of emdr and also IFS which is internal family systems, parts work has helped me a lot! I also was adopted. My adopted dad sexually abused me from 2-15. I couldn’t remember my memories till 28. I felt like I had two different people abuse me but it was the day dad and the night dad. I had to separate them in my head to keep myself safe. I also was filmed as well… My mom
Also was very passive and didn’t help and still to this day denies what happened to me. thank you for sharing your story. You give me hope and strength and just wanna send you so much love and healing! ❤❤
How do you have your head screwed on so straight? You sound so enlightened. Youre inspirational.
I am proud of you gor speaking about this. You are so brave❤you are my daughter's age and i cant imagine ever doing anything to jeopardize my relationship with her, she is my life. You deserved so much better and the mom in me is giving you a hug😢im so sorry.
I am sorry that so many people failed you growing up. Your grandma should be your everything and make you feel loved and safe. She put herself and her problems above yours. She is a shit show.
Your grandma may have started your dad issues and intern yours but your dad is 100% at fault for his own actions. I can hear in your voice that regardless of what he has done you are still defending him in part and putting that on grandma.
Why didn't anyone step in until you said something? Didn’t people see what you were growing up around. It’s very sad.
You’re right I still 100% am ty❤
Sounds like a trauma bond. They are a mind trip.
I married a woman who had been assaulted by her stepdad from 12 to 17. I was 20 and she was 31 when we married. We have two adult children both were completely protected and made it to adulthood without being raped.
Some people think SA victims can't enjoy sex. It's not true. My wife jumped on me often so it's possible to beat your abuser and give them the middle finger by enjoying your spouse like crazy lol. All the healthy sex will begin to replace the bad memories is what happens.
Your comment is so beautiful. Glad she found such an amazing man in you!! It’s so healing to have a corrective sexual experience, also just romantic/emotional/mental
In general and to feel safe with a man and be loved and protected!
@@Deegirlnthestars What amazing terminology "corrective sexual experiences". You have to imagine what an abused woman endured and do not act like a creep to her. Just be really romantic, loving, tell her how beautiful she is, enjoy her entire body. Yes that means get down on the kitty boys and make your lady go crazy. There are youtube video teaching how to do it propperly
@@elypowell6797 so glad you liked the terminology! And you are so right on all accounts!! :)
Depends on the person, and if they feel safe to be that vulnerable and transparent
@@kaleahcollins4567 totally!
This is such a 🤯 wtf moment. IM SO SORRY. So fucking dystopian
Thank you for telling your story. I can really relate to what you have been through. You are so strong.
How can a man hurt a child EVER? Let alone their own child? And how in the h"" can a mom know and not do anything?? They are all monsters. Anyone who ignores it is part of it in my eyes period. Just so everyone knows if I ever even suspect someone is hurting a child AT ALL I won't stay silent. I know so many people who went through this. Sadly one didn't even remember when they grew up until little pieces come back a little at a time and to this day still don't remember how far things went even though we know. I don't know how normal that is but it is so sad.
Im glad that you were able to move on with your life and turn something terrible into something positive by advocating for other victims. It's so easy to sink into depression and Im happy for you that you seem to be doing very well. Sometimes people in your life are toxic and not capable of doing anything but disappointing you, it's hard but sometimes it's best to cut them out. Although it still hurts and I'm sorry that happened to you. About the main issue its hard to hear but I believe by looking away and pretending it's not happening you become an accomplice. I think that it's so important to educate yourself about abuse, and what the signs and systems are especially when you have little girls. We have to be willing to put the men in our lives under a microscope and not just trust blindly. Even biological parents. You just never know. When my mother was a girl her moms boyfriend abused her and when she went to her mom to tell her she accused my mother of trying to steal her boyfriend. She was a drunk and an addict. But as a result, my mom was hyper-vigilant about me, and thanks to her stories I was the same way with my daughter. Best wishes thanks for sharing.
I believe you. Take care and God bless you.
Wtf your bio dad has TikTok 😂😂😂