Me Too | RAPE (My Story)
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- Hey everyone! Thank you so much for listening to my story! The reason I wanted to finally come out and share my story, is if it helps just one woman then it will be well worth it. This is the first time I've told my story, since I had to sit in front of Children's Division and tell my story through a video for court. I feel relieved to finally tell it all. If you or anyone you know is being abused or has been abused please contact the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-4673. You are not alone!
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I am a 58 year old father of 3 girls who are now 33, twins almost 30 and i am so sorry that you had to go thru what you went thru!!! You are a brave young lady and i look forward to that next video!!! Life is just to short so whatever time you need to move on and live just take!!!! God will watch over you. Thanks Dave
Thank you, David! I will definitely have another video soon. Thank you so much. I truly appreciate the support!
Hugs❤
This "God" didn't watch over her last time... Don't hold your breath
Thanks honey 😘 for 😢 telling me the hell you went through stay strong baby
You are a VERY brave young woman. People like this creep should be exposed in public.
Just. Wow.. i am so sorry this happened to you and i have so much admiration for your bravery to be so vulnerable. Sending you love from the Netherlands
Omg! I never thought my video would ever make it to anyone out of my state. I'm so thankful that it's reached you in the Netherlands! Thank you so much! I truly appreciate it. 🙏🏽
As a Papa… this hurts my soul to hear… i thank God for your brave survival story🙏🏽… I pray for you and your family as well as my family
When the people that are suppose to keep you safe and protect you hurt you deeply , it affects your entire foundation. As a young boy, I was not strong enough to protect my family or myself. You’ve done an admirable job keeping it together and maintaining a good heart. Thank you for sharing a relatable experience.
I get a feeling that everyone noticed something wrong!
But fear of him kept the denial going.
It’s takes me back to when I noticed something wasn’t right between 2 relatives.
I pulled the girls mother aside immediately and expressed firmly my concern.
I felt like she thought I was just causing problems in the family and being ridiculous.
About 6 mos later the 15 girl involved spoke up to her mother.
The mother insinuated that the girl had problems separating dreams from reality and of course the pig involved took that alibi.
As the Uncle, it destroyed our entire family!
I can never forgive!
You’re in a lot of good company and certainly not alone!
My situation was about 30 years ago,
I abandoned everyone that that took his back!
Essentially, my entire family.
I’m truly sorry for what happened to you!
Keep your Faith
You did the right thing! It's extremely pitiful how people will take the abusers side. You stuck up for that girl and I'm sure she thanks you for that. 🤍 The world needs more people like you. Never change for anyone.
What a strong lady, thank you for sharing. This is all her mom's fault, she was a hood rat that never put her kids first. I hope this dysfunctional cycle doesn't continue, the role of a good parent is to provide, protect & mentor.
Yes, this has taught me to be the best woman and mother I can be! 🤍 Your welcome, thank you for listening!
Truly a heart wrenching story that should never happen to any child. I am a father of two daughters. 23 and 25. If someone ever did that to one of my girls they would never make it to court. I can promise you that. And some people just shouldn't be parents.
This is exactly what I used to try telling my ex gf who had been raped a couple different times in the past once was actually a family friend and her father n mother did F all about it barely cared and yet she still loved her family 🙄 she was an idiot
You have to be kind and forgiving towards your ex gf. No need to to refer to her as an idiot.@@b4dt3mp3r4
@@b4dt3mp3r4a lot still love their families and stuff I never understood
I am so sorry for what you went through, this video should have so many more likes. Thank you for being so honest and open. Sending hugs or whatever is appropriate x
Thank you! I really appreciate it. Just trying to share my experience to let others know they are not alone. 🤍
If you got raped I'm sorry this happento you
I’m so so so sorry you had to go through that violence!!! It’s amazing nobody stopped him!!!! Why would people around you accept this horrible behavior!? I’m so sorry!!!! Your strength and amazing spirit and soul can never be taken away!!! Sending 100,000 angels to surround you and protect you always
I'm sorry that everyone failed you, It makes me very angry to hear how a grown man could do this to anyone but a young girl, truly evil. You are very strong, and thank you for sharing your story. I'm glad your sister finally helped, and the family took it seriously. Much love and respect for your continued healing, and for helping others who may be experiencing this too.
Please take care of yourself, I am so sorry this happened to you!
My wife went through the same thing and she was 12 when it started, it was her best friend’s older brother.
I was with my wife for 20 years, married for 7 of those before she told me about it.
I was the first to know!
We are still together, 50 years now but it’s crazy just how much she was and still is messed up by this.
Rightfully so!
I wish she would have sought help year’s sooner.
God bless you for telling your story!
Powerful moving story, thank you. Your anger is not misplaced, a parent''s self centered attitude is toxic to any family. On our journeys to peace and wellness we cast off or censor people who never really mattered.
I really think she's so strong for sharing her story and that stepfather was a real sicko😮 you are strong girl and you keep fighting if telling a story helps other victims then I applaud 👏👏you so much for helping others who don't have the courage to talk❤❤
words can never DO nothing what you went through. take it one day at a time. you are so beyond strong and you seem to have an amazing heart. i hope you are surrounded with people who love and care for you.
I am so sorry for your pain and loss. I certainly hope that you will victorious in your life and a great recovery and future.
Thank you for sharing your story. All mothers need to hear this. Heart breaking.
Thank you for telling your story. Made me more vigilant and aware of this terrible stuff that happens to so so many young girls. Sorry. My apologies for the sorry guys around. Makes me wanna redouble my efforts to stop this horror.
This is just astounding that this happened and went on for three years. You are a very strong woman, and I wish for you a time when you can let go and let God heal your soul. You are beautiful inside and out!!! Plz allow yourself to breathe and don’t let this overwhelm the many good people that are out here for you!
Home should be a safe haven. It should be the place were you learn to trust. Very sorry it wasn't for you.
Thank you! After my experience, I'm determined to give my kids a safe haven. Our home will be full of love & comfort. A safe place! 🤍🙏🏽
You say the guy would ground you? What’s that? By the way, I hope this hasn’t screwed up your sex life?!❤❤❤
So sorry for what happened to you. Pray for your healing. Your mom has some blame but maybe she was afraid of him . Forgiving your mom is part of your healing
Hey I'm Rayann I just thought I'd say sorry to hear that what you experienced and been through .. just keep your head high and never give up 💯 you got this girl! Your also very beautiful too 🥰☺️ we can be best friends if you're interested.
Thank you so much for the kind words! I truly appreciate it. Yes, of course add me on Instagram! @destinyculton
You are loved, and you are valued, and I hear you. I'm sorry no one around you advocated for you or could see any of the glaring red flags all around you! I can't believe your mom didn't know something. I'm a mom of now an adult son, but when he was young, I could sense if he had a stomachache at school for crying out loud! Again, you did not deserve what you received. I'm glad and proud of the courage you have of telling your truth. I know you are helping others out there! Thank you! Prayers and blessings to you! :)
You are so brave to do this. I hope you continue to heal.
I’m so sorry this happened to you, stay strong and keep fighting!
Thank you for your courage. Your survival is a testament to the power of the human spirit. Keep healing; keep living.
I am truly sorry that you had to go through this. I want you to know that you are truly a blessing from Gods. That you are a lovely, brave, and caring young lady. May you continue to heal and have peace in your life. As a cop I have dedicated my life to protecting people, such as yourself and get devils like this off of the street. I promise you and everyone else that I will be an angel of peace. I will do my best so this does not ever happen to anyone else. Thank you for telling all of us your story
God bless now and forever,
Antoine
My heart goes out to you, no one should ever have to go through what you and others who are raped !! Keep GOD in your heart, he will never leave you. That man should have gotten LIFE, anyone who rapes someone should get LIFE no matter the age of the person being raped !!!
Agree 100%. Thank you for your comment. I truly appreciate it. 🤍
As a father I tried real hard to hold back tears. I pray for strength and healing my sister.
You are so brave! You are helping other girls telling your story. You didn't deserve this. Your mom failed you....moving in a total stranger. Can't believe she never noticed him leaving Ed and never checked to see where he was. You are beautiful inside and out.
I’m sorry this happened to you! It’s very sad that he took your childhood away and stained you mentally! God Bless you young lady!
I’m lost for words..I’m sorry. This story reminded me of my encounters as a child but I can’t even imagine going through this. I hope you heal and continue..I’m truly lost for words I’m sorry
I admire you being able to tell your full story, that takes so much courage. You are so strong, and so are so many other survivors. I've never been able to tell my full story to anyone except the police, but here's what most of the people in my life know. I'm a man that was assigned female at birth. I was sexually abused almost five years ago. It was right after I told people that I'm trans. One of the phrases that my abuser loved to say was "if you think you're not a girl, I'm going to show you how much of a girl you actually are." I grew up with my abuser, they're less than a year older than me, and they were my 'best friend' throughout my childhood. Countless men and women have been through these experiences, and we need to band together and fight to get all of the bad seeds plucked.
I went through sexual abuse, sexual assault, sexual harassment. I feel your pain and you're very brave for telling your story.
Thank you so much. We are survivors girl! I'll keep you in my prayers! 🙏🏽
Stay strong young lady. I think that you will overcome this in the most valuable way one day. You are a very intelligent young lady and I know that the dysfunction of your mother will not be carried on by you. You will make sure of that as you are so aware of it. Good luck and I hope you can have a happy life and use this as a tool I’m your life don’t let it use you. Xxx
I know a woman now who went through this with her step father and she wont tell anyone, the only reason I know is because I caught her in a vulnerable place and she trust me enough to tell me the truth. This made it so she will never have a good relationship with any man and now has a son. The boy will be going through a very bad time with his mother and no one is there to stop this cycle... smh!
im sorry that this had to happen to u god bless u for telling ur story hope u can heal from this tragedy
Thank you, I appreciate it! 🤍
I'm so very sorry this happened to you.
When your mom asked you if he did anything to you, did she ask any of your other siblings as well or just you?
If she asked just you then it is obvious that she figured it out ar at least suspected but eventually did nothing and turned a blind eye. She might have done it out of fear as well because the guy was a felon with guns in the house. Still that was horrible of her.
I wish you all the best and hope that you can heal and recover from this and live a great life.
I will never understand why a mother can't just have a man away from home. I have dedicated myself to not make the same mistake as my mother I will never bring a man into my home. I don't trust them. I went through almost the same thing, and she never noticed and even after I told her he was sexually harassing me...she still married him. It's like I didn't matter and as an old ass woman I can't let that go and I don't know how to let it go.
So you were a single mom n your kids got hurt so u couldn't trust them again after that?
This happened to me but I never ever told anyone because he told me he was going to kill my sister (his girlfriend) so I didn’t know what to do and to this day I haven’t told anyone . I’m sorry this happened to you
It's not too late to tell someone
You did nothing wrong. You had normal reactions to abnormal events. Always take care of yourself
Thank you! 🙏🏽
You are a beautiful angel who lived with demons ,may God bless you all your life
Mannnn destiny this just broke my whole heart you are very very brave to talk about this and i understand the point but oh my goodness 💔💔💔💔I am so sorry
Yes, it’s something I’ve ran from my whole life. I’ve faced it and done the work. I won’t let it control me any longer. Thank you for listening! 🤍
Your welcome I’m bout to talk to my girls now after hearing this just to tell them they can trust me with anything and just make sure they are aware
I'm very sorry 😢 about what happened to you sweetie you're one brave young woman
I am totally understand your story.. because same happened to my family 🥺👍
We are a tribe and must stick together! 🤍 I'm here for you.
That is so sad I pray she can get good help so she can lead a normal life, and have normal relationships.May God be with you ❤
I'm a75 year male, I love young people, men that do that crime to daughter, step daughters, or any female should be castrated. I'm so sorry as a father that you had to go through this, I'm so very sorry you had to go through this, stay strong Beautiful and God Bless You and the rest of your family.
you jusdt want a piece of the pie you old perv lol
You are a strong woman and I hope you already find a man who can protect you and take care of you ! ❤you deserve way better ! ❤poor little girl- you !
I'm so sorry that you went through all that! Jesus loves you! I thank God that he delivered you out of that situation.
Thank you. I also thank him as well. He’s been great to me and although the devil tried to ruin me. My God is greater. 🤍
Wow, its hard to express how bad I feel for this girl. I hope the rest of her life can somehow be great.
I agree with you that it should never happen. 😢 and it's not your fault that someone else had a sick mind.
..Horrific. Thank you for sharing, what a nightmare. Thank God he went to jail. I don’t know why God allows these things, but Jesus and God the father is our only hope for Heaven. Thank you for being brave. May God Bless you through the Lord Jesus Christ. Many Blessings to you. You are so beautiful inside and out trying to protect your sister and all.
Sorry you went through such a horrendous experience. Maybe your mum moved this sick monster in so quickly because he manipulated the situation. These sick monster's are master manipulators, they say and do anything to a child to get what they want. I can relate to your story, I was 9 years old. Your going to believe what those sick monster's say to you as a child. I don't understand how you ended up in the same bed, but in those days, it seems the norm. I can relate to pleading with your eyes, for someone to notice! Please get counselling if you have not had any, it does help. In those days people didn't want to see or chose to ignore it! my mum and dad knew and apart from throwing my half sibling out, 1 night, that was it. I needed to hear you say you refuse to let him affect your life anymore. That has helped me. Thank you for sharing such a difficult story. Your a beautiful lady and I wish you continued healing❤🙏🏾
Im a dad of 3 girls 16 13 and 11 you deserved a lot better and that sucks that you whent through that make sure your careful who comes around your kids .
I loved the video and its so inspiring it was shot almost a year ago but to hear your story was truely inspiring and the events that occured were mind boggling at the same time lots of love Destiny From INDIA❤❤
I completely agree with you. This is not your fault. It’s your mother’s. I truly believe your mother knew. She would have never asked you any questions if she didn’t. It’s probably better for you not to have any relationship with your mother. Save yourself, sometimes it not good to have relationships with your mother. Good luck with your life and try to find happiness.
Hello I know what you want to because my wife also went through very similar thing the least she was able to put her life back together properly I did lose her February 16th of this year but you on girl we all do just remember be strong
That predator picked the perfect victim if not for your sister he would still abuse you to this day you never would have spoke up…unfortunately this has happened to many times and most didn’t have a sister to save them.
Your mom is at fault 100% and I understand your fear as a child.
Hope your healing daily
I have 2 daughters! Smh! This heartbreaking to me! I protect my daughters by always asking them questions. They are teenagers. I often take them to the doctor to see if they are still Virgins. My oldest is 15! Her sister is 13! I talk to them about what someone shouldn’t do or touch their body. I can’t imagine how any person can have this kind of evil in them. This happen to one of my friend’s daughters. His girlfriend always isolated his daughter from him while she was with any and every man. Once he asked his daughter what was wrong she couldn’t explain it . He seen her energy changed any something was wrong. After I looked at her I immediately said. Let’s go find the dude she with. Soon as we pulled up at her house the guy had fear on his face. If he wasn’t guilty of anything that energy wouldn’t have shown itself. Let’s just say . He won’t be doing anything else to anyone else kid.. I have a deep hatred for this type of Evil. After that I really surrounded my girls. I will protect any kid I see.
Your such a beautiful woman. You are strong ! Watching this video and hearing you are hurt brings the wrath of out me to protect you. As a father of girls. I hope you are healing and finding a way to see the beauty that was taken away from you!
May God protect you the rest of your days ! ❤️❤️❤️
i am so sorry.
Hello Destiny, I am so happy you told your story. Im sorry that happened to you. But it opened my eyes of my 1stGirlfriends and later my wifes feelings and how we went through this together. Because I walked in on her and her Dad, and I was threatened and eventually was made to participate and later it was a daily thing that was becoming as normal thing. I even felt sometimes that my girlfriend began to be more flirty. And noticed that the father would like to do stuff in front of me. And my GF would be naughty in front of my Mom and Dad. And I was worried to say something cuz I didnt want to hurt her, but I started noticing that she was starting to enjoy it. And would tell me do you like watching me. And I felt so bad that yes I started to enjoy watching her. Our sexlife was very good and she would talk about the rape like it turned her on talking about it. And sometimes I would get jealous. Then I would feel bad for feeling that way. There are alot of things I cant say cuz im too embarrassed and the privacy of my family. The threat was real her Dad and my Dad were Mafia members and I'll continue another time. But thanks for being brave, and with all the respect in the world your beautiful and very sexy and like my GF a early developer and it worked against you both. Im here if you need anything I feel like your my family Lol.❤❤❤ God bless
Take away here is to not have broken families and to speak up, dont stay quiet. People need to talk about this out loud and not have this be a big secret. There are truly sick people among us and the victims need to know that we will not be quiet
It is heartbreaking!
Sad 😢 I’m sorry you went through that
It must've been terrifying being in that situation! I feel your step-father would've probably killed your family based on his history if you reported him. How did you feel when he was imprisoned?
Im 48 years old and i cant ever look at my mom the same. My story is on my channel
DDDAAMMNN , JUST ACKNOWLEDGING THIS PISSES 😡💢 ME 📴 DAT A GROWN MAN THAT IS NOT 🚫 THE FATHER TO HIS GIRLFRIEND'S KID'S AND DISRESPECTING THEM #NOTCOOL TO BE HONEST THE MOTHER HAS ALOT FAULT IN THIS BY HER JUDGEMENT IN CHOOSING TO BE IN RELATIONSHIPS WITH NUMEROUS MEN SMH 🤦🏻♂️ SO SORRY THAT THIS HAPPENED TO YOU DESTINY YOUR A STRONG FEMALE FOR OVER COMING THIS TRAGEDY GOD BLESS YOU I KNOW ITS NOT EASY MENTALLY BUT IN DUE TIME LIFE'LL GET BETTER FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IF THIS HAPPENED HERE IN LOS ANGELES TRUST ME HE WOULD OF POKED IN COUNTY JAIL AND GOT IT ALOT WORSE SH?T IN PRISON EVEN IF HE CHECKED IN TO PROTECTIVE CUSTODY BECAUSE THIS IS KILLA CALI IF YOU DON'T MIND ME ASKING WHAT RACE IS HE?
Thank you! Yes it has definitely made me a stronger woman. To answer your question he was a white man. He will surely get his punishment when judgment day comes. 🤍
sometimes its the closest one's who would harm you the most without your knowledge, its creepy how men take advantage of small children and teens. No offense, but your mom is the worst I have ever heard, she didnt care about the danger of bringing in an unknown stranger just because he was her BF? Thank you for sharing your story, All parents need to watch this and learn a lesson
Iam so sorry 😢thank you ❤
Thanks for your bravery!
I'm really sorry that happened to you. I have daughters that are 30 years old and younger. I guarantee if I knew about this with them, the man would be dead.
I think the parent or guardian is to blame in these scenarios. If there's an abusive family member or member in the household, then its the responsibility of the parent or guardian to remove them from those living quarters before they ruin the lives of everyone else. In this case the mother should have called the police and kicked him out of the house. The mother knew what was happening for sure.
Just 😢 and sorry this whole society allows this to happen to kids in a nation that is pretending to export freedom and democracy overseas… you are strong we all can see it but it is ok to cry sometimes ❤
Yes! This society is very sad. I just pray my kids never have to go through what I do.
Amen to that
Your mother is a terrible parent for not protecting you. Im so sorry for you
I got raped before too when I was 16. Still haven't gotten over it even though I thought I had.
My sisters used to share a room and together pushed there wardrobe against the bedroom door ,to stop stepdad sleepwalking?
Omg. Why move in anyone after 1 week? My mom did this too. After 1 month
I listen to what happened to you I'm so sorry about what your mother allowed to go on in your life for three years and not notice what's happening to you I'm so sorry about that just like you said no mother in the world should not allow any man to come around their daughter's not knowing who they are and then these girls get hurt nobody know nothing going on with these girls and they begin to threaten the daughters of someone else's kids threaten to kill their family because he want his way well I'm glad he's locked up and it should be more than twelve years locked up for what he did to you I am so sorry this happened to you within three years of your life and have robbed you of your teenager years you have permanently scarred you for life and now you in relationships did you cannot even trust because of what happened to you it's going to take time to heal of the situation and one of these days you'll meet somebody that will understand your situation and it will help you to have a better relationship with the next person you get involved with
It’s taken awhile but I’m finally got the grasp of things. I’m learning my negative behaviors from positive and growing every day from it. I will no longer allow what happened to me to affect me. 🤍
I am so sorry , I hope that one day you can delete that part of your life, stay strong and positive!
Your perfect opportunity was with the five people there. Because, if you would have SCREAMED out loud? EVERYONE would have woke up, lights would have been flipped on, your mom would have ran in, and he would have been caught red handed (and with his pants down) in front of everyone. Cops would have been called, there's no way he could have talked his way out of that situation. I understand fully the fear factor involved. But that would have been the best time to call his bluff?
I feel for you young lady. 😔
Well done for being brave
I feel for u i wish i was there to prove u
Girls shouldn't take this type of things lightly. They should report directly to the police or social welfare. They should seek protection on social welfare or protection services..
Rather than entertaining this type of things. At the age of 12 girls should have the courage and confidence to report to right authorities..
Brave woman !
Can I please ask a long stupid question? It is extremely taxing but I'm a guy who's curious about something...
This story makes me so mad words do not capture it. My only thought for the man that did this to you is what a fictional character called the Punisher would do to this guy. Let's just say the guy would whis he had not been born.
Now I will watch the rest of your story.
He will rot in hell where he belongs. 👏🏽
What a brave woman you are. My best wishes to you and I hope this bad part of your life can be put behind
12 years?, it should be death penalty.
It doesn't sound like you and your mom have tried family therapy. I think it'll help you. Good luck.
I'm like I am here because of a broken home life
Should’ve gone to the police at the very beginning and put a stop to it
33:24 what do you mean someone found out if you never told or gave them any hints? I miss the part how “someone” found out?
Well maybe rewatch and actually listen to my story instead of trying to analyze it. Have a nice day.
@@thehennesseyfamily583 okay sweetheart
I love you with my soul and heart ❤️ 💙 I will pray for you today
Thank you so much! It means a lot!
@@thehennesseyfamily583 your welcome mam
I went through that my ex sexually assaulted me
Awe man, she wanted him gone so then she finally said her boyfriend was SA her daughter.
Baby Girl, Peace and Light to you 😂
Interesting part starts at about 11.00
I'm trying to understand your logic - you didn't want to tell on him, because he threatend your family... but you were hoping someone would find out on their own... but then you were scared of the same thing... sometimes you tried to scream for help even though he could do sometning to your family... so you didn't tell on him when you had the chance and yet you felt sad that nobody noticed anything... but you were protecting him when someone noticed something and was asking about it...
Well it is wrong and how done this to you is going to get what is coming to him. He is a very sick man for doing that to you!!
My heart is broken for you. I just can't imagine what you have gone through. Only Jesus can heal your broken heart and life. I am so so sorry.