You should be talking to and getting to know multiple people. I see this as a healthy approach to managing your dating life, as long as you’re not being intimate with any of them. You’re entitled to have a full, vibrant dating life. Don’t feel pressured to be intimate just because you’re talking to someone. Keep things platonic until you find the best match.
Privacy etiquette is key ladies and some things are just meant between you and God. This also applies to business and not just relationship. I have an Attorney who I believe has some type of crush on me and I had to notify him during my case that I was unsafe and I had to go to a safe house. I will never understand how or why but I believe he is jealous of my ex even though the relationship that we have is professional and will not be crossing the lines unfortunately, I can’t even replace him because no other attorneys will take on the case because he has been working on this case for so long, if another attorney was to take this case, he could take a great portion of how much of my case which is worth. I do feel like he is somebody from my past life I know this sounds weird maybe he remembers lol but it’s very odd. Anyway I just know that this is absolute true information ladies once you tell a man about any type of unsafe activity that happened in your life, just be aware that the moment that he’s upset, he will use it or he will poke the bear. Tell God, your journal, and therapist.
Am sticking to this channel for life.... Pls ma always know that you are transforming lives and building people through your teachings.... Thank you so much
I appreciate the organization of the advice, which progresses from general to specific, aimed at protecting one's heart and body, and can be used as a progressive checklist, meaning you cannot move on to the next step until the current one is completed.
Watching this video for the very third time. I am 22yrs old and have ever been intentional about my -ships, as in relationship,friendship, Colleague-ship 😅 So I would be applying these tips on all my ships, thank you ❤❤
Well !mine it relieved me so so much could you believe that am emotionally obsessed with someone but after this video,i told ny self he doesn't worth my time
Thank you for sharing! I wish I would have known about most of these tips when I was a young girl entering the dating scene. I would have saved myself much heartache and loss, but I am grateful for the lessons learned through the years
This just made me feel SO much better about myself. These are things that I already implement into my life and it definitely has yielded lots of pushback from men but its separated the wheat from the tare and serious men from the men who just want to have sex. Thank you for teaching this!
My darling, keep keeping your standards high, take yourself out on dates and also organize girlfriend dates… so that if he doesn’t do it, it won’t feel like you’re missing out on anything spectacular. Believe me, the right person will enjoy taking you out on dates… 🤍
@@ayanime_edem Thank you, Ayanime! Struggling right now to have a quality circle of friends. I don't even know where to start, being an extreme introvert.
Where were you all my life!!! I just ended a 6month relationship and I was kinda having an ‘audit’ of what I did right or wrong and I came across this video, now, I’m convinced I did the right thing!!!
That access to family is so key. He doesn't have to meet any of my family till he is committed. Introducing a man early and they end up messing up is so disappointing
Great content ma'am Most of the aforementioned tips requires women to be observant and learn to take their time before building a relationship.No pressure!!!
Thanks so much for the teaching.... you just saved a soul. Again, I want to ask, as a single mother i told myself that any man that cannot love me the way i wanted to love, respect me and above all be financially supportive can not have access to my life again. Pls how good or bad is this decision of mine?
You are such a gem. These types of videos hardly ever tell me something i dont already know. The specific advice with examples are such gems. I can tell that you've thought about this and understand it. Thank you. You are definitely HER ❤
What stood out for me was #5 My Loyolty as well. I honestly feel like your channel is a godsend. After it became clear to me that what I have been working towards is an intentional life then boom. Your channel fell into my hands and every single video delivers! 💕
Am 30 and depressed because of my lack of serious men am trying to keep myself busy with learning a new hobby or skill but by the end of the day am crying myself to sleep.
@@HelpedbyGod-o2z the moment you stop stressing about that desire to be married that's when doors will open for you. It all starts with you, start becoming the partner you want, remember like attracts like. Have a blessed weekend!!!🤗
One will appreciate your teachings more when they have made some of the mistakes. So don't regret that you didn't meet Ayanime before now. Some who have not made these mistakes would still make them until they have the experiences. Thank you Ayanime for your teachings. You are called for this
Oh my goodness! You just so hit the nail on the head so hard. Keep doing what you are good at. You caught my mind and for that reason i had to like and subscribe to your channel. Thank you!
OMG , i needed to hear this has a young girl I'm in my early 20s how can i handle relationships and can i get tk know the right one By the way I'm a new suscriber .
I have a video from another channel that can help... The title is "How To Stop Being Desperate" but don't let that trigger you because in the video, she talks about how to "Pleasantly Detach" when you're not being appreciated as a married woman. You'll have to take a screenshot of what she listed out. Here's the link: th-cam.com/video/arsMLG0nhJY/w-d-xo.htmlsi=IH090nxVmycWYAF1
At this point I think I messed up 😢and I know exactly where the fault came from. I told a guy abt my body count the very first day we met even though we've been chatting on phone for like 7 months. I feel like I let the cat 🐈 out of the bag early
I once trusted a guy and he decided to tell the woman he was actually in love with all my secrets. The painful part is he actually made it sound like I come from a broken family and he needs to find escapism with her. Yoo i watch your videos for insight to be bette and to avoid making mistakes but I have fully given up in dating and even trying to entertain them. Money is more important.
Thank you so much for this and I’ve learnt about what they’re supposed to earn but please can we also know how they can earn it because it is one one to know about what they’re suppose to earn and another to know how it can be earned Please 🙏 if you can make a video on that it would really be great 😊 Thank you
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You should be talking to and getting to know multiple people. I see this as a healthy approach to managing your dating life, as long as you’re not being intimate with any of them. You’re entitled to have a full, vibrant dating life. Don’t feel pressured to be intimate just because you’re talking to someone. Keep things platonic until you find the best match.
Platonic is casual. Right😬😁
Omg, she's right. I trusted a man with my secrets. An never again he told my secrets to others.
Ayanime, you're a very intelligent woman. I seriously enjoy listening to you. Your diction, your accent and composure, so classy.
Thank you so much beautiful… your words mean the world to me 🤍
She is official if you listen to everything she said here and APPLY it I promise that some of you will become wives by 2025
I’ve been guilty of giving away my energy. I didn’t even realize I was doing that.
Privacy etiquette is key ladies and some things are just meant between you and God. This also applies to business and not just relationship. I have an Attorney who I believe has some type of crush on me and I had to notify him during my case that I was unsafe and I had to go to a safe house. I will never understand how or why but I believe he is jealous of my ex even though the relationship that we have is professional and will not be crossing the lines unfortunately, I can’t even replace him because no other attorneys will take on the case because he has been working on this case for so long, if another attorney was to take this case, he could take a great portion of how much of my case which is worth. I do feel like he is somebody from my past life I know this sounds weird maybe he remembers lol but it’s very odd. Anyway I just know that this is absolute true information ladies once you tell a man about any type of unsafe activity that happened in your life, just be aware that the moment that he’s upset, he will use it or he will poke the bear. Tell God, your journal, and therapist.
Thank you for sharing this with us... I usually get heat when I say this but I'm glad many women are sharing their experiences. 🤍
Am sticking to this channel for life.... Pls ma always know that you are transforming lives and building people through your teachings.... Thank you so much
Your words means the world to me 🤍
I appreciate the organization of the advice, which progresses from general to specific, aimed at protecting one's heart and body, and can be used as a progressive checklist, meaning you cannot move on to the next step until the current one is completed.
Oh my! I didn’t even realize that… 🤍
Watching this video for the very third time.
I am 22yrs old and have ever been intentional about my -ships, as in relationship,friendship, Colleague-ship 😅
So I would be applying these tips on all my ships, thank you ❤❤
Same sis, I'm 22yrs old too.
Loved your response. Wise of you at such a young age. Wishing you well.
@@tiffanysanchez9799 amen. Thank you 😇
Time 😮 I have a bad habit of being a chatter box. I need to work on that
In this video I learned a man must earn ALL of these aspects! Thank you for the guidance ❤️❤️❤️
Well !mine it relieved me so so much could you believe that am emotionally obsessed with someone but after this video,i told ny self he doesn't worth my time
Thank you for sharing! I wish I would have known about most of these tips when I was a young girl entering the dating scene. I would have saved myself much heartache and loss, but I am grateful for the lessons learned through the years
These are things I wish I'd known earlier too, but as they say, better late than never 🤍
This just made me feel SO much better about myself. These are things that I already implement into my life and it definitely has yielded lots of pushback from men but its separated the wheat from the tare and serious men from the men who just want to have sex. Thank you for teaching this!
Thank you mama my mom should be telling me all of this but you did so thanks🥰❤✨
You: "We're not making love transactional" Me: "Instantly clicks like button"
Many men these days, do not want to make the effort to take you on a date. They just want to chill at their place or come to yours. So annoying!
My darling, keep keeping your standards high, take yourself out on dates and also organize girlfriend dates… so that if he doesn’t do it, it won’t feel like you’re missing out on anything spectacular. Believe me, the right person will enjoy taking you out on dates… 🤍
@@ayanime_edem Thank you, Ayanime! Struggling right now to have a quality circle of friends. I don't even know where to start, being an extreme introvert.
This
The juice ain't worth the squeeze..
@@shalomakaeluI feel you sis. I either stay home or go out by myself. I go to the movies solo or take a walk etc or hang out with my siblings
My time, my secrets, my exclusivity n trust🙏
Where were you all my life!!! I just ended a 6month relationship and I was kinda having an ‘audit’ of what I did right or wrong and I came across this video, now, I’m convinced I did the right thing!!!
You are 💯 correct. I also made all these same mistakes in the past. No more.
No more my darling, no more! 🤍
That access to family is so key. He doesn't have to meet any of my family till he is committed.
Introducing a man early and they end up messing up is so disappointing
This is exactly correct and this is something women should be telling their daughters unfortunately there are some women that didn’t get this message
Thanks for the video. I think your last point is very good. A man should earn your body.
Great content ma'am
Most of the aforementioned tips requires women to be observant and learn to take their time before building a relationship.No pressure!!!
You’re absolutely right… time reveals all 🤍
So enlightening! Definitely putting this into practice and not just ‘empathatically’ giving away love, trust so easily in the name of love.
Wonderful! 🤍
Thanks so much for the teaching.... you just saved a soul.
Again, I want to ask, as a single mother i told myself that any man that cannot love me the way i wanted to love, respect me and above all be financially supportive can not have access to my life again. Pls how good or bad is this decision of mine?
Absolutely the perfect decision! I wish you strength and courage to stand firm on it. 🤍
First time watching and am glued to it...... thank you
My pleasure! 🤍
Glad I found you. Thank you for this love. sometimes we need someone else to reiterate our convictions for us to keep our resolve.
I find it rude if anyone asks the body count question. Men or women.
You are such a gem. These types of videos hardly ever tell me something i dont already know.
The specific advice with examples are such gems. I can tell that you've thought about this and understand it. Thank you. You are definitely HER ❤
Everything you said is absolutely right.
What stood out for me was #5 My Loyolty as well. I honestly feel like your channel is a godsend. After it became clear to me that what I have been working towards is an intentional life then boom. Your channel fell into my hands and every single video delivers! 💕
Wow wow very eye opening!! Thank you for this ! God bless you a million !
I love the way you speak and teach.. really eloquent 😊 i just subscribed 💕
Awesome! I’m glad to have you here 🎉
New subscriber i love everything about this video.
Ladies if we dont know our worth who will🎉
Yay! 🎉 I'm glad to have you here...
Am 30 and depressed because of my lack of serious men am trying to keep myself busy with learning a new hobby or skill but by the end of the day am crying myself to sleep.
I’m 33 and still single with no kid, don’t beat yourself up, things will fall in place with time. Just focus on you and what makes you happy.
Decenter men from your life, I'm guessing you need to heal
@@midasbeauty It's my wish that one day I get married
@@Beztyausten Thank you for the encouragement
@@HelpedbyGod-o2z the moment you stop stressing about that desire to be married that's when doors will open for you. It all starts with you, start becoming the partner you want, remember like attracts like. Have a blessed weekend!!!🤗
Thank you for the information and examples . Sometimes it’s things we know but question or forget about at times and need to listen to it again ❤
One will appreciate your teachings more when they have made some of the mistakes.
So don't regret that you didn't meet Ayanime before now.
Some who have not made these mistakes would still make them until they have the experiences.
Thank you Ayanime for your teachings. You are called for this
Being an intentional woman who serves God is a plus.
Keep going girl you are backed by God. 💃
I just subscribed!
These points are gold ✨ thanks for sharing 💕
My pleasure 🤍
Mine is Loyalty and Trust
This was so soothing to watch… women need to hear more of these things
My favourite video of all
I believe every woman should watch this
Sharing what resonates... My time! (and space) 😔. Happy to have come across this video. I am now a subscriber - your words are wisdom, lady!
🎉phenomenal wisdom! he needs to earn u, secrets are waepons..." BINGO!! 👏 instant subscriber
I needed this! Thank you Queen
Beautiful Beautiful lecture.
Blessings all the way.🎉🎉❤❤
This video was so helpful 🥺
This was insightful.
Thanks sis for sharing ❤️
Absolutely… it was my pleasure 🤍
This is so educational! Can you make video for long distance relationships advice
Will do...
I love your videos. You just gained a fan ❤️
A lot of truth in all you have said Thank you for sharing this value
Oh my God, this video or teaching is amazing. God bless you sister. You just earned a subscriber. Good job.
Oh my goodness! You just so hit the nail on the head so hard. Keep doing what you are good at. You caught my mind and for that reason i had to like and subscribe to your channel. Thank you!
I love the way you speak ✨
Thank you beautiful 🤍
Me too, I love your African accent and nice voice, especially when you revert to dialect, stay beautiful
OMG , i needed to hear this has a young girl I'm in my early 20s how can i handle relationships and can i get tk know the right one
By the way I'm a new suscriber .
Thank God for this video I got to know your channel Ayanime
Wow sis,
Iblove these points! Very helpful ❤
😢welldone ma I've learnt from this video really actually in my own case it's even my husband ,not the case of relationship .
I have a video from another channel that can help... The title is "How To Stop Being Desperate" but don't let that trigger you because in the video, she talks about how to "Pleasantly Detach" when you're not being appreciated as a married woman. You'll have to take a screenshot of what she listed out.
Here's the link: th-cam.com/video/arsMLG0nhJY/w-d-xo.htmlsi=IH090nxVmycWYAF1
Big sis! Thank you for your valuable information. Need these reminders 🙏🏽 can't wait to see more of your content
Excellent loved this video
Thank you so so much, Ma'am!❤
Excellent Wisdom. PERIOD.👏🏽
My third time watching this. This is timely. Thank you ma'am ❤
Thank youuuuuu soooo much for this video. This is one of my favorite channels on TH-cam
Wow, thank you! 🎉🤍
Well, time, secrets and time resonates with me.
You are an amazing coach ❤
Thank you beautiful 🤍
OMG! Thank you so much for that powerful teaching ❤❤❤❤❤
This video help me alot thank you dear
At this point I think I messed up 😢and I know exactly where the fault came from. I told a guy abt my body count the very first day we met even though we've been chatting on phone for like 7 months. I feel like I let the cat 🐈 out of the bag early
So sorry abt that 😢
We learn everyday.
Loved this video ❤ you have such a calming and comforting feminine energy. Thanks for educating us girlies ❤
My pleasure beautiful 🤍
I love it here🥰. Thank you for always lifting up my spirit
My trust and loyalty
Thank you for the uplifting content. Blessings 🙂
Love, love this video!
I’m glad you do! 🤍
I love this, thank youuu
My pleasure… 🤍
💯👏🏾OMG‼️Yesss… thank you. I’ve been saying this for years‼️
Thankyou for sharing your thoughts ❤
Just what I needed to hear
Blessed
Eni
I agree, your time is previous and an infinite commodity
Thank you for making this video! ❤️
My absolute pleasure 🤍
I’m glad I found your page🙏
Vert insightful thank you.
You are super amazing ma'am....💥🙌
This is so rich!!!!
Thank you beautiful...
Wow loved stumbling upon this video. Informative 👏
How wonderful! 🤍
Thanks for sharing this with me.
God bless you 🙏
Amen 🤍
Thank u so much. This is an eye opener
wow! I've been doing a few things wrong for sure.
It's my first time seeing your video and I really enjoyed it, it makes pefect sense. Thank u
My pleasure 🤍
I once trusted a guy and he decided to tell the woman he was actually in love with all my secrets. The painful part is he actually made it sound like I come from a broken family and he needs to find escapism with her. Yoo i watch your videos for insight to be bette and to avoid making mistakes but I have fully given up in dating and even trying to entertain them. Money is more important.
❤this is so insightful thank you!
Thank you for sharing this!
Thank you Sis
God bless you mama for being God fearing.
Great content!
Thank you so much for this and I’ve learnt about what they’re supposed to earn but please can we also know how they can earn it because it is one one to know about what they’re suppose to earn and another to know how it can be earned
Please 🙏 if you can make a video on that it would really be great 😊
Thank you
Tons of tips right in the video
You’re beautiful inside out ❤.
God bless
You forever
Forget you, Steven. I'm standing 10 toes on the ground about my detachment journey! Cont to have a different woman everyday of the week....😮😳😬
Thank you for always serving us valuable contents.😍😍
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My pleasure...
Thank you I needed this ❤
Thank you for the video