At this point it’s almost best to stay single. People and relationships are just different in today’s society. People don’t value relationships anymore. Too busy swiping left and right, hitting up people in the DM’s, affairs, game playing, ghosting, feminine men, the list goes on. Stay single!
@@SR77736 I can concur. I refuse to be stressed and up all night wondering what a man is doing and why he is acting the way he is losing focus on priorities.
My ex made me a better woman while I watched him regress. For a season he gave me a love I so desperate wanted but then I realized it was a form of love bombing in the beginning that then became bread crumbing and repeatedly crossing boundaries. I kept hoping for things to get better but, I became unhappy and quickly realized that I was settling because of a scarcity mindset and I was letting my needs go unmet because I kept hoping that a grown man who was 7 years older than me will act right and do all that he promised he would do but never did. Actions are louder than words. Sometimes he was only a lesson you needed to learn, let go and move on to better things.
When a man can’t tell you why he continues to run in and out of your life and he knows he wants nothing to do with you that’s another reason why as well all This nonsense with these clowns will be left right here in 20222 It will not be brought into my new year of 2023 ! I’m moving forward and done moving backwards!
This applies 100% to me. Over Christmas I just decided to leave my marriage of 12 years. Every single word said was my husband. I just recognized all of this and it hit my soul that as long as carry burden and allowed him to continue to lie to me, bring negative energy, negative remarks, constant cheating with random women and escorts that he even lie to, No help and disrepect then I will forever be unhappy and allowing him to think that it's all okay. I am too good for him and treatment of this. I absolutely dated down all while lifting him up. I am a beautiful woman inside and out. Just because he never saw my worth another man will. I have seen that I will be blessed as soon as this storm passes.
Or…there is even benefit in remaining single. As was stated in another comment, the pickings are slim. Taking all the time you need to heal is a great idea. All the best in whatever your decision is.
Nodding my head YES thru the whole video. This once was me. After 8 yrs I moved on ...changed my number and relocated to another state. Now I'm doing me. Thanks
The problem is that I believed we had a real connection here. And I thought that because it hitted so strong, he's keeping himself distant due to fear. But you are right, he's done nothing all this time. I must stop finding excuses and let it go for good. Thank you Stephan for helping me become a way healthier person. May God bless you 😊 💙
YES it is a powerful statement! I just started saying this to myself and to others last year after being broken up from an 18 year old relationship 5 years ago!
If this wasn’t for me, I don’t know what is. This video came right after just blocking this guy that’s been bringing confusion for years and just doing the bare minimum. Smh 🤦🏾♀️
Oooh that's the truth! And you have to let it go even on a just friends bases, because that narcissistic behavior isn't going anywhere if you allow them to stick around.
There's men out there like him. But they not just a walking billboard saying hey I'm this way or that. Lol. Just gotta pay attention to the signs. It is what it is
@@irenereta4611 Yeah, it's harder in the big cities it seems. I'm out here in NYC. And yeah, most ppl are taken, in a relationship or have a lingering sex buddy or something. And the rest are just out here playing games, not being real...and show that they not really looking for anything real and solid...they rather stick to the online or social media attention they get from guys. So it seems like trying to find a needle in a haystack. Lol 😂 But God willingly, I will find that partner for me. I always felt that my ideal partner will probably be OT...so idk. We will see.
This hit home for me...I am now in the process of getting out.... Thanks for this... I was ping ponging about leaving but hearing my thoughts from a man I am truly sure I am doing the right thing...
Its always about feeling or being alone! It's thinking if you keep being patient and trying they will see you. If he doesn't treat you good or reach out to you. He isn't into you enough. How he treats you is how he feels about you!
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I am so hurt by how he just blocked me with no explanation. Everything was just fine, no arguments nothing, then he blocked me. I cry and cry. And I pray for him. I love him but I will let him go… I know because of my good heart, I will be rewarded with my dream of a family and marriage and true love.
I’ve been spending on this guy 4years in this relationship 😢nd it’s draining I’m losing more nd his so selfish when he has but I’m so drained nd hurt coz he being taking 💔I’m tired this year I have to leave because I’m not getting any better 😢
I do need to let him go although we’re not in a relationship nor anything else happeningI He helps me to get the things I need due to my life circumstances! He supports me with health issues by taking me and being there! I don’t have no one else! LORD GOD, help me in JESUS’ HOLY NAME to let this negative man go and provide for me in every way I need! THANK YOU, JESUS in advance!🙏🏽
@@melmel7011, I’m letting him go because he’s negative! His demons always want to talk negative to me! Then he turns around and tries to be nice! I’m not going into the new year with him! I’m done!🔥
Talking and actions are 2 different things. You've been saying this for a lil bit now. I hope you stay true and do what you say. Learn to love yourself as well...so you're not susceptible to take his bs or any others as well. Later
💯 this joker 😂 sadly that’s what he turned out to be. I hope he finds growth and healing to attain a life of respect and love and peace. At the beginning, I used to roll my eyes. Once he pointed it out, I stopped immediately because I respected him and realized I needed to do better and let go of bad habits.. I thought this relationship would be for growth without judgement. Then things got crazy. And for the last 7 months+ DRAMA and CHAOS. I let him go a couple weeks ago after he gave me 13 days of silent treatment. It wasn’t much of a relationship the last 7 months so it’s easier to move on. But I’m still sad at times. What’s most rewarding though, is the peace in my life and the stability I feel now that I’m no longer confused and living within my safe boundaries.
I think I’m done with relationships for now. I keep on having the same dating experiences but now that has to end. I lower my standards, treat them good and give them the best love then they start acting weird… when I finally leave they become obsessed, they start begging and they hardly upgrade. I’m going thru another break up rn too
Ooh heck yes! I had to keep raising him but he kept dragging me down....he told me he needed me.... I don't want to be needed, he wanted a caretaker. In the end, I didn't even raise him because he is severely unhealed and not willing to do anything about it. He can stay in his codependent dysfunction with his bf
It’s a matter of picking your poison ☠️ You are either single and deal with all these immature and ignorant clowns and their dirty ds. Or deal with someone that’s a good man but your vibes just don’t match.
You just described my marriage. But it was NOT wrong reasons we had chemistry in the beginning. I made him a WAY WAY WAY BETTER MAN. You are right! Noooo your right about dragging the man vs carrying the dude
That's true all my x boyfriend did was sit and play his video games and watch movies while I am doing all the work I worked 7 days a week and then come home soon as I walk in the door he ask what is for supper and I was like dang I just got in then I cought him texting another female and sending pictures then he blames it all on me I was very good to him
He TAKES TAKES TAKES….interesting….oh thank you Stephan ….You are sooo Wise….😇❤️….when I get married VERY SOON👰🏽….I will NOT carry no man’s burden….I THINK MY LOVE GONNA UNBURDEN ME!!!!!! And put a ring on it💍…FOR REAL!
He still mentaly abusing me i was till loyal to say i give u space he just abusing me its my fault he Beats me my fault he abusing me n i was just listen n thinking is he ok? I keep cool he is so fuckt sorry but calling me narrcesit for what??? Keep forgiving? I blocked him everywhere am done pls ladys dont let no man waste ur time
I also need a Partner who supports me in my endvours and career..Who understands me and help me to cultivate good habits..I want a good guy to come and fulfilled me every dimenesion of my life.. 🙏💯❤️AMEN
I love watching these videos, but I would love to see Stephan and his wife or significant other do something together. I enjoy watching couples engagement too.
Guys why don't we see it our selves that we need to let go of him instead of having to be made aware by someone infront of the camera i mean we being played here just saying😌
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At this point it’s almost best to stay single. People and relationships are just different in today’s society. People don’t value relationships anymore. Too busy swiping left and right, hitting up people in the DM’s, affairs, game playing, ghosting, feminine men, the list goes on. Stay single!
Pretty Much!!
Feel the same way.
I jus ordered me a #ROSE!.
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AAAAAAAAMEEEENNNNN!!! WE'RE DOOMED
Facts 💯💯
Sad isn’t it? Smh
People don’t want to be alone and they’d rather deal with bs. Peace of mind is more important at the end of the day!
Exactly. I'd rather be alone or around like minded peaceful people. Too much bs and selfishness with people these days.
@@SR77736 I can concur. I refuse to be stressed and up all night wondering what a man is doing and why he is acting the way he is losing focus on priorities.
My ex made me a better woman while I watched him regress. For a season he gave me a love I so desperate wanted but then I realized it was a form of love bombing in the beginning that then became bread crumbing and repeatedly crossing boundaries. I kept hoping for things to get better but, I became unhappy and quickly realized that I was settling because of a scarcity mindset and I was letting my needs go unmet because I kept hoping that a grown man who was 7 years older than me will act right and do all that he promised he would do but never did. Actions are louder than words. Sometimes he was only a lesson you needed to learn, let go and move on to better things.
I was always there for him. Now when i need him.. Ignored.
When a man can’t tell you why he continues to run in and out of your life and he knows he wants nothing to do with you that’s another reason why as well all
This nonsense with these clowns will be left right here in 20222 It will not be brought into my new year of 2023 ! I’m moving forward and done moving backwards!
Protect your peace
Guard your heart
Make the world respect your greatness!
It was you who made me realize my relationship was unhealthy and I needed to move on and focus on myself. Best. Decision. Ever!
This applies 100% to me. Over Christmas I just decided to leave my marriage of 12 years. Every single word said was my husband. I just recognized all of this and it hit my soul that as long as carry burden and allowed him to continue to lie to me, bring negative energy, negative remarks, constant cheating with random women and escorts that he even lie to, No help and disrepect then I will forever be unhappy and allowing him to think that it's all okay. I am too good for him and treatment of this. I absolutely dated down all while lifting him up. I am a beautiful woman inside and out. Just because he never saw my worth another man will. I have seen that I will be blessed as soon as this storm passes.
Yesss you will be blessed I wish you well on your journey 🙏🏽 ❤️
@@lynnettebennett4564 Thank you 😊
You will meet another man that treats you better. 🤗
Or…there is even benefit in remaining single. As was stated in another comment, the pickings are slim. Taking all the time you need to heal is a great idea. All the best in whatever your decision is.
Either way, with someone new or no one else at all, you're going to be better off. ❤
Nodding my head YES thru the whole video. This once was me. After 8 yrs I moved on ...changed my number and relocated to another state. Now I'm doing me. Thanks
Yup! For all the wrong reasons. Let go and run. Never look back!
The problem is that I believed we had a real connection here. And I thought that because it hitted so strong, he's keeping himself distant due to fear. But you are right, he's done nothing all this time. I must stop finding excuses and let it go for good. Thank you Stephan for helping me become a way healthier person. May God bless you 😊 💙
Oh that’s a powerful phrase
He might be a good guy he might be a bad guy but truth is he’s not the right guy 4 me ❤
YES it is a powerful statement! I just started saying this to myself and to others last year after being broken up from an 18 year old relationship 5 years ago!
If this wasn’t for me, I don’t know what is. This video came right after just blocking this guy that’s been bringing confusion for years and just doing the bare minimum. Smh 🤦🏾♀️
Oooh that's the truth! And you have to let it go even on a just friends bases, because that narcissistic behavior isn't going anywhere if you allow them to stick around.
We need more men like you 💖
AMEN!🙏🏽❤️
There's men out there like him. But they not just a walking billboard saying hey I'm this way or that. Lol. Just gotta pay attention to the signs. It is what it is
Even his preferences aren’t for everyone. I wouldn’t measure up to his standards and I’m a good woman. I need a man that’s right for me.
@@jayc5756 I'm out hear in L.A. all the men are player's no one wants to be in a relationship a can't take anyone seriously looking for Mr Right ..
@@irenereta4611 Yeah, it's harder in the big cities it seems. I'm out here in NYC. And yeah, most ppl are taken, in a relationship or have a lingering sex buddy or something. And the rest are just out here playing games, not being real...and show that they not really looking for anything real and solid...they rather stick to the online or social media attention they get from guys.
So it seems like trying to find a needle in a haystack. Lol 😂
But God willingly, I will find that partner for me. I always felt that my ideal partner will probably be OT...so idk. We will see.
This hit home for me...I am now in the process of getting out.... Thanks for this... I was ping ponging about leaving but hearing my thoughts from a man I am truly sure I am doing the right thing...
Yesss! You hit me all upside my head. I take full responsibility for entertaining this 😢
Its always about feeling or being alone! It's thinking if you keep being patient and trying they will see you. If he doesn't treat you good or reach out to you. He isn't into you enough. How he treats you is how he feels about you!
I am so hurt by how he just blocked me with no explanation. Everything was just fine, no arguments nothing, then he blocked me.
I cry and cry. And I pray for him. I love him but I will let him go…
I know because of my good heart, I will be rewarded with my dream of a family and marriage and true love.
You have to truly believe that.
You deserve love
These are facts. Hard pill to swallow! Keep sharing the truth, in a loving manner. We have to keep it real with ourselves.❤
I’ve been spending on this guy 4years in this relationship 😢nd it’s draining I’m losing more nd his so selfish when he has but I’m so drained nd hurt coz he being taking 💔I’m tired this year I have to leave because I’m not getting any better 😢
Stephan I needed this in my last relationship!!!...Now I'm with the man I should be with!!!! Thank you!!!
I do need to let him go although we’re not in a relationship nor anything else happeningI He helps me to get the things I need due to my life circumstances! He supports me with health issues by taking me and being there! I don’t have no one else!
LORD GOD, help me in JESUS’ HOLY NAME to let this negative man go and provide for me in every way I need! THANK YOU, JESUS in advance!🙏🏽
You letting him go because you do not love him?
@@melmel7011, I’m letting him go because he’s negative! His demons always want to talk negative to me! Then he turns around and tries to be nice! I’m not going into the new year with him! I’m done!🔥
Talking and actions are 2 different things. You've been saying this for a lil bit now. I hope you stay true and do what you say. Learn to love yourself as well...so you're not susceptible to take his bs or any others as well. Later
Same exact situation god bless us both for strength 2023 an etc
💯 this joker 😂 sadly that’s what he turned out to be. I hope he finds growth and healing to attain a life of respect and love and peace.
At the beginning, I used to roll my eyes. Once he pointed it out, I stopped immediately because I respected him and realized I needed to do better and let go of bad habits.. I thought this relationship would be for growth without judgement. Then things got crazy. And for the last 7 months+ DRAMA and CHAOS. I let him go a couple weeks ago after he gave me 13 days of silent treatment. It wasn’t much of a relationship the last 7 months so it’s easier to move on. But I’m still sad at times. What’s most rewarding though, is the peace in my life and the stability I feel now that I’m no longer confused and living within my safe boundaries.
Wow im in tears this hurt
same. Been with this one for 17 years and this video hit HARD. pretty much made up my mind.
I think I’m done with relationships for now. I keep on having the same dating experiences but now that has to end. I lower my standards, treat them good and give them the best love then they start acting weird… when I finally leave they become obsessed, they start begging and they hardly upgrade. I’m going thru another break up rn too
@1:57 oh yeah i know that number one point all too well sadly! 😭
Thank you for this!!! I left the relationship this week
This is what I needed right now! I keep saying I’m sorry! I keep apologizing and all he says is thank you for that.
Ooh heck yes! I had to keep raising him but he kept dragging me down....he told me he needed me.... I don't want to be needed, he wanted a caretaker. In the end, I didn't even raise him because he is severely unhealed and not willing to do anything about it. He can stay in his codependent dysfunction with his bf
This was actually me at one time but thank God for the blood! So good! Great advice! Thank you!
Thanks Steph and yes a RELATIONSHIP is 2 PEOPLE ONLY knowledge is POWER God Bless....
It’s a matter of picking your poison ☠️ You are either single and deal with all these immature and ignorant clowns and their dirty ds. Or deal with someone that’s a good man but your vibes just don’t match.
Or stay single deal with no one and heal. Then get back in the game when you’re ready with your head and hopes held high
@@lexxie225 definitely no more games for me 🛑✋🏼 But walking away with my head held high 😌
You just described my marriage. But it was NOT wrong reasons we had chemistry in the beginning. I made him a WAY WAY WAY BETTER MAN. You are right! Noooo your right about dragging the man vs carrying the dude
Sure happy I have a good job I left 6 years ago and I have my own home thank you God
That's true all my x boyfriend did was sit and play his video games and watch movies while I am doing all the work I worked 7 days a week and then come home soon as I walk in the door he ask what is for supper and I was like dang I just got in then I cought him texting another female and sending pictures then he blames it all on me I was very good to him
He TAKES TAKES TAKES….interesting….oh thank you Stephan ….You are sooo Wise….😇❤️….when I get married VERY SOON👰🏽….I will NOT carry no man’s burden….I THINK MY LOVE GONNA UNBURDEN ME!!!!!! And put a ring on it💍…FOR REAL!
PREACH IT, PREACH IT AGAIN, PREACH IT ONE MORE TIME, AMEN 👏🙏😀😇☺️👐👧👌🤗👣📖💒👩🤵♀️😷🙂😄🧍♀️👍💗HALLELUJAH, GLORY TO GOD ✝️ 🙏 🙌 👏
Good morning
I was listening your channel and you are absolutely right I'm 100 percent agree with you
This was me!
This was my last relationship 🙈 I really am careful to not jump in the same trap, thank you for teaching us Stephan 🙏
Hit the nail on the head....
💯 Truth
Lord knows I needed to hear this 🙌✨💫
Sweet Face he's gone. You know what and who I want
Thank you so much I really needed to hear this I appreciate you
So true
Plain and simple
Never try to fit a SQUARE peg in a ROUND hole
This goes to both men or women
Don't settle for less
Get the best
Muito obrigadaaaaa 🙏🙏🙏
The project 😂
Yeah, it's true.
I second this 😢
Wow incredible 😱😱
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😳👍 So so so very true!
He still mentaly abusing me i was till loyal to say i give u space he just abusing me its my fault he Beats me my fault he abusing me n i was just listen n thinking is he ok? I keep cool he is so fuckt sorry but calling me narrcesit for what??? Keep forgiving? I blocked him everywhere am done pls ladys dont let no man waste ur time
100% true
I'm going on a date with Stephan..❤️❤️
single
Definitely just hit me in the gut 🤦🏽♀️🤣
True.
I also need a Partner who supports me in my endvours and career..Who understands me and help me to cultivate good habits..I want a good guy to come and fulfilled me every dimenesion of my life..
🙏💯❤️AMEN
I love watching these videos, but I would love to see Stephan and his wife or significant other do something together. I enjoy watching couples engagement too.
He’s single
@@sherrellhenderson3969 I know, but I'm hoping that one day we'll get a video with his significant other in the future.
Why do we get a bunch him videos
Amen 🙏
Guys why don't we see it our selves that we need to let go of him instead of having to be made aware by someone infront of the camera i mean we being played here just saying😌
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Can you make your videos longer? 😩
Mo Love he has the full videos on his other channel
Stephan Speaks channel. This is just the clips channel ma
@@deesnuts90210 hello what's the name of his other channel
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He’s boring.. the immature games have become boring.. bye bye
Stephan would you ever date a woman who needs to be taught how to read scripture? Someone who isn’t 100% sure how to have God in their life?
Not that it “May be necessary”, it IS necessary. ♥️🙏🏾❤️🩹
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