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Thank you @vanessaadade7706, I appreciate 1. the kind words and 2. that apparently is a new word for me.😂 I had to go look it up. I love learning new words so yay you for instigating my curiosity!
Thank you for sharing these insights with us. Compassionate Detachment and Curiosity perfectly summarises what I need to practice to be a better coach. :)
It's so easy to get lost in the situation, but that is typically not where the real learning is hiding. :) I am glad you enjoyed the video and thank you for your comment!
Thank you for the comment @rodrigocollino I am glad they are serving you :) Let me know if you have any topics that you would be interested in seeing covered.
Amazing video on a critical topic. Thank you so much, Lyssa. I have been applying some the learnings here to great benefit for my clients. I have a question maybe for a future video. How to coach clients who show up so overwhelmed with a specific problem that they don't seem able (willing?) to think of a goal for a coaching session? I had a client who was very emotional and seemed to have given up on even trying to explore. Thank you.
This video is really valuable. Thank you for taking the time out to make this. The 3Cs are a good reminder. I will be sharing this resource to my cohort.
@@LyssadeHart one thing that fascinates me with PCC and MCC coaches is their ability to share observations without attachment (e.g. intuitions, comments, thoughts, feelings) and invites a client's exploration through verbal or verbal intonation (Marker 7.5). Can you give us new coaches tips on this? I am often afraid to sound judgmental or nosy. But I think surfacing these observations are critical in evoking a client's awareness.
I appreciate you taking the time to help us. I've been practicing coaching, but it seems like "colleges" don't like to share knowledge, new applications at the time of coaching, or what's working for them in a good coaching section. I am starting to follow you. You are a gem 💎 . I thank you very much. I find myself answering your questions myself 😂. I feel like I'm in a coaching section with you . ❤❤
Thank you! As an ADHD Coach with an LiCSW, I feel the coaching world is so hesitant to touch the therapy world, they stay too far away from meaningful depth in a legitimate coaching realm.
I agree Brandy, I think there are valid reason to be mindful of not tripping into therapy as a coach, especially if you aren't a therapist. :) And, that doesn't stop one from diving a bit deeper to the drivers and the insights that come from exploring below the surface. Thank you for the comments :)
Hi Lyssa, I’ve been watching your demonstration videos and it is really helpful. I’m currently taking co-active coaching courses, and starting my coaching career. I’ve noticed your sessions are mostly based on conversations and barely using embodiment, but in co-active coaching embodiment seems crucial. Based on my experience with my coachees, I feel that I like conversation sessions rather than embodiment sessions, but other than that, I love co-active coaching. I am not sure if I should go for application for co-active qualification next month, or I should transit to another faction. Would you please provide some advise or maybe make a video to explain your understanding on different factions? Thanks a lot!
Hi @凯西 I don't think I can answer that question for you, as it is such an important question that only you can know. I would say that I do use Somatics in the coaching that I do, as I notice the client having a reaction or response to something. For example in the video demo with Tracey E, she feels a tightening in her chest, and we explore that and discuss what shifted at the end of the conversation, and she describes the physical ease. All embodiment is, in my opinion, is taking awareness into our bodies, noticing our energies, and feeling viscerally the shifts, i.e., my heart lightened, or I notice a weight on my shoulders, as we have insights, not just being in our head. And, there are many ways that, as coaches or therapists that we invite the client to notice. I am not familiar with how co-active coaching teaches embodiment, but it's a valuable skill to explore. I was an Eclectic Therapist and now I am an Eclectic Coach, I draw on many different theoretical resources, I have training in everything from Cognitive Behavioral theory, Systems Theory, Neuroscience, Parts Work, Somatic Awareness, EMDR, Sand Play, etc, and use everything I have studied as it shows up and as I dance with and follow the client. I am not an adherent to 1 style or theory. So, my question back to you is, what might be important, or not, for you as a coach in learning about deeply about embodiment? And, what will you choose to learn next? :)
Join my Coaches Monthly Q&A call here: bit.ly/MonthlyQAsforCoaches
My treat! Each Month we will discuss a Coaching Topic that will support your growth. Get access to the past recordings as well and get your free 1 Resource Development CCE for each month! Woot! 💝
Your didactics is incredible!
Thank you @vanessaadade7706, I appreciate 1. the kind words and 2. that apparently is a new word for me.😂 I had to go look it up. I love learning new words so yay you for instigating my curiosity!
Thank you for sharing these insights with us. Compassionate Detachment and Curiosity perfectly summarises what I need to practice to be a better coach. :)
I really appreciate your self-awareness. I know both are part of my intentional practice in my coaching as well. :)
I like your point made about not focusing on "the situation. "
It's so easy to get lost in the situation, but that is typically not where the real learning is hiding. :) I am glad you enjoyed the video and thank you for your comment!
Excellent point on expanding the situation could be a lost opportunity.
Thank you @chrvee - appreciate you being here with me. Cheers!
Loved the 3Cs! Thanks for putting them together and with such good examples 😊
Thank you for the comment @rodrigocollino I am glad they are serving you :) Let me know if you have any topics that you would be interested in seeing covered.
This is so helpful!
Glad to hear this and thank you for the comment!
Amazing video on a critical topic. Thank you so much, Lyssa. I have been applying some the learnings here to great benefit for my clients.
I have a question maybe for a future video. How to coach clients who show up so overwhelmed with a specific problem that they don't seem able (willing?) to think of a goal for a coaching session? I had a client who was very emotional and seemed to have given up on even trying to explore. Thank you.
This video is really valuable. Thank you for taking the time out to make this. The 3Cs are a good reminder. I will be sharing this resource to my cohort.
Thank you so much, and I really appreciate you sharing! What would be a helpful next video topic? I'd love to hear your thoughts.
@@LyssadeHart one thing that fascinates me with PCC and MCC coaches is their ability to share observations without attachment (e.g. intuitions, comments, thoughts, feelings) and invites a client's exploration through verbal or verbal intonation (Marker 7.5). Can you give us new coaches tips on this?
I am often afraid to sound judgmental or nosy. But I think surfacing these observations are critical in evoking a client's awareness.
@@Icecandy1882 That is BRILLIANT! And, Yes, I will do a video on that in the next couple of weeks. Great idea, Thank you!
I appreciate you taking the time to help us. I've been practicing coaching, but it seems like "colleges" don't like to share knowledge, new applications at the time of coaching, or what's working for them in a good coaching section. I am starting to follow you. You are a gem 💎 . I thank you very much. I find myself answering your questions myself 😂. I feel like I'm in a coaching section with you . ❤❤
Thank you! Very useful 🙏
@JustAnamValentina Glad it was helpful! Thank you for commenting and reach out anytime you have a question.
Excellent video! Thank you very much ❤
Super glad you enjoyed to video, thank you for leaving a comment! :)
Thank you!
As an ADHD Coach with an LiCSW, I feel the coaching world is so hesitant to touch the therapy world, they stay too far away from meaningful depth in a legitimate coaching realm.
I agree Brandy, I think there are valid reason to be mindful of not tripping into therapy as a coach, especially if you aren't a therapist. :) And, that doesn't stop one from diving a bit deeper to the drivers and the insights that come from exploring below the surface. Thank you for the comments :)
Thank you so much
You're most welcome! Thank you for the comment 😀
Hi Lyssa, I’ve been watching your demonstration videos and it is really helpful. I’m currently taking co-active coaching courses, and starting my coaching career. I’ve noticed your sessions are mostly based on conversations and barely using embodiment, but in co-active coaching embodiment seems crucial. Based on my experience with my coachees, I feel that I like conversation sessions rather than embodiment sessions, but other than that, I love co-active coaching. I am not sure if I should go for application for co-active qualification next month, or I should transit to another faction. Would you please provide some advise or maybe make a video to explain your understanding on different factions? Thanks a lot!
Hi @凯西 I don't think I can answer that question for you, as it is such an important question that only you can know. I would say that I do use Somatics in the coaching that I do, as I notice the client having a reaction or response to something. For example in the video demo with Tracey E, she feels a tightening in her chest, and we explore that and discuss what shifted at the end of the conversation, and she describes the physical ease. All embodiment is, in my opinion, is taking awareness into our bodies, noticing our energies, and feeling viscerally the shifts, i.e., my heart lightened, or I notice a weight on my shoulders, as we have insights, not just being in our head. And, there are many ways that, as coaches or therapists that we invite the client to notice. I am not familiar with how co-active coaching teaches embodiment, but it's a valuable skill to explore. I was an Eclectic Therapist and now I am an Eclectic Coach, I draw on many different theoretical resources, I have training in everything from Cognitive Behavioral theory, Systems Theory, Neuroscience, Parts Work, Somatic Awareness, EMDR, Sand Play, etc, and use everything I have studied as it shows up and as I dance with and follow the client. I am not an adherent to 1 style or theory. So, my question back to you is, what might be important, or not, for you as a coach in learning about deeply about embodiment? And, what will you choose to learn next? :)
Really helpful. ;-)
I am glad it was useful! :)