Why People Hate INTPs
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I don't get why people hate lazy people, I mean we didn't do anything.
For some reasons this is a joke.
Lmao
This makes sense
we don't hate "lazy people ". We intps are lazy people ourselves. We hate people who don't try to change their "lazy " state their in. At least that's what I hate, as an intp
@@Pengalen Yeah. WE ARE EFFIICIENT
it’s okay, intps hate people. it’s mutual hate
true 🙋
intp here. correct. i dislike humans.
I really like people, but most of them annoy me. I love having interesting conversations, if you can't do that then I avoid you. I do however dislike people that feel entitled to tell me what to do or how to do it.
More like, they hate humanity
@@marxiewasalittlegirl no no, we hate stupidity; it's similar but different.
In conclusion, people hate intp because we just want to live our life in peace
Well, "people" is too many people, not so many people hate us. People who are incompatible with us may get angry with us at times, but I don't think that lasts long. Maybe INTP atheists have a harder time fitting than Christian INTPs like myself, not that it is easy for me, definitely it isn't. And therapy certainly helps, I've been in psychotherapy for about 20 years...
@@XandeZouk that's true, but i was referencing the tittle of this video. also, that's great, therapy helps a lot, i've been into it myself ;)
@@XandeZouk I probably could consider going to therapy myself...
yup weirdos,wanting to live a peaceful life that is sus yall sure do love to lick some hand
Yeah, that have baffled me for years. Only boundaries I usually set is "don't enter my room without permission, let me have my quiet time and don't talk about sertain subjects people around me typically have an agenda towards me in (cars and career paths). Guess what doesn't get respected.
As an INTP I can’t count how many times I’ve been told that I “just don’t care” when I don’t act the way people expect me to
Same. Parents always points this out
@@salinspook3642 Yup 😩
@@salinspook3642 yep, especially during argument
Or the amount of times I've been called rude, arrogant. At one point I was told I have a bad personality when I was angry the person didn't understand.
same
I don't hate INTPs.
-INTJ
These too type don't hate each other cuz they have common experiences with this. Also they make a great friendship "INTX friends".
I’ve e been with my INTJ best friend for seven years and honestly, I’m pretty sure she doesn’t hate me :D
@@crowcollector5267 Great! 💓
Friend
me intp w/ no best friend
INTP: Shows up at the 16 personality party, “hey… ‘sup?”
All other personalities: Shows the INTP the exit while explaining, “mmmnyeah this was a 15 personality party…. there’s the door right there.”
Intps are always out of the list 😂
@@rayansawly3297 Good. Don't invite me to your wedding.
I'm going to get sushi. *NONE* of you are invited...
Its not easy being the guy who instantly makes everyone feel like an idiot, people don't tend to associate with those who leave there ego in tatters -_-
My feels. I been rejected my whole life😢
Yuppp
We should form our own little group, where we don’t say much, occasionally send gifs of animals
are cat videos ok?
Omg. Baby animal videos is the only that has restored my faith in humanity
I hate animal animations.
Okk...who wants to initiate??🙄
Good idea
Why do people hate INTPs?
1)INTPs are basically Sloths
When we say the word sloth, the first thing that comes to our mind is lazy and slow. But did you know that sloths are one of the most efficient animals? The reason they are so slow is that they can not see properly. Due to poor eyesight, they are extremely careful with their choice of movement. But most people don't know this. So, they simply label them as lazy without even searching for the answer that why they are lazy.
The same happens to INTPs. We are really selective with our use of physical energy. Reason? The reason is we tend to use a lot of mental energy. INTPs are Ti dom with auxiliary Ne. As a result, we subconsciously use too much energy just by thinking only. Generally, a person consumes 20% of energy by thinking. That means about 320 calories. And for this reason, we are so much selective about doing physical work cuz we know we will get tired just by doing a little. But people just label us lazy.
2)INTP's intelligence
In spite of not being academically well, INTPs show signs of intelligence and multiple talents(even if those are just surface level). And it doesn't take a genius to understand that INTPs are above average generally. And this causes jealousy. I am not bragging. But the truth is truth. Many don't like INTPs out of jealousy.
Envy not jealousy but I get the point.
Have u noticed that we tend to think we are capable of anything if given enough time and we are interested in the subject?
@@bxmully 100% agreed.
@@nn793 entps r like that too. But can be cocky about it if they arent well adjusted. All my best friends turned out to be entps too which is not uncommon for intps. Makes sense tho since they r kindred spirits to intps more than any other type imo.
Alao honestly I think we are lazy too on top of being energy conservation type ppl. Yes intps can be fit but even still a general laziness is common. Even when I was in competitive sports and was super fit i was a lazy bastard outside of sports. I liked seeing others lose to me more than actually winning if that makes sense. But typically it was Si based sports that are non team based like wrestling, track, boxing,
I am INTP, I think this video describes my feelings 100%. I dont feel other people understand me when I need need comfort and it really hurt me to see a lot of people to brush aside my mental needs. I am even more hurt by the fact some people I deemed untrustworthy get all the attentions and help from people around them. I always felt this is the ultimate proof that life is unfair.
same
I've only been into this mbti thing for a bit now but after having done the test (many times over now, which is apparently an INTP thing) I've finally realized why I found it so hard to fit in growing up.
I knew I was different. Would rather stay home and read our game than go out with people. Never had anything to say at social gatherings. When I would try to emulate other people's behaviors it would always end in disaster.
As I got older I became more and more frustrated with how stupid almost everyone was. Why couldn't they just do the logical thing? It's not hard. Just do it!
Always told I should smile more. Always asked if I'm happy. People just didn't understand that I could be happy and not a babbling idiot about it at the same time.
Work has the same problems mentioned here. People for some reason saw me as threat. At work I work hard and know everything. At home I do nothing. I think many people see this as a threat. If they only knew I had no real ambition to take over, I just like competent work done right and I'm usually the only one who can do that.
Any one else relate to this?
@@openwaters2988 I related to you probably arounf 75%. I also find some people around me want to keep me down even when I show no ambitious on what they want and did not put much effort at work or in school.
@Open Waters Spot on with everything. Started writing out a retort for one of your points and realized half way thru i had experienced it also.
Same 😔
So, they hate INTPs because they are intrinsically motivated and can't be manipulated with superficial rewards and shiny things. That says a lot right there.
Interesting that this video states that they are hated because they don't not act "appropriately" when what they really mean is that they don't react the way everyone else expects them to. It's not vital to jump up and down and yell and scream for a sports team. It's vital to yell and scream, "FIRE!" if something is actually on fire and people's lives are in danger. The first reaction is optional, while the second one is necessary.
INTP-A Female: trained myself growing up to react like a “normal” person. Learned to show ther proper expressions in reaction to what people say or do. The facade falters at moments of pure exhaustion or when my attention is taken advantage of for completely irrelevant one-sided conversations. I just revert to expressionlessness and monotone responses. 🤷🏻♀️
Bro saaaaammmmeee. My family is always like " oh my gosh why is your voice so monotone" or " are you upset or something" and I respond with because it's my natural voice and this is just my voice
dude same. i have cut off ppl in my family bc they hate me and think I’m evil just bc I don’t smile a lot and don’t come out of my room a lot. even when I make such an effort to fake smile and be kind and speak in a voice that isn’t monotone. literally can’t win.
Relatable. After a few hours of having to socialize, I’m exhausted. It’s a weird relief to find out that this is something other people feel too.
Same
Most of those people are absolutely useless human beings.
I get a lot of hate for simply being myself because no one ever bothers to listen when I have something really interesting and meaningful to say. People are just too obsessed with drama and small talk.
same story.. I wish I had someone who would understand me even if they don't have the same experience and I could always open up to without any hesitation:)
stick to the simple narrataives in conversation, dont confuse them or overload their gasket. With most people, you have to keep conversations on a happy surface level, dont get too deep or veer off the train track. I can see the strain in their eyes when you do go too deep on topics.
They hate us because we love the truth and put it above feelings and fantasies that would satisfy our and other peoples egos etc
So accurate!!!
Try conveying the truth with non rude way, thanks
@@seagull6112 the truth is reality. Factual. If you feel threatened by facts/reality you probably have some internal trauma you need to work on.
Nope I don't have internal trauma about accepting truth, it's simply as to consider other people's feelings too. You can convey truths in non rude way, as simple as it sounds
@@seagull6112 then I definitively agree with you.
TLDR: "They hate us cause they ain't us"
I just snorted 😂
lmao
"I love you!" - an INFP 🥺
That's true ..
Me an female intp.....my family thinks I've a mental disorder cause most of the time I'm just lying on my bed with my eyes closed for hours but not sleeping.......cause i think of millions of things , i mean you understand its not easy to be an introvert here in india......ughhhh I've got no friends, no excitements nothing and I don't even want to have friends but i cannot take all of this.....holy hell...
escape india
@@bshrful i wish it was as easy to do as to say......
Same here, although I’m in a slavic country, it still sucks because I don’t real talk much and my bond with my family is kinda weak
@@crowcollector5267 i feel you... I guess nobody Will ever be able to understand us......
@@medhasrivastava7653 it will be even more stressful now if u r taking the jee exams : (.....ppl treat u like dirt if u r not in top 1 percent.
I'm an INTP young adult woman. I know that we are rare. And I know that we are too different to include ourselves in society of everyday normal people. There is a disconnect of intellect. Perhaps that's why we are so introverted.
But do you ever just feel so alone..? Like there is no one you've ever met that really understands you? No one to share your knowledge with, or you find on the same level as you? Everyone you talk to is so clueless to the big picture of life. And everyone you open up to and share with, can't relate. (Or think you're odd or dramatic)
I've cried over this a few times. I feel so disconnected to my own species when we're supposed to be social creatures. I feel like I was born in an era that wasnt ready for me. Do you feel this too..?
Story of my life… can we be friends? Lol
I feel your pain. I am invisible in group gatherings and treated like a ghost. No one shoots me questions or banter. When I do say something to try to add to the conversation, no one responds or even looks at me and just carry on with the response before that. If they do react, they just stare and go, "what?" and continue, in time learning to completely not see me.
I read a lot too but no one is bothered to discuss such topics because those "are work-related" or "require too much thinking to be fun". I've quite much given up on most people and when my few friends ask me why I am su biased against meeting new people, my response is that those people have to prove me wrong about themselves first before I open up. Quite a catch 22 because they will never get their chance as long as I don't speak to them at all.
I'm choosing to grit my teeth and learn how to read human and produce social cues because most people are so illogical and shallow that I rather manipulate them just to get the things I need and get out. I watch shows that express a lot of friendship but that lifeline is slowly wearing away, not to mention that I would be out of dating age soon, still and always was single and alone despite having the gift of knowledge.
Hope you find some friends soon cos ironically, I've met new friends online due to this pandemic nonsense.
Did you read my mind? 😳
every day
@@brirose6425Totally
The last bit about most women being less accepting of people like us is extremely accurate. It's actually a very important insight to my personal struggles in life as an INTP woman. Making friends in very unlikely.
As another intp female, it is easier to make friends with men.
@@brendalg4 I agree 😆
Okay now things are starting to make sense 😆
@Secrets of She That's why I'm a lone wolf, bruh
This ☝🏻🙍♀️
And here I thought people hating me was just a me thing. Didn't realize this was an INTP thing. *noted*
Just me as an intp who gets annoyed when people put theirselves into the same obvious toxic situations then cry about it as if they didn’t ask for it
Same it's like putting a quarter in a gumball machine and expecting a pop tart.
That sounded out there af but I'm sure u get what I mean
@@da_swaws6165 I definitely understand what you mean and I agree
Well I kinda understand that person they probably didn't realize it, why tf would they want to jump in when they _realize_ it, we all have our "ugh why did I do that moment" and I hate people who just goes "omfg ur so stupid" as if they themself are the only one not stupid (I'm an intp) even here I feel different... Maybe because if my test result are mostly 50% or so
I understand where you come from as an INTP myself. But I do try to emphasize the best I can because I know myself (and definitely other INTP’s as well) have our own struggles. For example, I myself deal with procrastination and anxiety. I get anxious when I don’t complete the tasks I am supposed to make (because I know the consequences of that), but my coping mechanism is procrastination, which leads to me further pushing back my work. Which leads to further anxiety. It’s an obviously toxic situation that I wouldn’t have gotten in if I wasn’t late in my work in the first place, but it’s something that often feels beyond my control. And as other INTP’s might relate to, I have trouble processing my own emotions, I process them through logical deduction rather than directly means that I take longer, which means anxiety, when it actually hits, hits hard and I often don’t even know why.
So whenever I start to lose patience, I tell myself, what’s obvious to us might not be obvious to them (and vice versa). We might be vaguely aware but a blind spot is always the one you last consider. If I myself am allowed to have my difficulties, then the others have the same right to their own blind spots.
@@tairakeimei I totally relate to what you said! It takes me a lot of effort to actually get the job done. Especially when it’s not urgent it is very easy for me to procrastinate doing something so far into the distance…
And the other thing that I noticed that INTPs struggle with everyday jobs like washing dishes and doing homework. I think it’s associated with us liking to waste as little energy as possible on doing things that aren’t considered worthwhile to us. We prefer directing all our attention towards something that is mentally stimulating or enjoyable for us.
my bestfriend is an INTP and is brutally honest. her honesty might hurt sometimes but what i've noticed is she is always logical and is always right. she's really someone i can rely on. she's really matured about things and is a peacemaker. i'm an INFP and i'm really weak when it comes to honest criticisms because i'm quite emotional and tend to take things very seriously at heart and she always voices her honest opinions but somehow our friendship works. we both know how to adjust and she understands me the best. we've been friends for years but despite our differences i think only the two of us actually understands each other the most.
Hey intp here and sorry but it seems you described your friend being good for you but haven't explainrd why your good for them.
I'm only saying this cause I was best friends with an infp like you described, I was always honest bout what I thought/brutal honesty to help my friend and it always seems to be taken for granted at first, like you said after your emotions calm down you realize she was right but on the other end she just had to deal with your emotions and probably got frustrated a bunch
Not frustrated in the moment necessarily but in the culmination of emotional outburst while she was right the whole time
So it's like you get character development thanks to your friend
But Id like to know what do you think you done for your friend
Btw not trying to be hostile or anything just curious
@@shaquandavis4292 well she said i always feed her ego😂
@@shaquandavis4292 our relationship is kinda weird cause were sort of opposites but our interests in some things also overlap. So we kind of like take places feeding each others' egos from time to time. Lol
Sounds like I'm listening to a mirror recap of my friendship lol 😂 but hope you guys can strive together
As an INTP, I hate it when people don’t think I’m conveying the proper emotions, so they check, repeatedly, to see if I’m “okay.”
One of best on intps. Society has a hostile setup against the quiet, unassuming, intuitive intp. Unless raised in a supportive climate they aren’t prepared for what hits them. Sad, they have alot to offer.
They hate us just bc we have albert einstein as one of us
lmao
And, he was treated the same way. They didn't deserve his allegiance.
@@DarkPegasus87 They really interrupted him. th-cam.com/video/F9C_1uaaioM/w-d-xo.html
We also have Patrick from SpongeBob.
@@alana9478 ¯\(◉‿◉)/¯
INTP being the scapegoat is so accurate... sad
Very sad
INTPs.. arguably the most intelligent personality type, yet one of the most hated, shunned and misunderstood by others.
INTPs need a civilised society in order to thrive. So ... why is it so difficult to have a civilised society?
Humans are barbaric at best. They will slaughter each other, or worse, pretend to care about each other while fantasizing about slaughtering each other.
Everyone wants to be in charge of it. People can't agree on what a civilized society even is.
That is true
Wow this is all so true. I was and am always blamed. Have always had to pick myself up. No one has ever been there for me emotionally. The few times I get knocked down, no one bats an eye but if they get knocked down...everyone runs for their rescue. I have always had to figure things out myself. Surprisingly my elementary teachers also couldn't stand me like the video said.
No I wasn’t endured to elem teachers, they tried to figure out what was wrong with me
Same.. and that's why I decided to be the person I always needed at my worst. So when life knocks me down and no one bothers to care about it, I just know that I'm there for myself and I ain't giving up on me no matter what:)
Shet, this is legit me.
Yep! Being the scapegoat of everything is the story of my life. As an INTP I choose not to defend myself because I very much lack how I should dosage my anger towards my prosecutors. So I dial it back to zero. My survival strategy is to befriend extroverts in such manner that we have a symbiotic relationship. They will always automatically jump to my defense like the ghoul watching ovet the vampire in his coffin.
Good idea to have an extrovert to be your goalie
people are too insecure in their own way, we're just minding our own business really and all they do is gossip and place the blame on us if we don't conform to their unnatural behaviours smh
Lol that describes it perfectly... people don't understand what we're trying to do
Wow, I’ve experienced both worlds, more recently falling into a toxic one, professionally. I’ve found insecurity can be a powerful motivator to keep INTPs from exercising their strengths, as higher ranking members of the organization see people like us as threats to their position. I’m sure other INTPs are familiar with the “look,” the moment when people react with apprehension, after their instincts flag us as anomalous. Life with other people can be difficult, but if we maintain our foundation, we can overcome, gain the support of others, find compassion, love, and [most likely] displace those who attempt to keep us down... Hopefully all is well with everyone in the comments, including the creator of this video themselves. We are all here for each other, remember that. Thank you for the content, thought provoking, as always.
'Flagged as anomalous', succinctly sums up the entire drift of the video.
We should form a group and take over the world, one country at the time. I hate it that the ones on top are not the sharpest tool but just a bunch of empty barrels making the most noise.
I KNOW that look, it always makes me second guess myself 🙄 and I always wonder what I did to get that look from people
I knew it! I knew it wasn't my just my imagination. I used to vocalize this as a kid to my mom and she used to tell me stuff like: "Ohhh here we go again! whaat??! why do you really think people are staring at you?? oh please, that's your imagination like always"
Throughout the years, she backpedaled because she realized I was correct and accepted indeed, there are some people on the street or whatever who stare at me angrily or just stare out of nowhere. Sometimes, when I'm with a friend talking, their eyes wander around and then they tell me stuff like: "... uhh, when u say x thing, the people behind us look at this direction", "... man... uhm, why X people over there are just looking at us right now? do they know you?"
I still encounter some stuff like that on my daily basis. Usually happens when someone tries to slide their "hidden agenda", but then get "caught" by me and ask them certain questions or overall question their positions. Even after that, and I still question myself sometimes: "...perhaps they're were right", "perhaps I was rude indeed", "what am I doing wrong?"
I have countless of exampless
Like a few weeks ago; I went to some swimming training and the trainer literally stared at me angrily OUT OF NOWHERE I sweaar (it was literally my first day) and she didn't talk to me when I tried to reach out to say hi and present myself. Since then I took a "alright, fuck u then"-stance smh
Yeah, it gets to a point where our thirst for learning triggers their insecurities even though we don't care about taking their position. Naturally, we do end up taking over positions of incompetent people who are just going through the motions mindlessly, but it is never our goal. I have come to the conclusion to not care about someone's opinion or actions towards me if they are acting from a point of insecurity. Their emotions and thought process are usually irrational throughout this state.
We are most intelligent personality but still other personalities don't give us a fuck
"they do not cope"
Me an INTP with crippling depression who uses weed and coffee to find a balance.
Oh, it's was my toxic upbringing... Bahahahahah! Makes sense though.
¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I'll laugh at my failure of not being independent, so what's new?
always felt like ive been punished for being myself
standing up for others, sometimes physically, i was left standing alone
teachers said "you're smart, but lazy and incompetent, so we're giving up on you"
don't feel like sharing more, feel like i can slip
An INTP that has matured and is comfortable and even proud of his view on the world, who can hate them. They are the most insightful people, understand you sometimes better than you do your self and they ask almost nothing in return. Just time and space. Often the demand for time and space is take personally as if someone is not interested or involved in you, but that's not the case.
This struck home hard. Not because I hadn't already realized this, but because it was outside confirmation of my internal realization. I'm not sure if I should thank you for confirming my beliefs, or be disappointed that you removed the last shred of hope that there might be a different explanation that I had not considered. In the end, I suppose it really doesn't matter. The truth will always be the truth, whether we accept or not.
I would gently suggest looking at the comment I posted. The video may be validation of what you feel because others feel it, but it’s not the truth. And I don’t want anyone feeling hopeless due to distorted beliefs.
You can't hate what you never loved. The real enemies are people who feel nothing at all for you.
Very interesting. At 64 I discovered MBTI and that I was an INTP. Looking back I see obvious patterns, but had thought that the reason I was perhaps ignored or mistreated was that I was shy and quiet, and figured that anyone like that in society will be treated that way.
Use Ti to develop your Fe... DO... IT... NOW... It's the cause of all this... you have two choices ... continue going down the path of failure or adopt to the game of a feelings based society. Yes. I know its BullShxt, but the other option is to live life as a failure and resenting every moment of it because you know for a fact that you're more capable and competent than most people. Dont wait for motivation. It only comes in bursts for us. As an INTP who excels in social situations(not because I like it but because I've practiced) I'm telling you to do it because you're future depends on it. ✌🏾👽
Do you get what you want now?
Agreed.
Fe is it’s own logical system.
Situation + person (personality) + past experiences => inputs out corresponding reaction. And thus any “emotional” reaction makes sense in the logic system of the person exhibiting them.
How to reacting in social groups is a language of communication. And although it is not our “native language” or something we might personally value, it’s important to consider how different people with different “languages” communicate and that their priorities are different than our own, and thus that communicating in the person’s native “language” is important to get the message across.
@@aliz609 I get most things I want. Im only human so just like everyone else ... I still take L's, but those L's are no longer as a result of my social incompetence. Once Ti is free of the burdens that Fe causes us in daily life ... it becomes a super power because we can focus all that extra mental energy into figuring things out that most people struggle with and having those revelations be automatically filtered through the emotional social contexts that we usually get stomped at. Once we learn to deliver ourselves in the social and emotional languages that most people operate under then all the things we already know about ourselves becomes revealed to others and we gain a lot more respect and love for it. Imagine your computer (a robot) who could think about and figure pretty much anything out to aide you in life became a concious being who could communicate with you on a human level ... imagine how great that friend could be .... That could be us. 😁✌️🕉
💓✨Thank you so much 💕
INTP is THE shadow. There is no escaping their scope.
The Shadow knows!" - spoken by actor Frank Readick, has earned a place in the American idiom.
...
The Shadow
First appearance Detective Story Hour (July 31, 1930) (radio) "The Living Shadow" (April 1, 1931) (print)
wow, I am in my forties and just took the test recently. It helps to understand that my personality is rare, finally I understand why I always feel like the odd one out and why nobody understands me. I have friends but not close friends. Am perfectly fine being alone and yes a civilised society will be good for me. I wish I had taken the test or known this earlier so that I went on the right career. Well I guess there is a price for being unique.
INTP-T. I was bullied throughout elementary and middle school because of my indifference to most situations, apparently, it's weird to not care about popular kids' new shoes I only made one friend and that is because we became neighbors. I attended high school with said friend and I met an INFJ, my other friend was popular and didn't really give much attention. Thanks to my INFJ friend who happens to be a drama queen sometimes, I've learned how to react to simple situations, even though it is tiring. After a while of adapting to people through her, I eventually started saying what people want to hear, I avoid rash situations that may get out of hand easily such as arguments, I'd just go back to my usual blunt self when I argue and a lot of people would yell at me and try to attack me for it. Thankfully my INFJ friend is kind and tall and the kids at my school are scared of tall people and my other friend loves a scene so they would defend me. And so I only have two friends. That is a summary of how I coped with humanity as an INTP, through manipulation and deceit. Though sometimes I'd feel burnt out because of my facade. I would usually tell my friends I'm tired or hungry, to them my being constantly tired and hungry is a part of my 'timid, kind and blunt' personality. They seem to like me more when I'm kind and honest. ( No I couldn't pick up anything from my parents other than my anger issues due to me having to deal with them fighting for some dumb sh!t every day.)
*humanity is a disgusting race*
In a media of “feel good” presentations with little insight, this video is incredibly accurate and packed with honest truth! The is literally the best video I’ve ever seen on TH-cam. Thank you!
I’m an INFP and my best friend is an INTP. I truly have so much respect and love for him. Our duo is dynamic. Really! We’re two halves of a whole. I truly don’t know what i’d do without him. I’m honestly making it my mission to learn more about INTP’s so I can better understand him and even help him in his times of needing comfort.
Its not only the fact that some people cannot process the idea of being contradicted or someone who doesn't believe in the social norm, but also that people in the end are predictable, from a young age I have studied people, how they react to things and anytime I try to show who I truly am to anyone in my family or friend group I am treated with disdain and looks that convey that they think I am stupid and overdramatic. They always want to see the happy-go-lucky and reckless side of me. All this has led to me manipulating people. I'm not saying doing this is the right thing, but its the only way I can cope and traverse this world, by becoming a chameleon until I find someone who can understand me.
Out of curiosity, who truly are you? How do you act/be or want to act/be?
@@digithuman Good question
I hold a pain similar to yours. I’m sorry
What books would be good to learn this?
Being an intp I feel like I’m tapped in a world full of bots!!! People seem dumb to me! The topics I love to engage in are all topics that go over the masses heads!! They’re too plugged in to the matrix! This real world with fake narratives and motives! Lol I need an intp club or something!
Do it.
We will join
Yes please.
Let's start one on Telegram
@@dintleramafikeng5355 I'm not on telegram.
I have found a way to stop people hating you!
Just never talk to anyone until they leave you alone!
They hate us now, but one day they will beg us for forgiveness and we just might think about considering it
Awwwww🥺.”destined for failure” that’s so sad. A girl I used to see was an INTP and she was a wreck, now it all makes sense
It feels like this video was made by a teen INTP to other teen INTPs. All I can see here is aversion to our inferior function, Fe, and aversion to developing it.
The content is presented so much in a "welcoming" way at the beginning that it's hard not to agree with it, but I should say I'm afraid young INTPs may watch this and distance themselves more and more from society.
No man is an island - even you need to be allocated somewhere somehow in society. INTPs who work with what they like and present expertise in their field of study are often regarded as reliable, and they'll often thrive and achieve happiness.
If you're a young INTP, don't let this thing eat your mind. You're much more than just a walking thought. You're able to become the life of parties with Ne humor. You're able to impress people with all the facts and curiosities you've stored in your Si. Finally, you're able to prove yourself reliable, someone people can count on with Fe.
Also, if you're in an environment where men pick on you and women disregard you because you're too quiet, you're most probably in school. My significant other is ESFP and we're very much in love with each other.
Yours truly,
a 30 year old INTP.
yea my third grade teacher would complain to my parents almost daily and i got punished the whole year for literally nothing
people just don't like us when we talk to much. so speak when we needed it
‘Most INTPs are destined for failure’ I feel that. High IQ, low SQ, low EQ. I’m supposed to have all the intelligence to make life work but I can’t. Issues with authority, people, keep losing jobs. Did autism tests, scores really highly. Awaiting assessment. Became heavily absorbed in DID, just because, what an amazing way for the young brain to cope with trauma! It’s genius! Five alters did the Mbti. So then I’m doing the test. Result: INTP-T.
My biggest fear: I still can’t make life work, so what if I have most of the traits of aspergers but it’s not aspergers, it’s just my personality type, so then I can’t get any help to try and get through life even though I’m struggling in a very similar way. Because I can’t carry on like this
What should we do we find life boring
This seems like my life this year, holy crap. I was told I may have autism (Asperger's) by my mother. I was shocked, like a good INTP, I started to research and read a lot about it. Of course, I found the similarities, I was quite accepting, but I let it get to me. Suddenly I'm told I could have a condition which makes me behave like I do. Then, who the hell am I? Am I just a condition? All this time what makes me me, was it all a lie? Then I found out INTPs are usually associated with autism, but it's just the way we are, not a condition. I researched even more, and finally made peace with myself, not autism just a misunderstood and cool personality, highly intelligent, blunt af and sometimes seemingly cold or robotic. Sorry for the rant, but your comment reminded me of my situation this year. I hope everything is going good now in your life
Who was it who said “Hell is other people”?
Jean-Paul Sartre
But even Shakespeare said before: "Hell is empty and all the devils are here"
@@Tilnaor On the world: 'Things rank and gross in nature, possess it merely', from Hamlet, springs to mind, also.
I feel this one. I don't understand how people humor a single thing my sister says and begin to laugh out of their mind while I'm at the sidelines watching expretionless and they watch me like weirded ot face.
my brother would make mean jokes to my face in front of my family and then my family would get mad at me for being upset…
"HOW DARE YOU SIT QUIETLY AS WE ALL JUMP FOR OUR SPORTS TEAM!" I don't think they relaize how dumb they sound, but this how they sound to me. T___T
Yep get get off your but and cheer squeal for the team
Intps are honestly my favorite type. They are hilarious. They can cut through my tough exterior like butter.
Wow this perfectly explains an internal dilemma I’ve had for as long as I can remember. Thank you for posting this. It’s extremely comforting and validating.
Honestly, even they hate me or not, i still "I don't care"
I think friending a fellow INTP would be better, than other personality types
So do you want to be friends?-intp
Success is the best revenge; its silence is noticed more by those who have rejected.
The silence of success? Nani?
“Success has many fathers but failure is an orphan.”
I love INTPs for those very things. -infp
If we don’t die a hero we live long enough to be the villain
Questions for the other personalities. Do you want us around? Do you even recognize how you may actually by nature be hurtful? Hey, INFJ, wanna counsel me? (didn’t think so) Tell me how to FEEL that most descriptions of us are inhuman.
@ST!LL MYK!LL we do care. Very much. We just don't show it. An INTP will show little to no reaction when people hurt us. but the we go home and basically mentally destroy ourselves over whatever happened.
@ST!LL MYK!LL yeah. I tell myself that all the time. I eventually learned to control it.
INFJ here and well no because INTPs are terrible to speak with because they cannot take criticism or admit that they are wrong. I'm also a logical INFJ and well yea INTP is a no go for me. I don't do this thing called "feelings over facts" but INTPs do that crap 24/7 which irks the hell out of me.
If you actually want people to converse with you, you must first, be enjoyable to converse with and be accepting of others, something that INTPs fail HORRIBLY at.
@@tsuyu1181 I score as an INTP according to the test and my wife, who scores as an ESFJ. I do care about my feelings and I do show my feelings. I also care about your feelings. I ponder how I may have hurt someone or someone may have hurt me and I make adjustments. Notice that I said PONDER that is different from vomiting every single emotion I have at every moment of the day.
My wife knows that when my emotions come out they are real, or planned, or I'm overwhelmed. She has heard some criticisms about me personally or the "INTP personality" and has said, "they don't get it, you're the only relationship I've had that I know what a person really feels...when you kiss me I feel it to my toes because it is so honest and when you buy me flowers I know that you have been planning it in the budget, where to buy, when to buy, what kind to buy, you've been thinking about it for a couple of days." I've read else where that INTPs and ESFJs match because they secretly admire each other, that the hidden goal of an INTP is to be the wise ESFJ and visa versa.
INTPs do take criticism, most everyday when they interact with people. I understand that feelings are the least reliable decision makers, the intellect is more reliable, the will the most reliable. The intellect is the least reliable motivator, and the emotions are a better motivator. Understand you may motivate us with feels and feely arguments but you haven't convinced us.
enough said - a typical INTP over share
As an INTP, I had to learn the hard way why slang words exist and why other people offended by it.
I never received a logical explanation and whenever I asked why was it so offensive to those peers who talk to me, they act as if I'm innately supposed to know it's just offensive cause people said so.
I tell them with honesty that is not the case as words like fuck with their etymological meaning was a sound that described swatting a scarecrow in corn fields, that was "fucking".
It is a fact and I have no intention of insult or demean I'm laying down a known fact and asking what changed for it to be so offensive? I understand that fucking is basically now the sound of the pelvic regions of the bodies hitting each other and making a sound as the man thrusts his penis inside the woman. It makes sense that, this is the actual modern derivate of fuck but why is it offensive.
Safe to say, I didn't have those peers to talk to anymore cause I was "treating them lesser than me with knowledge" and "not understanding basic general social norms"
I figured it out, the reason normies don't like it is because it is associated with people who do difficult dangerous and/or dirty work. People who get offended are almost always outside of that category and want to feel superior, so they drill into their kids that saying words like it lowers their worth. But, honestly, fuck those people.
if the person doesnt understand that slang word they will not be offended by it. Rather its your expression that express the meaning of that slang words that could make people offended.
However for people who understand that slang word, there's already an understanding in their head, and they attach negative meaning to that word. So when you use that slang word, they will associate that bad thing to you.
I so want to test this by swatting a scarecrow now...but it sounds mean somehow.
@@Pengalen It's usually using a cane to swat the scarecrow after rain to dry it off.
Try it, as far as my research goes, that action was "fucking" historically
@@yoyoyoa I understand the slang but I don't understand it's "offensive" nature, word such as "cunt" is word that comes from "cunnus" (vulva) in latin, a word describe the vagina. Whereas vagina in and of itself is historically a "sheath" basically it's a house for the sword.
In other words, vagina is a house for the penis that's how this word is intended, yet for some reason vagina is a fine word to use in biology class, cunt is offensive. It doesn't sit well logically with me.
Okay. I say this as an INFP woman in her early thirties who has personally experienced depression and abuse, and who likes and cares very much about INTPs. This is an extremely, extremely unhealthy video. And I understand why so many identify with it, from the creator to those in the comments. But as someone who has been there, I need you to recognize that your thinking in reaction to your hurt has distorted your beliefs severely.
First, this severely dehumanized other people. I know people are hurtful. But it is very, very dangerous to take this to the point of seeing yourself as the only evolved human amidst a bunch of mere animals. I know you’re hurt. But you’re defending your own self-worth by crushing your view of humanity as a whole, and you have to see how easily that will eventually cause you to become the cruel, uncaring monster the writer accuses the rest of humanity as being.
It’s not uncommon for people to find themselves in social circles that don’t appreciate the kind of person they are - yes, including family. But you need to keep searching. And don’t stop when you find someone who validates you intellectually, but also falls into the trap of seeing all humanity as sheep, as above. They will sour you and make you bitter. Find instead people who are smart as well as *kind.* There are plenty out there. Search. Don’t give up.
Next, read up on and practice healthy boundaries and communication around them. I understand if it’s hard to exercise this with hurtful family - begin learning with friends. Hell, tell them you’re learning this so they can help you as well from their end. Rather than becoming bitter about how you’re constantly being walked all over, practice calmly and firmly telling people you aren’t available for that.
Genuinely, I highly recommend the advice podcast Dear Prudence, which is hosted by Daniel Lavery, a trans man with highly abusive family, so, he really does know what it’s like. He gives incredible advice, and as another sensitive personality type, his influence has gone a long way to helping me be better able to navigate conflict and deal with feelings that come up when others get upset with you. I’ve become a much healthier person thanks to him.
And then, I really want to address how this video speaks about women. Women can of course be abusive, just as men can. I will never deny that. And I know it’s not necessarily about romantic relationships - this could be about mothers, teachers, etc. But nevertheless, the rhetoric towards the end of the video edges very much into incel territory. The fact is, there is always hope for having a relationship. But you need to be emotionally healthy, both to find a relationship and to maintain it. Hell, I myself am in the early stages of dating an INTP. I can tell he correctly typed himself, and he is compassionate and understanding, along with his intelligence. When he’s awkward or makes little social errors, I don’t judge him for it and if necessary we can discuss how to handle something better in the future, because it’s clear from his character and kindness that nothing he has said or done comes from malice, or superiority, or anything of the kind. The fact is, just as I said at the beginning of this that it’s possible to find kind and intelligent friends who love you for you, it’s also possible to find kind and intelligent friends who are *in* love with you for you.
Lest anyone say “but you’re a girl, it’s different for you,” I want to be extremely clear, I have had my own struggles finding love (while I have hope for how things will turn out with this INTP, I can’t know the future and so I’m technically still looking).
I’m fat, and for a very long time was afraid that quite literally, no one would want to even touch me. Add to that, I had to leave my husband because he was emotionally abusive and sexually coercive - I’d genuinely decribe him as a leftist incel. But after having left him a few years ago, I began dating this year, and guess what? I was upfront about being fat and plenty of men still clicked on my profile. And guess what? I also don’t care if a man is fat. Never have. So I want to make it abundantly clear, it is false to say that appearance is all women OR men care about. Or else, that your appearance is one that no one wants.
And hey, let’s bring this full circle to what I was addressing at the beginning. I’m an abuse victim. I’m deeply afraid of allowing myself to get attached to someone, because if the relationship doesn’t work out, it will be very hard for me to leave. Once I hit a certain threshold of trust in them, I love easily, and with all of myself. And know one of the things I’m scared of? That due to all that abuse and the emotions that will come up, *even within a healthy relationship,* the other person will reject me, because I cry too much. I’m afraid they’ll see me as overly sensitive and emotional and clingy - sound familiar? Because it reminds me a lot of the derogatory way this video describes all other “irrational, non-enlightened” humans.
I’ve described in detail the kind of person I am. Now imagine an unhealthy INTP meets me. I’d be capable of loving them. Totally. But would they be capable of the patience and understanding and gentleness to deal with ME? Would THEY be capable of loving? Because I can imagine a scenario where someone like me is dismissed, not because I had done anything wrong, but because the INTP has leaned into their bitterness towards the world so deeply that they no longer have patience or empathy. Frankly, I would never become attracted to that particular INTP, because I would see their sense of wounded self-defensive superiority... and know they would only hurt me in return.
Cause again, guess what? My abusive ex was not an INTP, but what he WAS, was depressed, and wounded, and bitter. And I understood why. And I still loved him. And I tried to help him. And his bitterness turned on me as well.
To be very clear, I’m not saying anyone here in an incel or abusive. What I am giving is a warning. A warning, from an INxP who genuinely cares and understands, of who you could become if you embrace these modes of thinking. Of one place that path may lead. And, I am giving a lantern. There are ways out of that darkness. I have been down them. Follow the light. Learn how. Don’t let yourself be dragged down into darkness. Your minds are beautiful. And I belive you can find your way out.
@Sahdirah
Please do not assume malice from my earlier statements.
If INTPs choose actively to participate, especially after they suffered such scenarios repeated, it is not from a sense of superiority, closer to a sense of compassion, even if they can not understand their own emotional state. Being in a relationship with an INTP, you would often see little gestures, giving away food, helping people and not asking or expecting anything. More common even when the other person is a complete stranger.
The scenario I have presented is an amalgam of the most severe cases encountered over 20 years.
There are also common responses collected on the question and when filtering for INTPs, the responses stay within two primary ranges.
Avoidance/Discretion.
Self-sacrifice.
Having been through similar scenarios personally, even if the stakes were never that high, I would be lying if I didn't agree with a variety of these answers.
A factor that I see absent from this discussion is the realization that for a healthy INTP, there is no such thing as hatred or disgust, granted they do not experience love, affection, attachment or joy in the same way, but that same underdeveloped part of the their brain that can not understand it's own emotions also can not process the negative emotions either. To simplify, the spectrum is the same, the intensity is very different and in times of stress, can be disabled along side all the functions that are associated with sentience and self-preservation.
The truest irony of it would be that for their inherently higher average intelligence and knowledge, an can be reduced very easily into a mindless animal with only the instinct to protect whoever/whatever they value, to kill and die without a though.
@@arsalansaeed5418Had to look up your comment thread - no, I don't see malice in what you said. Only a lot of sadness and cynicism. If it helps, what I wrote was not addressed to you, or to anyone here in particular, but to INTP viewers as a whole. You'll have to be the judge of what parts of what I wrote apply to your own situation. At its core, my point is that the video (and the comments section) speaks to a specific kind of hurt many INTPs face, and the specific distorted thinking that appears as a result of that kind of hurt, in that kind of person. I want readers to understand that it IS distorted thinking, while acknowledging their pain, so that you can recognize your need to develop a more balanced view of humanity as a whole, and hopefully, to give you a few tools, and some hope, to get you there.
@@Sahdirah
As an INTP, I am not truly committed to the content of the video being a definitive.
INTPs generally suffer from child abuse, parental and social neglect, sibling rivalry and abuse, teacher neglect and abuse and treated as social pariahs.
They mostly do not even recognize this as abnormal, beyond the fact that Survival requires withdrawal from the negativity.
The healthy INTP, maintains a focus on learning, producing and self improvement. This being a behavior that society demands, but people do not support frequently, due to emotional responses.
@@arsalansaeed5418 Abuse is sadly very, very common. I wish you luck healing, and a supportive circle.
Thanks for that intimate explanation. As an I appreciate your viewpoint. I hope you find a healthy love 🥰
Thank you. The last line almost made me cry. I had very good grades in high school and joined a good college to get a degree in physics. I had decided to try romance when I went to college and so I did, and I failed. Heartbroken I left college and did music for 3 years, while also giving math tuitions to high schoolers. Then my students suggested me to join in an open university ( imagine community College, where you only have classes on Saturdays and Sunday) . My brother motivated me a lot and I joined college taking maths major, now I am doing my PhD in number theory and although I never was very motivated or ambitious, yet I somehow slipt through the cracks to get into PhD .
Whenever I failed my family helped me calm down and continue and I have received a lot of love from my teachers, classmates and colleagues and students . Now I move in a group( PhD scholars in my institute), they take care of me and even though I don't really go to their rooms or call or text them all day long they love me still, and that makes me happy.
This is so accurate it’s sad
The modern world slowly fights against the babaric past and present.
It's good to see a lot of people here in the same boat as me. It makes me happy knowing that I'm not alone nor abnormal and there are so many people just like me:)
That was a really good video! Today was the first time that a colleague yelled at me, hung up, didn’t pick up when I called, then did call back and yelled some more :( just because there was a communication problem and he didn’t understand my point of view or I was t able to explain it in a way that got through to him... Nearly nobody at work gets me and they don’t want to hear what I have to say because I only see problems. I think - yes I see and solve all the problems, so why are you not listening!!??? I need to get another job
Dude I was waiting so long for it, no one to take this topic thx
Im in disagreement with the upbringing part - I'm consious enough to understand I wont be the type you'll read about but I grew up in a toxic and unhealthy family yet im doing well for myself. I dont beleive the "Virtually Impossible" to recover.
I was having a mental breakdown from an argument. And you can guess, I was all alone while that person decide to tell everybody and gang up on me. Well, I just hope they can grow up faster, because it is Honestly a small matter. She can discuss with me and reject my idea properly, no need to assume things I didn’t do. I fucking hate my life right now. Being an INTP sucks man.
yea it does
Advice for younger intp who feel stuck in life , looking for a change?
Study psychology to understand human behavior. Interact with other types on a deeper level as a means to learn.
I think my most constant friend is INT? too come to think of it. We catch up a few times a year. She is not too needy or clingy. No drama. But always there to meet up or text and talk about life and not in a one-sided way. Very comfy. It's like we get each other.
INTP's are human beings. Beings who can learn & improve.
This explanation isn't accurate. It only pretends to resonate with the desperation a person who is not understood can feel. But life is still interesting and beautiful, so what an INTP needs is to UNDERSTAND LIFE and opens his/her eyes to do the best (growth is the matter, not a futile John Doe's approval), not a resonant linear point of view.
The more I live the more I experience the more I experience the more I confirm the more I confirm the more battles I can expect to come and the more battles that come the stronger I get!🙇🏽♂️🙏🏽🏆🤴🏽💯🙇🏽♂️😇💘😈
This is how true monsters are born.
I don’t think people hate me, but I just don’t socialize much because I get over-stimulated. I limit social events and I’m not a very good friend because I need so much alone time. So it’s on me, not others.
this is so beyond right on !!!!
I like being alone, more than being with someone, but of course i feel lonely sometime, i am still a human afterall
I was in the checkout line when I got a glimpse of an old acquaintance that I hadn't talked to in a couple of years and so I tried to pretend like I didn't see her and I heard her say I didn't want to talk to you anyways very rudely and turned around. I felt so bad but that's just me the rude woman who pretends I didn't see you to get out of talking. I know people and their motives they never want to talk they want to nose into your life or brag about theirs. Maybe I'm wrong and maybe she wasn't even talking to me but it was weird how I tried to pretend I didn't see her and she said that right behind me. The woman was rude to say that so why do I feel so bad? I could go the rest of my life not saying another word to this woman and be just fine but I feel so bad for someone thinking of me as a snob. I'm OK with hi how are you but I know this person they want to ask me questions and I'm very private. Do any INTPs out there understand how I feel or am I just a an awful snob?
Yea i do this all the time isnt taken very well. Most people can't understand this because it's natural to want to socialize, i use to think i just hated people but i think intps just know what is coming.people are predictable we can literally play the convo in our head. We dont like socializing because of the judgment and meaningless conversations not because were less human and wouldnt want to socialize.
@@lelelew2735 I love conversations that are not personal. When it gets personal I feel very uncomfortable. People that I know that don't make me feel uncomfortable or guilty after talking to them I don't avoid and enjoy them. I don't like the conversation on me but would rather keep it on funny and less serious topics.
@@Angel-gb9gi I feel that. I hate small talk and assume they dont really care how i am anyway they just want to know the info to gossip.
In elementary school, I loved school! Because I loved learning new stuff. I always got along with my teachers because I admired their superior knowledge. I am definitely an INTP because I have checked and rechecked, as most INTPs do. But in that respect I seem to be an outlier.
INTPs shouldn't give a shit about stupidity & irrationality...if people are wrong then it is better if they would stay away...we don't need more problems...already we have alot.!! One should learn to enjoy his or her company as an INTP...!!
Damn. Way to be pessimistic much. Shit. I'm staving off an existential crisis turning to self discovery and I hear "most INTPs are destined for failure". 😟
You can always safely assume that your definition of failure is different from _their_ definition of failure. To each different person, failure may mean something different, so what accounts as failure to them may not be so horrible to you.
Most intp are destined for failure? I’m not an intp, but that was pretty mean..
Me ESFJ like INTP. We may have misunderstandings but we learn from each other and grow together, so in the end we both might share on some level good emotional or logical talk❤
"Half baked conviction"? I know 2. BBC Sherlock, Cumberbach. Was my turning point in understanding them.
Small talk and conversation is easy for me. I'm generally a confident person and I like talking to people but the problem is I don't really want anyone in my life. It feels bad but it's true. I've learned how to react in every situation but I somehow still don't know how to connect to people. I can't even imagine falling in love
I wonder what the average age is here? I wonder, but I'm not asking. I'm most likely an INTP. I haven't found a better fit, anyway. I remember feeling these things more acutely when I was younger. It lasted into about my mid twenties. I got treated badly at times because of my nature. It was very alienating. I've taken my turn being angry and bitter. Also, kind and well meaning people tried to tell me I should talk more. I still hate parties. I prefer to take people one a time. Anyway, I understand feeling the pressure to have a different personality.
Sometime during my teens I said to myself ENOUGH! This is me. From now on I like myself. Nobody but me gets to form my opinion. That's why I don't think it is necessary to ask why people hate INTPs. It is irrelevant. People don't hate INTPs. I would say people don't understand INTPs. Fair enough. I don't understand the obsession with small talk.
Think of your personality as having a built in filter that repels the unpleasant people without you having to exert any effort. (That should appeal to you! More time to think about stuff.)
That said, there are plenty of people who love INTPs. Imagine talking to the same kind of people all the time always about nothing and then one day you talk to somebody who runs deeeep, who thinks things through, and seems to know everything. I love being in a conversation with a new person when they realize they've stumbled into a different kind of intellect. There are plenty of people out there who know how valuable your observation and analysis are.
Now I realize that it might be counterintuitive, but I strive to be pleasant. I learn people's names with whom I associate, and I say hi in passing. No sense in driving everyone off. I remember how hard it was to learn to social smile. It was like speaking with an fake accent. It felt so weird and dishonest. Now it's second nature and I have more opportunities for real smiles.
I know I'm too much for some people. That's okay. They have other people who are a better fit, and so do I.
Edit: lol. Nobody's going to read this. Just look how long this comment is. If you read it, I sincerely hope it helps.
Age and gender:
47.7% Female; 52.3% Male
13-17yo = 4.8%
18-24yo = 33.6%
25-34yo = 33.33%
35-44yo = 16.2%
45-54yo = 8.3%
55-64yo = 2.5%
65+yo = 1.3%
Thanks for your comment!
lol, they dont want me as a friend but they hate me when I mind my own business, tell em to sit in syrup and I'm the mean one
I have a hard time focusing on what the person is saying cause those nature sights are soooo pretty! 😍
Can we get a list of all the places??? 🥰
I think I recognize the landscape at1:51. It's Punta Cometa in Mazunte, Oaxaca!
There goes the rest of my self-esteem 😞😔
The subtitles for this are genius
Prepare yourself with humor and sarcasm, so that enable yourself to verbally beat those trying to insult you. Don't be afraid to cause a little bit of embarrassment in social occasions, just not to far. If you do so at least they'll respect you.
Thank you.
wait people hate us?!?!