No Friends, No Wife, and No Social Life. I explain why my life is like this currently due to traumatic experiences that I went through to arrive at this point in my life. Like, Comment, and Subscribe!
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
I’m 42, no husband, no friends, no social life… and looking back, I realize this is the BEST time of my life. Peace is priceless. Some may judge and think this is sad, but I love it.
Growing up, I thought differently, but nowadays, I agree entirely. I always see things as " do I want to divide my precious time by 2?" No, I don't, but I'm not bitter at all. Let them judge. We're at liberty to spend every day as we wish 👌
I'm 39, not married, have no children, stopped talking to my toxic family, and no social life either. But it's the best thing for me in this season of my life. I have to take care of my mental well-being. I'm alone but not lonely, and I enjoy my own company😊.
There are 5 critical moments that impact a man's life. The death of your father. Getting your heart broken. Being broke. Being betrayed by your best friend. Realizing that no one is coming to save you. I have unfortunately gotten this BINGO, and even before all 5 happened I have been a loner. And as they have come to fruition, I have isolated even more. I love it, really. Ive had enough drama and hardship to last a lifetime. Now, at 45 almost 46 I look forward to my alone time to self reflect and not be sucked into the chaos that being around people brings.
Yes brother, you are on target with these 5 things🎯Thanks for sharing your perspective, very enlightening. I appreciate that and wish you all the best as well 💯
that's sad shit bro... don't let your down. Because all this happened for a reason. And this reason will make you stronger than ever, to help you find your true path, your own way, that one do you need. And it doesn't matter if friend or love gone, it's mean only one thing, they never ever be your close people for real. Everything passing, and what comes around goes around, don't worry about that. Today your on the top, next day your done, that's life and i feel when you come across these hardships, you will be grateful for this times. And you will find your one close man or woman, and it will be forever and it will be better than ever, just never change for yourself and this will happen, once again brother.
I'm also 41. No family, wife, girlfriend, friend. Life is work, eat, sleep every Mon-Fri, eat and sleep every weekend and public holidays. It has been that way for the majority of my adult years.
I hadn't thought of it that way - but you are right! That's why I "need" so much alone time, to reenergize myself. Because people are def energy drainers. Darn EVs !!! They want my blood !!! 🩸
@rizenfly friendship needs time , why not start writing with someone and see how things go, with age our needs change and friends is a word , nay not be spoken lightly, it means loyalty and unconditionally giving love and appreciation to someone without wanna gain anything , especially not financial interests. I also spent lots of time alone, but that is ok, still I am open but with lots of time. 😊
I’m 41 and a millionaire never been married and never will, I have no kids. Get into growth stock swing trading if you want to have something fun to do 24/7 researching stocks and making money
Whoever said more money more problems got it wrong... It's actually more people more problems. I'm a single father and every time I let some one in they become a distraction from what my calling is.
Exactly! There are people who always get themselves in messy situations and will always need a favor or money and blame everyone else as the reason. I understand sometimes shit happens but there is also knowing how to avoid those situations.
@@trevagraham1605 well if you think about any business that is successful, it’s always a collective effort. I think the trick is to figure out how to extract the assets from each person, if there is any. Might sound psychotic but it’s the reality.
Being betrayed by someone you thought was your friend or someone you thought loved you and would be there for you is one of the worst feelings one can experience. It is a hard gut punch.
Happened to me too Bro. My gf. She went from a Dream from Heaven, to 8 months later xa Malevolent Demon from hell. She literally tried to destroy my life, instead she ruined hers, her New bf bailed her out of jail recently. But she's facing 6 felony charges come August. Good Riddance
@@gma729 dude you're ex gf sounds like a terrible person who seriously makes someone's life a living nightmare like that she seems like the type of person who has no respect for anyone at all
I used to have a gang of so called friends. They let me down...outright betrayed by a few. I stick with my wife and kids...just casual friendships with a few. I keep some distance.
It’s not hard. Most adults just don’t go out enough. I go: Scuba diving Horseback riding Sky diving Painting Cooking class Pottery class Jet skiing Gun range Fencing Water rafting Swimming U name it. It’s 60 activities on my list. I meet dope ppl doing them all and almost all of them have clubs you can join
@@thehotboywalking most of us weren't born into aristocracy to have hobbies like that, some of us are stuck in the 9-5 grind with limited time and money
Keep in mind that many people find the alone-ness kind of "peaceful" to be very dull. Granted, a man of maybe 12-16 or older or a woman 25-20 or older ought to be able to amuse and distract themselves and not be dependent on other people's drama and bullshit just to make their lives feel less empty!
I’m 26, Only Child. Lost my Mother when I was 18. The tough lesson was learning my mother’s “friends” weren’t actually her friends. I’ve reached a point in my life where I finally cut out the negativity & started to see the upside of being a “Lone Wolf”. I truthfully enjoy being by myself & not dealing with people. Thanks for sharing your story. So glad I came across this video 🙏🏻
I'm 48, burnt out with being socially deceptive, I'm a true introvert, no friends, no close family ties, and no social life. I look forward to work and running errands
@@jaydub7386 both of y’all would make great volunteers. You bring time and effort to the communities around out. We are social creatures, be careful you are not making excuses, if you feel you are, consider therapy.
If you were really enjoying it you wouldn't be here trying to convince us that you are truth is you need videos like this to feed off of because deep down you're miserable.
Kids are the perfect solution because of unconditional love. They give you the opportunity to start your own colony with your own belief system and they carry on the family name.
@@rotweilerscholar1181 Too often nowadays, the love is no longer unconditional between parents and their kids. Then there is the difference between love and respect (another thing sorely lacking in today's society). But yes, overall, having kids is important for most of us to get fulfillment and a sense of true accomplishment in our lives in the long run. Plus, with so many people choosing not to have kids, we are facing a real demographic disaster that many other countries are already experiencing.
Exactly! You cherish more of your time and boundaries with rejecting most people nonsense, gossiping, mockering and childish behavior is despicable. Most people don't realize that gossiping and mocking people is a sin. My lifestyle is recluse to max.
@@jdocean1 You have to learn about investing and remain patient for your harvest. Learn about digital assets like XRP, XLM, XDC and Pure Silver on TH-cam. I'll tell you one thing most people are condition thinking that once you invest they'll get overnight riches. That's not realistic at all.
I have family, wife, daughter, work, resposibility and a damm cat. You have no idea how much I envy your peace, I always find my self happiest when i'm alone doing my thing without any worries. In my life its nothing but stress, problems, spending, and i'm not happy. We do it because they depend on us. Your doing good man, keep it going.
Just wish to add to your point. 100% agree. So true in all u say, great comment. However i want to say that if u are lonely by choice its an empowering feeling. If u are lonely because u cant connect with people or have anxiety or some bizarre quirks then sadly it sucks
Agreed. I Had the Worst of The Worst *Parents* One a *Real* Socio-Path. The other one A - 'Psycho-Path' And... *Ex-Navy* Own Sister is *Bi-Polar & A Feminist* Side-Note; All of em' Have 1 Common-Factor ( *Alcoholis:m* ) Me: .... *An Introvert* (That got My education) Stolen By The Parents {-Mūnchen-by-proxy-}
It’s a risk to me now that I’m 36 with no kids only because it’s literally gambling that I don’t get a woman who wants to just put me on child support because I’m a working man and most modern women Love the idea of having a baby because baby fever but discard the relationship.
@@rizenfly Same. I'm also 41. No Friends, No husband and no social life because I WANT my peace. Friends do NOT exist. Once you do better for yourself, by yourself, they get jealous. Not everyone should be married and social life is a distraction from my focus on Divine Source. I LIKE being alone. I like my walks in the park BY MYSELF.
Married guy here with not a single friend, zero social life and loving it. Can't stand people, no interest in talking about netflix, cappucinos or sport so I'm happy its just me and my wife!
I am pretty much like you. Society is constantly telling me that I should feel bad and horrible about my situation and that I should hurry to fix it (I guess they see me as If I was suffering from it), but the thing is that I prefer spending my time alone thinking about myself in an introspective/constructive manner rather than having empty conversations with people who doesn’t bring anything interesting to my mind (finding real people to share some real conversations is hard these days). And let me tell you that I am very good because I feel free to act whatever I want without having whole group dictating me what’s good and what’s wrong. I don’t have the need of finding others to give me a “reason of happiness” to my life and that’s a powerful tool. Of course that doesn’t mean I reject all people but only those who act like they suppose to with some sort of constant facade.
This comment section is so kind. Thank you. I turn 40 this week and I am single, no kids and my parents are in heaven. My friends are my 2 dogs and a bunny. They are loyal. I too look forward to work and errands. I think I’m still in shock how unbelievably cruel this world can be. I’ve been severely bullied my entire life but became worse as I grew older. Being alone is safe and can be very fun. Many blessings everyone. Life is what you make it. So make It fun. Even if it’s just for you and the animals🥰🥰🥰
Thank you for sharing your experience, sorry to hear about your parents, sending my condolences 💐 I appreciate you taking the time to listen as well, and hope that great things come your way💯
That's trauma. Ever consider therapy? Others who are miserable will chime in and say it's okay to be that way. It's equivalent to the blind leading the blind.
It's definitely common nowadays. People don't give a fk about how's your day going. Not many hello's and smiles. And some are alone not on phones and internet. All kinds of lonely ish nowadays 😂😂😂
i understand what you mean by this, but look at how Tesla's life played out and you will understand that this is probably not the best approach for life. Its great for SOME careers.
I'm 39, no friends, no social life, no wife, no kids, no pets,... and I love my life. Sometimes is hard but it is for everyone. This is a bless my friend.
"Why I have No Friends, No Wife, No Social Life at 41" --- you won life... stack your money, stay in shape, date at your leisure with no commitment & no kids & enjoy your peace until you die.
But aren't we all made to build a family? Thats what im still asking myself.. And i know western women are a too high risk. But i cant get over this thought and i'm 35 atm.
@@teeaymusik9811no, everyone isn’t made to build a family and not everyone wants kids. This is why so many kids aren’t raised right because people think they’re required to have kids, even if they don’t want them
I am 38 and as far back as I can remember I have been an outcast. I was severely bullied throughout school. In my adult life, I was hurt and mistreated by jobs and "the system"...I ended up homeless. By the time I managed to acquire some sort of stability, I was well into my 30s and I just couldn't relate to or trust anyone.
@@magerulz616 Therapy is talking to someone who cares as long as he gets your $. Also sitting in a chair for an hour just to talk is the female way of dealing with issues, men are not designed this way.
@Raptify-sh4kt trauma doesn't heal without professional help, talking doesn't solve everything but a great therapist will be much more than someone you just talk to
I felt this video deeply..thank you so much for sharing yourself with your viewers. This comments section is beautiful..and as ironic as it may be, I hope the comments here allow you to see that you’re not alone. Even if nobody is there beside you right now, there are countless people in the world feeling the same or similar to yourself. Just from hearing you speak, it’s clear that you have a huge heart and that you have a lot of love to give to this world..which you’ve done through this video. Sending you my best wishes from the UK..
You’re welcome..Thank you for taking the time to listen. Yes I realize that now and appreciate the support for you all so much. I wish you all the best as well 💯
41, one friend (which I'm wearing out my welcome), no lady, no job, no more money, and living out of my car. Literally waiting for my car to be towed any minute. Hungry, but I'm still sober. Crying, but still alive. The tough truth is life sucks. More so for some than others. Being alone sucks. Not being able to trust sucks. Not sure what brought me here, but I wish you the absolute best, man.
Understand brother,, I'm almost at the end of the line here getting kicked out of a low rent apartment by an owner who is a prosperity Gospel phony who wants to make more money off illegal immigrants (which I never have a problem with, people come here to get a better life and they should be able to do that)... I haven't been homeless for a long time, I always worked when I could and treated people well and this is what it got me... And it occurs to me, that these worthless pieces of garbage who screw over other people just to get a little bit more money DO have something coming to them, and if he's going to create a person with nothing to lose, well then maybe he should lose something... It seems a real ignorable way to go out, icing some worthless piece of s*** and then exit stage left myself but I really don't have the energy to go through being homeless again... Hope something turns up for you 🙏🙏🙏
The reply sections are quite the opposite tho...but that's just a TH-cam thing the reply section is always full of very mean and hateful people unfortunately.
Agree 100%. I have trust and betrayal issues . I've been screwed over more than Carter's got liver pills. This is why I stay to myself. The more I stay to myself and mind my own business, the less trouble I get myself into. Thank you for posting this video. Now I know I'm not alone.
I'm 40, no wife, no kids, no social life. My true friends I can count on one hand. People are a liability. Solitude is a hard won ally. I'm very thankful for it.
"My true friends I can count on one hand" - that's how it is in life. You have that many? I teach my children that you can only have a 2-3 true friends, as friendship takes time and dedication 👍
Lots of people around is good for hobbyist/enthusiast groups, concerts, sports, and other things that can be social like that. Nobody around is necessary for getting things done. Especially anything creative, you better not have anyone around because they will interfere any chance they get. Songwriting, building things, hell--just fixing your car. People around will interfere because that's what people do.
I don't know. I'm in the same boat as everyone else here, no wife, no kids, living my life, etc. but my is in her 70s and she is losing the ability to remember things and is unable to open jars, bottles, etc. So I help her out in most these things. I've also lived long enough to see how big targets the elderly are for family/friends attempting to steal their money in addition to scam artists. I'm living my best life right now and it's a long way off, but I'm starting to think if how long I could actually support myself alone as I get older.
Hey there. I’m 40 single, no kids, no partner and a few friends throughout the US. I’m extremely lonely and spend most days not talking to people outside of work. I decided to isolate because I was tired of my toxic life and wanted to go on my healing journey. It’s been so lonely but I’m finally at a better place where I enjoy the peace
Yes peace is so important, I wish that good things can come to you on your journey. Thanks for listening and sharing your experience, much appreciated 💯
Learning to live without people is so empowering. Living alone, and spending time alone, is two things that I can rely on, for maximum peace, and self-enjoyment.
I enjoyed your story and can definitely relate on many of your thoughts. I’ve had the family, wife (now ex), then gf, etc. Alone now with pretty much no one. It’s a challenge but I’ve embraced it and enjoy the solitude and not being betrayed. Hope you’re doing well and stay positive! Hit the gym, maintain a couple hobbies. Life is still good! 🤜🏻🤛🏼
Thanks for taking the time to listening and for sharing your experience. I appreciate your support and encouragement. I wish you all the best as well 💯
Hey brother! This video was something else for me. It made me think about my life for a whole day after watching it. After watching it, I considered making a similar one but realized I could never top your video. I'm about eight years older than you and have been through the military and a similar life you described. Your storytelling resonated with me and many others. (I can see in the comments. lol) I personally have never taken the time to make a comment like this... Life is indeed a rollercoaster of ups and downs. Right now, I'm doing well with a great partner and a thriving business. Something 8 years ago, I would have told you were crazy if you said I was doing what I'm doing now. I hope you're doing great too, and I hope you can say the same. I think you are exceptionally talented, and I plan to watch more of your videos.
Thanks brother I appreciate your support, and you taking the time to listen. I’m glad to hear that your life has improved, very inspiring to hear that. Times are getting better for me too these days thankfully. You guys have helped me through all the encouragement and advice I’ve been hearing in the comments. I greatly appreciate that, and wish you all the best 💯
I'm 40 and your story is identical to mine. I joined the Navy though and not Army. Everything else is scarcely similar. No wife, no kids, shy, the few friends I have are all now married and so I don't get to see them very much these days. Keep working on yourself like you are man, I think that's the key. Over the last couple of years I've got myself a Degree and am looking for a better job. I've also lost 120 lbs over the last 13 months. I'm improving myself 1 small step at a time
This is me as well. I cannot deal with crazy people in 2024. All they do is judge and hate on each other, They are full of pride and are narcissistic, cold hearted and careless. They hate the truth and will block you for speaking of it. Good for you for being a loner. I too am one. It helps me keep my peace.
I'm 34 in the similar boat ..I trust no one , just waiting for my ticket to be punched . It's already impossible to live yet trust anyone in this new world.
This video has made me feel so much better. I been feeling like I am the only person living this way....everyone on here you have helped me so much with your stories.
Appreciate your honesty. I'm 30 and can totally relate I was an addict from 19 to 24 and so were the friends I had. To become clean I had to cut them all out of my life. And since then I haven't had a social life at all. Keep up the good work dude I subscribed
I'm 39, turning 40 soon... Divorced. No children. Your story is similar to a lot of us guys, who have trusted and been done wrong by friends, family, and ex wives or girlfriends. 2017 was my last relationship and after finally getting tired of being rejected and ghosted, I realized the only love I needed came from myself. I'd recommend reading into the Buddhist teachings regarding detachment. It's a great place in life to be happy in your own company, and no longer dealing with shallow individuals, just looking to suck the life out of you.
Thank you for having the courage to share your story. My story is pretty much the same. It doesn't matter if it is alcohol, drugs, jealousy, anger or gambling, if they are not willing to confront their demons, then you cant help Them. If you try you will be crushed. Being on your own is ok, sure some times it sucks, but being with the wrong one and not being Abel to live out your Dreams, is like sufficating. I feel you brother and I Hope for the Best for you.
Im 43,divorced almost 20 yrs ago. Had a messy relationship some years ago. I have been single for about five yrs , alone with no friends. Miss my children and thats about it. God Bless you brother.
35 no friends black sheep in family, no kids, no social life, no social media life, too much wisdom. I’m glad you are here sir sharing this with us because you’re doin just fine.
Thank you for sharing. I am from a big family, but I like to be alone. Single at 45, introvert, no social life and I am loving it. That gives me more time to work, read, and spend time on my hobbies.
57 and all alone and living my best life!! peaceful and free!...you've been through some tough times, it seems....sending lots of love and strength! and thank you for your service 😘
Oh my goodness. You are the most sincere and beautifully honest gentleman that I have ever had the privilege to listen to on my phone. You do repeat a lot about what you don’t have. (!) But you have YOU. Please think on how many people in the world would happily give absolutely everything they have to be as real and decent as you are. God bless.
Nearly 34, no wife, no kids, no social life, my old friends from school/work are scattered around the US, no consistent contact. Thanks for your service.
I'm 43 and no friends, no partner, and no social life. After being with someone for over 20 years I found that a peace of mind is so priceless. At first I thought something was wrong with me because I really don't have a life. But Im so at peace with myself and Im ok with that.
me too take care of my kids pay cs while they living with me still wating to go to court because they designed the system to swallow us up during the process but I wont go down!
Came across your channel by accident. Thank you for serving our country. I'm 48 black man, have always been a loner. I can be social, hang out, conversate, date, but I've always been more comfortable when I'm alone. I've been in several relationships and literally have seen friends come and go. It all amounted to nothing. Now I'm just at peace. I love my hobbies and traveling and I happen to really love my Job/career. I've gotten more accomplished since I've made the decision to just stay single and mind my own business. Thanks for this vid.
Cool, no problem it was an honor to serve. Thanks for listening and sharing your experience. Glad that you found peace and I wish you good times ahead as well😎
I like listening to your story bro. Very relatable. In my opinion people don't talk truthfully often enough. I'm guilty of closing off at times as well.. But wether speaking to another or in a format like this, sharing truths and honestly can be so incredibly liberating and healthy. For the one speaking, and ones listening. I thank you for your service and your honestly in this video. Appreciate you🙏
Thanks for sharing your life experiences. I'm almost 59, divorced after 17 yrs of marriage and have three children. I've been by myself now for 14 yrs. I went through the family court gauntlet and trust me you are better off remaining single, working in your career, saving money and just enjoying your life. We are in the last days where the love of many has waxed cold and it is just too dangerous for men to take the relationship risk in my opinion. God bless you and enjoy your life.
I'm 50, divorced. I have no girlfriend. I have no real friends anymore. No social life. Relationships with my original family are pretty strained. I don't like my job, it's stressful and fills me with fear every day. I won't be able to retire until perhaps 67 or so. I live in a run down house because its the only one I could afford in my area of Australia. I'm often lonely but it's getting easier and am getting used to being alone.
You did well with the video, man. I really hope you can get some closure on your own terms and heal. I can relate and be well. Thank you for your service.
Seriously, reduce the TV consumption or moderate it, as before you know it you'll be 40, and single, with no friends... find a hobby, or P/T Voluntary work! Get out there, get away from that screen, "STEP AWAY FROM THE SCREEN" you can lose years at that screen. Your in an important stage of life; the transition into middle age; so prep! All the best.
And when you are on your death.bed...will you be saying, man, I should have watched more TV...., at 30? You have a purpose! Life is meant to me lived..not just work + watch TV, unless that truly deep down makes you feel totally fulfilled in all aspects of life?
I'm very happy to with what ever the most high has for me your health is your wealth if a family happens good but I'm not forcing anything it has to happen naturally
@pimpdoggydogg8670 I'm very happy most my friends died went to jail are on drugs I'm 41 good health decent job with the post office very happy I wasn't a victim to society
You are not the only one.Most of the people are fake so,if you manage to find one genuine is a great blessing from God.Trust me one genuine friend is worth a lot.Bible also says to not be unequally yoked with unbelievers so, There is that.There are fake people in church too,we need actual born again believer as a friend.😊
In the same position at 23. I don’t really care about socializing and meeting new people anymore. I’ve tried that last year and absolutely nothing came from it other than the realization that people don’t matter that much and I’m on my own in this life. I could live in a farm with my animals and be fulfilled.
You’re 23. You haven’t earned your solitude. You have to get out into the world & make something of yourself. The lonewolf thing is a myth that will leave you socially inept.
@@Apollothe3 Says he's young and hasn't earned his "solitude" then says he's going to be "socially inept." Yeah if you're a gatekeeping pessimist just say it lol.
@@NamesZKPgatekeeping pessimist? You’re using a word & I don’t think you know how that word works. Socializing in person w/ others is like a muscle. If you don’t use it then it becomes atrophied & leads to social awkwardness & ineptitude because Humans are social animals. Why are you trying to pathologize optimism? Did the lonewolf comment strike a nerve?
I'm 58 and have felt this way all my life and tried to listen to others in my younger years about going to parties and events and being social but always resorted back to my default of being a loner. I tell others who try to tell me it's not healthy that it's just opposite of social people that need to reach out to their friends daily or they get lonely and board with the advantage of not needing someone else to make my day happy. At my age I no longer feel solitude is abnormal as long as you can work, provide shelter for yourself, pay bills and feed yourself, you are 100% normal to be the single with no friends or whatever you choose. I see many of us who aren't social tend to have pets and that's great.
Thanks for sharing your experience, very insightful. I totally agree with your point of view. I appreciate you listening as well, and wish you all the best 💯
I'm pretty much the same and love it. I don't have to worry about anyones drama or problems and don't have to share any of my resources. I'm cool being invisible.
There’s no shame in being lonely, however, there’s two people i work with, in my department that have no social life no family no spouse but use that lonely life to stir up trouble. So kudos to the people who keep their energy for peace ✌🏽
I can relate man, I have 3 sisters too and I stayed in my room a lot too but I had my reasons and this takes a lot of strength to open up man so keep staying strong man.
Thanks for sharing your story. The older I get I feel like the less people I have in my life means less chaos and more peace for me. I'm 46 single for some years now, have a few friends and few family I can count on. I truly cherish my peace in a world that seems to be getting worse.
I'm 40 black single mom of two proud teens I raised alone which are both on the honor roll.No drama, no stress no friends, not much of a social life. It is peaceful but would be nice to meet other single men and woman as honest good natured people that stand on their words. Love & Light 🙏
I’m 43 and am exactly the same way. No friends, no wife, no girlfriend, no kids, no social life whatsoever. I rarely even go to family functions. I have a couple of business associates I sell my organic produce to. Otherwise it’s just me over here at my little farm left to my own devices. I prefer it this way. I don’t even associate with my neighbors whose property borders mine. A couple from out of state bought the farm that borders mine 2 years ago, I’ve never met or spoke a word to them. lol
I enjoy being alone as well and haven't spoken to my neighbors in years, but don't you think when you're old and barely can move, an start reflecting, you'll feel lonely
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Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place.
Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
He's constantly talking about killing someone.
He's violent. Anyone reading this
Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
Is he on instagram?
Yes he is dr.porassss.
I’m 42, no husband, no friends, no social life… and looking back, I realize this is the BEST time of my life. Peace is priceless. Some may judge and think this is sad, but I love it.
Thanks for sharing your insights and for listening. I agree peace is definitely priceless 😎
Either your husband dies on you, or you on him. Sad either way.
What you were going to say? No one ever admits his life is 💩
As long as you are happy that’s fine.
Growing up, I thought differently, but nowadays, I agree entirely. I always see things as " do I want to divide my precious time by 2?" No, I don't, but I'm not bitter at all.
Let them judge. We're at liberty to spend every day as we wish 👌
I'm 39, not married, have no children, stopped talking to my toxic family, and no social life either. But it's the best thing for me in this season of my life. I have to take care of my mental well-being. I'm alone but not lonely, and I enjoy my own company😊.
being alone is good to help you reflect i know i dont want to stay alone im in columbia sc now where are from/ at i think u can use a hug hehee
I'm 81, alone my whole life. I'm still alive and kicking. Only child. I absolutely love being alone. I am my best friend.
Are for real bro... or just joking
@@daneyraju8433WHY DO YOU CHALLENGE HIM HEFFA
Yes, very encouraging brother thanks for sharing your experience and for listening. I appreciate that 💯
@@daneyraju8433 ARE YOU FOR REAL
Rock on!
Being alone and being lonely are 2 different things. Sometimes being alone for a while is the best move on the chessboard.
Yes I totally agree 💯
This one💪🏾🔥🤜🏾!!!
Yup being alone and being lonely ARE two entirely different things. People get it mixed up.
For sure!!
Yezzzrrr! 🥷
No wife, no kids, sleep great, no stress, no health problems, no debt, no drama, peace is priceless!
Yes it is brother peace is key.
absolutely!
So u can't find peace with friends and family..come on..
Traveling will add more joy to your life
@@vibezlogistics7453 Family can be a great source of stress
There are 5 critical moments that impact a man's life.
The death of your father.
Getting your heart broken.
Being broke.
Being betrayed by your best friend.
Realizing that no one is coming to save you.
I have unfortunately gotten this BINGO, and even before all 5 happened I have been a loner. And as they have come to fruition, I have isolated even more. I love it, really. Ive had enough drama and hardship to last a lifetime. Now, at 45 almost 46 I look forward to my alone time to self reflect and not be sucked into the chaos that being around people brings.
Yes brother, you are on target with these 5 things🎯Thanks for sharing your perspective, very enlightening. I appreciate that and wish you all the best as well 💯
that's sad shit bro... don't let your down. Because all this happened for a reason. And this reason will make you stronger than ever, to help you find your true path, your own way, that one do you need. And it doesn't matter if friend or love gone, it's mean only one thing, they never ever be your close people for real. Everything passing, and what comes around goes around, don't worry about that. Today your on the top, next day your done, that's life and i feel when you come across these hardships, you will be grateful for this times. And you will find your one close man or woman, and it will be forever and it will be better than ever, just never change for yourself and this will happen, once again brother.
Same buddy same
Lmao y’all should try alcohol 🍷
4/5. for single parent child mother dying is just as bad. never had my heart broken, cause it had never got that far
I'm also 41. No family, wife, girlfriend, friend. Life is work, eat, sleep every Mon-Fri, eat and sleep every weekend and public holidays. It has been that way for the majority of my adult years.
What you do for saxx?
saxophone @@mikeprice8307
@@mikeprice8307 Nothing of that kind at all.
Online poker a plus
@@oldbutbold wow you must want to rip through everything considered a looker.
Introverts get their energy from being alone, extroverts get their energy from being in groups.
I hadn't thought of it that way - but you are right! That's why I "need" so much alone time, to reenergize myself. Because people are def energy drainers. Darn EVs !!! They want my blood !!! 🩸
Facts 💯
@rizenfly friendship needs time , why not start writing with someone and see how things go, with age our needs change and friends is a word , nay not be spoken lightly, it means loyalty and unconditionally giving love and appreciation to someone without wanna gain anything , especially not financial interests. I also spent lots of time alone, but that is ok, still I am open but with lots of time. 😊
Wow...this is one of those "ah ha" moments! I need to steal this to explain to others why I am an introvert! My best friend is an extrovert extreme!
I’m 41 and a millionaire never been married and never will, I have no kids. Get into growth stock swing trading if you want to have something fun to do 24/7 researching stocks and making money
Whoever said more money more problems got it wrong... It's actually more people more problems. I'm a single father and every time I let some one in they become a distraction from what my calling is.
Facts
Indeed😂
Feel that brother
I can relate 100%
Exactly! There are people who always get themselves in messy situations and will always need a favor or money and blame everyone else as the reason. I understand sometimes shit happens but there is also knowing how to avoid those situations.
46, no wife/no kids and living my best life ever. Wouldn't have it any other way. God bless.
Thanks for sharing your experience and for listening. I appreciate that and may God bless you as well 🙏🏾
Much respect to you brother I am 41 no wife but 1 child. I have major trust issues so I prefer to be alone as well. Protect your peace at all costs
LMAO
@@user-bp9xp9ev5v and more importantly, protect your bank account lol. 😛
Cope 🤡
Much respect my friend. Takes some balls to talk about this, you’re a good man, one step at a time brother.
Thanks I appreciate the support brother 💯
I'm 47, married, I have three real friends, and I don't go out much. People are really just a liability.
I glad to hear that, thanks for listening
Lotta users be the boss of your gifts " never look like your dumb one sec or yeah'''
They can be an asset
@@dah_goofster They can be, but more often than not that's not the case.
@@trevagraham1605 well if you think about any business that is successful, it’s always a collective effort. I think the trick is to figure out how to extract the assets from each person, if there is any.
Might sound psychotic but it’s the reality.
Being betrayed by someone you thought was your friend or someone you thought loved you and would be there for you is one of the worst feelings one can experience. It is a hard gut punch.
Indeed it is 🎯
Happened to me too Bro. My gf. She went from a Dream from Heaven, to 8 months later xa Malevolent Demon from hell. She literally tried to destroy my life, instead she ruined hers, her New bf bailed her out of jail recently. But she's facing 6 felony charges come August. Good Riddance
@@gma729 dude you're ex gf sounds like a terrible person who seriously makes someone's life a living nightmare like that she seems like the type of person who has no respect for anyone at all
Trust me Im living it now betrayal
I used to have a gang of so called friends. They let me down...outright betrayed by a few. I stick with my wife and kids...just casual friendships with a few. I keep some distance.
Im currently 37 and barely have any of that. To be honest Im sick of most people.
The best person to roll with is by yourself. I'm a solo bird for life. 💯
When you’re young, everybody wants to be your friend but when you’re older, It’s very hard to make friends
This is very true
Bullshit. If you're different or smarter, nobody likes you.
It’s not hard. Most adults just don’t go out enough. I go:
Scuba diving
Horseback riding
Sky diving
Painting
Cooking class
Pottery class
Jet skiing
Gun range
Fencing
Water rafting
Swimming
U name it. It’s 60 activities on my list. I meet dope ppl doing them all and almost all of them have clubs you can join
@@thehotboywalking most of us weren't born into aristocracy to have hobbies like that, some of us are stuck in the 9-5 grind with limited time and money
@@dannysummers4591 and some of us, like myself, are so ugly that every time I go out in public, people recoil.
I'm 56 years old and I have been alone for over six years now and it's lonely but its a lot better than being used.
I hear that brother, Facts🎯
I totally agree
🎯How were you being used? Just curious? Were you enabling someone? Were you being lied to. What’s the real story?
@@versewonderstrikes5353Humans are opportunistic exploiters. It's a function of intelligence and having a "social" nature.
I was told that if no one is using you, that makes you useless. The point is to not be concerned about being used. it's a part of life and living
One can imagine how peacefull your life is without dramas and stress!
Yes I am trying to get to that point.
And it’s one thing to have stress as a part of life, but when people come in, and they deliberately cause chaos and drama, forget about it!!
Keep in mind that many people find the alone-ness kind of "peaceful" to be very dull. Granted, a man of maybe 12-16 or older or a woman 25-20 or older ought to be able to amuse and distract themselves and not be dependent on other people's drama and bullshit just to make their lives feel less empty!
I’m 26, Only Child. Lost my Mother when I was 18. The tough lesson was learning my mother’s “friends” weren’t actually her friends. I’ve reached a point in my life where I finally cut out the negativity & started to see the upside of being a “Lone Wolf”. I truthfully enjoy being by myself & not dealing with people. Thanks for sharing your story. So glad I came across this video 🙏🏻
You’re welcome, I appreciate you taking the time to listen. Sorry for your loss, sending my condolences 💐 I hope that many blessings come your way 💯
I'm 48, burnt out with being socially deceptive, I'm a true introvert, no friends, no close family ties, and no social life. I look forward to work and running errands
Same
@@jaydub7386 both of y’all would make great volunteers. You bring time and effort to the communities around out. We are social creatures, be careful you are not making excuses, if you feel you are, consider therapy.
Wtf!!! You people need desperate help. That is not normal or healthy
GYMMMM!!!!
The same
I absolutely understand, brother. I’m 53 with no children, no spouse and very FEW friends. IDK how tf I got here but, man…. I’m enjoying it.
Thanks for sharing your experience and for listening. I appreciate it, wish you all the best 💯
Welcome to the club
Smart
You work at least?
If you were really enjoying it you wouldn't be here trying to convince us that you are truth is you need videos like this to feed off of because deep down you're miserable.
Peace is priceless.
So True 🎯
Don’t be scared to lose ppl big dawg, that’s a natural part of life. We all gotta go. Don’t let it stop you from forming and keeping relationships✊🏿
Thanks I appreciate the encouragement 💯
Thank you for sharing, 38, no wife, no kids, no social life, and i truly love my life. Was always a lone wolf, wouldnt have it any other way.
💯🎯 forever 🥷
Kids are the perfect solution because of unconditional love. They give you the opportunity to start your own colony with your own belief system and they carry on the family name.
💯💯
@@rotweilerscholar1181No thanks
@@rotweilerscholar1181 Too often nowadays, the love is no longer unconditional between parents and their kids. Then there is the difference between love and respect (another thing sorely lacking in today's society). But yes, overall, having kids is important for most of us to get fulfillment and a sense of true accomplishment in our lives in the long run. Plus, with so many people choosing not to have kids, we are facing a real demographic disaster that many other countries are already experiencing.
I've found that living this type of lifestyle is more peaceful and abundant financially.
Marriage sucks
Exactly! You cherish more of your time and boundaries with rejecting most people nonsense, gossiping, mockering and childish behavior is despicable. Most people don't realize that gossiping and mocking people is a sin. My lifestyle is recluse to max.
I have a 16 year old daughter. I’m always broke 😂.
@@jdocean1 You have to learn about investing and remain patient for your harvest. Learn about digital assets like XRP, XLM, XDC and Pure Silver on TH-cam. I'll tell you one thing most people are condition thinking that once you invest they'll get overnight riches. That's not realistic at all.
@@jdocean1 Invest in physical silver, xrp, xlm and xdc
I love this dude. This is so honest and the production is very bare bones. Just a guy talking about his feelings and what he's going through.
I have family, wife, daughter, work, resposibility and a damm cat. You have no idea how much I envy your peace, I always find my self happiest when i'm alone doing my thing without any worries. In my life its nothing but stress, problems, spending, and i'm not happy. We do it because they depend on us. Your doing good man, keep it going.
Thanks for listening and sharing your experience. I appreciate that and wish you all the best as well brother💯
Just wish to add to your point. 100% agree. So true in all u say, great comment. However i want to say that if u are lonely by choice its an empowering feeling. If u are lonely because u cant connect with people or have anxiety or some bizarre quirks then sadly it sucks
As I read your comment, I got confused for a moment. I said to myself, "Wait a minute.....I don't recall commenting here before" 😄 My exact situation!
Everyone isn’t meant to be partnered. If this is truly the life you want, enjoy your solitude. Do what works for you.
Facts, thanks for listening much appreciated💯 will do
Agreed.
I Had the Worst of The Worst *Parents*
One a *Real* Socio-Path.
The other one A - 'Psycho-Path' And... *Ex-Navy*
Own Sister is *Bi-Polar & A Feminist*
Side-Note; All of em'
Have 1 Common-Factor
( *Alcoholis:m* )
Me: .... *An Introvert*
(That got My education) Stolen
By The Parents {-Mūnchen-by-proxy-}
No such things as "partners" unless you're running a business together. A wife or husband is not a partner.
It’s a risk to me now that I’m 36 with no kids only because it’s literally gambling that I don’t get a woman who wants to just put me on child support because I’m a working man and most modern women
Love the idea of having a baby because baby fever but discard the relationship.
@@rizenfly Same. I'm also 41. No Friends, No husband and no social life because I WANT my peace. Friends do NOT exist. Once you do better for yourself, by yourself, they get jealous. Not everyone should be married and social life is a distraction from my focus on Divine Source. I LIKE being alone. I like my walks in the park BY MYSELF.
Married guy here with not a single friend, zero social life and loving it. Can't stand people, no interest in talking about netflix, cappucinos or sport so I'm happy its just me and my wife!
Glad to hear that bro, I wish you both all the best 😎
Marriage is the biggest crutch of all time. Lol.
@@machida58 whatever works for you bro!
@@sylvianpententner3051 Don't isolate yourself and put all your eggs in one basket. You never know when you will need *some* kind of support network.
@@sylvianpententner3051 My comments are being deleted.
"Stopd approaching ppl coz might ending up losing them" I wish I could give you a real warm hug ... ❤😭
I am pretty much like you. Society is constantly telling me that I should feel bad and horrible about my situation and that I should hurry to fix it (I guess they see me as If I was suffering from it), but the thing is that I prefer spending my time alone thinking about myself in an introspective/constructive manner rather than having empty conversations with people who doesn’t bring anything interesting to my mind (finding real people to share some real conversations is hard these days). And let me tell you that I am very good because I feel free to act whatever I want without having whole group dictating me what’s good and what’s wrong. I don’t have the need of finding others to give me a “reason of happiness” to my life and that’s a powerful tool. Of course that doesn’t mean I reject all people but only those who act like they suppose to with some sort of constant facade.
I totally get what you mean. Thank you for sharing your experience and for listening. I appreciate that , and wish you all the best 💯
This comment section is so kind. Thank you. I turn 40 this week and I am single, no kids and my parents are in heaven. My friends are my 2 dogs and a bunny. They are loyal. I too look forward to work and errands. I think I’m still in shock how unbelievably cruel this world can be. I’ve been severely bullied my entire life but became worse as I grew older. Being alone is safe and can be very fun. Many blessings everyone. Life is what you make it. So make
It fun. Even if it’s just for you and the animals🥰🥰🥰
Thank you for sharing your experience, sorry to hear about your parents, sending my condolences 💐 I appreciate you taking the time to listen as well, and hope that great things come your way💯
Such a lovely comment ❤
God Bless You
you look quite nice :) I would meet you. Where are you from? :D
That's trauma. Ever consider therapy? Others who are miserable will chime in and say it's okay to be that way. It's equivalent to the blind leading the blind.
"Be alone-that is the secret of invention: be alone, that is when ideas are born." - Nikola Tesla
Very enlightening quote, thanks my man!
Yeah until it gets boring
It's definitely common nowadays. People don't give a fk about how's your day going. Not many hello's and smiles. And some are alone not on phones and internet. All kinds of lonely ish nowadays 😂😂😂
i understand what you mean by this, but look at how Tesla's life played out and you will understand that this is probably not the best approach for life. Its great for SOME careers.
@@lsayewell brother Tesla bro was autistic that’s why.
I appreciate the honesty in this video and opening up.
Thank you for sharing your story. It’s nice for me and I think other people who are struggling with similar things to hear they’re not alone.
You are so welcome.. I appreciate you taking the time to listen💯
I'm 39, no friends, no social life, no wife, no kids, no pets,... and I love my life. Sometimes is hard but it is for everyone. This is a bless my friend.
Giga Hyper Cope
Get a pet homie
I hope you give to charity
You do you man. Ignore the haters ❤.
@@GorryX3suck a d man
"Why I have No Friends, No Wife, No Social Life at 41" --- you won life... stack your money, stay in shape, date at your leisure with no commitment & no kids & enjoy your peace until you die.
Alright Will do, sounds like a plan. Thanks for listening and for the insightful words of advice💯
But aren't we all made to build a family? Thats what im still asking myself.. And i know western women are a too high risk. But i cant get over this thought and i'm 35 atm.
get ur passport and go hit up the Red Light Districts and git u some
@@teeaymusik9811no, everyone isn’t made to build a family and not everyone wants kids. This is why so many kids aren’t raised right because people think they’re required to have kids, even if they don’t want them
@@teeaymusik9811 Sorry you hate us western women.
You're definitely NOT the only one, G ✌🏽 I've never been so happy in my life until i started deleting people outta my life 💯
Unfortunately, this is more common than people think.
I am 38 and as far back as I can remember I have been an outcast. I was severely bullied throughout school. In my adult life, I was hurt and mistreated by jobs and "the system"...I ended up homeless. By the time I managed to acquire some sort of stability, I was well into my 30s and I just couldn't relate to or trust anyone.
Find a good therapist and start working
@@magerulz616 Therapy is talking to someone who cares as long as he gets your $. Also sitting in a chair for an hour just to talk is the female way of dealing with issues, men are not designed this way.
@Raptify-sh4kt trauma doesn't heal without professional help, talking doesn't solve everything but a great therapist will be much more than someone you just talk to
@@magerulz616 Talking, giving advice that you can get online for free and charging more than a hooker. Screw that!
@@magerulz616 no it doesn't just stop your BS.
Im 44. No friends, no social life. Just work and home. I always wait for someone to talk to me instead of talking to people.
45, same thing, dont like to engage.
Thats good you will attract people in a natural way
People never approach first .
@@rserna271 They're doing us all a favor.
Some 40+ have never even been on a date before. Availability can be an issue.
I felt this video deeply..thank you so much for sharing yourself with your viewers. This comments section is beautiful..and as ironic as it may be, I hope the comments here allow you to see that you’re not alone. Even if nobody is there beside you right now, there are countless people in the world feeling the same or similar to yourself. Just from hearing you speak, it’s clear that you have a huge heart and that you have a lot of love to give to this world..which you’ve done through this video. Sending you my best wishes from the UK..
You’re welcome..Thank you for taking the time to listen. Yes I realize that now and appreciate the support for you all so much. I wish you all the best as well 💯
41, one friend (which I'm wearing out my welcome), no lady, no job, no more money, and living out of my car. Literally waiting for my car to be towed any minute. Hungry, but I'm still sober. Crying, but still alive. The tough truth is life sucks. More so for some than others. Being alone sucks. Not being able to trust sucks. Not sure what brought me here, but I wish you the absolute best, man.
Thanks for sharing your experience and for listening. I appreciate that and wish you all the best in your future as well 💯
Understand brother,, I'm almost at the end of the line here getting kicked out of a low rent apartment by an owner who is a prosperity Gospel phony who wants to make more money off illegal immigrants (which I never have a problem with, people come here to get a better life and they should be able to do that)... I haven't been homeless for a long time, I always worked when I could and treated people well and this is what it got me... And it occurs to me, that these worthless pieces of garbage who screw over other people just to get a little bit more money DO have something coming to them, and if he's going to create a person with nothing to lose, well then maybe he should lose something... It seems a real ignorable way to go out, icing some worthless piece of s*** and then exit stage left myself but I really don't have the energy to go through being homeless again... Hope something turns up for you 🙏🙏🙏
Call out to Jesus to help you bro he really can help you and change your situation if you trust him
I feel you're pain. It's like hell on earth.
Bro your ability to wish him luck amidst all the struggle makes you an angel... shine bright man... you are not alone jesus is always with you
The comment section is therapy itself. Thank y’all for sharing your insights on situations like this, reading your comments has helped me feel better.
I’m glad to hear that. Thank you for listening and sharing your thoughts. I appreciate that 💯
Uffffff!!!! Best comments,or to be said at the best way,BEST COMMENTORS EVER😊...what a quality on these comments!
The reply sections are quite the opposite tho...but that's just a TH-cam thing the reply section is always full of very mean and hateful people unfortunately.
Totally agree 👍
You're not alone, good on you for sharing your experience
We are in the same boat brother, I don't trust anyone, because in this day in age you can't trust anyone
Agree 100%. I have trust and betrayal issues . I've been screwed over more than Carter's got liver pills.
This is why I stay to myself. The more I stay to myself and mind my own business, the less trouble I get myself into.
Thank you for posting this video. Now I know I'm not alone.
I'm 40, no wife, no kids, no social life. My true friends I can count on one hand. People are a liability. Solitude is a hard won ally. I'm very thankful for it.
Absolutely right
❤
"My true friends I can count on one hand" - that's how it is in life. You have that many? I teach my children that you can only have a 2-3 true friends, as friendship takes time and dedication 👍
Lots of people around is good for hobbyist/enthusiast groups, concerts, sports, and other things that can be social like that.
Nobody around is necessary for getting things done. Especially anything creative, you better not have anyone around because they will interfere any chance they get. Songwriting, building things, hell--just fixing your car. People around will interfere because that's what people do.
I don't know. I'm in the same boat as everyone else here, no wife, no kids, living my life, etc. but my is in her 70s and she is losing the ability to remember things and is unable to open jars, bottles, etc. So I help her out in most these things. I've also lived long enough to see how big targets the elderly are for family/friends attempting to steal their money in addition to scam artists. I'm living my best life right now and it's a long way off, but I'm starting to think if how long I could actually support myself alone as I get older.
Hey there. I’m 40 single, no kids, no partner and a few friends throughout the US.
I’m extremely lonely and spend most days not talking to people outside of work. I decided to isolate because I was tired of my toxic life and wanted to go on my healing journey. It’s been so lonely but I’m finally at a better place where I enjoy the peace
I bet ur overweight arnt u
right with you brother sounds exactly like my story
Yes peace is so important, I wish that good things can come to you on your journey. Thanks for listening and sharing your experience, much appreciated 💯
listen people out there are fucking crazy, you're better off being lonely than having fucked up folks in your life
Learning to live without people is so empowering. Living alone, and spending time alone, is two things that I can rely on, for maximum peace, and self-enjoyment.
I enjoyed your story and can definitely relate on many of your thoughts. I’ve had the family, wife (now ex), then gf, etc. Alone now with pretty much no one. It’s a challenge but I’ve embraced it and enjoy the solitude and not being betrayed. Hope you’re doing well and stay positive! Hit the gym, maintain a couple hobbies. Life is still good! 🤜🏻🤛🏼
Thanks for taking the time to listening and for sharing your experience. I appreciate your support and encouragement. I wish you all the best as well 💯
Hey brother! This video was something else for me. It made me think about my life for a whole day after watching it. After watching it, I considered making a similar one but realized I could never top your video. I'm about eight years older than you and have been through the military and a similar life you described. Your storytelling resonated with me and many others. (I can see in the comments. lol) I personally have never taken the time to make a comment like this... Life is indeed a rollercoaster of ups and downs. Right now, I'm doing well with a great partner and a thriving business. Something 8 years ago, I would have told you were crazy if you said I was doing what I'm doing now. I hope you're doing great too, and I hope you can say the same. I think you are exceptionally talented, and I plan to watch more of your videos.
Thanks brother I appreciate your support, and you taking the time to listen. I’m glad to hear that your life has improved, very inspiring to hear that. Times are getting better for me too these days thankfully. You guys have helped me through all the encouragement and advice I’ve been hearing in the comments. I greatly appreciate that, and wish you all the best 💯
I'm 40 and your story is identical to mine. I joined the Navy though and not Army. Everything else is scarcely similar. No wife, no kids, shy, the few friends I have are all now married and so I don't get to see them very much these days. Keep working on yourself like you are man, I think that's the key. Over the last couple of years I've got myself a Degree and am looking for a better job. I've also lost 120 lbs over the last 13 months. I'm improving myself 1 small step at a time
Good job sir, don't give up !
@@TheClemt33 Thanks man, and thanks for sharing your story.
120 lbs are you ok?
@@robertmann446 Yeah, I was very overweight. I haven't gone anorexic or anything.
You are making your way and I wish you all the best
This is me as well. I cannot deal with crazy people in 2024. All they do is judge and hate on each other, They are full of pride and are narcissistic, cold hearted and careless. They hate the truth and will block you for speaking of it. Good for you for being a loner. I too am one. It helps me keep my peace.
Yup. Culture wars
You speak pure facts 🎯
Yesss!!!
The worst thing about that is, that I see myself becoming exactly like this, but I lose more and more control over it.
Very well put.
Bless up brudda for your braveness in making this video. Life isn’t easy. Peace from the UK 🇬🇧
Thanks bro, may God bless you as well 🙏🏾
Mark, shows how many feel, trust is so important. You're not alone.
I'm 34 in the similar boat ..I trust no one , just waiting for my ticket to be punched . It's already impossible to live yet trust anyone in this new world.
Join the military create memories
@@alexcarino3274Bahahahaha Join the military? Bahaha Hilarious
@@mlb7583 take advantage of opportunity instead of just doing nothing and waiting to die or punch out
Brave New World
@@alexcarino3274he’s 34
This video has made me feel so much better. I been feeling like I am the only person living this way....everyone on here you have helped me so much with your stories.
I’m glad to hear that, thanks for taking the time to listen. I appreciate that 💯
This comment! I was thinking the same thing. I thought I was the only one but the comment section has shown me that it’s common than I thought.
Appreciate your honesty. I'm 30 and can totally relate I was an addict from 19 to 24 and so were the friends I had. To become clean I had to cut them all out of my life. And since then I haven't had a social life at all. Keep up the good work dude I subscribed
Thanks I appreciate your support! Glad that you have made a positive change, and I wish you all the best in times ahead brother 💯
31 no wife, no friends and no social life but have my beautiful dog. She keeps me motivated and she helps me stay in nature.
You living a miserable life 😂🤣😂
@@vincentkennedymcmahon50you are the miserable one. Animals are better than people and you are the proof
@@vincentkennedymcmahon50 better than you by the sounds of it.
@@vincentkennedymcmahon50 how do you know? lmao
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I'm 39, turning 40 soon... Divorced. No children. Your story is similar to a lot of us guys, who have trusted and been done wrong by friends, family, and ex wives or girlfriends. 2017 was my last relationship and after finally getting tired of being rejected and ghosted, I realized the only love I needed came from myself. I'd recommend reading into the Buddhist teachings regarding detachment. It's a great place in life to be happy in your own company, and no longer dealing with shallow individuals, just looking to suck the life out of you.
Yep. 2017 was my last relationship too. After my wife left I just do my own thing every day
You speak so much truth. Thanks for your insight words and for listening. I really appreciate it💯
Tarvitset Jeesusta et Budhaa.
I'm going to check those Buddhist teachings out. Thanks 👍🏽
Read a book called the Stellar Man by John Baines. Great read my guy
Thank you for having the courage to share your story.
My story is pretty much the same.
It doesn't matter if it is alcohol, drugs, jealousy, anger or gambling, if they are not willing to confront their demons, then you cant help Them. If you try you will be crushed.
Being on your own is ok, sure some times it sucks, but being with the wrong one and not being Abel to live out your Dreams, is like sufficating.
I feel you brother and I Hope for the Best for you.
You are welcome, thank you for listening and sharing your experience. I appreciate the support and wish you the best as well 💯
I'm amazed that you take the time to read or respond to all the comments, I hope you're doing good brother
Yes, I appreciate the support from all of you very much💯
Im 43,divorced almost 20 yrs ago. Had a messy relationship some years ago. I have been single for about five yrs , alone with no friends. Miss my children and thats about it. God Bless you brother.
Thanks for sharing your experience and for listening. May God bless you as well🙏🏾
I am in a very similar boat as you, stay strong brother
Very similar to my situation. I’m 46, twice divorced with kids but no friends, no need to impress anyone with BS, only to be there for me and my sons.
35 no friends black sheep in family, no kids, no social life, no social media life, too much wisdom. I’m glad you are here sir sharing this with us because you’re doin just fine.
😂😂😂 what a disgrace
@@vincentkennedymcmahon50 literally what I said lookin in the mirror today 😂😂😂
I appreciate the support thanks for taking the time to listen 💯
Same for me no kids no social media black sheep just me myself and I
Thank you for sharing. I am from a big family, but I like to be alone. Single at 45, introvert, no social life and I am loving it. That gives me more time to work, read, and spend time on my hobbies.
You are welcome, I appreciate you taking the time to listen 💯
Great video man. Thanks for telling your story. Hope you’re doing great and I only wish the best for you. Keep going❤️
I appreciate you taking the time to listen, thanks a lot. I wish you all the best as well 💯
The algorithm brought me here.
Glad you got it off your chest man. Keep at it.
I am female, 39, single, no friends and no family. I learned better being alone with no one. I keep to myself and do ME
I heard that, stay strong I wish you all the best sister 💯
Same here
Read wtf the Bible say about that
I've been alone since I was 39. I'm now 60, happy and have no regrets. I love my peaceful life.
@@ushoyouknowsum5500 Where exactly in the bible ??? It’s a fairly vast book.
57 and all alone and living my best life!! peaceful and free!...you've been through some tough times, it seems....sending lots of love and strength! and thank you for your service 😘
Yes! Thank you, I appreciate the support ! Much love to as well ❤️
Oh my goodness.
You are the most sincere and beautifully honest gentleman that I have ever had the privilege to listen to on my phone.
You do repeat a lot about what you don’t have. (!)
But you have YOU.
Please think on how many people in the world would happily give absolutely everything they have to be as real and decent as you are.
God bless.
Thank you so much for the kind words of support. I truly appreciate that, and may God bless you as well 🙏🏾
Nearly 34, no wife, no kids, no social life, my old friends from school/work are scattered around the US, no consistent contact.
Thanks for your service.
Since Covid my social life changed
I'm 43 and no friends, no partner, and no social life. After being with someone for over 20 years I found that a peace of mind is so priceless. At first I thought something was wrong with me because I really don't have a life. But Im so at peace with myself and Im ok with that.
I appreciate you sharing your experience and for listening. You’re so right, piece of mind is priceless🎯
I will be your friend.
Thank you needed this tomorrow's Father's Day. And it's not easy
Thank you for making this video. I bet you saved many from feeling solo in their situation of loneliness .❤
You’re welcome, I appreciate you taking the time to listen 💯
I'm 41, now single dad after 15 yr marriage and end do to be cheated on as well as loss of friends over time...crazy how the algorithm aligned us
You think it's the algorithm but they know your life.
Sorry to hear this bro, stay strong. Yes the algorithm. Thanks for listening and sharing your experience, much appreciated 💯
🙂 dont feel bad, its normal for all of us
me too take care of my kids pay cs while they living with me still wating to go to court because they designed the system to swallow us up during the process but I wont go down!
There's a whole bunch of us, man...
Came across your channel by accident. Thank you for serving our country. I'm 48 black man, have always been a loner. I can be social, hang out, conversate, date, but I've always been more comfortable when I'm alone. I've been in several relationships and literally have seen friends come and go. It all amounted to nothing. Now I'm just at peace. I love my hobbies and traveling and I happen to really love my Job/career. I've gotten more accomplished since I've made the decision to just stay single and mind my own business. Thanks for this vid.
Jesus Christ is the only way to everlasting life. He loves you, and He is with you. He will never abandon nor forsake you.
Cool, no problem it was an honor to serve. Thanks for listening and sharing your experience. Glad that you found peace and I wish you good times ahead as well😎
Stack money and get a Thai wife lol 😆 🤣
Dammmm and you are honest enough to share it. You deserve an award for that
I like listening to your story bro. Very relatable. In my opinion people don't talk truthfully often enough. I'm guilty of closing off at times as well.. But wether speaking to another or in a format like this, sharing truths and honestly can be so incredibly liberating and healthy. For the one speaking, and ones listening. I thank you for your service and your honestly in this video. Appreciate you🙏
You’re welcome.. I appreciate you taking the time to listen 💯
Thanks for sharing your life experiences. I'm almost 59, divorced after 17 yrs of marriage and have three children. I've been by myself now for 14 yrs. I went through the family court gauntlet and trust me you are better off remaining single, working in your career, saving money and just enjoying your life. We are in the last days where the love of many has waxed cold and it is just too dangerous for men to take the relationship risk in my opinion. God bless you and enjoy your life.
Anytime..thank you for listening and sharing your experience as well, I will take your advice. May you be blessed also🙏🏾
damn … my life to a T
i’m
62 divorced 18 years
3 kids
Divorced in 04, 1 daughter who lives with me. Never remarried & have no time intentions of it. I work, travel a little & save my money.
hahaaa..just be scared man..ru intentionaly stupid or is that natural one
I'm 50, divorced. I have no girlfriend. I have no real friends anymore. No social life. Relationships with my original family are pretty strained. I don't like my job, it's stressful and fills me with fear every day. I won't be able to retire until perhaps 67 or so. I live in a run down house because its the only one I could afford in my area of Australia. I'm often lonely but it's getting easier and am getting used to being alone.
Thanks for sharing your experience, stay strong brother. I wish you better days ahead.💯 I appreciate you for taking the time to listen as well
fear ..what kinda job
Trust in Jesus Christ it shall be well
Last sentence is gold
Just wanted to send you some love from Canada, stranger!
You did well with the video, man. I really hope you can get some closure on your own terms and heal. I can relate and be well. Thank you for your service.
Thanks I appreciate the support bro, and wish you all the best also💯
This makes me feel better, glad I stumbled upon it.
Same but im 30. Single 2 years, no friends, no social life at all. Go to work, come home and watch tv
Seriously, reduce the TV consumption or moderate it, as before you know it you'll be 40, and single, with no friends... find a hobby, or P/T Voluntary work! Get out there, get away from that screen, "STEP AWAY FROM THE SCREEN" you can lose years at that screen. Your in an important stage of life; the transition into middle age; so prep! All the best.
Volunteer with a dog shelter or a organization.
And when you are on your death.bed...will you be saying, man, I should have watched more TV...., at 30? You have a purpose! Life is meant to me lived..not just work + watch TV, unless that truly deep down makes you feel totally fulfilled in all aspects of life?
Compared to people in Sudan or Gaza or India
You won at life m8
Think about it
You get the luxury a 1400s king would envy
Perspective 🎉
So do something else
Same here.
No Friends.
No Wife.
Zero Social Life.
And I'm very happy.
How?
😂 y'all stupid lol.
I'm very happy to with what ever the most high has for me your health is your wealth if a family happens good but I'm not forcing anything it has to happen naturally
Are you really happy? Or are you telling yourself that as a cope? You don't even have to reply, that's something you should only answer for yourself.
@pimpdoggydogg8670 I'm very happy most my friends died went to jail are on drugs I'm 41 good health decent job with the post office very happy I wasn't a victim to society
keep it up man you are strong. keep yo chest up and grow. you go this. life is a highqay and is gets going and going. peace
Thank you, I really appreciate the encouragement 💯
Thanks for sharing. And thank you for your service…..Respect.
You are welcome, I appreciate you taking the time to listen💯
No social life. No friends (actually fake friends/frenemies). My only friend is my imaginary friend. People call him Jesus.
Yes..THIS! Thanks for listening and sharing your thoughts much appreciated 💯
He knew you before the world began. He's with you. He's coming back to get you, like a thief in the night. Stay strong.
You're hilarious! Why would you call Jesus imaginary?
You are not the only one.Most of the people are fake so,if you manage to find one genuine is a great blessing from God.Trust me one genuine friend is worth a lot.Bible also says to not be unequally yoked with unbelievers so,
There is that.There are fake people in church too,we need actual born again believer as a friend.😊
Yup definitely imaginary lol
In the same position at 23. I don’t really care about socializing and meeting new people anymore. I’ve tried that last year and absolutely nothing came from it other than the realization that people don’t matter that much and I’m on my own in this life. I could live in a farm with my animals and be fulfilled.
Get that feed bag son... feels bad seeing these farmers selling land for developers
I feel you, animal give off so much genuine energy and are real at all times
You’re 23. You haven’t earned your solitude. You have to get out into the world & make something of yourself. The lonewolf thing is a myth that will leave you socially inept.
@@Apollothe3 Says he's young and hasn't earned his "solitude" then says he's going to be "socially inept." Yeah if you're a gatekeeping pessimist just say it lol.
@@NamesZKPgatekeeping pessimist? You’re using a word & I don’t think you know how that word works. Socializing in person w/ others is like a muscle. If you don’t use it then it becomes atrophied & leads to social awkwardness & ineptitude because Humans are social animals. Why are you trying to pathologize optimism? Did the lonewolf comment strike a nerve?
hey man, thank you for posting this video. thank you for being honest and sharing your story, i watched and listened to everything you had to say.
For sure brother, I appreciate you taking the to listen💯
I'm 58 and have felt this way all my life and tried to listen to others in my younger years about going to parties and events and being social but always resorted back to my default of being a loner. I tell others who try to tell me it's not healthy that it's just opposite of social people that need to reach out to their friends daily or they get lonely and board with the advantage of not needing someone else to make my day happy. At my age I no longer feel solitude is abnormal as long as you can work, provide shelter for yourself, pay bills and feed yourself, you are 100% normal to be the single with no friends or whatever you choose. I see many of us who aren't social tend to have pets and that's great.
Thanks for sharing your experience, very insightful. I totally agree with your point of view. I appreciate you listening as well, and wish you all the best 💯
Friends? Social life? wife? WTF are those things?
Hey it's crazy how life can be at times
Its a bunch of P.I.T.A. that other people claim "you need".
It was a comedy series on television.
Me too!
Gifts from God of you are lucky.
I'm pretty much the same and love it. I don't have to worry about anyones drama or problems and don't have to share any of my resources. I'm cool being invisible.
Yeah I hear you, straight facts 💯
Facts
I am used to being invisible as well, for years now, just enjoying my peace, and trying to keep sane in this insanity.
There’s no shame in being lonely, however, there’s two people i work with, in my department that have no social life no family no spouse but use that lonely life to stir up trouble. So kudos to the people who keep their energy for peace ✌🏽
I can relate man, I have 3 sisters too and I stayed in my room a lot too but I had my reasons and this takes a lot of strength to open up man so keep staying strong man.
Thanks for taking the time to listen and for your support, I appreciate that 💯
Thanks for sharing your story. The older I get I feel like the less people I have in my life means less chaos and more peace for me. I'm 46 single for some years now, have a few friends and few family I can count on. I truly cherish my peace in a world that seems to be getting worse.
Anytime.. I appreciate you taking the time to listen. You are absolutely right peace is priceless 🎯
You seem to have a sweet soul... and unfortunately a lot of people take advantage of that. Sorry you went through those experiences. Stay blessed.😊
Thank you for the kind words and support I truly appreciate it 💯
I'm 36 never married, no girlfriend, not dating anyone, no kids, full time job as a truck driver, and I'm happy and content with it. I love my peace.
Bro have some kids I say they with slk respect
I'm 40 black single mom of two proud teens I raised alone which are both on the honor roll.No drama, no stress no friends, not much of a social life. It is peaceful but would be nice to meet other single men and woman as honest good natured people that stand on their words. Love & Light 🙏
Can definitely relate… Army vet here too! Good video man. Keep your head up… and if you’re ever out in central Cali you got some friends for sure! 🇺🇸
Thanks I appreciate the kind words of support💯
I’m 43 and am exactly the same way. No friends, no wife, no girlfriend, no kids, no social life whatsoever. I rarely even go to family functions. I have a couple of business associates I sell my organic produce to. Otherwise it’s just me over here at my little farm left to my own devices. I prefer it this way. I don’t even associate with my neighbors whose property borders mine. A couple from out of state bought the farm that borders mine 2 years ago, I’ve never met or spoke a word to them. lol
I enjoy being alone as well and haven't spoken to my neighbors in years, but don't you think when you're old and barely can move, an start reflecting, you'll feel lonely
I’m starting to embrace this lifestyle as well, definitely more peaceful. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and listening💯
I'm 26 now and that sounds like a good life to me tbh. Me and my animals on a farm eating good/living the good life chillin
@@Manhwa-recappedyes I think about me being older at least 7 times a day.
Wow, how interesting.