SYSTEM & SINGLET?! 1K Q&A (ft. Our Girlfriend)| ABOUTus | Dissociative Identity Disorder
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 ก.ค. 2024
- A special Q&A answering some of your questions! We recently hit 1K subs over here and we are so incredibly thankful & happy about that! We wanted to give you all the chance to get some of your questions answered. Stay strong everyone! Sennding so much love - Isa
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Lexy: “we’ve known each other since we were.. 10?” Isa: *confused lack of memory stare*
true xp - isa
Awww, Lexy knows you all so well! She immediately knows who's fronting when you switch, how adorable
Y’all are so cute
Lovely to meet you Lexy!!! Seeing you interact with everyone makes me so hopeful for my system and our singlet fiancé. Thank you for the hope
No problem
Your system and your girlfriend have beautiful relationships. Ive only just discovered your videos, but have an advanced degree in social work from a university in the US, with an emphasis on chronic and persistent mental health disorders. I have always been interested in DID and how it affects both the system diagnosed and others around them. Even as someone with formal training in mental health, I feel that there isn't enough taught about DID, and your videos have shown me some of what it can be like for the system and those around them. It makes me so happy to know that your system has found Lexy and vice versa. I wish you all the best!
These are some wonderful words, thank you
This video was wonderful and so well done. I'd love to see you guys make your icons again or do a video on misdiagnosis. Hope you all are doing well.
You are all so brave to share your story.justbtake care
Y'all give me hope, my boyfriend doesn't understand DID fully yet and he doesn't understand that head mates are still people and that they matter and he has a problem when we switch he'd try to "snap us out of it" because he doesn't really want to talk to anyone else and really sucks sometimes but hes trying his best to learn and I'm really hopeful that it'll get better!
It's not your fault and you're not wrong
@@thepizzasystem thank you ^-^ hes been warming up alot but he has a bad case of thinking he knows more than me about DID lol
@@vampirepossum8544 then explore and learn together
Awe that's sad n dosent sound healthy..if he can't love all of y'all he don't love u, because they are all u In a way..hope he realizes that
You are so cute together! I loved to see you smile so much PizzaSystem~ I also loved to learn more about you all >w
I relate so much to the social issues, keeping up with relationships, talking to people online or over text....i try to make friendships with people but i can only keep up with like 2 at a time fully the rest i forget about a lot cause we switch a lot and get amnesia or just have so much anxiety about it.....so i understand that completely. much easier to do it in person once people have shown they are safe.
also i just want to say it feels really refreshing to see you switch and not talk about it after and just see the photo/name change, and the yawning and random dissociation moments in the middle of talking..i know that sounds weird but....this is how it looks for us so its just really validating to see it in someone else even though im sure it feels vulnerable to show on youtube. i just really really really relate to you all and always enjoy learning about you and your system. thanks for sharing :)
that's so cute
The icons you made are genius. I love trying to ID them a split second before you announce who it is to test my knowledge. I've binge watched so many of your videos at this point that I'm starting to 1. be able to name the icon immediately and 2. sometimes I know who's fronting just by your face!
I also do that little game, but I'm not as good yet ^^
Loved to watch that, sooooo much love to all of you, this made my day❤️
Also pleaaaase more Videos with Lexi, you're so cute together 🥰
You guys are so cute together!! 🥰
Great advice. Thanks for sharing each of your experiences! 💜
Hope things are going better for your system.it is great to see you have someone to care and support for all.take care
You and your system and lover are beyond adorable! My system and i have a singlet fiance and we are so glad that you all felt comfortable enough to do this video! This should be very beneficial to help our fiance! - Button
Have a great day y'all! Great video
I loved this video! Congrats on 1K you all deserve it 🥺🥺 you’re so cute together!
I love u guys 💕
Congrats on 1k you deserve it
This is so cute 🥺❤️ sending much love and positivity to everyone in your system and your girlfriend ☺️
i love this video. Lexy is so wholesome, and amazing. i love your videos and this one is just as much. I love seeing system and non-systems getting along. Cant wait for the next video.
Congrats on 1k subs.
This is beautiful. Thank you for sharing both your collection of stories, as well as your girlfriend. My heart bleeds for you. You're never alone, and your strength is through your expression of this incredible journey. Much love, your ally.
thanks for including our question!!
This is really wholesome, I’m so happy for the both of you x
Edit: I asked where you are from, but I got the answer throughout the video x
awww I know how tiring it can be to rapidly switch so much I hope you weren't too exhausted after this video!! you both are very brave and cute together and I love your channel!!!!
Much love to you all!! Thanks for sharing about your lives, and hope you are doing better. Stay strong ❤
You all are so amazing! What an incredible journey. It's so important to have people in the external world that are understanding and supportive! So much respect for this system and singlet dynamic!
It’s not easy to describe stereotypes when it comes to the did systems. I believe your description of stereotypes is perfectly described in did patients because in alters system, the stereotypes can be positive or negative to the outerworld. I am glad you, in the red sweater alter, made the definition perfectly described in the word of stereotypes. Great job and I am still learning all the alters name. Can’t wait to do map of your system and it should help me understand your system.
🥰You guys are soooooo cutee🥰..I can see y'all cherish each other, and how she knows who is fronting and when is soooooo sweet....I hope y'all are happy forever 💙❤💜
New subscriber. Great work. Initial reaction? OMG ARMY?!?!
So, I just found you, binge watching your videos, and on top of that you're an ARMY????? This is amazinggggg✨💜 Lots of loveeeeeee, to you and your partner💖
Absolutely beautiful 🌹 gives us hope 🖤🐺
aww omg you guys dance!? it would be so cute to see a video of you two dancing together!!
maybe
Thank you for this Q&A :) It was very informative and cute at the same time that your girlfriend was with you. She didint even have to as who she was talking to, that for se signals that she know you all very well. So, if I may ask: How many alters are Lexy having a romatic relationship with? And how did it come to be that way? Dont need to answer. Keep fighting.
Is like having a big family's???
I think y'all are so beautiful together!
Hey! Started watching you guys last night and fell into a really philosophical place. You guys are so brave btw. Anyways, I’ve been wanting to ask your system questions in general, im really intrigued and i myself dealing with anxiety and depression, really relate to the sadness of your trauma holders, like just in your altars eyes, i see the same emotions at my core. Im so sorry to hear that people cant see that what you guys are going through is real. Im so happy to see u have someone who genuinely loves you, and as a whole. Anyways, just wanted to say that i really appreciate the awareness yall bring up and i’m shy as well to just post my questions here, so if u reply, ill put my email so you guys can decide to create a new one or not while we communicate, but id like delete it after so it doesnt stay up here. I dont have any socials so i dont really know how to like get to yall. If ever i get the chance to get my questions answered, i would really like for your gf to be there and like confort you, because i don’t want to trigger anything u dont want to live or talk about and be alone. Let me know x
You are welcome to just write to the mail address in the description
I’m sorry but I want that Bangtan hat.
Getting
I see that BTS hat!
Yeah, you dooo
You all cute 😊 really cute 😊
From Philippines
I am finally back to better mental state and can comnent. Yaayy. XD Sooo. After only a few minutes i just thought, how comfy Lena is in front of the cam. Like she does this ebery day. So goood. 😹👀😻 And soooo cuuuute, the interactions. Awwww. 😺👀😻😻 And yas ! I really would see Lena more often around, if she and you guys are confy with it. She is sooo lovely ! 🌈 Thanks for this video to all of you. Much intetesting news. Infos. I like. And yes, setting and respecting boundrys are absolut valid and the keys of any type of relationship. 200 %. :3 I personal would really like to be irl friends with yall, for sure. But i think you know, how much i like yall. 😹 Soo stay safe, brave and strong yall. Have a lovely day. 😺🌈🌻👋💗
So glad to hear you are doing better
@@thepizzasystem henlo girls. 👋 Thanks.
Will you being a po box in the future
we might do that
I’d be interested in hearing more about misdiagnosed, if you’re comfortable. Also wondering if you are in treatment? Best x
We will talk about that maybe in the future when it's not as triggering to think about >.<
@@thepizzasystem I understand, don’t want to upset you!
Does Lexy feel different towards the males vs the females?
I don't believe she does, she is extremely kind and loving towards all of us, regardless of the gender, age, role or relationship 💛 - tps
Are you real did patient?? I doubt
Yes we are! We have officially been diagnosed by a specialist working in that area, as well as they hav experience with other DID & trauma patients. - isa
BTS Beanie :) :) Are you an ARMY?
yeah I am
@@thepizzasystem That's amazing 💗 I'm Army too! Their songs are beautiful and have helped me a lot too!
@@megharaocanchi7985 Definitely
@@thepizzasystem Are you watching MAMA? I'm waiting for their performance!
@@megharaocanchi7985 yeah we are xD - isa
Do any alters hate the masks?
Masks? >.< Our system gladly wears them, if outside. I personally feel more safe, not only due to the reason why it's important to wear them, but also as a tiny hiding space from people - isa
are you french?
No. We are German
Sometimes I hear like French words with French accent. It's funny :)
@@jodymetayer6424 truee! but the german "r" is little different i remembered hah
Who is the- Real one? İm New here🙂
Hm, tough question... I'd say all of them 😏🙃
It's actually quite hard to figure out who was the "original", since this disorder is often developed in early childhood. I honestly would not be able to answer that >.< - Isa
@@thepizzasystem Oh thank you. I don't know about this yet, so I felt the need to ask. I think I've seen it on some channels it was called 'host'. it's been a long time
@@beyza9281 Nothing wrong with genuine curiosity ^^
As far as I know, the host is not 'THE real one', but rather the head of the system, often also one of the most stable AND relatively social ones. Of course I can't speak for the Pizza System, I don't know if they even 'determined' a host, everyone feel free to add or correct anything ^^
@@beyza9281 It is