I was wearing the WRONG underwear for years. Are you choosing the RIGHT ones for your shape?

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  • @paracoco1761
    @paracoco1761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4267

    Hourglass : Yes I keep pulling down my underwear at the back throughout the day. I didn't realise it was an issue with the underwear. I thought other women were just comfortable with the underwear riding up like that and I wasn't. 🤷‍♀️

    • @k8chillx
      @k8chillx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Same

    • @catherineschafer2583
      @catherineschafer2583 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Same! Thank you Chi!

    • @AlexandraNMorgan
      @AlexandraNMorgan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Me too. Also always hits in the wrong place as far as waist/hips

    • @shemica16
      @shemica16 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Same. I am happy I discovered panties that cover more butt on the sides 10 years ago (now I know they are called hipsters), but sadly it's still hard to find a cute two piece swimsuit that fits my bum. Once I find a cute one, I have to be torn between wanting a cute swimsuit and knowing I'll have to constantly fix my butt, or giving up on the cute one to find one that is more comfortable... And sometimes more expensive...

    • @Slightly_Classy
      @Slightly_Classy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      I am hourglass AF and have been wearing high rise briefs for years! I think briefs are sexy too!

  • @SparklyGirl9911
    @SparklyGirl9911 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2287

    The FIRST time I have EVER seen a video pointing this out! As Women we always think we just need to lose a few more pounds and then that particular panty will look the way it should! Great points, which are also what should be considered when buying jeans or pants. Well done!

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Thank you Victoria!

    • @Phoe8D
      @Phoe8D 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I like how you related this to societal issues, pretty eye-opening. The devil really is in the details isn’t it so..

  • @mirabellegoldapfel6256
    @mirabellegoldapfel6256 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1928

    I found the perfect kind a few years ago and never bought another kind (sewn some though). Let's just forget the word granny panties and call it vintage, as the rest of the fashion world does. Nothing wrong with a bit more fabric around the behind, look how much the guys wear! There is a reason every girl I know buys mens boxers as sleep shorts.
    Also cotton wins the material wars, the invisible stuff is so weirdly floppy and plasticky and if I want lace I get a pretty bra or undershirt.

    • @oriole9815
      @oriole9815 2 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      Great point about how much fabric men’s underwear consists of without being called Grandpa shorts 😂 I love the culprit ladyboxers, they are exactly what the name suggests

    • @cristianelemos8289
      @cristianelemos8289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Mirabelle goldapfel, you have great points here!

    • @Chaotic_Pixie
      @Chaotic_Pixie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I agree with all of this! If I don’t want VPL, I go with my skin tone boy shorts which are my perfect cut as a plus sized apple with an ample backside. But honestly, everyone can rock classic brief cut and if it’s being attractive to others you’re concerned about… many men and women I’ve asked actually think being “comfy cute” is the sexiest look of all. The… girl next door look if you will.

    • @DarkandStormyNight01
      @DarkandStormyNight01 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Chaotic_Pixie Not me! Granny panties look just like the name implies on me. And because I'm very short hipped, they come up over my navel. When I did wear them, I always had to fold them down for both comfort and so they didn't stick up above my jeans... OR skirt. Nothing made me feel frumpier or more uncomfortable than a full brief.

    • @kilodeltawhisky1504
      @kilodeltawhisky1504 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love my "vintage" panties. They stay put. I'm an apple shape. High cut legs end up in my crack. I hate that. Low rise fall off...hate that. VPL... I don't care. I'm comfortable. Panties show above the front waistband, either push them down, pull a shirt over, or wear high waisted britches. As for lingerie, never met a man who like the underwear on, more than off.

  • @lostcarcosa8106
    @lostcarcosa8106 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1015

    This applies to all clothing. Body positivity is also about educating yourself on what styles work best for your body type.

    • @fabienneclavier5984
      @fabienneclavier5984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Exactly. Unfortunately, when some items are considered “out of style” at some point it is super hard to find them in stores or within budget, so we get stuck with, say, skinny jeans or long jackets or what not and getting dressed becomes a chore 😭

    • @dreajp
      @dreajp ปีที่แล้ว +2

      EXACTLY

    • @magnarcreed3801
      @magnarcreed3801 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Na i just wear comfy shit.

    • @tulip811
      @tulip811 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@magnarcreed3801 it's not about "comfy shit" you child

    • @TillIGetToYou
      @TillIGetToYou ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can like a style and know it will look terrible. This applies to so much, hairstyles, glasses shapes, colours, clothes.

  • @patriciaheath6677
    @patriciaheath6677 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2553

    You have a great sense of humor! I had no idea that I have been wearing the wrong underwear my whole life - just assumed that underwear was uncomfortable and that there was nothing to be done about it! I will be trying your suggestions.

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Happy to help!

    • @meokhomokate8916
      @meokhomokate8916 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's a letter it'll set back on the Yankee I got Como level damn my mom will have anyone in here if I set up my date for UNC

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    • @alexadelanie6411
      @alexadelanie6411 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @sarlenawilhaanensen8214
    @sarlenawilhaanensen8214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1505

    I’m an hourglass and the ONLY underwear that is comfortable for me is high rise thongs. No matter WHAT underwear I wear it will creep into my crack, so I figure i might as well just have less fabric to get stuck in there. I pick my seat the least when I wear a thong. 💁‍♀️

    • @brekerr9323
      @brekerr9323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +190

      This is EXACTLY how I am and people don’t understand! I’m also an hour glass and can’t wear anything but a thong (usually high rise) cause it’s more comfortable than other styles when it does get stuck up there 😅

    • @RosyCheeksBoutiq
      @RosyCheeksBoutiq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      Omg SAME!!! Pear shape here🙋‍♀️ and I decided way back in high school I would rather have a tiny little strip of fabric up there than the entirety of my underwear 😂

    • @FranqiTown
      @FranqiTown 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      💯

    • @Mediocre_at__best_lil
      @Mediocre_at__best_lil 2 ปีที่แล้ว +181

      Yup, same, when I tell my friends that I only wear thongs they get all surprised and say “how in the world can you wear them, they’re so uncomfortable” trust me, if you have a huge butt, the underwear are gonna get in there no matter what so you might as well have the least amount of fabric in there

    • @margaritajacob6674
      @margaritajacob6674 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      @@Mediocre_at__best_lil Same for me here! Its the first time I see someone thinking the exact same thing about underwear😭 Idk why they find it uncomfortable, for me anything thats not a thong is uncomfortable, and I hate underwear showing under jeans!

  • @katemiller5990
    @katemiller5990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +630

    Curvy hour glass here. I struggled for years wearing bikini cuts but worked out over time that fuller briefs just worked better. However, I felt sad because I thought that if I was slimmer, bikini cuts would work. After watching your video this afternoon, I now don't feel embarrassed about needing to wear fuller underwear... and thanks for the tips about lace!
    You actually have significantly changed my life.
    Thankyou ❤️

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Thanks, Kate! Glad it was helpful!

    • @amykolterman3744
      @amykolterman3744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here, I prefer French cut because I feel like picking at the bottoms when ever I wear the fuller briefs. Never, ever will I buy butt floss. I'd be picking at my butt all day and I have a flat butt.

    • @JadeStone00
      @JadeStone00 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I have a booty as well as a muffin top, and I absolutely love something called "ladyboxers" (Culprit makes some great lightweight ones). They are basically boxer briefs for curvy bodies. Great for my long rise, plenty of coverage in the back, and no VPL because the "legs" of the underwear end below the seat of my jeans. I especially love to wear them with shorter dresses because I don't have to worry about flashing my "kit and caboodle" to the whole world by accident. 😂

    • @x-starlight-x
      @x-starlight-x ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have the typical hourglass measurements, 34-24-34, I'm quite petite, I don't have boobs or bum 😂 but I'm curvy, a small waist and big hips, so finding bottoms and of course knickers can be so annoying. I definitely agree with you, from a young age I have always favoured big knickers, I try to get 'pretty' ones or ones that don't give a vpl, I also find the odd style which is a cross between a Brazilian and a full brief which are perfect. But nothing beats a pair of big knickers 😊

    • @alicenlp5230
      @alicenlp5230 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i used to wear hipsters as an hourglass but I found thongs to be more comfortable because they don't ride up. And i just pull them a bit higher so they are a bit high rise. I almost never have to pull up my underwear that way and it also makes me feel a bit sexy and daring (cuz i never am usually lolll)

  • @TheMagicCrafter
    @TheMagicCrafter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    I don't know why TH-cam recommended this video at 10:40 at night, but wow. This is actually really interesting! Thanks for sharing this. I have so many different styles. No wonder so many of them don't fit well 😅

    • @lil_axts
      @lil_axts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same , here it's like 1:38 AM

    • @elenam2167
      @elenam2167 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol and here 3.57am 🤣

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Awesome! Thank you!

    • @NMyers51510
      @NMyers51510 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      10:00pm here as well and now I can't leave.

    • @twisty3139
      @twisty3139 ปีที่แล้ว

      Woah same it’s 10:40 for me too lol

  • @sophie1766
    @sophie1766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +686

    For hourglass & pear: Hipsters, boyshorts and the like don't work at all, as they don't cover the lower part of the bum. They creep up because there's too much fabric at the wrong place (the sides) and nothing to hold it in place... I discovered that what works best is a medium rise bikini/brief cut, with the leg openings set a bit more to the front, leaving more fabric at the back. :)

    • @k8chillx
      @k8chillx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I'm the same and I hate briefs because I have shorter torso but bikini works for me as long as the leg openings are wide enough

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Thank you for sharing, Sophie!

    • @symphonyl.6588
      @symphonyl.6588 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hi! Can you recommend some brands who does this? Thanks a lot!

    • @k8chillx
      @k8chillx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@symphonyl.6588 Not sure if you were asking me. I'm kinda pear/hourglass like Sophie described hers but also petite like 5'0." My butt volume (lol) is more towards the bottom if that makes sense. Target carries Auden brand. The seamless (thicker hem not like the laser cut) bikini or even some cheeky or the ones with lace trim fit well without my crack eating them up lol. The laser cut tho, does not work. I also can't wear boy shorts/boxer briefs. Having full thighs they ride up and sausage- cased my thigh or ride all the way up in the butt crack lol so if this sounds similar to you then what works for me might work for you too. I agree with Chi that briefs stay in place better but I really don't like how they look on me since I'm short and with short torso (and a lot of time their leg opening is small)

    • @thornappletea
      @thornappletea 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Eh, I'm an hourglass and I find they are one of the most comfortable for me...I have a v short waist and those hip dips and hipster things with the waistband sitting in the dips give me the best fit as they are filling them out a bit, but without rolling/crunching down into them. Yet another body shape variation - most advice given for "hourglass shapes" is uncomfortable and useless to me because of my actual proportions aside from horizontal measurements.

  • @TheHighPriestess9752
    @TheHighPriestess9752 2 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    I followed this advice and went shopping for a couple high legged cut panties, tried them on for a couple of days and went running back to the store to get some more. It’s being a game changer. I am glad to say that I will be cutting my allegiance from all the boyshorts and cheekys and other mess that I have buying all these years

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thanks for sharing, Delia! Glad it was helpful!

    • @SlavaZone
      @SlavaZone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The Natori French Cut briefs are excellent for this!

    • @neuralmute
      @neuralmute 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too - I'm a short pear with frequent weight fluctuations due to health issues, and high leg cut briefs are THE best undies I've found yet. Thanks so much for the tip!

  • @DelightfullyGrace
    @DelightfullyGrace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    As a pear shape, genuinely the best thing I’ve found is high waisted, high leg underwear with silicone around the edge (found mine at Soma). Since it’s high waisted/high leg, it doesn’t restrict the sides of my hips and make them look flat. The silicone keeps them from riding up and hides the lines, so you don’t really notice them under my jeans/leggings. 10/10, would recommend.

  • @micheller3251
    @micheller3251 2 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Inverted triangle: I only buy bikini and I've always wondered why people say high rise is more comfortable. To me it was, like you said, too much fabric that folds and moves around. Thanks to this explanation it is much more clear that high rise is just not for me!

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Glad it was helpful, Michelle!

    • @Ballaurena13
      @Ballaurena13 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm glad to hear that they actually do work for someone. I just always took them for either a cheep cut that they tried to trick people into buying or else a sexualized cut that some women wore despite the intense discomfort because they figured beauty required pain.

  • @carmelasantana3091
    @carmelasantana3091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +239

    Thank you for making this very important video! I wore the wrong type of underwear for years. I wear skirts and dresses (I look terrible in pants), so I need underwear with a high rise, so that my waistline, undies, tights, and belt all end up in the same place. I spent so many years fighting with the bikini cut, lol! I thought it was my fault my underwear kept rolling down. It never occurred to me that I had to treat underwear like every other item of clothing, and check for style and fit.

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you for sharing, Carmela! Glad you liked it!

  • @LexiLadonna
    @LexiLadonna 2 ปีที่แล้ว +407

    I have the hourglass figure, and my underwear is always riding up. I finally in the last couple years have started being able to identify what underwear works best for me, and you nailed it! It’s the high-waisted lacy stuff with really thick tops but cut high in the leg. I can’t say I know if you’re right for other body types, but you nailed it for me

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      That is awesome!

    • @ixoraroxi
      @ixoraroxi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Totally agree with you! Same here!

    • @ClareW23
      @ClareW23 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can you recommend some brands / models? Jockey midis are OK but sag through the day. Sloggi chic midis are close, but ride up a couple of inches.

    • @cheyennejernigan7942
      @cheyennejernigan7942 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ClareW23 my favorite are the high waisted, high cut undies from American Eagle

  • @catsgoolore
    @catsgoolore 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I dont know how Google knew my underwear was riding up constantly, but this is a lifesaver. Bless you and this knowledge

  • @imyourhappydrug
    @imyourhappydrug 2 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    Hourglass here, I advocate for thongs with a couple of centimetres of fabric sitting above the butt. They don't ride up your butt like underwear with more coverage and if they are the right size they are very comfortable. I wear a thong whenever I wear pants or any kind of tight clothing. To sleep or for flowy fabrics I wear hipster briefs with close to full coverage and lower down leg openings

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thanks for sharing!!

    • @capsulamental
      @capsulamental 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I had a very different experience with thongs (pear shape here).

    • @imyourhappydrug
      @imyourhappydrug 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@capsulamental Interested to hear your experience. I have a long waist and a round butt which just eats up tangas, brazillians, bikinis etc so it's either thongs with a thick band on top or boyleg briefs for me :)

  • @ruthdennisKnits
    @ruthdennisKnits 2 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    I avoided high rise undies because of the stigma of “granny panties”. I guess I need them with high leg 🦵 rise. I do like hipsters, found them several years ago. I like those lacy undies you showed 😎‼️

    • @CamelliaCorn
      @CamelliaCorn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      i love granny styles, theyre comfortable
      whos looking at ur undie all the time anw? 😂

  • @idahernandez9362
    @idahernandez9362 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Finally, I have not heard this from anyone else. So needed! It explains a lot. Thank you so much!

  • @hih1590
    @hih1590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +254

    this is like never talked about but i feel like it’s so important! to me it seems like underwear for women always are created from the male gaze, and it’s less about us actually feeling comfortable and more about appearance.
    my biggest issue is i want to wear more cotton (i’ve read that it’s healthy) but cotton underwear are like _always_ visible… ://

    • @annasolovyeva1013
      @annasolovyeva1013 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Cover it with clothing that's wide ir made of thick fabric. You never see cotton under mom jeans or full pleated woolen skirt

    • @lilyrpeace
      @lilyrpeace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Try intimissi seamless supima cotton

    • @kilodeltawhisky1504
      @kilodeltawhisky1504 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Oh well, who cares? Be comfortable. If a man likes you, he'll like whatever drawers you like, as long as you take em off...😘🤯

    • @hih1590
      @hih1590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@annasolovyeva1013 yeah that’s true, i’ve started wearing less tight clothes and it works fine, but i want to still be able to wear tight clothing sometimes!

    • @hih1590
      @hih1590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@lilyrpeace oh thank you so much! i checked it out and it seems to be exactly what i’m looking for! have you tried them yourself, do they work like expected? are they comfortable and stay in place?

  • @stephaniestokeseley631
    @stephaniestokeseley631 2 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    I hate full coverage high leg cut!😭 But I took your advice and I must admit it fits better🙂 thank you for explaining it!😊

  • @Martina_E
    @Martina_E 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    a few years I discovered high rise and I never looked back! I love your sense of humor and your tips are amazing. Thank you. 🙂

  • @77andsunny
    @77andsunny 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This is the first I’ve ever heard this information. Makes complete sense.

  • @pennypenny376
    @pennypenny376 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Love the dance break, I totally get it. I need to wear clothes that make me feel amazing!

  • @fireflyhaze4938
    @fireflyhaze4938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Hourglass and plus size here, and I agree! I'm so much more comfortable since I started wearing girl boxer briefs. Boxers for women nowadays come in great colours, can be bright and graphic, and when you wear them they look like cute mini shorts and I find the style is not just comfortable, but also flattering. I also find that a good elastic waistband makes a big difference to underwear, especially with boxers.

  • @comkver
    @comkver 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Amen! Thank you, Chi. I knew that bikini, hipster weren't working out for me. I learned that underwear should be upsized and that's not working out either considering the brand that I buy. But, I thought that meant I was regulated to briefs (boring). I will definitely be expanding my underwear selection to include high cut briefs.

    • @Joanna-jy3qw
      @Joanna-jy3qw 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am a pear shape...I feel thongs are the best. lots of freedom of movement. and no sweat between the cheeks.

  • @angelicamendoza2806
    @angelicamendoza2806 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    One of the best videos. Thank you for continuing to educate us Chi!

  • @zory6509
    @zory6509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You are amazing! I've never heard anyone even discussing underwear, but you are so right. For me the best kind is granny panties. Now you can buy them made from thinner fabric and invisible panty lines. Everything stays tucked in, no protruding stomach or muffin tops. So, let's just call them vintage and enjoy.

  • @G2girl18
    @G2girl18 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love this breakdown, thank you for sharing! So many of these kinds of videos resort to body shaming or operate on the assumption that everyone is chasing the same hourglass-centric beauty standards, but I was impressed by how neutral, thorough, and inclusive this analysis is!

  • @eileenternullo8077
    @eileenternullo8077 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I'm a pear with a long rise, and I'm always pulling down my underwear! Full coverage WITH elastic legs stays the best. I get Jockey briefs, but I'm definitely on #team granny panties. Great video!

  • @bearemysmom
    @bearemysmom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Thank you so much chi!!! I’m an apple shape and I had never liked high legged briefs because they reminded me of my mom and now I know why she wears they because we have the same shape. I hear a lot of lingerie people talk about bras but never underwear

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are welcome, Bianca! Glad you liked it!

  • @audrey5941
    @audrey5941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are my new favorite person! ❤️thank you for unlocking the mystery of good fitting underwear. I have wasted SO much money trying to figure out a good fit for me. I feel armed and ready to do battle! Wish me luck! 🙏

  • @Emblafant
    @Emblafant 2 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    Such a good video! I’m a pear but I actually feel the most comfortable in Brazilian cut. The underwear rising up and getting wedgies is a real issue with a big bum, therefore I love Brazilian. Since it’s supposed to go between your cheeks I feel like I stays in place a lot better than other underwear for me, also I don’t get panty lines which I tend to get with hipsters and bikini etc. :)

    • @HD-ks9pk
      @HD-ks9pk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same, no way would I wear full briefs. I only wear g strings

    • @loftgoddess
      @loftgoddess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes! Once I figured this out it changed everything in my underwear drawer! If I buy full-coverage underwear, I can either 1. Buy it big enough to cover my butt and be comfortable around my thighs, but it will sag around my waist. Or 2. Buy it smaller to fit my waist, but the fabric will dig into my thighs or simply not stretch enough to stay full coverage- I end up with a big fat wedgie. Brazilian/Cheeky undies fit my waist without digging into my thighs or bunching up in my butt. Lace edging is the finishing touch for no VPL. Yay!

    • @meaganstratton1733
      @meaganstratton1733 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      As a pear, this is also my favorite type. The fabric lays on top of the butt to hold in place and keep from riding down and very little fabric on the bottom to ride up. The legs are free and there isn't flappy butt fabric attempting to cover my large butt that isn't doing anything but bunching. I can wear the right size and don't need to size up to fit the thighs or width of the widest part of my hips so they fit. Also I just don't like really high raised underwear. I don't like restrictions close to my stomach.

  • @celiathirlwall3329
    @celiathirlwall3329 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Well done Che!! Who knew?! I sure didn't!! undies always uncomfortable and doing my best to stay clear of granny panties! Thank you for this informative video!!

  • @manao7278
    @manao7278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love this woman. I have always struggled and I never changed my underwear style.

  • @hollyramseyer7629
    @hollyramseyer7629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your videos and your advice is always spot on. I’ve been slowly building up a new wardrobe with your advice and I feel so much better.

  • @claudiaa.1591
    @claudiaa.1591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    I recently discovered the comfort of grandma's underwear! I like the way they look though. I'm an hourglass, and I've always worn bikinis which bothered the ways you described perfectly.

    • @kilodeltawhisky1504
      @kilodeltawhisky1504 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I finally submitted to them and love them. They stay put and don't creep between my glutes...

    • @brendamiller5785
      @brendamiller5785 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I found them so comfy as well. They may not have lace, but they come in pretty colours

    • @kkbird21
      @kkbird21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My friend's make fun of my grandma panties but I'll never part with them!

    • @1theatrechick
      @1theatrechick ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I wear them most of the time these days. I wear dresses and skirts most of the time, and they create the smoothest line.

  • @Sandra-bi7ii
    @Sandra-bi7ii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am so glad you talk about this personal topic. So helpful. Thank You

  • @Amy_the_Lizard
    @Amy_the_Lizard 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Whelp. I'm sorta in between hourglass and pear, and I for one already wear exclusively granny panties. They're nice and comfy, and for me that's really all that matters

  • @corinakostreba8752
    @corinakostreba8752 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    In the 1980’s, my faves were the high waisted panties which had the high cut leg openings. Best fit ever. Now, I wear cotton because I live in Florida. But recently I’ve begun designing and sewing my own bras and panties. No more fitting problems. Yay.

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wow, that's amazing! I wish I can sew mine too.

  • @nnennaumelloh8834
    @nnennaumelloh8834 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your sense of humor and this video was very informative. Thank you for making it

  • @KittenCasserole
    @KittenCasserole 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I would have never thought to measure the rise of underwear. Thanks for the fantastic tip!

  • @crasymuse
    @crasymuse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Thank you soooo much for telling this. It took a lot of time for me to realise that I feel uncomfortable with my underwear because it doesn't fit me but not because I don't fit underware shapes they sell 🤫

  •  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this informative hilarious presentation. I honestly had no idea about the rises. I’ve always hated wearing underwear, always uncomfortable and now I know why!

  • @lindamartin7800
    @lindamartin7800 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the information; really helps… I love your down to earth style … that means the true you just seems to shine through.. thank you! I smile when I watch you.

  • @marysia_ml3744
    @marysia_ml3744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you Chi, very useful tips as always 🙂

  • @marybarakat313
    @marybarakat313 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Yes!!! The problems with a constant wedgie! I am a combo hourglass/pear I agree I have been byuing myself a brief style lately and am trying to find the best to eliminate VPL

    • @rachelrucker5642
      @rachelrucker5642 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Low rise brief is the best way to go!!!

  • @lindagray1809
    @lindagray1809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It's so expensive to keep making mistakes so I've stuck to the same ill-fitting for years. The used to be fine until my apple grew ginormous! This encourages me to try harder.

  • @iliyanabozhanina1698
    @iliyanabozhanina1698 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your videos about the apple body are amazing. I didn't know I had apple body, but I would naturally have a sense of picking "high-leg briefs" and peplum tops, and wrap dresses. When I watch you videos, I can't agree more! I have made the same mistakes as you for the apple body before that you are describing in your other videos.
    It's so good to know you body type and what looks good on you. Shopping is way faster this way too.

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! It's really good to know your body shape and what looks good on you so you're not going to be in struggle when shopping! 😉

  • @n0tgunshy
    @n0tgunshy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love to see you having fun and dancing! Excellent video at exactly when I needed it. TYVM!

  • @tammymilda2169
    @tammymilda2169 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    your editing is so fun and adorable

  • @sandrasandoval4466
    @sandrasandoval4466 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this information. Your sense of humor is so cool. I loved the cute "expressions and eye rolling" while trying to figure out which underwear is good for body shapes. 💖🙏💖

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you enjoyed it! You're so welcome, Sandra!✨💖

  • @DrPsyc71
    @DrPsyc71 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have just watched you for the first time and I am IN LOVE! The dance of sexiness was HILARIOUS, mostly because I totally got it - you need good undies that support, shape, whatever, but you want to feel great too. Your little interlude was just perfect. I will definitely be subbing and watching more of your great humor with a lot of really useful information thrown in!

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, Casandra! Glad you love it!! ❤️

  • @abbyq6998
    @abbyq6998 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You're so right: High waist, high leg, lace back works on hourglass! I discovered this fact last year. Looking back on the years I wore incorrect undies, I really wish I had a guide like yours to go to. Thank you for this!

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for sharing, Abby! Glad it was helpful!

  • @jessabeauty917
    @jessabeauty917 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Well done, Chi! I learn so much from your channel.

  • @FreedomUninterrupted
    @FreedomUninterrupted 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I haven't even started the video and I am thankful for the content! This is such a struggle for real! I still fight with finding good panties!

  • @ritafairclough6470
    @ritafairclough6470 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just reviewing all my saved videos and your videos are just as enjoyable if not more to watch. Well done and a lot of work for this quality of information.

  • @deanli5793
    @deanli5793 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow Chi thankyou! I haven’t seen this analysis for undies before. I’m a rectangle with apple belly. After much trial and error and $$ I found waist height with high cut leg work for me…but I didn’t know why until now. Thanks again 😊

    • @ddb3126
      @ddb3126 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What brand did you find?

    • @deanli5793
      @deanli5793 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ddb3126 Target! High waist high cut leg style. I get them one size bigger than my usual jeans/skirts size that way I get as high a rise as possible and as high a leg cut as possible without going too crazy

  • @adriiko
    @adriiko 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This was very informative!! It never occurred to me to link my body shape to my underwear. Simple and genius !

  • @sunshineysideoflife
    @sunshineysideoflife 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Chi, I am so glad I came across your channel. Thank you for the great advice and the amazing, easy-to-watch videos.

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're very welcome! 💖

  • @fridamonlund
    @fridamonlund 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I adore the dance where you feel yourself in a summerdress and sunglasses! Made the whole video tbh ❤️

  • @rumdo5617
    @rumdo5617 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for your informative and fun videos.

  • @joannemorris4451
    @joannemorris4451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are right. I don't think I have had any comfortable underwear in a long time. Good advice!

  • @rouge7603
    @rouge7603 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for the advice for my pear shape. I actually feel more comfortable and confident with the styles.

  • @viciousonev4697
    @viciousonev4697 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Glad someone addressed this issue. Good thing I was wearing the right type. Thanks for this

  • @kendraaraiza7039
    @kendraaraiza7039 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you, this was so useful! I'm a pear with a lower belly (never had that until I had kids and hit a certain age 😵‍💫). I am constantly fighting my underwear, they're always creeping up or stretching and falling down. I have literally cut underwear off of my body and thrown them away when I was away from home. Lol! I always have VPL and the muffin top. I have tried sizing up, changing fabric, changing brand. It never occurred to me to try briefs. Thank you so much for this information! ❤️

  • @GenesisAcevedoDeChacon
    @GenesisAcevedoDeChacon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi, CHi! Thank you so much. I needed this video.

  • @donnakaymiller2532
    @donnakaymiller2532 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of the most useful videos ever!

  • @novalinnhe
    @novalinnhe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is such a great video, thank you so much! As an hourglass I always tend to go for boyshorts as I tended to feel they "looked better", but didn't really know why. This video has really helped me to understand why, and also given me a few ideas for some alternatives as well, which I'm very excited to try out. Thanks so much! Xx

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are welcome Novalinnhe!

    • @user-hi8rg7bl2s
      @user-hi8rg7bl2s 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are very articulate and clear. Blessings!

  • @Lulusnotreadyforthis
    @Lulusnotreadyforthis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    So happy to see this video! I have a naturally high waist and to be comfy I need high waisted underwear. Anything else just creates an awful line and a muffin top.

  • @ClaraBell3452
    @ClaraBell3452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I really can't stand briefs, boyshorts, or cheekys so I go with thongs that are very high rise. (I'm pear shape). You can still successfully wear a thong as long as it's very high rise and does not sit below your belly button, giving you a muffin top. I find this shape is very flattering for pear shape when the thong is v shape and angled to sit above your hip bones. Same thing with bathing suits. BIG leg openings are key

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you for sharing!

    • @CuteKristy179
      @CuteKristy179 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree! I’m pear shape as well and V shaped thongs are so flattering on me when the straps sit above hip bones. I also don’t like too much fabric bc it makes me feel bulky and uncomfortable when I’m wearing jeans.

    • @amykolterman3744
      @amykolterman3744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not a fan of butt floss. Had very heavy periods, so had to wear pads. Towards the end - I wore 2 back to back overnight pads. I could never wear those. I also have no butt, no need to advertise that. I'd be picking at my butt, looking for the material. I'd rather go with no underpants.

    • @barkspasenine
      @barkspasenine 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same, I also carry a lot of weight in my bum compared to my hips so I don't have to deal with the discomfort of choosing between a suffocating butt or loose waistband with a thong 😂

  • @pepperypepper8321
    @pepperypepper8321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i LOVED this video! So helpful and informative, but also SO FUN, hilarious, and enjoyable to watch! I adored this, thank you so much for sharing! Your dance at 4:15 especially SENT me LMFAO AHA!

  • @wijcik
    @wijcik ปีที่แล้ว

    I've never seen a slender apple before. I loved all the information in this video, and thank you for normalizing all body types.

  • @onedoor_
    @onedoor_ ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You're like the older sister that seems to know everything lol I love you for this!❤️❤️

  • @emilrojas2697
    @emilrojas2697 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love you!! You have saved my life 😅🤍

  • @yc5000
    @yc5000 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video was so incredibly helpful!! THANK YOU!!

  • @dianethompson9525
    @dianethompson9525 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for giving full coverage ideas that don’t look like granny pants!! Love your sense of humor!!

  • @mffmoniz2948
    @mffmoniz2948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much for doing this video. It's such a neglected part of being a woman. People only mention the visible panty line and maybe recomend tongs or invisible wear and that's about it. But there's so much more to it.
    I've tried different styles. The one i feel most confortable nowdays are basically "granny panties". High rise, the leg is just at the crease for thigh and butt, cotton. I can even buy them in white (or skin colour) to wear with white jeans. They cover so much and stop just at the right point. I don't need to worry about anything.
    I do still have some tongs for hot summer days. And some prettier lacy things. But I 100% choose comfort over beauty.

  • @klallamcedar0099
    @klallamcedar0099 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I've tried those invisible underwear before, unfortunately for me anything that isnt 100% cotton I just get a yeast infection or a terrible smell from the non breathable fabric.

    • @miegravgaardxoxo
      @miegravgaardxoxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I thought I was the only one 🥺 thank u for sharing

    • @a_grape_in_space1016
      @a_grape_in_space1016 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wait THATS whats causing it? I never even thought about the fabric

    • @miegravgaardxoxo
      @miegravgaardxoxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@a_grape_in_space1016 Not all fabrics are as breathable. Cotton is the best you can choose if you struggle with yeast infections. 😇 but yeast infections can literally be caused by anything, but it’s worth investing in.

    • @ccheyenne
      @ccheyenne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same, I had a ton of back to back yeast infections in my twenties and ended up with dermatitis because of the antimycotic creams and finally went to a dermatologist who solved all my problems: tea tree oil shower gel and only ever wear cotton underwear. It's been well over a decade and her advice is still working 😄

    • @zoeydeu2261
      @zoeydeu2261 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They sell cotton versions of these invisible panties now. Same cuts and styles and shapes, but made with cotton

  • @curlsavenue1035
    @curlsavenue1035 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you, my sister from another mother! I hope all the young tweens and especially teens watch this. The sooner they learn this, the better choices they'll make for their body type.

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome! I hope so! ❤️

  • @ramonabuxbaum
    @ramonabuxbaum 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your videos, they are mindblowing and helpful. Im petite and a pear shape and i would love to see a video of which bag fits to which body type the best. Maybe you could consider doing it. 😍💜

    • @spritesprite8185
      @spritesprite8185 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello I had to answer you because I just saw that vid a few wks ago and it's Great so if you go to her home pg right on top under *How to look taller and leaner it's only a few vids down. I hp that that helped my fellow petite ..Sprite🙋‍♀️

  • @kinseyfreed3692
    @kinseyfreed3692 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Omg. I am honestly mind blown! I literally knew nothing about the subject, just assumed it was preference only, and have never seen anything or any sort of content made on the subject! I am so freaking impressed. You literally hit the nail on the head.
    I have the hourglass figure, and my bikini cut just does not do it for me. That is what I pick out most of the time because it is what I prefer aesthetically, but it never stays in place.

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad it was helpful and you enjoyed it, Kinsey!

  • @Mali4d
    @Mali4d 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great video ! One style not mentioned here is Brazilian briefs. I’m a pear/hourglass and that’s the only thing I can ever wear other than high leg thongs. I can never make high coverage work no matter what I try - it always just rolls up and gives me a wedgie unless I go for a really large size 😂

    • @KalnayakJi
      @KalnayakJi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      WOW so cute so beautiful very Nice DP ❤️❤️🍫🍫❤️🍫🍫❤️🍫🍫❤️🍫 ❤️🍫🍫❤️🍫🍫❤️🍫🍫❤️🍫🍫 ❤️🍫🍫❤️🍫🍫❤️🍫🍫❤️🍫🍫❤️🍫🍫❤️🍫

  • @EstrellaRatonPerez
    @EstrellaRatonPerez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Genial, Chi, mil gracias. Me encanta tomar un café con tus vídeos. No sólo aprendo, es que eres divertidísima... Feliz Navidad desde España.

  • @Naga444
    @Naga444 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's heard to find videos that actuall adress the issue thank you for giving the required information sister

  • @CampLJNC
    @CampLJNC 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thanks for addressing this issue! I am a classic pear shape, and it took me countless wasted purchases to realize that none of the newer shapes fit my body comfortably. It is really hard to find a good pair of bikini underwear that stay in place. Like you said, sizing up is not always the answer. I can now tell by the shape (if they have some extra room in the back) if they are going to work for me. I now only purchase bikini cut underwear, but if they are cut straight up like a cheeky pair, they are not going to stay in place!

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for sharing, jp chacha!

  • @chicanica64
    @chicanica64 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you! Been doing it wrong…🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @rebekahsibanda2586
    @rebekahsibanda2586 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow I'm so glad I found this video, I'm an hourglass and I've always struggled with my underwear but now I'm sorted

  • @katherinegan9196
    @katherinegan9196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Excellent video but I am confused! Is it possible to make separate videos for separate shapes?
    Overall you are the best ! Thanks

  • @susiezhang3832
    @susiezhang3832 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just recently realized I've been wearing the wrong underwear and am planning to overhaul all of them. This video really helped, thank you.

  • @MsTD1995
    @MsTD1995 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you sooooooo much! iv'e been investing in "mini " size underwear as an hourglass and it's been so hard!!!! thought i'm the problem. gonna buy new HIPSTER ones soon!!!! thanks!!! i was going crazzzyyy hating the time before taking shower because i hated picking up new underwear to wear!!! 💚

  • @ninamorrish5210
    @ninamorrish5210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not sure how I ended up at your video, but watch it through, loved it, liked and subscribed!!💜👌

  • @NEChristo
    @NEChristo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I’m an Apple shape with short waist and like my underwear right under my belly button, like 1/2” under it and full coverage in hips, wide material on the sides like hipsters or boy shorts. I do have a flat butt. Your videos crack me up 😂 your body language in the little skits is hilarious.

    • @flyinflorist4977
      @flyinflorist4977 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same… if I buy the wrong cut/ rise ive found by mistake that they actually fit perfectly if I wear them back to front 🤭

    • @NEChristo
      @NEChristo หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@flyinflorist4977 lol I’ll have to try that

  • @Raynabananas
    @Raynabananas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    thanks for this! took many years of trial and error to figure out the best underwear for me. i may have to consider high rise at some point but hard to find high rise with enough room for the legs also. i constantly get wedgies because so many undies don't have enough coverage. also i only wear dark leggings cus it's less obvious with the underwear lol - light leggings are sooo dangerous!!

  • @theariesnme
    @theariesnme 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was sooo good. I struggled with finding underwear that fit my body type. I am plus size 16 with little to no hips, full bust, round in middle and always pulling up Jean's, jeggings or underwear because they have nothing to hang on . My Underwear would roll down constantly. I had been wearing high leg underwear by jockey and those seemed to be the best for me and to see that you made this video confirms that high leg is the best fit Thank you.

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome! Thanks for sharing!

  • @rimaalsekait
    @rimaalsekait 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Never knew I needed this! So glad TH-cam recommended this to me!

  • @annatheawesome1
    @annatheawesome1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Currently an apple who has worn hipsters since I was a teen but over the past year they keep rolling down while I'm moving which is both awkward and uncomfortable. I made the decision to get briefs a few months ago and it has been great! It has given me enough coverage in the tum, doesn't ride up the bum and they haven't rolled down once! I'm so glad fashion brought back high waisted! 😊

  • @Phoe8D
    @Phoe8D 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Finding an aesthetic is hard enough, I have to know my body shape too 😩 at this point I should just make my own clothes, I actually know how to sew but I only followed step by step manuals and help from teachers - never tried going by myself. I was scared I was going to make a design error like this and it would be uncomfortable, but with your input I feel like I could give it a try again

    • @PetiteDressing
      @PetiteDressing  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's so cool! You can do it, Sol! Can't wait to see you own clothes!

  • @victoriajeanleslie3116
    @victoriajeanleslie3116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is super helpful. It's advice I never knew I needed 💗

  • @itschelseakay
    @itschelseakay 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well, this was mind blowing and extremely helpful! Holy cow! Thank you 😍 Going to get some high waist - high leg underwear asap!

  • @sarawawa8984
    @sarawawa8984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I feel like I finally understand why people say thongs are comfortable. I find them so uncomfortable and just figured people were lying when they said they’re comfortable but it probably is actually that we have very different body shapes