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That's a lovely song Malinda - you and millions of others in covid hotspots like New York have had a very tough time, so I'm glad you are doing better. Let's hope that with more and more people getting vaccinated there is now increasing light at the end of the tunnel.
OMG 😍😍😍 How a beautiful song! It makes me do a reflection about bad moments and negative feelings that we can transform in good times and positive vibes ♥️♥️♥️ Your beautiful song 🎶🌟♥️☺️💝 Is… Is a gift for the world… It came to my heart friend ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ Thank you very much 😊
This needs to be in a musical, A mother helping and consoling her daughter through a Hard time. The Grandmothers words come through (Harmonizing with) the mother as she passes the words on to the new generation.
On the first anniversary of my mother's death, today, you gift me with this song and a chance for tears, beauty, forgiveness and moving forward. Thank you.
Sorry for your loss. I feel you. for me it's been almost 6 years and I fell back to a place to feel like it was just yesterday. Such a pain that she can't help me fall in love with the world more and more... So just hold on, better times will come. We have to make them proud. The hardest, but probably best thing we can do.
This is a message to anyone considering therapy, or are currently doing therapy - Stick with it, and do the work. I have been doing therapy off and on for over 20 years. In the last 2 years, I found a therapist who I've really connected with (you may find that not all therapists are a "fit", just like in dating or friendships). I have been making remarkable progress, and can honestly say I am not the man I was two years ago. I encourage you to find a therapist you connect with, who is a good fit/ match for you, and to do the work they assign to you. Lastly, you CAN get better, and there is ALWAYS hope. -- Geoff
"I'm doing .... .... .... I'm doing." That's a mood. (And I remember listening to "a song made of compliments" a little bit ago again and that's helped a lot.) I appreciate this song.
Malinda...I have no words. This song...I know you wrote it for you, but it feels like you wrote it for me in a sense. I am literally only a minute in and I want to cry. Thank you. I relate to your music so much. Thank you again.
KSmith Love I couldn't have said it better. I somehow came across this and it made me cry but I needed a good cry. This was so touching and sounds like me in life struggles and mental health struggles especially the last 2 years. I've struggled almost losing my mom 5 times in 2 years. Finding her lifeless and unresponsive in her bed. So this is just like it was written for me. Sending you big hugs.
Me to I'm dealing with my father passing away and dealing with going through all of his stuff with my mom and all of the arguments with family is tearing me down this just got me crying but it was good and this song was awesome she has an amazing voice
KSmith me too. Ive also got to 1 minute in and im tearing up and im 64 yo whos been thru more than one mental crisis abd still have to watch myself . Thank you @missmalindakat for this. Music was my saviour too ❤🤗🤗💋
'Though chance may choose our canvas, only we can paint the hues, but your flaws don't mean you're broken. They're just deeper shades of you.' -Fragments by The Stupendium
The beginning of 2020 was not bad for me, the pandemic didn't really affect me mentally. Not liking public places I am fine not going places. My depression was pretty much gone, only brought back by a couple things. But when I have a rough day, or when my PTSD has me shaking uncontrollably I just binge this TH-camr named Malinda Kathleen Reese and she just makes me feel better. After 30-60 minutes of her videos I am happier or calmer. I don't know what it is about her that affects me so positively, especially when I have been hurt by so many females in my life. But somehow she has this power to make people feel better.
I am glad to hear that it was not too difficult for you mentally. I am sorry you have been hurt and I am glad that you are in healing now. As she said in the song, "Let's try one more time." I know it is hard to get back up, but sometimes, when you've hit rock bottom the only thing you can do is get up to fight again. I am praying for you. God Bless.
Sì hai ragione , Malinda ha effettivamente un effetto positivo sull'animo delle persone , lenisce e cura i loro dolori e ti tira anche su se sei giù di tono , credimi non sei il solo , sono tante le persone che traggono giovamento dalle sue canzoni , me compreso 😊
Can I just say that her singing style is SO Disney like, whenever I listen to any of her songs both comedy and meaningful ones I feel nostalgic(for some reason), happy and a feeling of joy and calm *I LOVE IT* SHE'S MY ALL TIME FAVORITE SINGER!
crazy that you mention that because I fell in love with her intonation before I even heard her sing! Malinda!! If you could ever voice in an animation that would be amazing to listen to!
This song was posted at the best time. Recently it's been a struggle to get out of bed or to be around the people I care about without feeling disconnected. Thank you for sharing this song with us
"I'm doing" is the biggest 2020/2021 mood. But what hit me most was "try to forgive the dark days for teaching you the hard way". It's true and it hurts, but thank you❤
In January I lost my grandmother to dementia and age. She was my guidance through every choice in life and now is my guiding star. I didn't get to say goodbye, and even now, because of so many things, I can't even visit her grave. We all need hugs and reminders. Thank you for helping remember everything beautiful she gave me.❤
This hit too close, in a very right way. Crying almost before the song has even started thinking about how it will be. Thank you Malinda for giving me exactly the reminder about what matters in life that I needed, even though the song was for you. Let's all have a big collective virtual hug!
Damn. Who knew a silly Google translate version of Let it Go 7 years ago would lead to me crying on my lunch break over my mental health because of a song that blew me away.
Lost my mom in late 2020; I would give anything to be able to talk with her right now, when it seems like the history books are coming alive more and more frequently. What a beautiful song and sentiment.
I can see the pain in your eyes. I wish you will someday feel wholesome, it seems like you are either lonely or something else is not as you want it to be. I've been there. Life gets better.
just got broken up with and I'm doing terribly at school and everything's just going downhill and even songwriting isn't helping cus i just hate everything I write... So thank you so much for this song, i rlly needed this warm hug..💕💕
We are always our own worst critics.If you know or follow Victoria Justice, she released a song longer ago about being kind to our selves. Just know greatness can come from pain but like muscle memory, it is not something one can think or feel through.
Here - have some more virtual hugs! You are not alone in this place, where everything feels like it's just not getting better. It ain't easy, it ain't glorious - but you can find what makes you happy again. Creativity isn't easy when you are feeling low, and not feeling satisfaction from the attempt makes it harder and harder in the long run. You might wanna try some more guided activity like coloring books or painting by numbers for a change. For me , it's copying my favorite poem - Invictus in caligraphy. Even if I mess up a line, or my pen decides to just ruin my day in the last paragraph - I end up with a full page of (mostly) great letters spelling out a single fact: "No matter what - I am stronger then this."
I came from a dysfunctional family and I turned to my inner self and was told to join the Navy and they raised me up. I learned that success starts in the attitude. The attitude of my mind's eye. Thank you so much.
Your gorgeous voice stopped me in my tracks and by the end of this beautiful, beautiful song I had tears pouring down my face. This is the song my inner child needed to hear today. Thank you so much for recording it and sharing it - such a beautiful ripple to send out into the world.
Life can be very overwhelming, especially in today's world. You have to step back and not be hard on yourself, and sometimes take one step at a time, take time for fence mending, and let things go,
This song is so raw with emotion and it hits very close to home. I too struggled a lot with my mental health through the last year and though things are better now, they're not over. I hope to look back on this time in my life and see how far I've grown, but for now I'm just taking things one day at a time. Thank you for sharing this song and it's message with all of us, much love for you and what you do❤️
when you said "i wrote this as a hug to my inner child" it sent a shiver down my spine. Like I totally get how it sounds heartwarming in theory, but i see how i was as a child, and I hated being hugged with a passion. If i ever did something for my inner child it would be a firm handshake and a nod with a grunt of approval. Child me would have loved that.
When I heard this song I saw that feisty little happy kid who hit puberty hard. & luckly into a loving bath of motherly hope and compassion to stand upon thru the journey.
The line about letting hope in again... I may have felt that the most. I'm not sure how I manage to through all the loss and seemingly endless setbacks. But letting hope in again... somehow.
Dear Malinda, with tears in my eyes I've listed. Your words and song touch me ❤️ so deeply. And the jab...??? No way! I'll never take it in my life. Big Hug for you and a kiss from Holland. 🙏
Thank you for giving anyone with TH-cam privileges and internet connection to simply feel the need to be reminded that it's not only us, the children that bears the responsibility to feel the mountains of stress, but our mothers and our beloved alike that has the deepest connections with us through empathy and compassion too. I'm in the middle of ending my contract being a frontliner right now and have my little break from all the stresses from covid and every single illness one could be endanger of. With this, even if I wasn't allowed to cry (for my asthma is getting worse and my breathing will be too if I did) and thank God, I just teared up and felt all that's inside my chest suddenly felt like feather, even if taking a break strucks guilt and shame for resting for just a little while. Thank you, Malinda. You, and the rest of us that have listened to this, warmed our souls and gave us hope for tomorrow.
I was your age when I lost my mother. 30 years later I miss her everyday, nearly every hour I wish I could tell her something and feel her hugs and encouragement. Thank you for this song.
This definitely feels like the biggest warm hug I've had in a while. From that special person, ya know? It feels like taking a breath of fresh air after holding your breath for what feels like an eternity.. It feels like just being able to release all of the stress, anxiety, tension, and worry.
I’m working on a script for a school project and I think I’ll name it “Hope once more” after this song cause it reminds me so much of Aoife and her feelings to her (until recently) lost son, Arty. She can’t do much, doesn’t have much of a right to after giving him to the foster system and losing him till he gets adopted by a new family eleven years later, but she can offer a hand and make sure what happened to him doesn’t happen again.
Hello yall, over the last 2 years i would say that I am doing. Yes, that is about how i have been doing and the fact that I am doing is great, because not doing would be worse. So for everyone that is just doing, congratulation, and for everyone not doing, i sinsirly hope tomorrow sees you able to do just a slight bit better, and eventually we may all get to a point where more is in reach.
I've wanted to give you a big hug ever since you did that "No Mirrors For A Week" challenge. When you finally uncovered your mirror at the end of it, you were SO mean to your reflection, it made me sad.
Thanks for the hug Malinda; I think we could all do with one right about now. It is my 12th wedding anniversary tomorrow, I’m at the end of the first week of a 2 week vacation, and Wendy, my wife is bruised head to toe from an accident of 11 days ago. In sickness and in health indeed, but that’s what love is about! Stay safe, and may your voice and music be a balm to all, including yourself! It is a beautiful gift you give.
It was a terrible year for all rational people. You are in great company. We are all nervous about an uncertain future. Your music has helped us. I hope our listening has helped you.
Not ALL rational people. Personally, 2020-2021 have been the best 2 years I've had in over a decade. Covid forced me to heal some deep seated issues in my marriage. Working from home has given me back a whole 5 hours a week to devote to children and household things. Taking my kids out of school for home schooling has eliminated a ton of behavioral and mental health issues caused by our broken educational system. My local community has become much stronger as there is now this much deeper since of needing to take care of those around us that are struggling: when someone in our area gets sick or hurt it is no longer just their struggle, but everyone shows up with warm meals on your door step, or to mow your lawn, or to watch your pets and children when you can not. When my household got Covid, it was scary and we did get pretty sick, but seeing how willing people are to contribute an act of kindness to those in need feels like something new; so, even with the masks, and quarantines, and minimal face time with our extended circle of people, everyone somehow feels closer and more connected by having this common problem we all face and constant reminders that we all actually do need one another. My heart reaches out to everyone who is struggling, but there is a light in the darkness for those who are looking for it.
My Mom died of Cancer when I was 35. When I was 37 I was diagnosed with Ovarian Cancer and lost my ability to have my own babies. Those were dark times, and I suffered through surgical menopause and all the self-loathing of feeling incomplete. Last year, my Dad died. I'm all alone in the world, now and struggle with MDD everyday of my life. It's not easy, but every morning I have to remind myself I survived for a reason...my life has meaning and it has purpose. All the tears and regret in the world won't bring my parents back from the grave, though I still need them so desperately. Appreciate the life you have and the ones who share that life ... One day, they won't be there and you will have to find out who you are without them. Chin up...one thing I tell myself is...it could always be worse, because it has been worse.
Hugs to you Malinda and this song is so beautiful and I can relate to what it’s all about as I’m a long time sufferer of depression and anxiety. Your music is so therapeutical and helps me in a massive way. Huge respect to you awesome lady and thank you so much for sharing your talent and beautiful music to us your fans and friends. ❤
Do you want to protect yourself and mind? Just live for your own life, when you sing, when you approach life...do it as your soul and mind wish to live, simple, easy, be urself, those who love you will always do as you are, stop acting as you think people expect you will be. You are great person and woman before anything else. We love you. We are with you. ❤️❤️❤️
The hardste thing u can ask for in this life is a helping hand, I was too in a bad place, in 8 years i didnt care what Ive was eating and buy that time ive gain over 40kg on me and didnt Even see it until i felt the pain everyday, taking pills to the pain go away running away from the fact that i needed help, then day one a online coach ask me: "do u wanna live like that the rest of u life do u wanna do something for yourself for once?" So I did... today i have working with him in 62 weeks and now i lost all kilos that ive have gained, so for once i have something to smile for, i really love ur song and it helps putting this in perspective so thanks, all love from Denmark❤
Aaaand now I’m crying. This was so beautiful- you’re such a talented lyricist as well as a vocalist 😭 This one hits me even more than When It’s Not Now
I lost my mom on July 24 this year and my uncle 35 days later. My mom at 64 and my uncle at 65. I think there is no need to say more, I honestly don't know what person I'll be after. Thanks for this wonderful song.
Dang, even though Im not really going through a tough time, this song really hit my soul deep inside and I was just barely able to hold my tears back. Your voice is so incredibly angelic and i just love the passion and dedication that you bring into your songs. I would really like this song on spotify, to always have the option for a hug when i feel down. Thank you so much for this superb song.
I have found at 71 quit worrying about what other people think? Just be yourself and do what makes you feel good and have fun. I was a clinical psychologist for the Arkansas department of corrections for nearly 40 years.
Saw the clip on tiktok, made me tear up from the 1st line. Im 35 and my mom is still a beacon of hope and faith for me that often times she may not even realize she is doing so much just by being. 2020 kicked mental health butt. This song is just beautiful 💖
My husband and I found out we were expecting our second baby a week before everything shut down. The entire year I had to go to every appt alone, and she was born with a very rare genetic disorder. Needless to say, last year was the darkest year of my life, and this song hit me. Thank you for sharing this. ❤️❤️
I'm crying. I lost my mom and one of my best wisest friends in 2020. My dad basically abandoned me and my son soon after and my entire family fell apart. I had to figure it out on my own. I was a little shit with a lot of growing up to do and I sure did have to learn the hard way. Im still Learning. You did a good job, it really is like a hug. ❤️ Thank you.
This son brought me to tears as it made me think of my mom, she's been gone for 4 years now. I would give almost anything to have her back for 1 day. But I am thankful she isn't here to see what the world has become. Thank you for this song.
Malinda is like the big sister I never had. Even though I've never met her, and she probably doesn't know I exist, she has so much love for everyone, and her videos provide comfort and joy even during really hard times. We love you Malinda, keep being you. ❤
Thank you, Malinda. This song is amazing, healing, poetic, and beautiful. I had a mini depressive episode last year. It was only 4 days but when I felt the heaviness again I was scared. I had had a long depressive episode before which ended with me being hospitalized for suicidal intent. I don't know why but I started writing, unable to find the strength to stand, I remember sitting there and telling myself I was going to be okay, that I was better equipped now and had more equipped supports in place. A month later I celebrated the 5 year anniversary of me being released from the mentioned hospitalization. These two pandemic years have been some of the hardest in the six years since my big major depressive episode. I just felt like sharing this.
I've been going through a weird mental phase recently. Only a few days ago I told my mother that I might want to see a professional about it by the end of the year. This song is the one beautiful work of music that has made me tear up in a long while. Malinda's songs (especially A Song About the Scariest Moment in My Life, and now, this) have encouraged me to speak up about what I'm experiencing mentally and emotionally. I'll put this here to remind myself and anyone else who sees this to keep going. Thank you, Malinda.
Angel, I have so much respect for you. Very few people will publicly acknowledge their mental health difficulties, but you seem to consider the wellbeing of others to be more important than your privacy. You inspire me to be a better person.
ANGEL ON THEE EARTH WORRY NOT AND FEAR NOT FOR YOU ARE STRAIGHT UP SURROUNDED BY ALL THEE ARCHANGELS AND ALL THEE GUARDIANS ANGELS !!!!! YOUR ARCHANGEL LOVES YOU LOVES YOU LOVES YOU LOVES YOU LOVES YOU MALINDA !!!!!
"try to forgive the dark days for teaching us the hard way, we only learn all the hard way." I am literally sobbing right now. Thank you so much for this song, it helps me go through everything. I hope anyone who get to read this knows that this song is one of the sparkling hope and beautiful things in life and that you are not fighting alone, for that I'll let the hope in one more time. I am trying and you are too, and we are wonderful, and we are alive, and that is enough.
I have just discovered you and it couldn't have come it a better time. Having just lost a dear childhood friend and whilst watching my mother slowly fade due to dementia. Thank you for the tears you help me she'd with your beautiful music. The only other singer who can touch my soul like you do is Joni Mitchell. That's some special gift you have.😃
I always cry a little at the line “with eyes that have seen more than I ever planned for you” like I feel like the world is falling apart around me with floodings and wildfires and COVID and I don’t think I was supposed to be able to know of the disasters over half the world.
I usually don't comment under videos, but this time I have to say that this is a beautiful piece, which I can feel came from the heart. It touched mine, and you can be proud of what you made here. Thank for your amazing work!
When ever I’m having a bad day I look for a song of yours to help me make it through that day. This is one of my favorites although just seeing your glowing face brightens my day a little more. Thank you so much for sharing, you’re more help than you can possibly know
The first step in being enlightened is self inflection like looking into yourself and finding out what you really want even if it’s contrary to what you might think then to express yourself liberally…
It's fine for all who say get tough , but it's no help for those who are going through depression . Let's give each other and ourselves a big hug . It doesn't cure depression , only going to get help and helping yourself can do that . And a big hug is the start of that helping yourself . Lets all that need it virtually hug now. May the blessings of the Angel's be with all of you.
This is literally the most beautiful song I've ever heard, the lyrics, the vocals, the violin! Thank you so much Malinda for giving all of us a little hug with it as well It would be so great if you could post it on Spotify because I can't afford Patreon even though I'd love to
I’m sure you don’t call person million times but you have the voice of an angel! I’ve listen to every song this song I cried through the whole thing it is absolutely beautiful Melinda your parents must be so proud! God bless you and thank you!
Tha k you for sharing this and I am sorry that you have expieranced mental health problems. I am struggling with depression, adhd and generalized anxiety disorder for many years now and this gave me shivers because I know I have to get to know my inner child and self love. Thank you for reminding me.
Malinda as a music teacher, you inspire me so much. When I was young I used to write songs all the time but since music is now my job, I have a hard time getting in touch with my feelings and using music to heal. You're always so honest and sincere that you really inspire me to start writing again. Thank you so much!!
I.... cried. This is so beautiful. And I really did need to hear that. I cant really accept myself but I am so tired of all the negative thoughts. Thank you so much Malinda for your music and your words!
Thank you for being you malinda. I recently lost my mother and i cried like little child just listening to you singing. Thank you for bringing out the inner child in me
I've watched your channel off and on for awhile now and only recently subscribed for some reason. Best decision I've made lately! This song is something I (and many others) can relate to. In case you haven't heard it lately, I'm proud of you and the strength you had to make it through the dark times.
They say a 20 second hug can release enough oxytocin to make anyone feel good and better connected. I hope you feel how many people are positively wrapped up by your 3:50 handshake from the heart.
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That's a lovely song Malinda - you and millions of others in covid hotspots like New York have had a very tough time, so I'm glad you are doing better.
Let's hope that with more and more people getting vaccinated there is now increasing light at the end of the tunnel.
You, Malinda, are a star in this dark dark world :)
Here is a virtual hug to you, and everyone that needs one. It is OK to not be ok.
OMG 😍😍😍 How a beautiful song! It makes me do a reflection about bad moments and negative feelings that we can transform in good times and positive vibes ♥️♥️♥️ Your beautiful song 🎶🌟♥️☺️💝 Is… Is a gift for the world… It came to my heart friend ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ Thank you very much 😊
Damnit you made me cry again lol, it's a beautiful song, sung by a beautiful soul; thank you.
This needs to be in a musical, A mother helping and consoling her daughter through a Hard time. The Grandmothers words come through (Harmonizing with) the mother as she passes the words on to the new generation.
No, A DISNEY FILM!!!
That's a great concept. I'd say: write it into being! ☺
I can see that, because that's the way this made me feel - like the young child and my mother comforting me.
took Anais Mithchell a decade for Hadestown....song one down...next
Just got a bit dusty in here....
On the first anniversary of my mother's death, today, you gift me with this song and a chance for tears, beauty, forgiveness and moving forward. Thank you.
I am so sorry for your loss
Sorry for your loss. I feel you. for me it's been almost 6 years and I fell back to a place to feel like it was just yesterday. Such a pain that she can't help me fall in love with the world more and more... So just hold on, better times will come. We have to make them proud. The hardest, but probably best thing we can do.
This is a message to anyone considering therapy, or are currently doing therapy - Stick with it, and do the work. I have been doing therapy off and on for over 20 years. In the last 2 years, I found a therapist who I've really connected with (you may find that not all therapists are a "fit", just like in dating or friendships). I have been making remarkable progress, and can honestly say I am not the man I was two years ago. I encourage you to find a therapist you connect with, who is a good fit/ match for you, and to do the work they assign to you. Lastly, you CAN get better, and there is ALWAYS hope. -- Geoff
"I'm doing .... .... .... I'm doing." That's a mood. (And I remember listening to "a song made of compliments" a little bit ago again and that's helped a lot.) I appreciate this song.
Malinda...I have no words. This song...I know you wrote it for you, but it feels like you wrote it for me in a sense. I am literally only a minute in and I want to cry. Thank you. I relate to your music so much. Thank you again.
KSmith Love I couldn't have said it better. I somehow came across this and it made me cry but I needed a good cry. This was so touching and sounds like me in life struggles and mental health struggles especially the last 2 years. I've struggled almost losing my mom 5 times in 2 years. Finding her lifeless and unresponsive in her bed. So this is just like it was written for me. Sending you big hugs.
Me to I'm dealing with my father passing away and dealing with going through all of his stuff with my mom and all of the arguments with family is tearing me down this just got me crying but it was good and this song was awesome she has an amazing voice
Beautifully you must be an Angel love
KSmith me too. Ive also got to 1 minute in and im tearing up and im 64 yo whos been thru more than one mental crisis abd still have to watch myself .
Thank you @missmalindakat for this. Music was my saviour too ❤🤗🤗💋
"So eager to matter as much as you know you do" resonated a lot with me
I needed this. Thank you Malinda ♥
'Though chance may choose our canvas, only we can paint the hues, but your flaws don't mean you're broken. They're just deeper shades of you.'
-Fragments by The Stupendium
The beginning of 2020 was not bad for me, the pandemic didn't really affect me mentally. Not liking public places I am fine not going places. My depression was pretty much gone, only brought back by a couple things. But when I have a rough day, or when my PTSD has me shaking uncontrollably I just binge this TH-camr named Malinda Kathleen Reese and she just makes me feel better. After 30-60 minutes of her videos I am happier or calmer. I don't know what it is about her that affects me so positively, especially when I have been hurt by so many females in my life. But somehow she has this power to make people feel better.
I am glad to hear that it was not too difficult for you mentally. I am sorry you have been hurt and I am glad that you are in healing now. As she said in the song, "Let's try one more time." I know it is hard to get back up, but sometimes, when you've hit rock bottom the only thing you can do is get up to fight again. I am praying for you. God Bless.
Sì hai ragione , Malinda ha effettivamente un effetto positivo sull'animo delle persone , lenisce e cura i loro dolori e ti tira anche su se sei giù di tono , credimi non sei il solo , sono tante le persone che traggono giovamento dalle sue canzoni , me compreso 😊
My Irish mother would have loved you, she passed last year, and I miss her, this song saved me and made me remember how much she meant to me.
I am so sorry for your loss! That must have been really hard.. ❤️
Can I just say that her singing style is SO Disney like, whenever I listen to any of her songs both comedy and meaningful ones I feel nostalgic(for some reason), happy and a feeling of joy and calm *I LOVE IT* SHE'S MY ALL TIME FAVORITE SINGER!
crazy that you mention that because I fell in love with her intonation before I even heard her sing! Malinda!! If you could ever voice in an animation that would be amazing to listen to!
Haha...that's what I said in my comment, that if anyone is truly a Disney princess it's her.
That was absolutely beautiful. If I heard this on the radio, I'd have thought I was listening to Sarah McLachlan!
This song was posted at the best time. Recently it's been a struggle to get out of bed or to be around the people I care about without feeling disconnected. Thank you for sharing this song with us
"I'm doing" is the biggest 2020/2021 mood.
But what hit me most was "try to forgive the dark days for teaching you the hard way". It's true and it hurts, but thank you❤
In January I lost my grandmother to dementia and age. She was my guidance through every choice in life and now is my guiding star.
I didn't get to say goodbye, and even now, because of so many things, I can't even visit her grave. We all need hugs and reminders.
Thank you for helping remember everything beautiful she gave me.❤
This hit too close, in a very right way. Crying almost before the song has even started thinking about how it will be. Thank you Malinda for giving me exactly the reminder about what matters in life that I needed, even though the song was for you. Let's all have a big collective virtual hug!
**SENDING VIRTUAL HUGZ**
Damn. Who knew a silly Google translate version of Let it Go 7 years ago would lead to me crying on my lunch break over my mental health because of a song that blew me away.
I would so add this to one of my Spotify playlists.
Lost my mom in late 2020; I would give anything to be able to talk with her right now, when it seems like the history books are coming alive more and more frequently. What a beautiful song and sentiment.
I can see the pain in your eyes. I wish you will someday feel wholesome, it seems like you are either lonely or something else is not as you want it to be. I've been there. Life gets better.
just got broken up with and I'm doing terribly at school and everything's just going downhill and even songwriting isn't helping cus i just hate everything I write... So thank you so much for this song, i rlly needed this warm hug..💕💕
I'm so sorry you are struggling! Sending best wishes and virtual hugs!
@@tianahorsey-daydreamer8962 thank you so much💕
We are always our own worst critics.If you know or follow Victoria Justice, she released a song longer ago about being kind to our selves. Just know greatness can come from pain but like muscle memory, it is not something one can think or feel through.
I'm so sorry u r struggling i hope u will better
Here - have some more virtual hugs!
You are not alone in this place, where everything feels like it's just not getting better. It ain't easy, it ain't glorious - but you can find what makes you happy again. Creativity isn't easy when you are feeling low, and not feeling satisfaction from the attempt makes it harder and harder in the long run. You might wanna try some more guided activity like coloring books or painting by numbers for a change.
For me , it's copying my favorite poem - Invictus in caligraphy. Even if I mess up a line, or my pen decides to just ruin my day in the last paragraph - I end up with a full page of (mostly) great letters spelling out a single fact:
"No matter what - I am stronger then this."
I came from a dysfunctional family and I turned to my inner self and was told to join the Navy and they raised me up. I learned that success starts in the attitude. The attitude of my mind's eye. Thank you so much.
Your gorgeous voice stopped me in my tracks and by the end of this beautiful, beautiful song I had tears pouring down my face. This is the song my inner child needed to hear today. Thank you so much for recording it and sharing it - such a beautiful ripple to send out into the world.
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Life can be very overwhelming, especially in today's world. You have to step back and not be hard on yourself, and sometimes take one step at a time, take time for fence mending, and let things go,
We all need hugs once in awhile. Stay well, Malinda--beautiful inside and out!
ANGEL ON THEE EARTH FOREVER SAY'Z YOUR ARCHANGEL !!!!!
LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE YOU MALINDA !!!!!
This song is so raw with emotion and it hits very close to home. I too struggled a lot with my mental health through the last year and though things are better now, they're not over. I hope to look back on this time in my life and see how far I've grown, but for now I'm just taking things one day at a time. Thank you for sharing this song and it's message with all of us, much love for you and what you do❤️
when you said "i wrote this as a hug to my inner child" it sent a shiver down my spine. Like I totally get how it sounds heartwarming in theory, but i see how i was as a child, and I hated being hugged with a passion. If i ever did something for my inner child it would be a firm handshake and a nod with a grunt of approval. Child me would have loved that.
The fact that everyone else is suffering just like you makes your pain hurt less. What a beautiful song.
When I heard this song I saw that feisty little happy kid who hit puberty hard. & luckly into a loving bath of motherly hope and compassion to stand upon thru the journey.
The line about letting hope in again... I may have felt that the most. I'm not sure how I manage to through all the loss and seemingly endless setbacks. But letting hope in again... somehow.
Dear Malinda, with tears in my eyes I've listed. Your words and song touch me ❤️ so deeply.
And the jab...??? No way!
I'll never take it in my life.
Big Hug for you and a kiss from Holland. 🙏
Thank you for giving anyone with TH-cam privileges and internet connection to simply feel the need to be reminded that it's not only us, the children that bears the responsibility to feel the mountains of stress, but our mothers and our beloved alike that has the deepest connections with us through empathy and compassion too.
I'm in the middle of ending my contract being a frontliner right now and have my little break from all the stresses from covid and every single illness one could be endanger of.
With this, even if I wasn't allowed to cry (for my asthma is getting worse and my breathing will be too if I did) and thank God, I just teared up and felt all that's inside my chest suddenly felt like feather, even if taking a break strucks guilt and shame for resting for just a little while.
Thank you, Malinda.
You, and the rest of us that have listened to this, warmed our souls and gave us hope for tomorrow.
We all love you, please stay focused, we are together in this journey. xoxo
true first
I was your age when I lost my mother. 30 years later I miss her everyday, nearly every hour I wish I could tell her something and feel her hugs and encouragement. Thank you for this song.
This definitely feels like the biggest warm hug I've had in a while. From that special person, ya know? It feels like taking a breath of fresh air after holding your breath for what feels like an eternity.. It feels like just being able to release all of the stress, anxiety, tension, and worry.
I’m working on a script for a school project and I think I’ll name it “Hope once more” after this song cause it reminds me so much of Aoife and her feelings to her (until recently) lost son, Arty. She can’t do much, doesn’t have much of a right to after giving him to the foster system and losing him till he gets adopted by a new family eleven years later, but she can offer a hand and make sure what happened to him doesn’t happen again.
Hello yall, over the last 2 years i would say that I am doing. Yes, that is about how i have been doing and the fact that I am doing is great, because not doing would be worse. So for everyone that is just doing, congratulation, and for everyone not doing, i sinsirly hope tomorrow sees you able to do just a slight bit better, and eventually we may all get to a point where more is in reach.
I've wanted to give you a big hug ever since you did that "No Mirrors For A Week" challenge. When you finally uncovered your mirror at the end of it, you were SO mean to your reflection, it made me sad.
Song starts at 3:00 for those who come back for the music and have heard the intro a few times
Thanks for the hug Malinda; I think we could all do with one right about now. It is my 12th wedding anniversary tomorrow, I’m at the end of the first week of a 2 week vacation, and Wendy, my wife is bruised head to toe from an accident of 11 days ago. In sickness and in health indeed, but that’s what love is about!
Stay safe, and may your voice and music be a balm to all, including yourself! It is a beautiful gift you give.
It was a terrible year for all rational people. You are in great company. We are all nervous about an uncertain future. Your music has helped us. I hope our listening has helped you.
I did meet my wife and get married, so I have weird feelings about 2020, but really good and bad.
Not ALL rational people. Personally, 2020-2021 have been the best 2 years I've had in over a decade. Covid forced me to heal some deep seated issues in my marriage. Working from home has given me back a whole 5 hours a week to devote to children and household things. Taking my kids out of school for home schooling has eliminated a ton of behavioral and mental health issues caused by our broken educational system. My local community has become much stronger as there is now this much deeper since of needing to take care of those around us that are struggling: when someone in our area gets sick or hurt it is no longer just their struggle, but everyone shows up with warm meals on your door step, or to mow your lawn, or to watch your pets and children when you can not.
When my household got Covid, it was scary and we did get pretty sick, but seeing how willing people are to contribute an act of kindness to those in need feels like something new; so, even with the masks, and quarantines, and minimal face time with our extended circle of people, everyone somehow feels closer and more connected by having this common problem we all face and constant reminders that we all actually do need one another.
My heart reaches out to everyone who is struggling, but there is a light in the darkness for those who are looking for it.
@@nosajimiki5885 Thank you for sharing this beautiful experience.
Ur not racislanal
"Try to forgive the dark days for teaching you the hard way". I might have a new mantra.
Beautifully written, performed, and presented. thank you
"Try and forgive the dark days
For teaching you the hard way"
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Thank you for this song.
My Mom died of Cancer when I was 35. When I was 37 I was diagnosed with Ovarian Cancer and lost my ability to have my own babies. Those were dark times, and I suffered through surgical menopause and all the self-loathing of feeling incomplete. Last year, my Dad died. I'm all alone in the world, now and struggle with MDD everyday of my life. It's not easy, but every morning I have to remind myself I survived for a reason...my life has meaning and it has purpose. All the tears and regret in the world won't bring my parents back from the grave, though I still need them so desperately.
Appreciate the life you have and the ones who share that life ... One day, they won't be there and you will have to find out who you are without them. Chin up...one thing I tell myself is...it could always be worse, because it has been worse.
Hugs to you Malinda and this song is so beautiful and I can relate to what it’s all about as I’m a long time sufferer of depression and anxiety. Your music is so therapeutical and helps me in a massive way. Huge respect to you awesome lady and thank you so much for sharing your talent and beautiful music to us your fans and friends. ❤
È vero , ho sperimentato anche io che l' allure di Malinda produce un effetto antidepressivo e ansiolitico , quasi come una forma di magia 😊
Is da bangsshhhmack,literally brought tears to my eyes, wow,
..wake up call .. you are an angel, peace be with you and yours Roper 😁
I have no words as to how much this touched me. Absolutely magnificent
Do you want to protect yourself and mind? Just live for your own life, when you sing, when you approach life...do it as your soul and mind wish to live, simple, easy, be urself, those who love you will always do as you are, stop acting as you think people expect you will be.
You are great person and woman before anything else.
We love you. We are with you. ❤️❤️❤️
Dont worry Malinda, always remember we all love you.💕💕. Stay strong ,u don't realize but u make so many peoples days Soo much better
The hardste thing u can ask for in this life is a helping hand, I was too in a bad place, in 8 years i didnt care what Ive was eating and buy that time ive gain over 40kg on me and didnt Even see it until i felt the pain everyday, taking pills to the pain go away running away from the fact that i needed help, then day one a online coach ask me: "do u wanna live like that the rest of u life do u wanna do something for yourself for once?"
So I did... today i have working with him in 62 weeks and now i lost all kilos that ive have gained, so for once i have something to smile for, i really love ur song and it helps putting this in perspective so thanks, all love from Denmark❤
Aaaand now I’m crying. This was so beautiful- you’re such a talented lyricist as well as a vocalist 😭 This one hits me even more than When It’s Not Now
her voice makes me cry within few seconds.
Love you little Lady. You have touch me with your music so many times. Be happy and safe in His hands
I lost my mom on July 24 this year and my uncle 35 days later.
My mom at 64 and my uncle at 65.
I think there is no need to say more, I honestly don't know what person I'll be after.
Thanks for this wonderful song.
Dang, even though Im not really going through a tough time, this song really hit my soul deep inside and I was just barely able to hold my tears back. Your voice is so incredibly angelic and i just love the passion and dedication that you bring into your songs.
I would really like this song on spotify, to always have the option for a hug when i feel down. Thank you so much for this superb song.
I have found at 71 quit worrying about what other people think? Just be yourself and do what makes you feel good and have fun. I was a clinical psychologist for the Arkansas department of corrections for nearly 40 years.
To all those who need it, here's the tightest virtual hug for you 🤗🤗🤗
Saw the clip on tiktok, made me tear up from the 1st line. Im 35 and my mom is still a beacon of hope and faith for me that often times she may not even realize she is doing so much just by being. 2020 kicked mental health butt. This song is just beautiful 💖
Most beautiful, heartbreaking song I've ever heard you sing. And that's saying a lot.
My husband and I found out we were expecting our second baby a week before everything shut down. The entire year I had to go to every appt alone, and she was born with a very rare genetic disorder. Needless to say, last year was the darkest year of my life, and this song hit me. Thank you for sharing this. ❤️❤️
So here I am, crying like a baby, after weeks of being unable to cry...
Thank you so so much!
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I'm crying. I lost my mom and one of my best wisest friends in 2020. My dad basically abandoned me and my son soon after and my entire family fell apart. I had to figure it out on my own. I was a little shit with a lot of growing up to do and I sure did have to learn the hard way. Im still Learning. You did a good job, it really is like a hug. ❤️ Thank you.
This song really touched me deeply, last year was a definite struggle and I hope that you're doing alright currently Malinda💖
This son brought me to tears as it made me think of my mom, she's been gone for 4 years now. I would give almost anything to have her back for 1 day. But I am thankful she isn't here to see what the world has become. Thank you for this song.
Malinda is like the big sister I never had. Even though I've never met her, and she probably doesn't know I exist, she has so much love for everyone, and her videos provide comfort and joy even during really hard times. We love you Malinda, keep being you. ❤
100% agree
"Try to forgive the dark days for teaching you the hard way" that hit me. Like, the whole song hit me but that one sentence...
Thank you, Malinda.
This song is amazing, healing, poetic, and beautiful.
I had a mini depressive episode last year. It was only 4 days but when I felt the heaviness again I was scared. I had had a long depressive episode before which ended with me being hospitalized for suicidal intent. I don't know why but I started writing, unable to find the strength to stand, I remember sitting there and telling myself I was going to be okay, that I was better equipped now and had more equipped supports in place. A month later I celebrated the 5 year anniversary of me being released from the mentioned hospitalization. These two pandemic years have been some of the hardest in the six years since my big major depressive episode. I just felt like sharing this.
We understand love and sending you hugs and strength 🫶
Thank you for being real. As someone who deals with bipolar 2 I always appreciate someone who brings mental health out into the light.
I've been going through a weird mental phase recently. Only a few days ago I told my mother that I might want to see a professional about it by the end of the year. This song is the one beautiful work of music that has made me tear up in a long while.
Malinda's songs (especially A Song About the Scariest Moment in My Life, and now, this) have encouraged me to speak up about what I'm experiencing mentally and emotionally. I'll put this here to remind myself and anyone else who sees this to keep going. Thank you, Malinda.
You needed to be heard, and we’re all here to hear you out. I feel the same way too.
I am balling my eyes out right now. I feel like you gave me hug 🤗🙏❤️
Angel, I have so much respect for you. Very few people will publicly acknowledge their mental health difficulties, but you seem to consider the wellbeing of others to be more important than your privacy. You inspire me to be a better person.
This showed up on home page right after I fought with my father and even though we fight often it still hurts every time. This helped thank you
ANGEL ON THEE EARTH WORRY NOT AND FEAR NOT FOR YOU ARE STRAIGHT UP SURROUNDED BY ALL THEE ARCHANGELS AND ALL THEE GUARDIANS ANGELS !!!!!
YOUR ARCHANGEL LOVES YOU LOVES YOU LOVES YOU LOVES YOU LOVES YOU MALINDA !!!!!
"try to forgive the dark days for teaching us the hard way, we only learn all the hard way."
I am literally sobbing right now. Thank you so much for this song, it helps me go through everything. I hope anyone who get to read this knows that this song is one of the sparkling hope and beautiful things in life and that you are not fighting alone, for that I'll let the hope in one more time. I am trying and you are too, and we are wonderful, and we are alive, and that is enough.
I have just discovered you and it couldn't have come it a better time.
Having just lost a dear childhood friend and whilst watching my mother slowly fade due to dementia.
Thank you for the tears you help me she'd with your beautiful music.
The only other singer who can touch my soul like you do is Joni Mitchell.
That's some special gift you have.😃
So awesome to see you supporting betterhelp! They're great! Now let's have 7min and 16s of pure joy!
I always cry a little at the line “with eyes that have seen more than I ever planned for you” like I feel like the world is falling apart around me with floodings and wildfires and COVID and I don’t think I was supposed to be able to know of the disasters over half the world.
I usually don't comment under videos, but this time I have to say that this is a beautiful piece, which I can feel came from the heart. It touched mine, and you can be proud of what you made here. Thank for your amazing work!
When ever I’m having a bad day I look for a song of yours to help me make it through that day. This is one of my favorites although just seeing your glowing face brightens my day a little more. Thank you so much for sharing, you’re more help than you can possibly know
I'm saving this song in a safe place to sing to my children someday. ❤️❤️
The first step in being enlightened is self inflection like looking into yourself and finding out what you really want even if it’s contrary to what you might think then to express yourself liberally…
Positively beautiful. So glad you've found your path to healing, it seems these days not many of us ever do that very thing.
It's fine for all who say get tough , but it's no help for those who are going through depression . Let's give each other and ourselves a big hug . It doesn't cure depression , only going to get help and helping yourself can do that . And a big hug is the start of that helping yourself . Lets all that need it virtually hug now. May the blessings of the Angel's be with all of you.
This is literally the most beautiful song I've ever heard, the lyrics, the vocals, the violin! Thank you so much Malinda for giving all of us a little hug with it as well
It would be so great if you could post it on Spotify because I can't afford Patreon even though I'd love to
I’m sure you don’t call person million times but you have the voice of an angel! I’ve listen to every song this song I cried through the whole thing it is absolutely beautiful Melinda your parents must be so proud! God bless you and thank you!
I needed a hug and this song gave it to me, thank you
Tha k you for sharing this and I am sorry that you have expieranced mental health problems. I am struggling with depression, adhd and generalized anxiety disorder for many years now and this gave me shivers because I know I have to get to know my inner child and self love. Thank you for reminding me.
Malinda as a music teacher, you inspire me so much. When I was young I used to write songs all the time but since music is now my job, I have a hard time getting in touch with my feelings and using music to heal. You're always so honest and sincere that you really inspire me to start writing again. Thank you so much!!
You are like an angel! And thanks for your warmth. You are saving many lives….
I.... cried. This is so beautiful. And I really did need to hear that. I cant really accept myself but I am so tired of all the negative thoughts. Thank you so much Malinda for your music and your words!
This is so unbelievably beautiful. I’m honored I got to play on it!!
Cried at the first line :) you’re an artist and your soul is contagious
Thank you for being you malinda. I recently lost my mother and i cried like little child just listening to you singing. Thank you for bringing out the inner child in me
Dear God, Malinda.... Your voice is magnificent and the song is incredible. Don't doubt your own beauty it's manifest and present.
When mental health strikes we but yet suffer,, Melinda this song so impowers the will to live.
Thank you such a beautiful talented soul.
I've watched your channel off and on for awhile now and only recently subscribed for some reason. Best decision I've made lately! This song is something I (and many others) can relate to. In case you haven't heard it lately, I'm proud of you and the strength you had to make it through the dark times.
They say a 20 second hug can release enough oxytocin to make anyone feel good and better connected. I hope you feel how many people are positively wrapped up by your 3:50 handshake from the heart.