@@Carib6855 What expenses for the child does the father have if the mother is the only one taking care of it? Child support isn't about giving money to the mother or the father; it's about providing funds to care for the child.
@Carib6855 Does she not contribute when the child lives in HER house and lives off HER groceries and is taken care of full time by HER? Dad doesn't even pay child support... so right now mom and her sister are the only ones contributing time and money to this kid.
People need to stop calling it “helping with the child” when it’s their own child. It’s your responsibility. You shouldn’t be “helping” mom but raising the child together.
Women need to quit considering it their child until the child needs something then suddenly its his child. When it comes to custody and control its her child when it comes to support feeding and clothing its his child. Its women on this very same show haven't had their child in years but requesting that the father pay them child support even though the father has custody🙄🙄🙄
The father is a hypocrite. I was 100% for the dad until he confessed he had a girlfriend. I commend the mother for her desire to keep the family together - with the exception of the assault charge. I hope the mother files for support and the father grows up and financially, emotionally and developmentally supports his son.
Honestly I am unsure if the kid deserves either of them. The mom seems like she is practicing self-care and using the kid to avoid the depression which most likely makes her a neglectful partner (so not trying to keep the family together) and more likely to turn that victim mentality violence she showed towards her kid if they start acting up. Meanwhile, I don't think the dad is much better as he seems to have quite the hands-off approach. It honestly seems like the best chance that child has is for both of them to commit to a licensed therapist, and perhaps couples therapy. That way, they can learn to communicate and she can actually work on that depression of hers.
I’m a mother of 4. With my last baby I got PPD she’s nine years old now and I’m still on meds. I absolutely hate that people assume PPD shouldn’t last that long.
It's amazing to me how men who have no idea what a woman's body goes through during and after pregnancy but have the nerve to comment. And make laws about it 🙄
Any man who's jealous of a baby/child doesn't like children. He doesn't want the child because he thinks she/he are in danger, he wants the child to get back at the mother AND to not pay child support.
I agree. I think his story is ABSOLUTE bull. I think the TRUTH is, he saw a beautiful woman, they were having unprotected sex and suddenly she's pregnant and having to focus on taking care of the child rather than him and now he's jealous and bitter and the ONLY reason he wants child support is to get back at her out of pure spite. He has NO interest in being a real Dad. He just knows if he doesn't do it, she WILL and then HE will have to pay to support this child he finds so annoying. This child is 6 yrs old now. He's probably in school. He can play by himself some. He's not a baby anymore. But like any good Mom, she's tired and stressed and dealing with post partum depression and taking care of this baby and according to her, HE'S not supporting her needs....so WHY THEN should she support him?
@@Janthony1977 Sometimes women HAVE to protect other women....especially when men are acting a FOOL and being narcissistic, perfidious, vile ding-dongs. Do you REALLY condone this man's behavior, given what his testimony is? I listened to him....his concern was NEVER for his child. Not even a little bit. It was all about me, me, me. "Poor me, Judge. I'm not getting nookie anymore. She's always focused on the child." GROW UP, you brat. He has sex with this woman...gets her pregnant....and EVEN WHEN this child is 6, he is JEALOUS of a CHILD because the child is now taking his ex girlfriend's attention (because UNLIKE HIM, she is being a GOOD PARENT and taking care of her baby) and he's pissed because he's not getting anymore nookie. AND he's stepping out on her as well while she's raising his child (pretty much ON HER OWN, it sounds like) AND dealing with depression as well. Speaking as a woman who also struggles with depression, I KNOW how this feels. And he has ABSOLUTELY NO empathy for her either. He just wants to get out of doing his duty and have sex. That's it. He doesn't really WANT to be a full-time parent to his son. He just thinks that if HE gets full custody, she will have sex with him again and he won't have to pay child support. And I DO hope she heeds Judge Vonda's advice and comes back again and petitions Judge Vonda for HIM to pay her child support. It certainly sounds like he can afford it. SHAME on him. And JUST for your information, being a parent (ESPECIALLY a single Mom) IS INDEED a full-time job. You don't get to clock out at 5:00. Its 24/7 when you have a baby. They don't know that Mom is exhausted and depressed. They need Mommy. And he claims he is this famous producer....I haven't heard of him. And I'm a MUSIC CRITIC.
He filed for full custody first then child support so he wanted the child to live with him he has more stability than she does and she is sounding like she may be incarcerated soon so he may get his shot at being a better dad sooner than later
She gave the child to him when she fought the other women. The only thing the court will see is she's unstable period. If you can't deal with your emotions the court will lock u up.
@@thatmdguy4557 Okay, assuming that you are right that he filed for full custody first, then once custody is granted, then you file for child support, or, if the courts in that jurisdiction allow it, file for both at the same time, and once custody is decided upon, support follows.
They are both childish asf. He wants support for their child that doesn't live w him & she goes & assaults the woman he stepped out on her with instead of being grown & dealing with or leaving him. Now she caught a case. And she doesn't work, using the child as an excuse. He is 6 mam, that's means he's in school all day, she can go get her a "little" job, just like she said he has a "little " job, & both need to learn to be adults & coparent that child, because all that bickering & childishness is just going to confuse the child & that's going to end up making him resentful & angry. SMH at these fools
It annoys me when men try to tell women how long postpartum depression actually last… postpartum can last yearssss! It doesn’t just stop when you want it too.
So what exactly is he to do? He’s also going to sink into depression. How long do you sit around and wait especially if the person refuses to seek help?
@@contractkilla11 not necessarily, she stated that her sister helps her with the child so the child could stay with her sister while she’s in jail if she’s convicted so she could still eventually request the child support once the case is resolved
@@beatriceaba8851 I mean he’s already not taking care of the child, idk I’m not a judge or anything I’m just speculating. This is a theoretical situation
She's likely getting more from him now than she would if he were on Child Support, a lot of women avoid putting their baby daddy on Child Support for that reason.
I completely understand where she is coming from. HOWEVER- my personal feeling from experience of having a child, if you don’t ask for help, or vocalize what you need, your partner isn’t going to understand what they should try to do to help you. The partners often don’t understand that new mothers get overstimulated with being grabbed at non stop by the child, the loud crying and loud vocals of a child, constantly being needed, that will absolutely over stimulate your senses making you feel like don’t touch me when your partner wants physical attention. My husband also felt this way, left behind bc a new mom is so hyper focused on her offspring it’s hard to understand how to balance the relationships as a whole.
@@lissab2055 you and me both. I still have some postpartum left and my daughter will be 4 in January. Thank you for replying. It hurts and helps knowing other’s experience this.
My mother went through 18 years post partum depression. My entire childhood! Yes it's serious! It damn near destroyed my relationship with her. What did my dad do? Stuck. By. Her. Side. No matter what! That's a real man.
Funny how a real man is always someone doing exactly what women want them to do 🤣 And PPD don't last 18yrs, that's something else. Women be talking about baby fat and they got teenagers. Naw, that's just fat sweetheart
“The kid lives with me “ “My sister helps me with the kid” “I quit my job, was taking care of the kid” “She stopped paying attention to dad, so I want custody” “She can’t keep a job, but I want child support…” Are these two for real?
Neither of them sound like they are connected to this child the way they keep referring to him as the the kid, the baby and the child. This woman is hurt right you can see it in her eyes and hear it in her voice.
@@Casper-Ghost But it's a reenactment of real events. So that language is that of the real case which means the only part of my statement that probably doesn't stand is my assessment of the emotion the woman was conveying. And that isn't completely true because any decent actor is supposed to be able to convey the emotions of the character they are/were portraying so if they read the transcripts from the case it wouldn't be to hard to tell.
@@Tonnnnia These reenactments are of "scenarios" based on real cases and not real cases themselves though, so its not like the actors are reading from a court transcript but are instead given a script that is based on several cases but is arranged in such a way as to be both educational and entertaining. Also these guys are actors but that doesn't mean they're good or even decent as they're all amateur actors that haven't even done anything as big as a local commercial, so you can't put too much faith in their acting abilities since this is in many cases their first and last gig as an actor with lines. That said though most of them do a great job.
He came in there for some child support and found out this is a whole entanglement I love the judge sitting back there sipping on her tea getting all information about their shenanigans🤣😂🤣
Already addicted to the show. Just recently found out about the show. And I had to look for it. Glad to find it on TH-cam. Should be on TV but glad to see cases on the tube. Passes time when little one is down for a nap
He is soooo trifling.. how did he really think this would turn out... he's selfish ,dismissing & not knowing PPD & the cycles of the depression of it all.. claims 2b a producer with SEVERAL artist..then exactly when would he b the better parent..
Yea because PPD can last for 5 years.😂😂 Smh if ur bf was suffering from depression would u be cool with him not working for 5 years? And how is he selfish? He just wants attention plain and simple. Just like if a guy was working hard paying all the bills he prolly wouldn’t spend a lot of time with his girl. Obviously his girl would be upset and might cheat on him because he isn’t spending time with her. She should spend time with him especially since she’s a stay at home mom with one kid.🤷🏾♂️
@@maxinegonzales6474 : I am going through the same thing this Man is going through. Women don't want their partner looking at others, well help the Man out and do your duty.
If she has psychological problems including depression he should get the kids! Anyway she is unemployed so she is (financially incompetent) she is also morbidly obese and was convicted of a crime (assault)
Just found this channel yesterday, and I cannot stop watching!!! I love it! I like this mom, not the dad too much... but I really feel for her💚 Thanks for video🙃 Happy Easter 🐣🐤🐥 Greetings from Norway 🇳🇴 😀
He just miss that good loving. Bitter ass, and I'm a man & think he was wrong for that. People have to much time. Wasting that judge time like that. He should be ashamed of himself.
@@Casper-Ghost you are clearly a dick thinker rather than using your head post partum is not being sad actually depression leads to aggression and hormones don't get balance until at least a year after. Also a bad behavior is not a sign of evil anything. I can't imagine what you think about kids doing something bad cause it's a reflection of your actual thoughts
I have been binge watching since I’ve discovered you! I’m really learning new stuff I’ve never knew! Thank you so much❤️ I need a scenario on child support and claiming children on their taxes when they’re not suppose to. He thinks he can claim them because he pays child’s support.
Yes if it's in order he can my ex can claim my every other year bc he pays support. My husband can claim his daughter every other year bc he pays support. If dad paying and helping why shouldn't he hey to claim child sometimes
@@JudgeVondaB My Child’s father moved to the US before our baby was born. He has never paid child support, nor seen the child and the child is in her 20s. Am I able to file for back payments for child support as a struggling single mother please Judge Vonda B? I intend to give the entire amount to my child.
I do not believe he should’ve been jealous of the child as much as he was. He clearly showed that he was not as attentive as he should’ve been to the mother which is sad. But the man was right when he said that he is not a mind reader. If you know the type of person that he is then it should be one of the first things on your mind to tell them how you are feeling. They are both completely at fault and how this relationship turns out. Personally I am not sure if one or the other can take more of the blame.
Except he clearly stated that he comes to her and does things for her to try and take some stress off to help her relax and get back to normal and she just nodded and agreed, whereas she does nothing for him as a significant other/spouse. That's not being "jealous" of the child, that's a man having physical and emotional needs within a relationship and him trying to do what's necessary to have those needs met without stepping out of the relationship.
Ladies, ladies…from one female to another….when your significant other steps out on you it is not the other person fault…ITS YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER FAULT!! He is the one in the relationship with you not the other person, put the claim/charge where it should go. Also, why belittle yourself and be out there fighting? You can’t force a person to not cheat or do the right thing..Girl, move on and take care of yourself and your child.
In this case it’s her fault tho. If ur not gonna give ur man attention for like 5 years wth u want him to do? Dude was actually trying to make time for them to spend together.
Please please please upload more videos. I'm rewatching all your videos that I really loved and yep, that's all of them from years ago to present. I'm addicted...lol
I am a single mom of an autistic boy. Had him day one . The audacity of some of these women infuriated me lol. I know it’s re-enactments but I also know people act like this . My sons father pays the bare min and refuses to adjust every year after taxes . And even though it’s court order to adjust ( which in reality would protect the person paying if income lowers and keeps it fair if the income increases ) but I can’t bring myself to fight in court . I’m on disability , work and make sure my boy has everything he needs . I can’t wrap my mind around some of these “parents”
Love your content Miss Vonda B an intelligent black queen and you're not bias call it straight down the middle you're a real judge need more like you 🖤🖤🖤🖤❤❤❤❤
People are so immature what the hell is she fighting anybody for she's not paying him attention she's not taking care of him right who the hell is she to fight anybody she need to get it together we're all adults here if you're not taking care of your man or woman they're going to stray common sense And furthermore if it takes you 5 years to resolve PPD then you should have had counseling he shouldn't have to worry about you not doing what you're supposed to do for 5 years that's ridiculous that's ridiculous on anyone's level so anybody defending her saying what she should have done with putting her hands on him I wish she would have and she's not doing what she supposed to do
Imagine if u were dating someone after a long day at work, assuming he is single, and all of the sudden a woman comes in and assaults you while ur doing ur job.
@@jairoherrera4040 You are not wrong, I couldn't imagine a stranger coming to fight me at my place of employment. That's psycho, who fights someone at their job???? *Aptly titled video*
Right I got jumped behind some mess like this I knew nothing about her! I met the guy a week before nothing happen between us thank God then his child's mother found out about me seen me at the park I didnt even know who she was or nothing I find out before they jumped me who she was smh! Sad part is they weren't together she just didnt want him with anyone else she said she's gonna fight any female he talks to!
@@msredd8886 That's so sad women need to think before they react especially of a man. Because he'll talk to another woman and won't tell her nothing about his wife or his woman.
I just found out about you. You are a breath of fresh air!!! I must say you are very fair. I wish you even more success in your career and your TH-cam channel.
I just came across this show and I cannot stop watching it!!! Love it and I love Jude Vonda! So cute and sweet! Love how she tells it like it is! ❤️❤️❤️
Post partum depression brought on my darkest day when it was 2 weeks after my first was born and being depressed beyond reality i had to stop myself from dropping my child down some stairs. I told my husband i needed a break would he watch his daughter and his response was " I am busy, it's your job to take care of that baby". I went to a neighbor who had 4 kids, had a good cry, had a good talk and had a nap. Then went back home to an angry husband because i didn't tell him where i was going.
I like how this show tends to show favorable fathers and dishonest mothers too. It's important to provide visibility between both gender parenting issues. Because fathers too, have to deal with deadbeat mothers.
I just found out about this show this week. And I am ADDICTED lol. And the judges comments and the looks she gives i love it! Lol. You go judge Vonda!
Me too lol.
Same.
Same!! Thanks to tiktok 🤣🤣
Same, each episode im waiting for- "you OBVIOUSLY came here to waste my time"
Me too
Thé judges commentary ”her sister bailed her out, you weren’t there for her but her sister was” 😂😂 SHE IS ADDING SEASONING TO THE FIRE AND I LOVE IT.
That was one the best things I’ve ever seen in court😂😂😂.
I love when she says “You obviously came here to waste my time” 😂😂😂😂
Lol yes
Her favorite line
Every single case
Her signature line
I understand most of them are wasting her time tbh
😂😂😂😂
How do you feel obligated to receive child support when the child don’t even live with you 🤦🏾♂️
Because she needs to contribute some money as well.
@@Carib6855 What expenses for the child does the father have if the mother is the only one taking care of it? Child support isn't about giving money to the mother or the father; it's about providing funds to care for the child.
@Carib6855 Does she not contribute when the child lives in HER house and lives off HER groceries and is taken care of full time by HER? Dad doesn't even pay child support... so right now mom and her sister are the only ones contributing time and money to this kid.
People need to stop calling it “helping with the child” when it’s their own child. It’s your responsibility. You shouldn’t be “helping” mom but raising the child together.
no he's helping out the way he should you just don't like the way he said it
@@danielhorton9161 she’s right, don’t act dumb
@@gooberhoobin4658 no you're just mad that I'm right
It's clear as day she don't respect him
Women need to quit considering it their child until the child needs something then suddenly its his child. When it comes to custody and control its her child when it comes to support feeding and clothing its his child. Its women on this very same show haven't had their child in years but requesting that the father pay them child support even though the father has custody🙄🙄🙄
I have been binge watching these for like 2 days now. She is such a fair judge. 🥰
Once u start watching it u will be hooked instantly
She really is .. I love her❤
This judge cracks me up I love her 😂 she so interested in the story but she remembers she has to stay professional at the same time it’s hilarious 😂
She wants the tea 😂😂
@@MissLinCee ❤️❤️❤️
She loves the tea!
Right😂 it's like an "Oh yeah, im a judge* 😂
@@albertaowusu1790 😊
The father is a hypocrite. I was 100% for the dad until he confessed he had a girlfriend. I commend the mother for her desire to keep the family together - with the exception of the assault charge. I hope the mother files for support and the father grows up and financially, emotionally and developmentally supports his son.
Honestly I am unsure if the kid deserves either of them.
The mom seems like she is practicing self-care and using the kid to avoid the depression which most likely makes her a neglectful partner (so not trying to keep the family together) and more likely to turn that victim mentality violence she showed towards her kid if they start acting up.
Meanwhile, I don't think the dad is much better as he seems to have quite the hands-off approach.
It honestly seems like the best chance that child has is for both of them to commit to a licensed therapist, and perhaps couples therapy. That way, they can learn to communicate and she can actually work on that depression of hers.
I agree
He wouldn't be in court for child support if he was still with her you Genius....lol
If he's no longer with her, of course he's dating ! 🙄
Please have her come in again and have her file for child support lol. I need to see that 😂
I got you! Lol
WE ALL NEED TO SEE THAT
@@JudgeVondaB Girl i love how you put these moms who use child support as hair and nail support for them on blast. It's for the child not the mom.
Her eyebrows are intimidating
😂😂😂😂
I’m a mother of 4. With my last baby I got PPD she’s nine years old now and I’m still on meds. I absolutely hate that people assume PPD shouldn’t last that long.
It's amazing to me how men who have no idea what a woman's body goes through during and after pregnancy but have the nerve to comment. And make laws about it 🙄
PPD does NOT last 9 years. You have depression.
What a dirty old man!!!!! He should be with an old lady his own age. Perfect example of an old man dominating a young girl.
@@happycook6737 um no.....
@@happycook6737i’m glad you think you can tell other people about themselves
“That’s a lil ratchet 🥴” I am crying 😭
I'm dead 💀
Lmao yess! 🤣🤣🤣
Need a napkin?
Lmfao couldn’t believe she said it
Not a judge with butterfly locs. Absolutely beautiful and I'm here for it!
Any man who's jealous of a baby/child doesn't like children. He doesn't want the child because he thinks she/he are in danger, he wants the child to get back at the mother AND to not pay child support.
I agree. I think his story is ABSOLUTE bull. I think the TRUTH is, he saw a beautiful woman, they were having unprotected sex and suddenly she's pregnant and having to focus on taking care of the child rather than him and now he's jealous and bitter and the ONLY reason he wants child support is to get back at her out of pure spite. He has NO interest in being a real Dad. He just knows if he doesn't do it, she WILL and then HE will have to pay to support this child he finds so annoying. This child is 6 yrs old now. He's probably in school. He can play by himself some. He's not a baby anymore. But like any good Mom, she's tired and stressed and dealing with post partum depression and taking care of this baby and according to her, HE'S not supporting her needs....so WHY THEN should she support him?
Sounds like women protecting other women, she not even working.
@@Janthony1977 Sometimes women HAVE to protect other women....especially when men are acting a FOOL and being narcissistic, perfidious, vile ding-dongs. Do you REALLY condone this man's behavior, given what his testimony is? I listened to him....his concern was NEVER for his child. Not even a little bit. It was all about me, me, me. "Poor me, Judge. I'm not getting nookie anymore. She's always focused on the child." GROW UP, you brat. He has sex with this woman...gets her pregnant....and EVEN WHEN this child is 6, he is JEALOUS of a CHILD because the child is now taking his ex girlfriend's attention (because UNLIKE HIM, she is being a GOOD PARENT and taking care of her baby) and he's pissed because he's not getting anymore nookie. AND he's stepping out on her as well while she's raising his child (pretty much ON HER OWN, it sounds like) AND dealing with depression as well. Speaking as a woman who also struggles with depression, I KNOW how this feels. And he has ABSOLUTELY NO empathy for her either. He just wants to get out of doing his duty and have sex. That's it. He doesn't really WANT to be a full-time parent to his son. He just thinks that if HE gets full custody, she will have sex with him again and he won't have to pay child support. And I DO hope she heeds Judge Vonda's advice and comes back again and petitions Judge Vonda for HIM to pay her child support. It certainly sounds like he can afford it. SHAME on him. And JUST for your information, being a parent (ESPECIALLY a single Mom) IS INDEED a full-time job. You don't get to clock out at 5:00. Its 24/7 when you have a baby. They don't know that Mom is exhausted and depressed. They need Mommy. And he claims he is this famous producer....I haven't heard of him. And I'm a MUSIC CRITIC.
Exactly
Well neither of them seem to be a real treasure
Him: “Im in the entertainment business”
Judge: “What does that mean?” 😑😒
🤣
How dude gunna file for child support when THE KID DONT EVEN LIVE WITH HIM!!! Wtf is wrong with him. Smh I got a feeling he wants his family back.
He filed for full custody first then child support so he wanted the child to live with him he has more stability than she does and she is sounding like she may be incarcerated soon so he may get his shot at being a better dad sooner than later
She gave the child to him when she fought the other women. The only thing the court will see is she's unstable period. If you can't deal with your emotions the court will lock u up.
He is so manipulative.
@@thatmdguy4557 Okay, assuming that you are right that he filed for full custody first, then once custody is granted, then you file for child support, or, if the courts in that jurisdiction allow it, file for both at the same time, and once custody is decided upon, support follows.
There are many people who are collecting child support while the other parent is taking care of the kids.
Postpartum is real. It lasts years sometimes.
Best learn how to deal with it, then. Surely you don't suggest it's an excuse to check out?
Man I almost died laughing when he asked “what happen to the depression?” After she went to girlfriends job to beat her up. 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Lmaoooo yesssss
😭😭😭😭
Yo fr I just rewinded that part like 50 times 😂😂 The way she spun around in the chair right after he said that 😂😂
They are both childish asf. He wants support for their child that doesn't live w him & she goes & assaults the woman he stepped out on her with instead of being grown & dealing with or leaving him. Now she caught a case. And she doesn't work, using the child as an excuse. He is 6 mam, that's means he's in school all day, she can go get her a "little" job, just like she said he has a "little " job, & both need to learn to be adults & coparent that child, because all that bickering & childishness is just going to confuse the child & that's going to end up making him resentful & angry. SMH at these fools
Bruhhhhh
I completely love how the judge acknowledges everybody that leaves nice comment in her videos love her for that!!
You a baddie 😁
Except yours.
It annoys me when men try to tell women how long postpartum depression actually last… postpartum can last yearssss! It doesn’t just stop when you want it too.
So what exactly is he to do? He’s also going to sink into depression. How long do you sit around and wait especially if the person refuses to seek help?
I can not go to bed because I can't stop watching. My goodness, you leave me speechless every time.
This show makes my day every day I love how fair and no nonsense the judge is
Yes! She is so for real too😂😂😂 I know her house is full of love and laughter 💓💓💓
@@msrell u7
Same!
I love when the tea comes out! ☕
It’s fake doe
I love Judge Vonda so much!!! When she's serious ,she's tough, but when she is funny 🤣 she's is soooo funny in a good comical way 🤣🙂😂💕😘
She definitely should’ve placed him on child support. She needs to protect her child financially by all means necessary.
But she’s about to go to jail for that assault most likely and he’ll have the kid living with him, kinda pointless
@@contractkilla11 not necessarily, she stated that her sister helps her with the child so the child could stay with her sister while she’s in jail if she’s convicted so she could still eventually request the child support once the case is resolved
@rosannabello why would the court allow an aunt to take care of a child than the own parent?
@@beatriceaba8851 I mean he’s already not taking care of the child, idk I’m not a judge or anything I’m just speculating. This is a theoretical situation
She's likely getting more from him now than she would if he were on Child Support, a lot of women avoid putting their baby daddy on Child Support for that reason.
I completely understand where she is coming from. HOWEVER- my personal feeling from experience of having a child, if you don’t ask for help, or vocalize what you need, your partner isn’t going to understand what they should try to do to help you. The partners often don’t understand that new mothers get overstimulated with being grabbed at non stop by the child, the loud crying and loud vocals of a child, constantly being needed, that will absolutely over stimulate your senses making you feel like don’t touch me when your partner wants physical attention. My husband also felt this way, left behind bc a new mom is so hyper focused on her offspring it’s hard to understand how to balance the relationships as a whole.
Facts this is true 100% I had twins first go round and I’m still dealing with postpartum 3 years later
@@lissab2055 you and me both. I still have some postpartum left and my daughter will be 4 in January. Thank you for replying. It hurts and helps knowing other’s experience this.
My mother went through 18 years post partum depression. My entire childhood! Yes it's serious! It damn near destroyed my relationship with her.
What did my dad do? Stuck. By. Her. Side. No matter what! That's a real man.
By definition that isn't postpartum depression anymore though.
Your dad sounds like a beta
Did your mom go for mental help?
Funny how a real man is always someone doing exactly what women want them to do 🤣 And PPD don't last 18yrs, that's something else. Women be talking about baby fat and they got teenagers. Naw, that's just fat sweetheart
Post Partum doesn't last that long, that's depression.
I found this channel a few days ago and it's fullfilling my coffee breaks❤ Love from Sweden🇸🇪
Judge: “That’s a lil ratchet” I HOLLERED 😭😭
This whole situation is RACHET AF, holy cow.
What’s Rachet mean
Heated and often violent reaction to events and having attitude; almost 'gangsta'.
The way she said it like it's so scandalous 😂
I just found this show last week too and I'm addicted!
9:34 their reaction upon hearing he might have to pay was priceless
Wasn't it, though? Forgot about any and all of her attention then.....😏🤣
I hope they never stop making these shows.
I know right!! So hard to walk away from!!
Well this aged well. 😢😢😢 although i’m
very happy for her.
With all these hood rats procreating with other hood rats and other irresponsible parents it will go on like judge Judy.
“The kid lives with me “
“My sister helps me with the kid”
“I quit my job, was taking care of the kid”
“She stopped paying attention to dad, so I want custody”
“She can’t keep a job, but I want child support…”
Are these two for real?
He crazy.the child come first!!!!!
@@garyneither5 yes but don’t forget about your significant other
No. Theyre actors...
That bothered me hearing her refer to her son as "the kid."
@@savannahellis8888 that's the only way this makes any sense 🤣😂🤣it has to be fake...I swear I gotta headache 🤯
I absolutely love this judge. Fair, but also doesn’t care if she hurts anyone’s feelings 😂
He admitted to them being together for six years but he treats her like she was a one night stand
Neither of them sound like they are connected to this child the way they keep referring to him as the the kid, the baby and the child. This woman is hurt right you can see it in her eyes and hear it in her voice.
And when asked the child’s age they said “bout 6(ish)” like….you don’t know your kids age??
They're actors this show is all reenactments for educational purposes.
@@Casper-Ghost But it's a reenactment of real events. So that language is that of the real case which means the only part of my statement that probably doesn't stand is my assessment of the emotion the woman was conveying. And that isn't completely true because any decent actor is supposed to be able to convey the emotions of the character they are/were portraying so if they read the transcripts from the case it wouldn't be to hard to tell.
@@Tonnnnia These reenactments are of "scenarios" based on real cases and not real cases themselves though, so its not like the actors are reading from a court transcript but are instead given a script that is based on several cases but is arranged in such a way as to be both educational and entertaining.
Also these guys are actors but that doesn't mean they're good or even decent as they're all amateur actors that haven't even done anything as big as a local commercial, so you can't put too much faith in their acting abilities since this is in many cases their first and last gig as an actor with lines. That said though most of them do a great job.
He came in there for some child support and found out this is a whole entanglement I love the judge sitting back there sipping on her tea getting all information about their shenanigans🤣😂🤣
“What happened to the depression?” 🤣🤣🤣
😂🤣🤣
"Im in enterntainment business"
"what does that mean?"
"I produce" "yeah he producin alright"
I'm dying 😂😂
I wait for this everyday.
I just found this channel 🙋♀️
Dude same lmao
Just found out about it yesterday and I’m hooked
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I can't stop watching Judge Vonda! She's hilarious and professional at the same time.
I also just discovered this show this week, & I can't get enough.
"Did y'all come here to waste my time?"🤣🤣🤣🤣
She said “That’s a lil ratchet” yo I’m dead ☠️☠️☠️🤣!!!
Already addicted to the show. Just recently found out about the show. And I had to look for it. Glad to find it on TH-cam. Should be on TV but glad to see cases on the tube. Passes time when little one is down for a nap
She is fighting the other woman, that is crazy. Going to jail for foolishness.
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I don't know why they're mad at the wrong person she is as clueless to whats going on.
She got mad with her Pimp, what did she expect?? Bout PRODUCER.... producing TRICKS.
Yeah, she should have grabbed her man & beat *his* ass for cheating!
I have seen shorts of judge Vonda and now I’m binge watching full episodes 😂😂😂
This need to be on a major television network. This will be awesome show to watch
Love your show and I'm learning so much from different cases to help with my husband's situation with his ex wife and child
He is soooo trifling.. how did he really think this would turn out... he's selfish ,dismissing & not knowing PPD & the cycles of the depression of it all.. claims 2b a producer with SEVERAL artist..then exactly when would he b the better parent..
Right!??? He seems so concerned with getting his rocks off than being a dad and partner
Yea because PPD can last for 5 years.😂😂 Smh if ur bf was suffering from depression would u be cool with him not working for 5 years? And how is he selfish? He just wants attention plain and simple. Just like if a guy was working hard paying all the bills he prolly wouldn’t spend a lot of time with his girl. Obviously his girl would be upset and might cheat on him because he isn’t spending time with her. She should spend time with him especially since she’s a stay at home mom with one kid.🤷🏾♂️
@@maxinegonzales6474 I can’t imagine how difficult it is to be a good husband to women like this.
No matter what he does is not enough
@@maxinegonzales6474 : I am going through the same thing this Man is going through. Women don't want their partner looking at others, well help the Man out and do your duty.
If she has psychological problems including depression he should get the kids! Anyway she is unemployed so she is (financially incompetent) she is also morbidly obese and was convicted of a crime (assault)
This is my first day watching this channel and I AM HERE FOR IT ALL. JUDGE Vonda B. Does NOT come to play ! I love it 😍
We gonna ignore that Judge Vonda is slaying in this episode, I mean she slays everyday lol😂😍
Just found this channel yesterday, and I cannot stop watching!!!
I love it!
I like this mom, not the dad too much... but I really feel for her💚
Thanks for video🙃
Happy Easter 🐣🐤🐥
Greetings from Norway 🇳🇴 😀
I just found out about the show recently too.
Addicted already.
Love it.
Greetings from Ontario. Canada
Ain’t nothing like justice being served. Thank you.
I love it everytime after she sips her tea and then get down to business and say these iconic words: "Obviously you came here to waste my time!." 😅😅😅
One of my favorite judges show. Passion for our children . Much love always.
Yes, Judge Vonda and Judge Lake are jewels of the courtroom 👩⚖️👩⚖️❤
“You forgot about Daddy” 😂😂😂
He just miss that good loving. Bitter ass, and I'm a man & think he was wrong for that. People have to much time. Wasting that judge time like that. He should be ashamed of himself.
neither one of them said “my child” “my baby” “my mini me” Lord Bless that child’s heart 🥺
Rs
He actually did.
She kept referring to her son as "the kid". That really grated on me.
"how you want full custody but don't take care of the kid" HOW OTIS? Just calling him a baby a minute ago LOL
I’m always waiting for the “what you do living” when they pausing u know it’s not no retail job 😂😂😂
He said “What happened to the depression?” 😩😂😂😂😂😂😂
No matter how you look at it she's a Good hearted woman - I hope she finds peace in the near future
How is that a good hearted woman? All she did was make excuses for her bad behaviour.
@@batboy0707 No, I was thinking assault.
@@Casper-Ghost you are clearly a dick thinker rather than using your head post partum is not being sad actually depression leads to aggression and hormones don't get balance until at least a year after. Also a bad behavior is not a sign of evil anything. I can't imagine what you think about kids doing something bad cause it's a reflection of your actual thoughts
@@Rain-oq7vh ….she’s lazy entitled and has 0 accountability simply stated she’s the perfect role model 😂
“That’s a bit ratchet” Judge, don’t change.EVER. 😂
I have been binge watching since I’ve discovered you! I’m really learning new stuff I’ve never knew! Thank you so much❤️ I need a scenario on child support and claiming children on their taxes when they’re not suppose to. He thinks he can claim them because he pays child’s support.
You’re welcome!!! You got it!
It’s actually up to you and the father to decide unless it’s written into the court order. He can claim any moneys he pays in child support.
Yes if it's in order he can my ex can claim my every other year bc he pays support. My husband can claim his daughter every other year bc he pays support. If dad paying and helping why shouldn't he hey to claim child sometimes
@@JudgeVondaB My Child’s father moved to the US before our baby was born. He has never paid child support, nor seen the child and the child is in her 20s. Am I able to file for back payments for child support as a struggling single mother please Judge Vonda B? I intend to give the entire amount to my child.
I just found this show. I love how Judge Vonda explains her ruling after the show. Love the show.
If the mother is still dealing with postpartum she needs counseling. Probably a lot more to this issue.
“You ain’t had to jump on haar!” 🤣🤣🤣
I do not believe he should’ve been jealous of the child as much as he was. He clearly showed that he was not as attentive as he should’ve been to the mother which is sad. But the man was right when he said that he is not a mind reader. If you know the type of person that he is then it should be one of the first things on your mind to tell them how you are feeling. They are both completely at fault and how this relationship turns out. Personally I am not sure if one or the other can take more of the blame.
Sounds like she was doing the same not being attentive to her husband
Except he clearly stated that he comes to her and does things for her to try and take some stress off to help her relax and get back to normal and she just nodded and agreed, whereas she does nothing for him as a significant other/spouse.
That's not being "jealous" of the child, that's a man having physical and emotional needs within a relationship and him trying to do what's necessary to have those needs met without stepping out of the relationship.
Wife dried up and stopped banging
I've been watching this ALL day.. I'm obsessed!!!!
Been waiting on this. Need my dose of Judge Vonda B
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I absolutely love this judge!!!
Ladies, ladies…from one female to another….when your significant other steps out on you it is not the other person fault…ITS YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER FAULT!! He is the one in the relationship with you not the other person, put the claim/charge where it should go. Also, why belittle yourself and be out there fighting? You can’t force a person to not cheat or do the right thing..Girl, move on and take care of yourself and your child.
I agree 💯💯💯
The mistress owes the wife nothing. And vice versa.
In this case it’s her fault tho. If ur not gonna give ur man attention for like 5 years wth u want him to do? Dude was actually trying to make time for them to spend together.
@@shannonsharpe7695 what he should have done was LEAVE THE RELATIONSHIP not keep her there like an appliance
It's both their faults.
The best part the most informative ending, what you witnessed section. So very helpful.
I vote that Judge Vonda B should be in charge of all child support cases in the USA… Period!
Love this judge. She is fair. She listens to both sides and makes the best decision possible.
Her patience with both litigants makes her job more effective. The decisions that Judge Vonda B. are very effective.
She kills me when she *sips tea*
I love seeing what hairstyle the Judge has. Beautiful styles.
Please please please upload more videos. I'm rewatching all your videos that I really loved and yep, that's all of them from years ago to present. I'm addicted...lol
Judge: can you stop referring the 6yr old as a baby..
Man: ok my 72 month old toddler lol😂
I am a single mom of an autistic boy. Had him day one . The audacity of some of these women infuriated me lol. I know it’s re-enactments but I also know people act like this . My sons father pays the bare min and refuses to adjust every year after taxes . And even though it’s court order to adjust ( which in reality would protect the person paying if income lowers and keeps it fair if the income increases ) but I can’t bring myself to fight in court . I’m on disability , work and make sure my boy has everything he needs . I can’t wrap my mind around some of these “parents”
So these aren't real episodes? They're reenactments? What the hell 🤯😭
@celestefawn1941 I feel the same way! My little guy has down syndrome and autism, and I can't wrap my head around some of this!
These are so satisfying to watch!!! I like this judge!
Love your content Miss Vonda B an intelligent black queen and you're not bias call it straight down the middle you're a real judge need more like you 🖤🖤🖤🖤❤❤❤❤
She is real on her judgment! but she’s not a real judge, but she definitely needs to be!
Stay tuned.😎
@@JudgeVondaB we know u will be! You are to smart not to be!! An not to mention the Prettiest Judge in all the United States!!!
She is very bias.... or ain't we watching the same thing?
She's not bias?! Wow! 🤦🏾
When he said "well what happened to the Depression" 🤣🤣😂😂
So, you go and beat up the other woman and gave your MAN a pass and didn't whoop his butt? Interesting! 😳
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People are so immature what the hell is she fighting anybody for she's not paying him attention she's not taking care of him right who the hell is she to fight anybody she need to get it together we're all adults here if you're not taking care of your man or woman they're going to stray common sense
And furthermore if it takes you 5 years to resolve PPD then you should have had counseling he shouldn't have to worry about you not doing what you're supposed to do for 5 years that's ridiculous that's ridiculous on anyone's level so anybody defending her saying what she should have done with putting her hands on him I wish she would have and she's not doing what she supposed to do
That part!
I’m so addicted to this show it’s so funny and interesting I love this channel.
Old Playa got cut off from that young good 😂😂😂
I love drinking the tea during story time!
I don't understand some women when YOUR man is cheating. You want to go after the other woman. And she probably don't even know you exist.
I feel more bad on the other women because she is a victim from the man who she had no knowledge that he had a baby momma or a wife.
Imagine if u were dating someone after a long day at work, assuming he is single, and all of the sudden a woman comes in and assaults you while ur doing ur job.
@@jairoherrera4040 You are not wrong, I couldn't imagine a stranger coming to fight me at my place of employment. That's psycho, who fights someone at their job????
*Aptly titled video*
Right I got jumped behind some mess like this I knew nothing about her! I met the guy a week before nothing happen between us thank God then his child's mother found out about me seen me at the park I didnt even know who she was or nothing I find out before they jumped me who she was smh! Sad part is they weren't together she just didnt want him with anyone else she said she's gonna fight any female he talks to!
@@msredd8886 That's so sad women need to think before they react especially of a man. Because he'll talk to another woman and won't tell her nothing about his wife or his woman.
I just found out about you. You are a breath of fresh air!!! I must say you are very fair. I wish you even more success in your career and your TH-cam channel.
I'm waiting on that explanation too... (sips tea) 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Finding this TH-cam channel has made my whole life better ❤️😂
I just came across this show and I cannot stop watching it!!! Love it and I love Jude Vonda! So cute and sweet! Love how she tells it like it is! ❤️❤️❤️
I'm in the UK, just found this on you tube and love it!
“ but not for 5 years “😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
I tuned out as soon as I heard “mental health”. My dude is country as hell lol 😂
Judge..."ooh,that's a little ratchet"🤣🤣🤣
The way she said “what does that mean?” Without missing a beat 😂😂
Sounds like they need therapy separately and couples … he acting like a old sugar daddy 😂😂😂
I wish she had some new videos. I've watched all the old ones. I love them all
Just got yourself another subscriber🙌 Stay flawless queen 👑
Post partum depression brought on my darkest day when it was 2 weeks after my first was born and being depressed beyond reality i had to stop myself from dropping my child down some stairs. I told my husband i needed a break would he watch his daughter and his response was " I am busy, it's your job to take care of that baby". I went to a neighbor who had 4 kids, had a good cry, had a good talk and had a nap. Then went back home to an angry husband because i didn't tell him where i was going.
I like how this show tends to show favorable fathers and dishonest mothers too. It's important to provide visibility between both gender parenting issues. Because fathers too, have to deal with deadbeat mothers.
There was an episode of Judy Justice that showed a good dad and dead beat mom I loved that episode well parts of it anyway.
Do NOT waste Judge Vonda B's time... EVER!😍😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️