Embracing Fierce Compassion: Face Your Fear and Pain

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  • @D8vineEmpress
    @D8vineEmpress 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you, such important and excellent information for so many..

  • @truthspeaks623
    @truthspeaks623 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Nobel prize for this man.

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nonsense...he's a scammer!

    • @yovanycruz7294
      @yovanycruz7294 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@truthspeaks623 I agree!!!

    • @yrblizardful
      @yrblizardful 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@robynhope219 please elaborate why he's a scammer

    • @yrblizardful
      @yrblizardful 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@yovanycruz7294why is he a scammer? Honest question.

  • @pauloclavero184
    @pauloclavero184 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for Caring and Sharing, to whom ever is posting these lessons thank you too.🙌🏾🖖🏾🫶🏾🙏🏾💗🔑

  • @Musecollective
    @Musecollective 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Seeing the image of what I so desperately wanted & needed but missed out on, NO fault of my own, just brought me to tears. 💔

  • @johnwerahiko6226
    @johnwerahiko6226 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Im so lucky i was built with courage and determination fhat gives me the fierce compassion to go through my healing process.

    • @insideserene
      @insideserene  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So happy for you ❤️

    • @CRich-n3w
      @CRich-n3w 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@johnwerahiko6226 hell yes I’m that way too. I’m pretty proud of myself and just keep working on my own best thing to me. I’m going through some stuff right now but I’m tackling it every day. We are blessed to have this incredible information

  • @kingofdubb2133
    @kingofdubb2133 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    That's all very well, but as Gabor Mate himself says, if your carrying a lot of childhood trauma you need the help of a practitioner/therapist - you can't do it on your own. It doesn't matter if its Gabor Mate's Compassionate Inquiry, Peter Levine's Somatic Experiencing, Richard Schwartz's Internal Family Systems, or any other similar trauma-informed therapy, the more trauma you carry, the more sessions you are going to need, and the more expensive it will be, and unfortunately most people who are suffering from depression, addictions etc don't have that sort of money, so are these therapies really a viable solution?

    • @janetkinosian
      @janetkinosian 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      This is the key truth...and a big conundrum....

    • @AwakenedEmptiness
      @AwakenedEmptiness 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      All of these therapies focus on the mind... the only viable solution is going beyond the mind or the ego transcending the psychology. Even Buddha who was fully enlightened continued to practice self inquiry, mindfulness, or meditation. Simply because as long as we live the ego mind will try to trick us into giving our energy to the the mind rather than consciousness. As someone who deals with trauma I can confirm that a practice is necessary of understanding the egos psychological tendencies. This is so the mind is seen through and able to dissolve the psychological barrier which is all the ego or the mind is. It takes practice and a life long commitment but it reduces suffering which is psychological again of the mind or thought. Pain will always be there as long as our lifetime but how we choose to deal with it to be reactive to triggers or the trauma. Or to respond to the suffering of that wound with understanding. That is that love is understanding as they say. And all we need is love.

    • @cxuns
      @cxuns 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      The profound realization of Buddha is to discover, we as ordinary suffering beings have long possessed wrong ideas of being a Self. As long as the self exists, the feelings in terms of all kinds of suffering are bound to manifest! There’re meditative methods in variety, are providing access for us to experience the Self as an illusory conceptualized subject. As long as we are no longer to hold on to this I, me, mine, the attachment reduced, the aversion reduced. The way how we perceive our moment by moment life can be uplifting to a whole new scope of Being, in stead of Doing. When we possess and maintain ourselves in the state of Awareness, we are unlabeled to any identities that we have accumulated in the past experiences or future projections. 🪷🪷🪷😇🙏

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Self help is free.

    • @cody3504
      @cody3504 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@robynhope219 How do you self help?

  • @andiesmith2337
    @andiesmith2337 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so very much this has helped me understand more than I can say
    Much appreciation ❤

  • @sofie3938
    @sofie3938 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bedankt voor het posten van deze video 🙏.

  • @johnwerahiko6226
    @johnwerahiko6226 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I wil come bck to this and post a comment during my journey and hering it this time around mind blowing lol always lerning something new

  • @robynhope219
    @robynhope219 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I suggest dr. Bessel van der kolk's book The Body keeps the score, in which he has many selfhelp tips to try heal trauma.

    • @kingofdubb2133
      @kingofdubb2133 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I started reading that book, but got put off when Bessel describes the experiment where they repeatedly gave dogs electric shocks whilst they were locked in cages, and then opened the cages, and gave them a further shock when they tried to escape - what sort of a traumatized mind would even think up such an experiment? Bessel said he wasn't involved in the experiment, but was eagerly awaiting the results!

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@kingofdubb2133 The dog experiment was unfortunate, but it is science...we learn from animals.

    • @srt5596
      @srt5596 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Just to let yall know humans experience the same trauma reactions. We get stuck. Our brains get stuck in survival mode/ shock. We suffer tremendously for those that have encountered this. Its real. It happens. This happens to humans. Its not just a book or a clinician getting off. Thank god many people dont understand and pray they never experience such suffering.
      Bessel is more than just a researcher. He has seen this happen to us. Tramua isnt just painful memories. Its a rough book for a rough case. My next move was buying a taser in attempt to get me unstuck. Better than a gun.
      Be thankful for the things you dont understand. Im unstuck and on a road of recovery.

    • @Julesyoutoo
      @Julesyoutoo 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@robynhope219 Yes, that's right. We learn science by torturing animals. Uhhh.

  • @victoriaarreola3499
    @victoriaarreola3499 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Took me so long that as a holistic practitioner, I am so wrong sometimes 😢

  • @petersouza6554
    @petersouza6554 หลายเดือนก่อน

    EXACTLY WHAT I HAVE BEEN SAYING FOR YEARS IN aa, AND GETTING HELL FOR IT, EVEN BILL W SAID 'WE KNOW THAT WE KNOW BUT A LITTLE... AMD 'MORE WILL BE REVEALED

  • @g0runse0
    @g0runse0 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Any therapists out there who make no eye contact and take copious notes? ... this is the 21st century. Freud died ... 85 years ago.

    • @kuenringeling
      @kuenringeling 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jesus died 2000 years ago. I'm not comparing Jesus with freud, just saying only because some teachings and practices are old or even ancient doesn't mean they are not true or helpful any more...

  • @onlijnatfreeler
    @onlijnatfreeler 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    What a terrible sound quality!! There isn't a sentence pronounced in this video, without a hickup disturbing it.

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      On top of that, GM does not speak well.

  • @nikkibatten4326
    @nikkibatten4326 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I do think he should reference Carl Rogers and his person centerd theory. Empathy congruence unconditional positive regard to build the therapeutic relationship. Mirroring being one of the main techniques in his listening skills.

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He does Carl Rogers' work and uses other psychologists' work of yesteryear. GM is NO original. Therefore, he shouldn't get nearly as much praise as he does.

  • @iwonastaszewska9568
    @iwonastaszewska9568 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Spread this video with this important introduction, please. But I am troubled why the phony is so broken from the middle part onwards.. So Sorry to see that.

  • @colleeninsko4665
    @colleeninsko4665 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He reminds me a lot of dr sarno

  • @nikkibatten4326
    @nikkibatten4326 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's all person centerd theory. Iv just qualified as a PC therapist. Studying carl rogers theory from the 50s

  • @robertgirard4862
    @robertgirard4862 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Master Gabor ! ...

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah, that's right...he is a cult leader!

  • @sheilasmith1109
    @sheilasmith1109 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you so much for this interview! If I can make a peaceful, loving suggestion... I would ask that you turn down the background music, please.... I found it to be drowning out dr Gabor's soft voice and very distracting. It's beautiful music 🎵, but if it was softer, it wouldn't distract from Dr Gabor or your voices and intent. 🙏

  • @mariettestabel275
    @mariettestabel275 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No Wars, no refusees
    No Wars, no trauma's....

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      O, come on...u don't go thru childhood sans trauma.

  • @the1972bulldog
    @the1972bulldog 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What about physical pain ??

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Depending on the cause of ur pain, sometimes after healing emotionally, the phys pain disappears.

  • @transformwithmenow4186
    @transformwithmenow4186 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    It’s a bad recording very irritating 😠

  • @tombrown7936
    @tombrown7936 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    GENESIS 3 - Death-Rate Holding Steady At 💯 Percent - - - FROM HEAVEN - JOHN 3:3 🕊️

  • @mariettestabel275
    @mariettestabel275 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I think most of the People can't pay a therapist like Gabor Maté,to expensive

    • @Gaeliclass
      @Gaeliclass 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dr. Maté practices in Canada where they have socialized medicine.

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Gaeliclass socialized medicine does not cover psychotherapy, unless they are psychiatrists.

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      GM is NOT a psychotherapist, or psychiatrist

    • @Gaeliclass
      @Gaeliclass 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@robynhope219 I didn't say he was a psychiatrist, so why are you addressing me?

    • @robynhope219
      @robynhope219 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Gaeliclass ur talking in circles 😯

  • @katsong3302
    @katsong3302 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    having watched many videos with Gabor Mate, with neuro deficits this chopped up interview is too challenging .

  • @o0Blu3b1rd0o
    @o0Blu3b1rd0o 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why is it that every freaking video of listened to that this guy is in there's always somebody that feels that they need to explain what he's saying I don't want you to explain what he's saying I want you to shut up and let him talk

  • @MsGechi77
    @MsGechi77 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's not self-generated suffering.

  • @tglacksleep4352
    @tglacksleep4352 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    what kind of audio editting is this? horrible

  • @robynhope219
    @robynhope219 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm on to their game, and so should you be. Because they're doctors, ppl are much more likely to believe them, even nonsense. BUYER BEWARE! GM is by far the only one... they're very shrewd businessmen!

  • @hologramm00
    @hologramm00 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🥰🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏