I'm a 66 year old man who is deeply in love with the woman in my life, so thank you Jessica, I am going to heed your good advice and put these gestures into practice.
Flowers is usually my go-to for random surprises, works most of the time. The trick is to listen to her and take note of the small things like her favorite flowers.
Sometimes you want feel you it all but when Jesse gives her side of the story you feel indeed life is about learning. It's another beautiful piece .thanks Jesse lots of love from Uganda
OK, Jessica! Mad love and respect to you! I live in the States and it's nice to hear some pointers from you that are not Africa-centered, or Ghana-centered. I think these pointers are universal! Much appreciated! Peace and love!
Jess am been honest., I do not like to smash like button at the end of your video but at the beginning because am confident that you'll make 100% sense. Thank you once again.
MUCH LOVE TO THIS CHANNEL I LEFT A HORRIBLE RELATIONSHIP AND TRYING TO WRITE MY WRONGS BECOMING A BETTER PERSON .KNOWING MY WORTH AND LEARNING SELF RILANCE.
I'm just a small girl of 21yrs old, but as soon as I came across your channel, mum I really appreciate it. Good work mum you're training we the small ones coming.love you mum💞.
What I'll say to u is... Give back gestures as much as you accept them. Don't just seat back and feel u are the prize a man must attain. We don't live in that world anymore.
Excatly Jessica thats my experience too plus a woman who says she is sad or sick of flue ect give her a big hug tell her " you mean the whole World to me " in less than 5 minutes she has recovered and feel she is at the top of the World. Many times a big hug has more healing power than a thausand doctors and a million tablets 🙂🙂🙂 thats the power of true love 😇😇😇 God bless you abundantly
Support in every way possible when she needs it with out hampering her individuality. Hi Jess hope you're having a great day and thanks again haven't watched all your videos yet but still always waiting for new ones though and it's ah pleasure seeing you work so later and stay safe .🦋
Thank you very much for this kind word and teaching I have a woman who I love very much but she's keep telling me that I'm not romantic 💘 but now I'll do as you have said thank you Jessica from Zambia 🇿🇲🇿🇲
"We live in 2021,or whatever year you are watching this video"...I will still be listening to this timeless wisdom 10 years from now.No time limits here😅😅.
I was a very shy guy who always hide myself before crowd but with the help of your channel am beginning to become confident day in day out. Kudos to sweetie.
Hi, Jessica hope you are well. My name is Wanjohi from Mombasa Kenya. I happened to come across your videos in less than 5 months ago and they have changed me and when I apply some of your tactics, they work magic. Keep up the magical work. We cherish you gal and continue to support you.
Thank you very much, Jessica! I found your video I watch really helpful. My woman told me last night that she is not comfortable with our long discussion on phone. That she's not a talking type. That when a discussion is getting too long she gets tired and messed up. That if we have to talk she likes it short and simple. Of course I know she's a quiet type and don't talk too much, being a science student in her higher institution presently. She said so many things last night. But to me I thought we need a good communication to keep the spark on at least for the fact that we are in long distance relationship. Please what do you think? Though I accepted thought and promised to adjust to that because I really love so genuinely. Please, what do you think about this? Am somehow wondering if she's real or she's just push me away indirectly.
Wow I really wanted to here this, you are building me into a great man Jessica. I'm in a character building time in my life so your videos help me a lot into becoming a best man I can be. God bless you more and more abundantly Jess🙏🙏🙏
Hi Jessica, you just don't know how happy I am finding you here. I remember when I left Nigeria n moved to Ghana, you were one TV host that I admired along with Kwaku Boifo Ajimah from TV3. You guys were so distinct in so many ways. N I listened to one of your shows on radio called"Sex in the city" n girl, I love it so much. I could go on naming those shows... Thank ever so kindly for these tips, I see it as a way to rejuvenate relationships. Jessica, you are a gift to the nation Ghana n I am so happy that I can always come here to hear you out. Stay blessed, stay safe n keep it going girl 👍
The issue with tips like these is it gives many ladies the notion that a relationship is all about taking care of them (.whilst they sit back and lounge). In a rapidly changing world where ladies are becoming less the prize and focus is being placed more on what both partners bring to the table, clues on ‘how to treat a lady’ might not be as helpful as they were many years ago
Hey Jessy, am really inspired by your words, kindly please talk about distance relationship what are the key factor a guy should do ones his so much into the lady to make it successful..
Jessica,another great video. I'm so glad I found your app and your ideas. Jessica,you have a great rest of the week and I will talk to one of the smartest women that I've heard on TH-cam. God bless and much love from Cincinnati, Ohio......Bryan
Your first suggestion is ideal to me. I type better than I write. I am 68-years-old and do have some parkinsonism. That is why I typewrite on my computer that I refer to as my keyboard. When I write letters to my lady friend, I use a cursive type of font in blue, and print them on my color laser printer. I mail the letters to her home. Fortunately, I still do some things the old-fashioned way. You just described the inner-me. The other six tips are meaningful, too, because I have been practicing them without being advised by anyone. Your tip about physical affection is not only suitable for unmarried people, but also for husbands to share with their wives. According to your definition, physical affection does not mean it leads to sexual intimacy, as it is for married couples. It consists of natural affection, such as holding hands, casual hugs, holding the woman's head on your bosom or chest when she is crying or just feeling sad, rubbing her forehead, or stroking a cheek. Your advices are worth all the wisdom in the world.
To simplify it in very brief words, the advice for any man or woman is to realise that love and care is reciprocal. If a woman sits there like a log awaiting someone to treat them like a princess in a novel , they may never be happy or pleased with any man .
Well Jessica, I believe that just found his pearl should at make sure that their not ghosting or being ghosted in other words seek peace in and for you relationship.
How are you my dear Jessica? I'm sending this massage from Zambia, thank you so much for the video I really love it and where do you get this kind of knowledge???
Wow, thanks Coach Jessica. This was worth the time. Please would you mind doing a video around the topic of the Zodiac and how beneficial it can be for relationship. 😏
As a young man, u spend your time gathering tips on how to score points with women while your counterparts are using the same time to develop ideas and spend nice time around those with whom they are accepted. At the end of the day she'll just see u as a tool to satisfy her mood swing.
True ,these modern ladies/women are very smart...as time goes on by u will end up loosing yourself while she is busy with men with ideas so she will be on another class.
Videos like this are like Vitamins. No mandatory, but taking them helps kill small issues. The video is not your problem, your challenge seems more of meeting a proper woman. When you do, the video will make more sense. There are a lot of single men out there who are poor and lost, a woman is not a man's problem.
I remember when I was talking to my crush and asking her if her birthday was Feb 20 and I actually got it right and was surprised because I really couldn't remember the exact date
Thank you for sharing some of gestures to express your love to your lady. In addition to the ones you mentioned, these are some things I do to and for my wife: 1. Always open the car door for her 2. Never let her carry anything, especially after shopping. Got to use my muscles lol 3. Hand wash her underwear 4. Pick up the chores in the house. She cooks and so I do the rest - cleaning, laundry etc. 4. Date nights 5. Always positively acknowledge in front of others and especially when around my folks 6. Do the gestures you mentioned without expecting a ‘reward’ although I must admit I do them mostly to get the reward 7. Always kindly talk to her, even when she has made a mistake - letting her know that I unconditional love, appreciate and support her
Hello jessy, I’m inspired by your TH-cam videos and also I will love u to touch the topic of distance relationship ok d key things a guy should do to perfect it, plus if a guy already messed up in one some type of way and deeply feel bad for himself due the lady reaction having a serious blast on him not doing certain things to groom d relationship and they is a thin line of winning d lady back to himself again. What should he do in such situation?
Great video, wonderful tips as usual Jessy. I have one to add though. This is “looking at her” I got to realize that there is a way to stop and shoot a soft focus on a woman, that would communicate tons of words in silence. The duration of the stare and the angle of the head should blend with the atmosphere for best results. Women truly feel loved when you give them that look. Try it and thank me after ✌️❤️.
Then You should know your limits else she would take your leniency as ur weakness and begin to mess up with u... Being a nice guy offlate doesn't win her that much...
I'm a 66 year old man who is deeply in love with the woman in my life, so thank you Jessica, I am going to heed your good advice and put these gestures into practice.
do u have money
@@huxaifagwaru5060 good question bro😂 cuz which girl gives af bout 60yr olds
Omg, come on guys
Lol guys pls he said woman maybe she’s not even young
Just saying..
@@ousman187jallow how about if the woman is 50 years?
Flowers is usually my go-to for random surprises, works most of the time. The trick is to listen to her and take note of the small things like her favorite flowers.
Yes, flowers are wonderful!😍
physical affection is usually confused with sexual stuff...i'm glad you cleared that up
Lol
Sometimes you want feel you it all but when Jesse gives her side of the story you feel indeed life is about learning. It's another beautiful piece .thanks Jesse lots of love from Uganda
Hi Jesse thanks for the beautiful content always 💖 lots of love from Uganda
Good products sell themselves. I can't imagine how fast this channel is growing, and that means you're doing a great job @Jessica Os
Awww. Thanks Rancho
@@JessicaOS You're welcome
Dd
OK, Jessica! Mad love and respect to you!
I live in the States and it's nice to hear some pointers from you that are not Africa-centered, or Ghana-centered. I think these pointers are universal! Much appreciated! Peace and love!
Thanks CJ
Jess am been honest., I do not like to smash like button at the end of your video but at the beginning because am confident that you'll make 100% sense. Thank you once again.
You are totally on it !! Hand written love letters. That will mean so much to her !!
MUCH LOVE TO THIS CHANNEL I LEFT A HORRIBLE RELATIONSHIP AND TRYING TO WRITE MY WRONGS BECOMING A BETTER PERSON .KNOWING MY WORTH AND LEARNING SELF RILANCE.
I'm just a small girl of 21yrs old, but as soon as I came across your channel, mum I really appreciate it. Good work mum you're training we the small ones coming.love you mum💞.
What I'll say to u is... Give back gestures as much as you accept them. Don't just seat back and feel u are the prize a man must attain. We don't live in that world anymore.
Excatly Jessica thats my experience too plus a woman who says she is sad or sick of flue ect give her a big hug tell her " you mean the whole World to me " in less than 5 minutes she has recovered and feel she is at the top of the World. Many times a big hug has more healing power than a thausand doctors and a million tablets 🙂🙂🙂 thats the power of true love 😇😇😇 God bless you abundantly
Support in every way possible when she needs it with out hampering her individuality. Hi Jess hope you're having a great day and thanks again haven't watched all your videos yet but still always waiting for new ones though and it's ah pleasure seeing you work so later and stay safe .🦋
Jessica, i can spend the whole day watching your videos. So much knowledge & wisdom
Thank you very much for this kind word and teaching I have a woman who I love very much but she's keep telling me that I'm not romantic 💘 but now I'll do as you have said thank you Jessica from Zambia 🇿🇲🇿🇲
"We live in 2021,or whatever year you are watching this video"...I will still be listening to this timeless wisdom 10 years from now.No time limits here😅😅.
2022
I was a very shy guy who always hide myself before crowd but with the help of your channel am beginning to become confident day in day out. Kudos to sweetie.
Hi, Jessica hope you are well. My name is Wanjohi from Mombasa Kenya. I happened to come across your videos in less than 5 months ago and they have changed me and when I apply some of your tactics, they work magic. Keep up the magical work. We cherish you gal and continue to support you.
Thanks for the feedback
This is more like a marriage counseling section 😅 I need you Jessica to be my personal mentor. You really do inspire me a lot .
Hey Jessica well said that's for helping millions of people out there God bless you
Thank you very much, Jessica! I found your video I watch really helpful. My woman told me last night that she is not comfortable with our long discussion on phone. That she's not a talking type. That when a discussion is getting too long she gets tired and messed up. That if we have to talk she likes it short and simple. Of course I know she's a quiet type and don't talk too much, being a science student in her higher institution presently. She said so many things last night. But to me I thought we need a good communication to keep the spark on at least for the fact that we are in long distance relationship. Please what do you think? Though I accepted thought and promised to adjust to that because I really love so genuinely. Please, what do you think about this? Am somehow wondering if she's real or she's just push me away indirectly.
Sigh! You are the height of enlightenment.
For those who are still single, I wish you meet someone who will love you just the way you love them.
Thank you for this great tips.
👍🏾✌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🦂
you get payed for bringing value to the market, greatly inspired ❤
Thanks Jess to save my life again !!👌👌👌
Awesome as always ❤️❤️ from 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
True love, in my opinion, is rendering sincere service on a consistent basis or consistently, etc.
The amount of views on this video shows that men really do care. I love that.
Jessica always give us the best we want to hear 👂🥰🥰❤️🙌🍾👍💃
Thanks for sharing. Everyone deserves care, love and affection 🤗❤️
Thank you so much for this video. My girlfriend is anxious and I want her to feel like shes loved. You and your voice are wonderful by the way😊❤
Learnt alot from this short video
Will i ever listen or watch any of your videos and not get blessed. you are doing a very great job, Jessy. well done.
Wow I really wanted to here this, you are building me into a great man Jessica.
I'm in a character building time in my life so your videos help me a lot into becoming a best man I can be.
God bless you more and more abundantly Jess🙏🙏🙏
I'm glad
With all do respects what an most intelligent woman, not to mention beautiful. Thank you for the information!!!
I've learned a lot from you Jessica ❤️❤️
She's really doing the most.
I'm glad
Hi Jessica, you just don't know how happy I am finding you here. I remember when I left Nigeria n moved to Ghana, you were one TV host that I admired along with Kwaku Boifo Ajimah from TV3. You guys were so distinct in so many ways. N I listened to one of your shows on radio called"Sex in the city" n girl, I love it so much. I could go on naming those shows...
Thank ever so kindly for these tips, I see it as a way to rejuvenate relationships. Jessica, you are a gift to the nation Ghana n I am so happy that I can always come here to hear you out.
Stay blessed, stay safe n keep it going girl 👍
Awww. Thank you so much
You are dropping gems sis. Nice topic.
"Truth lives on this channel" ampa
So on point! will make a huge positive impact in the world.
Remembering small detials it's my number go to. I like someone that really listen understand me.
Pronounced Jestures/Gestures... Thank you for good ideas, reminders, etc.
Number 1 is just great.
The issue with tips like these is it gives many ladies the notion that a relationship is all about taking care of them (.whilst they sit back and lounge). In a rapidly changing world where ladies are becoming less the prize and focus is being placed more on what both partners bring to the table, clues on ‘how to treat a lady’ might not be as helpful as they were many years ago
Ma guy! Flesh and blood hath not revealed this unto thee! You'll live long in the land of the living wate!👍
Should be titled how to be a nice guy. Her ex wrote love letters but it still didn't work out.
@@danielahlie2956 exactly what i was thinking,lol and now am asking why wasting time to make this Video we have a problem here with this Lady.
Your a king bruh.....
This is exactly my thought too. She's not the goal, the relationship is.
Kindly advice on how to keep a distance relationship 🥰
thank you girl very much
i think im lucky becoz i got these tips b4 i could thruo myself out there thy will help on finding me a woman of my dream, thx Jessy
Hey Jessy, am really inspired by your words, kindly please talk about distance relationship what are the key factor a guy should do ones his so much into the lady to make it successful..
Ahh Jess I miss listening to you....there's so much grace in your delivery...love your delivery...i hope all is well with you. Sincerely so.
Hey Marlon, as you can see life has been kind. 😊. I appreciate you
"Remembering the details"
That's actually a challenge..
I have to learn that so well.
Well done Jessica you totally smashed it
Thanks
Kevi xxx
Jessica,another great video. I'm so glad I found your app and your ideas. Jessica,you have a great rest of the week and I will talk to one of the smartest women that I've heard on TH-cam. God bless and much love from Cincinnati, Ohio......Bryan
Waiting patiently for the men’s edition
😂
Jesse!!!!!!!
Ur lessons worked for me 😁😁..
Thanks for sharing this stuff
Your first suggestion is ideal to me. I type better than I write. I am 68-years-old and do have some parkinsonism. That is why I typewrite on my computer that I refer to as my keyboard. When I write letters to my lady friend, I use a cursive type of font in blue, and print them on my color laser printer. I mail the letters to her home. Fortunately, I still do some things the old-fashioned way. You just described the inner-me. The other six tips are meaningful, too, because I have been practicing them without being advised by anyone. Your tip about physical affection is not only suitable for unmarried people, but also for husbands to share with their wives. According to your definition, physical affection does not mean it leads to sexual intimacy, as it is for married couples. It consists of natural affection, such as holding hands, casual hugs, holding the woman's head on your bosom or chest when she is crying or just feeling sad, rubbing her forehead, or stroking a cheek. Your advices are worth all the wisdom in the world.
A Godly women loves a man who commits praying with her and shows his love for godly issues...
Once again keep sharing.
That is a prime advice.
very very true and i pray that God sends a Godly man my way 🙂
Ask and you shall receive; knock and it shall be opened unto you; seek and you shall find.
To simplify it in very brief words, the advice for any man or woman is to realise that love and care is reciprocal. If a woman sits there like a log awaiting someone to treat them like a princess in a novel , they may never be happy or pleased with any man .
You don’t know how much this helped me thank you so much. Im subscribing to ur Channel
U deserve a million subscribers..sooner you’ll be there
Wow...how lucky is your man! You are beautiful with bright brains. I love you unconditionally Jessica
Well Jessica, I believe that just found his pearl should at make sure that their not ghosting or being ghosted in other words seek peace in and for you relationship.
Wonderful tips
Thank you Jess. This is on point 👌👌💯
Hello Jesica just enjoy 😉 your day 🇿🇦
The video randomly popped up on my suggested videos, so I just have to watch it anyway!
I did 3,4,5,6 bt its not working in our relationship now we are separated
Maybe you don't do the right thing 🤷 🤔 keep trying just daily basis
How are you my dear Jessica? I'm sending this massage from Zambia, thank you so much for the video I really love it and where do you get this kind of knowledge???
Wow, thanks Coach Jessica. This was worth the time. Please would you mind doing a video around the topic of the Zodiac and how beneficial it can be for relationship. 😏
All I can say is thank you for this wonderful piece
Everytime i watch your videos i usually learned alot from you Jessica ❤
As a young man, u spend your time gathering tips on how to score points with women while your counterparts are using the same time to develop ideas and spend nice time around those with whom they are accepted. At the end of the day she'll just see u as a tool to satisfy her mood swing.
& what a u doing here
True ,these modern ladies/women are very smart...as time goes on by u will end up loosing yourself while she is busy with men with ideas so she will be on another class.
Videos like this are like Vitamins. No mandatory, but taking them helps kill small issues.
The video is not your problem, your challenge seems more of meeting a proper woman.
When you do, the video will make more sense.
There are a lot of single men out there who are poor and lost, a woman is not a man's problem.
Facts
As a young man finding your purpose in life is the ultimate thing and all other things will be added on to you
I remember when I was talking to my crush and asking her if her birthday was Feb 20 and I actually got it right and was surprised because I really couldn't remember the exact date
The number 4 gesture has made my bae love me like never b4❤❤
I like your, I think All men should know this channel
Woow one of the best video of yours have ever watched Jessica!
Thank you for sharing some of gestures to express your love to your lady. In addition to the ones you mentioned, these are some things I do to and for my wife:
1. Always open the car door for her
2. Never let her carry anything, especially after shopping. Got to use my muscles lol
3. Hand wash her underwear
4. Pick up the chores in the house. She cooks and so I do the rest - cleaning, laundry etc.
4. Date nights
5. Always positively acknowledge in front of others and especially when around my folks
6. Do the gestures you mentioned without expecting a ‘reward’ although I must admit I do them mostly to get the reward
7. Always kindly talk to her, even when she has made a mistake - letting her know that I unconditional love, appreciate and support her
Jessica, I am following you on you a lot and let me tell i am learning a lot from you. God bless Sis
Thank you so much for your knowledge of transparency of relationships
The teaching have natured me at a great deal
Hello jessy, I’m inspired by your TH-cam videos and also I will love u to touch the topic of distance relationship ok d key things a guy should do to perfect it, plus if a guy already messed up in one some type of way and deeply feel bad for himself due the lady reaction having a serious blast on him not doing certain things to groom d relationship and they is a thin line of winning d lady back to himself again. What should he do in such situation?
Insightful and always on point 😃🤗
I've really learnt alot and become a better man since I subscribed to this channel..I appreciate 💯
He looks out for her interests. Very important
I wonder why people would give this video a thumbs down. Great video.
Wow you are really a great coach. 💐🙏🏾👍🏾🌹
I really love you counseling Jessica
You are always on point Jess
Thanks once again God bless you . 🙏 You are simply the best 💝
Can't wait to subscribe your channel Jessica
Great video, wonderful tips as usual Jessy.
I have one to add though. This is “looking at her” I got to realize that there is a way to stop and shoot a soft focus on a woman, that would communicate tons of words in silence. The duration of the stare and the angle of the head should blend with the atmosphere for best results. Women truly feel loved when you give them that look. Try it and thank me after ✌️❤️.
I most definitely use these tips when I am with my girl best friends
Mhmhmh wow, I think it's time I fall in inlove again n treat her like my queen, thank you so much, wow
Then You should know your limits else she would take your leniency as ur weakness and begin to mess up with u...
Being a nice guy offlate doesn't win her that much...
@@dance.engineering noted
Thanks ma...I really appreciate all ur video...I will try nd practice Dem but der is some I will like to ask
Thank you
I’m in a poly relationship and I needed this thank you
Hard pill to swallow,but great video.I love your vibes Jessica 🇧🇸🇿🇦
You re blessed dear.
Hi jesca i love the idea we really appreciate you for the good work sweety
One of your readers from Kenya nation kakamega county
Tunakupenda sana
Naturally seven tips...Fantastic👍
Much appreciated 😊