I Found Out My Junkie Mom Making Me Disable W/ Pills So She Can Fund Her "Stuff" With My Disability

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  • @mcdnum1
    @mcdnum1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    The mother who seduced her daughters husband and had a 20 year long affair with him. And every Time they had an affair she slept with her own husband. This resulted in what she thought was her twin younger brothers being her children’s half siblings. When confronted with all this information she told her daughter she aught to be glad that she was able to keep him satisfied. She gets my vote from a vile.

    • @audreym3908
      @audreym3908 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I read that one too! Hope the twins and the other sister wise up and leave their toxic mother.

    • @Mr.Reddito
      @Mr.Reddito  2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      OMG Mariah , How could that one slip my mind?!?!?!?! OOMG this is such a tough decision haha. Im glad you were here for both stories tho haha thanks so much for commenting =]

    • @ivymcassey2405
      @ivymcassey2405 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I remember that one! My primary abuser who gave birth to me came on to both me and my sister’s partners. In fact all my sister’s partners except maybe my sister’s husband. This lead to her touching my sister’s underage boyfriend when she was 15 in a sexual manner while I was across the room with the person I was dating who told me in a very disgusted manner he was glad my mother was not attracted to him. My worst regret was continuing contact off and on with my abuser after moving out.

    • @marshawargo7238
      @marshawargo7238 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ivymcassey2405 Maybe you should talk to a therapist to find out why you can't see what she did is deserving of No Contact. It might be she has instilled such low self confidence in you, that youfeel partially responsible. Knowing will help you in other aspects of your life! You should be able to live, freely knowing when You're responsible for a mistake or being wrong And when it's someone Else's responsibility. 💖

  • @bonniesmith9996
    @bonniesmith9996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Even murderers in prison hate child and animal abusers. I’ve worked in a prison, been around men who have done very heinous crimes and when men who abused children or pets came in their lives were nothing short of a living hell, daily beatings, constant harassment.
    Prison justice is real

    • @tangenty6987
      @tangenty6987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I knew child abusers gor revenged on. 👍 It brings me some ... comfort .... to know that abusers of pets get the same. *cuddles my sweet cat*

    • @halo129830
      @halo129830 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s an unwritten rule I’ve talked to ex gangsters and cons and asked why they felt so strongly about it.
      A few said that they were victims as well and well kids are seen as innocent ruining a child’s innocence or making them suffer is tantamount to killing babies. I’ve even spoke to a few way off relatives and they said that when they found a child abuser I won’t use the term he said. They got someone who was in for life to beat up or kill him. I will never forget the shrug he gave me and the words he spoke.
      “Look man mess with me we fight. Mess with my momma you get hurt. But you touch or hurt a kid and you fucking die.”

    • @paulaoshinski2991
      @paulaoshinski2991 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      P

  • @NeoRazgriz
    @NeoRazgriz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Story 2: I hope OP considers suing the pharmacy/doctor and school for what happened to her. Aside from her friend Hannah and Hannah’s mom, NO ONE HELPED HER, or noticed what was going on. People don’t suddenly go from being an advanced studies student to having psychotic break/hallucinations for NO REASON. What happened to OP is awful and she should get as much help and support for herself as possible. She will require a lot of time and money to help her heal and recover (not to mention her reputation as the ‘crazy girl’ before everything came out). Now, she is the “poor girl who was medically driven crazy by her mom for money” in town. Also, good on Hannah’s mom for realizing the torture OP was going through.

  • @gretatagliavia4228
    @gretatagliavia4228 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    The second story was the most disgusting thing I have ever heard. I was a single mother for the majority of my children’s lives. When they were younger I was just starting to build my career so I wasn’t yet making a good salary. During those times, I went without food myself so that my children didn’t have to go without. I simply can not fathom how that woman could be so horrible to her own daughter, it makes me sick!!!!!!!!!

    • @Ann_Wall-Chiasson
      @Ann_Wall-Chiasson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm not surprised the mom got badly beaten up in prison. My dad used to work as a prison guard and told me many stories about the prison totem pole that I will not repeat.

    • @gretatagliavia4228
      @gretatagliavia4228 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Ann_Wall-Chiasson I have heard stories about that. Even the convicted felons have a better moral compass when it comes to kids! I have always said that anyone could say or do anything to me and I would not care but…mess with or harm my kids (or any kids) watch out because I’d be coming for you!!!

  • @ninalehman9054
    @ninalehman9054 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    “Munchausen syndrome by proxy (MSP)” comes to mind. Women have severely injured and even killed their own children in order to receive sympathetic attention from the community over their child’s “illness.”
    One hospital caught a mother injecting feces into the child’s IV. Some give their kids household cleaners in their food.
    In the movie, The Sixth Sense, the boy’s first attempt to help a ghost was a girl who was killed by her own mother slowly poisoning her. This is a cinematic example of MSP.

    • @erinwessel2195
      @erinwessel2195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      There are men who also do this. Possibly more women because more woman end up in care taker roles but there have definitely been cases where men have done this too.
      It's totally despicable no matter who does it.

    • @terrykeever3280
      @terrykeever3280 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was going to mention the name of this crime. Some of the worst I've heard about other than this story were mothers who caused young children and babies to actually stop breathing then resuscitate them to be the hero. It's usually younger children who are abused this way. Some mental illnesses do start quickly in teens so many at school prob had no idea what to do and most likely thought the chronic fatigue was just the mental illness starting.
      The state doctors people go to for disabilty do a very poor job generally. The one I saw took 20 minutes from the time I left the waiting room to the time I came out with a little over 10 minutes spent on an eye exam. The idiot doctor had the eye chart on a glass door with morning sun coming thru it. My glasses were scratched - I wore contacts when able to work. I couldn't see because of light reflecting off my glasses. Other than being very near sighted and starting to need close vison correction, there was nothing wrong with my eyes.
      The only thing close to knowing if I might be faking was at the first he asked if it hurt to bend over or kneel. I said yes. Late in his 8 minute exam he asked if I could do those same things. I said yes. He then said I said earlier I couldn't do them. I said no you asked if it hurt to do them. I said if I didn't do things because they hurt I'd never get out of bed.
      I know several people who are on disability that could work. And many who can't and had to appeal a bad decision or still haven't got it. Have a friend who had a stroke paralyzing one side of his body. Took him 2 appeals. The only thing that changed was the person got a lawyer to get deserved disabity. The whole system is bad. Often doctors who know the patient get little say and some quack does. My quack did say I was disabled but the state representative turned me down anyway. When I appealed without a lawyer, I got a good representaive who reopened my original case after reading the file. The original bad rep was "no longer with" the department that makes the initial decision.
      Sorry for the rant but OP should have had a better exam for disability since she obviously didn't have a doctor with knowledge of her disabling condition and the meds she was on. These meds should have showed up on drug test. And a 15 yo should have had her condition explained to her at the initial diagnosis.

    • @ninalehman9054
      @ninalehman9054 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@terrykeever3280 I hear you. I had to hire a lawyer and go before an administrative judge.

  • @littlegreycat
    @littlegreycat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    You don’t leave siblings to be molested by Moms creepy guys. I’d have gotten that kid immediately. I know so many women who were raped or molested by their mom’s creepy boyfriends. I’d never leave anyone in that situation for another night.

    • @lynprincevalli5221
      @lynprincevalli5221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Absolutely! I would've been upset with my boyfriend if he had not gone! I may have appreciated being asked, or at least told the situation, but that young girl's safety needed to be of primary concern! As a woman I would see that and be glad my boyfriend was the kind of guy who gets that!

    • @jkvgsvsmiles3406
      @jkvgsvsmiles3406 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I would have went with him to get her!

    • @Dartkitten
      @Dartkitten 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If the school was concerned about Op when she was 7 and asking how things were at home they shouldve done more to help her.

  • @ImaNerdANDaGeek
    @ImaNerdANDaGeek 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    You know you fucked up when other inmates, who have most likely done their own fair share of sins, (assuming no mistakes where made and they weren't falsely charged) consider what you did so bad that they feel the need to beat you bloody.

    • @darknightjester6116
      @darknightjester6116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That's the thing about prison if your sentence involves any form of abuse or assault you are essentially dead meat.
      Edit: My high school once for some odd ass reason did a video call with cone convicts and the question came up about Child Molesters in prison where one convict stated that anyone who was in prison for assault or abuse regardless of the victim's age and gender is enough to get them blacklisted by other convicts

    • @NeoRazgriz
      @NeoRazgriz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Unless they are evaluated as psychopathic, most convicts have ZERO tolerance for people who harm children in any form (emotionally, physically, psychologically…). They are despised at the same level (or worse) as rapists.

    • @catsmeow5566
      @catsmeow5566 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Prison inmates HATE child abusers. Many of them were abused as kids. It's why pedophiles fear prison so much. If someone murders an adult they get prestige in prison. If they murder a cop they are very highly respected (by inmates-- hated by guards). If they committed petty crimes, they are low on the totem pole. If they hurt or killed a child they are scum & other inmates will take out all their anger on them.

    • @tlang7616
      @tlang7616 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That’s why I really feel for Gypsy Rose (another Munchausen by proxy victim) even though she was involved in her mum’s murder. The lasting mental, physical and emotional impact on her life is already a lifelong sentence.

    • @lynprincevalli5221
      @lynprincevalli5221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@tlang7616 true, her story was so sad!

  • @exmachin3926
    @exmachin3926 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm not an overly emotional or sympathetic kind of guy but that second story just about brings me to tears. How can a parent willingly attempt to destroy their child's future like that?

    • @Mr.Reddito
      @Mr.Reddito  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I almost had to stop recording but I stayed strong! Was super sad.

    • @thewierdoneout
      @thewierdoneout 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She doesn't deserve the title of parent. Egg donor at best, slave master at worse.

    • @rebel-artist-nerd
      @rebel-artist-nerd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Mr.Reddito I don't blame you. It was hard to hear but she deserves to have her story told. Heck it just might help someone else in this situation and or make others aware of this issue and how to notice signs.

    • @midnightserenity9797
      @midnightserenity9797 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You would honestly be surprised at how many parents would do horrible things for money. My own older sister has three kids and receives child support for the older two from her ex husband. She has never once used that money for the kids, instead she uses it on tattoos she doesn't need or other luxury items. I had to threaten her with calling the police when she blatantly refused to bring us formula for her youngest when we had a huge snowstorm, and I couldn't get out of my neighborhood to get it, and the formula was almost gone. It was only after I threatened to call the cops she suddenly showed up, shoved a tub of formula in my hands, and then left immediately without a second glance toward her kids. My ex brother in law just took her to court for not following the custody agreement, as she wouldn't let him see or talk to his kids at all. Needless to say the judge took his side and demanded my sister follow the custody agreement to the letter or she could risk losing her kids. I honestly hope my ex brother in law gets custody of the kids, because he's a good dad and loves the kiddos

  • @jerriewyatt905
    @jerriewyatt905 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Story 2… The mother in this story should never see the light of day ever again! Getting beat up Serves right!
    Last story.. OP dodged the bullet with the girl friend..he wasn’t going to abandon his minor sister, so unfortunately ,he had to act like he did.. the fact the gf wasn’t Willing to budge on anything, breaking up was all they could do..

  • @constancepeterson6156
    @constancepeterson6156 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When I was growing up, my neighbor molested his only daughter. She grew up with severe mental issues and never was able to have a normal life.
    Later, when he was an old man, his sons treated him like royalty. It was so disgusting.

  • @Tammohawk1
    @Tammohawk1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have a brother that is 12 yr. younger than me. If he had of ever called me crying in the middle of the night, you know I would have got him. But, my husband would have been right by my side. In fact, early in our marriage we took in my brother in law who was 17 at the time. That is when I was reminded how much teenagers eat! lol

  • @Audiogeek-kf2ez
    @Audiogeek-kf2ez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This is not the first munchousion by proxy I have seen on Reddit. Crazy woman.
    To bad that the young person had no idea that she was being poisoned. The cool thing is mother was caught and busted.

    • @Nitro89
      @Nitro89 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Here is the right way to spell it munchausen by proxy

    • @barbaragarner9192
      @barbaragarner9192 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      These so called mother's get pity from strangers to make them feel good, but there monsters, is hell big enough for them

    • @rogerrabbit80
      @rogerrabbit80 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't think this is actually Munchausen by proxy. That is usually done for attention, and in this case it seems like it was all about money.

    • @barbaragarner9192
      @barbaragarner9192 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rogerrabbit80 are you kidding this is about her, she was slowly kill her child for attention, don't have kids

    • @rogerrabbit80
      @rogerrabbit80 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@barbaragarner9192 No, she was doing it for money. Which is even worse, IMO.

  • @kellypatterson8506
    @kellypatterson8506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    For me on the 3rd story it's absolute no brainer I would have walked over to the door and opened it up for the girlfriend said here you go

    • @Ambidexter143
      @Ambidexter143 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      "Sorry you feel that way about my sister. Bye. Have a nice rest of your life."

    • @02ujtb00626
      @02ujtb00626 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agreed. "How do I fix things with my GF?" You don't. Bye.

  • @scotthultin7769
    @scotthultin7769 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It's a personal choice if a married couple wants to change the last name of the Bride the bride can keep her name she can hyphenate his name at the end or she can just leave her name as it was given to her at birth and that doesn't matter what nation you're in

    • @SH-qs7ee
      @SH-qs7ee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She called OP a dictator, I personally don't see why she added the 'tator' myself.

    • @bautistalover
      @bautistalover 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This one of those things once again should’ve been discussed before saying I do.

  • @MrRyukage
    @MrRyukage 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The Main story reminds me of Gypsy Rose Blanchard. The mother Dee Dee Blanchard had Munchhausen by Proxy.

    • @cherylsorrell74
      @cherylsorrell74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right? So crazy!

    • @audreym3908
      @audreym3908 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Is Gypsy released from prison? She deserves to be free and to live for once.

    • @cherylsorrell74
      @cherylsorrell74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@audreym3908 not yet. She is eligble for parole in 2024 and due for release, I believe, in 2026. Very sad story for her.

  • @thatomnivoreteacher6869
    @thatomnivoreteacher6869 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Story three: should’ve just dumped her. Why was GF expecting Op to ask? “Hey can my 13 year old sister move in to get away from a grown man who is clearly a threat to her safety and well-being”?!

  • @amandabarnes2617
    @amandabarnes2617 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That 2nd story right there.... Smh.... People who would do that to their own child need to be thrown under the damn jail...

  • @gingerray2834
    @gingerray2834 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So glad to see you this morning. I am babysitting my grandson and he is grouchy this morning because I broke the end off a necklace he was making by trying to finish it off. He had whined he didn't know how to finish it and didn't want to try. So I took the beads off and got it started fir him again. Frustrated with him now and I'm sure he is frustrated with me. So I'm taking a break thanks to you! He gets his video games and I get you. Will try again later.

  • @madcatlady
    @madcatlady 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I never understood why girls cannot carry the mother's name and boys the father's

    • @lawrencerutherford4260
      @lawrencerutherford4260 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      honestly the story sounds like the wife doesn't want to be part of his family and all she wants is his money and genetic material. I'd bet that as soon as he stops being "useful" she will bugger off somewhere with the kids and use not sharing his name as a way to keep him from having custody.

    • @eszterfodor3377
      @eszterfodor3377 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wouldn't that be disruptive? Not sharing even your names, could come off as if you were a step family. Nothing wrong with blended families, just saying. Plus, it could lead to resentment when one parent doesn't get to keep their family name going. Here, we have our father's surname but pretty much every single official paper refers to us through our mom's maiden name.

    • @ruthgriffiths7365
      @ruthgriffiths7365 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@lawrencerutherford4260 ...and how do you know that she doesn't have more money than him?! It is ridiculous that women today are still expected to change their name when they marry. It's fine if they wish to do so but it should not be expected.

    • @lawrencerutherford4260
      @lawrencerutherford4260 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ruthgriffiths7365 by the way the story is set she moved in with him or they bought together I doubt she's richer. to me she comes across as basically saying "you want your first-born son (important in any traditional family) to have 'your' family name, nah, Mine comes first bitch take it or leave it" the suggestion of boys and girls names at the start of this thread is better. in the case of hyphenation imagine 2 long and awkward surnames hyphenated like "Rajaonarimampianina (real madagascan) - Featherstonehough (english longest)

    • @bessevaraven859
      @bessevaraven859 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lawrencerutherford4260 he's being an a hole by not being willing to compromise on his side at all. The reason for traditional naming after the male is based on sexism, money and power. It was about titles and land. When women weren't allowed to inherit/own property and everything went to the firstborn male...even if he had several older sisters. Women were essentially sold as property...husband's "gifted" fathers land, houses, money and even sometimes minor titles to marry the women. It's also why her virginity became so valuable and beingbcalled "bastard" became such an insul%;

  • @mikeosinski50
    @mikeosinski50 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My best friend used to have a Hyphenated last name he hated it. He said it's to long on forms and people couldn't say it right to save thier lifes, and then was picked on because of it. So at 18 he filed and changed his last name to what his father's was since that was the last name in his long a** name as he called it. I know it's the new edgy thing to do but please think of the kid. The parents dont change thier names and no matter how good you think your kids is. Kids sometimes the cruelest over the Littles things so don't make a kid a target to be hip.

    • @ImaNerdANDaGeek
      @ImaNerdANDaGeek 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I knew multiple kids who had hyphenated last names in high school, some of them changed it to be shorter later in life, but none of them got picked on for having long last names. So I thought it was an okay compromise.

    • @Mr.Reddito
      @Mr.Reddito  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you for sharing your personal story. Hope all is well Mike

    • @ludmilamaiolini6811
      @ludmilamaiolini6811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In my country, we get two last names, but they aren’t hyphenated. So on paper we honor both of our parents, but in daily life it’s common to pick the one you like better when you refer to yourself. Or people around you read your name and call you by what they find easier to pronounce.

    • @GMAMEC
      @GMAMEC 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Instead of a hyphenated name, I wonder if the middle name would suffice.

  • @stephaniepedersen7919
    @stephaniepedersen7919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    OP I'm glad you got your sister out but sorry that your girlfriend was a horrific human who thought your sister should stay in a home that could have caused very very serious problems for her. I'm glad your sister has you to take care of her.

  • @eszterfodor3377
    @eszterfodor3377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I disagree with the first story's judgement. I never understood this "kids get the mother's last name". Granted, I'm in a different culture, but why throw tantrums over these things? The name isn't everything, you could legally be named T-Rex if you want. Although, the husband was too stubborn by not accepting the compromise. Not denying that.

    • @Mr.Reddito
      @Mr.Reddito  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you so much for sharing your side Eszter. Hope your day is going well.

    • @redraven8963
      @redraven8963 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Several HUGE points people are missing
      1. There can be legal implications depending on what country you are in the example, inheritance, and even paternity rights if the kid doesn't have the father's last name.
      2. As a woman who has been married for 16 years marriage is about comprising and this woman acts like an entitled brat, I'm willing to bet this woman does not want him in the kid's life, and judging by the way she is acting she wants the advantage of marriage without the work and comprises.
      3. This kid is going to have a hard time in life because his mother acts like a petulant child. If she can't handle this she has NO business being a mother.

    • @matthewschocke4094
      @matthewschocke4094 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you don't follow standard naming conventions people will make a lot of assumptions functions about your family.

    • @matthewschocke4094
      @matthewschocke4094 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@paulastiles8873 still no less of a hassle for the kids to deal with.

  • @rebeccajohnson8579
    @rebeccajohnson8579 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A MOTHER, doing this to her CHILD is just chilling! Hopefully, she will NEVER be released from prison!

  • @supremeturtle1186
    @supremeturtle1186 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Story 1- He was respectful enough of her culture to let her keep her last name while she wouldn't even attempt to the same for him NTA

  • @lillyfire5531
    @lillyfire5531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    1st story, I can understand both sides, but I can’t stand the wife calling her husband controlling etc. yeah the husband was kinda gross saying that it’s be “even”.
    In light of all of that I’m gonna have to side with the husband on this one. It would be complicated with a long middle name and a hyphenated last name and she won’t even consider using husband’s last name.

  • @antoniomiguel8352
    @antoniomiguel8352 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    fun fact about my grandma, she was never had the last name of my grandpa because she forgot to put it when they were sine papers.

    • @presidentdavenport7137
      @presidentdavenport7137 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't believe the second story because how can doctor tell your mom what's wrong with you but not you I mean makes no sense.

    • @antoniomiguel8352
      @antoniomiguel8352 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@presidentdavenport7137 what?

  • @hotred7342
    @hotred7342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Read the book called 'A child called it' by dave pelzer this was the worst parenting ever.

    • @TiffWaffles
      @TiffWaffles 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I read A Child Called It for an English class. That's a book that has stuck with me even though it was triggering due to my own experiences with child abuse. I heard that there are other books in this series, but I haven't read them.
      There's a channel that covered a lot of cases of Munchhausen by Proxy. They covered a lot of heartbreaking cases like the Garnett Spears (Lacey Spears) case and the mother Laurie Williamson who made all of her children sick. Laurie even told her children that they were going to die before law enforcement got involved.

    • @audreym3908
      @audreym3908 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I never heard of this book before, nor the sequel. I have read the summaries of both and bits of his life after the foster system and my heart breaks for the little kid.

  • @kathleenblight5071
    @kathleenblight5071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Story 2 was made into a documentary movie with a lot of clips from the courtrooms. If I can remember the title of the docu/movie I will edit to add here

    • @nee_username871
      @nee_username871 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you thinking of Gypsy Rose Blanchard?

  • @cherylsorrell74
    @cherylsorrell74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey Mr. Reddito thanks for posting every day!

  • @wackyt.bobcat7576
    @wackyt.bobcat7576 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    respect to mr reddito to be able to keep his chill even tough he read all this xD

  • @SandiL-
    @SandiL- 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mr Reddito! Another wonderful story! You absolutely are a very caring and wonderful person to keep these stories in the spotlight. I’m so glad you never mince words when dealing with these awful people! Thanks!

  • @joanwilloughby1617
    @joanwilloughby1617 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    1st story- op is well within his rights to want his son to have his last name. It is Not narssistic at all. She kept her maiden name. So why can't their firstborn son have his last name?? That's the tradition in almost every country in the world.

    • @ludmilamaiolini6811
      @ludmilamaiolini6811 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The problem is that he doesn’t want the son to have his wife’s last name, just his

  • @Shakeybaby58
    @Shakeybaby58 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    story 2 is the worst abuse story I have heard even worst then the mom that was trying to sale her daughter to her uncle son.

    • @Mr.Reddito
      @Mr.Reddito  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I Agree!!!

    • @rebel-artist-nerd
      @rebel-artist-nerd 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Makes you wonder what more the mother allowed to happen to her daughter while she was unresponsive and can't recall any of it.

  • @katwitanruna
    @katwitanruna 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I’m sorry, if my partner tells me his sister called in the middle of the night saying mom’s boyfriend is being a creep I’m going with partner to pick her up or I’ll be in the home fixing her new room. Seriously. WTF?

    • @audreym3908
      @audreym3908 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here! Depending on how far away driving wise, it would be better to go with them to take turns and get some sleep and don't stop till we get their sibling(s) and then go to stay at a motel a bit far from them but just enough to fully rest then head home. Or if they only live 4-5 hrs away (compared to 10+ hrs) I would have the room(s) ready and either order/make their favorite meals and make some calls to work about a family emergency and taking a few days off and seeing/finding a lawyer to ask for advice or how to take on custody of said kid(s) (with my partner's permission for all this so that the process is easier and faster but just looking up the info is a start and not calling up and making appointments till the kid(s) are with us). Also seeing about getting them drs appointments (both physical and mental) if they need it too. Schooling will be another discussion but after custody arrangements first.

  • @sailorathena17
    @sailorathena17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Munchhausen by proxy it’s not only villainess but it’s also a horrible crime! What Op’s mother did is an example for jail time

  • @darlenemahaven4794
    @darlenemahaven4794 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good for you for doing what you did, family is very important. Good for you for taking care of your sister

  • @ireneduett950
    @ireneduett950 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sounds like my Stepdad!! He did things to me and my Mother turned her back on me!!

    • @LoveYou-rt6bx
      @LoveYou-rt6bx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too you are FAR from alone

    • @marclytle644
      @marclytle644 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know your pain. It was not a step dad... but my own father. No one believed me. He is not in this world and if there is any justice he is burning in hell. Stay strong, everyday that you hold your head up, is another day that you show that you can't be beaten.

  • @Drizimar1
    @Drizimar1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is for the 2nd story. If the unwanted communication from the mother in prison continues, you can get a restraining order put in, then sent to the prison. The prison would have to censor all outgoing mail and reject any mail going to her child. Second the prison has the ability to block certain numbers from being called off the mothers phone account. I know how this works from working in the system for several decades.

  • @dindog22
    @dindog22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    sounds like mom was giving the daughter qualudes. that's reprehensible. she's going to be damaged for life

  • @selbarton
    @selbarton 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    1. She should go with the flow - divorce partners that think they can control their wife and act like the payment to get her to the alter is what makes her his possession.
    2. The dose would have been way over, but some meds do overlap. Woman is the mentally disturbed one, and she should have known jail wouldn't be pleasant after hurting her child.
    3. Box her stuff up and let girlfriend pick it up outside without being her storage unit. Discussing moving sister in long term is a must, but going to get her when she's in trouble should be a no brainer. It's not like she will be a teenager for the rest of their lives. She'll grow up and move out in the future.

    • @ramonah66
      @ramonah66 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They both said the same thing how is wanting your child to have your name controlling? They should talk it out and realize that the woman will get her way because she’s the mom and will do what she wants.

  • @sagittarianfirerat7657
    @sagittarianfirerat7657 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Both the PO and his wife are both in the wrong. I am glad do not have my mother's maiden name. My mother was treated poorly when she started school, because her parents were not married.

  • @vickichavez9956
    @vickichavez9956 ปีที่แล้ว

    This mom was just so absolutely appalling for giving her child meds for horses

  • @marshawargo7238
    @marshawargo7238 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just heard one about a mom who's raised her college age son to think it's Normal to Sleep With Her! He told his gf of 2 months, the day after the first time they slept together, that they were breaking up Because she wasn't as good in bed as his MOM‼️WTF ⁉️ He saw Nothing Wrong With It! He kept saying "My mother says..." WoW‼️College Age 👨‍🎓

    • @jkvgsvsmiles3406
      @jkvgsvsmiles3406 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just read that awhile ago. Made me want to puke! This comes from a single mom who raised a son. To even be able to think of doing that takes a very mentally ill person!

  • @amberleeannalee1999
    @amberleeannalee1999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg this reminds me of that girl who was actually 19 years old and told she was 13. She was forced to live in a Wheel chair. She ended up killing her mom along with her BF. She was an abusive narc and IMO mom got her karmic justice

    • @AceAviations2
      @AceAviations2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Two monsters exterminated, good job on her.

  • @ayannatobias7375
    @ayannatobias7375 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Why is it that when someone wants to do what is considered the norm I.e being pro heterosexual marriage child getting Father's last name you're called controlling phobic etc wow ....... I'll remain in that corner

    • @mindingmybusiness3915
      @mindingmybusiness3915 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Actually on certain cultures the kids get mother's last name while some other places get both parent last name depends on the culture.

  • @mdaenen123
    @mdaenen123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Story one. ESH. She sucks cause she automatically thought that the kid would have her last name and so does he. However to call him a dictator is ridiculous. It seems he didn’t argue about the maiden name thing. Can’t be a dictator if he didn’t work on that. I think that it’s an okay compromise for both last names.

    • @bessevaraven859
      @bessevaraven859 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She DID offer to use both so she's NOT THE AHOLE. HE IS...lololol.....hesvthe one trying to DICKtate the situation

  • @samanthabeaz6797
    @samanthabeaz6797 ปีที่แล้ว

    When I was in high school one of my friends started getting sick and missing weeks at a time, which turned into months after a few years. Then one year she missed more than half of the year, and finally had to be expelled.
    Turns out her grandmother/caregiver was slowly feeding her more and more rat poison since taking her in.
    Her reason for doing it was that she was lonely when my friend went to school and just wanted someone around the house.
    Immediately after the discovery she left to go live with her birth mom/ step father and the 6 other kids in that house. She was able to fully recover eventually, but still has a few serious health complications related to years of ingesting rat poison.

    • @samanthabeaz6797
      @samanthabeaz6797 ปีที่แล้ว

      The grandmother died alone with no family to give any poots. Even her own children had nothing but hate hurt and resentment for that retched woman. Her body ended up in a mass burial site for the unknown unloved and forgotten.
      Hardly makes up for nearly killing her granddaughter and ruining her education with poison, just for someone to chit chat with between 8am-3pm 5 Mon-Fri. But it makes my heart glad to know she got exactly what she deserved in such poetic fashion.

  • @rheannagold6620
    @rheannagold6620 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is your best story yet 👌

  • @robinkholmes7127
    @robinkholmes7127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Story 1: The fact that the OP wasn't willing to compromise due to his what his family thinks shows he's a coward and an a**hole.
    Story 2: It's a surprise the OP is still alive. I hope the OP gets therapy and all the proper care they need.
    Story 3: Go OP, go OP! Keep being a good big brother. The girlfriend soulds like a selfish person.

    • @kennethsjvold9212
      @kennethsjvold9212 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      In what universe is OP an asshole, so the wife rule the family and its here way or nothing 🙄🙄 omfg

  • @speechmfs
    @speechmfs ปีที่แล้ว

    I work with children and this happens more than we know! I’m so glad OP got help. I know of parents getting their kids diagnosed with autism to get that disability check. Also, some parents get their kids diagnosed with mental disorders and on meds to get that check. Very sad!

  • @susanyoung5447
    @susanyoung5447 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have an uncle who was an ex on victory. He said that any person who abused a child is considered the lowest of the low by other prisoners. They would abuse them in turn.

  • @angelmonster60
    @angelmonster60 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This "mother" in the title story is so evil. One person I saw in the comments said a close second to her is the one that had an affair with op's husband and had two sons by him. That one was very bad and I'm not downplaying it, but another I think is close is the one that was another shopping addict that was going to marry her daughter off to this horrible guy for money I think and the daughter tried to kill herself because of it which was considered disgraceful in their culture. That one was awful.

  • @shantereed
    @shantereed ปีที่แล้ว

    As a person who has a disability the mom who drugged her child frustrates me. She ruined her child life and as someone who had to struggle to get off the system, I wish OP the best. People with disabilities are already forced into being dependent on family and the system it’s a shame a mom would do this to her own child.

  • @sarahryan4553
    @sarahryan4553 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The double barrelled last name is the perfect solution that's what we did for our kids !

  • @corrinaallman4338
    @corrinaallman4338 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Story #2 gets my vote for the most vile behavior from a parent I have ever heard. I'm the daughter of a cop and heard many stories. The beating the mother got was just a taste of what she deserves.

    • @bautistalover
      @bautistalover 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is if the Gypsy Blanchard case got caught early. OP was sooo lucky Hannah’s attention was caught by the red flag.

  • @arthurmagson3533
    @arthurmagson3533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Story 1 not the Ahole, why does she hate his family name so much that not only does she reject it for herself in marriage but also refuses to allow his son to have it... she seemed very hostile about it, not having the same last name might even create a rift between father and son in the future.

  • @keepupwithspeedy
    @keepupwithspeedy ปีที่แล้ว

    I grew up around drugs and junkies and a lot had kids but none ever tried to poison them just for money. neglect them and even abuse them at times but I never heard of anyone poisoning a kid just to get money.

  • @lewischase
    @lewischase 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good afternoon Mr Reddito
    Have a great weekend everyone

  • @nickoleiwas
    @nickoleiwas ปีที่แล้ว

    For the first one:
    It's also narcissistic when this woman is keeping name. You cannot call someone narcissistic when the other person is doing the same.

  • @magoncox6163
    @magoncox6163 ปีที่แล้ว

    Listening to this story just kills me. My son was diagnosed T1 at age 9 and I would do absolutely anything to take that away from him. And this mom purposefully made her child sick ? There is a special place in hell for people like her ! OP I pray for you and your recovery.

  • @kennethgates3508
    @kennethgates3508 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    1st story - NTA - The OP is correct to give the baby his last name, it's his child also. In most cultures the sons carry on the family name of the father, the mother's family sons carry on their name.

  • @mysticaccy
    @mysticaccy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    2nd story reminds me of the movie "Run"

    • @Mr.Reddito
      @Mr.Reddito  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have not seen that one, Ill have to look into it , thanks for commenting.

  • @jpedwards9158
    @jpedwards9158 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    OP GOOD ON YOU FOR HELPING YOUR SISTER OUT CAN YOU PLEASE LET US KNOW HOW SISTER IS DOING

  • @RosensDragon2140
    @RosensDragon2140 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The mom in the main story is easily one of the most vile parents you've covered. But the mom who was having an affair with her daughter's husband for their entire marriage while living next door to them, that resulted in her younger brothers, is a good second.
    Some people are just born soulless.

  • @klocugh12
    @klocugh12 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Egg donor being sentenced without parole pretty much sums it up.

    • @rebel-artist-nerd
      @rebel-artist-nerd 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hopefully she ends up never leaving prison because she is too much of a threat to others. If she gets out who's to say she won't try to find someone else to do this to.

  • @DemonAngel
    @DemonAngel 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    S2- the truly shocking thing about that story is that stuff like that happens more times than people think. A parent or partner make the child or other partner sick or "save them" to gain praise or something from others. It's an ego thing that transfers to another victim many times over.
    Criminal Minds has had several episodes of that. SVU has. Other series as well as movies. Anyone remember Six Sense? They all come from real life.

  • @dreamhobbiz
    @dreamhobbiz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's like the wife's way or the highway. How nice.

  • @crystalmerchant2688
    @crystalmerchant2688 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry Opie that you had to go through a lot of that but your mom caught a lot of charges though

  • @gregorywolford6005
    @gregorywolford6005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She sounds kinda like Dee Dee Blanchard only difference was she wasn’t an addict

  • @sagittarianfirerat7657
    @sagittarianfirerat7657 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    When I was almost six years old, I developed a skin condition called psoriasis. During the late seventies, and early eighties were hard for me, because I had a bad case of it.
    I wanted to go to theme parks and water parks, but my mom told me that I had to get rid of the psoriasis first.
    She told me that as long as I have the psoriasis on my body, that I would not be a pretty girl. I grew up thinking pretty girls get to be girlfriends, wives, mothers, actresses, singers, dancers, fashion models, teachers, or doctors. She told me that I would be lucky if I could make a friend.
    I used the treatments that the doctors prescribed, but my psoriasis would not go away. I knew I kept disappointing my mom when my skin condition could not clear up.
    By the time I was ten, I gave up any hope that the psoriasis would go away. I was told by a classmate that I had to die for me to be psoriasis free. I tried not give up on my dream of going to a water park or theme park.
    One day, while living with my aunt and her family, I went to the theme park with them. My cousin wanted to go to a theme park for her birthday with her friends. I could not believe it, I got to go. I had a lot of fun being there.
    A year after I went to the theme park, my skin started to clear up some. When my sister wanted to go to theme parks, mom told my sister that we did not have any money to take her. My mom could have told me we did not have the money rather than using my skin condition was the reason not to take me.

  • @AJROtheWriter
    @AJROtheWriter 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish I could send my egg doner to jail!

  • @ThemActually
    @ThemActually 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That could have been another gypsy rose Blanchard situation

  • @pattiellis1613
    @pattiellis1613 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    At 18 I started having to take in siblings and their children. My parents divorced when I was 15 and split us up. She took the older 4 and dad took me and the 3 little ones. Mom said she just couldn't deal with me. I overheard her when she said this to my father. Later on she confessed to me that she had to make sure that I was the one to go with the little ones, because I was not as selfish as my older sister. She said she new I would take good care of them. I did. I took the littlest to school with me and my teachers were very accommodating so I could continue to go to school myself. I love my mother and have forgiven her many years ago. I could write a book about my life, as it was fraught with years of abuse and strife. But, why dwell. I'm old now, who'd really care?

  • @zetamaxr
    @zetamaxr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    For me, the storybwith the most vile people that you've read about was the one where the op caught their step mom and step sis trying to play her murder so they could get her inheritance.

  • @andreachristensen5383
    @andreachristensen5383 ปีที่แล้ว

    Story 2... I'm thinking she was given high doses of ketamine. Horrible mother

  • @happydaze782
    @happydaze782 ปีที่แล้ว

    Male child gets father's last name, female child gets mother's last name. 😊

  • @amberleeannalee1999
    @amberleeannalee1999 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Abusive mom probably lied about OP’s family being dead or non existent

  • @kimrichmond6308
    @kimrichmond6308 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Story 1 - my daughter and son-in-law have given our last name to their youngest daughter (we’d lost our son in his 20s) and it thrilled us! Now her older brother and sister want to change their last names as we are the only active family they have and know how much we love all of them.

  • @backgroundmusik
    @backgroundmusik 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The second one is some Gypsy Rose crap.

  • @goldenoptic
    @goldenoptic 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ronald Clark O'Bryan has entered the chat.

  • @whatever8243
    @whatever8243 ปีที่แล้ว

    No. Baby gets dads last name. It’s his connection to the child. Divorce her she is to forward

  • @chuyvaldesfloresvaldes9671
    @chuyvaldesfloresvaldes9671 ปีที่แล้ว

    In story one: OP super AH…. as if he did not know how double last names work

  • @sarahclapp505
    @sarahclapp505 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The prison sentence is not long enough even if it was life

  • @dcg590
    @dcg590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Story 1- toxic feminism. She wants all kinds of equality until it comes to money and what she ‘deserves’. The. Oh should def have his last name. That’s how names are carried on. She will end up divorced

  • @missj902008
    @missj902008 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I get what you're trying to say Mr. Reddito, I do, but for me that girlfriend would have been gone the second she open her mouth about the little girl being able to stay safe with her brother.

  • @dja3456
    @dja3456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jesus christ these people.

  • @MysticMae21
    @MysticMae21 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    story 1 could always compromise. first kid gets dad name, second gets moms, third gets dads, etc. or girls can get moms and boys gets dads. if its a long name, i totally understand not wanting to stick a kid with a super long last name.

  • @stephanietaylor142
    @stephanietaylor142 ปีที่แล้ว

    Last story...If he had discussed it with his gf and she said no would it have made a difference? Seems like she is a bit too needy and it's probably good she showed her true self before he effed up and married her

  • @jackiehenry3372
    @jackiehenry3372 ปีที่แล้ว

    No you should've got your sister. She was in crisis.

  • @carmencarlton1445
    @carmencarlton1445 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What Terrible mom

  • @jonesblorraine
    @jonesblorraine 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think I know why he wants his son to have his last name, it's because maybe he doesn't want his family name to end with him, also if anything was to happen to his wife then it could make it difficult to get custody of his children, if his family wanted the children.

  • @tinabranch321
    @tinabranch321 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nope this one wins as horrible. Not a mother a druggy.

  • @tammibransom5752
    @tammibransom5752 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sometimes you have family emergencies and you just have to step up and help. Especially if it is a minor and they don't have any other people to go to. If you have a heart you agree. If it turns into something more permanent then you have to reassess things. If your significant other says no, then you part ways. The safety of a minor sibling is at stake. His girlfriend of 5+yrs shouldn't have given an ultimatum . She should've just made it easier on him if she REALLY cared for op.

  • @hugosinclair6798
    @hugosinclair6798 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    2nd story reminds me of my mom when she tried to keep me completely dependent on her, for similar reasons to OP

  • @donnamcknight3584
    @donnamcknight3584 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    3. Dump the gf!! 2. Vile mother.

  • @ruthardis1452
    @ruthardis1452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    There's nothing wrong with a child having two last names . My son and daughter do and no confusion for them . So yeah Op is being a jerk

    • @Ambidexter143
      @Ambidexter143 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Double-barrelled names, i.e. Smith-Jones, are quite common. Nobody is going to be excited if the kid's name is Igor Buttmunch-Pickelhimer.

    • @1UPspector
      @1UPspector 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly hell i have 3 last name which holds my own last name, my mother last name and my father last name so its Cajigas Alegria Romero. Peeps who think its justified to have a fight over names is disheartening especially when they should be coming together to make up a last name, not fight over it for no reason

    • @roowyrm9576
      @roowyrm9576 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      In the UK its very common for kids to have both parents surnames. My granddaughters have that. No confusion or complications.

    • @1UPspector
      @1UPspector 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@roowyrm9576 exactly, even if there's a lot of family with the same name, they have the distinct part of the name that is different or even a Jr. On it

  • @Urlocalteardrop
    @Urlocalteardrop 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Between the two of us my husband and I have 5 kids 4 girls and 1 boy. My son has a hyphenated last name. My husband didn't mind because my son was the first boy born in 41 yrs on my side. And as far as we can tell he is the only boy in the family to carry on my last name. I have a unique last name that very few people have. He also agreed to name him after my pappaw.
    Story 2 sounds a lot like gypsy rose, without the whole killing her mom thing.

  • @ravenfox926
    @ravenfox926 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I kept my maiden name, but gave my son his dads last name because I like his last name - my first name rhymes with his last name and honestly sounds like scales, so I go by mine

  • @colleenosullivan857
    @colleenosullivan857 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What makes the wife’s demands any less controlling than ops. How about sons carry ops name and daughters carry the wifes

  • @blackfyrerose2292
    @blackfyrerose2292 ปีที่แล้ว

    Story 1: yeah, i get red flags too. Its pretty common these days to have hyphernated surnames in families. Its even now considered a 'trend'. So i don't entirely get the issue. Except for paperwork. Only so many squares for letters. But my Mum has a long first and last name. It makes it easier to remember her. One of the first words i ever learnt to write actually, along with my own, so perhaps I'm biased.
    Story 2: Medical Abuse. Thats all i can say.