It's really nice that OP and the mother of her brother's son get along so great. They're definitely stronger together than fighting against each other.
The sister using the “if you loved her you would do it.” Is the most hypocritical statement that she could’ve used. As OP I’d ask: “does that mean you don’t love my niece?” If not then the follow up would be: “watch out you’re dropping your hypocrisy all around the floor.. “ . Wow just wow
"Sam" was TOO KIND HEARTED for OP's good.(ETA) Where the h*** was the effing Lawyer in this WHOLE THING? Said this because that "so-called" Lawyer was a WUSS. (2nd ETA) At least OP found a good shark of a Lawyer.
My mom's mother could give nightmare mom #1 a run for her money. My grandmother had 4 children - oldest was 7 when she abandoned them to run off with another man. She then had a child with the other man, but no contact with her "first" family. Her father lived with my grandfather and the kids because he had a house and felt guilty that his daughter had run off and left these children. Using visits with her father as an excuse to come over my grandmother would come over and steal money, and even a fur coat that belonged to my great grandmother. She also stole her father's chequebook and cleared out his bank account. After that incident she stayed no contact with her dad and her kids until her father died - then she popped back up again and was trying to reconcile with my mom who had been 7 when she left and the only one who really remembered her. She brainwashed my mother over a period of a few years to contest the will - my grandmother wanted the house (which meant her own children would have nowhere to live) and she was trying to get part of the inheritance because surprise! she had been cut out of the will originally. My mother who genuinely still loved her and wanted to believe that her mother wanted to have them back helped my grandmother contest the will. She did end up getting some of the money and unsurprisingly disappeared again shortly after. It was a few years later that she started calling my grandfather asking for him to take her back because hubby #4 was going to leave her. Thankfully my grandfather stayed away from her.
Wow. Ok. I'm not going to sugarcoat it. Your grandmother is one nasty piece of work! ಠ︵ಠ And she managed to brainwash your poor mother. I hope you're in no contact with this sorry excuse for a human.
Story 1: Charlize's son would be his heir so he'd get the majority of the inheritance. Birth certificates? Anything that could prove who the OP's and brother's father would be. A small happy ending. Keep toxic grandma away. Story 2: Why do these sisters live togther? Swat her hand away, and insist on formula or an alternative. Does the sister just want the OP to mother both babies? Wip out her boob in relaiation? Or move out.
OP’s brother was her legal guardian, so she was like his child in the eyes of the law. Without a will, she had as much claim to the inheritance as his bio son.
When she said that she knows that many will not believe that there is mothers like that, I know exactly that there is!! But this takes the cake ! My mom was bad,but this is absolutely awful !! Such a bad vile woman!
Someone who leave their child behind doesn’t deserve the title of mom and sense op is 18 then op should be able to live alone and op. Mom shouldn’t get any of op late brother stuff
Nursing a baby is more than feeding, it’s a nurturing and bonding that takes place! Because of the human connection, her Sister should respect that! Period!💯🔥🤦🏽♀️
OP’s mother is a very toxic person, OP’s Brother is a very good person up until his death, OP is also a very good person, and her Sister in-law is also a very good person.
I thought for a second you were referring to the OP in the second story, cos I was thinking "man this sister is treating OP like she's a milk cow!" Kinda misread what you wrote. Oops🤭
Story 1 OP: look on your's or your brother's birth certificate, your male life giver should be listed. If not I suggest doing Ancestry and/or 23 and Me; many people have used it to find lost/missing family members.
I like your quiet way of presenting the stories. Other readers are so hyper, they miss the main focus of the story and don't give you any time to reach your own conclusions.
I feel so bad for OP.. I've said the same thing, why do the good ones have to go and the bad ones stay.. My grandmother told me, some people need more time than others to get to know God...
THERE IS A POSSIBILITY OP CAN'T MOVE OUT FOR SOME REASON. THE HOUSE COULD BELONG TO OP BUT OP CAN'T GET RID OF HER SISTER FOR SOME REASON .OP'S SISTER HAS NO RIGHT TO USE OP AS A SORT OF WET-NURSE FOR HER BABY AGAINST HER WILL,SURELY USING A WOMAN AS A WET -NURSE AGAINST HER WILL IS ILLEGAL + CAN HAVE OFFICIAL LEGAL CONSEQUENCES?
Op, I sure hope she tried to find her father. I'm glad OP had someone in her life. And, as her nephew gets older she can tell him all the wonderful things about his father. I can't even reply to the second story.
Omg man stories like that literally get my heart racing and my face to turn red. I'm mad that the "mother" could be this way to her kids but more upset that he's using OP's ignorance to try and take advantage of her and steal from her. Im only where she getting her out because of perv bf but my God am I pissed. I really hope stories like this will help a kid at some point to realize they dont have to back down to people like this do indeed have rights. I would have paid to see OP call her bluff and see what the cops said after she explained she was getting her minor daughter out onto the street
Man the first story is close to my story about my mom. As far as the second story, I agree with the comment you read. I do think it would be considered assault and OP needs to move out. As a mom who breast fed a child, I know it can get exhausting. Who knows what her sister does while OP is sleeping one of those nights she passed out due to plain exhaustion!
Exactly. Not only should OP and her brother Sam have been taken away from her, they also should've been placed with loving and stable adoptive families.
My thoughts exactly! What is it with these despicable deadbeat parents popping out dozens of babies when they shouldn't have even had one and neglecting or even abusing their own children?! It's disgusting.......
Story #1, I do believe this story is so true and hard to live through. My birth mother was batshit crazy and abusive, so I understand op's position. I was always mistreated by her and was not what she wanted. She always hated me because I was a tom boy and not the girly girl my little sister was.
She's not the WORST mom I've heatd/read about. Those are the ones who physically And emotionally abuse their children- even kill them or attempt to do so. (I've heard/read stories where the child(ren) actually PRAYED she would succeed.) But OP's bio-"mom" is definitely a damaged -and damaging- toxic humanoid. She deserves NO ACCESS to her daughter, her sons former partner or ESPECIALLY that innocent child. Sounds like she doesn't merit inclusion in the human race. At least, she'll find the younger (or any) boyfriends will become fewer & farther between as she ages, especially if they can no longer leech off of her. Sounds like she's already scraping the (outside) bottom of the barrel. I know how it feels to feel threatened by a mothers SO and to know she wouldn't believe me (12 y/o)- (or my 10 year old sister) if we spoke up.
I’m a big advocate of breastfeeding, but it’s all about consensual and relationship building, if sister didn’t want to, 100% it’s her choice not to, it’s why we have formula, it’s awesome that in first world countries we have access to clean water and can sterilise our infants things to reduce risks to them when giving formula. So sister had that option but she stole OPs milk, her nephews food, and then yes, assaulted OP and isn’t respecting boundaries, just because you live together doesn’t mean you can steal another child’s milk. Why should OP over do it and risk issues with her breasts and health (lots of issues can occur with oversupply) and potentially even result in her stopping before she is ready with her son, just because sister decided she didn’t want to breastfeed herself, she could look into relactation if she wants her child to have breastmilk, but OP has her own baby to feed and sister has other options and shouldn’t be pressuring her sibling to doing something she isn’t comfortable with
My mom wouldn't allow my dad to sign my birth certificate because he didn't want to marry her. She made it clear that if he tried to contact me she would make sure I disappeared and he'd never know if I was alive or dead. She blackmailed him with twice a year photos to make sure she got her child support. I found birthday card confetti in a file cabinet with a paternity test when I was little. I remembered the name and when I was older, I waited until I was left alone and called every person with the same last name in the phone book asking if they knew him. I eventually found my grandmother, waited for a weekend when I was left alone again and walked the miles to her house. She called him over to meet me without telling me why. We all ended up crying, but I was able to keep contact with my dad. She needs to check with the social security office to see who they have on file if it's not on the birth certificate.
@@mindingmybusiness3915 He's not. My mom was (and is) the shi+ty person. She told him she was on birth control and only dated him for 2 weeks- while taking fertility meds. She was targeting a younger guy because she thought he'd be easier to manipulate. In her rage, she got him fired, reducing the amount of child support she got out of him. And she was just as bad a mom as she is a person. Too bad my dad now has brain damage and has fallen into conspiracy theories and gone republican. It's sad to watch him fall....
@@toysruskid5074 I'm sorry that happened to you. Unless I was mistaken I believe they were married so that's why I just assumed he was on the birth certificate for both of them
Story 2: NTA. She's just lucky she didn't have twins though. I doubt she could do it.... And why are two grown siblings living together and not raising Thier babies with the families of the fathers....
On the first story: OP's mother was so selfish that even though she really didn't give a #($&$ about her own children, she wouldn't let them have a loving parent who would care for them in their father. That woman cared and cares for no one but herself. I'm also worried about OP's younger sister the mother lost. Where is she now?
NOBODY touches my boobs without my permission!!! My husband found this out the hard way when he snuck up behind me and grabbed them. He got an elbow to his head!!! That was assault!
OP could easily solve her problem, if she would actually use common sense. She needs to take some of her inheritance and pony up for a Private Investigator. She'll probably have her Dad's information in a few weeks to months, depending on how far away he is.
Dad's name should be on her or her brother's birth certificates. Look up marriage records for mom. Her lawyer probably could have forced her mom to give it up during the trial.
Putting your baby on someone else's breast is just crossing so many boundaries. And, which is it? Sister chose not to breast feed, or wanted to and couldn't?
True narcissist 💯‼️❗two true narcissist's😅🤣😂😭 breast milk is like crude oil for babies. Why didn't sis pump her own and bottle feed❓🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽 It makes op the a hole for allowing to begin with especially when she started taking from fridge then she volunteered 🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽 so yeah, started something she couldn't finish then allowed sis to bully/doormat her. I bet her belly is tight with all that feeding 😭😂🤣😅
1st story: Op's mom would be the perfect match for my brother's dad. When my brother attempted suicide by hanging (failed attempt, he's doing better), our mother is the one who cut him down. His father met us at the hospital and asked if she had taken a picture. Didn't ask about his son..... just wanted a picture of him, his only son, hanging by his neck while turning black. Thank God that's not my dad. My dad is an asshole but even he kept asking how his former stepson (who did not get along with) was doing and still asks about him to this day. I'm mean. Everytime I hear you say "this is the worst story yet", all I can think of is "you haven't seen anything yet, and you really should not challenge the Gods of the perverse".
Why don't they try signing up for one of those ancestry websites that compare known relatives. Maybe they could find their dad on there or maybe a cousin who might give her more information. Or if that doesn't work maybe hire a private investigator who can search records. Or if all else fails maybe they can seduce the mother into giving up information.
Clearly stated he didn’t write a will as he didn’t expect to die so young and was always more interested in looking after others than think of himself.
@@kassard1 Not writing the will isn't looking after anyone else. If you're single that's one thing. As soon as you are married or have children you better write a will.
@@danrossell6375 Oh I agree I was responding to the comment by Elsa Flood "If OPs brother left a Will then whats is the problem?" this insinuates the commenter either wasnt paying attention or missed that information. My comment was exactly as they had said in the video. I am in agreement a will is very much needed but I've learned from experience also sometimes a will dont mean shit when people feel they're more than entitled to something but were left out completely. ie when my family thought there was nothing to be had they were like "aww thats a shame (will stated it was to all come to me & one other but there was no obvious money) but will-maker obviously had their reasons to leave out X-family member and we must respect their wishes" but then when money appeared not only were they scrambling for a share themselves they were also trying to get X person some so to cover their own greedy asses. Money does crazy shit to people and wills should always be made if not then intentions should be made to someone in a traceable way ie email or text or letter.
A long time ago rich people would hire someone to breastfeed their babies. They did not breastfeed them nor did they care for them most of the time. I think the sister here was like that.
Yes, but they were called nurse maids and they were paid for feeding and caring for the baby. I don't know how I'd feel about breastfeeding someone else baby, or somebody else breastfeeding mine, mainly because of the intense bonding feeling you get when feeding your baby that way.
CALL HUMAN RESOURCES ASAS ! I PROMISE YOU THAT YOU ARE Beneficiary on his life insurance at work !!! I PROMISE YOU. SHE IS FORGING EVERYTHING. 2 STEAL INSURANCE MONEY & HOUSE 🏡
The animation is cute but I just find that it distracts me watching it, and sometimes I lose track of the story because I’m paying attention to the animation.
Story 1: In my "humble" opinion, that horrid "human" should've lost all rights to Sam and OP in every way possible and deported to the depths of Hell from whence she came. As for the not knowing who her father is, OP has various avenues to go about finding him without that demon of a mother.
Ugh! Sister made the decision not to breastfeed. That leaves her with formula or purchasing from an appropriate breast milk bank. She has no rights to your body whatsoever, even though you chose to breastfeed. Sometimes you gotta rotate the baby from one side to the other because of the soreness factor. The first time anyone, no matter who just grabbed my stuff, they got a black eye. How dare she turn you into a wet-nurse??? It's your baby and your body. Tell her no. She made/had her choice made, it's not on you.
You're right about that the good ones I always go I just lost my dad not too long ago and Batman was the most kind-hearted person you would ever meet when I was younger than any first to cuss me my mother help people yum ran a battered women's shelter and for the diocese for the church and he was amazing I took afternoon 2 minutes 19 they took away every runaway in the freaking City I'm not kidding there it is my dad would come home from work and be 17 kids sleeping in his living room and a lot of times the police would come knocking on the door nowadays he'd get arrested of course but this was almost 30 years ago on some things were different but anyway the police would knock on the door and ask if so and so was there and of course we didn't lie we said yes and they'd say okay well we can tell their parents they're safe have a good one they knew my daddy was a good guy and he was only out to protect people'but he used to tell her as I got older until everybody that instead of collecting cats and dogs like everybody else had I collected people so what he was a wonderful man his name and picture should be listed with the word unconditional love I did so many horrible things to that man thinking that you know I needed it attention and my dad used to say that he tried to save me before it was too late but as we got older he said all right I did a damn good job because I did well I had a lot of issues here and there with stuff but I did well I got a degree you know I married I had kids and I did everything right but I have to can anyways most of my issues and I took everything out of my dad I didn't go out to me anything you know I've never been arrested or anything but I used to do some really crazy cuz I'm not going to get into that my father forgave me I'm just going to leave it like that and that's what I mean everybody if you opened up a restaurant feed everybody for free that's the kind of man he wants and I broke my back here when was retirement took time off he could care for me and my two kids one of my sons wasn't even a year old yet it's paralysis and so much medication and you know I'd fall asleep in my food and it's just a really bad time and my dad work for me possibly at least stand once in a while and I can walk with a walker a little bit through the house he did all that with me I'm not going to get into anything else you did you know house burnt down and she bought help me by the house I'm having a real tough time getting over this you know they teach us everything to say you're saying it teaches everything except for how to live without them so all I can say is I don't think you ever get over something like that my dad told me to to know that now I haven't angel watching out for me and he will always make sure he's there for me I don't know you know if ghosts are real or if they just come out when they don't really have to finish business or my dad finishes business he didn't know 2 weeks before so he took care of everything you know he gave us all his money he went to the bank gave us everything give us a CDs and everything so that we were okay that that was all he thought about when he found out it was if we were going to be okay not that he was going to die and not be here anymore you want to make sure we were okay to help us through the process and you know big deal even though we did we didn't tell him we did he was a marine to the core ending I'm lonely want to see him cry until my mom died and I got to stop now because I think this just broke me and I can't stop him too much sorry they're saying it's easier and it will one day as long as I don't start talking about it funny because I even have dreams about him and I've never remembered my dreams until now and I'm woken up crying hysterically a few times got to have the best family and support group I know you don't I'm sorry I don't have a lot of people in my circle but the people that I have are amazing you know my husband I met when I was down and out with the back and actually bald from the medicine and that man made me cool again at that time with the back and he did it again with my father died he has been there for me amazingly I have two of the most amazing sons I don't know what I did in this life to deserve the people to have in my circle I have the people in my circle that would give me their shirts and no it's not my blood it's not my my two brothers their wives or I asked it's my children my husband a friend that made when she was my nurse now we've been friends for 20 years and my two nephews and in Madison they have been amazing to me in my life you know this is interested please keep each other full when we can't deal with it we get together and call each other and it's amazing you know we still keep together like my dad used every Sunday to eat and it helps I agree that they only take the good people my parents died my two favorite aunts both died before they were 50 I got another year and I'm 50 and nobody in my family has ever lived past 55 and I'm scared
What OP's mom forgot about is that her son left a child behind and that person becomes the next of kin.
OP's mom needed to be in jail along with her deadbeat boyfriend.
SHE WILL PRETEND 2 CARE 4 MONEY & HOUSE 🏡, NEPHEW WILL BE SO SO VERY NEGLECTED.
The courts said they were all owners. Some states do have forced heirship, Had he made out a Will that would have been a huge help.
Well pointed
It's really nice that OP and the mother of her brother's son get along so great. They're definitely stronger together than fighting against each other.
I'm happy that OP found a support system with the woman who is the mother of her nephew.
@@TiffWaffles Same here Sam's son and baby mama charlize are the only family OP has.
I would take her to court and force her to tell me who my father is. She no right to keep that to her self.
So true a child needs to know who their real father is
Same here. The mother is a real piece of work.😒
The sister using the “if you loved her you would do it.” Is the most hypocritical statement that she could’ve used. As OP I’d ask: “does that mean you don’t love my niece?” If not then the follow up would be: “watch out you’re dropping your hypocrisy all around the floor.. “ . Wow just wow
Get a DNA test and find your dad.
This will fix mom and her bone butt
I would just say, in the coldest voice I could muster, "I don't love her." And then watch her melt down.
"Sam" was TOO KIND HEARTED for OP's good.(ETA) Where the h*** was the effing Lawyer in this WHOLE THING? Said this because that "so-called" Lawyer was a WUSS. (2nd ETA) At least OP found a good shark of a Lawyer.
My mom's mother could give nightmare mom #1 a run for her money. My grandmother had 4 children - oldest was 7 when she abandoned them to run off with another man. She then had a child with the other man, but no contact with her "first" family. Her father lived with my grandfather and the kids because he had a house and felt guilty that his daughter had run off and left these children. Using visits with her father as an excuse to come over my grandmother would come over and steal money, and even a fur coat that belonged to my great grandmother. She also stole her father's chequebook and cleared out his bank account. After that incident she stayed no contact with her dad and her kids until her father died - then she popped back up again and was trying to reconcile with my mom who had been 7 when she left and the only one who really remembered her. She brainwashed my mother over a period of a few years to contest the will - my grandmother wanted the house (which meant her own children would have nowhere to live) and she was trying to get part of the inheritance because surprise! she had been cut out of the will originally. My mother who genuinely still loved her and wanted to believe that her mother wanted to have them back helped my grandmother contest the will. She did end up getting some of the money and unsurprisingly disappeared again shortly after. It was a few years later that she started calling my grandfather asking for him to take her back because hubby #4 was going to leave her. Thankfully my grandfather stayed away from her.
Wow 😯
Wow. Ok. I'm not going to sugarcoat it. Your grandmother is one nasty piece of work! ಠ︵ಠ And she managed to brainwash your poor mother. I hope you're in no contact with this sorry excuse for a human.
Wow! Such a sad story...I'm sure op, her sil and nephew will be ok xxx
how heartbreaking that after overcoming all that, the brother died
I knew her bf getting arrested was bound to happen and her now wanting to mends things which is a lie because she’s alone now with no one on her side
Story 1: Charlize's son would be his heir so he'd get the majority of the inheritance. Birth certificates? Anything that could prove who the OP's and brother's father would be. A small happy ending. Keep toxic grandma away.
Story 2: Why do these sisters live togther? Swat her hand away, and insist on formula or an alternative. Does the sister just want the OP to mother both babies? Wip out her boob in relaiation? Or move out.
The courts stated they were all owners. That's why Wills are sooooooooo important whether you are 18 or 158, Mom and her boytoy got theirs in the end.
OP’s brother was her legal guardian, so she was like his child in the eyes of the law. Without a will, she had as much claim to the inheritance as his bio son.
Your brother's baby's mama sounds awesome
When she said that she knows that many will not believe that there is mothers like that, I know exactly that there is!! But this takes the cake ! My mom was bad,but this is absolutely awful !! Such a bad vile woman!
Someone who leave their child behind doesn’t deserve the title of mom and sense op is 18 then op should be able to live alone and op. Mom shouldn’t get any of op late brother stuff
That thing isn't a mother, it's just a gigantic piece of rotten sh!t
I have been in law enforcement for years and can definitely say it is assault.
Nursing a baby is more than feeding, it’s a nurturing and bonding that takes place! Because of the human connection, her Sister should respect that! Period!💯🔥🤦🏽♀️
OP’s mother is a very toxic person, OP’s Brother is a very good person up until his death, OP is also a very good person, and her Sister in-law is also a very good person.
Holy cow what a ride that was! Love the animation👍💗
I thought for a second you were referring to the OP in the second story, cos I was thinking "man this sister is treating OP like she's a milk cow!" Kinda misread what you wrote. Oops🤭
I’m really hoping op can connect with bio dad. I have a feeling that vile mother had them in hiding somehow
Story 1 OP: look on your's or your brother's birth certificate, your male life giver should be listed. If not I suggest doing Ancestry and/or 23 and Me; many people have used it to find lost/missing family members.
I like your quiet way of presenting the stories. Other readers are so hyper, they miss the main focus of the story and don't give you any time to reach your own conclusions.
I feel so bad for OP.. I've said the same thing, why do the good ones have to go and the bad ones stay.. My grandmother told me, some people need more time than others to get to know God...
Op needs to move out and let her sister breast feed her baby or find a way to feed her baby. And op needs to move out before things get worse for op
"My udders, my choice."
THERE IS A POSSIBILITY OP CAN'T
MOVE OUT FOR SOME REASON.
THE HOUSE COULD BELONG
TO OP BUT OP CAN'T GET RID
OF HER SISTER FOR SOME
REASON .OP'S SISTER HAS
NO RIGHT TO USE OP AS A SORT
OF WET-NURSE FOR HER BABY
AGAINST HER WILL,SURELY USING
A WOMAN AS A WET -NURSE
AGAINST HER WILL IS ILLEGAL
+ CAN HAVE OFFICIAL LEGAL CONSEQUENCES?
These stories are so fantastical. I love them. Thx Mr. Reddito
Same here.
OP, losing their brother like that 😔 screw the mom
Do not have any contact with your mother avoid good luck in your life and be happy and your brothers girl friend lives you and your nephew take care❤
Story 1:
OP's _'Mother'_ Earned Herself A Boiler Room of Hell 🔥🔥🔥 !!!
Number one evil mom!
BROTHER PUT YOU ON HIS LIFE INSURANCE AT WORK!! CALL. HUMAN RESOURCES !!! ASAP
ALWAYS make a Will. Also Charlize can get his Social Security for their son.
Good afternoon Mr Reddito
Happy Hump Day everyone
Op, I sure hope she tried to find her father. I'm glad OP had someone in her life. And, as her nephew gets older she can tell him all the wonderful things about his father. I can't even reply to the second story.
My parents were alcoholics and I raised my three brothers, my mom made sure we knew she only kept us for the welfare money
Omg man stories like that literally get my heart racing and my face to turn red. I'm mad that the "mother" could be this way to her kids but more upset that he's using OP's ignorance to try and take advantage of her and steal from her. Im only where she getting her out because of perv bf but my God am I pissed. I really hope stories like this will help a kid at some point to realize they dont have to back down to people like this do indeed have rights. I would have paid to see OP call her bluff and see what the cops said after she explained she was getting her minor daughter out onto the street
Man the first story is close to my story about my mom. As far as the second story, I agree with the comment you read. I do think it would be considered assault and OP needs to move out. As a mom who breast fed a child, I know it can get exhausting. Who knows what her sister does while OP is sleeping one of those nights she passed out due to plain exhaustion!
This mom takes the cake for #1 worse 👩 ever. How can a woman hate her kids?
Exactly. Not only should OP and her brother Sam have been taken away from her, they also should've been placed with loving and stable adoptive families.
OP probably could’ve gotten herself emancipated from mum long ago had she known about it with all the shit the mum pulled on her kids.
@@kassard1 Well said.
My thoughts exactly! What is it with these despicable deadbeat parents popping out dozens of babies when they shouldn't have even had one and neglecting or even abusing their own children?! It's disgusting.......
I hope OP finds her father, if there’s an update lemme know plz thank you
In story 1... the mother of op sounds just like my mother
❤️
"I was disturbed, yer honor, because of this woman in front of you, who when she did but abandon us, horribly mistreated us."
CALL PUBLIC DEFENDER OFFICE, THEY WONT LET HER KEEP HOME
Story #1, I do believe this story is so true and hard to live through. My birth mother was batshit crazy and abusive, so I understand op's position. I was always mistreated by her and was not what she wanted. She always hated me because I was a tom boy and not the girly girl my little sister was.
I wish she could have found out who her father was.
So, do I. Plus, if OP and her brother Sam were with their dad, they would've had stability, and Sam would still be alive.
Story 1:
CREEPY _Mother's_ BF Finally Got His Karma !!!
I think OP should do a 23 and me to find her dad.
I can see why Sam and Charlize were together - they're both good people.
She's not the WORST mom I've heatd/read about. Those are the ones who physically And emotionally abuse their children- even kill them or attempt to do so. (I've heard/read stories where the child(ren) actually PRAYED she would succeed.) But OP's bio-"mom" is definitely a damaged -and damaging- toxic humanoid. She deserves NO ACCESS to her daughter, her sons former partner or ESPECIALLY that innocent child. Sounds like she doesn't merit inclusion in the human race.
At least, she'll find the younger (or any) boyfriends will become fewer & farther between as she ages, especially if they can no longer leech off of her. Sounds like she's already scraping the (outside) bottom of the barrel. I know how it feels to feel threatened by a mothers SO and to know she wouldn't believe me (12 y/o)- (or my 10 year old sister) if we spoke up.
Wow what a sad story
Serves her right
Dang those kids couldn't catch a break.
DAMN ! EGG 🥚 DONER LEFT YOU GUYS 4 DEAD. WHILE STILL COLLECTING BENEFITS FROM THE STATE GIVING KIDS NOTHING. SHE BY NO MEANS LOVE 💕 YOU GUYS NOT 1 BIT
NTA HOW DARE SHE. SHE CAN FEED HER DAMN KID HERSELF.
I’m a big advocate of breastfeeding, but it’s all about consensual and relationship building, if sister didn’t want to, 100% it’s her choice not to, it’s why we have formula, it’s awesome that in first world countries we have access to clean water and can sterilise our infants things to reduce risks to them when giving formula. So sister had that option but she stole OPs milk, her nephews food, and then yes, assaulted OP and isn’t respecting boundaries, just because you live together doesn’t mean you can steal another child’s milk. Why should OP over do it and risk issues with her breasts and health (lots of issues can occur with oversupply) and potentially even result in her stopping before she is ready with her son, just because sister decided she didn’t want to breastfeed herself, she could look into relactation if she wants her child to have breastmilk, but OP has her own baby to feed and sister has other options and shouldn’t be pressuring her sibling to doing something she isn’t comfortable with
Why would an 18 year old, HAVE, to be sent back to their egg donor?
She is pretty bad. However I think that Kragle's mother is worse. I think he called her Evil Mama Bear or something like that.
I remember Kragle! I can't believe he was cursed with such a vile she-devil for a mother!
The first story we can see that she didn't try to find her dad, but wouldn't his name be on her birth certificate let alone her brothers?
My mom wouldn't allow my dad to sign my birth certificate because he didn't want to marry her. She made it clear that if he tried to contact me she would make sure I disappeared and he'd never know if I was alive or dead. She blackmailed him with twice a year photos to make sure she got her child support.
I found birthday card confetti in a file cabinet with a paternity test when I was little. I remembered the name and when I was older, I waited until I was left alone and called every person with the same last name in the phone book asking if they knew him.
I eventually found my grandmother, waited for a weekend when I was left alone again and walked the miles to her house. She called him over to meet me without telling me why. We all ended up crying, but I was able to keep contact with my dad.
She needs to check with the social security office to see who they have on file if it's not on the birth certificate.
@@toysruskid5074 I'm glad y'all kept contact but your mom shouldn't have done that unless he was shitty person.
@@mindingmybusiness3915 He's not. My mom was (and is) the shi+ty person. She told him she was on birth control and only dated him for 2 weeks- while taking fertility meds.
She was targeting a younger guy because she thought he'd be easier to manipulate.
In her rage, she got him fired, reducing the amount of child support she got out of him.
And she was just as bad a mom as she is a person.
Too bad my dad now has brain damage and has fallen into conspiracy theories and gone republican. It's sad to watch him fall....
@@toysruskid5074 I'm sorry that happened to you. Unless I was mistaken I believe they were married so that's why I just assumed he was on the birth certificate for both of them
@@dougc190 She can go to the county for her mom's marriage records if they were.
OP should see if she can find any relatives by doing one of those ancestral DNA tests.
Nta. She left. She doesn't get anything
Story 2: NTA. She's just lucky she didn't have twins though. I doubt she could do it.... And why are two grown siblings living together and not raising Thier babies with the families of the fathers....
Not the a-hole! 💛⭐️☀️🌹🕊
On the first story: OP's mother was so selfish that even though she really didn't give a #($&$ about her own children, she wouldn't let them have a loving parent who would care for them in their father. That woman cared and cares for no one but herself. I'm also worried about OP's younger sister the mother lost. Where is she now?
I can only hope that girl is safe. And I totally agree with you. Another perfect example of a person who shouldn't have had children.
She went after the child 😠😠😠😠
NOBODY touches my boobs without my permission!!! My husband found this out the hard way when he snuck up behind me and grabbed them. He got an elbow to his head!!! That was assault!
The good ones do go to soon I lost my brother two weeks back and he was the best person ever
OP could easily solve her problem, if she would actually use common sense. She needs to take some of her inheritance and pony up for a Private Investigator. She'll probably have her Dad's information in a few weeks to months, depending on how far away he is.
Dad's name should be on her or her brother's birth certificates. Look up marriage records for mom. Her lawyer probably could have forced her mom to give it up during the trial.
Putting your baby on someone else's breast is just crossing so many boundaries. And, which is it? Sister chose not to breast feed, or wanted to and couldn't?
True narcissist 💯‼️❗two true narcissist's😅🤣😂😭 breast milk is like crude oil for babies. Why didn't sis pump her own and bottle feed❓🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽 It makes op the a hole for allowing to begin with especially when she started taking from fridge then she volunteered 🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽 so yeah, started something she couldn't finish then allowed sis to bully/doormat her. I bet her belly is tight with all that feeding 😭😂🤣😅
Completely disgusted by this mom.
Hello mother
If the story is true, you can do a DNA family trace. This will lead you to your father or at the least,his family
I mean two out of three they can force the sale of the house... Literally that easy... Then buy the house ¯\(°_o)/¯
That's an egg donor,not a Mom
1st story: Op's mom would be the perfect match for my brother's dad. When my brother attempted suicide by hanging (failed attempt, he's doing better), our mother is the one who cut him down. His father met us at the hospital and asked if she had taken a picture. Didn't ask about his son..... just wanted a picture of him, his only son, hanging by his neck while turning black.
Thank God that's not my dad. My dad is an asshole but even he kept asking how his former stepson (who did not get along with) was doing and still asks about him to this day.
I'm mean. Everytime I hear you say "this is the worst story yet", all I can think of is "you haven't seen anything yet, and you really should not challenge the Gods of the perverse".
Last one, op NTA, but she definitely needs to find a place of her own. The sister is an entitled Ahole.
Oh yes… vile and then some.
Why don't they try signing up for one of those ancestry websites that compare known relatives. Maybe they could find their dad on there or maybe a cousin who might give her more information.
Or if that doesn't work maybe hire a private investigator who can search records. Or if all else fails maybe they can seduce the mother into giving up information.
Good song have a great week
How sad is it the brother died but the "mom" gets to continue living?
If OPs brother left a Will then what is the problem? OPs story doesn't make sense.
Clearly stated he didn’t write a will as he didn’t expect to die so young and was always more interested in looking after others than think of himself.
@@kassard1 Not writing the will isn't looking after anyone else. If you're single that's one thing. As soon as you are married or have children you better write a will.
@@danrossell6375 Oh I agree I was responding to the comment by Elsa Flood "If OPs brother left a Will then whats is the problem?" this insinuates the commenter either wasnt paying attention or missed that information. My comment was exactly as they had said in the video.
I am in agreement a will is very much needed but I've learned from experience also sometimes a will dont mean shit when people feel they're more than entitled to something but were left out completely. ie when my family thought there was nothing to be had they were like "aww thats a shame (will stated it was to all come to me & one other but there was no obvious money) but will-maker obviously had their reasons to leave out X-family member and we must respect their wishes" but then when money appeared not only were they scrambling for a share themselves they were also trying to get X person some so to cover their own greedy asses.
Money does crazy shit to people and wills should always be made if not then intentions should be made to someone in a traceable way ie email or text or letter.
Why wouldn't the lawyer recommend her getting emancipated?
Hey, Mr. Reddit’s, do you think you could perhaps animate the Hellmark saga from the JUSTNOMIL subreddit? That one was a wild ride!
I will look into this thank you for the suggestion. =]
@@Mr.Reddito Keep up the awesome work! :-)
A long time ago rich people would hire someone to breastfeed their babies. They did not breastfeed them nor did they care for them most of the time. I think the sister here was like that.
Yes, but they were called nurse maids and they were paid for feeding and caring for the baby. I don't know how I'd feel about breastfeeding someone else baby, or somebody else breastfeeding mine, mainly because of the intense bonding feeling you get when feeding your baby that way.
Last story That's assault pure and simple lol
CALL HUMAN RESOURCES ASAS ! I PROMISE YOU THAT YOU ARE Beneficiary on his life insurance at work !!! I PROMISE YOU. SHE IS FORGING EVERYTHING. 2 STEAL INSURANCE MONEY & HOUSE 🏡
Oh my gosh, OP's not a fricking milk cow... The sister chose not to breastfeed, she needs to take the consequences of that!!
NTAH
The animation is cute but I just find that it distracts me watching it, and sometimes I lose track of the story because I’m paying attention to the animation.
Thats ok! That is why I created my second channel "Mr Reddito Stories" daily videos with no animation. Thanks for watching =]
Why does it show her mother rocking the baby at 13:04 instead of Charlize?
Story 1: In my "humble" opinion, that horrid "human" should've lost all rights to Sam and OP in every way possible and deported to the depths of Hell from whence she came. As for the not knowing who her father is, OP has various avenues to go about finding him without that demon of a mother.
Op I hope you are ok
Horrible Mom!
Worked in a office but died in a machine accident
He was an engineer.Machine malfunctioned(sounds like he was a mechanical engineer),he went to fix it and died.
cool
Ops mom yeah pretty vile, should have met mine they sound the same.
What is with the sister?!
18 ks a legal adult, can't be 'sent back to my mother' by law...
Vile mom still doesn't outrank mine. She's homeless now.
Ugh! Sister made the decision not to breastfeed. That leaves her with formula or purchasing from an appropriate breast milk bank. She has no rights to your body whatsoever, even though you chose to breastfeed. Sometimes you gotta rotate the baby from one side to the other because of the soreness factor. The first time anyone, no matter who just grabbed my stuff, they got a black eye. How dare she turn you into a wet-nurse??? It's your baby and your body. Tell her no. She made/had her choice made, it's not on you.
The last story is disgusting, it's not much different than rape.
You're right about that the good ones I always go I just lost my dad not too long ago and Batman was the most kind-hearted person you would ever meet when I was younger than any first to cuss me my mother help people yum ran a battered women's shelter and for the diocese for the church and he was amazing I took afternoon 2 minutes 19 they took away every runaway in the freaking City I'm not kidding there it is my dad would come home from work and be 17 kids sleeping in his living room and a lot of times the police would come knocking on the door nowadays he'd get arrested of course but this was almost 30 years ago on some things were different but anyway the police would knock on the door and ask if so and so was there and of course we didn't lie we said yes and they'd say okay well we can tell their parents they're safe have a good one they knew my daddy was a good guy and he was only out to protect people'but he used to tell her as I got older until everybody that instead of collecting cats and dogs like everybody else had I collected people so what he was a wonderful man his name and picture should be listed with the word unconditional love I did so many horrible things to that man thinking that you know I needed it attention and my dad used to say that he tried to save me before it was too late but as we got older he said all right I did a damn good job because I did well I had a lot of issues here and there with stuff but I did well I got a degree you know I married I had kids and I did everything right but I have to can anyways most of my issues and I took everything out of my dad I didn't go out to me anything you know I've never been arrested or anything but I used to do some really crazy cuz I'm not going to get into that my father forgave me I'm just going to leave it like that and that's what I mean everybody if you opened up a restaurant feed everybody for free that's the kind of man he wants and I broke my back here when was retirement took time off he could care for me and my two kids one of my sons wasn't even a year old yet it's paralysis and so much medication and you know I'd fall asleep in my food and it's just a really bad time and my dad work for me possibly at least stand once in a while and I can walk with a walker a little bit through the house he did all that with me I'm not going to get into anything else you did you know house burnt down and she bought help me by the house I'm having a real tough time getting over this you know they teach us everything to say you're saying it teaches everything except for how to live without them so all I can say is I don't think you ever get over something like that my dad told me to to know that now I haven't angel watching out for me and he will always make sure he's there for me I don't know you know if ghosts are real or if they just come out when they don't really have to finish business or my dad finishes business he didn't know 2 weeks before so he took care of everything you know he gave us all his money he went to the bank gave us everything give us a CDs and everything so that we were okay that that was all he thought about when he found out it was if we were going to be okay not that he was going to die and not be here anymore you want to make sure we were okay to help us through the process and you know big deal even though we did we didn't tell him we did he was a marine to the core ending I'm lonely want to see him cry until my mom died and I got to stop now because I think this just broke me and I can't stop him too much sorry they're saying it's easier and it will one day as long as I don't start talking about it funny because I even have dreams about him and I've never remembered my dreams until now and I'm woken up crying hysterically a few times got to have the best family and support group I know you don't I'm sorry I don't have a lot of people in my circle but the people that I have are amazing you know my husband I met when I was down and out with the back and actually bald from the medicine and that man made me cool again at that time with the back and he did it again with my father died he has been there for me amazingly I have two of the most amazing sons I don't know what I did in this life to deserve the people to have in my circle I have the people in my circle that would give me their shirts and no it's not my blood it's not my my two brothers their wives or I asked it's my children my husband a friend that made when she was my nurse now we've been friends for 20 years and my two nephews and in Madison they have been amazing to me in my life you know this is interested please keep each other full when we can't deal with it we get together and call each other and it's amazing you know we still keep together like my dad used every Sunday to eat and it helps I agree that they only take the good people my parents died my two favorite aunts both died before they were 50 I got another year and I'm 50 and nobody in my family has ever lived past 55 and I'm scared
Yeah a pretty vile mom but I don't believe she surpasses that mom who tried to force her daughter to marry the cousin who was obsessed with the OP.
Yeah,it was pretty nasty !
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You know you should do real videos of ghost or paranormal