What Happened to the Unpopular Girl From School?
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I love the everyone who was bullied (including me) moved away from the place we grew up and flourished in our own ways. Meanwhile, the bullies are still trying to relive the glory years and now bullying each other.
This isn't true even close to alittle bit..
Remember "Can't hardely wait" movie??
Where the dorks framed the cool kid bully into gay pictures and he bombed out,,didn't goto college & worked at local Carwash?
This happens 1-100 in suburbia... Maybe in the inner city the stats change..
I wasn;t the bully but did fight with bullys alot.. I was the dude who got annoyed iin class & told the bully to SFU or laughed when he couldn't comprehend
the basics in math in 8th grade.. But i did it for two reasons 1 because he knew i'd fight if he pusued it & two everyone hated him & he was always on my nerves..
He bought weed & acid from my 1st roomate and became finance something @ Ford dealership & has a big house near my parents.. I bet his kids will be just like him.
*Bottom line is i dislike the one who don't fight back & enable the bully to be 10X's as annoying.. I got punched when i fought him & it hurt. that's life..
You should still get Revenge Alexis. Nothing too harsh but atleast bang his wife or le this current circle know what a prick he/they were...
Or move on & forget not really forget & post online how it doesn't bother you & never did ;D
just fucking with ya.
I frequently am thankful that I didn't peak in high school.
I was the bullied loner. I hated those days, but now I'm just relieved I didn't peak in HS. Fast forward 20 yrs post HS I'm pretty well adjusted, in amazing shape, childfree, love my job, travel often and now gets random DMs on social media from the old school bully's asking "what's the secret." They're all out of shape and look 10-15 yrs older while I'm the opposite. Minding your business and treating people with kindness/respect goes a long way
Leeeeeeetttttssssss goooooooo🔥🔥🔥
🎶I didn't peak in high school, I'm still out here gettin' cuter 🎶
Seriously though, glad to see you're finally able to live your best life
I was unpopular and bullied. However, I ended up living a good life that a lot of those people who bullied me would be envious of.
Can’t relate.
5:16 as some with Autism, I have to say that not have a common trait doesn’t automatically mean you don’t have autism. Autistic people are commonly described as not being able to make eye contact but I have no problem with that. I really hope that girl was able to get a proper diagnosis
Yeah, I'm autistic as well and eye contact isn't much of a problem for me.
@@The_One_And_Only_Atlas dude I said “Pannies” instead of
PENNIES LOL.
But I think u knew what I meant…
Was bullied all through school (elementary through highschool). Had to call the cops once due to a murder attempt in junior high and genuinely believed I wouldn't live past 16. Now I'm 25 with severe anxiety and depression, I struggle to function with everyday life and have to hype myself a day in advance in order to go out in public. It sucks man.
hang in there and live your best life. don't let them win. LIVE.
For my anxiety, I have found adrenal cortex very helpful. Take two or three pills a day. Long-term anxiety burns out your adrenal glands, and the tissue from animals' adrenal glands has hormones you may otherwise be missing. DHEA is also helpful, but since it is a male hormone, may have some side effects. I have found that DHEA makes me more aggressive, but it also makes me a lot less fearful. The adrenal cortex and DHEA can be bought over-the-counter at Whole Foods and places like that. And get the adrenal tissue, the herbal stuff doesn't really work.
My bullying was brushed under the carpet, and I was treated as the attention seeking toxic brat. It was spelled out, the school was a baby sitting service till age 16.
Forty years on, those bullies (plus others, since.), cry 'no fair!' as the abuse then was built on and I was not 'allowed' to move on. Just to be a whipping boy for what ever whimsy passes for fun at the time.
40 years on, the abuse has not gone away ...
I was her. I went to college for 4 years, bounced around directionless for much of my 20s, half of my 30s, finally moved out of my mother's place and now live on my own 700 miles from where I grew up.
I think I'll be okay.
A girl I went to high school with was ostracized because she was considered ugly. Part of this was that she had lank greasy hair and acne. A few years later, I ran into her at a political event, and my friend asked, "Wow, who is she?" I realized that he found her very attractive, and yes, she had cleaned up a lot, no acne and nice hairdo. Then years later, I see her on TV. She is an elected politician, sane, progressive, and a very good speaker.
Had a girlfriend in 7th grade, she was petite and a little behind some of the other girls. We broke up after a month or so but remained friends. She was very nice and had a great personality. From what I hear in 12th grade she blossomed, by 21 she had grown in a gorgeous, curvy woman. She remembered everyone who treated her bad and ignored them while they could barely figure out who she was. I do wish I had ran into her after her change just to see how she is but I never did ( I left the state for a few years ) I hope the rest of her life has been as awesome as she was.
How much do you miss her/think about her?
@@taylermuilenburg5029 Not very often. A friend had mentioned if I remembered her and told me what had become of her. I'm just happy she came into her own as I knew when she was younger she was the awkward shy type and it sounds like she outgrew that.
I enjoy hearing about people in my past who became successful and/or happy.
@@TheWabbit You sound very happy too. :)
@@taylermuilenburg5029Thanks, I am!
Take care and have a great day!
“What’s worse is that I was homeschooled.”
Me, a homeschooling parent: ????
“I ran away from that cult and abusive church”
Ah! That makes sense. I’m glad she got out and is doing well.
I knew a girl in high school who was middle schooled and public school kids do think those kids are weird but all i have to say is continue pursuing that allow them to be happy and live their lives because public school really fucks wit some of us
The first one is sad
The one who said bullying sticks with you is absolutely right. Those memories and trauma remains with you for life.
Can confirm!
@@360entertainment2 Same 😫
Yep. It sticks and is deeply ingrained.
I had a friend who committed suicide when I was still in middle school and she was a freshman in high school.
I miss her and wonder who she’d be today.
I am so sorry, I bet that she is lookin’ out for you. I hope you are well now.
at 70 i still don't trust people and most of my youth was ruined by the grade school bullies and later by workplace bullies. i hope none of them ever walk in front of me while i'm driving.
on the other hand i had a happy marriage for forty years until my hubby died. i am happy as a cat/dog lady who owns her home.
She went to college, became a lawyer, specialized in tax law and is currently on her way to get her second degree.
That girl is me. (Am still struggling, but in a much better place)
I finally stopped going to HS reunions. It felt freeing to not caring about seeing my tormentets
Some of these stories make me realize how out of the norm my early childhood was in some ways. I was always seen as a weirdo and was (purposefully, to a degree) an outsider but somehow every school I’ve been in I became ‘popular’ in some way. Like everyone knew my name, even if I didn’t know them, people I didn’t know wanted to follow me to my regular spot for lunch and I always ended up with a crowd, teachers would come to me so I could be the first connection to new students, had plenty of friends and the people who maybe bullied me quickly left me alone because I was too strange to make a target I guess (maybe because I never really saw it as bullying at the moment because I can be rather socially inept). I guess I was super fricken lucky in my surroundings.
Wouldn't have a clue. I stopped talking to everyone from school when I left school. Think it's abnormal that people still have contact with people from school. Also I moved 4 hours away. Life moves on once you finish school.
if you haven't spoken to someone in 10, 20, 50 years there is a REASON.
@@margaretjohnson6259 it happens. Life gets in the way and you drift away from friends
@@mvb88 i have two friends from high school i never lost touch with.
I get called “emo” a lot, among other things that happened in the past.it’s not cringe to dress a certain way if It makes you happy and phases aren’t cringe. Just don’t lean into stereotypes of how you dress because you’re just proving everyone else’s point by rejecting your true self and living a mockery. I don’t mind, I love the way I look and I’m also able to laugh at myself too, which is a balance I Believe everyone should achieve. I wouldn’t change myself right now.
@@TheComemnter I’m aware? Thanks.
@@TheComemnter 🤡
I relate to the girl with autism. I have it too and was diagnosed later in life and I wish I was diagnosed earlier in life.
When college started, I had so many issues. I wanted to be an ECE. I am good with book work but have issues with things like body language for example.
I failed 2 out of my 3 practicums.
I did take another program called General Arts and Science and did get a certificate.
I deal with it now and my learning disability adds to it.
Got bullied a lot in school and yes it sticks with you long after you have left school .
I was bullied until I blew up at one of the bullies, then punched a 3ish inch thick wall, then the bully got detention cause they believed me since it was directed at my health issues that I had at the time
The girl from school now has a TH-cam channel with over 1 million subs
who?
I was bullied all through school. Best thing i did was leave that shitty town! I have no interest in any reuions. Never want to see those people again. Started over in a new town, as a grown married person. I was raised by my grandma, because my mother was schizophrenic. It was a nightmare. I still carry the scars. I will be 60 in 6 months! I go to the gym 6 days a week, staves off the depression.
And to think ..... There are people out there who think bullies are the victims.
a lot of bullies ARE victims at home. they can't fight back there and turn mean on people who can't throw them out of their home. it's not an excuse for bullying, but it does explain why some people are so horrid.
That first comment rubbed me the wrong way, it sounds so…disingenuous. Like it really isn’t about helping the girl and more about making themselves feel better by pretending to be a hero or savior or whatever. I’m sure they feel some sort of guilt but that guilt doesn’t really stem from not helping the girl and more on the girl’s suicide, if that makes sense. Like the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone.
I'm still here. Saw a post asking for fond memories of school. I wanted to put "Can't have fond memories of hell." but thought it was a bit dark for fb.
oh, you should have done it. it would have felt great to have others read it. i saw a doonesbury cartoon where the valedictorian was addressing the class and telling them she'd like to thank them but can't because they were awful to her and she hates them.
I feel like I’m part of a community reading these comments because i was Bullied growing up too it wasn’t severe it was just teasing and talking behind my back but regardless it messed with me I’m doing so much better now but i have not fully grown into socializing it’s still something i struggle with years later
I am also glad to see we are doing well and i hope nothing but the best for all of you
I absolutely LOVED both middle and high school. I was a bit of a loner, slightly overweight, had braces, glasses, you know, the "usual" traits of a "unpopular girl". But surprisingly, a lot of people liked me even though I didn't talk a whole lot or hang out with people, but OH MY GOODNESS was everyone in both of my middle and high school nice!
I fell into drug addiction, got assaulted, lost the child and received ZERO support from my family. Lmao. Jokes on all the bitches who live here in Canada tho, my bf has health benefits until he's 26(unless his job gives him benefits after college) is an engineer, supports me despite knowing I have disabilities, and I'm moving to NYC to be with him in a few years 🤣🤣 oh and ive been clean from doing cocaine for a year and a half, I only smoke marijuana and cigarettes and I rarely drink now. I'm working on smoking tho, hoping to move onto vaping and then quitting all together. I do want kids someday.
I hope everything works out for you!
I was bullied horribly in middle school, I’m still feeling the effects. I don’t go to authority figures with my problems, they won’t help. I tried everything but killing myself to make it stop. I’m wondering if killing myself would’ve made it stop. My best friend was the one person keeping me alive.
4:39 I can relate to this story so much. I'm still in school but it was a form of relief to know why I was different from all my classmates (I as well got bullied but it has gotten better)
I graduated, didn’t look or go back. I earned my Masters degree and had a successful career. I am most likely on the spectrum.
The bully in my high school (remind you this was almost 40 years ago), graduated high school and then wrapped his car around a tree, dying at the scene. :(
Was unpopular in HS. Moved away to a new state had countless dates, lots of friends, fairly well liked. Not sure if i grew into myself or moved away to a city with more like minded individuals
It makes me feel much better knowing that things can look up after high school. :)
I was the quiet kid and stayed within my own bubble. Didn’t talk unless spoken to. I regret it now because I didn’t make any fun memories or make any new friends. But I’m trying to get better. Right now I’m almost done with my Master’s degree and I’m thinking about going for my Doctorate. Hard to believe that I’d ever get to this point, a wierd girl that was obsessed with Sonic The Hedgehog and loved to draw. Art class was my favorite. 😝
These worlds are always foreign to me cause stuff like this never happened at my high school. We kinda just all got along for the most part. It's so bizarre
I was like the girls in the 2nd story. I now suffer from Bipolar disorder and disabled. I'm a miserable person.
:( I hope everything gets better soon.
i hope you get the care you need. you are likely still capable of many things. i'm sorry your life is so sad, but maybe you can find joy in something soon. i hope so.
0:49
I was expecting something much, MUCH worse to happen.
Rest in Peace❤️
Wish everyone the best!!!❤️❤️❤️
Im not from USA and am actually quite fascinated by how shitty the schools are
I was that girl. I moved far, far away from that place. I married an amazing guy, had 3 great kids, and live a life that those jerks would be envious of.
After highschool finished I managed to make some friends. Then I met one of my old classmates again and we have been together for seven years (after 2 years of courtship I may add). I got a good job and when he finally finds a stable job we'll get married.
And I will win every argument ever by reminding him he never helped me in highschool - even just mentioning highschool for whatever reason (even remembering something funny) will send him down a guilt trip.
How not dressing emo anymore would equal bettering yourself ??? Is dressing while staying in narrow social norms really better ??? Of course there's a lot of teenager cringe when you dress at that age but isn't it a good step in life ? Shouldn't it be kept and actualized instead of just surrendering and dressing in a very boring or common way... Fashion is one of the most creative things you can do daily. Regardless of if it's successfull, it's having fun a/o being comfortable that matters. Not taming yourself to fit in...
7:45- Phoebe Prince- there’s a true crime video about her
I guess I’m biased but my mom is doing great (full homeowner of a really nice house in the suburbs, married 20 years, etc.) while her former bully is a single mother living in a townhouse
I used to be heavily bullied so i joined a new school now im pretty popular
Too bad forgiveness wasn’t a common treatment of choice for that kind of resentment.
Is there some sort of official Reddit page out there linked to a Reddit-like TH-cam channel? where they pick comments from there. To Upload them to youtube for others to see a video? Cuz if so anyone have a link?
She is a single mother and lives with her mom. No love life to speak of. Less successful than her classmates. Has a mediocre but not terrible life
I was the unpopular girl, and now 2 years out of high school I'm a goth guy just doing the working class thing. I totally understand why she was the unpopular girl, but damn did our classmates fucked her up mentally. I still have to tell myself not everyone is out to get me.
I was bullied throughout school for my weight and skin. I still have extra weight but my skin has cleared up. I look after the aged and live my best life.
8:01 Now that's just weak. Wanna dish it out, but sure as hell can't take it. 💅
Hey, it's me. I was the unpopular one. I ain't done shit :D
I identify with the one that left the bubble of hate. It's shocking how a geographical area you can point to on a map can be so toxic. I grew up in a place like that. When I was a kid most of the adults were mean and their children were bullies. In high school the bullies outnumbered the decent kids. 20 years later it hadn't changed. One of my sons wound up going to the same high school I did. It's still just as much of a nightmare. The bullies have the same last names. They're the demon spawn of the people that bullied me. My son did the same thing I did and left it behind. A few years ago one of my bullies recognized me and tried to guilt me into going to a reunion, saying I owed to everyone. I told her that I don't owe her s**t and walked away. It might have been rude but poisonous people don't deserve courtesy.
"She" is now a "he". That girl was me.
The unpopular girl from school is usually the girl that smells the worst
Be nice to nerds. Chances are youll end up working for one.
These stories make me kind of glad my kid handled her bully when the school system didnt.
She’s just getting off her second of four overnight shifts and feels unfulfilled and tired...not every story will be a success. Sometimes the mundane is all you get.
Omg not late.
Good evening
I'm right here.
It was me .. I was bullied by students and faculty. I was a mansonite who everyone thought was gonna be the next school shooter ( same age and grade as Dylan and Eric ) had teachers tell me I was sacrificing cats and dogs. Have learning disabilities and in IEP ( parents didn't and still don't believe in mental health ) I met a boy at 16 and ran off to California with him . I didn't tell anyone I was leaving . I partied hard in Los Angeles from age 19-24 came back to Oklahoma in 06, met a guy, had a bb , got married got my shit together, escaped a violent and very psychotic husband. Became independent, got a job in a hospital, found my calling , met an amazingly sweet and patient gorgeous man who's a great stepfather to my son. My psychotic x passed away a couple years ago . Son is now 15 .. im planning to go back to nursing school despite my learning disability ( adhd/Discalculia/aspie)
I was suicidal in hs, hated my homelife, hated west tulsa, .
Being a mansonite helped me not go thru it because manson said if you kill yourself you let them win.
I've had to rebuild my life a few times . ( was laid off due to covid and had to live with my mom who didn't believe covid was real. I came to realize how toxic she is .
I now take things one day at a time and just learn to be thankful for any day im given.
If your being bullied . Find your inner rebel and learn how to say fuck you in a language they can hear and understand. But mostly focus on you and your happiness.
Talk to some one if your truly hurting.. ( hell I'm even avail thru fb msger ) amber.fulton
💛
I wish I had stories like these but unfortunately my life is kind of boring although there are some interesting stories in my life but not many most of them happens when I was young but they aren't big except for one which I would love to tell but it's pretty short
Bepis
man
99% of this are fake why? Because it's reddit ROFL
Wow I'm early.