Why Brett Cooper Had No Friends at UCLA
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I thought that was you Graham!😊
That's what a liberal is say they're everyone should be free and put you in a little box and throw you away it is called cancel culture it is a lie like the Democratic party is🎉 America is doomed as long as the Democrat party is alive and stealing everything they can from us
Her name is Brett??
The video in the link has scrambled visuals :/ at least for me 😂
Girl those are not friends. Don’t ever call them that again.
I swear.
Exactly what I was thinking.
They are not friends they are Lefties Woke Cult
Facts!
100%
Friends don't isolate, humiliate, or embarrass. Insecure, toxic people do.
Friends don't talk about politics and religion, so she had it comming.
Friends embarrass. Oh boy do they embarrass, like, there's a one-upmanship of embarrassing going on. But they won't make you feel bad.
@@flyingfrog7847 I take it you failed to watch the video. They inferred her politics before she had ever discussed the issues with them. They made snap decisions and ostracized her based solely on where she was from.
@@flyingfrog7847lol she didn’t even talk about politics in her to them yet and they already treated her badly what
This girl is as toxic as they come.
Those aren't friends. Those are toxic people. You deserve better, girl.
Those are brainwashed sheeps. Slaves of the system. Slaves of the elites. Fighting for tyranny and oppression, they have been conditioned so badly they can’t even see that if we were in WW2 they’ll be the Nazis
Lol. She didn't. She quite literally said she "was having trouble making friends". So you were right, those weren't her friends. 😂
Amen to that!!! 🤠👍
@@erisgh0sted961 And this years award for pedant of the year goes to....
Well I think some of them were just joking but the ones who said she probably wouldn’t take COVID seriously probably weren’t joking. Overall it makes sense that some people saw things that way. I still saw my friends who are leftist but we made sure only to see a certain amount of friends. If there was a chance that they might have seen someone in person who was infected they would let us know and we wouldn’t see that person for a while until they were Better. So idk maybe the jokes would hurt her feelings but I’m sure they didn’t think she was actually racist. I think for her the deal breaker was some of them being all paranoid about covid. She should realize that almost everyone was crazy paranoid about covid at the time though. I get if her feelings were kind of hurt though. People are right in a way though like some of her supposed friends should have been down to see her. Just like my friends were down to see me and they were leftists. I think the way we saw it was that low key we didn’t care if we infected each other by accident because at least we would have gotten a chance to hang out with each other.
Tennessee loves you, Brett Cooper! Proud of you!
yup
And very soon these same classmates who shunned her are going to escape to . . . Tennessee . . . and bring their mindsets with them.
@@user-k4d-e59mo28oc Unfortunately true. Here in Nashville, the imports have brought their politics with them, and it has changed the landscape dramatically for those of us who are from here. Sad.
@@user-k4d-e59mo28ocKaleeeeforNIA!!!...HERE DEY COMES YOU REDNECK SUMBEECHES!....HAAAARRRRDDD LEFT!....TAKE OFF YOUR CAPS!...PUT ON YO' MASKS!..CHANGE YO' GENDERS!😝
Yep I just moved here and every 3rd person I met is from California with that same mindset.
They weren't your friends to begin with. That's the test, your true friends will stick with you during the tough times.
Anybody with any integrity wouldn't cry about people not liking them, they don't want her around because she sucks and obviously can't take a hint, trying to blame it on politics is a pretty scumbag move
@@bluesbrother2383 boo hoo
Well said
@@bluesbrother2383 just say that it's hard for you to grasp that some people actually treat people differently because of their political beliefs. Whether you believe it's true in this case or not, it does happen.
@@bluesbrother2383 additionally, where was the crying?
Friends are few... those weren't friends merely acquaintances. Keep being you!
Not even acquaintances. More like enemies that she was forced to be around.
No she should change.
Why are conservatives such lousy liars, they've had lots of practice
@@LittleRainGames why should she change?
Vicious ones, too.
Friends: claim Brett is racist
Also friends: precede to judge Brett because she’s white and from the south.
Me: 🤦🏾♂️
👍 Yeah, that was my takeaway, too.
You nailed it.
Yup, being a black/asian/Latino conservative is a mask off moment. As a former liberal the moment i realized "oh shit, these people treat me like a slave and are legitimately racist". Hell I've met racist republicans who i became friends with because they realized we have a similar culture. vs democrats who hate me for being a Mexican immigrant and conservative
Society, It’s always gotta be something, ya know?
Right. Why would you assume someone is racist just because they are white and from the south
@@lreneewell9154 Yeah but the point is stereotypes are wrong regardless of race.
It’s like assuming someone is violent because they’re black and from the ghetto.
No matter what side you’re on, you should always respect people you don’t agree with. It’s sad that some people can’t do that.
Umm... No.
It seems in her story, they never even discussed anything that should be disagreed with. Prejudiced people ain't limited to one political party. And yet they are 100% of what is used by the other party as the representatives.
She's definitely not telling the whole story lol
I went to a pretty republican school for a college. I was in college during the 2016 election. I had at least 2 good conversations with “the other side” we both walked away being like “that was the best conversation with “the other side.”” if we do not talk to one another we cannot move forward. Politics should always be about compromise. I even had conversations with democrats being like Hilary is not the best candidate, not that Berny is the best, but no political candidate is.
No, you should not. I don’t respect murderers if they think murder is okay. Enough of this
"we're on the moral high ground here, so it's fine if we treat you like sh*t" literal cult behavior. It sucks to experience that, and I'm glad Brett has found a place where she's appreciated.
I got longtime college friends that experienced the TDS.
Our clique had almost every nationality, yet now thry will try and pounce and find "context clues" for RayCism.
Its frustrating and annoying. They only listen for words to twist and scoff at.
Dude if you're a racist or not taking the health of others seriously you deserve to be isolated. Being treated nicely isn't a human right if you're spouting hateful nonsense. Brett is disgusting.
@@kratos.8151 so keep supporting the party that constantly lies about health and gets caught amd retracts as people die who's past was the foundation for the NotCz?!?
Good MORAL highground B0tMan.
@@kratos.8151 So wait, you think being seen as human and being treated with respect is a PRIVILEGE you have to EARN? So then by extension, that level of decency can be stolen from you at any time, for any reason??
Do you even realize what that belief actually says about you and the lens you see the world with? 😢
Like, dude... Who hurt you? And why in the nine levels of Dante-inspired Hell did you believe them when they said you weren't worthwhile? I get that you want people to suffer because you're worried your own suffering won't be properly understood. That bit makes sense because I was there at one point, and if I didn't have the imagination to keep that shit in my head, I'd have actually hurt people in real life. The part I don't get is why you haven't opened up to anyone about it. Keeping those terrible things locked up inside you is only going to make it hard for you to make meaningful connections with other people. It might not look like it, but with how things are now, everyone is watching everyone else to see what their true colors are. When things die down and people find out where the right side of history actually is, everyone still around will remember how people treated each other and will know precisely who to never interact with...
I just don't want you to wind up with more suffering on your plate than the shitty hand you were dealt at the beginning of the game, ya know? Things can be either different but similar, different but worse, or different but better. Please choose better, because I still believe in you and your ability to.
I mean I don’t want associate with people that believe I shouldn’t be able to get marry, don’t care about my health, or believe that I’m lesser because of the color of my skin
Mate if I knew people that treated me like that they ain’t friends. They’re just people I know. I’ll always stick with the friends who’ll never leave my back.
Bout to type the same things myself
You’re a real one 👌
Jeez they obsesed with politic
In my country people obsessed with politic can kill in real life
One case a man kill his friend because debate politic coment
Whole internet call him stupid idiot because kill for fake religious corrupt politic is dumb
I am glad in my country politican we know they absolute liar
But in us is deferent story
“You have enemies? GOOD! It means you stood up for something in your life.” - Victor Hugo
Kind of a good quote from Hugo, but in this case she didn’t have enemies because of something she stood up for, but due to a discriminatory bias her "friends" held against her due to her geographic place of origin. She didn't have to stand for anything. They just assumed what she stood for.
@@Koala.Lumpur but she stated it was for political differences. We don’t know the conversations that ensued that led to this bias. From my dealings, I know know how they most likely went, which meant standing for what she believed or refusing to capitulate her position.
This is why I used this quote.
@@Koala.Lumpurher geographic place of origin? lol stop trying to sound smart. please stop.
I believe this is churchill
yeah but she stood up for being racist and owning slaves.
As a moderate democrat, I can confidently say you were dealing with some immature teenage girls and immature teenagers are not exclusively democrats or republican.
As someone who's not Democrat or republican, it's people like you that give me hope that we don't divide off of political stance. Thank you
No no no, let the internet be the internet. This is an example of how the other side is wrong
As a middle of the road conservative speaking, you are exactly the sort of person that I used to tell my daughters to take out for a cup of coffee and have a conversation with. Reasonable people having reasonable conversations.
I can definitely see that. I've known folks on the left from California they typically didn't care even when they found out about your political orientation. They wanted to go about their business like most folks and I'm not from the left.
If you're a modern Democrat, there's a long list of people you've been taught to hate; including Trump, Clarence Thomas and even Elon Musk.
The truly funny thing is those "friends" probably didn't like each other either. They probably aren't friends anymore themselves.
Those were racists accusing others of being racist…
That is so true about a lot of people like that. They were only looking for an outsider to bully. Now they probably picked another girl from the group to bully. Yes, these people don't even like themselves.
They probably didn't even like themselves.
@@JanHoellwarthyepp
I bet you are right.
Shes very polite using the word "friend" to describe those people.
Sometimes she can be too polite and it is a rare gift.
She is probably making it all up...like for example farmers don't tend to be poor bc they get so many goverment kick backs
@@memegazer Maybe that is because the government like the corpos get too greedy and demand too much and do not know that some of the crops can only matured 100% by a different season.
@@JustTooDamnHonest
I have known a few farmers in my day, like real farmers not corpos, and they were never poor...lived beyond their means sometimes sure...but that was their own fault...not bc they weren't making money farming.
@@memegazer It os those types of farmers that made this country beautiful and saddens me that they are being treated like the veterans that end up homeless and forgotten about.
Without farmers we would all starve and that is as simple as that and the same with the beekeepers who make sure that those little gems are alive for they are the farmers created by mother nature herself.
Those aren't friends, those are bullies.
No they are what we call sheeple
Yup. Fake friends. D’ been happy to been her friend. I d’ said hey lets go do fun outings. Like going to lunch. Or clothes shopping 👗.
Yhea.... Because her telling people's grandparents to not wear a mask and go to parties to "own the libs" and how she bullies trans people and how she dead names people and how she makes fun of autic people because "I don't get it"
she is clearly not the bad person and her "Freinds" must have been crazy
She works for the daily wire. She's not an innocent person. She has said some VAIL shit. Even going so far as to saying "I don't care if they Feel happy doing this, they look ugly and gross"- her comments on a trans women who just started hrt
Don’t you bully gay people? I’m not liberal but it’s hypocritical
@@ivanexell-uz4mv What? Who exactly are you referring too? I would never bully anyone, let alone someone who is gay. I may not agree with someone's lifestyle, but that doesn't mean I would ever bully them. If you're referring to Brett, I would hardly call any of what she does bullying. Some may think that calling someone out on their actions is bullying, but I don't think it's the same at all. There's a fine line there.
Meanwhile at UCSB we’d just hand you a red cup and start talking shit about classes like normal university students.
At UCLA too. She's just making this crap up
@k_e3735 UCLA liberal has been found
@@k_e3735 lmao how old are you?
@nedhill1242 Probably as old as you. Why?
Just curious, based on your attitude. But she has no reason to make that up. And she’s never been known to fabricate stories. I can very easily see that happening. Maybe you missed the part where she said the girl was drunk and they were at a party. do you think a bunch of snotty young girls in LA wouldn’t make that kind of comment especially when drunk? I’m 57. I’m from South Carolina. Are you in believe the comments that complete strangers have made to me that way Yankees just because of my accent, or when they found out where I was from. And these are adults, grown ass people, middle-aged, or older. It’s been happening to me my entire life from Yankees long before we started having the culture we have today.
they’re so assumptive and yet if you stereotype people like them they go bonkers 💀
Liberals
@@eaglesfly1320 say less. They just keep getting worse 😒
are we stereotyping the people that stereotype ?
@@thisnameistemporary6434ok that made me laugh lmao, doing the very thing theyre shitting on someone for
Every single time
“Here’s our smart, cute, well-spoken friend from Tennessee”
😊 it’s quite sad to hear that video but Brett cooper is rlly hot 😂
@@Louis_Roper we have some closeted gays because that is a man
@@niki7876 It is not, you sound jealous Niki
@@isee1158 why is that the default comeback without any explanation lol
@@niki7876 lets check the outcomes: if she is a woman (we know it's a woman), it's a win.
if 'she' is a man, I didn't know, so I can bail if pre-op or not even notice if post-op, both with deniability as I was fooled - win.
Win-win.
We have a phrase for this-
With friends like that, who needs enemies?
That reminds me of a song from Owl City 😊
@@kokoro_flowoh dude I love owl city
He's so undeerated!
@@kokoro_flow The Bird and The Worm 😂
@@eternalboom8135omg yesss I thought people don’t listen to him anymoree
@@kanessharamakrishnan2711 well I'm relatively new but I've been enjoying his music
i don’t agree with her on many things but would never treat her like that. she seems like a cool person
The people in Tennessee, particularly Nashville, are the friendliest people I’ve ever met.
In The Californians would believe otherwise which is ironic because Californians seem to be the least tolerant of anybody I mean even New Yorkers understand tourist be tourist😂
My online best friend was from Tennessee. I will never forget her. Sweetest person ever.
From my experience in and around the vanderbilt area, they really aren't that nice some were amazing I'd say at least 60% weren't.
@@kingryan1774 many of the people (students, professors, parents, friends, etc.) around Vanderbilt are not from Nashville. However the influx of people to Nashville is changing the culture.
@mikecole1664 Yeah, that's probably true. I have to go to that area once a month, and some of the people are just plain hateful.
As someone who is left leaning, I would never treat someone that horrible solely because of where they were born or their political stance. Those are mean immature people.
Agreed. I'm friends with mostly centrist or left leaning people, but they're all amazing people who leave politics out of our friendships. We know each other's parties and we don't care.
College age people are getting increasingly immature year by year 🙁
I agree, I don’t even know what most of my friends are politically, because we don’t let politics ruin a friendship
Сalifоrniаns are a different brеed 🙄
Sadly, California..
I seriously need a friend like Brett to help boost my confidence rn. You go girl!
To clarify, she is confident in who she is and doesn't back down from being her true self. That's courageous and inspiring.
I don't know you but I'm here for you,we all need uplifting and positive people in our lives who want to build us up and not tear us down❤
I just need a friend like Brett because people like her are seriously far and few between. She’s awesome
She’s a literal fascist. Find better friends.
Being a bigot is inspiring?
@@yourdailydose7583 you’d be suprised how many racist/bigots there are that blatantly support ppl due to there race
I moved from Maryland to Los Angeles when I was a kid. I had a similar experience. I was so glad when we moved away 2 years later. The "loving and accepting" left is a lie.
True friends won't care where your from they will always have your back
They probably thought thought of themselves as nice people despite judging her and her family just because she was born in a different state. They gave her a great gift which was showing their true colors early on.
yeah that’s possible but what if they’d heard about other interactions she’d had on campus that might have been racist?
@Audrey O'Donnell but what if godzilla attacked and they saw her push an old lady down to escape? The but what if game is fun, if your gonna play it at least go big
@@audreyodonnell166Nonetheless, that is an inappropriate way to act and it doesn’t give them the right. Society is not going to move forward if we just shout and call people names. Although it may be true, what productive thing does it bring at the end of the day? Nothing whatsoever.
@@audreyodonnell166and you might be a pedophile if we're just here making up shit
@@audreyodonnell166 “but what if” 🤡
I swear, true racist people call other people they don't know "racist".
Coincidence that all the people screaming racism this and that are part of the same party that founded the Klan? Idunnooo 🤷🏻
its the new way people convince themself thwy arent racist.
if you see someone be racist against another person, then theyre racist, clearly.
but for someone to assume someone else is racist because of their race, not based on anything they specificaly did, thats literally evidence they are racist.
It’s called projection and I’ve met plenty of leftists (unfortunately) who show that on a consistent basis.
I had the EXACT SAME experience at college. I grew up in a part of the state that’s known for being very conservative and filled with “hicks”. I came to college to meet 2 girls who seemed to be very like me. After knowing them for a year and rooming with them we starting talking ab politics. They were liberal and I was conservative. I didn’t mind the difference & didnt think much of it. But one night we were sitting in the hallway talking about our beliefs ab controversial topics. It ended with me being so scared and shaking while 3 of my roommates were yelling at me calling me all sorts if names… after they always called me racist, homophobic, fatphobic etc…. Any phobic they could think of. When that night when we were in the hallway talking all I did was state my beliefs simply as put, “ I don’t think abortion is right” and “I don’t agree w/ all the transgender ideology”. I wanted a civil conversation but what I got was SHUT UP by any of my reasons immediately dismissed. And from then on they barely talked to me and would text eachother about how “racist & homophobic I was from supporting trump. At one point going in MY room and throwing my trump hat on the ground. After that I started noticing a trend about nowadays kids who are democratic… They think their way is THE ONLY WAY. & trust me I always have civil conversations about politics but it seems young american democrats need some work on that
how are you a young girl that’s anti choice this is def fake💀
@biboebbs624 Well, I'm an adult woman with kids and honestly I'm somewhere in between all this pro-choice, pro-life stuff! In line of ethics and personal principle I'm totaly against it, on the other hand, no woman determined to abort should risk it's life with diy concoctions (that's how my great grandmother died poisoning herself in 1920's leaving 4 little toddlers orphaned) nor should end up in hands of charlatans that don't do it properly and women end up dying or destroying their health. I see things realisticly and practicly: you cann't just abolish abortion considiring it has been legal for over half a century and in all that time became common use and practice among good piece of population. Once the laws are in place, they influence the culture and mentality of people and taking them back is so hard, that it only happens very rarely and successfully throughout history and usally in a progressive way that requires a degree of public cultural maturation in the opposite direction. On the other hand pro-choice isn't about informed choosing or choosing freely and ponderatly, they just want you to get the abortion done with, becouse that's how those associations sustain themselves: they provide abortions and they charge it! Not letting women see the fetal ultrasound or muting the heartbeat sound, isn't for the purpose of avoiding trauma, but witholding informations which might change your mind and this way they're just postponing trauma, becouse once that woman affronts her first wanted pregnancy or somebody close to her and she sees or does the first ultrasound (usualy around 10 weeks), she's gonna freak out becouse instead of a bunch of cells she's gonna see a baby in making and recognize clearly the parts: a head shape, connected to growing body, with tiny 4 limbs "sprouts", a tiny heart that beats strongly and at a rhythm of those old lockomotives we see in movies, and the heart is huge in proportion to the rest of the body and that little being is gonna be moving every part of itself all the time during ultra sound and it's gonna remind you even more of a living, breathing, moving baby! There are women that go into deep depression years or even decades after they had their abortion! Statisticly speaking couples that opt for an abortion end up divorcing or splitting up. Counseling done by pro-choice clinics isn't counseling at all: they just listen to you and tell you, you are right, go with it, becouse their doctors are gonna do the abortion for you and get paid for doing so! They cann't possibly be objective, or intellectually honest, since they're running the abortion busines! There are women outhere that take abortion as a contraceptive and have medical charts in multiple abortion clinics! Now that's totaly sick! Look at any developed country: the majority of doctors refuse to perform abortions, becouse they are conscious objectors and the majority of these doctors isn't even religious or ideologically affiliated! Considering embryo just a clump of cells is a pure lie and a fraud! If we consider selective abortion in case you're doing IVF when multiple embryos attach to uterus and female body isn't suppose to carry half a dozen or even more embryos to term, it's such a paradox of what people with fertility issues have to go through to have a baby... There's an association of people in Canada that blame all their mental health issues on the fact they had to endure selective abortion of their siblings in the womb! I had a friend that had abortion in highschool and no one told her the high risks she was running to compromise completely her reproductive system and ever have another child in her life, becouse she didn't have an "average" uterus like the one we see in biology books and the embryo was in a weird position, which all transformed that "simple" routine procedure called an early abortion into a highly risky one and no one explained it to her beforehand! No one asked her if she wanted to take the risk and they took the choice away from her, becouse it wasn't about choosing but being pro-choice (for/ in favour of a specific choice)! And now the latest diy abortion at home through pills! A friend of mine opted for it in total secrecy (her hubby and kids were on camping) and after multiple pregnancies, natural deliveries, you think it couldn't get any worse, oh, but it can! She spent hours in agony of strong contractions, unlike any she experienced before, she practicly "delivered" the embryo and bled so much to loose consciousness and then she called me around midnight to take her to the hospital, becouse she thought she was gonna die of bleeding out and she didn't wanna die among strangers on an ambulance, so she colled me up, becouse we live close by to eachother and the local hospital. It took her 6 months to get her periods back, she became severaly anemic and went almost in some sort of post-partum depression... The worst, scariest and loneliest experience of her entire adult life! I don't like how abortion gets pushed, shoved, glorified, exalted and falsely presented, I cann't stand all the ostentatiousness, lies, half truths and sophistry around it. I only tend to look at facts and indirect subjective experience people share with me... I yet have to meet a person that hadn't regret at some point of their life having an abortion or having pushed or supported their partner to have one.
@@biboebbs624Not Fake. I know lots of young girls who stand up for the human rights of unborn babies. I’m curious what kind of sheltered you are to believe they don’t exist? I’m not sure if I’m considered young anymore, but if so, I am one of them too ;)
I’d be happy to explain why yours truly doesn’t *want* to have the choice to abort. Given the worst of circumstances, I would still want to protect innocent life and find a way for my child to have loving care (adoption) if I didn’t feel I could provide that, than to end a baby’s life. I’ve always felt that way, even as a young teen. I hope you’re curious enough to investigate why a young girl might feel that way. It might rock your world in the best of ways. I’ve never met a woman who regretted giving her child life. I know countless who regret aborting their child.
@@biboebbs624that cannot be a real question 😂
CA- is pretty Democratic, liberal, so...
Such a compassionate and inclusive group
im glad covid happened, it showed me who the real ones are
Why is she doing victimhood
Ahhh..... the intolerant left....who preach tolerancy. Bunch of hypocrites
Yes they are. To be compassionate and inclusive you have to exclude the people who aren’t compassionate and inclusive
@@christingle2004 So I take it you’ll be excluding yourselves then? That’s what I thought… 🤣🤣
Those were not friends those were lunatics
Just leftists.
Shes making this nonsense up.
Brett, Also being from Tennessee I grew up thinking I lived in the Podunk backwoods but as I matured and had children I started to realize just how fortunate I was to be from here and able to raise my children here as well. Don't ever let someone take your heritage from you!
Tennessee is one of the prettiest states in my opinion. I love Chattanooga.
@@Billylamarbuddy do you know this background score
Calling those your friends is a big mistake. I really love that you are always straight forward with everything. You have a right to speak your mind without those people putting a label on you. 😘
Ran into a guy from Cali that talked mad shit about people from Tennessee being dumb, so I posted a screen shot of a graph showing California at the bottom of the list of states in terms of literacy rates. He had nothing else to say after that exchange.
I come from a conservative part of California, and I just facepalm every time I hear from Hollywood and San Francisco. I get so embarrassed to tell people I’m from Cali because they’ll automatically think I’m entitled, self absorbed, illiterate, and a social justice warrior.
@@moonlordis_theantagonistSame, it’s so annoying so I usually tell them my birth state so it’s less embarrassing and saves face
@@moonlordis_theantagonist I lived in Cali for a year(San Clemente) I’m from Atlanta. Most of the people I met were cool, it was a pleasant surprise. I was expecting worse for sure.
Half are probably on skid row
The funny thing is that Cali is at the bottom because of so many legal and illegal immigrants who don’t speak English and whose parents don’t speak English as well as the poor performance of Non-Asian minorities. But that sounds kinda racist so they can’t use that as an excuse, even though obviously if half your students don’t speak English at home their English literacy score will be lower.
Displaying their typical "open-minded" behavior. 🤷🏾♂️
If “friends” want to treat you like crap over political differences, they aren’t friends. Sadly family do that too
You drop a member of your family over politics? Over people you don’t know but politically agree with? As a conservative I would never do that but oddly I think most liberals would.
@@carolinejimenez7120 yeah when you don’t think someone’s existence is valid, you don’t talk to the.
i think its just about ethics and stuff like i wouldnt be friends with someone who belives in racist/homophobic ideologies
actually yea i dont like to associate with people with different political views, cause some of the differences literally define how people are.
Its always cute when people think their revolting hatred of others is a "political difference" that needs to be respected. If you lost family BC of your beliefs it's because you're an outspoken asshole. A sensible person would have learned to not bring it up eventually
The alienation was real, but getting better. And it made you stronger. Thank you for not letting it break you.
"They called me a racist, and that was before we even started talking politics"
What she is saying is that of course leftists from california would think she’s racist if they discussed politics since leftists believe all conservative political positions are racist.
These people didnt even give her a chance to discuss her actual views though they pre-judged her as soon as she walked in the room.
@@dacc990 thank you
@@dacc990 they also believe all white people (excluding themself and close friends) are racist
@@dacc990 most Republicans are racists or greedy money lovers or religious nuts. There is only three types 😂
@@dacc990 But then you’re accusing all “leftists from california” of not being open to having a conversation with someone. 😂 Why do people have to generalize people to make ourselves feel like victims? That’s the whole reason this political shitshow started.
It’s “the liberals” and it’s “the conservatives” and you’re either one or the other. We can’t take the time to make our own choices because we’re expected to pick a side first.
My family never came to north america until well after slavery ended. But i always get to hear about how 'MY' people benefitted from slavery.
Pretty sure my great grandfather worked in a coal mine....
Exactly. Moved here post-slavery and lived in New England and the midwest...
Seriously same my family escaped Germany right before the war my dudes (and the other side of my family was poor Scottish and Irish farmers) if there were slave owners it was a long long long time ago and those slaves would have been many different races not just African
@@angelicsailor1st if they were poor
Irish/Scottish 100% they didn’t have slaves so don’t worry about it
The eggshells people also think every black people they see are descendants of slave too. You can’t win with them. They are the racist who thing that they are fighting for justice.
Hold up! Did you and your ancestors benefit from coming to a wealthy nation? Benefit from civil right act? The voting rights act? You benefit from being white without even knowing it. You benefit from the sacrifices and activism of black Americans without even knowing it.
Do you celebrate Independence Day? Are you proud of founders? Revere the constitution? Fght in civil war? WW1 or WW2 as a US soldier? You claim American history that neither you nor your ancestors built or fought for. But you’re quick to claim you’re ancestors weren’t in US when white were doing bad sht.
Look where you are now Brett! You didn’t let those toxic so called friends drag you down!
To be fair, at the peak of COVID, I'm not sure if I would've been around someone who was unvaccinated or didn't want to wear masks etc. Feel like that's pretty reasonable.
@@hejalllyou’re a hypochondriac, a germaphobe, and you let fear inFLUence your decisions. 😀 ❤ 😈
I experienced this a job. I worked for Home Depot when I was 17. This Home Depot was on a predominantly black side of town and because I was originally from Baton Rouge but then/now living in Ohio I was called all sorts of things. Keep in mind this was in 2011 long before we got to the craziness we have now. I treat folks the way they treat me, regardless of skin color.
Friends don’t test you, they just love you by who you are
Yeah everything she described sounded nothing like a friend. Sounds like a crowd she was trying to fit in with.
Spot's a minority she hates: I would like to backtrack from my unconditional love statement...
Learned that the hard way. Now I don't have any friends
I agree with the second half of your statement. But good friends, who care, would ABSOLUTELY test you. If they feel you are doing yourself a disservice, by stagnating or ignoring a problem, they would tell you to buck up and make some changes.
@@andrewadami3920Indeed, good friends hold a mirror towards your face when you are going to wrong route.
Brett is too kind, still describing those people as "friends"
You say kind, i say naive. Either way, bless her heart.
Ignorant presumptive "Frenemies"...is more like it.
They sound so tolerant and accepting. No friend would treat you that way. That’s when you tell them.
“I think you guys aren’t worth my time and are too intolerant to be my friends.” Smile as you walk away and find something else.
I was thinking the last couple of days in the USA people have become inconsiderate of one another. And I mean being considerate is just not natural to the people of the USA any more. It's sad to see.
@@raydenny7197 I think it’s because we hold unrealistic expectations of what the world should be instead of excepting what the world as it is and overcoming the hardships.
Exactly "no friend would treat you that way" so these people probably didn't see her as a "friend". And that's probably because she did or said things that they didn't like. There's always multiple sides to these kinds of stories. People don't do such shit for no reason.
you clearly didn't watch the entire video let alone this little clip. the things they didn't like about her were their own stigmas about who she was as a person and their judgements toward things they don't understand. people do that shit for no reason, as someone who was born and raised in California you would be shocked by the level of entitlement these people have and how judgmental they are based off the clothes you wear and the phone you have and the car you drive let alone your political stance that, like Brett said, they didn't even speak on.
Be harsher than that "I think you guys are trash. "
Sometime being kicked out of a friend group is blessing
I went to Net York for college from TN and I had the same reactions. I was constantly labeled as a hateful person due to where I was from. It was comical really.
I mean, did you hold any hateful views?
Now they are all moving here (TN) and Texas, because we have no state tax and they ruined there areas.
@@zorgon410asking the right questions here. Ppl don’t just do this without provocation. My best friend is a conservative & im a liberal but we’ve been friends for 13 years. Theirs more to the story that she isn’t sharing.
@@Marryjanesbud In case you haven't noticed, there is a moral panic on the left regarding racism. Things are a lot different than they used to be.
I went to college in NJ just outside NYC from Texas myself and for me it was when I realized this whole left/right divide is a lie. How am I liberal in Texas but up there I’m conservative? They’d be all shocked and weirded out when I’d say I didn’t experience any of the racism they claim we have in the south and as a gay man, I feel safe too. 🤷🏿♂️ It’s like they expected me to be a victim who went north to “escape” something. Anyway I went back to Texas lol.
Those are toxic bullies, not friends!
Friends are counted by the fingers, the fewer the truer they are
Yes!
Ναι, μπορώ να ταυτιστώ ότι γιατί είμαι διαφορετικό
i also struggle to make friends
people can say things that will ruin ones character😐🙁labeling is a blight and deface situation in this world, in the which i shall take no part in it
Debatable… But I do get where you are coming from
@@nathanaelitoτι ελληνικά είναι αυτά ρε?
Μοιάζει με ότι δεν είναι όλα ελληνικά για σένα ρε 😅🤨
no matter your political views, as long as you aren’t harassing or hurting anyone, should always be respected. even if you don’t agree with them or they don’t agree with you
Wait isn’t judging someone based on where they and their family’s from racist???? 😂
edit: a lot of these replies are really great to read. I now know that its not technically racist. i was making a blanket statement that wasnt necessarily correct. thank you for keeping most of the replies informative and not just bullying be till the end of time :)
Yep. It’s contradicting to put racist in the same sentences.
People are stupid, get used to trash like that
No it’s tolerance 😂
Um, no. the belief that racial differences produce an inherent superiority of a par- ticular race
@@xxwolfstarxx6480 discrimination based on ethnic background i.e skin colour is the definition of racism. This isn't racist, but neither is your description. You're describing prejudice. Acting on said beliefs is racist.
In the video clip it's someone's being prejudice and bigoted because she's from a certain state. Unless folks from Tennessee are their own skin colour, it's not racist to discriminate against people from there.
The more I learn about people, the more I love dogs.
As well as lions and tigers
I prefer animals on many days.
Sometimes even mosquitoes feel more important
Hahaha
My goldfish is unpretentious....
Brett seems like she would honestly be a very good friend.
Heck yeah she does.
haha coz neither of u simps is getting past the friend zone lol
@@privateprivate3767 I might 😏
Unless you are from a demographics thay she deems sub-human though right?
@@paintspot1509 She's never referred to someone as sub-human...
Same it’s hard for me to keep friends because people don’t agree with my viewpoints. I’m apparently “too right” and people don’t like that. I don’t always talk about politics, quite frankly I tell my friends not to bring it up. I was raised where you don’t ask or bring up politics in the family otherwise arguments would erupt..
What is with people judging us farmers we only provide 100 percent of your food!!!!!!
Fact... 💯% 👍👍
Sorry y'all have to do with them I appreciate y'all heavily 🫡
Im a breatharian, so no. Jk😂
They are not judging farmers. They are judging her background because they assumed her ancestors owned slaves (since they are a rich farming family).
@@meia1855, she stated quite clearly that the farming side of her family was "dirt poor".
The party of tolerance and acceptance 🙄
Those “friends” are just assholes. Why jump to generalisations. Be better man.
Most people who vote at all don’t care about politics, random college girls aren’t part of “the party of tolerance”
ask Brett what she thinks of Palestinians lol.
Funny made up stories tho
dude both parties are the same lol
@@testcase6997 What did she say about Palestinians?
Those people were not your friends.
Now she's bitter and carries this pain with her.
Yeah, people like that are the worst.
Would say I can't beileve people like that exist, but, look at the state of the world, of course they do.
Jealousy is a nasty disease and these “friends” had it. Keep being you Brett
Never let them forget how they acted during covid
Not wanting to get sick?
Like psychopaths
@@user-lt1jd1ye3vwait what?
Cringe generalization
Authoritarian hypocrites. Yea, there were a lot of em
That's when you don't bother talking to those people. In college you can avoid talking to other people you don't like . In college you have the freedom to not have to put up with other students shenanigans. You just walk away and don't acknowledge them if you happen to see them.
better to try to educate them.
@@susanburke3722eh, confrontation isn’t always the answer. Sometimes just ignoring someone can be the biggest insult ever.
@@adricabrerayeah, they're probably too pigheaded to listen to reason anyhow. Democrats ☹
This girl just explained why I moved away from California.
They then go and vote for a guy that tells you you ain't Black if you dont vote for me...and comes from a family of Slave Owners.
As well as the VP.
Their foresight is off the charts. Whatever NotC wants, they DO!!!
@@itsjiyoungiemy childhood was spent there. Like many, I am saddened and feel robbed. In so many aspects, they've taken so much away.
Good riddance. We don't want idiots here
@@bakerfreshin what way?
@@itsjiyoungie
Where did you move to? What's a good place to go to?
Are you sure the people there are not brainwashed sheep as well?
There are friends, then there are acquaintances/associates. Those people sounded like neither 😂
They don't sound like they were ever her real friends. Friends like that need to be left behind.
Your mom did a really good job with you. You have to have your roots study to withstand that type of abuse and come out with yourself intact.
You were an only child, I bet.
They missed out on a gem of a real friend in Brett.
It's funny how they accuse you of what they do.
She didn't struggle with having friends. She gave them a choice to have the best friend they could ever have and they failed.
There is nothing wrong with being racist . She should be proud to be racist.
@@munchmacuchi7502 Everyone has a percentage of racism in them. From 1% (least)to 100%(most), I'm about 30%. How about you, what percentage of Racist are you?
@@munchmacuchi7502what 😂
@@covingtonhalltown3730Brett is probably at %60 with their political beliefs
Those aren't friends to begin with if they can hate you that fast.
Surely she didn’t say some unhinged comments that turned people off. No no no. It’s because she’s from Tennessee. Y’all are so delusional.
People are ridiculous. You deserve better!
I am so, so sorry you were treated like that.
Working at a parochial school where most everyone shares the same values has been so refreshing. I don’t have to walk on eggshells all the time. Glad Brett found her place too
I teach in a public school in NJ. Believe it or not, there is a significant contingency of conservatives in the education field. Not everybody in the field leans left. I will never walk on egg shells around my coworkers because of my conservative values. I don’t have to like their politics and they don’t have to like mine. Simple as that, but for the most part, I am still accepted for the person that I am and I accept my liberal co workers for the people they are. Someone’s political beliefs are not the only thing about them and to judge someone as such, either way, is childish. And those are the people with whom I simply don’t engage.
That is what I called woke people in my college 😂 “Eggshells” people.
Those were not your friends. Those were self-made victims.
Sounds like she's being the victim here by purposefully hanging out with people who didn't like her. She even wanted to risk their health with the taxi thing
@@mushy470 lookout covid is right behind you. It's going to get you! 😂😂😂
@@Crazy-Chicken-Media it got my friends dad, not me though
“WHO RADICALIZED YOU?”
“You did.”
she's not radical?
@@amsd1231 Honestly, that's terrible. People need to stop caring so much about what others believe. I have a bunch of leftist friends and likewise a bunch of right wing friends and we don't care about each other's views so much so that we can't see ourselves being friends, it's terrible what society has become
@@amsd1231You use the word sheep. You clearly aren't centrist lmao
@@IVaV1 It's important what other people believe when they are willing to act on them and those actions will hurt you and yours. Your "just Politics" is a marginalized groups life or death.
@@grfrog Nothing I believe or any of my friends believe or anything 90% of the first world believes put margianlized groups on the brink of death, tf is your point
Takes me back to my college days, getting called “colonizer” by my black friend. Always felt weird about that “joke” she liked to make. :/
Those are not “friends” Brett. Those are varying degrees of acquaintance. God bless you young lady and NEVER BACK DOWN!
I never put my political views out for everyone to know because my mother told me that people get touchy on those subjects and so it's best to just avoid them. She however of course sisnt feel the same about our faith and so at the very least I know I didn't have a lot of friends because I'm Christian. Though I dont mind personally because those people weren't meant to be in my life then. 🤷🏼♀️
the only reason a non religious person would have a problem with you being religious is if your political views include forcing those beliefs and values onto others. if you're judge mental of their actions because you view them as distasteful because they go against your religious beliefs. in order to be a reasonable person who is also religious you must separate your beliefs and criticisms of yourself from others. you CHOSE to believe what you believe and life the way you do, it is not your responsibility to force that onto others who do not agree, and it is definitely not your responsibility nor is it even remotely acceptable to get upset when others say that they do not believe in god. it is simply a personal journey you are not yet ready to set out on, wether it be because of immaturity or selfishness.
@@brotherbrod that's not true. I had several friends who were atheists or gay. I'm no longer friends with them because I'm no longer in high school and cause I'm a stay at home mom now. On top of that I never talked about God or anything unless they asked me questions on it. Though merely mentioning I'm Christian to some people made them not want to be around me because they assume I'm tha way. Not every christian is disliked because they are pressing their beliefs on others some of them are merely judged for being Christian because someone has already made up their mind on how all Christian's behave.
@@maylonieldridge5658 a stay at home mom right out of high school? sweetie it appears their lives just went in a different direction. it happens. you are in no way oppressed for being a white christian in america. grow up.
Honestly, I respect people who are religious, but it’s hard to be friends with them cause everyone I know who’s grown up in Christian upbringings has always been abused. And I don’t mean like small things as abuse, I mean like people who used to have panic attacks as a child cause they were told they’d go to hell for the stupidest of things and was always terrified, was starved because they didn’t want to do things “for God” all the time, had their hair shaved or cut short as a form of public humiliation and etc. And I know that it’s obviously not every household, but when all the friends I make have similar upbringings dealing with religion, it’s a bit hard to see it differently
Exactly. I miss when people didn't talk about how they voted, what they do in the bedroom or where they go to church...
This very young gal has a good head on her shoulders.
She is a wonderful voice.
As an (unregistered) democrat/liberal I can say those friends sound awful. Also, who cares if your family owned slaves 150 years ago? Guilt is not heritable.
I had no friends until 7th grade. Many years after that I parted ways with a completely assuming, clueless and toxic friend.
I’m a proud Tennessee native. How ignorant and toxic.
Im from Kentucky and I find it ironic how people call country people racist when they are the ones being racist
Me too!! I always get kinda nervous to tell people i’m from Tennessee because then they just automatically assume i’m racist 💀
They saved her from themselves lmao
I'm non-white and just recently found out one of my relatives owned a slave. Society seriously needs to stop.
I'm white, family been in America since the early 1700's. None of them ever owned anyone...we were chased out of 2 countries & 1 state (Virginia)....by the Catholic church.
You're right. Time to be just Americans.
When she mentioned where her family was from I could hear the twang in her voice lol
Wow. This breaks my heart for you. You are such an amazing and kind person and the people who treated you this way, clearly we’re too ego driven and jealous of your grace, willingness to grow, and ability to connect to even attempt a conversation. As sorry as I am this happened to you- I’m grateful you can share it so people can be more aware of the conclusions they may jump to.
how they gonna call brett their “friend” if she was supposedly “racist”. brett is a sweetheart. she’s just here to tell us the truth🏳️💓
That’s where the bs is I know people like that they wanna joke and call you racist but when it’s convenient they claim friendship it’s like no if you genuinely believe someone is racist/bigoted/prejudiced and you don’t stop being their friend and confront them then no you are not an “ally” or oppressed because you by your own action are “condoning” whatever it is it’s the height of ridiculousness
Watch how much people want to be your friend once you realize you don't need them. Disdain what you cannot have, ignoring them is the best revenge.
How in the fuck can people not see the irony of assuming someone is racist because of where they are from and then paint others as the derogatory ones
If you lean right or left all that should matter is if they’re a good person. That’s people I want to be friends with
If my daughter grows up and makes a friend with someone like Brett I will be so happy ❤
Yesss!!
I love brett ! She's so great !!!
As a native So. Californian (who doesn't always agree with Brett's opinions or positions), I am extremely embarrassed by the attitudes she encountered at UCLA.
You honestly believe this story? I'm calling BS on this. She's making it up I guarantee it
Those are enemies, not friends.
If those people didn't want to be your friends, Brett, it's their loss. You are an absolute gem, in an ocean of gravel.
I agree
I'm just imagining those girls, now. LOL Sitting in their vile hateful hearts as Brett has her heart of gold out here with thosands of people that love her.
I can't hear a ting of a Southern accent.
That's the thing these girls would do to me... I'm racist, sliw/dumb and a redneck poor hillbilly. Only thing they knew about me was my accent.
Oh my! I wish she had better friends because she seems so nice 😢
Centrists make the best friends. They know how to pick up bullshit on either side
True.
I didn't go to UCLA but I understand this feeling while I lived in LA while going to college. I actually moved because I couldn't handle it.
No one is worse to women than other women.
A man has been the worst ever that happened to me....
I am alive by luck.
I don't blame all the other men because of him.They don't have nothing to do with him.
So you can keep your lies for yourself.
Especially NURSES
@@inesdamonteines3985depends on the context. Workplace drama, the women on women is probably high as well as school. When there's social cliques.
Not all, just like the fact you can search Mom puts kids in oven and get multiple results.
People can be evil.
Only 🚺 understand 🚺, & they hate each other! - Al Bundy
One a regular basis ,yes
In extreme scenarios, no
Damn, who needs enemies when you have friends like that. It's one thing to poke fun at a friend sometimes, but they straight up believed that crap.
I was a progressive liberal in my old school,now I’m a traditionalist conservative when I moved and my political views shift to everyone else
I had very similar experiences. You just have to rise above and be yourself. I knew they weren’t my real friends, so I cut ties with every last one of them
You dont struggle with friendships, you just have a faster filter for bad ones...😊
I lost about 70% of my friends to covid. Not to the respiratory disease but to the mental one. They all died in silence never heard back from them. Wild shit.
Care to explain? A bunch of mine just ghosted me/left me on read whenever i messaged them. Phone calls just got ignored too.
@@henri6595 probably because you weren't terrified of the flu.
@@henri6595why