I lost my older brother at 16 to his life long battle with cancer. He was 18. I’m 56 now. It’s been a long time. I cry for him still at times. His loss of a future and my survivors guilt for getting to live when it was stolen from him in the worst way. He always handled his impending death better than I did after he was gone. I did a lot to mask the pain. I almost died from that more than once. I didn’t really care. But I found peace in building a new life and creating a family of my own. Without them to care for I’m not sure I would have made it back to a happy and hopeful existence. You just have to keep going. Let it hurts sometimes and keep going any way.
I'm so sorry honey, 😞 I lost mine a year ago on the 26th 💔 and I am so broken....it still feels like yesterday I NEED him and to have to live the rest of my life without him?
We are so sorry for your loss. If you need further support please do get in touch with us. You can find out more details about our bereavement support on our website: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/support-for-you/family-life/bereavement-support/
Sorry for your loss I also lost my brother who was my best friend in 8/5/2019 and I sometimes feel hard to even breathe when I remember him because he was my angel and not seeing him again is the hardest thing ever and I don’t wish anyone to go through this pain but sadly it’s something that will come sooner or later.
I lost my older brother on 17 April 2020. I could feel your pain. I still hope that I could turn back the clock and tell him how much I love him and miss him
I too feel that deep pain....I also lost my Baby Brother, Fredrick, at the age of 41.....he was so much to me.. My best friend.....my protector.... I love him so much!
My older sister died 2 years ago from an OD at the age of 24, i never knew how much big of role my sister played. Now sitting 2 years later, her silence is LOUD, as iam now an only child at the age of 22. I just wish she was still here, iam so lost without her.
We are so sorry to hear of your loss Vincent. We have a bereaved sibling support day coming up this autumn that you may find helpful: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/events/bereavement-support-events/brothers-and-sisters-life-after-loss
Geez we all share the grief in common. I am glad I seeked out some videos as I am struggling. I lost my sister to a car accident and my brother falling out of a golf cart and having to take him off life support. I pray for all of you and thank you for sharing stories.
I lost my older brother 4 months ago .I still cant believe it .This has been the saddest I have ever been in my life. The Lord is who has given me strength when I felt I could not handle it.
Hi Pearl, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. Do please contact us if you need any further support vial mail@cff.org.uk or call 029 2088 0800. We also have bereavement support resources on our website: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/family-life/bereavement-support
My brother died three months ago due to a heart attack. He was my best friend, my protector, my second dad and my biggest hero. When he died, I felt like a large part of me died with him. I’ve never felt so much sadness before and most of the time I feel very lonely without him here. I miss him everyday and hope one day I’ll find some peace and understanding with his passing.
I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope that you will find some peace and understanding, as well. If you need someone to talk to, please get in touch with our specialist support team bit.ly/3PF58GH
i lost my little sister last month. she was only 20 and lake michigan took her from us. everyone who comes here from some trauma in your life. its okay. keep going, they wanted you to. for whatever reason they were lost, please find yourself. i hope you read this some day. thank you for posting this video. i miss her so much. if only everyone had more time with their loved ones. take care of yourself and be safe.
My only sibling, my beautiful sister Kara passed away from breat cancer September 10 2020. She was 43 and had 3 children. She was my best friend. I will never be the same! She was my soul mate!
My little brother James died of a rare sarcoma around his heart at 21. It’s so hard knowing he won’t be around for the rest of my life.. he was suppose to be the one person I would never say goodbye to. I try and focus on the fact that he is at peace and not in anymore pain... but it’s hard knowing I’ll never see his beautiful smile or hear his voice ever again. It sucks.
I lost my brother to suicide 8 months ago. It is the single most painful thing I’m constantly living with. I miss my brother to. I don’t think we realise how hard it is to live without someone we’ve never known the world without xx
@@megs1717 it’s been nearly 7 months for me now and it’s still not any easier. What you said is so true, so strange that they’ve been there your whole life and suddenly they’re gone. Actually just got a tattoo in memory of him today. Sending love to you xx
I'm so sorry for all of your losses. Thank you for sharing your hearts. My brother passed away April of 2021. My heart hurts so much for myself and my Daddy&Mom. I have been pouring my love for my brother onto my family,friends&people I don't even know. I have so much love for him and I don't want to keep it stuffed away. ❤❤❤
Someone liked this comment this evening. My Daddy passed unexpectedly from a blood clot just days after I typed this. I have been praying to see the beauty of life and for my heart to heal.❤ I still have family to love.
I lost my only brother to cancer when he was just 13 in 2013. I still can't get over with survivors guilt. I still wonder if my parent's wish, i was the one taken instead of him. I haven't celebrated any festivals in home thereafter. I don't grieve infront of anyone but some nights I still cry myself to sleep. I regret being left alone as an only child. I feel the expectations of my parent's , family members , everyone for me to be something extraordinary , or more resilient , or more successful because of an only child weighing me down. When in reality I still can't process that he is gone forever. I feel afraid to love anything , cause the fear of it being taken away frightens me. My life will never be the same as it was before.
Hello. Just seeing your post, and wondering how you are doing? I am so sorry for this great loss and pain you have been struggling with. I understand it- lost 2 siblings on the same day. I too felt left alone as the only remaining child. Decades ago but my heart still looks for them in the good and bad events of my life. I hope you have something that brings you some escape and satisfaction, so you can forget your fears at least momentarily. The goal of our lives now boils down to not letting fear win. I wish you peace. 🦋
My 20 year old brother died in July 2020 on a car crash and my 2nd 2-month year old brother just passed away this December 2020. This week I'm mourning his death,next week is my graduation, such a tragic thing to experience
We're so sorry to hear about the loss of your siblings Aphiwe. We have bereavement articles and further support on our website if you need it: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/family-life/bereavement-support If you'd like any further support at this time please ring us on 029 2081 0800. All the best for your graduation.
We are so sorry to hear this Renuka, if you need any support do get in touch on 029 2081 0800 or mail@cff.org.uk. We also have bereavement support on our website: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/family-life/bereavement-support
Hi Renuka. I lost my brother from COVID-19 on 2/11/22. It’s so hard to go day by day without him. But you lost both of yours. I’m truly sorry for your loss and I hope time heals for the both of us and for people who lost their loved one. 🙏
Being a 18 year old, lost my brother who was just 6 years younger than me, it's so hard, I just can't understand what happened, why suddenly I can't talk with him, why I can't act stupid with him, I miss him each day. We used to do each and everything together, I don't wanna accept the fact that I will not see him ever. I think I will meet him soon or I might just go up there to meet him
I lost my sister in 12 / 2015 and she was most likely beaten to death by violent bf. He never came to justice as heroin was involved and his dad a cop. Regardless, besides the day-to-day struggle of knowing I'll never see her again, I've gotten to watch my mom and dad grieve so deeply which sometimes seems just as bad. She was 30 I was 26 at the time and she was my one and only older sister and I miss her so much
My older (42) brother was killed from a collision while he was parked on the shoulder of a highway. I keep hoping it will be less awful feeling and I just roll through day after day. I cant share anything I could have shared with him in the past. That relationship is gone. Someone in another of these videos said that you lose the past and the future with the death of a sibling and that is spot on.
Lost my 42 year old brother 8 years ago. I lost my past future and present. Not enough support for adult sibling loss. Im told to just get over it. I'm told I only lost a brother, get over it. People just don't get it.
Im so glad I found ur video my little brother dj died on June 1, 2019 and he was just 2 weeks away from turning 31. He died sudden and very unexpected. It took us almost a week to get his body back home to Arkansas from Georgia. His death has left me feeling so lost, alone, and guilty I couldn't save him, guilty I wasn't there, guilt cuz he died alone probably scared I dont know how to move on from this any advice from anyone that has lost a sibling especially anyone that has lost there only sibling I would greatly appreciate it thank u. And im so sorry for everyone's losses
Join a support group, journal, find an outlet, tell yourself it’s ok to grieve and grieve. I loss my baby sister on Halloween suddenly. I have zero closure but journaling is keeping me sane. Your in my thoughts and prayers. Don’t give up on yourself and Do Not blame yourself, it’s easy to make yourself the scapegoat. Take care.
@@elishagarcia2568 oh thank you so much for that and yes I have joined to support groups online and they have been helping me and ive also got a journal now so I'm trying and im so sorry for your loss too your in my prayers
I am deeply hurting, just as we ALL are.....I lost my DEAR, PRECIOUS BROTHER 3 months ago.... On Dec. 5, 2021.... It hurts just as it did this minute he left me and this world behind....
Hi Peggy, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. Do reach out to us if you would like further support: 029 2081 0800. We also have a support event coming up in May that you might find helpful too: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/family-life/bereavement-support/brothers-and-sisters-life-after-loss/
My sister passed away last night , I am having a very hard time dealing with it. I'm totally heartbroken and lost. I really don't no how I'm going to get over this.
I lost my one and only big brother over 20 years ago and it still hurts. I often feel abnormal because so much time has passed, yet I'm still hurting as if the loss was recent. We were only 2 and a half years apart in age, so we were extremely close and did lots of things together. After he died, i had to force myself to graduate high school. He missed that. He also missed the birth of my nephew, his son. It's so tragic. He's missed everything. He didn't get to see his own son grow into a man.
I lost my older sister 4 years ago to a sudden heart attack. No one knew she was sick. I was the one who found her body sitting on her sofa. She and I had so much in common. We used to text each other all the time. Now I don’t have that with anyone. I miss her so much. You never get over something like this. My life will never be the same.
We are so sorry to hear of your loss, you may find the bereavement support on our website helpful: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/family-life/bereavement-support
I lost my big sister two weeks ago. I used to speak to her every day. We often talked for hours. I am trying to pretend she is just away which is not healthy. I sat with her body for five hours after she died so don't understand why I am acting in this way. Her funeral is this Friday. It is the early hours of Tuesday. Don't know how to get through this week let alone Friday. Don't know how to go through the rest of my life without her. She had lung cancer that spread to her bones and her brain. I looked after her with my brother in law for the last four weeks of lockdown and it was not easy to watch her fight just to breathe. She was so precious and I talked with her about everything. We have elderly parents, a Dad with dementia and now it is just me to look after them and to make all the decisions without her. She was my only sibling. She had two children aged 17 and 20. The pain is unbearable. There is a crater sized hole in me. There is no one on the planet now who knows the childhood things we both shared. That makes me so sad.
Hi Sam, we are truly sorry to hear of your loss, thank you so much for sharing your story. We have bereavement resources on our website which you may find helpful: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/family-life/bereavement-support We also run events for those who have lost adult siblings and will be announcing dates for 2021 soon. Finally, do call us on 029 2081 0800 if you need any extra support from our CareLine team.
Its hard to deal with the loss of a sibling. I lost 2 at the same time. When i was first informed of it, my body shook as if i was freezing. I became dazed and speechless. A few weeks before i lost my dad, a weeping spirit came on me. I didnt at the time know why i would pull off to the side of the road and begin weeping heavily. At my dads funeral i was totally dry eyed and i could not weep. I understood then that God was preparing me for the funeral. Completely dry eyed.
My sister was took away at the cross road 21 January 2022, 3 days before her birthday. We used to talk everyday. I still sent her memes and videos like i used to. I miss her so much.
My dear friend and brother Robert xx taken so suddenly on January 27th x feel the pain and the loss so much x will see you again sweet brother of mine x
I lost my brother in July 2022... he was 23 I was 6 months pregnant at the time with my first child. I miss him so much some times it's hard to breath from the pain.
My sister passed suddenly 3 months ago during an epileptic seizure, she was 27. Our mom found her and I was on the phone with mom at the time. I still hear her scream😭 it’s so unreal and unfair. Siblings are supposed to stand by your side your entire life and grow old together. It’s traumatizing. #fuckepilepsy
My Brother died 4 months ago from Covid-19 on 2/11/22. His death was so unexpected never thought I’d ever lose by big brother. He went to the hospital because he had breathing problems and it was bad news he was on a ventilator and he only lasted 2 weeks before his heart and kidneys failed. My family and I never said our goodbyes because we thought he was getting better and going to come back home in a few days. But at least he knew he was loved. I miss his jokes, sense of humor and his love for our immediate family and his family. He loved his daughter so much she just turned 4 years old a few weeks before he passed away. I’m still trying to get used to this new normal. It’s just so quiet no more phone calls, no more posts on his social media & he was the life of the party to everyone that knew him. I had so many regrets. Wished I spent more time with him. Always thought he’d always be there. There’s no right way to deal with grief. There’s only your way. But you just have to learn the best qualities they had and adapt it into your life in memory of them. God has a new Angel in Heaven and may he Rest in Paradise. Miss you bro. 🙏
My little brother died 2 days ago at the age of 16, following a car crash that happened 4 days prior. I'm the eldest brother(25) and have 1 other younger brother(23). I can't cope
Thank you for reaching out, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. If you feel that you would like to speak with someone who can provide a listening ear and will offer support or signposting towards other help as appropriate, you can access CareLine - a confidential telephone and/or email service. You can find it here: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/support-for-you/family-life/careline/
My older sister died today at the age of 48. She wasn't in good health and I guess it was to much for her. She loved watching judge Judy it was one of her favorite shows. I will miss her greatly and her absence hurts a lot. I pray she has found peace and is in a better place.
Will we hope she has found peace too and are so sorry to hear of your loss. If you need any support do please get in touch: 029 2081 0800. We also have a support event in May: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/family-life/bereavement-support/brothers-and-sisters-life-after-loss/
I lost my big brother last year in August 2020 he was my protector and guide me through things as a brother should always do I feel the same way I know he's in a better place now and hope to see my big brother again sorry for yall lost we have to be their for one another and keep praying God will take away your pain and sadness away its okay to be sad.
My brother (only sibling) died back in 2018 from an OD. Thought life would be better by now but it’s worse, I decided to join him soon. I hope it breaks my parents hearts.
wouldnt it be a better revenge to break their hearts by living your life without them? If you're already considering death as an option...why not say fuck it, start a completely new life and keep playing the game? You could be anyone. You could find or experience some joy, some love, some pleasure...what do you have to lose
My fiancé’s sister just passed a few days ago to a car crash and we miscarried earlier this year and are currently pregnant I’m just worried for our life together and the health of her and the baby
Hi Daniel, we are so sorry to hear about the loss of your fiance's sister. You may find the extra resources and articles on our website helpful too: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/family-life/bereavement-support If we can support you in other way, please do get in touch.
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We have bereavement support resources on our website that you may find helpful: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/support-for-you/family-life/bereavement-support/
I lost my little sister about 2,5 months ago because of suicide. It happened a few days before my 18th birthday. She was 16. I hope everyone suffering from a loss can find some peace in their life this year.
1:45 man.......I miss my baby so much 😞😞😥😥😥 and like she said I talked to my brother every single day and then not at all? That was my best friend 💔 on everything else I hold dear, if I didnt have children, I'd go with him because I just cant do this
I lost my big brother when I was 11 years old, he was 14, shot and killed 10 years ago. I lost my big sister when I was 19, she was 20years old, laced with fentanyl died unknowingly 2 years ago. Neither the chance to have kids so I lost nieces and nephews too. Life is so weird
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. It does get easier and we know that talking to others who are experiencing the same pain and loss can be a great help too. We have a bereaved sibling support event coming up in November, full details on our website: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/events/bereavement-support-events/brothers-and-sisters-life-after-loss
this year, 2021, i lost my younger and only brother to lupus. we basically spent our childhood together and grew mature as the years go by. he was just 16 and it hurts me so much that i will continue to age and he will stay 16 forever. :( he's been gone for a month but it always feels like yesterday. there will always be a void in my life and i feel bad that i will continue living my life without him here. :((
I'm so so sorry, there is no way to describe the deep pain from losing a brother. My older brother 31, also had Lupus and passed away from covid just before Christmas, the hospital wouldn't let us see him. I still cry everyday, I don't know how to cope. It's almost like it's getting harder everyday.
@@Yolanda.b it truly is hard to live and do the usual stuff everyday. it doesn't even seem real at all... like your sibling, my brother was the comedian of the family -- the golden boy i shall say. them being a source of joy and laughter makes it harder for us to accept that they have passed. :((
I lost my older sister 6 months ago due to fentanyl-laced street drugs. It's becoming an ever-present problem in my country. There were 12 years between us.
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We have bereavement resources on our website which you may find helpful: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/family-life/bereavement-support Do get in touch if you need any further support.
I lost my little brother yesterday. He was only 18. I just returned back to the family home and walking into his bedroom and seeing all his things still lying there broke me in a way I can't describe
My only brother died unexpectedly on Sept 17… I agree with you. I don’t know how I’m supposed to live a normal life after this. He was so loved. I wish to speak with him or feel him.
I lost my dad when i was 9 and 7 years ago i lost my youngest brother....and now one month before i lost my only brother..i dont know what to do or not but i am totally lost to life
I just lost my older and only brother 2 days ago 11/24/21 he was only 48 years old I lost my older sister May 15/2021 49 years old and my other older sister Jan 3/2020 43 years old and I don't know what I'm going to do
Hi Erica, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. We have further bereavement support on our website that you may find helpful: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/family-life/bereavement-support
I lost my mother in 1998. The day that she went on life support i was weeping and tried dealing with it by drinking. After she was gone i dreamed of mom standing perfectly straight up and healthy. Before her passing away she was crippled & confined to a wheelchair.
I lost my older brother at 16 to his life long battle with cancer. He was 18. I’m 56 now. It’s been a long time. I cry for him still at times. His loss of a future and my survivors guilt for getting to live when it was stolen from him in the worst way. He always handled his impending death better than I did after he was gone. I did a lot to mask the pain. I almost died from that more than once. I didn’t really care. But I found peace in building a new life and creating a family of my own. Without them to care for I’m not sure I would have made it back to a happy and hopeful existence. You just have to keep going. Let it hurts sometimes and keep going any way.
My brother died 2 months ago after battling brain cancer and I'm just so broken...I pray I will see him again one day 🙏🏽❤
I'm so sorry honey, 😞 I lost mine a year ago on the 26th 💔 and I am so broken....it still feels like yesterday I NEED him and to have to live the rest of my life without him?
Lost my 13 year old brother to the same cause in January xx
Lost my sister almost two years ago to endometrial cancer. I feel everyone's pain in this thread here. Hugs for all of you.
So sorry
So sorry to hear that you’ll see him again someday
I lost my younger sister to cancer last month. She was a 47 year old WARRIOR. This is one of the hardest things I've ever had to endure. 😭
We are so sorry for your loss. If you need further support please do get in touch with us. You can find out more details about our bereavement support on our website: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/support-for-you/family-life/bereavement-support/
My brother passed away march 30 2020... he was my best friend & protector 💔💔💔 I will never be the same... I hope to see him again some day.. RIP eric
Sorry for your loss I also lost my brother who was my best friend in 8/5/2019 and I sometimes feel hard to even breathe when I remember him because he was my angel and not seeing him again is the hardest thing ever and I don’t wish anyone to go through this pain but sadly it’s something that will come sooner or later.
I lost my older brother on 17 April 2020. I could feel your pain. I still hope that I could turn back the clock and tell him how much I love him and miss him
So sorry to hear that mine died July 24th 2020
I too feel that deep pain....I also lost my Baby Brother, Fredrick, at the age of 41.....he was so much to me..
My best friend.....my protector....
I love him so much!
My older sister died 2 years ago from an OD at the age of 24, i never knew how much big of role my sister played. Now sitting 2 years later, her silence is LOUD, as iam now an only child at the age of 22. I just wish she was still here, iam so lost without her.
We are so sorry to hear of your loss Vincent. We have a bereaved sibling support day coming up this autumn that you may find helpful: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/events/bereavement-support-events/brothers-and-sisters-life-after-loss
Geez we all share the grief in common. I am glad I seeked out some videos as I am struggling. I lost my sister to a car accident and my brother falling out of a golf cart and having to take him off life support. I pray for all of you and thank you for sharing stories.
I lost my older brother 4 months ago .I still cant believe it .This has been the saddest I have ever been in my life. The Lord is who has given me strength when I felt I could not handle it.
Hi Pearl, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. Do please contact us if you need any further support vial mail@cff.org.uk or call 029 2088 0800. We also have bereavement support resources on our website: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/family-life/bereavement-support
@@careforthefamilyuk Thank you very much .God bless you.
My brother died three months ago due to a heart attack. He was my best friend, my protector, my second dad and my biggest hero. When he died, I felt like a large part of me died with him. I’ve never felt so much sadness before and most of the time I feel very lonely without him here. I miss him everyday and hope one day I’ll find some peace and understanding with his passing.
I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope that you will find some peace and understanding, as well. If you need someone to talk to, please get in touch with our specialist support team bit.ly/3PF58GH
i lost my little sister last month. she was only 20 and lake michigan took her from us. everyone who comes here from some trauma in your life. its okay. keep going, they wanted you to. for whatever reason they were lost, please find yourself. i hope you read this some day. thank you for posting this video. i miss her so much. if only everyone had more time with their loved ones. take care of yourself and be safe.
My only sibling, my beautiful sister Kara passed away from breat cancer September 10 2020. She was 43 and had 3 children. She was my best friend. I will never be the same! She was my soul mate!
My little brother James died of a rare sarcoma around his heart at 21. It’s so hard knowing he won’t be around for the rest of my life.. he was suppose to be the one person I would never say goodbye to. I try and focus on the fact that he is at peace and not in anymore pain... but it’s hard knowing I’ll never see his beautiful smile or hear his voice ever again. It sucks.
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I lost my older brother 6 weeks ago today. Miss him so much.
We are sorry to hear of your loss Em, do get in touch if we can support you further.
I lost my brother to suicide 8 months ago. It is the single most painful thing I’m constantly living with. I miss my brother to. I don’t think we realise how hard it is to live without someone we’ve never known the world without xx
@@megs1717 it’s been nearly 7 months for me now and it’s still not any easier. What you said is so true, so strange that they’ve been there your whole life and suddenly they’re gone. Actually just got a tattoo in memory of him today. Sending love to you xx
I'm very sorry . I pray for the pain to ease up . That you will be able to learn to live with the grief .
I'm so sorry for all of your losses. Thank you for sharing your hearts. My brother passed away April of 2021. My heart hurts so much for myself and my Daddy&Mom. I have been pouring my love for my brother onto my family,friends&people I don't even know. I have so much love for him and I don't want to keep it stuffed away. ❤❤❤
Someone liked this comment this evening. My Daddy passed unexpectedly from a blood clot just days after I typed this. I have been praying to see the beauty of life and for my heart to heal.❤ I still have family to love.
I lost my only brother to cancer when he was just 13 in 2013. I still can't get over with survivors guilt. I still wonder if my parent's wish, i was the one taken instead of him. I haven't celebrated any festivals in home thereafter. I don't grieve infront of anyone but some nights I still cry myself to sleep. I regret being left alone as an only child. I feel the expectations of my parent's , family members , everyone for me to be something extraordinary , or more resilient , or more successful because of an only child weighing me down. When in reality I still can't process that he is gone forever.
I feel afraid to love anything , cause the fear of it being taken away frightens me. My life will never be the same as it was before.
Hello. Just seeing your post, and wondering how you are doing?
I am so sorry for this great loss and pain you have been struggling with. I understand it- lost 2 siblings on the same day. I too felt left alone as the only remaining child. Decades ago but my heart still looks for them in the good and bad events of my life.
I hope you have something that brings you some escape and satisfaction, so you can forget your fears at least momentarily. The goal of our lives now boils down to not letting fear win.
I wish you peace. 🦋
My 20 year old brother died in July 2020 on a car crash and my 2nd 2-month year old brother just passed away this December 2020. This week I'm mourning his death,next week is my graduation, such a tragic thing to experience
We're so sorry to hear about the loss of your siblings Aphiwe. We have bereavement articles and further support on our website if you need it: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/family-life/bereavement-support
If you'd like any further support at this time please ring us on 029 2081 0800. All the best for your graduation.
I lost my 2 younger brothers on same day due to covid19.We shared a very beautiful bond.I am so shattered and wish to see them again some day.
We are so sorry to hear this Renuka, if you need any support do get in touch on 029 2081 0800 or mail@cff.org.uk. We also have bereavement support on our website: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/family-life/bereavement-support
Hi Renuka. I lost my brother from COVID-19 on 2/11/22. It’s so hard to go day by day without him. But you lost both of yours. I’m truly sorry for your loss and I hope time heals for the both of us and for people who lost their loved one. 🙏
Being a 18 year old, lost my brother who was just 6 years younger than me, it's so hard, I just can't understand what happened, why suddenly I can't talk with him, why I can't act stupid with him, I miss him each day. We used to do each and everything together, I don't wanna accept the fact that I will not see him ever. I think I will meet him soon or I might just go up there to meet him
I lost my sister in 12 / 2015 and she was most likely beaten to death by violent bf. He never came to justice as heroin was involved and his dad a cop. Regardless, besides the day-to-day struggle of knowing I'll never see her again, I've gotten to watch my mom and dad grieve so deeply which sometimes seems just as bad. She was 30 I was 26 at the time and she was my one and only older sister and I miss her so much
My older (42) brother was killed from a collision while he was parked on the shoulder of a highway. I keep hoping it will be less awful feeling and I just roll through day after day. I cant share anything I could have shared with him in the past. That relationship is gone. Someone in another of these videos said that you lose the past and the future with the death of a sibling and that is spot on.
Lost my 42 year old brother 8 years ago. I lost my past future and present. Not enough support for adult sibling loss. Im told to just get over it. I'm told I only lost a brother, get over it. People just don't get it.
Im so glad I found ur video my little brother dj died on June 1, 2019 and he was just 2 weeks away from turning 31. He died sudden and very unexpected. It took us almost a week to get his body back home to Arkansas from Georgia. His death has left me feeling so lost, alone, and guilty I couldn't save him, guilty I wasn't there, guilt cuz he died alone probably scared I dont know how to move on from this any advice from anyone that has lost a sibling especially anyone that has lost there only sibling I would greatly appreciate it thank u. And im so sorry for everyone's losses
Join a support group, journal, find an outlet, tell yourself it’s ok to grieve and grieve. I loss my baby sister on Halloween suddenly. I have zero closure but journaling is keeping me sane. Your in my thoughts and prayers. Don’t give up on yourself and Do Not blame yourself, it’s easy to make yourself the scapegoat.
Take care.
@@elishagarcia2568 oh thank you so much for that and yes I have joined to support groups online and they have been helping me and ive also got a journal now so I'm trying and im so sorry for your loss too your in my prayers
I am deeply hurting, just as we ALL are.....I lost my DEAR, PRECIOUS BROTHER 3 months ago....
On Dec. 5, 2021....
It hurts just as it did this minute he left me and this world behind....
Hi Peggy, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. Do reach out to us if you would like further support: 029 2081 0800. We also have a support event coming up in May that you might find helpful too: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/family-life/bereavement-support/brothers-and-sisters-life-after-loss/
My sister passed away last night , I am having a very hard time dealing with it. I'm totally heartbroken and lost. I really don't no how I'm going to get over this.
I lost my one and only big brother over 20 years ago and it still hurts. I often feel abnormal because so much time has passed, yet I'm still hurting as if the loss was recent. We were only 2 and a half years apart in age, so we were extremely close and did lots of things together. After he died, i had to force myself to graduate high school. He missed that. He also missed the birth of my nephew, his son. It's so tragic. He's missed everything. He didn't get to see his own son grow into a man.
I lost my older sister 4 years ago to a sudden heart attack. No one knew she was sick. I was the one who found her body sitting on her sofa. She and I had so much in common. We used to text each other all the time. Now I don’t have that with anyone. I miss her so much. You never get over something like this. My life will never be the same.
We are so sorry to hear of your loss, you may find the bereavement support on our website helpful: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/family-life/bereavement-support
I lost my big sister two weeks ago. I used to speak to her every day. We often talked for hours. I am trying to pretend she is just away which is not healthy. I sat with her body for five hours after she died so don't understand why I am acting in this way. Her funeral is this Friday. It is the early hours of Tuesday. Don't know how to get through this week let alone Friday. Don't know how to go through the rest of my life without her. She had lung cancer that spread to her bones and her brain. I looked after her with my brother in law for the last four weeks of lockdown and it was not easy to watch her fight just to breathe. She was so precious and I talked with her about everything. We have elderly parents, a Dad with dementia and now it is just me to look after them and to make all the decisions without her. She was my only sibling. She had two children aged 17 and 20. The pain is unbearable. There is a crater sized hole in me. There is no one on the planet now who knows the childhood things we both shared. That makes me so sad.
Hi Sam, we are truly sorry to hear of your loss, thank you so much for sharing your story. We have bereavement resources on our website which you may find helpful: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/family-life/bereavement-support
We also run events for those who have lost adult siblings and will be announcing dates for 2021 soon. Finally, do call us on 029 2081 0800 if you need any extra support from our CareLine team.
That’s how I feel right now lost mine 4days ago
Its hard to deal with the loss of a sibling. I lost 2 at the same time. When i was first informed of it, my body shook as if i was freezing. I became dazed and speechless. A few weeks before i lost my dad, a weeping spirit came on me. I didnt at the time know why i would pull off to the side of the road and begin weeping heavily. At my dads funeral i was totally dry eyed and i could not weep. I understood then that God was preparing me for the funeral. Completely dry eyed.
I was the same way. I lost my lil sis and father at the same time.
My sister was took away at the cross road 21 January 2022, 3 days before her birthday. We used to talk everyday. I still sent her memes and videos like i used to. I miss her so much.
My dear friend and brother Robert xx taken so suddenly on January 27th x feel the pain and the loss so much x will see you again sweet brother of mine x
I lost my brother in July 2022... he was 23 I was 6 months pregnant at the time with my first child. I miss him so much some times it's hard to breath from the pain.
My sister passed suddenly 3 months ago during an epileptic seizure, she was 27. Our mom found her and I was on the phone with mom at the time. I still hear her scream😭 it’s so unreal and unfair. Siblings are supposed to stand by your side your entire life and grow old together. It’s traumatizing. #fuckepilepsy
My Brother died 4 months ago from Covid-19 on 2/11/22. His death was so unexpected never thought I’d ever lose by big brother. He went to the hospital because he had breathing problems and it was bad news he was on a ventilator and he only lasted 2 weeks before his heart and kidneys failed. My family and I never said our goodbyes because we thought he was getting better and going to come back home in a few days. But at least he knew he was loved. I miss his jokes, sense of humor and his love for our immediate family and his family. He loved his daughter so much she just turned 4 years old a few weeks before he passed away. I’m still trying to get used to this new normal. It’s just so quiet no more phone calls, no more posts on his social media & he was the life of the party to everyone that knew him. I had so many regrets. Wished I spent more time with him. Always thought he’d always be there. There’s no right way to deal with grief. There’s only your way. But you just have to learn the best qualities they had and adapt it into your life in memory of them. God has a new Angel in Heaven and may he Rest in Paradise. Miss you bro. 🙏
My little brother died 2 days ago at the age of 16, following a car crash that happened 4 days prior. I'm the eldest brother(25) and have 1 other younger brother(23). I can't cope
Thank you for reaching out, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. If you feel that you would like to speak with someone who can provide a listening ear and will offer support or signposting towards other help as appropriate, you can access CareLine - a confidential telephone and/or email service. You can find it here: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/support-for-you/family-life/careline/
My older sister died today at the age of 48. She wasn't in good health and I guess it was to much for her. She loved watching judge Judy it was one of her favorite shows. I will miss her greatly and her absence hurts a lot. I pray she has found peace and is in a better place.
Will we hope she has found peace too and are so sorry to hear of your loss. If you need any support do please get in touch: 029 2081 0800. We also have a support event in May: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/family-life/bereavement-support/brothers-and-sisters-life-after-loss/
I lost my older brother 2 months ago I’m so sad and so broken I love him so much x
I lost my brother last week. I'm DEVASTATED! I can't see, talk or text him anymore.😭
I lost my big sister last week too to cancer. I feel numb and lost. Sorry for your loss.
@@jennymajid1964 Thank you for your kind words. My condolences for the loss of your sister.
I lost my big brother last year in August 2020 he was my protector and guide me through things as a brother should always do I feel the same way I know he's in a better place now and hope to see my big brother again sorry for yall lost we have to be their for one another and keep praying God will take away your pain and sadness away its okay to be sad.
My oldest brother died on Mar 25 2023 due to complications of diabetes. He was 73.
I lost my little sister to suicide at age 29 one month ago. My heart is completely and utterly broken.
My brother (only sibling) died back in 2018 from an OD. Thought life would be better by now but it’s worse, I decided to join him soon. I hope it breaks my parents hearts.
I know how it feels, I lost my older brother 5 years ago I was 12 at the time. Just know you are loved.
And it will eventually get better
wouldnt it be a better revenge to break their hearts by living your life without them? If you're already considering death as an option...why not say fuck it, start a completely new life and keep playing the game? You could be anyone. You could find or experience some joy, some love, some pleasure...what do you have to lose
I hope you're still here, I'm sure your brother would rather you live your life and keep him alive in your memory.
I lost my sister four months ago to alcohol and I feel so bad for not being able to save her I’m missing her so much now.
My fiancé’s sister just passed a few days ago to a car crash and we miscarried earlier this year and are currently pregnant I’m just worried for our life together and the health of her and the baby
Hi Daniel, we are so sorry to hear about the loss of your fiance's sister. You may find the extra resources and articles on our website helpful too: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/family-life/bereavement-support
If we can support you in other way, please do get in touch.
I lost my elder sister who was my best friend and role model a month ago in an accident . Not able to accept the reality and move yet
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We have bereavement support resources on our website that you may find helpful: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/support-for-you/family-life/bereavement-support/
I lost my little sister about 2,5 months ago because of suicide. It happened a few days before my 18th birthday. She was 16.
I hope everyone suffering from a loss can find some peace in their life this year.
We are so sorry to hear of your loss Nektaria, do get in touch with our CareLine team on 029 2081 0800 if you need any support.
1:45 man.......I miss my baby so much 😞😞😥😥😥 and like she said I talked to my brother every single day and then not at all? That was my best friend 💔 on everything else I hold dear, if I didnt have children, I'd go with him because I just cant do this
I lost my big brother when I was 11 years old, he was 14, shot and killed 10 years ago. I lost my big sister when I was 19, she was 20years old, laced with fentanyl died unknowingly 2 years ago. Neither the chance to have kids so I lost nieces and nephews too. Life is so weird
I lost my brother nearly 2 years ago. I still cry every day. The pain is just as much today as it was the day he left. Does it ever go or subside?
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. It does get easier and we know that talking to others who are experiencing the same pain and loss can be a great help too. We have a bereaved sibling support event coming up in November, full details on our website: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/events/bereavement-support-events/brothers-and-sisters-life-after-loss
I lost my older Brother in September.
this year, 2021, i lost my younger and only brother to lupus. we basically spent our childhood together and grew mature as the years go by. he was just 16 and it hurts me so much that i will continue to age and he will stay 16 forever. :( he's been gone for a month but it always feels like yesterday. there will always be a void in my life and i feel bad that i will continue living my life without him here. :((
I'm so so sorry, there is no way to describe the deep pain from losing a brother. My older brother 31, also had Lupus and passed away from covid just before Christmas, the hospital wouldn't let us see him. I still cry everyday, I don't know how to cope. It's almost like it's getting harder everyday.
@@Yolanda.b it truly is hard to live and do the usual stuff everyday. it doesn't even seem real at all... like your sibling, my brother was the comedian of the family -- the golden boy i shall say. them being a source of joy and laughter makes it harder for us to accept that they have passed. :((
I lost my older sister 6 months ago due to fentanyl-laced street drugs. It's becoming an ever-present problem in my country. There were 12 years between us.
I lost my sister on 13 march this year in a car accident she fought in icu for 5 days 😢😢😢😢😢😢
Just lost my older brother. Ive lost two brother's. They were good men. And I feel so 💔 😢
Sending strength and love your way. BB...So sorry for your losses and pain.
@@pleashette9108 Thank so much
I a also lost my two brothers
I lost my dear brother 😢 💔 3 weeks ago and now I feel 💔💔💔💔💔😭😭😭😭😭
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Please do get in touch if you'd like further support for your and your family: mail@cff.org.uk
My brobro, Xavier 💙 Nov 1, 2021
I lost my brother in September he got killed
Loss mine in April too... :-(
My younger brother was murdered on June 12th, 2021
@Annie Fun Thank You
May he Rest In Peace 🕊️
Im sobbing 😢
I lost my older brother last Thursday. He was one of my best friends
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We have bereavement resources on our website which you may find helpful: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/family-life/bereavement-support
Do get in touch if you need any further support.
I lost my little brother yesterday. He was only 18. I just returned back to the family home and walking into his bedroom and seeing all his things still lying there broke me in a way I can't describe
My older brother and only brother died unexpectedly six days ago. The physical pain of my grief is unbearable. How will I go on?
My only brother died unexpectedly on Sept 17… I agree with you. I don’t know how I’m supposed to live a normal life after this. He was so loved. I wish to speak with him or feel him.
I lost my dad when i was 9 and 7 years ago i lost my youngest brother....and now one month before i lost my only brother..i dont know what to do or not but i am totally lost to life
I just lost my older and only brother 2 days ago 11/24/21 he was only 48 years old I lost my older sister May 15/2021 49 years old and my other older sister Jan 3/2020 43 years old and I don't know what I'm going to do
Today was my Brothers funeral im lost
Hi Erica, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. We have further bereavement support on our website that you may find helpful: www.careforthefamily.org.uk/family-life/bereavement-support
I lost my mother in 1998. The day that she went on life support i was weeping and tried dealing with it by drinking. After she was gone i dreamed of mom standing perfectly straight up and healthy. Before her passing away she was crippled & confined to a wheelchair.
So painful
12.15.22 My sister 49 she went in her sleep
he fell from a mountain
2:30
My big brother passed Dec 29, 2021 due to Covid at 39. I'm still broken by it.