The Moment My Sibling Passed Away
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 เม.ย. 2016
- “That number doesn’t work anymore…”
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When that one woman said "Oh no... that number doesn't work anymore." I absolutely lost it
same
same
same
Thank you, because now I don't have to type that while crying. I had the same reaction, her expression and emotion, the damn of tears just broke.
Same. I was trying to hold it inside and now I am just crying so hard :'(
"Maybe the weight is still heavy, I've just gotten stronger..."
I read that comment the moment she said that 😪
Gia Omila me too😥😥
Gia Omila same :(
SAME
months and months the more they will be missed the longer it gets the more it hurts ..
"that number doesn't work anymore.." completely broke my heart
Same
same
It hurt me on a personal level
sunaina jain same
Same... 😭
*goes downstairs, hugs my lil bro cries like a baby*
My 9 year old bro- what is wrong cow?
LMFAOOOOOOO SAME
😂😂😂😂
Same ☺️😭
tarin cook XD
tarin cook this made me cry
"It doesn't get easier. It gets more manageable" - I like that.
Talking Kitty Cat
Didn't expect to see you here
Talking Kitty Cat hey Sylvester
Quindixie I know, right!!??
Talking Kitty Cat Hey, whatcha doin’ here?
We all deeply miss Gibson, and wish our deepest condolences, Steve. 😿👼
When she said "Oh no,that number doesn't work anymore" I lost it😭
I tear up every time her voice shakes saying that
Same
Did you look in the lost and found?
grass doggo Not funny, stop.
I wish my brother was alive. He would be 13 nowadays. I wish my neighbors didn't give his name to their child. I hear it everyday when they're calling him and it hurts because I know it's not my brother.
Daniella Cartwright may his soul rest in peace💟 he is definitely in a better place and angels must be calling his name rest assured 💟
Daniella Cartwright bllu
Oh my god... i can imagine that... i’m so lucky i have my brother still.... best hopes for you stranger....
Daniella Cartwright Did your neighbors know? If they did, that’s horrible, you should talk to them
Lolli Pops they do, and that's why I hate them. Their son was born just a year after my brother died.
I lost my sister to suicide, I was also the one who found her. I was only 8, she was 13. My parents asked me to go into her room and ask her something. I just remember going in, seeing her lying on her bed, emotionless. There was a lot of blood, i couldn’t see where from, since there was so much of it. I just remember screaming, being so confused but I knew exactly what happened. She was bullied, she had learning difficulties, so the other kids teased her. Just remember, think about what you’re saying before you say it. It might be too late.
emily :] Keep your head up💚
good lord... I'm so sorry.. Oh my god
Thank you Emily xx I'm sorry for your loss
I am so so sorry for your loss. You will be in my prayers❤️
I lost my baby sister because she went to sleep and never woked up
My then 8 year old sister went through chemotherapy in 2011 for cancer and I remember not knowing how much longer I had with her. Luckily, after one year of chemo she was cancer free and is now a healthy, annoying 13 year old.
Beautiful story
❤️😂
+twentyonetylers congrats!
I am happy for you. Treasure that annoying sister of yours ;)
Be Glad you have her still with you
I'm never going to say anything bad to my brother, again.
Same
Mariam G Same
Mariam G same
Mariam G yep😭
Mariam G I try to be nice but never works 😖😖😖😑
I was suicidal, and I'm glad i didn't give my family that pain. And i'm glad my depressed sister is still here.
Emppos fighting!! 💙
Emppos I was/am suicidal and I am fighting for my family. However much I may think they may hate me or not want me around, I still have that logical voice talking me into and out of things. Have a wonderful day!
Well thank you for thinking about others, you mean a lot to them. Stay strong the storm will pass
I know how you feel
Emppos same my sister went to a mental hospital because she would lightly slit her arms and thighs.thank god she is still living
The guy (Shane) honestly is the strongest person that I've known.
He lost his brother AND was sexually assaulted AND deals with depression and yet he is holding on till today.
Truly a brave and courageous man.
Hats off. I wish you nothing but happiness in life👍👍👍👍
Ps: AND he is super cute
i tell my brother mean things every day the truth is i cant live without him
same
snaxtv i wish i had a brother.. like an elder one..n we'd be like best buddies 🤔
snaxtv wow same
You should tell him that
snaxtv Same =)
WHO'S CUTTING THE DAMNED ONIONS
Me
Cool Cats stap ittttttt
Not now
+K Mahaffey Ninjas. Always ninjas. Damn onion cutting ninjas ruining my day... =/
+tymki lol
I watched this video last year, and didn't think I'd be in the same situation as them today.
I am so so sorry. I’m sending my prayers❤️
I'm so sorry. Its hard, very hard. Please take care
I’m so sorry, please take care
Wow. So sorry.
What happened
0:50
“In my dream, I will pick him up and hold him”
Jesus that was deep
I lost two sisters the past 4 yrs...my heart aches
Kelly Oliver May they be resting peacefully. I'm sorry for your loss. I pray that the loss becomes more manageable and that you can regain peace back in your heart.
Kelly Oliver
omgg
i am so sorry for ur lost
i hope every thing gets better for u and ur family
Idk you but I love you , stay strong ❤️
thank you for such nice comments. I have watched this video a couple times, it helps to know it's not just me. I don't talk about my sisters that are gone and I think that's a problem now. when I went to my big sisters/best friend funeral I covered my ears discreetly and kept my eyes to the ground. there was 58 squares in the carpet pattern. when it was over I jumped up and waited outside. I'm 37yrs old acting like a child. I still text her and really want her to reply. Too many deaths of close family has messed up head. KIM!!! my beautiful sister!! I still need you
so, I want to get a lil more out..my other sister that passed was without a doubt very strong. I stood by her side when her 8month old son passed and I tried to help her through her depression after. I was on my way to her when she passed, I didn't make it in time. I sat right in front next to our dad holding his hand at her funeral. Shawn is missed and I do my best looking after her kids and my other sister's kids. I have both of there ashes in beautiful blown glass urns. I just added my mom's ashes. she passed away on my birthday/mother's day this year. I think it's just too much and how can I talk to my friends, the people I trust when they aren't alive anymore. So many questions and no answers 😑
I don't get along with my brother at all and though there's a lot of animosity between us, I can't imagine ever losing him.
same
Same
very relatable to my pseudo love hate relationships with my friends
even though they might hate me or i hate them most of the time, it is hard to think of a world without them
it will be like a hole never able to be stitched no matter how hard you try
Same
+Shelby Moore same with me i cant get along with him but i cant imagine the world without him
As much as the loss of a parent hurts, you subconsciously prepare yourself for it to happen because it's just the natural order of things. But gosh - I just can't imagine losing my sister. It would be a complete shock and actually the worst thing that could possibly happen.
Same, I love my sister so much
*father
Louella.y be glad you still have her I lost my brother at the age of 11 and I miss him everyday
Lupita Alvarez I'm so sorry xx
I lost my brother from suicide
Losing a sibiling is the most painful thing I've ever felt..the house is so empty and silent now,i don't have anyone calling me "apo",I don't have anyone's bag I have to carry,i don't have anyone I can study with at home now..I just cry for that emptiness
I know that you know me
I’m so sorry for your loss. I wish you and your family the utmost strength & courage and I hope your sibling is in a better place now. Stay strong, love! x
I know that you know me I lost my niece to cancer and I see the pain that her sister feels! I'm sorry for your lost. xxx
Im a girl with 3 sisters, we lost our big brother.
I feel so empty, its so hard.
In every nice guy i see my brother.
But it made me closer my sisters and i just know he is there when we are together...
Everytime someone says how unlucky my father is (farmer with 4 daughter...), its like they stabbed me...
I let them and its not their fault, but please think before you speak.
god bless
@@anja6983 stay strong
We use to fight. A lot. Sometimes we would say we hate each other, but in reality I can't see myself without my them.
same
same
Same
Same
+Chelsea Gomez I like yours too. I wish my name was your name.
This is honestly an eye opener for me.. I've contemplated suicide since I was 12 years old. I'm 16 now. I think about what it would be like to not be alive anymore and who would honestly care? But I see these people who care a ton about their siblings and how much they would give to see and hold and embrace their sibling one last time. I don't want to be selfish. I don't want my family to cry every time they think of me. I don't want them to blame themselves for my selfish act. I need to be there for them. Thank you so much for this.
EMMA LOVE you are honestly so loved never give up
EMMA LOVE I had suicidal ideation at those ages too. I've struggled with depression most of my life, but now at 24 I have thr ugh coping mechanisms, support systems, and so on to be able to live a great life even with all of this. I'm even completely free from depression at this moment, and I can say that the struggle to keep going is always worth it. It's a fight and I will acknowledge the strength in all who have fought this war. Victory is... fantastic. I'm not saying you will always have an amazing time when you get better, but you will be alright. You will find happiness. Many of us have been there, and I suggest seeking out a support group, people to talk to. Don't romanticise your depression, wallow in your sadness with others. Share and seek out ways to cope, take an hour and a day at a time. That really, really, works. I did that for 3 years before going to university at 22, and looking back? I did some pretty great stuff during those years. Don't overwhelm yourself, don't focus on the day you should be better, focus on one thing at a time. That's how I found recovery. Know you're not alone.
Living is worth it. Take it from someone who's struggled with clinical depression at many stages of my life, as well as mild depression and various anxiety disorders. Life is more of a struggle for some of us, we just need to find alternative ways that makes life good for us, and live that way.
EMMA LOVE youre very brave hun. i was in that place too. a couple months ago, believe it or not, i got out of it. i dont really know how but i know you will. stay strong
EMMA LOVE your comment made me cry Please remembered that you are loved by your family and always will be ❤️
Our Father is always with you, girly. If you ever wish to talk, I'm here as well. God loves you. God Bless you all. ❤️
Every time you lose a loved one, it doesn’t just hurt, it doesn’t get easier.
You don’t just lose them, you lose a piece of your existence, you lose a piece of your lifestyle, you lose another reason to keep on living
What if you loose them, before you exist?
My parents (farmers) have 4 daughters and we all had a bigger brother.
I miss him. It hurts.
He was young when he died and im a christian, so my great pleasure is it to "show him places" to send him happiness...
Its like a hole. Damn i didnt know him, but i miss him so much.
I learned through him that love goes deep, you can love a person, before you even exist or after existancens.
I hope he sees my tears and the laughter i share with my sisters.
I miss you.
It hurts so much when people laugh and say " your poor dad", because we are just 4 girls ...
Me not telling them is like i stabbed myself...
But my brother is mine, just mine and its also comforting
Since I lost my papaw, I still have the weight on my shoulder. I still cry talking about him. HE was and still is my bestfriend. We’d do everything together. He’d tell me stories and take me on four wheeler ride, we’d find turtles and take them home, we’d pick pears, and he’d make me the most amazing pancakes. There will never be anyone just like him. And the dog I’ve had since I was a baby, she passed this year. She was also my other half, my protector, and my love. When I lost them both, I lost the biggest pieces of me. Pieces I can’t get back, and that won’t heal. I wish I would’ve been able to see my dog one last time before she passed. I’m still heart broken, but letting a complete stranger know my feeling, it makes me feel a bit better.
Ohh is god know that had other people that feeling this. Usually the people around tell me that a have move on and leave them arrest. But talk about it is freedom someway. I believe that They took a parte of us but they left a part of them with us. imagine how miserable life was If us never met them . A Brazilian hug for ALL my pain brothers and sister stay strong everyone 🥰💞🌷💪👊
"I can't tell how many time I've gone to the phone and went 'oh no....that number doesn't work anymore'" I broke 😭 I've watched this more than 30+ times and I still cry at that part
Unsalted_Cakepop SAME!!! That part kills me because my mom told me that when her sister died she did that and would just sit there listening to her voicemail message 😭
I work in a call centre for a phone company, we have so many people calling to disconnect lines for family members who have passed away and it’s some of the hardest conversations I’ve had.
I still do this to my friends telegram page and my sisters Facebook page....ile never get a reply agian.
We hate our siblings, but we aren't anything without them...
edwing herrera hate is a strong word. I hate them too a lot, but we used to be 5 and i would never wish that i wouldnt have them. No matter what. That what siblings teach us
I miss him so much, you shouldnt say that
edwing herrera I hate my siblings but I love them as well if they died I would cry for ages and never stop
blue galaxy samr
edwing herrera yes god made them for a reason to love and care for a amount of time God will always know when it's time to stay or go in life is hard butt live fullest with or without him
This hurts so much to watch. My twin sister had brain cancer when we were kids, and she was so bad we didn't think she'd make it. We prepared ourselves for losing her. But we were so lucky that she survived. Last year she got a benign tumor, and the two days after the surgery I was with my friends to bake Christmas treats and they called me and said that she had very concerning blood test results that could indicate an infection. I know too many people who've died from an infection after brain surgery. Once again I thought I was going to lose her. But almost a year later she is here, the tumor is gone. She is far from fine, but she is... here. And every day I am so thankful for her, for still being able to talk to her, spend time with her, hug her, have dinners with her... Will never take her for granted in my life. I am so thankful I don't have this in common with the people in this video. So thankful.
❤️❤️❤️
Rebecca S push through I can feel what you are going through with my brother he is my everything and I am his and he keeps on almost getting sick and almost dying and I can understand ❤️
Rebecca S i think i'm gona cry because this is such a sad real story 😢
Rebecca S Same , my 9 year old sister has brain cancer . 22 hours after the surgery her kidneys stopped working . They completely changed her blood 7 times . She had 3 surgeries in 24 hours . This happed Just yesterday when her kidneys stopped working . Even if i loose her i hope she goes to heaven . I regret saying so many things to her .
Rebecca S You're really lucky. Wished I had the kinda luck like you.
I am so mean to my little sis,but the truth is....I dunno how I will live without her 😢😢😢😢
Ajna Vejzovic same
Pls learn to be nice to her
My older brother passed away & we weren’t always nice to each other. That’s all I wish for
@@10mirandapanda mee too
Me too...
I feel horrible, I kind of ignore my brother, don’t appreciate him, he is 2 years younger then me
This video put me in tears
I’m honestly blessed to have a sibling and I never want to have to go with the pain of him leaving me.😭
God bless these people, losing your sibling I can’t even imagine it right now. They are fighters.
If you have siblings, appreciate them, you don’t know when they’ll be gone 😭😭😭
go give him a hug ❤️
I treated my big sister like crap a lot, but she was killed before I could apologize.
It haunts me everyday that I never got the chance to make it up to her.
I’d give an eternity of pain for just one moment with my brother. Just to say goodbye
Beauty 101 l do
You r the luckiest
my sister comes to me in my dreams and says "sorry this isn't real". it hurts so much
rip
+Higgs Bozon I can't relate, but I am sorry to hear that. Sending you light.
I have similar things happen with my brother. I'm so sorry you have to live with that pain.
I'm so sorry, I'll keep you in my prayers
"That number doesn't work anymore" when I cried my eyes out
I lost my sister last year due to Lymphoma, cancer of the Lymph Nodes. The moment she died, I felt a huge part of myself lost and afraid. We used to fight but we both know that these fights are just our bonding. The moment, I knew she died, that was when we celebrated New Year's eve on the hospital, I was sleeping but suddenly woke up because I felt a strong shiver within my spine. Ive felt that something was wrong. I suddenly stunned for the whole minute as I heard my mom was on the phone with dad, trying to plan a funeral plan. The words were still stuck up in my head. I sobbed and told to myself, "Why? Why my sister? I need her to be with my side forever. Why, lord, why? Im only 13 years old, I don't deserve this....." I can still remember every detail the night as to which my sister died.
RIP
Angelika Velasco, My one and only Neechan.
I am so sorry...... always stay strong.....God bless you
Hi me hear in same situation we can be sisters if you like
Whats neechan??
Also deep condolences 💐
My older sister died just yesterday 😢😢😢. I saw this video month earlier and just thought how lucky i am to still have all my siblings and now she is gone before i could tell her i'm sorry and how much she means to me.
Jasmin rest in peace my sweetheart you are always with me. We all love you sooo much ❤❤❤
D. O. I'm so sorry. Rip 🕊🕊
@@Disius1805 thank you ❤ take care.
I occasionally think about life without certain special people in my life, my brother being one of them, and it always hurts to even think about it, I can't even imagine how hard it is for them to think about it let alone talk about it. May their lost loved ones rest in peace.
True.
Same. I don't know what i would do without my older sister...she is everything for me and i always think about that :(
+Graphic Design Guy yup its true because my brother and i never agree and were always arguing but i could never imagine the world without him
My little brother passed away right after he was born. I never had the chance to meet him but it still hurts, I can't even imagine the pain these people have gone through.
I love your comments and the thought that seems to go into these and I hope anyone that has lost some close friend or family can remember that we'll (TH-cam community) will support you.
I lost my baby brother 8 years ago and I wish he was here so I could watch him grow up...
I'm sorry soooo soooooooo sorry
KlaskadeSims same thing my mom had to abort a baby cause he didn't make it I wish he was here so I can raise him and so I can be with him when my sister is gone for college
Im so lucky to have all of my siblings but my older sister is a suicide attempt survivor and so we take all of that kind of stuff seriously
KlaskadeSims My condolences to your family. Wish you get better soon.
KlaskadeSims same but older brother 3 yrs ago
"That number doesn't work anymore" hit me like a ton of bricks
This video is so saddening , in 2008 I lost my 8 year old brother I was 11 at the time. I watched him take his last breath. I watched my mother carry his lifeless body outside not knowing that that was the last time I would ever see him again. I had 3 other siblings as well who all witnessed this. I was so hard on myself especially being the oldest I always think of what I could of done differently to save his life even though it wasn’t my fault. It’s so hard to not think of the what if’s. But me and my siblings got through it together. Then life took a turn for the worse 2 years later in 2010 my 7 year old brother passed away from the same thing. It was unbelievable. To make it worse it happened at his school. It was all over the news. To this day I’m still in shock that I’ve lost 2 siblings but it just made me cherish my siblings more and more growing up. I don’t think my heart can take another loss. I think of killing myself all the time because deep in my heart I KNOW they didn’t wanna go. I feel like I failed as a big sister 😢😢😢💔 RIP Keavion & Kalaan continue to watch over us especially mom we love you so much
SuperAirhead08 if get suicidal again and need someone to talk to just comment here , I’ll reply . You are not alone ☀️☀️☀️
Honey it's time for you to seek professional help. Especially in the black community and you being the oldest we don't talk about intense life changing traumatic events. We feel like we need to 'carry on' and that's exactly what your doing. Carrying on but not living! Go to a therapist that is specialised in grieving or maybe your school offers free counseling but just know that your other siblings need you EVERYDAY.
Was they sick?
SuperAirhead08 I’m so sorry for your loss. Please know that it’s not your fault. And remember that if you ever need to talk I’m here❤️
In 2008 i lost my brother on a car accident he was 18...im so sorru for ur loss...
R.i.p my brother and my girlfriend 💔
RIP
Thanks💙
Hope you get through that, R.I.P.
R.I.P💝
Stay strong 💜💙
😇👼🏼just know they are watching you and you need to do things that will make them proud 💜💙💚💛❤️💗
i can't imagine life without my sister, she's my best friend
Awe
Me too💖 we are two years apart but if you didn't know any better you'd think we were twins.
+Brysdollies so are me and my sister😌 shes two years younger than me
may God never seperate you ♡
same
18 years gone...Today is his birthday.
Miss you brother.
Hugs to everyone in this video
I woke up yesterday from a call, It was my mom. She said “it’s bad, it’s really bad, An**** is gone” she was a friend becoming my sister. Knowing I was so supported and so loved by a new sister was amazing. She’s gone now. She was 24. ❤️
Watching this makes me realise how much I love my annoying little brother xx
hipp
Same haha
Lol me too
i love the fact that you put annoying 😂😂😂😂
Don't tell us we don't matter. Tell him.
I'd be devastated if I ever lose my brother.
Same.
Same. I have a brother as well. Glad he's alive. Lucky.
Same, even though he's so annoying.
Yeah my big brother can be a pain but I still love him even tho I never show it.
same my brother is mu idol i dont know what I would do :(
Warning if you just lost a loved one you are gonna cry during this video 😥
I lost my sister 9 years ago. The pain never heals, we just learn how to live with it. If anyone reads this I would like to say how much your parents love you. The pain of losing my subling was horrible, but it doesn't come close to the pain Ive seen my parents go through. Learn to love an appreciate your people every single day.
That number doesn't work anymore, Wow that saddened my heart
"oh no, that number doesnt work anymore."
Sameeeeeee I love all of these videos the people always make me cry
I never cry anymore because i already used all my tears before😞
Same
+reactiegever me too
😢
my sister recently passed away... and for once in my life I finally understood the quote "it doesn't get easier it gets more manageable". i love you anastasia. and i think about u everyday.
I lost my Dad to suicide 8 years ago and my mum is sometimes suicidal.
I'm in tears rn 😢😢
Same...😢😢😢
+Koneko Kitty same 😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭😭
I only liked the comment to make it an even number
+Carmen Camarero Sammeeeee
Me 2
me and brother don't always get along but we do have like nice awesome Times together and I just live him so much
Same!
+Megan Schmitt me and my sister
Same with me and my sister
Yeah I really love my sister. I hope that she really knows that
+Megan Schmitt Hold those times close to you. Cherish every moment you have with him even if you guys are fighting or at each others necks. I lost my brother about 3 years ago and we were like you and your sibling. We didn't always get along and we fought most of the time, but deep down we loved each other. I would give anything to have those moments back even if they were hard and not always happy. Many times siblings don't realize how much they really mean to each other until they lose them or there is distance between them. You grow into this comfortableness with them always being there that you forget that they can vanish at any second. And when that comfort is taken way, when that security blanket is no longer over you, that does crazy, horrible things to people. So tell your loved ones you love them, even if you tend to fight all the time.
I lost my little sister 😭💔2 months ago suddenly suffered from a brain haemorrhage. we did everything together grown up I am only 2 years older than her. I still can't believe my heart hurts so much I can't sleep. Tomorrow is never promised Love your loved ones
Lost my older brother 5 years ago when I was 13, he passed away in his sleep and my heart still aches to this day. I remember just hearing my mother scream trying to get him up and I'd walked into her trying to wake him up, I just remember me just dropping to my knees crying😭, my mother was so hurt and I was too. I miss you bubba and can't wait to see you again. Also I miss you too daddy😭❤️🙏🏻
Mileven Vibes ❤️❤️❤️
Please stay strong :( I lost my dad too
Aww I called my Bubba too before he passed away. Blessings to you and your family ♡
Damn Buzzed back at it again with the tears. :'(
+maryon ottathil Yeah, i dont think thats funny
Buzzfeels
this joke went old ages ago
I hate this video because it is so sad
+maryon ottathil I know of damn daniel, i get it. But still, even if this commenter "mirifica" referred to this meme, doesnt mean it should be carried on
My sister died last year in a car accident and it would be her birthday today. I miss her so much
Don't worry, she's in a better place now.
I'm so sorry. I don't know how I'd handle it if I lost my sister. You are so strong, and your sister knows that. May she rest in peace.
im so sorry for you so much
Im sorry for your lose.
I'm so sorry....June 26 is my birthday day as well
I watched this video years ago and thought "wow I can't ever imagine losing one of my siblings" and then 3 months ago my brother suddenly passed away. These videos hit so much harder when you relate on a personal level
I thought the same, too. And now I'm also a member of this unfortunate club :(( hugs to you. It's coming up 4 years now since my younger sibling died. It sucks beyond belief, as you know, but we are so lucky to have experienced our siblings in our lives.
I'm glad there is hope, lost my brother a month ago and I don't feel like there is much hope to keep going, it's so exhausting just getting through a day
@@mozberg2191 hugs to you. You will figure out how to survive, and eventually live again. I live for my sister now. Live for your brother because he didn't get to 💖
@@mozberg2191 I'm so sorry you have to experience this heartbreak, sending lots of love your way. The first few months are heart wrenching but hang in there, the sun starts shining again eventually even if it doesn't seem like it ever will again right now. You have a listening ear right here if you ever need it ❤
Just today my older sister said that she felt she was not good enough, I said that she was the best sister she could ever be. Now I know that no matter how much we fight, she will always love me.
my brother died yesterday and it's the hardest thing i've ever been through ... he was so perfect he was the best i miss him so much
Ahmed bash I'm so sorry for your loss!! I'll be praying for you and your family!!
Emma VandenOever thank you emma i really appreciate it 💕 it have been one month now and it's still hard for me and my family.
Ahmed bash I'm so so soooo sorry for you're loss!!
+Galaxy Panda ❤❤
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I watched this video a week or so ago and I remember thinking "I'm glad this is never gonna happen to me, I can't imagine it at all" and now I'm here..I'm here again because my brother passed away a few days ago in a car crash and I have so much guilt, I wish I had hugged him more often or told him I loved him more and and I don't know..I don't know I just wish this is a nightmare and I'm gonna wake up soon :( please cherish ur siblings, you'll never know when they'll be gone and try to hug them and show them love more often. God knows I wish I did
Karina Herrera wow that crazy sorry for your loss. Update on how you're doing?
Stay strong. Hope this gets to u
I lost my big brother mars 2019 he didn’t want to live anymore I miss him he was so sweet and funny and He supported me I believe he would have been a great man but I hope he is having fun wherever he is❤️
When I was months old like 8 months my sibling side in my moms belly god I wish I saw his or hers face I wish I'd give you advice I wish I could of had a buddy and I wish I saw your face I wish I'd held your hand when you get scared I wish I saw you everyday 😭but it happens for a reason but now your in a better place .
was it a miscarriage or something? i read it 5 times. cant seem to understand sorry
RiptideV10 They mean died and yes, unfortunately it was a miscarriage.
Xoxokarlitaaa the tears are a gushing
Xoxokarlitaaa omg im so sorry im litery crying rn😭😭😭😢
Shelby Epic Omg his heart dropped in Valentains day and event omg im sorry for ur loss😣😭😢😭😢
Seeing this while you're on your period....
😢😭😿
I know
amen!!!
Yess💔😩
Nope
Right?!!
"It doesn't get easier. It gets more manageable." That broke me.
Today my family learned that my sister has problems with her heart.
She went to the hospital to make some more tests and to find out what's really wrong.
I'm scared
Darja Leen
What happened after?
what happened?
is she alright??
What happened after that??
my sister is fine, actually she is getting married this summer) we don't communicate much
@@darjaleen8313 ohhh i see, thanks for replying even after 3 years
Oh god the saddest part for me was when she said
"I can't tell you how many times I've picked up the phone.. and said 'oh no.. that number doesn't work anymore.'"
OH MY GOD THE TEARS ACTUALLY HURT.
I have such a close relationship with both my sisters so I could understand how hard this must have been for these people. I can't imagine not having them around...
Same
same
same
I do to 😭😭
+MsGraciie13 I don't think you can imagine losing them. Not to be rude or anything x
rip lil sis 🙏🏻👼🏼
❤️❤️
Aw...🙏.
Rest in paradise 😇🙏🏾
I'm so sorry for your loss, may she rest in peace🙏🏻💕
Rest in peace.. ❤️
I lost my grandpa to cancer when I found out I was devastated I did not know what to do it got so bad to the point were I was smelling his shirts I always had a hole in my life and heart I still have that hole in my heart I always remember the days I had with him and now he is in a better and safe place looking after me
I can still vividly remember my beloved brother when he went flatline. Very sorrowful and unthinkable 😭😭😭
I'm so sorry.
omg I need to call my brothers and sister ...😢
Auje Chu ikr?!
Auje Chu yep
Im right here with my brothers
Jancie Fletcher lucky
They should do "what's it like to have a family member in jail" the effects and stories. How they cope.
i remember thinking how awful it would be to lose your sibling a couple years ago when i watched this video not knowing i would be in the same situation now. it’s shocking to realize how unpredictable & unpreventable death is no matter how young you are. end every conversation with i love you because you don’t know if you’ll get another chance to say it.
I needed to see/hear this video. I’m having one of those crying/hard moments. All these tears I cry are expressions of the love I cannot give my oldest brother……..love you Jason and miss you immensely.
I cried so hard 15 secs into the vid when the two girls said they lost their brothers .. I'm always fighting with my brothers and I actually never really realized how lucky I am to have them with me .. My little brother always wants to play and I always tell him no and cut him off .. I never realized the fact that he could be gone ..
So true.....
I'm the youngest and being able to play games or talk and laugh with my brothers over the years have meant so much to me.. I bet it would mean the world to him to hang out with his older brother.
I've always fought with my brothers, we still don't have a great connection but when both of them almost died I started to actually try. now if any of them come close to death again I will blame myself... always.
spend more time with them less fighting. BECAUSE tomorrow is never promised.
Shellby Barajas well put
I love my little brother so much Idk what I'd do if he died
Brilliant Reneé me too with my baby bro
God loves you, girly. God Bless you all. ❤️
Same, I love my lil bro😘😍❤😊😁😄😆💖😇😉
Brilliant Reneé same my older sister is an amazing person.
my younger sister's name is Renee. Fancy seeing you here
Lost my older and only brother in 2012. My first best friend. Worst pain in the world. My heart goes out to everyone whose been through such heartache
Losing a sibling is an empty void that you can't fill. I lost 4 of my sisters recently as well as 2 of my brothers. I've never related to a video more than i do now. I just keep coming back to all the memories and all the times we had together. I just wish I could see them once more, I never stop thinking about it. All I can do is lay in bed, and bawl. The kind words that I've been sent and the "prayers" don't help. You can't get over losses like this. Your siblings are your best friends, please don't even take that for granted. Call them up on the phone, play with them, don't let them be forgotten❤
What happened to all of them if I might ask?
This video was so amazing. Brought me to tears and inspired me to appriciate my family. I love when buzzfeed makes my day.
*appreciate
+Phoebe Price same!
same😢
+Phoebe Price are you proud? Such a vulnerable moment and you just gotta screw it up. Good job
+Phoebe Prince same
The red hair girl's jaw line in bigger than my future
L
+Jam O
HKirK TV Well thanks ! Then I guess I'll be president of the United-State.
like Damon Salvatore in TVD lol
+Emperor - ☆CS:GO☆ Quite sad that's all you got out of this vid. Pray you don't have any siblings who pass away before you do
I lost my brother when he’s a new born. If he’s still alive right now he will be 5 years old😥
Maki's Life Same except my twin would be right next to me.
"The weight is still heavy, I've just gotten stronger" 😢😢😢
I cried during this video. It reminds me of how much I don't want to lose my big brother...
same
Same.................
I have 4 but i don't want to lose them
I lost mine when I was 10
lost a best friend felt Nothing because I am a sociopath
I have 10 siblings. I used to have 12. My older brother and triplet died (I was born as a triplet but now we're just twins) in a car crash together. It was 6 years ago, and in the car it was my mum, me, my two twins Marika and Marama, my older brother Tamati, my older brother Maia and my older sister Kahurangi. My younger siblings were in another car with my dad. We had a head in collision with another car. I remember it like it was yesterday. We were on our way home from dinner at a restaurant. We were all fine except for Maia, Marama, add Tamati. Maia died 4 hours after the crash and Marama died 7 hours after. I miss them everyday, especially Marama. Me, her and Marika were all triplets and it was hardest on us. Rip Marama Parata - 6/4/2000-27/11/2010 & Maia Parata - 29/1/1998-26/11/2010
I'm so sorry for your loss.. do you happen to be from New Zealand? RIP xx
suedecubs thank you❤ and yes! I'm Māori :) I'm guessing you could tell by the names? 😂
So sorry for your trauma sweetheart, what a horrible thing to experience.
I'm so sorry. I have two brother s and losing them would be awful.
I can not put in words how sorry i am for you loss. This really hurt me tbh. I hope that you'll be okay, and I'll keep you in my prayers❤️
After watching this video and reading the comment section I have understood that life is very valuable even more valuable than all the materialistic things. I have never really lost anyone I love and I hope I don't but my heart goes out to those who have. I cannot even imagine losing anyone in my family. Also I would just like to say that life is precious in it's own way so all the teens out there-do not end your life because you would cause lots of grief to others. You may think that you would be free of your problems by ending your life but your family would be devastated. Never think that you are not loved because one doesn't have to SHOW that they love you. And remember that no matter what comes in your life "just keep swimming " because that is what fighters do...
Lost my sister a few weeks back, and now looking at her Snapchat messages and wanting to text her, but knowing there's not going to be a response, just devastates me immensely.
I AM CRYING
Dil cry with your father's
and your wife tabitha
It's ok, just go hug Tabitha
dont cry dil, go craft
ill just excuse myself now
I'm crafting to
This... this broke my heart.
SuperJanGames i lost my brother and sister and i always miss them and i always will
I just got this in my recommendations and it brought me to tears because last year my brother was admitted to the hospital because he had appendicitis he was extremely ill and was hooked up to 4 drips and 2 machines, he also had needles in his arms. The surgery to get his appendix removed was supposed to take 45 minutes but instead it took 2 hours and 30 minutes. When I went to visit him I felt no emotion, I just stood there in shock, he was just lying in the bed. He was so pale. He spent two weeks in the hospital and it had taken him 10 days to regain strength so he could walk. I spent my whole weekend in the hospital, I needed to be there to make sure he was okay. But then he was taken away in an ambulance because he still had a lot of fluid left in his body. One day I was at my nans watching tv when I heard someone open the door, I thought it was my dad coming to pick me up so I went downstairs and to my surprise it was my mom, dad and my little brother. I was relieved that he was finally out of hospital and I was so grateful for the doctors who saved his life
P.s. if anyone takes the time to read this please know that I am eternally grateful and for those of you who have lost a sibling they’re forever in our hearts 🥰
Crying my eyes out such a sad video. I couldn't imagine my life without my two brothers. They mean everything to me
"heather was in an accident" eyes water "my mom was crying in bed" tear down "i picked up the phone and realized, oh that number...doesnt work anymore!" im not joking i cried..really hard
We were always together. We shared a womb, lived our diseases together, grew up in a war we called home together.
We went to school together, we attended each other's music lessons.
We graduated together, we went to college together.
But one day you went back to see mama while I had to stay in town to work, and you never came back. That day, even before Don called me, I knew something was wrong. You had lost the battle, and at this very moment, a part of me followed you out of this world.
Dani Abadeister
thanks for the tears and sorry for your loss.
“It doesn’t get easier, you become used to it”
Don't know who said this, but I love it... "Time doesn't heal anything, it only teaches us to live with the pain"
This made me think a lot.....I used to be suicidal and now I'm wondering....What if I actually killed myself? How broken would my older sister be? What about my mother? I don't want to see my sister cry...I don't want to see my mom cry....
Same... i used to be looking down from the high building when i was depressed and thinking whether to jump or not. I have never been better in my life right now, and it scares the hell out of me if i had actually did jump
Suicidal people are selfish people for the reason that they kill themselves and take the easy way out and they are at peace for eternity, but they leave the family to suffer, the friends, everyone who ever knew the person. Live your life. You only got one.
I used to be like that. I'm also thinking that. I don't want to know that people cry because of me.
Mixhael Medina I understand where you are coming from but the feeling of depression is so unimaginably painful and indescribable it can lead to someone feeling so trapped they take their own life and don’t realize how many people love them, just keep that in mind I don’t think the word is selfish more so hopeless and wanting release.
I lost my boyfriend to suicide. Now I'm just a functioning depressed person. Functioning because I have my little girl to live for and take care of. It's true it doesn't get easier, just manageable.
Death is such an unbelievable event, I just wish sometimes I could forget how I felt about my grandmother because she was the only person I connected to and from when we lost her I've just be wandering about on this Earth. 😔
I completely understand how you feel, I lost my mom June 25, 2012 at the age of 18 & everyday since I've never been the same, the struggle is unreal. I also wish the feeling I felt would disappear but honestly the memories we have may cause us great pain but they also cause us immense happiness.
Dragon Tamer#1 i'm so sorry to hear that, i don't what to say. I wish you happiness from here on.
Asanda Mbali Thanks bro! Appreciate it, back at yah.
I hope your grandmother is in heaven 😇
+Hannieee. xo don't worry your granddad is having an amazing life in heaven😇
i come back to this video a lot, my sister passed away two years ago, and it breaks my heart that one day, i’ll be older than my older sister.
im crying im sorry for all ur lose! we should be thankful for our family thank you
I never knew my mom and dad, my mom died right in front of me when I was 6, but I never knew my dad until much later. I was 12 when my only sister that I knew of, died of murder, her boss murdered her. I asked her coworker why he didn't try to stop her boss because he was there, he said "I was in shock, I couldn't do anything." And I never forgave him for that.
One month later I tried multiple times to commit suicide. It didn't work.
When I turned 15 I went to her grave, and a man was there, I asked him why he was there and he told me "I just found out I was her father."
I told him that I was his son and he believed me, because, 1.i looked exactly like him 2. He had a son that he thought died to.
We took a DNA test, he was indeed my father, it turned out that he had two other children my half sister Hazel and my half brother Seth ,
In memory of Bianca
2011
I miss you
Leo Space daddy im so sorry :(
Did you call the police on that horrible boss?
wow. the chance of finding your father during a random visit. thats destiny.
Murder could be the worst way to loose someone. How could someone be so disgusting to the point of killing someone else?! Knowing that the reason someone u loved died because of murder, not because of something natural, would be torture.
Poisonous Mint aww x
The moment when you knew somebody in your family is gone... Is just too shocking
Condolences to you and family god bless my dad just passed away 🙏
Omg I lost my sister and I wonder how life would be with her I miss her so much I wish and pray that I'll see her again and that day will come. Keep strong to those who are going through this and make sure to talk to family and be around them more.