What do Christian Guys Look For in a Girl? | Christian Dating Advice
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What do Christian guys look for in a girl? What are some of the most important qualities that men of faith are hoping for in a girlfriend or potential wife? What kinds of things do Christian guys like? In this video, I have several of my male Christian youtube friends giving some Christian dating advice and their personal answers to what they find attractive in a woman of God
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~ How she treats others
~ Does she have a personal relationship with God not just at church
~ Physical attractive.......doesn't have to look perfect just at least decent
~ Goal oriented
~ Supportive
~ Helps me grow with the Lord and vice versa
I find that a deep relationship with Christ has scared more men off than attracted them, lol
consider yourself blessed! you don't want the kinds of guys scared by that!
You are gorgeous! Their loss, it’s okay, That deep relationship with Christ is more important and sis! You will find the one worthy and would Love that about you and more! God bless you!
That happens for those who do not possess the Holy Spirit. I would consider that a good thing.
@ Michael exactly!! 👏👏👏
I love seeing the overlap in each of our advice, it’s super encouraging to hear! Justin, agreed, Morgan and I are so different but God has used that to refine each of us a ton,, and yes the complimentary skills are a huge blessing! I’m a real bad handyman, but Morgan is an awesome handy woman🙌🙌🙌
Paul and Morgan
A handy woman is great but every now and then they need to use their mouth
@@sarahann530 what are you talking about? what the hell. . .
@@azariawalker1498 If you don't know what I am talking about then you are boring lay
Faithful, commited, funny, gracious, Real, kind, respectful, grateful, patient, understanding, humble, Loving, can't live out Jesus, has her BA Born Again, as well PHD "Praise Him Daily"! Blessings!
A woman whose hands aren't idle, not just busy, but productive!
-Does she love the Lord and live out her faith? There's no point in pursuing anything if she doesn't.
-Is she talented? I find talent (talent over and above her peers) incredibly attractive.
-Is she a leader? I have more to learn from and more to admire about a leader of others.
-Do I think she's beautiful? Not every guy finds the same girl attractive, so it really only matters if I personally think she's attractive.
-Does she "yes/and"? This is a weird way to say it, but the idea is I want her to be able to accept a situation or a conversation with confidence and add her own flair to it. My least favorite kind of people are those who shut down in a social situation or conversation because it has veered into unfamiliar territory for them. It shows a lack of spontaneity and creativity.
I honestly have no idea on whether I desire a more introverted or extraverted person. I've been attracted to both. But any type of person could fit the above.
All these things are wonderful but what happens when you are those things but it ends up intimidating men?
Simone Ramkissoon If it intimates men there not the man you need lol
Don’t worry it won’t intimidate the right ones. This is what guys want!
Ugh! My issue exactly!
Two things come to mind when I read your statement. Either you need to work on finding stronger men or maybe you're communicating skills needs refinement. Most likely it's both so I'd assume showing more patients and start picking higher quality individuals that don't really get affected by intimidation. After all, why would someone get intimidated unless there was something intimidating them?
Nathaniel Khoe You’ve actually said something no one else has that isn’t a cliche answer. I’ll think on what you’ve said. Thank you.
I think a woman who knows God is my #1 priority. A man should meet a woman in the presence of God.
Richard Obeng Antwi ... i wish more people had your mindset/intentions and believe the words u said.
Someone who is independent, someone he isn't just with you to fill up herself and feel more loved. I believe they should look for someone who is strong enough to be on their own, and sacrificed her independence because she believed YOU were the God had called her to.
darealyst Amen!
darealyst powerful! Amen!
Why would I ever give up my indipendency??
Finding your opposite is a good point you've made. A Sunday school teacher have an illustration once of how he and his wife help one another in the areas where they are weak and the other is strong. The stronger helps the weaker, like the verse in Romans teaches.
Thank you for this!! Really opened my eyes to things I need to work on, especially having an intimate relationship with God. I really appreciate you taking the time to collaborate this video with others and sharing your opinion! Personally, I think that guys should look for a girl that goes to God before she goes to her friends, someone who doesn't gossip, and someone who isn't afraid to be herself when others are around. I just started watching your videos. I will be praying that God blesses your ministry and uses it to reach many others.
i think inner beauty s the most important specially in Christian dating because we not based in the system world view, but of course u need to like the other person. Moreover Jesus Christ s the first thing to look in a potencial partener. Someone who loves the Lord with all the heart because he -she s gonna love u properly having our Lord Jesus in their heart. blessings..
I need to work on being gracious more. I really do try, but when I'm frustrated, I can tell that I'm not making the progress that I definitely could. Great video & counsel, guys. Ur awesome! To anyone reading this: God loves you & gives you purpose through Jesus Christ + I love you #stayblessed #Godgotu 😘😘🤗😜😊✌
Bless you too
Thank you, MadLuv & Industrial Lady 🤗
Go Girl Grow I think you are kind of right. People need to be worried about being good person then worrying about getting a good person. God will show you the way
I like the fruits of the Spirit idea. They are the ideal. But I would look for a woman with patience and kindness. If she treats her family or strangers like that, she will treat me and our future children like that. Beauty is nice too, but i have no clear picture of that, I know it when I see it.
Nice well spoken! For me personally i like a girl who would support my dreams to be a christian youtuber like you!!
If she isn't God fearing or working towards that I won't consider her. If we don't find each other attractive why bother.
1. Strong willed
2. Intelligent
3. Wise
4. Responsible
5. Gracious
This might sound weird... but a genuine, penticostal like passion for God. 😁
Great advice! Justin I also agree with and love the comment about Opposites and differences! If I was honest, what really is interesting is the growth that I may need to have before I get to be husband material. Someone with a new confidence and responsibility! If I were looking for a gal, she would have to be strong in faith, disciplined in prayer, outgoing and confident, hard working, and realistic when it comes to goals and the future! Also, Paul mentioned he saw Morgan worshipping.. that's a HUGE Yes for me, especially a guitar player but that Maaaayy be too asking for too much ;D God Bless you Bro, keep up these wonderful videos!
It’s not too much man, you’ll find her! God bless
Big one for me is that she is comfortable enough in her relationship with God to tell others about Jesus Christ. Personal evangelism is pretty important to me and I want a woman who understands and desires to see the Kingdom of God expand. I will say that one thing that is a kind of turn off is someone who wants to be a “pastor/missionary” wife. No offense to those in ministry or who desire to serve God in that capacity, but if the woman can’t conceive of serving God in any other capacity, how will she fair as the wife of a man whose vocation puts himself and his family in the direct line of fire by Satan? She has to be willing and actively working in whatever capacity she finds herself in to the Glory of God.
Ladies, yes outward beauty is important, but not at the sacrifice of your spiritual walk with God. A “plain Jane” whose life has evidence of a love for God and others is more of a turn on than a Kardashian or Beyoncé. If you spend hours a day doing makeup, matching outfits, and worrying about your appearance, you probably will not attract a Godly Christian man who is mature in his faith because the worry of keeping up appearances shows itself and it just looks selfish. Don’t worry about what the world tells you is important. Don’t lose weight to attract a man, do it to be healthy and capable to serve our God. Don’t throw pounds of makeup on to “please men”, focus on adorning yourself with the Gospel and with a style that won’t readily detract your attention from the Great Commission. God Bless!
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Where are Christian women? All I Know is that men need to more less look into the heart of a Woman. Get to know her slowly, know who she is by asking questions questions regarding her family, life, Never* fall for her flesh before you fall in love with , rather knowing her heart. Ask her to tell you her favorite Book of The Holy Bible. What are her likes? How does she respond to homeless people, does she speak of The Lord every day?, Does she pray before meals?, Or are you being tricked by a wolf? You will know them by their fruit. Does she have mercy?, Does she have Empathy?, Does she love God more than her family, you, etc.? Is she a pleaser of man? Or is she a pleaser of The Lord?. Does she write God in Capital letters? So important. What would she do if she sees a hungry person on the streets? Would she offer them food?, Or cash?, Important, A Godly woman would go to the nearest fast food, restraint, etc. Just to feed the hungry. Does she smile at everyone?, Does she look away from the dirty homeless ones that have no choice?. You can always find a woman, but we need to know the meaning of a Lady/ Woman of God.hope this helps you all out there seeking to find that perfect yolk, that's Sunnyside up everyday. However we also have grumpy days, sad days, We're only human as well, but how we handle ourselves, is 100% different to the male's. Be understanding of a woman's hormones, without judging her for being well... The B word\female dog. God Bless Your Search for that perfect Woman for you.😍
im a man and I cry on a weekly basis and I am a man of many sorrows.
why are women not attracted to that?
Answer: youth, health, beauty and feminine virtue.
love the comment from the one below : 'What if you are all … and it intimidates men?' It has always been so easy for men to go outside, find a woman and convert her. They rarely seem pressed to see into the Godly heart of a church girl, when they have their pick of women inside and outside of the church / faith setting. Still these men seem like Joshua kind of men - "As for me and my house..."
Thank you Justin. Your advice at the end was especially reassuring to hear cuz ive had that thought before & i thoughtttt i was alone in this thinking...but I guess men understand this concept alil more so than women. No offense to women..but it seems to me that females tend to have "guy checklists" that focus on outward traits that compliment what they already know & love, instead of something they have not yet come to know or have experienced. They may be blind to seeing who God is possibly bringing into their lives on a realistic level to grow them (in a level beyond their completed individual selves of course) because of their fantasies. Example: if they are into fitness then the Right guy HAS to be a personal trainer gymnast. Or: if they love music then He HAS to be a worship leader.
We should always reassess and make sure we are looking deeper than titles or just what appears on the surface.
taking notes! 😊
All those qualities are important to be mentioned, but do those qualities make one person strong in their Christian faith, as a future spouse ? I think that it sounds all good but anyone who call themselves a Christian will be eager to say that they recognize those qualities in themselves, but in all truth, there is more depth and complexity to the Christian faith and the Christian journey than all the qualities, lists I heard in this video... I really think that all those superficial "spiritual " qualities don't tell much...but trials, tribulations, adversity, on going everyday ministry and attitude toward sin and evil ARE what reveal who you are, and how do you relate to God and Jesus Christ..... Christian dating advices suck most of the time imo
These are great things to know! God bless!
i have a real problem with the being physically attracted to someone because looks fade you know if she fears the lord that is more important the world places such emphsis on outer beauty so when you focus on the inner beauty of a woman that will endure it's almost like thinking if she's ugle don't date her totally wrong beauty is something that the bible warns agin and agian to watch out for it talks about being sudcued by women who are hot you know be careful brothers
One question: How much difference is too much difference?
Like for example, is marrying a Catholic too much?
I like what you said at the end!! So good! Thanks for the video :)
Thank you frm Việt Nam. I learned alot frm u guys
The first shall be last is back again....
Great video!
Hey I need some advice on this! I am a super patient person but my boyfriend is not. How should I work through this and learn to accept him as who he is?
Still looking! Men don't approach me! It makes me sad because I don't know why
Knows Jesus -- not "loves God" but Knows Him.
Similar Theology -- essentials!! No cult, Know cults. Salvation, etc.
MODEST DRESSING -- at all times, no stretchy yoga pants ever!!
Loyalty
Missionary goals
Frugal
Minimalist
Healthy-ish diet -- (I love donuts) Plant based, whole food.
Exercise -- OUTSIDE not in a Gym
Future goals --
Attractive face -- body is much less important plus a healthy diet aligns the body both ways, mine and theirs.
Environmentally friendly -- Almost Zero-Waste lifestyle.
Supports Local!!! -- not corporate.
1 love God 2 love family 3 dreams 4 community 5 herself
Good conversation :)
I LOVEEEE THISSSSSS !!!!
great part
That Godly man who loves God First he is an ideal man 😍😍😍
Huh??? Does not matter go to church?how can you have rrlationships with God , if you have not sumbit yourself to God in going to church?
That’s one long list 😅 (good but long)
Someone who isn't scared to go out of their was and keep you accountable to your sin
Good video for singles
Same and different like something we both like but different things that we can hang out with friends that we both not give jealous and we have times not be together to feel like we not one person like we not have to do everything together like we can not hang together and we hang out with friends or just be along and be relax like take art class with some friends and help they out with god and all that
Sabrina Pisa I totally agree. I think differences in skills, like Justin was talking about is super important, but there should be some similar interests so you can do things together.
M.J. Kraft true for me I think it need be 80% or more sames
Portuguese pleaseeee
I hope they see looking for the fact that they can speak truth into them from God
JOSHUA IS MY YOUTH MINISTER
Focus on bettering yourself like with your career and independance, marriage for guys is absolute suicide.
Physical attraction? Its the flesh! And true christian live with a spirit not a flesh!
well, for one thing, in the united states, christian men definitely try to make sure the woman is not an American christian.........
great video loving it❤