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.. thank you @CourtneyRyan.. ive been recently buying different pants and dress shirts once a week one step at a time.. what do i do now to dress even better than the ones that have watched this video taking your advice!?.. can we do a one on one?..
Completely not a paid ad - I actually recently bought the exact same pair of white low top shoes from Thursday Boots. They are insanely high quality shoes, so much so I wasn't expecting it. Real leather, so make sure you are prepared to care for them, but definitely worth the price and the compliments.
Looking at the website, this company doesnt appear to sell shoes in a wide or double-wide for those of us that need broad toe boxes. Do you have a brand you can recommend that can accomodate wide feet? I cant wear normal styles without going from 10.5 to a 12+ as they were making me lame over the years since I Was growing up.
Time stamps: 0:44 Adding Layers 2:10 upgrading your shoes 4:33 Following the rule of thirds 6:10 Roll your sleeves up 6:42 A watch 7:55 Dial in your fit 9:20 Find your Style 11:10 Take proper care of your clothes
Getting in shape has also been an absolute difference maker in my life. Showing that you’re intentional about caring your your body and health absolutely sends amazing signals. It also makes just about any piece of clothing look and feel great on you.
I love ❤️ my apple watch and I do have 3 high end chronographs as well. But I never wear them. I was mortally wounded when she said to ditch the apple 🍎 watch.
I like the idea of you producing a video on "finding your style". Please include style suggestions for us older guys who are single and still dating. Love your videos. Keep em commin'.
I’m 71 years old and recently traveled with a group of women to Spain… surprisingly I was complimented on my clothing being very clean and pressed…simple concept but not to be overlooked…
Even I respect and compliment another man for his clean and pressed clothes. I think wearing good and clean clothes does a terrific job for one's self esteem and psychology and people are more attracted not to the way we dress but to the personality and attitude we get by reflex when we feel good in our skin and clothes. Took me some years to realize that.
- Adding layers to your outfits can instantly elevate your look and show good taste. - Upgrading your shoes is crucial, as they can make or break an outfit. - Following the rule of thirds can help improve the proportions of your outfit. - Rolling up your sleeves gives off a casual, confident vibe. - Wearing a watch can instantly enhance your overall appearance. - Proper fit is essential to flatter your body shape and enhance your look. - Finding your personal style or uniform can simplify the process of putting outfits together. - Taking care of your clothing, steaming, ironing, and using lint rollers can make you look more polished and put together.
Its true. Been to Ireland pretty regular and I take clothing for all seasons. Going at the weekend and have to dress for a formal dinner, hiking, tennis, a boat trip and sunbathing. Could be a challenge. When the sun comes out though - it really is 'The Emerald Isle'. It's a green I have never seen anywhere else.
@@CourtneyRyan we are humans biengs no one is better than the other. We should strive to be the best version of ourselves. To be better is implying that you think your better. It's very important how you word your words. I can give you good advice ms dating coach. It looks like you need coaching your self. Ms dating coach
I like the color coordination and the simplicity to the layers. Too often, we tend to overcomplicate our look. What you're suggesting here is natural, yet breathable. Thanks for sharing!
None of this matters. Best is to get in shape. Put on muscle. I wear a $15 multicolor shirt off Amazon and all the girls compliment me on it. It’s not the cheap shirt, it’s how it fits and looks on me.
Just do you, my friend. Don’t worry about drawing others’ attention and just focus on doing the things that give you contentment. You may be surprised who that draws to you. Basically, don’t worry about attracting attention, but don’t close yourself off to it if it comes around. Just sort your own work and hobbies/interests out and have a good time with yourself.
my best advice for u is to reflect on ur life and see if u what u did wrong or from where did it fall off, after that fix it, go out there and u will find a good partner for u, don't worry dude, ur not like 70 lmao, u can still remarry, do a wedding, live like a king with ur familyfor like 20+ or even 30+ yrs if ur taking care of ur health, u only got one life bro and u passed mid point, so make sure to really use the time u got left well and promise that u wouldn't regret it, just one good year of u trying to be the best version of urself can make the rest be fucking awesome, and trust me on that one cuz it comes from a personal experiece but in order to not make this any longer i will finish it off by saying that u already have lived better than most ppl on the planet, so be greatful and make it even more amazing brother, cheers mate
"Wear layers" Laughs from South Texas where we avoid layers for safety reasons (high heat 100°+, high humidity). Also, with clothing care add 1/4 cup of white vinegar to your laundry. It cleans off your oils and leaves your clothes, even stinky gym clothes, smelling FRESH.
00:00👋 Welcome! Courtney Ryan introduces a video on how to look better than other guys through style and fashion tips.
00:39🧥 Add Layers: Using layers in outfits instantly adds dimension and style, making simple clothing more interesting. 01:35👔 Five-Point Rule: Outfits should have five components to add dimension and a personal touch. 02:09👟 Upgrade Shoes: Wearing well-maintained and stylish shoes can significantly improve your overall look. 04:00👞 Sponsored by Thursday Boot Company: Courtney promotes high-quality sneakers from Thursday Boot Company. 04:32📏 Rule of Thirds: Understanding proportions in clothing can make outfits more visually appealing and elongate the body. 06:08👕 Roll Up Sleeves: Rolling up sleeves on a button-down shirt gives a casual, confident look. 06:43⌚ Wear a Watch: A real watch (not an Apple Watch) adds sophistication and class to any outfit. 07:55👗 Fit is Everything: Wearing clothes that fit properly enhances your body shape and overall appearance. 09:15🛠 Find Your Style: Developing a personal style or "uniform" simplifies outfit choices and ensures practicality. 10:07🧥 Take Care of Clothes: Properly maintaining clothes through steaming or ironing creates a polished and put-together appearance. 12:24✅ Conclusion: Recap of tips to look better through style and fashion, encouraging viewers to like, subscribe, and comment.
I'm fairly new... Recently I started wearing Suits when I leave my Home. Two situations back to back beautiful women actually talked to me in a flirtatious way and one actually came.up to me to start the conversation. Game changer. Make sure people feel the pressure when you walk into the room.
“Make sure people feel the pressure when you walk in the room.” This is key, especially in a work/office setting. It’s not “pressure” in a bad way, but the kind of pressure that makes people want to perform better, to contribute more meaningfully. Most high-speed people want to be around other high-speed people, and by everyone upping their game, it brings up someone who maybe is a little shy at work, maybe not confident in their abilities, maybe has some imposter syndrome, etc. Some people don’t respond to this, and so be it. But wearing the right clothing to the office instantly tells sets the right tone, attracts like-minded people to you, and creates an intangible kind of “professional sexiness” that appeals to men and women. IMHO.
Thank you Ms. Ryan! Your tips are always valued and appreciated. I do like sneakers but I do feel that white as a color for sneakers is the worst choice. White dirtiest quickly and looks too much like a retro from the eightiess. I would recommend recommend any color but white for sneakers.
Amazon- next level tri blend t shirts $6 5.11- defender slim pants (not jeans) Flint and tinder- waxed trucker jacket Red wings- iron rangers 8111 A proper haircut and facial hair that accents your face and boom you will be styling fellas.
Everything what you have told Courtney is so true. The most import thing is that to find appropriate fashion that is also good for our health, that they are comfortable for us, and also to have good quality fashion. And that goes for clothes and footwear.
Hey Courtney random guy here. Stumbled across some of your videos and I decided it was time to just do better with myself. I saw your video on the shoes. I really like loafers and what I was wearing we're not hey dudes but you would have called them that. I took your advice and bought a pair of penny loafers that I really like in a dark brown. I also decided to go ahead and get a smartwatch since I was debating on getting one for work anyway. Makes my job a bit easier but I had also got a dark brown leather band for it. I also got a new brown leather belt. I was already wearing solid colored shirts with nothing on them. And slipped on some Lands Ends dark jeans. So I had all this on and went out to lunch with some family that was in town. Afterwards I stopped by the store to get some groceries and right away noticed I was getting some looks. One of the associates stopped in her tracks and asked if I needed any help. I told her with a smile I was good it's just the store got remodeled. It happened very quick but she checked me up and down then goes no worries didn't mean to startle you (she didn't) and then grabbed my arm and gave it a quick squeeze when she said that. Nice lady and she told me to let her know if I need any help. Walking away from that I was just like whoa that just happened for real! When I went to check out, one of the associates there also checked me up and down super fast. I've been watching these videos and spotted what to look for so seeing it happen for real was pretty cool. That being said I wasn't romantically interested but hey it's a start! 😅
*It’s interesting to see how small changes, like improving posture and grooming, can make such a huge difference. Women definitely notice the little things, and this video highlights exactly what stands out.*
Hey Courtney! I just wanted to take a moment to express my heartfelt gratitude for your amazing content. As someone from Paris, I’ve been following your channel since day one, and I can’t even begin to describe how much it has impacted me. Your insightful videos about men have been instrumental in my personal growth and have given me a deeper understanding of relationships. The way you approach important topics with such kindness and intelligence is truly inspiring. Your work has made a significant difference in my life, and I can’t thank you enough for that.💕
I wasn't expecting the Thursday Boots link when I clicked on this, but... I bought a pair of Thursday cap-toe boots based on an earlier video, and suddenly I get comments at work and my son (much more stylish than I) is borrowing them. Thanks for helping this 57 year old look a little better!
Great video. Please do videos on finding your style, and on proportions, those would both be super helpful. I'm quite tall (6’ 3”), but don't always think I dress the best for it.
A video about how to find your style would be perfect for a lot of us especially me as a black guy who’s culture style is centered around graphic streetwear and Nike/Jordans 😂 🤢
You emphasized on layers, but I am interested on how you would approach this for someone who lives in a tropical country or place or anywhere that is just plain hot.
@@KK95_Ph sometimes it’s just not feasible! You could try a tank with a breezy short sleeve shirt (worn open) but sometimes even that might feel toasty depending on the temp. Definitely pay attention to the fabric of your clothing and go for those lighter weight, breathable fabrics like I mentioned - I think that will make the biggest difference for you 👏🏼 linen is a lifesaver in the summer
Courtney could you one day do a video going into detail about finding clothes that fit. Maybe where you go into detail on a lot of body types. I have trouble picturing which clothes will work for me I’m clueless on the actual practical things to look for. This was the best video in a while btw, very useful.
My Chelsea boots have been one of the biggest upgrades I’ve made, find your own style, and don’t back off it! I’ve had women tell me they don’t quite understand my style, but they really like it. Its the combination of things that make you look unique and fashionable.
Men don't have outfits, they have clothes, and important distinction. What many women fail to realise is that if men wanted to be stylish then they would be stylish without any input from women. Women are projecting when they see a guy who they think looks improperly dressed that it is simply a matter of him being ignorant of what is in fashion and what looks good on him. When the actual reason is that he doesn't care what people think of his clothing choices.
@@vecto8695 up until your appearance has no impact on your social life; I could have the best haircut and start wearing perfume and nice clothes and stuff, but I'd bet my life savings no one at my school will treat me any different
I do remember you saying about rolling up the cuff of your t-shirt sleeves is another way to add a layer without actually putting on another layer and I haven't stopped doing that very thing
I wear an Apple Watch, but the only difference is it’s way more than just for looks. It’s something I actually use in my everyday life. I’m currently on a 60 day fitness streak and counting and it helps me keep track. Much rather not spend extra money for something that’s just going to be for looks, and won’t help me keep track of my fitness progress. It’s definitely going to take alot more than this to break my current streak, thanks
Lol, I brought running shoes specifically to wear with casual outfits (I don't run). I got some cheap white Nike Air rip-offs to wear when I'm out and about. Shoes are expensive so I usually only have two pairs at any given time; work shoes and non-work shoes. If i'm not at work then I'm guaranteed to be wearing the Nike Air rip-offs.
A find your style video would be really helpful!! If you could add some tips for bald guys that would really be helpful too in my opinion, because we really do have to change alot about our wardrobe since we lack that contrast hair gives to overall style.
She is literally married to the watch guy lol but i do agree a watch is prob the easiest upgrade. I think alot of women do appreciate smart watches tho
I think personal style will always be a factor, as well as comfort and circumstances such as weather or the events you’re going to. These are great videos though, but If you’re at a sporting event, like a football game leave your loafers at home.
Best one-liners throughout the video 😂 loved it.. Makes you look like you have given up on your life. Straight to jail, you like a spy kid 😂 Oh, my.. you are amazing! ❤
@@CourtneyRyan after doing some reading, the Rule of Thirds is a simplified version of the Golden Ratio; the proportions are not quite the same, but the Rule of Thirds does achieve a similar "pleasing to look at" effect associated with the Golden Ratio! I find it super cool that these mathematical ideas have a fun and useful application to fashion 😄
The Golden Ratio is a staple of Restorative/Esthetic (dare I use the word “Cosmetic”) Dentistry at the highest levels of artistic and functional excellence within the profession. It’s a principle anyone can understand, unfortunately not many achieve. Never thought I’d find the subject mentioned here. Regards
My biggest objection to wearing "nice shoes" out in public as opposed to more versatile shoes like running shoes, is that if anything ever goes wrong and you have to run, fight, help someone in need, etc, you start out at a huge disadvantage as most of the "nice shoes" are not made for any type of hard/fast physical activity. And personally with how crazy things are nowadays I would much rather be ready for that "one time" where things go wrong than look nicer on the other 50-100 times where everything was fine. Probably just being too cautious but at the end of the day it only takes that one time out being caught off guard to have drastic consequences for you or someone around you and it's hard to just ignore that so I can look nicer.
I actually agree. I rather be a man than a pretty boy who looks put together. Comfort over fashion like a true American, haha. My rule of thumb; you could look messy, just don't look messed up.
that's true. when I go out I spend most of my time walking, once in a while I might need to run to catch a bus, sneakers and loafers are not really ideal for that. I mostly wear slip on walking shoes, I find them to be a good amalgamation of style, comfort and utility.
Been watching for like a year and had no idea that I wasn’t subscribed. Thank you, Courtney, for giving shy men like myself confidence. You have earned yourself a sub 👍🏼
Thanks for all the tips! I just took my watch out of the third drawer that I never open! Time to add a link to it though;) Really? Ladies like the rolled up sleeves. I do it cause I like it. Nice to know the ladies do as well, and that it is a timeless look. The 1/3 rule is new to me. Thanks for that. I think that means I should get my button downs tailored a bit. Thank God I grew out of wearing chunky tennis (basketball) shoes like every-damn-where!!! So comfy though, but bye-bye....... I'll check out Thursday Boot Company. Just bought a pair of Ace Marks dress sneaker. Thanks again!
The bar is so low it is pretty easy. You'll see a guy out with his girlfriend/wife and she has a nice summer dress on and he has cargo shorts, t-shirt and sandals.
@@DavidZ4-gg3dm and then get a ran through emotionally damaged woman from endless hookups and situationships. Reason why many men are just opting out of dating juice isn’t worth the squeeze
Layers I can do. I have an apple watch, so the classic watch idea is out. Yes, leather shoe is much better looking than a sneaker, but they are also a lot more uncomfortable. Yes, i know its more comfortable than a woman's high heel, but its not as comfortable as a sneaker lol.
Can confirm Thursday makes good products. I have several boots and sneakers from Thursday and the quality is a noticeable step up from mainstream brands. For the sneaker though go with your normal size. Boots you'll need to size down.
Her Husband is a watch guy, of course she threw some shade. Many great points in this video however Most of this is “look” over comfort or practicality. My Altras are 1000 times more comfortable and better made than the tuesday sneaker( i have both) and my “spy kid” 🍎 watch is much more practical than my Rolex, Seiko, Hamilton…(yes i’m into watches) which have become more of an accessory compared to the spy kid watch. 🤷🏽♂️
@@jessemartinez6120 Perhaps more practical, but a Rolex is expensive because it isn't made with slave labor. Seiko is all around solid, made in Japan with out slave labor too. Probably costs Apple $20 to manufacture their spy bracelet, then they mark it up 50x...People pay out the nose because they are followers.
Yep I loved that too lol. I went back to a traditional analog watch 3 months ago, got sick of charging the rubbish Apple Watch Ultra every day, and tired of having to update the software, among other reasons, so I sold it. And the watch I have now is solar powered, so apart from making sure it gets light on it, I don’t have to worry about replacing batteries. I’ll never go back to an Apple Watch ever again lol.
I'm never ever getting a classic watch again. Sorry, but this is so archaic nowadays. Basically a jewelry - just an unnecessary added weight. Men are practical creatures - we don't really like owning or carrying pointless items.
@@jessemartinez6120 double standard = be fit, but don't have your digital tracker/accountabilibuddy (mine is) to hit goals every day, not just whenever.
Hey! Useful stuff as always! I just kindly wonder if the bad impression of Apple Watch can be fixed by replacing a different watch strap that makes the watch look like a regular watch?? I still like my Apple Watches cuz it’s so convenient:(
I agree absolutely about the Apple watch. my daughter's boyfriend, now fiancee, has one and it drives me bat-shit crazy to see it glowing and blinking at me while we are at the dinner table. Almost as bad, I gave my daughter a lovely Mont Blanc watch for graduation which is doesn't wear, in favour of just using her iPhone for telling time. It's not all about practicality - a $10 quartz watch has been a better time-piece for the last 40 years. But a watch is a lovely accessory and style statement.
Sorry I'm 57 into this day I don't really care about outward appearrance since I was 20 .. if a woman is that superficial then I won't have her anyway so it doesn't matter to me
@@CourtneyRyan I concur with his opinion as a 30 year-old man myself I prefer to just be basic and standard when it comes to fashion some jeans, long sleeve compression shirt, and a T-shirt over that have some basic standard colors that’s about it and I don’t exactly have the financial luxury of buying expensive clothing due to my financial obligations granted I understand your perspective but most of this advice is a complete turn off for me. Keep in mind I’m not saying a man should not put an effort to impress a woman but I think there’s a fine line between making effort and going over the top especially when economics are factored in. Seemingly inexpensive, high-quality clothing, combined with multiple articles of clothing adds up and makes shopping for clothes much more expensive.
i agree on pretty much everything except the watch. I'm too practical. 😂 a phone is a good enough tool to get the time, and, using a PC on a desk all the time id hate to scratch my precious watch every day. also the apple watch line was hilarious 🤣
Disagree on the watches; it completely depends on what aesthetic you want to convey. Not everyone is trying to look classy. Sure it’s pretty common to want to look cleaned up and classy, but some folks find that boring or don’t resonate with it. Tbqh, people who go for looking classy often come off to me as “I don’t really know myself well or have the courage to be authentic, so I’ll just go along with what everyone else likes so I don’t look like a loser or outcast”. But that’s just me lol 😂
Absolutely on the “finding your style” video. And maybe one on pairing watches with outfits. I have several Tissot watches, but should I wear a PRX with a suit, or a Gentleman? When should I wear a dive watch vs a GMT?
Courtney, real talk. From elementary school to my 40s, every single time I've attempted to look good, improve my grooming, dress nicer, etc, I have ALWAYS gotten beaten up. Every single time. It always starts the same, getting shit thrown at me until I throw something back. Followed by the bullies saying, "hey, wanna fight?" And even when I backed away, I'd get jumped by 2-3 of them. Never, ever was it 1 on 1. My clothes would be ruined, my face and body bloodied, and hair ruined or torn out. Yes, this has even happened at bars with men in my age range attacking me yet again. And then all of these bullies would get ALL the girls. Why the FUCK should I do a damn thing to try to attract women, when men just beat the shit out of me for it and YOU as women, sleep with them for it?
I'm very sorry to hear that. But that's the environment you were/are in. Not that dressing better/more stylish gets you automatically beaten up in most cases. Also, the women who like "tough guys" (jerks) aren't the ones you allegedly will ever attract. Luckily, they aren't exactly prevalent. Being a self-confident man, you will attract women that like your personality. Being dressed better will speed the process up.
@@dapifog12 The environment isn't going to change. It's beyond that, its society. Women want rich fuckboys or thugs, and do NOT want a decent man. They see that as weak.
@@dapifog12 It's not "environment", it's society. Women don't want decent men, they find that boring. They love rich guys who fly them out to Ibiza and Miami, and thugs, nothing more. I've long since given up because proper grooming is going to get me killed at this point.
@@dapifog12 My comments keep getting eaten. No, it's not "environment", it's society. Unless you're a rich gigachad who flies girls out to Ibiza or Miami, or you're a thug who will smack them around, they don't want you. Decent men are "boring" in their eyes.
Fantastic video! As a dude really into fashion and style I do think a few tips should be taken with a grain of salt. My favorite concept is learning the rules so you understand how to break them. The rule of thirds for example, while a great guideline, must not limit your experimentation with themes and styles. An oversized sweater, or tee can be paired with slim pants or sweats-shorts even. Dirty sneakers can be an intentional piece. I say this because men’s clothing is limiting. There’s only so many outfits with a button up that appear interesting (especially if we all wear it). It’s about, expression, not always interesting women. Form fitting, while an awesome tip, might not always be the best for a given mood. Counter that with, the exact opposite! A small guy, not hiding the fact he’s small, a big guy not trying to mask his belly. Anything, if styled and considered, can enhance you. Which, I think goes a long way for attracting the right women. The super baggy coat and baggy white shirt wasn’t a bad outfit at all, but maybe lacked a short necklace, or messy hair or hat to compliment the baggy casual aesthetic. I think men lack variety, which is why it’s hard to style ourselves. Women have infinite amount of artifacts with various different cuts. That being said, there’s a fun aspect to making the most of what we’ve got. Oh and the Apple Watch, having a nice watch to compliment a really fancy outfit is dope. But sorry, it’s way too useful to put down. And if paired with a good band and watch face, even finish (ie. Stainless steel vs aluminum watch) it can actually look really good. Again, understanding why something works or doesn’t, to go with or against trends to express yourself. Really great to have a woman give her opinion on how to style ourselves though! A lot of men’s styling content is bland and tries too hard to be “masculine” instead of authentic. Also, goes to show that, yes boys, styling yourself isn’t gay or too feminine.
Why don't you talk about what men don't like about women. Tats, nose piercings, colored hair, too much makeup, Instagrams and TH-cam videos that's trying to sell you something. Yes, I'm talking about you Courtney!! lol
I enjoyed this talk and have a lot more questions now. A video on how to find your style would be interesting and maybe a video on how to dress for the occasion would be super helpful as well.
Your hair looks amazing btw. For guys its tougher during the summer. It's too hot in the south to layer much. It makes more sense to maximize the few pieces you are wearing.
thanks for sharing the names of the style of shirts for the layering section, I've been trying to do that for awhile, but it's hard when you don't know the style of shirts that you see
New Subscriber Here! I came across your channel last night and was like I’m not watching this. But I did and now I’m in like 30 videos in. As an African American man I have learned a lot. I have the shoes and watches and a lot of the clothes but had kind of let myself go. I began to wonder why I wasn’t getting the attention that I used to. So thanks to Courtney and Sadia. I’m back in the saddle and this at 55 years old. I’m actually glad that I started watching your channel. Oh and one last key thing she opened my mind too. I’m no slob but having a high paying job and a nice car. Is great but you gotta make a good impression with quality women. I had taken that concept for granted and Courtney is helping us along this journey. I can’t thank her enough.
What would be helpful is to show outfits that combine the same type of style/texture. How would an "all tweed style" or an "all slick and shiney" type of outfit look? Understanding individual pieces is incredibly necessary, but how do you make a series of outfits that are cohesive and portray an overall feel?
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I am going to give in when i get paid at the end of the month, and i will buy 3 new outfits. because i think im losing due to my old clothes
.. thank you @CourtneyRyan.. ive been recently buying different pants and dress shirts once a week one step at a time.. what do i do now to dress even better than the ones that have watched this video taking your advice!?.. can we do a one on one?..
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Completely not a paid ad - I actually recently bought the exact same pair of white low top shoes from Thursday Boots. They are insanely high quality shoes, so much so I wasn't expecting it. Real leather, so make sure you are prepared to care for them, but definitely worth the price and the compliments.
Looking at the website, this company doesnt appear to sell shoes in a wide or double-wide for those of us that need broad toe boxes. Do you have a brand you can recommend that can accomodate wide feet? I cant wear normal styles without going from 10.5 to a 12+ as they were making me lame over the years since I Was growing up.
I knew a guy who did everything in this video. Women noticed him, but he wasn't interested in women.
If you dress like this. Women think you are a homosexual 😂
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Ha ha. I need some kind of eye for this straight guy.
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Time stamps:
0:44 Adding Layers
2:10 upgrading your shoes
4:33 Following the rule of thirds
6:10 Roll your sleeves up
6:42 A watch
7:55 Dial in your fit
9:20 Find your Style
11:10 Take proper care of your clothes
Become a tall, handsome, famous, charismatic, athletic, multimillionaire.
Every time I've done that, I've gotten the shit beaten out of me. And women turn and flock to those guys.
Wtf does the first point mean? Wearing just a jacket?
@@donvito7344wimin logic
@@DavidZ4-gg3dm based
"Stop wearing running shoes with every outfit"... you've wounded me
She's right, thoug. Use the intel, brother. You've grown.
Unless you're staring in an '80s movie.
What if they are sleek and all black? I'm using the adidas lite racers.
@@LordBruuhblack shoes only goes with black outfits/pants.
White sneakers goes with everything, black doesn’t.
I make this mistake too but it looks horrible
Getting in shape has also been an absolute difference maker in my life. Showing that you’re intentional about caring your your body and health absolutely sends amazing signals. It also makes just about any piece of clothing look and feel great on you.
This!
This will make a bigger difference than anything she recommend in the video. It will change the way you carry yourself.
Y are u gae
A difference for *you,* not a majority of women. In fact most women don't like muscles. Sorry.
@@davidmarshall7752 Wrong
"Straight to jail, you look like a spy kid." 😂😂
I'm stealing that as my new go to innocent insult.
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I love ❤️ my apple watch and I do have 3 high end chronographs as well. But I never wear them. I was mortally wounded when she said to ditch the apple 🍎 watch.
@@AlexTheLi0nuse the Apple Watch as much as you want, just not when wearing suits come on
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I like the idea of you producing a video on "finding your style". Please include style suggestions for us older guys who are single and still dating. Love your videos. Keep em commin'.
I’m 71 years old and recently traveled with a group of women to Spain… surprisingly I was complimented on my clothing being very clean and pressed…simple concept but not to be overlooked…
Even I respect and compliment another man for his clean and pressed clothes. I think wearing good and clean clothes does a terrific job for one's self esteem and psychology and people are more attracted not to the way we dress but to the personality and attitude we get by reflex when we feel good in our skin and clothes. Took me some years to realize that.
Compliments are not attraction or girlfriends.
- Adding layers to your outfits can instantly elevate your look and show good taste.
- Upgrading your shoes is crucial, as they can make or break an outfit.
- Following the rule of thirds can help improve the proportions of your outfit.
- Rolling up your sleeves gives off a casual, confident vibe.
- Wearing a watch can instantly enhance your overall appearance.
- Proper fit is essential to flatter your body shape and enhance your look.
- Finding your personal style or uniform can simplify the process of putting outfits together.
- Taking care of your clothing, steaming, ironing, and using lint rollers can make you look more polished and put together.
In Ireland we have 4 seasons in 1 day, everyone is walking around confused, they don't know what to wear, sunblock and an umbrella
Its true. Been to Ireland pretty regular and I take clothing for all seasons. Going at the weekend and have to dress for a formal dinner, hiking, tennis, a boat trip and sunbathing. Could be a challenge. When the sun comes out though - it really is 'The Emerald Isle'. It's a green I have never seen anywhere else.
😂 good luck out there!
@@CourtneyRyan you give amature advice. Tell then to be the best version of themselves, not be better than people. Your just kid
@@lalosalamanca8574 calm your farm mate what's the matter
@@CourtneyRyan we are humans biengs no one is better than the other. We should strive to be the best version of ourselves. To be better is implying that you think your better. It's very important how you word your words. I can give you good advice ms dating coach. It looks like you need coaching your self. Ms dating coach
I like the color coordination and the simplicity to the layers. Too often, we tend to overcomplicate our look. What you're suggesting here is natural, yet breathable. Thanks for sharing!
Work out and be rich.
u win!!!🎉😂
This is for sure the best advice
Thats what this all comes down to as we all know lol
When you work out every clothes suit you
You don’t have to be rich to have nice things. You just have to know where to look
None of this matters. Best is to get in shape. Put on muscle. I wear a $15 multicolor shirt off Amazon and all the girls compliment me on it. It’s not the cheap shirt, it’s how it fits and looks on me.
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Do you get same-day lays?
@@DavidZ4-gg3dm focus on increasing your self confidence/respect instead of seeking value from no. of lays smh
@FallGuy-ll9cd neither…tribal design
@@MuhammadArshad-zz8te I'm only looking for same-day lays. Achieving that would give me confidence.
A video dedicated to helping others find their sense of style. I’m down with that. Go for it 👍
A 'Finding your style' video would be excellent. Thank you for your dedication some great topics, Courtney! Congrats on your sponsor.
It’s 95 degrees and humid where I’m at so one shirt only!!!
Yep...no adding layers when our Arizona summer highs reach 115°F!
@@azmike3572r.i.p hers
Oh FL. I'd love to wear more layers but they'd be drenched in sweat
Linen always works!
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“Straight to jail. Ya look like a spy kid.” 💀💀💀
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My favorite line in this video too! 😂😂
I instantaneously took my apple watch off when she said this lol
Love it had me rollin. 😂
i have an apple watch, so i wont get a real watch probably ever but apple watches are the Number 1 sold watch in the world
Hahaha I laughed at “make you look like you gave up on your life”. So true 😂
where did she said that
@@donald-e1i1v 2:49
@raizeldicadis8165 Lighten up.
Lol I love and laugh when she said that
@raizeldicadis8165, There is zero rationalization for not caring what you look like. None.
So happy that Thursday Boots sponsor you. I bought a pair of leather boots recently and I couldn't be more happy with the results.
Aww thank you 🥹 I’m so glad you like them!
so jealous of people being able to buy shoes online... in a good way. just don't see that ever possible for myself, otherwise i would.
I'm 55, twice divorced, modest income so no one is interested in me but I still find these videos very helpful.
Just do you, my friend. Don’t worry about drawing others’ attention and just focus on doing the things that give you contentment. You may be surprised who that draws to you. Basically, don’t worry about attracting attention, but don’t close yourself off to it if it comes around. Just sort your own work and hobbies/interests out and have a good time with yourself.
my best advice for u is to reflect on ur life and see if u what u did wrong or from where did it fall off, after that fix it, go out there and u will find a good partner for u, don't worry dude, ur not like 70 lmao, u can still remarry, do a wedding, live like a king with ur familyfor like 20+ or even 30+ yrs if ur taking care of ur health, u only got one life bro and u passed mid point, so make sure to really use the time u got left well and promise that u wouldn't regret it, just one good year of u trying to be the best version of urself can make the rest be fucking awesome, and trust me on that one cuz it comes from a personal experiece but in order to not make this any longer i will finish it off by saying that u already have lived better than most ppl on the planet, so be greatful and make it even more amazing brother, cheers mate
Women are interested in your if you married twice 😂
All nonsense.
I like how you just do a non condescending info dump. It's just right to the point and seems like great advice
"Wear layers"
Laughs from South Texas where we avoid layers for safety reasons (high heat 100°+, high humidity).
Also, with clothing care add 1/4 cup of white vinegar to your laundry. It cleans off your oils and leaves your clothes, even stinky gym clothes, smelling FRESH.
😂 maybe ignore that one and watch my summer video! Lol
Wearing layers doesn't do men justice if they're in-shape as well.
Yeah in 95+ degree NC Summer, I refuse to layer
00:00👋 Welcome! Courtney Ryan introduces a video on how to look better than other guys through style and fashion tips.
00:39🧥 Add Layers: Using layers in outfits instantly adds dimension and style, making simple clothing more interesting.
01:35👔 Five-Point Rule: Outfits should have five components to add dimension and a personal touch.
02:09👟 Upgrade Shoes: Wearing well-maintained and stylish shoes can significantly improve your overall look.
04:00👞 Sponsored by Thursday Boot Company: Courtney promotes high-quality sneakers from Thursday Boot Company.
04:32📏 Rule of Thirds: Understanding proportions in clothing can make outfits more visually appealing and elongate the body.
06:08👕 Roll Up Sleeves: Rolling up sleeves on a button-down shirt gives a casual, confident look.
06:43⌚ Wear a Watch: A real watch (not an Apple Watch) adds sophistication and class to any outfit.
07:55👗 Fit is Everything: Wearing clothes that fit properly enhances your body shape and overall appearance.
09:15🛠 Find Your Style: Developing a personal style or "uniform" simplifies outfit choices and ensures practicality.
10:07🧥 Take Care of Clothes: Properly maintaining clothes through steaming or ironing creates a polished and put-together appearance.
12:24✅ Conclusion: Recap of tips to look better through style and fashion, encouraging viewers to like, subscribe, and comment.
I'm fairly new... Recently I started wearing Suits when I leave my Home. Two situations back to back beautiful women actually talked to me in a flirtatious way and one actually came.up to me to start the conversation.
Game changer. Make sure people feel the pressure when you walk into the room.
Yes, wear a suit when you go to the grocery store. Especially when it's 95 F and 100 percent humidity.
@@davidgloberman3098 they have AC
“Make sure people feel the pressure when you walk in the room.” This is key, especially in a work/office setting. It’s not “pressure” in a bad way, but the kind of pressure that makes people want to perform better, to contribute more meaningfully. Most high-speed people want to be around other high-speed people, and by everyone upping their game, it brings up someone who maybe is a little shy at work, maybe not confident in their abilities, maybe has some imposter syndrome, etc. Some people don’t respond to this, and so be it. But wearing the right clothing to the office instantly tells sets the right tone, attracts like-minded people to you, and creates an intangible kind of “professional sexiness” that appeals to men and women. IMHO.
Thank you Ms. Ryan! Your tips are always valued and appreciated. I do like sneakers but I do feel that white as a color for sneakers is the worst choice. White dirtiest quickly and looks too much like a retro from the eightiess. I would recommend recommend any color but white for sneakers.
Amazon- next level tri blend t shirts $6
5.11- defender slim pants (not jeans)
Flint and tinder- waxed trucker jacket
Red wings- iron rangers 8111
A proper haircut and facial hair that accents your face and boom you will be styling fellas.
Protect this woman at all costs I love her
Everything what you have told Courtney is so true. The most import thing is that to find appropriate fashion that is also good for our health, that they are comfortable for us, and also to have good quality fashion. And that goes for clothes and footwear.
I appreciate your video Courtney. I’m happily married 24 years, but I still like to look good to my bride. Thanks for the tips.
Hey Courtney random guy here. Stumbled across some of your videos and I decided it was time to just do better with myself. I saw your video on the shoes. I really like loafers and what I was wearing we're not hey dudes but you would have called them that. I took your advice and bought a pair of penny loafers that I really like in a dark brown. I also decided to go ahead and get a smartwatch since I was debating on getting one for work anyway. Makes my job a bit easier but I had also got a dark brown leather band for it. I also got a new brown leather belt. I was already wearing solid colored shirts with nothing on them. And slipped on some Lands Ends dark jeans. So I had all this on and went out to lunch with some family that was in town. Afterwards I stopped by the store to get some groceries and right away noticed I was getting some looks. One of the associates stopped in her tracks and asked if I needed any help. I told her with a smile I was good it's just the store got remodeled. It happened very quick but she checked me up and down then goes no worries didn't mean to startle you (she didn't) and then grabbed my arm and gave it a quick squeeze when she said that. Nice lady and she told me to let her know if I need any help. Walking away from that I was just like whoa that just happened for real! When I went to check out, one of the associates there also checked me up and down super fast. I've been watching these videos and spotted what to look for so seeing it happen for real was pretty cool. That being said I wasn't romantically interested but hey it's a start! 😅
*It’s interesting to see how small changes, like improving posture and grooming, can make such a huge difference. Women definitely notice the little things, and this video highlights exactly what stands out.*
No, they don't. They're either interested or they're not. Sorry.
Hey Courtney! I just wanted to take a moment to express my heartfelt gratitude for your amazing content. As someone from Paris, I’ve been following your channel since day one, and I can’t even begin to describe how much it has impacted me. Your insightful videos about men have been instrumental in my personal growth and have given me a deeper understanding of relationships. The way you approach important topics with such kindness and intelligence is truly inspiring. Your work has made a significant difference in my life, and I can’t thank you enough for that.💕
Oh my goodness, you are so kind. I’m so glad I am able to help. Thank you so much for the comment and for being here 🥹💕
Good luck with that adding layers theory in places that are really hot year-round like down here in FL...
I wasn't expecting the Thursday Boots link when I clicked on this, but... I bought a pair of Thursday cap-toe boots based on an earlier video, and suddenly I get comments at work and my son (much more stylish than I) is borrowing them. Thanks for helping this 57 year old look a little better!
Woohoo! Love to hear it 🥰
Their stuff looks amazing. Going to get a pair of something from Thursday boots
Great video. Please do videos on finding your style, and on proportions, those would both be super helpful. I'm quite tall (6’ 3”), but don't always think I dress the best for it.
A Thursday sponsorship is awesome. Congratulations 👏
Thank you! I’m so excited about it 🥹 lol
A finding your style video would be great. I trust you because I'm anti croc, Apple watch, and sneakers with suits (or white midsole shoes).
A video about how to find your style would be perfect for a lot of us especially me as a black guy who’s culture style is centered around graphic streetwear and Nike/Jordans 😂 🤢
I can do it! 👏🏼
Nikes and Jordans clean
You emphasized on layers, but I am interested on how you would approach this for someone who lives in a tropical country or place or anywhere that is just plain hot.
@@KK95_Ph sometimes it’s just not feasible! You could try a tank with a breezy short sleeve shirt (worn open) but sometimes even that might feel toasty depending on the temp. Definitely pay attention to the fabric of your clothing and go for those lighter weight, breathable fabrics like I mentioned - I think that will make the biggest difference for you 👏🏼 linen is a lifesaver in the summer
My turn. Mountain country white boy.
So no Apple Watch? Is there a stylish option that I can still have my calculator, timer, and step counter on?
Yeah, a phone mate 😂😂
Courtney could you one day do a video going into detail about finding clothes that fit. Maybe where you go into detail on a lot of body types. I have trouble picturing which clothes will work for me I’m clueless on the actual practical things to look for.
This was the best video in a while btw, very useful.
I can do that! So glad it was helpful! 🥰
Something I heard was a tailored cheap shirt is better than an untailored expensive one.
My Chelsea boots have been one of the biggest upgrades I’ve made, find your own style, and don’t back off it! I’ve had women tell me they don’t quite understand my style, but they really like it. Its the combination of things that make you look unique and fashionable.
A button down with rolled up sleeves has a classy and masculine vibe at the same time. Also love the "spy kid" line 😂
😂👏🏼 glad you enjoyed!
Men don't have outfits, they have clothes, and important distinction. What many women fail to realise is that if men wanted to be stylish then they would be stylish without any input from women. Women are projecting when they see a guy who they think looks improperly dressed that it is simply a matter of him being ignorant of what is in fashion and what looks good on him. When the actual reason is that he doesn't care what people think of his clothing choices.
correct
appearance has social value, so if you value your social life, you should start caring what others think of your appearance
@@vecto8695 up until your appearance has no impact on your social life; I could have the best haircut and start wearing perfume and nice clothes and stuff, but I'd bet my life savings no one at my school will treat me any different
I do remember you saying about rolling up the cuff of your t-shirt sleeves is another way to add a layer without actually putting on another layer and I haven't stopped doing that very thing
Yes! It looks great!
I wear an Apple Watch, but the only difference is it’s way more than just for looks. It’s something I actually use in my everyday life. I’m currently on a 60 day fitness streak and counting and it helps me keep track. Much rather not spend extra money for something that’s just going to be for looks, and won’t help me keep track of my fitness progress. It’s definitely going to take alot more than this to break my current streak, thanks
*Les’t have a conversation*🛐🤷♀️🤦♂️
Yeah but maybe don’t take it on a date that’s all
Lol, I brought running shoes specifically to wear with casual outfits (I don't run). I got some cheap white Nike Air rip-offs to wear when I'm out and about. Shoes are expensive so I usually only have two pairs at any given time; work shoes and non-work shoes. If i'm not at work then I'm guaranteed to be wearing the Nike Air rip-offs.
I wear jeans and nice shirt most of the time.
Hence you probably don't look better than other guys
Dumbest comment you could make, dude. I'm confident you're less attractive. Grow up.
you don't know his face
A find your style video would be really helpful!! If you could add some tips for bald guys that would really be helpful too in my opinion, because we really do have to change alot about our wardrobe since we lack that contrast hair gives to overall style.
She is literally married to the watch guy lol but i do agree a watch is prob the easiest upgrade. I think alot of women do appreciate smart watches tho
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Not the watch guy, THE watch guy lmao
@@somerandominternetuser5730 i stand corrected lol
Would love to hear your ideas on putting colours together. ie what goes and what doesn’t.
I'm getting those Boots I love your recommendations absolute love for the content
They are wonderful! Happy I could help!
I think personal style will always be a factor, as well as comfort and circumstances such as weather or the events you’re going to. These are great videos though, but If you’re at a sporting event, like a football game leave your loafers at home.
Best one-liners throughout the video 😂 loved it..
Makes you look like you have given up on your life.
Straight to jail, you like a spy kid 😂
Oh, my.. you are amazing! ❤
As a mathematician, I am going to look into the Rule of Thirds 🤔 I conjecture that there is a connection with the Golden Ratio. Great video, Courtney!
You would be correct! 👏🏼
@@CourtneyRyan after doing some reading, the Rule of Thirds is a simplified version of the Golden Ratio; the proportions are not quite the same, but the Rule of Thirds does achieve a similar "pleasing to look at" effect associated with the Golden Ratio! I find it super cool that these mathematical ideas have a fun and useful application to fashion 😄
The Golden Ratio is a staple of Restorative/Esthetic (dare I use the word “Cosmetic”) Dentistry at the highest levels of artistic and functional excellence within the profession. It’s a principle anyone can understand, unfortunately not many achieve. Never thought I’d find the subject mentioned here. Regards
This tutorial just made everything so much clearer!
My biggest objection to wearing "nice shoes" out in public as opposed to more versatile shoes like running shoes, is that if anything ever goes wrong and you have to run, fight, help someone in need, etc, you start out at a huge disadvantage as most of the "nice shoes" are not made for any type of hard/fast physical activity. And personally with how crazy things are nowadays I would much rather be ready for that "one time" where things go wrong than look nicer on the other 50-100 times where everything was fine. Probably just being too cautious but at the end of the day it only takes that one time out being caught off guard to have drastic consequences for you or someone around you and it's hard to just ignore that so I can look nicer.
I actually agree. I rather be a man than a pretty boy who looks put together. Comfort over fashion like a true American, haha. My rule of thumb; you could look messy, just don't look messed up.
I believe it is possible that you are silly.
@@highsol222 Amen brother!
that's true. when I go out I spend most of my time walking, once in a while I might need to run to catch a bus, sneakers and loafers are not really ideal for that. I mostly wear slip on walking shoes, I find them to be a good amalgamation of style, comfort and utility.
Agreed 100%
Been watching for like a year and had no idea that I wasn’t subscribed. Thank you, Courtney, for giving shy men like myself confidence. You have earned yourself a sub 👍🏼
It’s my pleasure ❤️ thanks for being here!
Thanks Courtney, love your channel
It’s my pleasure! Thanks for being here! ❤️
Thanks for all the tips! I just took my watch out of the third drawer that I never open! Time to add a link to it though;) Really? Ladies like the rolled up sleeves. I do it cause I like it. Nice to know the ladies do as well, and that it is a timeless look. The 1/3 rule is new to me. Thanks for that. I think that means I should get my button downs tailored a bit. Thank God I grew out of wearing chunky tennis (basketball) shoes like every-damn-where!!! So comfy though, but bye-bye....... I'll check out Thursday Boot Company. Just bought a pair of Ace Marks dress sneaker. Thanks again!
The bar is so low it is pretty easy. You'll see a guy out with his girlfriend/wife and she has a nice summer dress on and he has cargo shorts, t-shirt and sandals.
Pretty much lol
Am I the only one who can’t stand cargo shorts?
He's spending a fortune on her.
Most women's bar for men is ridiculously high. He'd have had to put in loads of effort & money to start the relationship.
@@DavidZ4-gg3dm and then get a ran through emotionally damaged woman from endless hookups and situationships. Reason why many men are just opting out of dating juice isn’t worth the squeeze
3:00 when the video talks to you straight to your face. lol. As I look at my running shoes. Never again unless I'm wearing ath/leisure. got it.
I'm still wearing my apple watch 😝
straight to jail!
Me too. Titanium with titanium band ftw 🔥
Yes, I would like you to make that video on finding your style…Thanks
Your quip about men and Apple watches was hilarious! "You look like a spy kid", instant classic!
Layers I can do. I have an apple watch, so the classic watch idea is out. Yes, leather shoe is much better looking than a sneaker, but they are also a lot more uncomfortable. Yes, i know its more comfortable than a woman's high heel, but its not as comfortable as a sneaker lol.
You have a beautiful family and channel glad I subscribed
You’re so sweet, thank you 🥹
Can confirm Thursday makes good products. I have several boots and sneakers from Thursday and the quality is a noticeable step up from mainstream brands. For the sneaker though go with your normal size. Boots you'll need to size down.
F*cking love how she throws shade on the Apple Watch...so true
Her Husband is a watch guy, of course she threw some shade. Many great points in this video however Most of this is “look” over comfort or practicality. My Altras are 1000 times more comfortable and better made than the tuesday sneaker( i have both) and my “spy kid” 🍎 watch is much more practical than my Rolex, Seiko, Hamilton…(yes i’m into watches) which have become more of an accessory compared to the spy kid watch. 🤷🏽♂️
@@jessemartinez6120 Perhaps more practical, but a Rolex is expensive because it isn't made with slave labor. Seiko is all around solid, made in Japan with out slave labor too. Probably costs Apple $20 to manufacture their spy bracelet, then they mark it up 50x...People pay out the nose because they are followers.
Yep I loved that too lol. I went back to a traditional analog watch 3 months ago, got sick of charging the rubbish Apple Watch Ultra every day, and tired of having to update the software, among other reasons, so I sold it. And the watch I have now is solar powered, so apart from making sure it gets light on it, I don’t have to worry about replacing batteries. I’ll never go back to an Apple Watch ever again lol.
I'm never ever getting a classic watch again. Sorry, but this is so archaic nowadays. Basically a jewelry - just an unnecessary added weight. Men are practical creatures - we don't really like owning or carrying pointless items.
@@jessemartinez6120 double standard = be fit, but don't have your digital tracker/accountabilibuddy (mine is) to hit goals every day, not just whenever.
Hey! Useful stuff as always! I just kindly wonder if the bad impression of Apple Watch can be fixed by replacing a different watch strap that makes the watch look like a regular watch?? I still like my Apple Watches cuz it’s so convenient:(
I agree absolutely about the Apple watch. my daughter's boyfriend, now fiancee, has one and it drives me bat-shit crazy to see it glowing and blinking at me while we are at the dinner table. Almost as bad, I gave my daughter a lovely Mont Blanc watch for graduation which is doesn't wear, in favour of just using her iPhone for telling time. It's not all about practicality - a $10 quartz watch has been a better time-piece for the last 40 years. But a watch is a lovely accessory and style statement.
Yes would like to see a video on finding your style. My style seems to be changing as I get older.
Sorry I'm 57 into this day I don't really care about outward appearrance since I was 20 .. if a woman is that superficial then I won't have her anyway so it doesn't matter to me
I don’t think it’s about being superficial! But thank you for sharing ❤️
@@CourtneyRyan cheerio
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@@CourtneyRyan I concur with his opinion as a 30 year-old man myself I prefer to just be basic and standard when it comes to fashion some jeans, long sleeve compression shirt, and a T-shirt over that have some basic standard colors that’s about it and I don’t exactly have the financial luxury of buying expensive clothing due to my financial obligations granted I understand your perspective but most of this advice is a complete turn off for me. Keep in mind I’m not saying a man should not put an effort to impress a woman but I think there’s a fine line between making effort and going over the top especially when economics are factored in. Seemingly inexpensive, high-quality clothing, combined with multiple articles of clothing adds up and makes shopping for clothes much more expensive.
So confused at why you are here? this is what @CourtneyRyan videos are about.
i agree on pretty much everything except the watch. I'm too practical. 😂 a phone is a good enough tool to get the time, and, using a PC on a desk all the time id hate to scratch my precious watch every day.
also the apple watch line was hilarious 🤣
Disagree on the watches; it completely depends on what aesthetic you want to convey. Not everyone is trying to look classy. Sure it’s pretty common to want to look cleaned up and classy, but some folks find that boring or don’t resonate with it.
Tbqh, people who go for looking classy often come off to me as “I don’t really know myself well or have the courage to be authentic, so I’ll just go along with what everyone else likes so I don’t look like a loser or outcast”. But that’s just me lol 😂
being an outcast and having your own vibe despite everyone else, rules 😎
You think wearing an Apple Watch is being authentic?
Absolutely on the “finding your style” video. And maybe one on pairing watches with outfits. I have several Tissot watches, but should I wear a PRX with a suit, or a Gentleman? When should I wear a dive watch vs a GMT?
Courtney, real talk.
From elementary school to my 40s, every single time I've attempted to look good, improve my grooming, dress nicer, etc, I have ALWAYS gotten beaten up. Every single time. It always starts the same, getting shit thrown at me until I throw something back. Followed by the bullies saying, "hey, wanna fight?" And even when I backed away, I'd get jumped by 2-3 of them. Never, ever was it 1 on 1. My clothes would be ruined, my face and body bloodied, and hair ruined or torn out. Yes, this has even happened at bars with men in my age range attacking me yet again.
And then all of these bullies would get ALL the girls.
Why the FUCK should I do a damn thing to try to attract women, when men just beat the shit out of me for it and YOU as women, sleep with them for it?
Why is this comments section full of incels?
Go watch something else if you don't want to dress good...
I'm very sorry to hear that.
But that's the environment you were/are in. Not that dressing better/more stylish gets you automatically beaten up in most cases.
Also, the women who like "tough guys" (jerks) aren't the ones you allegedly will ever attract. Luckily, they aren't exactly prevalent. Being a self-confident man, you will attract women that like your personality. Being dressed better will speed the process up.
@@dapifog12 The environment isn't going to change. It's beyond that, its society. Women want rich fuckboys or thugs, and do NOT want a decent man. They see that as weak.
@@dapifog12 It's not "environment", it's society. Women don't want decent men, they find that boring. They love rich guys who fly them out to Ibiza and Miami, and thugs, nothing more. I've long since given up because proper grooming is going to get me killed at this point.
@@dapifog12 My comments keep getting eaten.
No, it's not "environment", it's society. Unless you're a rich gigachad who flies girls out to Ibiza or Miami, or you're a thug who will smack them around, they don't want you. Decent men are "boring" in their eyes.
Yes please show that video you've mentioned how to select your style proportions
You are correct with the watch , to me having a watch is manly.
I simply prefer wearing an old fashioned watch to carrying a digital phone all the time, if all I need is to check the time.
@@gaynzz6841 Same here 👍
Actually a great video. Insightful!
Get jacked...💪
I would love to find my style and really appreciate advice from u n a video about finding my style
👊 *What is 6 inches long, 2 inches wide and drives women absolutely crazy?*
Money.
Yeah, that too.
Fantastic video! As a dude really into fashion and style I do think a few tips should be taken with a grain of salt.
My favorite concept is learning the rules so you understand how to break them. The rule of thirds for example, while a great guideline, must not limit your experimentation with themes and styles. An oversized sweater, or tee can be paired with slim pants or sweats-shorts even. Dirty sneakers can be an intentional piece.
I say this because men’s clothing is limiting. There’s only so many outfits with a button up that appear interesting (especially if we all wear it). It’s about, expression, not always interesting women. Form fitting, while an awesome tip, might not always be the best for a given mood. Counter that with, the exact opposite! A small guy, not hiding the fact he’s small, a big guy not trying to mask his belly. Anything, if styled and considered, can enhance you. Which, I think goes a long way for attracting the right women. The super baggy coat and baggy white shirt wasn’t a bad outfit at all, but maybe lacked a short necklace, or messy hair or hat to compliment the baggy casual aesthetic.
I think men lack variety, which is why it’s hard to style ourselves. Women have infinite amount of artifacts with various different cuts. That being said, there’s a fun aspect to making the most of what we’ve got.
Oh and the Apple Watch, having a nice watch to compliment a really fancy outfit is dope. But sorry, it’s way too useful to put down. And if paired with a good band and watch face, even finish (ie. Stainless steel vs aluminum watch) it can actually look really good. Again, understanding why something works or doesn’t, to go with or against trends to express yourself.
Really great to have a woman give her opinion on how to style ourselves though! A lot of men’s styling content is bland and tries too hard to be “masculine” instead of authentic. Also, goes to show that, yes boys, styling yourself isn’t gay or too feminine.
Your husband does not look like he used the gym.
I dont think this video is adressed to husbands, dont you think so?
@@angeloselvaggio6030 you are right. Only men.
Someone needs to turn down the jealousy there lady😂. Pretty sure he's outdressing your (maybe) guy either way.
@@user-nv7nc7uv7c no one gives a shit. Does he dress up like that at the gym?
This channel is worth more than gold
Why don't you talk about what men don't like about women. Tats, nose piercings, colored hair, too much makeup, Instagrams and TH-cam videos that's trying to sell you something. Yes, I'm talking about you Courtney!! lol
Lmao 😂
If she has tats and/or piercings, run for your lives.
I enjoyed this talk and have a lot more questions now. A video on how to find your style would be interesting and maybe a video on how to dress for the occasion would be super helpful as well.
Ms. Ryan,
A video on finding styles and body types would be much appreciated.
Your videos are very useful, thanks Courtney.
wow, courtney . i looked totally a different person when I tried layering. Thank you
Your hair looks amazing btw.
For guys its tougher during the summer. It's too hot in the south to layer much. It makes more sense to maximize the few pieces you are wearing.
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I'd like to see the video about how to find my style. Thank you.
thanks for sharing the names of the style of shirts for the layering section, I've been trying to do that for awhile, but it's hard when you don't know the style of shirts that you see
Glad it was helpful! ❤️
I don't where button down shirts. At work I wear long shirts with a flat bottom. An Oxford tucked in wraps around my belly, showing my belly
Yes please I want to see a video on finding your style
New Subscriber Here! I came across your channel last night and was like I’m not watching this. But I did and now I’m in like 30 videos in. As an African American man I have learned a lot. I have the shoes and watches and a lot of the clothes but had kind of let myself go. I began to wonder why I wasn’t getting the attention that I used to. So thanks to Courtney and Sadia. I’m back in the saddle and this at 55 years old. I’m actually glad that I started watching your channel. Oh and one last key thing she opened my mind too. I’m no slob but having a high paying job and a nice car. Is great but you gotta make a good impression with quality women. I had taken that concept for granted and Courtney is helping us along this journey. I can’t thank her enough.
Aww it’s my pleasure! Thanks for being here and for the kind comment 🥰
What would be helpful is to show outfits that combine the same type of style/texture. How would an "all tweed style" or an "all slick and shiney" type of outfit look? Understanding individual pieces is incredibly necessary, but how do you make a series of outfits that are cohesive and portray an overall feel?
Great vid. Thanks! I like the rule of thirds advice. Also your tip on shoes. Good stuff!
The problem I have is to learn what should be a proper lenght of a t-shirt? When is it too long and when too short? Any tips?
I’d love a video where you go over how to find your own style.