To not go for the kiss on a first date is wasting time. You might as well ask for it "give me a kiss". You are dating, you both know what the agenda is.
Read my book to learn the basics. Kiss women on the first date! If they don't kiss back they're not interested. What you are doing is a one way ticket to friends zone.
you can do whatever you want but in nature men are hugely interested in men who are cute and in men you can have everything but women dont care ,may be care but their attraction level are veryyyyyyyyyy low for men
All I had was about 11$. I took a girl out on a date. Bought her and I Mcflurry and brought her to Top of Africa. Spending time there, with just ice cream, we spoke, walked around and made out like crazy! I realized its the little things that girls want, that's if your taking the lead in the process. But I want to ask you Coach, I know your book is about mostly having a successful night in bed, but I'm a Christian and have believed and still do, in no sex before marriage.. How do I go about making her love me and commited without including sex. I do understand the whole theme towards sex, but sex isn't love, you can sleep with a ho and not fall in love, so I want to preserve my sperms for Mrs right one day. Even if its not the girl I took out with only 11$, but all girls in general. Because I'm heavily against sex before marriage, most things in your book are so true, but how can I do what's written if I'm convicted based on my belief. Even with this girl, I'm so broke I can't even afford a second date. First date I took her out broke. Now we out here texting which already is a flop in your book. I've invested in the financial market, and left myself with small change, and that date was such a bold random move. So how do you prolong a potential relationship without sex? Thanks coach
Went for the kiss last night at the end of the date. She made the first move for a hug which I excepted, then pulled her close went for the kiss which she gladly excepted and then then said "oh thank you"!!!!!!
I did the same thing the other night. Pulled her in for a quick kiss after a hug she offered, then she started making out with me. For a second i thought she'd never let me go😅
Never go for the hug, but if she tries to hug you, she wants to touch you, accept it. Then before you pull away, look her in the eyes, and go for the kiss.
I dropped a girl I met off at her house. Didn't think she was that into me by the end of the date. She hugged me when I was dropping her off, told her to come back when she started to turn around and kissed her. Ended up getting laid
I have always dated shy men and your point is valid but sometimes it takes a second date for a shy man to work up the courage to go for the kiss. After that, yea the interest is probably not there.
In an older woman yes....younger women...could really mess them up. If there is chemistry I let it happen naturally. Even the most confident woman can be intimidated by a really hot man and because of that they think we are players just trying to use them. Long as you have a connection there is nothing wrong with waiting a date or two. Specially with younger women. A kiss is so personal and intimate. It's what we do while having sex. That's huge for a woman! Not us.
I've learned that the sooner you can pick up on the signs and kiss, the better. It just breaks all of that tension and Ice, allowing things to get even more flirty and romantic.
I agree, but I kiss them on the nose like Snoopy (after I arm wrestle them) this is true and they see a lot of confidence but are confused about their Bi-eskimoality
U are supposed to ask more girls out, is a numbers game. Have an abundance mentality dnt concentrate on just 1 girl but many, try again , and again and again.
If a girl doesn't kiss you on the lips on the first date, it means she respects herself. Romantic relationships take time. A lot of time. The more it takes, the greater the tension and the better the feeling of finally convincing her you are the one. It is a war that consists of multiple battles.
The guy I went on a first date tried to kiss me I said no lol doesnt mean I'm not into him. I am very much so but at the same time I need to get to know him better lol bit more .
@@MrCjchamp2001 bz it doesnt feel right. ( to me) its like kissing a stranger . Just not my thing.id not think kissing a guy on a firt date would make a women a hoe tho.
A kiss on the lips, So Do you mean u would say no to; a quick kiss, a long kiss, a kiss with lips close, a kiss with mouth open, a kiss with thoungue , a kiss with no toungue , can you please be specific as to which kiss u would say no to??? And if u feel attracted to ur date why would you not give him a kiss??? Fearn shame, rules, why???
A kiss on the lips, So Do you mean u would say no to; a quick kiss, a long kiss, a kiss with lips close, a kiss with mouth open, a kiss with thoungue , a kiss with no toungue , can you please be specific as to which kiss u would say no to??? And if u feel attracted to ur date why would you not give him a kiss??? Fearn shame, rules, why???
Or, go for the evaluation kiss before the date a hello kiss greeting her.break the ice and set the tone for the night. Plus that can help you decide what to order for dinner. If she responded and kisses you. Then you can feed her the lobster tail maybe even dip it in the butter and put it in her mouth, that's my definition of courtship feeding. If she doesn't kiss you, then it's burgers, no fries even.
So with my previous girlfriend I gave her a props on the first date, second date we kissed. The girl I went on a date this previous weekend I hugged. Hopefully I get a second date, if I don't well then I learn my lesson and move on.
I think the kiss is like a test of weather if She's into u a lot or not a lot. So at the end if the date if u did things right or did things wrong and go for it . then u would know.
Great stuff, man! I love your book. I'm 18 and began with girls just like you. Now after around 10 girls in my life I tried, I read your book and watched your videos and now I'm going to be on the 4th date of a girl I finally hooked up on date 1. There's one question left. What do I do on date 2, 3, 4, 5 etc.? I know I have to hook up, but when picking her up, do I need to go for a greeting kiss? And if I already kissed her on the date, do I go for the good night kiss, too? Thanks in advance, Corey! :)
That's not true that if a girl doesn't kiss a guy back on the first date she's not interested! I can not kiss anyone after a few hours with someone, no matter how much I like him!!! I am very shy, and I need to spend more time with someone than 2-3 hours before I am going to be that intimate with someone. It's just not going to happen - but it does not at all mean that I am not interested! You telling guys to just give up when she doesn't kiss him back on the first date is so wrong!
b1LL1eMc , apparently you're not listening to what he says. You're a structured woman because you have rules and that's fine for you but not for most guys unless they are lame. You just told us what you can't do because you have a certain belief system and that's what he was referring to. Yes, you may be interested in that person but you're holding back because you think it makes you look loose, how? It's not like your sleeping with him my goodness, relax and live a little hunny
Bare Grills even if you are leaning in for the kiss and she responds the same she might still respond the same because you haven't said something strait after so to break the silence she will say it anyway. you can make sure by asking if liked it
I disagree here, this differs from a society to another. Some people whether men or women can’t go for it on the first date. They want to feel more comfortable especially 1st is more confused.
No just try and set a date if you haven’t been blowing up her phone, if she doesn’t wanna do it or she’s busy I’d wait like two weeks, unless she texts you back first, if she doesn’t try and set one more date if she doesn’t want too then move on. Hit up every girl on your Facebook friends list, say you find them fun or interesting and you’d love too take them out for a drink or have them come over your house with a bottle of wine and make dinner, when are you free. Do that too everyone you think is cute and one of them will agree.
Dexter Morgan ah i get what you’re saying here my friend, I would suggest doing like the same as texting, when it comes to letting her come to you just let that happen, just don’t post stupid boring shit on your story, but Snapchat and texting are pretty similar coming from a senior in high school
Half of girls i'v been with, didn't want be kissed in first time, that shows low level of interest, i was a gentle man, spent shit load of money buying dinner and drink for them in first date, now i can tell if a girl is into me or not in first date,
Corey - I should've found you before man, just had my first date, while we were leaving I asked her if i can kiss and she said no (smilingly) and just gave me a hug. What should I do now in 2nd date? I don't want to show that I am desperate also. How can I kiss her? Thanks
I think you messed up by asking. You are the man and the leader. You should tell her i will kiss you and go for it. Do not ask her or wait for her approval. Since she said no smilingly, it means she was shy so you woulda just went for it.
Kissing tests to see if she is interested in you or sees if she’s not interested or structured As hard as it is at times, be direct and go for what you want “Why don’t you come over here and bring those beautiful lips” --> be playful whe she expresses interest Hit her up a few days later to set up. Date for the following week, “hey when are you free next week so we can get together again” ^^^ How about I pick you uo, wear xyz, we’ll do something fun. AND GO FOR THE KISS
Women expect real men to go for the kiss at the end of the date. You don't ask. This is how dates work. Guys go for the kiss at the end. You might want to look at her lips and then into her eyes back and forth and pull her close to see how she reacts... because she will realize what you're about to do and stop you if she doesn't want you to... but you need to go for the kiss.
To not go for the kiss on a first date is wasting time. You might as well ask for it "give me a kiss". You are dating, you both know what the agenda is.
Read my book to learn the basics. Kiss women on the first date! If they don't kiss back they're not interested. What you are doing is a one way ticket to friends zone.
you can do whatever you want but in nature men are hugely interested in men who are cute and in men you can have everything but women dont care ,may be care but their attraction level are veryyyyyyyyyy low for men
I got it corey thanks😎
All I had was about 11$. I took a girl out on a date. Bought her and I Mcflurry and brought her to Top of Africa. Spending time there, with just ice cream, we spoke, walked around and made out like crazy! I realized its the little things that girls want, that's if your taking the lead in the process. But I want to ask you Coach, I know your book is about mostly having a successful night in bed, but I'm a Christian and have believed and still do, in no sex before marriage.. How do I go about making her love me and commited without including sex. I do understand the whole theme towards sex, but sex isn't love, you can sleep with a ho and not fall in love, so I want to preserve my sperms for Mrs right one day. Even if its not the girl I took out with only 11$, but all girls in general.
Because I'm heavily against sex before marriage, most things in your book are so true, but how can I do what's written if I'm convicted based on my belief.
Even with this girl, I'm so broke I can't even afford a second date.
First date I took her out broke.
Now we out here texting which already is a flop in your book.
I've invested in the financial market, and left myself with small change, and that date was such a bold random move.
So how do you prolong a potential relationship without sex?
Thanks coach
Went for the kiss last night at the end of the date. She made the first move for a hug which I excepted, then pulled her close went for the kiss which she gladly excepted and then then said "oh thank you"!!!!!!
Nice going
you dirty dog
I did the same thing the other night. Pulled her in for a quick kiss after a hug she offered, then she started making out with me. For a second i thought she'd never let me go😅
Im scared to do that
Wow
Never go for the hug, but if she tries to hug you, she wants to touch you, accept it. Then before you pull away, look her in the eyes, and go for the kiss.
Going for a kiss too early, fucks everything up too.
Definitely gotta hug then go for the kiss at the end
I dropped a girl I met off at her house. Didn't think she was that into me by the end of the date. She hugged me when I was dropping her off, told her to come back when she started to turn around and kissed her. Ended up getting laid
Wow truly amazing
i just went to my second date and i choke she got scared and ask me if i was ok i couldn't say anything because something got stuck in my throught.
I have always dated shy men and your point is valid but sometimes it takes a second date for a shy man to work up the courage to go for the kiss. After that, yea the interest is probably not there.
i hugged a lady after one date, never saw her again
I never kiss on the first date. I wait until the next one. It's better to build up the tension.
I had a girl back away when I went for first kiss...backed off a bit, teased her and eventually she kissed me
In an older woman yes....younger women...could really mess them up. If there is chemistry I let it happen naturally. Even the most confident woman can be intimidated by a really hot man and because of that they think we are players just trying to use them. Long as you have a connection there is nothing wrong with waiting a date or two. Specially with younger women. A kiss is so personal and intimate. It's what we do while having sex. That's huge for a woman! Not us.
I've learned that the sooner you can pick up on the signs and kiss, the better. It just breaks all of that tension and Ice, allowing things to get even more flirty and romantic.
I agree, but I kiss them on the nose like Snoopy (after I arm wrestle them)
this is true and they see a lot of confidence but are confused about their Bi-eskimoality
Bring those sweet lips over here (after she displays further interest) is a ' pure Boss ' move! Noted
She showed very interesting signs touching smiling gazing..
But when kiss her she didn't kiss me back
Wtf am I supposed to do now
U are supposed to ask more girls out, is a numbers game.
Have an abundance mentality dnt concentrate on just 1 girl but many, try again , and again and again.
If a girl doesn't kiss you on the lips on the first date, it means she respects herself. Romantic relationships take time. A lot of time. The more it takes, the greater the tension and the better the feeling of finally convincing her you are the one. It is a war that consists of multiple battles.
@@thecanadianwill A woman kissing a man on the first date doesn't make her a hoe. It's just a kiss. Not sex.
The guy I went on a first date tried to kiss me I said no lol doesnt mean I'm not into him. I am very much so but at the same time I need to get to know him better lol bit more .
@@MrCjchamp2001 bz it doesnt feel right. ( to me) its like kissing a stranger . Just not my thing.id not think kissing a guy on a firt date would make a women a hoe tho.
A kiss on the lips,
So Do you mean u would say no to; a quick kiss, a long kiss, a kiss with lips close, a kiss with mouth open, a kiss with thoungue , a kiss with no toungue , can you please be specific as to which kiss u would say no to???
And if u feel attracted to ur date why would you not give him a kiss??? Fearn shame, rules, why???
A kiss on the lips,
So Do you mean u would say no to; a quick kiss, a long kiss, a kiss with lips close, a kiss with mouth open, a kiss with thoungue , a kiss with no toungue , can you please be specific as to which kiss u would say no to???
And if u feel attracted to ur date why would you not give him a kiss??? Fearn shame, rules, why???
Or, go for the evaluation kiss before the date a hello kiss greeting her.break the ice and set the tone for the night. Plus that can help you decide what to order for dinner. If she responded and kisses you. Then you can feed her the lobster tail maybe even dip it in the butter and put it in her mouth, that's my definition of courtship feeding. If she doesn't kiss you, then it's burgers, no fries even.
The kiss is shops to be on the lips.
How is the hello kiss show u if She's interested???
U want to kiss the lips on the first date at the greeting???
@@vikingored5993 not on the lips.. on the cheek lol it breaks the ice and shows confidence
So with my previous girlfriend I gave her a props on the first date, second date we kissed. The girl I went on a date this previous weekend I hugged. Hopefully I get a second date, if I don't well then I learn my lesson and move on.
Should you still go for the kiss, if the signs are not there? Because then it would feel like a forced one...
I think the kiss is like a test of weather if She's into u a lot or not a lot.
So at the end if the date if u did things right or did things wrong and go for it . then u would know.
Great stuff, man! I love your book. I'm 18 and began with girls just like you. Now after around 10 girls in my life I tried, I read your book and watched your videos and now I'm going to be on the 4th date of a girl I finally hooked up on date 1.
There's one question left. What do I do on date 2, 3, 4, 5 etc.? I know I have to hook up, but when picking her up, do I need to go for a greeting kiss? And if I already kissed her on the date, do I go for the good night kiss, too?
Thanks in advance, Corey! :)
What if the signs are not there? Do you still and always go for the kiss
that becomes harassment then :D
Alex O You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take!
@@benjaminsh8576 thats what im afraid of
I dated a girl for a while. Took a break and redated her and went for it and she said I was moving to fast. So idk it depends
chris Morrison she was, but I learned a lesson from it. Each relationship you grow as a man
Then she was just wasting your time
what if i hug her and when we separate a little i go in for the kiss? this seems more natural to me
Always go for the FUCKING kiss
That's not true that if a girl doesn't kiss a guy back on the first date she's not interested! I can not kiss anyone after a few hours with someone, no matter how much I like him!!! I am very shy, and I need to spend more time with someone than 2-3 hours before I am going to be that intimate with someone. It's just not going to happen - but it does not at all mean that I am not interested! You telling guys to just give up when she doesn't kiss him back on the first date is so wrong!
Lulu Bubbles i am for sex the same night i meet them and if it doesnt happen on to the next
b1LL1eMc , apparently you're not listening to what he says. You're a structured woman because you have rules and that's fine for you but not for most guys unless they are lame. You just told us what you can't do because you have a certain belief system and that's what he was referring to. Yes, you may be interested in that person but you're holding back because you think it makes you look loose, how? It's not like your sleeping with him my goodness, relax and live a little hunny
b1LL1eMc I’m not kissing anyone without a std test. Oral transmission is real sorry.
forever young , lol your nuts
Stephen Miller better than herpes 🤢
Is it bad if a girl said she wasn't expecting me to kiss her?
Bare Grills some girls secretly love spontaneous characters, if she wants too see you again then its okay
Bare Grills even if you are leaning in for the kiss and she responds the same she might still respond the same because you haven't said something strait after so to break the silence she will say it anyway. you can make sure by asking if liked it
I disagree here, this differs from a society to another. Some people whether men or women can’t go for it on the first date. They want to feel more comfortable especially 1st is more confused.
what if she kisses back but not long
Dont be a Simp..Go for the Kiss.👍Also keep your Date cheap .Coffe date ..No fine dinning.
I need help guys! Yesterday we met and smoked it went perfect but I hugged her! Do I have another shot at it???? Maybe next time???
No just try and set a date if you haven’t been blowing up her phone, if she doesn’t wanna do it or she’s busy I’d wait like two weeks, unless she texts you back first, if she doesn’t try and set one more date if she doesn’t want too then move on. Hit up every girl on your Facebook friends list, say you find them fun or interesting and you’d love too take them out for a drink or have them come over your house with a bottle of wine and make dinner, when are you free. Do that too everyone you think is cute and one of them will agree.
Does this apply with snapchat, how often should you contact a girl?
Dexter Morgan ah i get what you’re saying here my friend, I would suggest doing like the same as texting, when it comes to letting her come to you just let that happen, just don’t post stupid boring shit on your story, but Snapchat and texting are pretty similar coming from a senior in high school
Half of girls i'v been with, didn't want be kissed in first time, that shows low level of interest, i was a gentle man, spent shit load of money buying dinner and drink for them in first date, now i can tell if a girl is into me or not in first date,
From what I read, theres your problem ( the gentleman)
Does this apply if you’re trying to start over with an ex?
Adam Flores to the ex you fuck her if she doesn’t want it then move on because she will just keep you as a friend. Punish that bitch
no !!!!
Ah shit.. Okay something to remember.
Corey - I should've found you before man, just had my first date, while we were leaving I asked her if i can kiss and she said no (smilingly) and just gave me a hug. What should I do now in 2nd date? I don't want to show that I am desperate also. How can I kiss her? Thanks
I think you messed up by asking. You are the man and the leader. You should tell her i will kiss you and go for it. Do not ask her or wait for her approval. Since she said no smilingly, it means she was shy so you woulda just went for it.
FUUUUCK MY LIFE.
right?
Yes even in covid lol
Kissing tests to see if she is interested in you or sees if she’s not interested or structured
As hard as it is at times, be direct and go for what you want
“Why don’t you come over here and bring those beautiful lips” --> be playful whe she expresses interest
Hit her up a few days later to set up. Date for the following week, “hey when are you free next week so we can get together again”
^^^
How about I pick you uo, wear xyz, we’ll do something fun. AND GO FOR THE KISS
You need to ask her if it’s okay that you kiss her though. Just because that’s the respectful thing to do.
Lance Cobb
Mr nice guy is it you? 😆
Dude you’re the poster boy for the friend zone.
@@8754roberto 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You absofuckinglutely do not ask to a kiss a girl
Women expect real men to go for the kiss at the end of the date. You don't ask. This is how dates work. Guys go for the kiss at the end. You might want to look at her lips and then into her eyes back and forth and pull her close to see how she reacts... because she will realize what you're about to do and stop you if she doesn't want you to... but you need to go for the kiss.
Take me to a concert, Mommy!
Interesting...
Be her Daddy = Win.. Want her as Mommy = Fail
So women are supposed to want your lips on her on first date? . You’re basically a stranger.
Our you counting parking money to your tab as well. 🙄
You have a lot rules I bet. It's just a kiss, Not sex.
So just tell the guy you like him, but you don't kiss on the first date. This isn't hard.
You’re confusing money & affection. Gross.
you are god
You look like the kind of guy that would advertise toothpaste that tastes like a toothbrush..
No offense.
🦗
@keydabeastgamingg Buddy you're 4 years late
@ can’t imagine it being any funnier 4 years ago
@@keydabeastgamingg Who said I was trying to be funny, just saying what I think
@@keydabeastgamingg Seriously though who hurt you bro 😭