To those in the early phases of no contact, hang in there. I’m 2 years post break up, self improvements beyond her expectation with a condo on the beach, & she’s fighting tooth & nail to get my attention back on social media. Let your wingmen on Black Book Basics ease all this anxiety, LISTEN to them. They will NOT steer you wrong.
Good for you man. 2 yrs is long enough. Get over her. I have already buried my ex-wife in her own egotomb with the egobomb she had. Currently preparing to get married to a lovely woman who is much more humane and as beautiful as the x.
Seven months my ex fiance still tries to prove to me he has not moved on in any way. Even tried to show me his phone. And he said he doesn't cheat . Very confusing🤷🏽♀️
Be thankful for the breakup. It is often a wakeup call to get you back on your feet. You got comfortable, started focusing on somebody else. Huge mistakes. So use that pain as motivation to improve....just like what our friends here are saying. Have faith. Life will be better one good decision at a time. I'm living proof.
Had to block my ex… she has been doing everything she could, since early summer. I just want her to leave me alone bro. 🤦🏾♂️ no malice. No hatred. Just LET ME BE!! PLEASE 🙏🏾
1. SILENCE 2. MAKE THEM MISS U - thinking whats new in ur life, LET THEM REACH OUT 3. LET THEM SEE U HAVE BECOME A BETTER PERSON - work on ur flaws that lead to break up 4.
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@@johnlacon6974really but what I don’t get is. How does a rebound work most of these girls were talking to this so called rebound guy when they were in the relationship so it’s not a rebound is it
Its been painful here. The difference is that i did the internal work and saw where I went wrong. She wasn’t perfect either but you can’t see that stuff while you are still together. She jumped into a rebound so I know it would be another cycle for her since she didn’t face the root of the issue. Im thankful for this. It made me open my eyes even if it was painful. If only us as men could learn how emotions work and how to control them. Thank you guys! The sense of humor helped!
I am a a female , I’m sorry your in so much pain , I completely understand your pain , this was done to me , it’s great you worked on yourself !, continue to love yourself , my ex went right into a relationship as well without healing . It’s a pattern, I’m a emotional person as well !, do not change who you are , stay true to yourself , there are girls out there that will accept you for who you are no matter what !, your ex is probably a dismissive avoidant like mine, they would need to work on their core wounds. To understand Emotions and not be afraid . You got this Proud of you !, 🙏🏾
@@Tj-dd9ws Yes! I've been working on myself ever since then, and all she did is try to forget about me and the situation, try to get over me quickly, and get with GIRLS I've decided not to pursue in the past oddly enough, but i knew she was pansexual. She has had bad relationships with men before me, and is monogamous. When I tried to talk about our issues again, she just gaslit me, so only is trying to justify her decision, rather than work on her mistakes. Very likely a dismisive avoidant as well. I've been learning a lot so that I can handle myself better in the future and not start anything with anyone if theyre not up to snuff. I'm addicted to self improvement, which is good as im 36, and dont have time for this shit to just figure out as I bumble along!
This is so true. After 7 years of relationships with my x girlfriend she started disrespectful. I warn her first time, second time I dumped her. 3 years later she just reached out to me two weeks ago. But I don't want her anymore.
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She gaslit me saying I was emotionally abusive. Nothing was further from the truth. We had a wonderful relationship. Then she blame shifted , making me the monster. No one wants to be the villain in their own story I guess. Best of luck to her
@@truthshallbespoken6706 what are you doing about it? I love this woman. I gave her my 100 and she wasn't the type that would fall into the modern woman category. Very traditionally minded, conservative. We were very close too its just out of character. And I know there was no cheating
I said 3 words to her calmly when I dumped her, have no contacted/liked a photo or a friends photo. Cold turkey, she cheated on me with her ex, I left her on the streets and he came to pick her up, 20 days in and I won’t look back. Don’t want her back, just surprised someone can move on so fast after 5 yrs. of well
It's no surprise cause women have a replacement always. Most are emotionally needy so if she isn't getting attention she will replace without haste..but you dumped her so it doesn't matter
Salaam aleykum brother. I’m dealing with the same situation but she won’t even admit to fucking the guy when even though They were buying lobster dinner from my friends restaurant . She just lies about everything all the fucking time. I feel so stupid and used man
I had young kids at the time of the break up so my ex could catch a glimpse of how things were going on at the house. I would have preferred to go NO CONTACT completely.
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Fellas!! Before you ever get this far into and out of a “Relationship” Take time to get life together. Gym? Health? Career??business?? Debt free?? Home ? Auto!! Finances?? Dividends?? Investments?? Wardrobe?? Time management??? Put these things first and then let the ladies chase you!! Remember, women want that which they can not have!! Enjoy!!
Good info. Been using these tactics on a much younger ex. Shes in her feels bad. Got annoying actually to the point I had to actually talk to her and validate her a quick sec to make her stop going crazy long enough to realize she was going crazy! Was like watching a train crash her coming to realize her power was gone. Kept saying things like 'this is crazy' and 'remember what we are'. Even willing to be more submissive. Stay safe out here Kings. These ladies are sliiiicckk. If we keep holding the line they gone fold..they already bending 💯
I apologized i got outta my character and said mean things and wanted to work it out but I had to remember what got me to that point of losing my control that made me that way..im not beating myself up about it anymore
You don't have to hurt your ex. I am the best at breaking up. Women thank me when I leave, but a week later they are going to make up lies in their mind that help them learn to hate you. This is a true sign of immaturity, increasing hate instead of growing to except the way things are.
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My go-to is buying a plane ticket down to my favorite Caribbean island that I have lived on and off at and posting pictures of me with my gorgeous x she was jealous of.
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This video is awesome. This advice works. I broke up with my ex in June. Got with my best friend in July and 30 days he contacted me. I sent him pics of me and my best friend together and told him I’m in a loving relationship with my man. He said the picture drove him crazy. We saw each other in a restaurant and he texted me 3 days later saying he want me. 😂 I’m not going back. I luv my man/best friend. He is an awesome guy who says he love me.
There’s always toxic people in the comments saying an ex is an ex never go back never give them a second chance blah blah. Only way I won’t give them a second chance is if they cheated, or they constantly lied and disrespected me.
If I truly love someone, thats always true. In fact, once im sure that i know that person, and am committed, the only reasons id breakup with them is if its something acute, like a betrayal of cheating, or something chronic, like a problem that irks me that they never seem to improve on.
I messed up big time in a funny way, my ex left me a year and a half ago in that time I’ve become seriously successful now my ex is even more mad at me lol I’m like yo can u just get over me lol I found a very nice younger women that here whole family treats me like a king without me even asking for it it’s the best feeling ever lol
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I respect you two a lot. Thank you for your videos and keep putting out this kind of info! I appreciate it. My situation is that I broke up with my ex in June…for very good reasons and it wasn’t a messy breakup by any means. My ex has a lot of work to do and I just hope he continues doing the work on himself and leveling up….our values aligned and we built so much together….but he was living a double life and didn’t face what he needed too and didn’t put that work in prior to getting into a relationship with me. And I’m not perfect here either, I did ignore red flags in the beginning so I’m learning too. I went no contact for 30 days after we broke up and then we started talking again but I just got sucked back in and there was still doubt and I had to walk away again. So I’m back in NC since Nov 1st. Hitting the gym and working on me. I got this. He has reached out a couple times but I’m pushing forward. I love him very much but I gotta love myself more rn. ♥️
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@@matthewphilipp6115 that’s my latest thing close To a relationship since that I could only use that to the topic. But I feel you too far along to even have the thought.
I watched so many how to get Your ex back videos just after my break up. Now after two months i don't wanna take her back. Don't take her back if she cheated on you...
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You guys help me out so much, I appreciate everything y’all do. My ex wife and I are talking again after she was in a 4 month rebound relationship with a women. She says she hates men but not me. Everything was going well she came over and we hooked up and had a good time. We talk on the phone a lot and text a lot but she’s hot and cold. At first she wanted to know if I’d even take her back and that I’m always on her mind and now she’s saying the connection isn’t how it use to be.
Bro be careful,if u invest now too much in several days/weeks she will walk away.Lean back and let her invest so much in you and date other womans, she must fight now for you validation.I was in the same Situation several years ago.
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Tired off begging it hasnt helped, still love her even though she treats me like sh*t even ignores my calls. Thank you guys u have boosted my confidence in a great way. Going no contanct will be the best way for me, it will be tricky because we have a 9yr old daughter. U have given me hope and a overall feeling of getting back my issh 2gether.
Just get another one. It was only your turn she was never yours. Your happiness shouldn't depend on anybody. It's hard to let go of relationship just get another one and put your self in a power position
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14 months since my ex left for the THIRD time ( ouch....).No contact, saw her no more than 15 times ( same workplace).Working on myself, gym, looks. I would have not bothered hurting her....until last night a gf of hers came to me and told me that ex cheated on me, banging a way younger than her dude, and most of the times she left, it was for some other random dude. So, I want nothing from that woman... except a fair punishment for her disrespect.
My ex wished me happy birthday last week I just said thank you then radio silence. But she’s been liking things I was tagged in on Facebook. So confusing lol
My girl wanted a break. I did the no contact. A week later she reached out and I responded. I continued no contact. She contacted me another week later. I replied then continued no contact. Week 3 she contacted me and did not mention anything about getting together. After that 3rd week I told her to not contact me until she has time for me in her heart and life. Was that the right thing to do?
Keep it coming Love the videos I don’t let a day go by without watching. Definitely helped after the break up been spending that money I use to spend on her on myself 😎
" The Friend Zone is like: a job fires you and then makes you come in on the weekends without paying you. " That was a very well put analogy. Don't want the ex back, clicked this video cause I haven't watched yall in a minute.... I went Hermit Mode since May, healed my responsibility for the breakup, worked in the Shadow & the Light, deconditioning all that is My Not Self, giving my Power only in Response, taking courses online for my Career in Decision Making & Problem Solving & Daily Meditation. Lots of Meditation. Found out I was born to be a Lightworker. My intention is not to hurt my ex. Karma will work the way it always has. My intention is to have Compassion for all people even when they do stupid shit and to know & Love Thyself. Light & Shadow. Unconditionally Self(ish) Love.
Yessss very well said , or like I told my ex it’s a demotion ( being a president to office staff ) from going from a GF, BF to a fwb situation. NOOOO!! Come on now seriously !,
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It's so hard to get over her even though she broke up with me...I wake up every morning with heartache unintentionally even though I've forgiven her try to stay socially active hit the gym play basketball and she always stays in my mind when I'm alone at peace...especially at night because we spent hours talking every single night. It never felt like she wanted to.hurry and get off the phone. So its taking time to get used to going to bed without hearing her voice. She cut me off from all social media. I want to talk to her once more to see if we can work it out but something keeps telling me to just let it be...disappear from her life and improve date other girls because she's the one who pushed me away. But I loved her with all of me so i cant just discard her that easily even though at this point I want to but it's just not from true love. True love takes time to get over
Dude forget her.. as we speak lots of guys are sending her dms and TRUST me she is having sex with those guys.. move on believe me... Work on yourself and move forward 🙂
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I don't want my ex back. He told me I didn't have enough money and I am to fat .then he wanted me back I told him to keep her good bye. Since I stop talking to him I lost 2 stone. I try so hard to loss the fat when I was eith him .I am.lossing it for me now .stuff him if they walk away dont take them back they just do what they did before again. There always be someone better looking slimmer richer .if you wasn't enough for them the first time you never be enough. I learn the hard way
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I don't want to hurt my ex because she really is a wonderful person but is absolutely flipping terrible at relationships and being emotionally available. She's 40 and has had three relationships in her entire life all of them failed. So I do wish her nothing but the best. But what I found out is no contact is for you. Not to get them back. Because the longer I've been in no contact with her, the more I realize she's not the one for me. She needs someone less
Um, friend, she had more than 3. And if it was 3... she is not going to tell you about the numerous casual flings while drunk. Also, she has an illness. Tread carefully
@@user-re6cb4po7i doesn't drink. Highly religious. Was months before we got intimate. Not all women are into casual things. But her "I'm going to do what I want" because she had to in her 20 years of marriage has carried over and is going to ruin anything she does in the future.
Once you are an ex, you will always be exed, No born again bs here!! more like burn again.....!! Cant turn 🧀back into 🥛..... Indifference is always the point where life starts. ❤️💪🏿
Im now 3months ish into NC and i have got multiple new jobs, joined gym and got a better physique, completely changed my style and cut my hair, I always post positive stuff and hanging out with friends eating out on my insta stories. Recently found out that she has unblocked me on FB sepcifically as she also blocked a friend of mine too, but only I am unblocked so taking that as a good sign i guess. I deactivated my FB to avoid lookin at hers but now considering reactivating to update it since my profile pics are from 2016 anyways 🙃 But Im still levelling up and gettin better, but as we all know the thoughts are ALWAYS there, and yea I still want her to come back and reach out. Hopefully she sees all my progress and reaches out soon! But at same time this progress has helped me too as im eating healthy and actually started meal prep, but i guess now once i start updating my FB it will be up to her and I will just keep going n watch to see what she will do 🙂 Thats the short sharp n shiny version thanx for the read 😀
What if they broke up with you cause they didn't like being called out on their crappy behaviour? The breakup was his fault but i think he's too defensive and embarrassed to admit any wrong doing so it's a bit of a stalemate. However i do have a gut feeling deep down that he wants to get in touch as there wasn't even really an argument, it feels very much like unfinished business, the relationship was over before it really begun, very sad.
chick I dated for a couple of months last year pulled some nonsense and politically-driven nonsense at me, I stood on business and never looked back, she tried reaching out in the end of last year and she did he same jokes and disrespect; in that time I blocked her on all social media except for my cell. today 5 months later I get a message from her about some issue/situation that had absolutely nothing to do with me. I asked "why did you honestly reach out to me?....because the situation made absolutely no sense. she says something super slick and starts explaining what happened.... I simply told her, "I'm not playing this game again. I respected you leaving me and I moved on.... please don't ever contact me again." and I blocked...the good thing about therapy it's made my boundaries and self respect way stronger.
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I’m just starting a new job I’m about to start getting back on my feet Ima focus on my bread and my daughters if I don’t get her back I’m not even tripping I got myself since day one I know my worth if she wants to dump me it’s G I’m only 33 I can still pull em
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For myself i think im high value. I Break Up after 2 Weeks with 8/10. She is full ego, and i felt nothing in Front If her. I have No Time to lose and to Hurt my ex. My Life is more fun and great, 1 disrespect i left. I have No Time to wait, my Life is only going straight on. No Social Media. Only real Life. Stay away from not healthy realtionships, you dont want to get HIV or something else.
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Hi thanks alot for this video! Do you have many videos on split ups with children involved? I also can’t go back even if I want too. I’m Scared of being hurt for the 5th time
They clicked . Sex good they get along. She was homeless. I had a problem in my body that affected our intimacy. Left our house. Started month or so ago w her. Together 5 years . Married 2 years. Walked way. He cried . But said he not coming bk. I begged. Not help. New gf n him get along lots in common..they lived in hotels . Now family n friends. My daughter had behavior issues. It got trying and problems nee gf had no kids is just fun.
My ex told me that no matter how much he loves a woman he NEVER goes back. I have been in no contact for 6 mths now and I did exactly this, I went silent, I didn't run after him, I just disappeared.
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First time she left me for a rebound, I left the state. We got divorced. She came to get me back a few months later. About a year and a half later, she did it again. Even pawned my 3K engagement ring.( We planned to get married again). Me and my son moved out and now she has the rebound there every night, but she keeps coming to me for sex. Our sex is mind blowing so I been allowing it, but after she gets it, she ghosts me until she's ready for more. She still cries over our break up, but won't come back to stay. Only for sex. After 13 years of being together
@@opusandtarquez I don't know what to do. It's a cycle for us. Everyone we know thinks we're getting back together but she seems to just be having her cake and eating it too. She says she's not satisfied with the rebound in any way, shape or form, yet he's still there. They been seeing each other for no more than 6 months. At this point I don't know what to do anymore
Everytime she has a problem with the other guy she's going back to you. She knows you'll always be there so you're her back up. She doesn't care about either of you.
Women rarely leave men unless it's a very bad situation...toxic relationship, physical psychological or emotional abuse or cheating. Men leave more often and it's usually because of fear of committment or just not wanting to settle down with one woman.
Bullshit. They will leave as long as the next guy is better. That’s called science. That’s called hypergamy. Use facts not feelings. It’s laughable you say they “rarely” leave when they initiate divorce 80% of the time 😂 they ALWAYS leave because they think the grass is always greener and then find out it’s not when they become single moms on tinder.
First off, I'm female. I state that because it seems clear that you're basically talking to males. Secondly, I'd like to ask about the friend zone situation. He broke up with me, but offered to give me a ride to my new job until my training was done. He would pick me up at the train station during the week, but he'd have a bad attitude attached to it. No 'good morning', driving too darn fast practically throwing me out of the car, stuff like that. I finally, very calmly and with grace in every word, stroked his hand and said, "We aren't really friends, are we? You don't have to take me to work anymore." Dude said to me that if I wasn't his friend, he wouldn't be taking me to work and that, if he couldn't do it, he would let me know. That was a Friday. Monday morning came and I was saying to myself while I was standing at the train station late for work, "Damn, he didn't do this. He didn't just leave me here like this." Although dude was calling me his friend, although we were in eachother's friend zone, he was still pulling unnecessary stunts. When I called to find out if he was alright, he blocked my number. When I borrowed a phone and contacted him, he said that he blocked me because I was bothering him with all the calls. Then, months later when I needed somebody to come over to hook up my new tv, I called him. It took him forever to agree, but he did come and a tv that would've taken anybody an hour to hook up, took him all of ten hours on a Saturday. He not only hooked up my tv, he fixed everything else in my bedroom that didn't need immediately fixing. THEN, he came back the next day, without calling first, at ten in the morning to bring me a tv swivel shelf that I didn't even really need. He stayed another ten hours that day too fixing everything he didn't get to that Saturday. I was so appreciative, though, that I not only took him out for dinner both nights, I called that Monday to again tell him how much I appreciated his help. Do you know that dude practically cursed me out and told me not to bother him again when I didn't ask him to do all that work in the first place. What do you two think about this action? There's not doubt in my mind that brother needs therapy. I believe also that he still has feelings for me that he's not dealing with. I always speak kindly to him and he's been back to my house since then but always ghosts me afterwards. The last time, I even got him to express that he was a shutdown person. I wish I could get him to connect with you two but hejust doesn't deal with emotions or appears to have empathy at all.
Their exes for a reason how they feel what they think should be irrelevant who cares what they think when you get back together somebody's going to be in a world of punishment someone's going to have to stick it or someone else already tainted it it'll never be as fresh as it used to be
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What if I did no contact from the evening of the breakup. I kept in full no contact for 8 weeks. But she hit me up via text or phone every 1 to 3 days the entire time? When she would reach out I would try to book dates. She repeatedly flaked. Then 6 weeks after the breakup she agreed to a meet up and she flaked again. I had just started talking to a new female so slid her into the spot my ex flaked on and I slept with the new girl that night and the following Friday night. Then on Saturday night my ex texts me and say she wants to sleep with me. Then she asks if I've slept with anyone else. I hesitated to answer and so she knew I had. Then she broke down crying.
Who would want to be with there ex when she’s been with other men after you, only a beta or simp, cos I know I wouldn’t no matter how much I missed her or loved her smh! I’m a king not a clown! 💯👑
To those in the early phases of no contact, hang in there. I’m 2 years post break up, self improvements beyond her expectation with a condo on the beach, & she’s fighting tooth & nail to get my attention back on social media. Let your wingmen on Black Book Basics ease all this anxiety, LISTEN to them. They will NOT steer you wrong.
Good for you man. 2 yrs is long enough. Get over her. I have already buried my ex-wife in her own egotomb with the egobomb she had. Currently preparing to get married to a lovely woman who is much more humane and as beautiful as the x.
Yeah good man! How is she fighting tooth and nail may I ask ?
Seven months my ex fiance still tries to prove to me he has not moved on in any way. Even tried to show me his phone. And he said he doesn't cheat . Very confusing🤷🏽♀️
@@tercsi1 Does it make you want to get back together with him?
@@imshaun4563 100%. That's why I stop by to talk to him in the first place.
I want my ex to leave me alone! No contact makes them obsess over you. However, my no contact is forever!
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How you do things when yall stay together
@@lukeskywalker313 I don't understand your question.
Keep growing the abs 👊
Be thankful for the breakup. It is often a wakeup call to get you back on your feet. You got comfortable, started focusing on somebody else. Huge mistakes. So use that pain as motivation to improve....just like what our friends here are saying. Have faith. Life will be better one good decision at a time. I'm living proof.
What if he has no social media to see how well you're doing?
@@sharc.9259 everybody talks.
100%. I’ve been hitting the gym, starting jiu jitsu in a few weeks, and got a new job. I feel much happier now and I finally feel at peace.
Had to block my ex… she has been doing everything she could, since early summer. I just want her to leave me alone bro. 🤦🏾♂️ no malice. No hatred. Just LET ME BE!! PLEASE 🙏🏾
1. SILENCE
2. MAKE THEM MISS U - thinking whats new in ur life, LET THEM REACH OUT
3. LET THEM SEE U HAVE BECOME A BETTER PERSON - work on ur flaws that lead to break up
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Forget the ex. Pursuit happiness and financial stability. Better girls will come but don’t simp.
Real talk
Fasho!
Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. 4:23
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My ex in rebound after dumping me 3-4 week ago lmao..I was blowing her up non stop. Now I’m back in gym program eating right and feeling great!
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90% of rebounds fail within 3 months be strong
@@johnlacon6974really but what I don’t get is. How does a rebound work most of these girls were talking to this so called rebound guy when they were in the relationship so it’s not a rebound is it
I have kids with her and drama and she didn't care of ending the relationship she moved on I gotta get go to court 🤦🏾♂️💯🙏🏿
Its been painful here. The difference is that i did the internal work and saw where I went wrong. She wasn’t perfect either but you can’t see that stuff while you are still together. She jumped into a rebound so I know it would be another cycle for her since she didn’t face the root of the issue. Im thankful for this. It made me open my eyes even if it was painful. If only us as men could learn how emotions work and how to control them. Thank you guys! The sense of humor helped!
Our pleasure. 👊🏾
I am a a female , I’m sorry your in so much pain , I completely understand your pain , this was done to me , it’s great you worked on yourself !, continue to love yourself , my ex went right into a relationship as well without healing . It’s a pattern, I’m a emotional person as well !, do not change who you are , stay true to yourself , there are girls out there that will accept you for who you are no matter what !, your ex is probably a dismissive avoidant like mine, they would need to work on their core wounds. To understand Emotions and not be afraid . You got this Proud of you !, 🙏🏾
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Yes! I've been working on myself ever since then, and all she did is try to forget about me and the situation, try to get over me quickly, and get with GIRLS I've decided not to pursue in the past oddly enough, but i knew she was pansexual. She has had bad relationships with men before me, and is monogamous. When I tried to talk about our issues again, she just gaslit me, so only is trying to justify her decision, rather than work on her mistakes. Very likely a dismisive avoidant as well. I've been learning a lot so that I can handle myself better in the future and not start anything with anyone if theyre not up to snuff. I'm addicted to self improvement, which is good as im 36, and dont have time for this shit to just figure out as I bumble along!
This is so true. After 7 years of relationships with my x girlfriend she started disrespectful. I warn her first time, second time I dumped her. 3 years later she just reached out to me two weeks ago. But I don't want her anymore.
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@@abdultosori6290 Go away, troll.
She gaslit me saying I was emotionally abusive. Nothing was further from the truth. We had a wonderful relationship.
Then she blame shifted , making me the monster. No one wants to be the villain in their own story I guess. Best of luck to her
Very well said.
Same thing man. She gaslit the whole situation to my friends and family and it's going on three months. It sucks but keep ya head up!
She needed too rationalise her monkey branching somehow
Chase excellence not women 🤙🏻👟👟
bro... literally the same thing. They always try to turn you into the monster at the end of their "fairytale"
@@truthshallbespoken6706 what are you doing about it? I love this woman. I gave her my 100 and she wasn't the type that would fall into the modern woman category. Very traditionally minded, conservative. We were very close too its just out of character. And I know there was no cheating
You guys are so compatible the way you present these points, it’s like Styles P n Jadakiss in the “Get Ur Ex Back Coaching Business”.
Wow. That’s funny. Opus and I spoke on that awhile back!
We gonna make it...Jadakiss
I said 3 words to her calmly when I dumped her, have no contacted/liked a photo or a friends photo. Cold turkey, she cheated on me with her ex, I left her on the streets and he came to pick her up, 20 days in and I won’t look back. Don’t want her back, just surprised someone can move on so fast after 5 yrs. of well
It's no surprise cause women have a replacement always. Most are emotionally needy so if she isn't getting attention she will replace without haste..but you dumped her so it doesn't matter
Salaam aleykum brother. I’m dealing with the same situation but she won’t even admit to fucking the guy when even though They were buying lobster dinner from my friends restaurant . She just lies about everything all the fucking time. I feel so stupid and used man
@@jimdaniel4412 couldn't agree more bro but hey what doesn't kill yu makes yu stronger stay up bro!!!
@@johannesvonsaaz3987 so sad reality of how the very vast majority of how messed up these women are including the highly/overly "educated" ones
Tarquez please come back ... RIP Opus . Your videos are a true gem . Will get to patreon
RIP Opus! Always liked u guys!
never take your ex back. take the L and level up. then find a better gal.
I had young kids at the time of the break up so my ex could catch a glimpse of how things were going on at the house. I would have preferred to go NO CONTACT completely.
Best to move on and find someone better 💯
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Fellas!!
Before you ever get this far into and out of a “Relationship” Take time to get life together. Gym? Health? Career??business?? Debt free?? Home ? Auto!!
Finances?? Dividends?? Investments?? Wardrobe?? Time management???
Put these things first and then let the ladies chase you!! Remember, women want that which they can not have!!
Enjoy!!
Good info. Been using these tactics on a much younger ex.
Shes in her feels bad. Got annoying actually to the point I had to actually talk to her and validate her a quick sec to make her stop going crazy long enough to realize she was going crazy!
Was like watching a train crash her coming to realize her power was gone. Kept saying things like 'this is crazy' and 'remember what we are'.
Even willing to be more submissive. Stay safe out here Kings. These ladies are sliiiicckk. If we keep holding the line they gone fold..they already bending 💯
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🗣R.I.P Opus 🙏🏿🙏🏿🤦🏾♂️
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I can't handle being this broken anymore I think I am seriously done with her
I apologized i got outta my character and said mean things and wanted to work it out but I had to remember what got me to that point of losing my control that made me that way..im not beating myself up about it anymore
You don't have to hurt your ex. I am the best at breaking up. Women thank me when I leave, but a week later they are going to make up lies in their mind that help them learn to hate you. This is a true sign of immaturity, increasing hate instead of growing to except the way things are.
Going through a recent breakup at the moment. This makes sense and really helps. Good looking out
Glad we could help William.
@@opusandtarquez But the no contact is going to be hard. She was my everything.
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Respect and more power, to you both!
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My go-to is buying a plane ticket down to my favorite Caribbean island that I have lived on and off at and posting pictures of me with my gorgeous x she was jealous of.
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This video is awesome. This advice works. I broke up with my ex in June. Got with my best friend in July and 30 days he contacted me. I sent him pics of me and my best friend together and told him I’m in a loving relationship with my man. He said the picture drove him crazy. We saw each other in a restaurant and he texted me 3 days later saying he want me. 😂 I’m not going back. I luv my man/best friend. He is an awesome guy who says he love me.
Fantastic Karesse
Why would you want your ex back? It makes no sense. Just move on.
There’s always toxic people in the comments saying an ex is an ex never go back never give them a second chance blah blah. Only way I won’t give them a second chance is if they cheated, or they constantly lied and disrespected me.
Exactly Rizzy. That’s a very mature, emotionally grounded mindset to have! 👊🏾
You should hop on our Discord. You have a lot of good insight that would help other people on there journey. It’s a great place to chop it up
@@opusandtarquez sure! What’s the discord name ?
Good comment Rizzy...agreed
If I truly love someone, thats always true. In fact, once im sure that i know that person, and am committed, the only reasons id breakup with them is if its something acute, like a betrayal of cheating, or something chronic, like a problem that irks me that they never seem to improve on.
I messed up big time in a funny way, my ex left me a year and a half ago in that time I’ve become seriously successful now my ex is even more mad at me lol I’m like yo can u just get over me lol I found a very nice younger women that here whole family treats me like a king without me even asking for it it’s the best feeling ever lol
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I respect you two a lot. Thank you for your videos and keep putting out this kind of info! I appreciate it.
My situation is that I broke up with my ex in June…for very good reasons and it wasn’t a messy breakup by any means. My ex has a lot of work to do and I just hope he continues doing the work on himself and leveling up….our values aligned and we built so much together….but he was living a double life and didn’t face what he needed too and didn’t put that work in prior to getting into a relationship with me.
And I’m not perfect here either, I did ignore red flags in the beginning so I’m learning too. I went no contact for 30 days after we broke up and then we started talking again but I just got sucked back in and there was still doubt and I had to walk away again. So I’m back in NC since Nov 1st. Hitting the gym and working on me. I got this.
He has reached out a couple times but I’m pushing forward. I love him very much but I gotta love myself more rn. ♥️
I definitely respect the hell out of that. “You” always come first. Keep self improving because that’s what’s really important… 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
@@opusandtarquez thank you! 💪🏽🦈
Someone is about to be hurt to the core 🔥🔥🔥
I'm in shape I works out
Stop fcking thinking about your ex's, When they leave you, you must leave them too.
so why are you here?😉
No contact for 2 weeks now and she already going on dates but I don't I keep my head up
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......
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It’s been 5 years I don’t even wanna hurt my ex I just wanna move forward. Too much energy to be tryna hurt someone who ain’t worth it.
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5 years bro surprised you still think about her
@@matthewphilipp6115 that’s my latest thing close
To a relationship since that I could only use that to the topic. But I feel you too far along to even have the thought.
I watched so many how to get Your ex back videos just after my break up. Now after two months i don't wanna take her back. Don't take her back if she cheated on you...
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That's why they Call Me....CASPER..the Pimpin' Ghost! 👻
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You guys help me out so much, I appreciate everything y’all do. My ex wife and I are talking again after she was in a 4 month rebound relationship with a women. She says she hates men but not me. Everything was going well she came over and we hooked up and had a good time. We talk on the phone a lot and text a lot but she’s hot and cold. At first she wanted to know if I’d even take her back and that I’m always on her mind and now she’s saying the connection isn’t how it use to be.
Bro be careful,if u invest now too much in several days/weeks she will walk away.Lean back and let her invest so much in you and date other womans, she must fight now for you validation.I was in the same Situation several years ago.
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I hurt mine by excepting her telling me gtfo of my life and never lookin back been NC 2 yrs now
That’s how you boss up 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Tired off begging it hasnt helped, still love her even though she treats me like sh*t even ignores my calls. Thank you guys u have boosted my confidence in a great way. Going no contanct will be the best way for me, it will be tricky because we have a 9yr old daughter. U have given me hope and a overall feeling of getting back my issh 2gether.
How u doing bro
Just get another one. It was only your turn she was never yours. Your happiness shouldn't depend on anybody. It's hard to let go of relationship just get another one and put your self in a power position
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No contact for almost exactly a year and she sent my mom a friends request on fb..though im still blocked😉...hey here I am !
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14 months since my ex left for the THIRD time ( ouch....).No contact, saw her no more than 15 times ( same workplace).Working on myself, gym, looks. I would have not bothered hurting her....until last night a gf of hers came to me and told me that ex cheated on me, banging a way younger than her dude, and most of the times she left, it was for some other random dude.
So, I want nothing from that woman... except a fair punishment for her disrespect.
You guys should do more videos about baby mommas... I know like 3 different guys including me with that type of drama
My ex wished me happy birthday last week I just said thank you then radio silence. But she’s been liking things I was tagged in on Facebook. So confusing lol
My girl wanted a break. I did the no contact. A week later she reached out and I responded. I continued no contact. She contacted me another week later. I replied then continued no contact. Week 3 she contacted me and did not mention anything about getting together. After that 3rd week I told her to not contact me until she has time for me in her heart and life. Was that the right thing to do?
Keep it coming Love the videos I don’t let a day go by without watching. Definitely helped after the break up been spending that money I use to spend on her on myself 😎
Let Ms dinglewiggle and tarquavian have eachother
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Tarquavian? Lmao. 🤣🤣
@@DetroitNative313 coach T came up with that name in one of the older vids that name kills me everytime lolol
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" The Friend Zone is like: a job fires you and then makes you come in on the weekends without paying you. "
That was a very well put analogy.
Don't want the ex back, clicked this video cause I haven't watched yall in a minute....
I went Hermit Mode since May, healed my responsibility for the breakup, worked in the Shadow & the Light, deconditioning all that is My Not Self, giving my Power only in Response, taking courses online for my Career in Decision Making & Problem Solving & Daily Meditation.
Lots of Meditation.
Found out I was born to be a Lightworker.
My intention is not to hurt my ex. Karma will work the way it always has. My intention is to have Compassion for all people even when they do stupid shit and to know & Love Thyself. Light & Shadow.
Unconditionally Self(ish) Love.
Well said.
Yessss very well said , or like I told my ex it’s a demotion ( being a president to office staff ) from going from a GF, BF to a fwb situation. NOOOO!! Come on now seriously !,
Congratulations for this mindset.
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As if the “pay” in a relationship is the sex…not a good analogy at all imo
It's so hard to get over her even though she broke up with me...I wake up every morning with heartache unintentionally even though I've forgiven her try to stay socially active hit the gym play basketball and she always stays in my mind when I'm alone at peace...especially at night because we spent hours talking every single night. It never felt like she wanted to.hurry and get off the phone. So its taking time to get used to going to bed without hearing her voice. She cut me off from all social media. I want to talk to her once more to see if we can work it out but something keeps telling me to just let it be...disappear from her life and improve date other girls because she's the one who pushed me away. But I loved her with all of me so i cant just discard her that easily even though at this point I want to but it's just not from true love. True love takes time to get over
Dude forget her.. as we speak lots of guys are sending her dms and TRUST me she is having sex with those guys.. move on believe me... Work on yourself and move forward 🙂
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Yuck
Bro, she loved you for how you made her "feel" while you loved her for "her" Women are cold man..
@@ozcangunes3920 facts bro
I rather leave that thing alone Champ.
I don't want my ex back. He told me I didn't have enough money and I am to fat .then he wanted me back I told him to keep her good bye. Since I stop talking to him I lost 2 stone. I try so hard to loss the fat when I was eith him .I am.lossing it for me now .stuff him if they walk away dont take them back they just do what they did before again. There always be someone better looking slimmer richer .if you wasn't enough for them the first time you never be enough. I learn the hard way
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Great video 😊
Thank you both all facts I appreciate it I’m on my purpose all ready makes me go harder
You guys are doing a great job guiding grown confused men in the right direction 🤙🏻
We love seeing comments like this. Thanks a lot brother !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
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I don't want to hurt my ex because she really is a wonderful person but is absolutely flipping terrible at relationships and being emotionally available. She's 40 and has had three relationships in her entire life all of them failed. So I do wish her nothing but the best. But what I found out is no contact is for you. Not to get them back. Because the longer I've been in no contact with her, the more I realize she's not the one for me. She needs someone less
Um, friend, she had more than 3. And if it was 3... she is not going to tell you about the numerous casual flings while drunk. Also, she has an illness. Tread carefully
@@user-re6cb4po7i doesn't drink. Highly religious. Was months before we got intimate. Not all women are into casual things. But her "I'm going to do what I want" because she had to in her 20 years of marriage has carried over and is going to ruin anything she does in the future.
Once you are an ex, you will always be exed,
No born again bs here!! more like burn again.....!!
Cant turn 🧀back into 🥛.....
Indifference is always the point where life starts.
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Im now 3months ish into NC and i have got multiple new jobs, joined gym and got a better physique, completely changed my style and cut my hair, I always post positive stuff and hanging out with friends eating out on my insta stories.
Recently found out that she has unblocked me on FB sepcifically as she also blocked a friend of mine too, but only I am unblocked so taking that as a good sign i guess. I deactivated my FB to avoid lookin at hers but now considering reactivating to update it since my profile pics are from 2016 anyways 🙃
But Im still levelling up and gettin better, but as we all know the thoughts are ALWAYS there, and yea I still want her to come back and reach out. Hopefully she sees all my progress and reaches out soon! But at same time this progress has helped me too as im eating healthy and actually started meal prep, but i guess now once i start updating my FB it will be up to her and I will just keep going n watch to see what she will do 🙂
Thats the short sharp n shiny version thanx for the read 😀
Nah leave em. Don’t be a sucker…. No one’s worth any pain.
Don’t leave your life up to women either.. that’s beta/cuck shit.. get a better women but be a better you
What if they broke up with you cause they didn't like being called out on their crappy behaviour? The breakup was his fault but i think he's too defensive and embarrassed to admit any wrong doing so it's a bit of a stalemate. However i do have a gut feeling deep down that he wants to get in touch as there wasn't even really an argument, it feels very much like unfinished business, the relationship was over before it really begun, very sad.
What if they don’t ever care or come back?
That's your answer. The connection and attraction weren't strong enough. Or... they were just using you all along.
You guys have really helped me, keep up with the good content!!! godbless
Thanks man, much respect to you !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
chick I dated for a couple of months last year pulled some nonsense and politically-driven nonsense at me, I stood on business and never looked back, she tried reaching out in the end of last year and she did he same jokes and disrespect; in that time I blocked her on all social media except for my cell. today 5 months later I get a message from her about some issue/situation that had absolutely nothing to do with me. I asked "why did you honestly reach out to me?....because the situation made absolutely no sense. she says something super slick and starts explaining what happened....
I simply told her, "I'm not playing this game again. I respected you leaving me and I moved on.... please don't ever contact me again." and I blocked...the good thing about therapy it's made my boundaries and self respect way stronger.
This is baffling. Why would you want your ex back?
Because more times than not, you were the one who caused the breakup.
Hey man much success.🙏🏿
Fully committed like Thanos! no games and no remorse 😂😂😂
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i needed this, this was the last day of me 1.0
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I’m just starting a new job I’m about to start getting back on my feet Ima focus on my bread and my daughters if I don’t get her back I’m not even tripping I got myself since day one I know my worth if she wants to dump me it’s G I’m only 33 I can still pull em
Love this 🤟🏾
Thnks bros...
Respect !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
Great video guys. Thank you!
Much appreciated
What if you work at the same job as your ex? This is a hard one.
Lol this week she called me and I didn't return lol she must be very anger.
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6:34 enough said smh
For myself i think im high value. I Break Up after 2 Weeks with 8/10. She is full ego, and i felt nothing in Front If her. I have No Time to lose and to Hurt my ex. My Life is more fun and great, 1 disrespect i left. I have No Time to wait, my Life is only going straight on. No Social Media. Only real Life. Stay away from not healthy realtionships, you dont want to get HIV or something else.
@NWANORO FAITH ONYINYECHI Never ever want this kind of love back. Are you serious? Advertising here
She can’t get you back if you jump a plane and leave state lmfao I’m kidding dude tarquez I hope I spelled it right man thanks for your advice
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Great advice, wise words
Hi thanks alot for this video! Do you have many videos on split ups with children involved? I also can’t go back even if I want too. I’m
Scared of being hurt for the 5th time
Educative video. Thank you.
You’re welcome
They clicked . Sex good they get along. She was homeless. I had a problem in my body that affected our intimacy. Left our house. Started month or so ago w her. Together 5 years . Married 2 years. Walked way. He cried . But said he not coming bk. I begged. Not help. New gf n him get along lots in common..they lived in hotels . Now family n friends. My daughter had behavior issues. It got trying and problems nee gf had no kids is just fun.
They blocked everything yet watch the profile
You hurt now. They hurt Later.
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My ex told me that no matter how much he loves a woman he NEVER goes back. I have been in no contact for 6 mths now and I did exactly this, I went silent, I didn't run after him, I just disappeared.
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Much love CP 👊🏾
Seriouse question, after how many months of no contact do u give up? Cuz its been a few
You should begin no contact with the intention of never seeing them again period.
First time she left me for a rebound, I left the state. We got divorced. She came to get me back a few months later. About a year and a half later, she did it again. Even pawned my 3K engagement ring.( We planned to get married again). Me and my son moved out and now she has the rebound there every night, but she keeps coming to me for sex. Our sex is mind blowing so I been allowing it, but after she gets it, she ghosts me until she's ready for more. She still cries over our break up, but won't come back to stay. Only for sex. After 13 years of being together
That’s really tough Christopher. Stay strong.
@@opusandtarquez I don't know what to do. It's a cycle for us. Everyone we know thinks we're getting back together but she seems to just be having her cake and eating it too. She says she's not satisfied with the rebound in any way, shape or form, yet he's still there. They been seeing each other for no more than 6 months. At this point I don't know what to do anymore
this is a "lust addiction" not love ....the sex do be the bomb, and thats why I stayed so long
@@peacefaith560 similar situation for you huh?
Everytime she has a problem with the other guy she's going back to you. She knows you'll always be there so you're her back up. She doesn't care about either of you.
It’s easy to get girls when you’re well off. Trust me! Get that money and stay busy. Don’t compliment her looks, ever!
Women rarely leave men unless it's a very bad situation...toxic relationship, physical psychological or emotional abuse or cheating. Men leave more often and it's usually because of fear of committment or just not wanting to settle down with one woman.
Bullshit. They will leave as long as the next guy is better. That’s called science. That’s called hypergamy. Use facts not feelings.
It’s laughable you say they “rarely” leave when they initiate divorce 80% of the time 😂 they ALWAYS leave because they think the grass is always greener and then find out it’s not when they become single moms on tinder.
true❤
What about when you live together and moving out isn't an option
First off, I'm female. I state that because it seems clear that you're basically talking to males. Secondly, I'd like to ask about the friend zone situation. He broke up with me, but offered to give me a ride to my new job until my training was done. He would pick me up at the train station during the week, but he'd have a bad attitude attached to it. No 'good morning', driving too darn fast practically throwing me out of the car, stuff like that. I finally, very calmly and with grace in every word, stroked his hand and said, "We aren't really friends, are we? You don't have to take me to work anymore." Dude said to me that if I wasn't his friend, he wouldn't be taking me to work and that, if he couldn't do it, he would let me know. That was a Friday. Monday morning came and I was saying to myself while I was standing at the train station late for work, "Damn, he didn't do this. He didn't just leave me here like this." Although dude was calling me his friend, although we were in eachother's friend zone, he was still pulling unnecessary stunts. When I called to find out if he was alright, he blocked my number. When I borrowed a phone and contacted him, he said that he blocked me because I was bothering him with all the calls. Then, months later when I needed somebody to come over to hook up my new tv, I called him. It took him forever to agree, but he did come and a tv that would've taken anybody an hour to hook up, took him all of ten hours on a Saturday. He not only hooked up my tv, he fixed everything else in my bedroom that didn't need immediately fixing. THEN, he came back the next day, without calling first, at ten in the morning to bring me a tv swivel shelf that I didn't even really need. He stayed another ten hours that day too fixing everything he didn't get to that Saturday. I was so appreciative, though, that I not only took him out for dinner both nights, I called that Monday to again tell him how much I appreciated his help. Do you know that dude practically cursed me out and told me not to bother him again when I didn't ask him to do all that work in the first place. What do you two think about this action? There's not doubt in my mind that brother needs therapy. I believe also that he still has feelings for me that he's not dealing with. I always speak kindly to him and he's been back to my house since then but always ghosts me afterwards. The last time, I even got him to express that he was a shutdown person. I wish I could get him to connect with you two but hejust doesn't deal with emotions or appears to have empathy at all.
Should of specified to emotionally hurt them. Some people may physically hurt their ex 😂
Oh no! I hope you’re wrong! 😆😆
@@opusandtarquez lol
Their exes for a reason how they feel what they think should be irrelevant who cares what they think when you get back together somebody's going to be in a world of punishment someone's going to have to stick it or someone else already tainted it it'll never be as fresh as it used to be
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What if I did no contact from the evening of the breakup. I kept in full no contact for 8 weeks. But she hit me up via text or phone every 1 to 3 days the entire time? When she would reach out I would try to book dates. She repeatedly flaked. Then 6 weeks after the breakup she agreed to a meet up and she flaked again. I had just started talking to a new female so slid her into the spot my ex flaked on and I slept with the new girl that night and the following Friday night.
Then on Saturday night my ex texts me and say she wants to sleep with me. Then she asks if I've slept with anyone else. I hesitated to answer and so she knew I had. Then she broke down crying.
miss you Opus
do you coach also when the other side is not single any more?
We definitely do.
Who would want to be with there ex when she’s been with other men after you, only a beta or simp, cos I know I wouldn’t no matter how much I missed her or loved her smh! I’m a king not a clown! 💯👑
My ex don't have social media