I love hearing the perspective from an adoptee! I had a lot of healing to do and I've found a lot of peace working through the ways it was hard on me. Everything you said about guilt/shame was amazing too.
This isnt referencing this vid, but in general, i feel like theres sooo many people around everyone that are SO NEGATIVE.. and most people barely notice what bullsh*T that is, or identify it. Im from g.r. mi. West Michigan!!!! Also 💗💗💗💗......LOVE U!!!!!
I'm Pollack Sharman by name from Santa Barbara, California🇺🇸 .I feel we should get to know more about ourselves hope you don't mind. You must understand that I don't mean to be rude neither am I here to embarrass you any way I just want you to be sure that I know what am saying that I want us to know more about ourselves. If you don't mind can we start now..?
I think the cohesive vision is that you give details along with all the nooks and crannies to self-love, which is going to make or break our future. You are brilliant!
Mel you have opened my eyes to so many issues my family has had. My youngest daughter has pushed away her mother because she is apparently Toxic 6 years ago. up until my daughter was 16 you could not get the two of them apart. They did everything together Mel. My daughter turned 16 left home and never came back. Well this caused her mother to slowly die inside. Mel I want my old daughter to come back, want my family back together as much as possible(we divorced 7 years ago). This daughter has now labeled me as being Toxic as well and I haven't been able to see my grandchildren for over 2 years now. Mel I don't have any idea what do anymore who to talk too, it has torn my whole family apart and I can't stop crying inside. I cherish the earth my children and grandchildren walk on. So as you can see I'm a basket case now .Hopefully you able to make sense of this. Found your TH-cam channel when I googled "Why am I so Angry" 😢
Mel, about newsletters... they usually look spammy to the viewer, no matter whom it comes from. People who like you and follow you don't necessarily want a group email from you every morning. Emails are personal (person-to-person), so I would recommend sending them only if there's a relevant announcement of some sort. As I go through my emails every morning, I prioritize personal messages. I either do not read newsletters or move them to trash/spam.
Holy SHEEET. I'm 63 and the guilt is overwhelming!!! And I can see where you act worse. UGH. SHAME. This is so eye opening. Thank you. Now, hopefully I will remember this!
Thank you for this! I'm 4th generation guilter! I sent this to my grown child just now with an explanation of how i want him to not carry this burden! Call me out!
We feel the most guilt because we are caring for end of life parents, children we have raised to be entitled, our own lives that have gone by the way side, and we rarely have support in all this!
From over here I know that people dont "make " people feel anything. This is a type of perspective control managed with ideas. Addressing your feelings in this manner takes your power away and gives it to others. As if you are just thrown about by others actions etc. However, the other persons actions etc, may have stirred our emotions. Some would call this being triggered. Ultimately It is our own perspective that is responsible for our emotional response. There are levels of this as with everything else. Also...some folks ya just cant reach.
When I adress issues to my mum she doesn't take me serious. Sometimes I feel like I am not heared. When I tell her this she acts like I am weird and my feelings are overreactive. Sometimes she ignores me or is pissed when I tell her something like this.
Now this makes sense to me.....I have a horrible time about my business because, I just want to give my gifts away instead of charging for it..because I know I am taken care of....I have the guilt to make money.
Share your experiences with parents. Talk to parents about what you're going through, write a book. It will certainly help a lot of families - re: parents willing children to always agree with them.
60 angel blessings I'm about to be 40 May 31st. I'm a disabled mom on a feeding tube with 3 kids and I may need to claim bankruptcy next Tuesday and I feel lik a failure 😭😭😭😭🙏🏼😇🥰
The battlefield is the mind. Instead of focusing on the negative things in life and the things we don't have, we need to focus on the positive and things we do have. And be thankful to God for those things. This is not easy. It's a daily struggle for me too.
Every Accomplishment Starts With The Decision To Try.
I love hearing the perspective from an adoptee! I had a lot of healing to do and I've found a lot of peace working through the ways it was hard on me. Everything you said about guilt/shame was amazing too.
This isnt referencing this vid, but in general, i feel like theres sooo many people around everyone that are SO NEGATIVE.. and most people barely notice what bullsh*T that is, or identify it. Im from g.r. mi. West Michigan!!!! Also 💗💗💗💗......LOVE U!!!!!
Hello good morning.... greetings from San Diego
Hello👋 Suzanne how are you doing today? I hope you're doing great and safe over there?
I'm Pollack Sharman by name from Santa Barbara, California🇺🇸 .I feel we should get to know more about ourselves hope you don't mind. You must understand that I don't mean to be rude neither am I here to embarrass you any way I just want you to be sure that I know what am saying that I want us to know more about ourselves. If you don't mind can we start now..?
I think the cohesive vision is that you give details along with all the nooks and crannies to self-love, which is going to make or break our future. You are brilliant!
Thanks for sharing with us ..... good morning from San Diego
I had never thought about this topic thanks❤
Mel you have opened my eyes to so many issues my family has had. My youngest daughter has pushed away her mother because she is apparently Toxic 6 years ago. up until my daughter was 16 you could not get the two of them apart. They did everything together Mel. My daughter turned 16 left home and never came back. Well this caused her mother to slowly die inside. Mel I want my old daughter to come back, want my family back together as much as possible(we divorced 7 years ago). This daughter has now labeled me as being Toxic as well and I haven't been able to see my grandchildren for over 2 years now. Mel I don't have any idea what do anymore who to talk too, it has torn my whole family apart and I can't stop crying inside. I cherish the earth my children and grandchildren walk on. So as you can see I'm a basket case now .Hopefully you able to make sense of this. Found your TH-cam channel when I googled "Why am I so Angry" 😢
Hello Mel Robbins 🌎 Thanks. Greetings from Colombia. The Venezuelan Immigrant writer 🇻🇪
5 minute go get it videos are amazing!
Thank you, Mel.
Mel, about newsletters... they usually look spammy to the viewer, no matter whom it comes from. People who like you and follow you don't necessarily want a group email from you every morning. Emails are personal (person-to-person), so I would recommend sending them only if there's a relevant announcement of some sort. As I go through my emails every morning, I prioritize personal messages. I either do not read newsletters or move them to trash/spam.
Holy SHEEET. I'm 63 and the guilt is overwhelming!!! And I can see where you act worse. UGH. SHAME. This is so eye opening. Thank you. Now, hopefully I will remember this!
Thank you for this! I'm 4th generation guilter! I sent this to my grown child just now with an explanation of how i want him to not carry this burden! Call me out!
🤓🤓👍👍👍🇺🇲🇺🇲 ... thanks for sharing with us from San Diego
Thanks for your share 😍
Thanks for sharing....from San Diego
you have beautiful voice
Talking is the best, but not always easy. Yes. guilt is about the person who feels it, and we often forget other people have issues, too.
Hello good morning.... from San Diego greetings
Ok it's scary
How this is uploaded right when I need it
We feel the most guilt because we are caring for end of life parents, children we have raised to be entitled, our own lives that have gone by the way side, and we rarely have support in all this!
Life Is Change. Growth Is Optional. Choose Wisely.
From over here I know that people dont "make " people feel anything. This is a type of perspective control managed with ideas. Addressing your feelings in this manner takes your power away and gives it to others. As if you are just thrown about by others actions etc. However, the other persons actions etc, may have stirred our emotions. Some would call this being triggered. Ultimately It is our own perspective that is responsible for our emotional response. There are levels of this as with everything else. Also...some folks ya just cant reach.
When I adress issues to my mum she doesn't take me serious. Sometimes I feel like I am not heared. When I tell her this she acts like I am weird and my feelings are overreactive. Sometimes she ignores me or is pissed when I tell her something like this.
Now this makes sense to me.....I have a horrible time about my business because, I just want to give my gifts away instead of charging for it..because I know I am taken care of....I have the guilt to make money.
Hello👋 gorgeous how are you doing today? I'm Pollack Sharman by name from Santa Barbara, California 🇺🇸 . if I may ask where are you from?
I need this help ,however I strongly disapprove of cursing .
I no longer have parents at my age.
However, my friends do this.
"Why didn't you meet us for a drink last night?" etc,etc
Hey ... greetings from San Diego
The high 5 habbit how can u change that mind by looking into the mirror and ur heart connection hoping u can help cheers
How do you stop feeling guilty when you’re a caregiver to spouse and they die on your watch? I lost my husband, I did all I could and I’m alone again.
🤣🤣🤣 LOVE #schizophrenicnewsletter ❤️
My kid says.... what do you mean? I see you. No need to even let it matter. I can't expect anything. It's not right
I'm high five triggered also! I'm really trying to overcome my antisocial comfort zone. But then again people are so disappointing...
Hello tolerance how are you doing good morning..... greetings from San Diego
Share your experiences with parents. Talk to parents about what you're going through, write a book. It will certainly help a lot of families - re: parents willing children to always agree with them.
Yes you get the point .... greetings from San Diego good morning 🌅
60 angel blessings I'm about to be 40 May 31st. I'm a disabled mom on a feeding tube with 3 kids and I may need to claim bankruptcy next Tuesday and I feel lik a failure 😭😭😭😭🙏🏼😇🥰
Never think that okay ... greetings from San Diego
I pray that your burdens are replaced with blessings. I just had my tube removed and empathize with its challenges. ✌️❤️🙏🏼❤️✌️
The battlefield is the mind. Instead of focusing on the negative things in life and the things we don't have, we need to focus on the positive and things we do have. And be thankful to God for those things. This is not easy. It's a daily struggle for me too.
How to channel guilt in a positive way?...🌎
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is this more white guilt propaganda? please.