The only real way to reattract someone that dumped you, is to drop all communication, act like you are ok with it, and cut contact. Also you must change yourself for the better and display that change. Only then MIGHT it work. But don’t do it to re attract do it for yourself and once you do that not only might you reattract your ex but you will definitely attract new and better people
Mr Ricandelphia I mean display it outwardly anyways. Even if that person doesn’t see it. That way you will attract new people in your life and more success. But 9/10 times your ex will check on you either through social media, or asking around. Maybe even stalking in some cases lol. Most of the time they will eventually check what you’re up to if they don’t already do it frequently. So by putting out a positive image if they don’t check on you, it’ll be good for you either way
@@BradPwnsU I understand the whole cut and work on your self. And I get that you need to move on and she will see it somehow. But I dont use any social media. And she moved to another city (30 min away) dont see any way she would see my changes.... what do I do then. (Aside from finding new ppl)
Michael Joker ask some older people, and from my personal life, women somehow have a way of knowing when you have moved on. The loudest noise is silence. Nothing from you. If they notice that they will start to wonder. Women often do more “stalking” than guys do. She’ll find out. Even if it’s from asking people. But definitely take my advice and live your life FOR YOU and not to get someone back. Maybe, just maybe, you’ll be doing so good you’ll realize you don’t want them back
I was dumped hard after 6 years and made all the classic mistakes any heartbroken guy would - texting, begging, sending letters, cards and e-mails asking for us to try, I was like a grovelling dog!!! I couldnt help it, I was just hurting so-so much. It just made her treat me even worse, in fact I couldnt believe the nasty cruel girl she transformed into, I would have never believed she could become so horrible. I was so hurt.... In hindsight I should have just disappeared and got on with my life. This is easier said than done. But the best advice to any bloke out there in this situation, DONT EVER CHASE AFTER THEM!!!!!!! It wont help the situ. Just get on with your life and your heart will eventually heal and youll wonder why you were ever so cut up.
hrits420 She did yes. And that was after treating me like I was dead for 'MONTHS!'. She got in touch with me, to ask me..........'if I wanted to go on holiday with her. Just as friends and see how it went'. Yes, she did. Believe that!??! Finished us in FIVE minutes, and that was after being together six years!!!! Ignored me and treated me like I was dead or worse. And then when I finally stopped begging, chasing, and obviously she knew I was beyond heartbroken.........she then asks me if I wanted to go on a holiday!??! In hindsight I should have (obviously!) not even responded to her. But I was so heart broken and massively cut-up from the break-up and I stupidly agreed to see her. We went out for the evening and she showed me these holidays she wanted to do. I felt so happy, I would have done anything to simply see her let alone spend time with her. I text her the following morning telling her how happy I was and couldn't wait to go on holiday with her. You know what she did..? She text me back and said 'I don't want to go on holiday with you now. Now leave me alone'..... True story man! And this was a girl who was the sweetest, most genuine and lovely lass you could ever meet. Honestly, she turned into a demon! There is a lesson here for us blokes. 'NEVER' think you know a woman, cos you never really do. There is another side to them, and when they change, they really change and they don't care what they do to you. Best advice, move on from her. If she's willing to make you feel so bad and after 5 years together (presuming you haven't done something truly terrible to her), think about it, she isn't worth your heart and the pain. Move on, and put it behind you and learn from it. She contacts you again, ignore her. Now I'm no where near as subservient and soft over women. Ive dated a few since I was dumped and when they start to go weird on you like women do, you know, distant, not responding to messages etc etc. I just delete their number from my phone and move on and I dont give it minutes thought after. Ive done 'MUCH' better with this attiutude and Ive vowed 'NEVER' to end up so heart broken "EVER' again. They're really, really, not worth it. Hope this helps.
audition audition Wow! she really did wrong to you. Why asked to spend holidays with you when she didn't wanna go. Damn! you are right. That's a demon behaviour. My ex changed the same way. After 2 weeks of breakup, I called her once, and asked to Skype. she denied. After that we haven't contacted each other. It's been over a month. Now, I will not contact her first. I have the same question, how a woman who loved you so much can change so much (in a demon). Thanks for heads up, buddy.
hrits420 I don't know pal. But they definitely have the ability to suddenly change and become 'incredibly cruel'. Six years together and I thought I knew every part of who she was as a person, every level of her personality etc. And I really didnt! I was in shock when she turned so cold, so cruel and so unbelievably nasty! I realised that you 'never' truly know a woman and how they can be so incredibly nasty. Honestly man, she was foul and relished seeing me hurting so much. She actually had this wry smile on her face when I was begging her not to finish us. I realised after this experience, they're really not worth it. And I'll never let that happen to me again, ever. Don't chase her pal. Forget about her. I was literally ill with heartbreak for 'months' and whilst I was going through it I thought Ill never feel my old self again, but I did. It just takes time. And you're all the more wiser for it moving forward.
The reason why she is chasing you is because the guy she has hooked up with after dumping you was a looser.. and wants to get back to her COMFORT ZONE....!
Michael burnette exactly! They never really want you. They just go back with you because they don't have anything better. Ones they find it they don't need you anymore. That's why you should never chase a girl and only focus on yourself. If they leave then don't take them back. You are only their plan b.
Im hoping that is exactly what happens in my case! She dumped her rebound loser for being a stage 5 clinger... he showed her what a fucking prick he really is after they split.... waiting for her to come to her senses and back to me now.
coach ive been applying all your stuff from your book. 2 weeks into the no contact my ex reached out. I quickly told her how my life improved and then told her i wasnt interested in talking but only meeting up, shes now the one chasing, thank you so much youve helped me grow
Sheriff David Clarke still with her man. its been amazing. find your faults and follow coreys principles. my fault was not moving in and taking it to another level after 3 years. oh and the no contact rule works! after 3 weeks she texted me and we went on a date and been together ever since
Sheriff David Clarke i got complacent, id ditch her to hang out with friends, for those reasons she left me.my best advice is date other women during your time apart incase she doesnt want to go back to you
You need to be strong after the break up, make some things new that makes you move on and happy. And that makes her regret that he broke up with you and chasing you again.
Funny part is his book is available for free for himself, however I would not have objected to paying for it. What CCW tells you... is like 99% truth how to BE a man
Maurice Hightower dude you said it my man... it’s a pain in the ass! Just got out of a two year relationship... she broke up with me and it’s like fuckkk all that time and effort for nothing. Time to start all over again I guess
We officially broke up over a year ago, but we talked for months after and she knew I wanted to get back together. Just ended things again, told her I loved her, care for her and want to make things right and if she changes her mind, the doors open. She said she cares for me too and appreciates my understanding and she’s always there for me if I need anything. Shit hurts but I trust it’s the right thing.
Corey. Thanks for helping me refind myself again. I got lost in the sauce and see you as a valuable life mentor, I work on myself and my rapport more than ever before. Thanks again.
I over-pursued a girl of my dreams by caring for her too much. She sensed it and stepped back and didn't return my calls. I am on NO CONTACT RULE for 6+ months now. She contacted me once with a brief message that she passed her exams. Never going to lookback. Thank you Coach!
I love this guy OMG he says I know this all too well write in the beginning cracked me up this man is beyond helpful and most of his content is free even his book wow
You hit the nail on the head just listen without trying to solve the problem. So key, men just instantly put the mr fix it hat on and they just wanna let their emotions out.
To say to her, "if you change your mind you can call me, or text me" implies your waiting around for her to change her mind is not acting alpha, and could lead you to get obsessive, even depressed. So the correct thing to do is what you have been doing is by not answering her small talk messages by phone, or by any other wise, because by doing this you take back any power you've given her in the past and you'll have greater respect for yourself!!! Meanwhile go on about living your life, and put yourself first, and more than likely this chic will start running after you, its just a matter of time.
46248 it was never known as alpha to do that, it all depends on whether the person wants them back or not after all that happened 3% men usually stand for what they want and not settle your either in or your out no halfways and no luke warm vibes period
BabeOfBlasphemy it depends because if you are really done with someone you can either stay silent and delete everything, or you can say the last words you have to say including that she never needs to talk to or with you again.
Showing ur not totally closing off any possible interaction on the future, shows maturity. Saying no to the "let's just be friends" speech also shows that altho ur leaving the door open but, not accepting her pitying you.
Been taking to this girl for 6 months, everything I could ever want in a girl, the girl of my dreams basically and I over persuaded , became needy and clingy and pushed to to give me an answer every time something I thought was wrong, today I pushed her to the point where she doesn’t wanna work it out anymore, the first 3 months I displayed no neediness, the idaf attitude, never pursued and let her come to me and she was ALL over me, if anyone could help me in this situation it would mean the world to me, coach Coury Wayne never disappoints
To anyone who has just broken up ! Please don't apologize , beg , plead or pester ! I REPEAT , DON"T ! I've done it and I can guarantee it lowers the attraction and the other person loses all the respect for u . Even if u stay in contact , you'll be a doormat or a piece of shit ! Just cut the contact and never ever look back . If they've even 2% of love or care for you, you'll definitely hear from them , and if you don't , then u definitely know that answer ! It's not worth it ! Make this sacrifice for your self- respect ! DON'T CHASE , BEG OR PLEAD !!!!!!!! DON'T !!!
Had 8 months away from my partner after getting dumped after 5 years. Luckily I found your book and your youtube channel and studied the material for 150 hours in total or even more. Now we are back together again and stronger than ever. This was even a long distance situation and I had no hope. Either you will find your way back to each other, or you will find someone even better! Never give up!!
OMFG! Why couldn't I have found this video 8 months ago? Instead I went and had a rebound with another girl and just made things worse. Now I have no chance and I still miss her.
life lesson bro . Ive taken my back from a rebound before . she has just gone again thats why im here, But she can forgive you if she needs to. time will tell . Funny i cant listen to my own advice after reading that back .
Technically getting into a rebound doesn't hurt you...its actually good for you...keeps your mind busy or you could go crazy...just don't flaunt your rebound in front of you ex purposely or it will have the opposite effect and hurt your chances
The problem is most guys wait around way way way to long to see if she might come back when the relationship is over. Absolutely not. Don't do it. Women sure won't wait around for you so don't waste your time waiting on her. If she's done, she's done so immediately move without a second thought. Matter of fact your often better off to do a preemptive break up with her if you suspect the relationship is in trouble. This way you can end it on your terms instead of hers.
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@CoreyWayne, I have always followed you up since 2014 and am super proud of your advice coz I always follow them out and believe me I get the best out of it always
@@jamesarmstrong9042 no. I actúa prefer being alone. We are dedicated to our kids and our vows. It isn't easy but, I'm still here. We both could have anyone we wanted when we want. It's bigger than that.
@VADOR 93 as men we can only go up in the dating market while women decrease overtime, because the successful man wouldn't necessarily want a woman his age and those women who passed up on him when he was younger will want him when he gets in his zone
Corey is the real deal. Thank you for all the knowledge. I have been following CCW for 5 years now. He has truly helped me & I always recommend him to my friends & family. Anyone who is watching this, or his other videos. Listen, watch & apply the techniques. It's hard, but it bloody well works! :)
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8:05 is literally what happens to me like a week ago it got weird but we still stalk. I’ll try and play it James Bond😂 this gave me so serious confidence now
Let the games begin, great book , never needed it , as always if a girl didn’t want me I just naturally walked away , now that I’m older the girls I date are 15-20 years younger and now they play games , maybe I never noticed before , but I lost a good quality girl and that brought me to your work , dam 48 and learning all over again , thanks bud for your info , now I’m dating a girl 20 years younger and a 10 , but I know she loves the games as she is a go go dancer and very beautiful, but with your Info I’m excited to see this test :) , let the games begin , I’m hunting with knowledge
My ex broke up with me a month and a half ago. but I kept texting and chasing her UNTIL I found this awsome videos so I stopped contacting, and doing interesting activities. SHE just asked me to get back together. is it too soon? do I have to wait longer ? I don't want to look easy for her now. I don't understand. I'm so grateful to Corey tough :)
Currently in 1 week of no contact after being undoubtedly left by the woman I love. This No Contact is rough but with the help of Corey and Rory from The Love Chat has helped me keep it up. I’ve been focusing on myself and got back into Martial Arts starting BJJ. Going into week 2 of no contact like I said it’s been rough but gotta keep it up!
Amonix Hey man I’m still in no contact with my ex. Since then I’ve been focusing on Jiu Jitsu which has helped me majorly. My ex went back to her abusive ex boyfriend about a month or weeks after our separation. I’m now in a new relationship with a great woman. After months of waiting for my ex to come back around I guess you can say I just had to keep moving forward and get back in the dating game. The scars my ex left on me are still there but they are getting better.
I looked at her without getting upset and told her that it's not what I want but im fine with, if you have a change of heart you know where to find me if it's not late. I left and a week later she was texting me
There is this other coach who says that during the no contact period of 30 days, your ex only loses ALL attraction for you because her emotions quickly fade out and she gets over you like she just met you yesterday. He recommends texting or calling her after 3-7 days to rekindle her attraction. He also states that this no contact rule works only for women wanting to get their boyfriend back. 80% of the time, guys lose their women during this no contact rule since she forgets about you and gets with another dude. I don’t know what to believe now...
All I can say is I did no contact before and 3 ex girlfriends contacted me. One was 2 years later. I didn't necessarily ignore them but I had just focused more on my career, friends, and hobbies. Then out of the blue, they reached out to me. The other 2 were around a month or so later.
What about long distance relationships? I know it's not optimal but there a girl I really liked who I got dumped by. Distance wasn't the issue, it was feelings.
Is it weird that I ama woman and watch all your videos? I totally resonate with the mans position. I am actually quite feminine I think. But the things you talk about are the same things men do to me. My boyfriend has broken up with me several times and I just agree with his decision, go have the time of my life with his offering of my singleness and forget about him and then he comes back. He is a good lay so I will sleep with him but then I am off on my own again cause I can never take him seriously to be the solid, strong man I am interested in since his emotions are so up and down with the constant threat of breaking up with me. Just shows he is insecure and isn't sure about where he is going in life. It is unattractive.
Thanks for sharing. I totally understands your situation. My woman is like that. The insecurity from her shines through. She's dying inside when shes alone so she either be with her ex or trying with me again. To you and me both i guess laying The cards out and tell them straight up whats going on is best and IF they are fleaky again , just leave forever.
I went no contact. Hasn’t been 24 hrs yet and damn it’s dragged by 😂 I’m hurting, but I’m also getting busy. Getting a gym membership and working out every day I can, and focusing on my son who needs me bad right now, and to be honest, it hurts but I’m so relieved. I let it go. Said if she comes back great, if she doesn’t, fine, there’s someone better. In the meantime I gotta get back into my own place and keep focused on me. Everything’s gonna be just fine 😊
Dude, were in the same boat at the same time. Focus on yourself and listen to videos by Corey or read his book. His knowledge is spot on and self empowering. I was crushed 10 days ago and now I'm feeling in different. Not sure what the hell I'll do if she contacts me. Anyway you got this. You're number 1 in your life or maybe 2 behind your son but no woman should ever be higher than you. She'll lose respect for you if you stop working out, do hobbies, and hang with your friends. Keep doing you whether you're single or not.
I am so surprised and feel bad to see many men here having the same problems as we girls do and are asking the same questions and some even got bitter to another gender. Perhaps those horrible women who went cold, distanced, nasty to you, were dumped by last men who treated them that way, and vice versa, when your heart broke by these nasty women and you close your heart and went cold and distanced easily in your next relationship, you will break some nice girl's heart and she started to bring this bitterness to her next relationship. So please, stop this bad loop. Be the honest, none game playing gentlemen you were again to attract the same mind. Most of girls Do want commitment. Most of girls...or I shall say women Do want someone who is emotionally matured, and open and do communicate. There are immature girls who are in their early 20s who doesn't want to settle down, just like many men, and its even a popular beliefs among women to believe men don't want a committed relationship nor marriage, that men just want sex! And will disappear as soon as a woman slept with them and full in love with them. But obviously not all men and women are like that. You can go to those women's dating couch TH-cam sites and will see they all have the same myth to men as you do to women. So if you do want more than just sex, if you want someone who will love you and support you and communicate with you, please always be it and dont let anyone change you. Do enjoy your options of dating more than one women until you find someone great to go exclusive with, but Don't be a playboy at all and don't collect women like trophies. I for one always run as soon as I know a guy is a playboy no matter how rich, handsome he is. Simply because playboys are actually feminine and unsecured to need attention and fame to feel strong. It's the real masculine men who is not afraid to be vulnerable, sincere, and exclusive to me, and enjoy his own life and work that really catches my heart
His advice goes for both genders. It's difficult for both men and women to be smothered. I have met wonderful girls that have made these mistakes and made me lose interest. Can't help it and it's painful to loose interest for somebody we initially liked. His advice is to improve our general human interactions, taking into account the other person's perspective.
Smh lolll if you guys listen to women words damn u a full of shit but I don’t understand how some guys can still open their heart to a new women cuz their no unicorn that shit doesn’t exist, so listen once a women knows u love them too much it’s over for u ok
She ended our relationship ship about a month ago and today I ended the friendship she wanted to have with me because I will not allow her to put me in a friend zone. I hope we could come back together and she can see the value that I am giving myself because I do not want her to be stringing me along. I love her but I am not a friend I deserve romance and I deserve to be loved.
Coming from a broken family and surroundings full of thugs and bums. I found it hard to date the girls from good rich families. I have been able to attract them, but getting physical with them was a problem cuz I always found the class difference a bit on the face. Some, women were oo easy for love making, but the snobby up class were real tight. This book is valuable only if you are willing to unlearn everything you learned over the years and re learn
Hi Coach Corey, I moved from Asia to US a few months ago for school and soccer scholarship. My ex and my moms are bestfriends since 40 years and after a month I got here we fell in love. She is 2 years older than me and she has a job and I am in school right now. But she knew the situation and we decided that we should just be in a relationship till 2 years and then get engaged. We were so much in love, I was her first, and she was mine. Because I moved out here from far and as an international student, I had to depend on my parents a little and her too. and I realized later on that I took advantage of her subconsciously and totally forgot about her expectations. We were the first for each other too, physically. She said that I hurt her so much and she just said that she does not want to be with me anymore. A week before the breakup she was letting me know that she wants to marry me and I said the same and everything was perfect. She was letting little things pile up in her as it is her nature ,like she wanted me to call her everyday, talk to her, then when I went to her parents place for my thanksgiving vacations, which I generally do, (her parents does not know about us so we have to act different), everything was fine for the first few days, we went on walks, we held hands, she talked about marriage and I loved her and she loved me so much. then I totally forgot that she had to work and study for her GRE exam due later december, and I kept on nagging her that she isn't giving me enough time and I need her and made comments that she is acting weird. But I honestly loved her and never hurt her like that, it was unintentional but I realize all my mistakes. and I told her that. she acted distant in the last few days of the week and I rather than understanding, kept on asking her if she loved me anymore or not and she is being weird with me not realizing the pressure she has on her this month. Then at the end of the break she told me that I should not come to her place for the winter vacations as it is unhealthy for our relationship acting different in front of her parents, I kept on being clingy and when I got back to school, she said that we should break up because you hurt me and you are too dependent on everyone. that I have a long way to go and I am not the right guy for her right now and this relationship is not right for her. She has been through a lot and she is very independent, but she really did love me a lot and did everything for me. and now she said that, and at first I was begging her and everything because I really do love her. then i told her that i respect her wishes and I would not bother her. But i cannot live without her, everyday I wake up and think about her and I know everybody will say that be happy and move on but that is not possible for me. She is the only one I want and without her no matter what I achieve I do not get happy. I need to get her back, I need her in my life not just for me, but because I can make her happy, I have made her happy but it seems like she is only focusing on the bad aspects right now. She said she has to focus on herself only now and not worry about me. I want her to love me and be with me for the rest of our lives, I have no other hope. Please help. Regards
I have to keep watching your video's everyday in order to not give in and text her first Im strong with everything but weak as fuck when it comes to that 1 special girl and I hate it
I've made the mistake of agreeing to the friendship yet we havent spoken in about a week. What should I do in this situation? does the no contact rule apply here or is there a different approach for this situation?
Guys when Corey says plan the night and let her discover it don’t forget that she also wants to be in a love story. It’s one of my past mistakes that I’ve done. Don’t program everything and times and the schedule. Because it might demonstrate you as controlling and not flexible and when this happens she’ll start to test you with little subtle things like trying to change the program so much and even changing the table like 3 times. And even if you go along with the changes it makes you subordinate. If you don’t you’ll be a control freak. And in either case she may think that the spontaneity is lost , that maybe you aren’t much flexible even if you have changed your program a little bit. Then you’ll frustrate yourself because its just a tough situation to be in. If you want to program your dates don’t forget to not be a robot and even a pleaser. When you try so hard to plan a date that everything is so perfect and she doesn’t need to do anything she might find herself a little bored. Like it isn’t that exciting like it was when you didn’t work so hard to make it so perfect. The reality is that when you try to do everything Corey teaches so perfectly and you were already a nice guy when you have first found out about Corey it can make you even a bigger pleaser and a nice guy just because you forget how to be yourself and try to hide your weak spots and try to be so textbook. When Corey says don’t be a robot that’s what he means. So to sum this up let’s say that don’t forget to be yourself and accept yourself even with your minor errors, try to get better but don’t hide your mistakes because it doesn’t just work and don’t try to do everything so textbook that you stop having fun just to do everything right to please your lover. She needs to love you for yourself . Not because your trying to do everything right just like a robot. That robot always fails. And lastly let the love story happen.
Never ever ever take them back, Millons of other women out there lads who will love you forever please God, never take back an ex girlfriend you'll be only falling in love with the memories not the person, please don't do it, just move on with your life and get some one 😉 better please God 🙏🙂.
Women don't give up their sexual intimacy that easily as you describe... at least those around here don't they are ultra stuck up. However you do have some great strategies overall.
Why is my ex stalking me two weeks after she broke it off? She knows I’m dating someone else. She’s been stalking me since she broke up with me even tho we don’t follow each other. (Social media, Instagram story)
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Ex gf called me yesterday and today after 2 weeks of NC, i picked up and said Hi in a chill mode. She says hello, how are things, how are you? Im great ty! Life is good and tons of good things are happening but I can't tell you all about it. Then she goes all emotions on me : I miss us, don't you? Yes ofc i do i replied with a calm Deep voice. Then afterwards she started to bring up the breakup and the reason and past memories. I just let her do the talking and Replied : I've Heard you and learned from it. The mistake i did was me ignoring her for 6 months. I would of breakup with me too..if I were in her shoes, I told her I've Heard you and took it to my heart and moved on. Life has so much to offer and is beatiful. She was down and not so cheerful but when she Heard about me and how I am doing..her mood changed and Went from sad to a bit cheerful. We laughed sometimes. So then I brought up the good memories of US. She laughed and was a bit more happy and then I said : look the reason why i picked up, is one reason : Where do I have you? IF you're here to have emotional support from me, Sorry I dont have the time & energy for you. IF you cant provide me Us thing or such then don't call me untill you're 100% sure. Because I want you but i've accepted the fact that I can do with or without you in LIFE. Then she Went silent and said I do understand you but i can't be straightforward, I just't dont know. SO my QUESTION IS WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO? give her more time and space? If so then I will continue doing so..let her chase ME please reply so my brain stops going 10000000 xD
Just walk away dude. Tell her you are not interested in a friendship with her and tell her she wont be receiving any emotional support if she wants to be friends. Walk away, be mysterious, go to the gym and talk to other females. She will chase you down and if not you can live without her, no problems. cheers
+Dragan King I dated a girl I fell in love with deeply for 3 years. I made some typical Beta male mistakes such as not courting her anymore, laying all my problems on her, becoming needy/insecure, doing the same stuff over and over etc. Anyways she ended up dumping me and left for another guy with the text book status response: "He was just a friend, and it just kinda happend." Translation: This has been in the works for months, he's your replacement. Life went on, and about 4 months later, she starts getting in contact with me because there is problems with the current boyfriend. To then summarize and condense the next 6 months that follow, I ended up rescuing her from that guy 7 times. She would stay at my place for 1-2 weeks then bounce out, and because of my emotional attachment and love, I just continued to repeat this shit over and over to the point it was the exact definition of "Insanity". So for a better part of almost a full year, I was there for her, helped her mentally and financially, gave her stability, bent of backwards to try prove I was the better deal "Approval seeking behavior". On three different occasions she even went as far as sending me naked photos, saying she wanted to marry me, stating "I LOVE YOU", "I MISS YOU" etc, but it was ultimately just a mental circle jerk. For my efforts: I got friend zoned countless times, denied sex, wasted thousands of my own money, used as an emotional tampon, drove all over the place wasting my gas/time, and cock blocked from any other female that would of had interest in me. So in conclusion, my advice to you is to be extremely careful and do not ignore the Red Flags. If your ex tries to friend zone you more than once, I would get the hell out of there, stand your ground, do not compromise, and lay out the house rules. It's not your problem if she continues to want to try change the terms and conditions, and there are always ex girlfriends/boyfriends that will be happy to dick you around if they sense you can be manipulated. Make sure you also watch her actions match her words. If she says one thing, but does another, don't even waste your time. Any women who truly wants to get back with you, or truly values/misses you will not waste your time.
+Dragan King wow she kept called so I picked up and then she suggested for us to hangout and just Catch up. So i decided time and played hard to get i said '' hm, well not today, friday 8pm?, got stuff 2 do'' hahah! Yes, sounds perfect she goes. So once she opens the door she jumps into my arms and holds me long...While my hand was resting to her waist..just one hand. After she let go we were supposed to go out with our 2 dogs which Í haven't seen for 2 weeks. So we did walk and talk about our Life and so. She had a soccer match and I asked nicely how did that go *smile* she goes all happy and says Well we had fun but we lost!. So I replied : Oh well that's the Point isn't it, loser? :) we both laughed hard and once we got inside my ex Place she then invited me IN. Ofc i Went inside. She sat at the couch while i was siting 2meters away just because. She goes '' wont you please come sit next to me?'' I just Went and did it and smiled ofc. She then put her head towards my shoulder. After 1hour i was thinking of leaving but da hell..I didnt expect much either. So she stands up and asks me ''what moview do you want to watch'' I Went all suprised hahah. So I let her decide on that. After picking a Movie she asked if we could go and buy some snacks. On the way to the shop, she hold my arm and hard..didnt let go if it at all. I didn't touch her or kiss or so. I kept being a bit hot and Cold but in a good way!! Once back home she sat next to me and had her wrist Close to mine and she knew I wanted to hold hands but ofc no. WHen she wanted to do so I just took my hand and '' scratched my head'' after 3hours being there, having a good time spending and letting her see the better version of me. I told her : I'm sorry for all the mistakes I have done. She replied the same. And i told her I can't really tell you what I'm feeling so I dont want to hurt me. But you know what i want and no friendship. Not interested at all. Yes i know and I'm not at your level yet. No it's ok i replied. My door is open but the more Days ago and so the more I start to belive that the breakup maybe was right after all. So after that I grabbed my bag and was ready to leave. THen she goes, Can' you sleep over tonight? it's late and dark, plus it's friday. I said na it's fine i'll manage to get to my parents house! Are you sure? Yes and thanks. She wanted me to sleep at the sofa and not with her in bed.Otherwise I wouldn't reject ;) but i did and opened the door and she Hugs me again..long and hard. I was about to leave and as I was... turned around and looked her into her Eyes and gave her a mini hug and told her sleep well and have a good one untill next time. So did I do anything wrong`?? She did all the Initianing..I Think I did succés with her chasing me. But it's now that it's starts to get REAL. Either she wants to continue or not. And as i told her, I realized I can manage without you. And there are other Girls that are on my tail that I'm not intersted in, honestly speaking. Hehe ;) g
I think it's reasonable to suggest that her wanting to "Catch up" was her way of re-evaluating her decision to break up with you. She demonstrated multiple times in what you wrote that she still has interest in you. The blunder here is you practically allowed her to lead the entire series of events. You have already told her you don't want to be friends, so if she wants to see you then you should of planned and arranged an evening where you go to dinner/dancing/karaoke. This way your giving her an opportunity to come along for the ride, socialize with you, laugh, touch and grow those feelings of attraction towards you. Then after a successful night of fun she likely would of been all over you. Instead your walking around the park, bringing up the past, apologizing, and then watching a movie with this awkward back and forth touching that went no where. This is not going to make her crave and desire you more. The good thing was that you left, and did not agree to sleep on the couch, but going forth you need to stop talking about the past relationship, do not apologize anymore, it just brings up bad memories, and when she reaches out you make sure to plan an awesome evening, then when you have her laughing, having an amazing time you can slowly get that touching going. When your on the date, you pay attention to her body language, and that can help you know when she's loosening up and not on her guard, but honestly if you do everything right on a well planned evening, your ex sounds like she will have no problem going into your arms.
The GovNer well I want her to chase me and i got as i wanted. She is not worth going out for dates. Not yet. Untill she says that she wants me , US. Its me who got my heart thorned and got dumped I gave 3 times chances.. She fucked up so no more mr nice guy. IF she wants us, she will start chasing me .
I had a recent encounter with a girl like no other on tinder too. Collage girl lives close by. When I first met her I could tell it wasn't going to work out.I went with it though because I was learning aka weak and didnt know any better. We took things very fast 2 dates in 5 days. I got the questions of what I want out of this on the second date and after it. This led to confusion, misunderstanding, and overreaction on both parties. So we ended up meeting up for coffee and talking about it. Keep in mind this was a 1 week meet up. This girl showed me what I wanted and what to do and not to do for that one who comes along in my life that I want to keep around. I heard the "I dont see us going in to a relationship like that, we can be friends." I kept my cool and told her I dont want to be friends and contact me if you change your mind, figure it out whatever. We had good conversations about the things we did and laughed a lot. I could tell she wanted to go, so I walked her to her car. She told me she would contact me if she figures it out. We hugged I felt like going for a kiss but I felt it would come off wrong because it was a meet to figure it out. I acted like this wouldn't effect me in my life and like I would just continue on like normal. Now I just continue my life as it never happened and wont effect me in my mission. I thank that girl for all the lessons I learned and for showing me what I really want. This is my story. I hope this helps someone out there and makes them smile because I know I am even though its hard life will carry on and so will I.
Same situation here. College girl. I’m much older. Had a lot of fun. Then I got the “I’m not interested in a relationship” she did offer to be fwb but we never ended up meeting up again.
I tried doing this mystery date thing TWICE with 2 different girls, got flaked on twice! - I'm trying the strategies here and there and I dont get that much success! 😕... Ehh gotta keep trying I guess.
Ha. My wife left got an apartment then started Harrasing me to always call het. Text her and go see her even though I have no car atm and she moved like 20 miles away. Ugh. Wtf. Why even move.
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I need help BIG TIME. Going through a breakup with a man I love so whole heartedly and no matter how much I was willing to work on our shit he just didn't want to anymore. . He didn't like me having male friends so there's that piece and because I'm a strong woman who wouldn't be submissive to his shit he didn't like it. I'd love it if he came chasing me again. ;)
the one and only...i just did this with my ex.....i saw here on messenger and didnt text her....she ended up texting me. she initiated the contact.....this works.
This may or may not get her back. But it does stop you from begging which definitely won't get her back. And it will stop you from looking like a fool and regretting it 6 months from now. I promise I've been there. I've hit up girls that dumped me and tried to explain myself to them only for it to 1 not work and 2 I regret the shit out of it after a few months go by and I'm over her.
Hey Corey. Good advices. Fact is that nowadays 90% of women are toxic as hell and you should really look for the one who doesn't bring you to act this way. I mean, all you say is gospel, but men who find a mature and balanced woman are blessed. If a woman tests you for emotional strength she's not loving you, she's loving what you provide so maybe being needy is a man way of testing for true love(?). Who knows, thanks for the advices
I stumbled across you a few weeks ago and been watching your vids. Dude, you're on the right track but making us smart guys have less women with these nerds learning this shit. I've agreed with about everything you've said. My motto is. "Women want what they can't have". Keep them wanting more and the most important thing is be mysterious. I have the hottest chick in a 50 mile radius and for two years strong she bows down to me. She's my all too but I never make it easy for her unless it's the most paramount matters of our hearts. I rule my house and she knows any decision I make is best for us. I always give her input on all but ultimately I make the final decision. Be a man guys, I've you're a little bitch you'll be in what Wayne says, "Friend Zone"! That happened to me in middle school once. Lmfao
I'm going through the same thing just recently my gf after 4 months wants a break. And don't know if she wants to be in a relationship with me. Because one hand she really likes me and wants it to work and like having me around but on the other hand she feels the past month of the relationship is being forced smothered and getting turned-off. My question is does it sound like she just needs space and let her come to me or is there no chance for us to come back together
The only real way to reattract someone that dumped you, is to drop all communication, act like you are ok with it, and cut contact. Also you must change yourself for the better and display that change. Only then MIGHT it work. But don’t do it to re attract do it for yourself and once you do that not only might you reattract your ex but you will definitely attract new and better people
BradPwnsU how can u display that change if u cut contact?
Mr Ricandelphia I mean display it outwardly anyways. Even if that person doesn’t see it. That way you will attract new people in your life and more success. But 9/10 times your ex will check on you either through social media, or asking around. Maybe even stalking in some cases lol. Most of the time they will eventually check what you’re up to if they don’t already do it frequently. So by putting out a positive image if they don’t check on you, it’ll be good for you either way
BradPwnsU PREACH!!!!
@@BradPwnsU I understand the whole cut and work on your self. And I get that you need to move on and she will see it somehow. But I dont use any social media. And she moved to another city (30 min away) dont see any way she would see my changes.... what do I do then. (Aside from finding new ppl)
Michael Joker ask some older people, and from my personal life, women somehow have a way of knowing when you have moved on. The loudest noise is silence. Nothing from you. If they notice that they will start to wonder. Women often do more “stalking” than guys do. She’ll find out. Even if it’s from asking people. But definitely take my advice and live your life FOR YOU and not to get someone back. Maybe, just maybe, you’ll be doing so good you’ll realize you don’t want them back
I was dumped hard after 6 years and made all the classic mistakes any heartbroken guy would - texting, begging, sending letters, cards and e-mails asking for us to try, I was like a grovelling dog!!! I couldnt help it, I was just hurting so-so much. It just made her treat me even worse, in fact I couldnt believe the nasty cruel girl she transformed into, I would have never believed she could become so horrible. I was so hurt.... In hindsight I should have just disappeared and got on with my life. This is easier said than done. But the best advice to any bloke out there in this situation, DONT EVER CHASE AFTER THEM!!!!!!! It wont help the situ. Just get on with your life and your heart will eventually heal and youll wonder why you were ever so cut up.
audition audition Did she contacted you again once you stopped chasing her? I got dumped after 5 years. Dont know what to do.
hrits420 holy shit, are you really still waiting for her? =o
hrits420 She did yes. And that was after treating me like I was dead for 'MONTHS!'. She got in touch with me, to ask me..........'if I wanted to go on holiday with her. Just as friends and see how it went'. Yes, she did. Believe that!??!
Finished us in FIVE minutes, and that was after being together six years!!!! Ignored me and treated me like I was dead or worse. And then when I finally stopped begging, chasing, and obviously she knew I was beyond heartbroken.........she then asks me if I wanted to go on a holiday!??! In hindsight I should have (obviously!) not even responded to her. But I was so heart broken and massively cut-up from the break-up and I stupidly agreed to see her.
We went out for the evening and she showed me these holidays she wanted to do. I felt so happy, I would have done anything to simply see her let alone spend time with her. I text her the following morning telling her how happy I was and couldn't wait to go on holiday with her. You know what she did..? She text me back and said 'I don't want to go on holiday with you now. Now leave me alone'..... True story man!
And this was a girl who was the sweetest, most genuine and lovely lass you could ever meet. Honestly, she turned into a demon! There is a lesson here for us blokes. 'NEVER' think you know a woman, cos you never really do. There is another side to them, and when they change, they really change and they don't care what they do to you.
Best advice, move on from her. If she's willing to make you feel so bad and after 5 years together (presuming you haven't done something truly terrible to her), think about it, she isn't worth your heart and the pain. Move on, and put it behind you and learn from it. She contacts you again, ignore her.
Now I'm no where near as subservient and soft over women. Ive dated a few since I was dumped and when they start to go weird on you like women do, you know, distant, not responding to messages etc etc. I just delete their number from my phone and move on and I dont give it minutes thought after. Ive done 'MUCH' better with this attiutude and Ive vowed 'NEVER' to end up so heart broken "EVER' again. They're really, really, not worth it.
Hope this helps.
audition audition Wow! she really did wrong to you. Why asked to spend holidays with you when she didn't wanna go. Damn! you are right. That's a demon behaviour. My ex changed the same way. After 2 weeks of breakup, I called her once, and asked to Skype. she denied. After that we haven't contacted each other. It's been over a month. Now, I will not contact her first.
I have the same question, how a woman who loved you so much can change so much (in a demon). Thanks for heads up, buddy.
hrits420 I don't know pal. But they definitely have the ability to suddenly change and become 'incredibly cruel'. Six years together and I thought I knew every part of who she was as a person, every level of her personality etc. And I really didnt! I was in shock when she turned so cold, so cruel and so unbelievably nasty! I realised that you 'never' truly know a woman and how they can be so incredibly nasty. Honestly man, she was foul and relished seeing me hurting so much. She actually had this wry smile on her face when I was begging her not to finish us. I realised after this experience, they're really not worth it. And I'll never let that happen to me again, ever. Don't chase her pal. Forget about her. I was literally ill with heartbreak for 'months' and whilst I was going through it I thought Ill never feel my old self again, but I did. It just takes time. And you're all the more wiser for it moving forward.
The reason why she is chasing you is because the guy she has hooked up with after dumping you was a looser.. and wants to get back to her COMFORT ZONE....!
everyone should read this..
also I might add.. she will stay with you until something better comes along and then its BYE BYE...!
Michael burnette exactly! They never really want you. They just go back with you because they don't have anything better. Ones they find it they don't need you anymore. That's why you should never chase a girl and only focus on yourself. If they leave then don't take them back. You are only their plan b.
Truth
Im hoping that is exactly what happens in my case! She dumped her rebound loser for being a stage 5 clinger... he showed her what a fucking prick he really is after they split.... waiting for her to come to her senses and back to me now.
coach ive been applying all your stuff from your book. 2 weeks into the no contact my ex reached out. I quickly told her how my life improved and then told her i wasnt interested in talking but only meeting up, shes now the one chasing, thank you so much youve helped me grow
yes I'm in the same boat as you
Sheriff David Clarke still with her man. its been amazing. find your faults and follow coreys principles. my fault was not moving in and taking it to another level after 3 years. oh and the no contact rule works! after 3 weeks she texted me and we went on a date and been together ever since
Sheriff David Clarke i got complacent, id ditch her to hang out with friends, for those reasons she left me.my best advice is date other women during your time apart incase she doesnt want to go back to you
any updates bro?
Updates?
You need to be strong after the break up, make some things new that makes you move on and happy. And that makes her regret that he broke up with you and chasing you again.
OH MY GOD. IM BUYING THIS GUYS BOOK. HE SOLD ME AT 2:30
THATS EXACTLY WHAT MY GIRL JUST TOLD ME WHEN SHE DUMPED ME. WOW
THIS GUY GOT IT!!!
Funny part is his book is available for free for himself, however I would not have objected to paying for it. What CCW tells you... is like 99% truth how to BE a man
unbelievable you see how much work guys have to do to get a girl then to keep a girl let alone get her back it's a pain in my ass
Maurice Hightower 😂😂
Maurice Hightower dude you said it my man... it’s a pain in the ass! Just got out of a two year relationship... she broke up with me and it’s like fuckkk all that time and effort for nothing. Time to start all over again I guess
Moe Fitzgerald i fuckin know right
LOL. You ain’t wrong brother. The game is the game.
It’s a pain in the ass but once you successfully done it, you won’t have to deal with the same issue again.
I'm not sure I want her back, but I am sure I want to overcome the miserable part of the breakup
I’m with ya brotha. How you doing now?
Shadow work in the only way to heal
We officially broke up over a year ago, but we talked for months after and she knew I wanted to get back together. Just ended things again, told her I loved her, care for her and want to make things right and if she changes her mind, the doors open. She said she cares for me too and appreciates my understanding and she’s always there for me if I need anything. Shit hurts but I trust it’s the right thing.
What end up happening? Sorry just curious my dude.
GENIUS, IM SO MOTIVATED INTO IMPROVING MYSELF MORE AND I FEEL MUCH MORE HAPPY.
Kiitos!
Corey. Thanks for helping me refind myself again. I got lost in the sauce and see you as a valuable life mentor, I work on myself and my rapport more than ever before. Thanks again.
Changed my life dude, I bought both of your books. Life’s starting to be fun and exciting again for me
Dont ever look back!
I over-pursued a girl of my dreams by caring for her too much. She sensed it and stepped back and didn't return my calls. I am on NO CONTACT RULE for 6+ months now. She contacted me once with a brief message that she passed her exams. Never going to lookback. Thank you Coach!
So what's the update?
She texted you about her exam because she wanted to feel close to you. Dog if you listen to what he says. When she texts…you try to meet up.
@@Alexandersaponte facts he screwed the pooch there. I have too recently so no judgement but yeah moving forward that’s the only way
Cory your teachings are so valuable. Thank you for your service to society! Very helpful and applicable advice not only for love but also for life.
I love this guy OMG he says I know this all too well write in the beginning cracked me up this man is beyond helpful and most of his content is free even his book wow
You hit the nail on the head just listen without trying to solve the problem. So key, men just instantly put the mr fix it hat on and they just wanna let their emotions out.
Cory you are absolutely the best relationship coach on TH-cam.
To say to her, "if you change your mind you can call me, or text me" implies your waiting around for her to change her mind is not acting alpha, and could lead you to get obsessive, even depressed. So the correct thing to do is what you have been doing is by not answering her small talk messages by phone, or by any other wise, because by doing this you take back any power you've given her in the past and you'll have greater respect for yourself!!! Meanwhile go on about living your life, and put yourself first, and more than likely this chic will start running after you, its just a matter of time.
46248 it was never known as alpha to do that, it all depends on whether the person wants them back or not after all that happened 3% men usually stand for what they want and not settle your either in or your out no halfways and no luke warm vibes period
Naszarine Rivera ggggggg
BabeOfBlasphemy it depends because if you are really done with someone you can either stay silent and delete everything, or you can say the last words you have to say including that she never needs to talk to or with you again.
46248 wait so be friends with her but don't hang around her all the time
Showing ur not totally closing off any possible interaction on the future, shows maturity.
Saying no to the "let's just be friends" speech also shows that altho ur leaving the door open but, not accepting her pitying you.
Been taking to this girl for 6 months, everything I could ever want in a girl, the girl of my dreams basically and I over persuaded , became needy and clingy and pushed to to give me an answer every time something I thought was wrong, today I pushed her to the point where she doesn’t wanna work it out anymore, the first 3 months I displayed no neediness, the idaf attitude, never pursued and let her come to me and she was ALL over me, if anyone could help me in this situation it would mean the world to me, coach Coury Wayne never disappoints
To anyone who has just broken up ! Please don't apologize , beg , plead or pester ! I REPEAT , DON"T ! I've done it and I can guarantee it lowers the attraction and the other person loses all the respect for u . Even if u stay in contact , you'll be a doormat or a piece of shit ! Just cut the contact and never ever look back . If they've even 2% of love or care for you, you'll definitely hear from them , and if you don't , then u definitely know that answer ! It's not worth it ! Make this sacrifice for your self- respect ! DON'T CHASE , BEG OR PLEAD !!!!!!!! DON'T !!!
Had 8 months away from my partner after getting dumped after 5 years. Luckily I found your book and your youtube channel and studied the material for 150 hours in total or even more. Now we are back together again and stronger than ever. This was even a long distance situation and I had no hope. Either you will find your way back to each other, or you will find someone even better!
Never give up!!
I lost a unicorn 🦄 and I literally been listening to your videos every night before I go to sleep
@@clearlisted you’re gotdam right. That was my old mindset. It has completely changed now since 2 months ago
OMFG! Why couldn't I have found this video 8 months ago? Instead I went and had a rebound with another girl and just made things worse. Now I have no chance and I still miss her.
life lesson bro . Ive taken my back from a rebound before . she has just gone again thats why im here, But she can forgive you if she needs to. time will tell . Funny i cant listen to my own advice after reading that back .
Did you ever get her back?
Technically getting into a rebound doesn't hurt you...its actually good for you...keeps your mind busy or you could go crazy...just don't flaunt your rebound in front of you ex purposely or it will have the opposite effect and hurt your chances
All Hail the Almighty powerful wizard Coach Corey Wayne!!
The problem is most guys wait around way way way to long to see if she might come back when the relationship is over. Absolutely not. Don't do it. Women sure won't wait around for you so don't waste your time waiting on her. If she's done, she's done so immediately move without a second thought. Matter of fact your often better off to do a preemptive break up with her if you suspect the relationship is in trouble. This way you can end it on your terms instead of hers.
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Living with your ex girlfriend that you were not nice to but have changed immensely such the break up. I need that kind of video haha
I walked away and she reached out I left her on read I respect my self too much.
They “wanted” you before, any improvement to yourself big or small shows progress and a better version of yourself than what they had before
@CoreyWayne, I have always followed you up since 2014 and am super proud of your advice coz I always follow them out and believe me I get the best out of it always
this speech worths a billion dollars bill!!! u are the man!
This guy is the fuckin man
+IamCrico legend
+Andreas Furdal God
I'm rekindling a relationship with my ex-wife of 13 years of marriage and 3 years of being single. This shit works!
Nah ya both going back to each other because it better then been alone. Warriors are not afraid to be alone and wait for the right person
@@jamesarmstrong9042 no. I actúa prefer being alone. We are dedicated to our kids and our vows. It isn't easy but, I'm still here. We both could have anyone we wanted when we want. It's bigger than that.
Never date your next door neighbor
michael olson dudeeee Same !!!! It’s been a month since she broke up with me.
Never date a co worker
That’s exactly what I’m dealing with now! My girlfriend who’s my next door neighbor dumped me over a month ago
@@IbrahimLakeShow Never shit where you eat...that's my motto!! lol
Including your coworker
I got dumped by a girl and she came back a year later but by that time I didn't want her she was used
@VADOR 93 as men we can only go up in the dating market while women decrease overtime, because the successful man wouldn't necessarily want a woman his age and those women who passed up on him when he was younger will want him when he gets in his zone
Corey is the real deal. Thank you for all the knowledge. I have been following CCW for 5 years now. He has truly helped me & I always recommend him to my friends & family. Anyone who is watching this, or his other videos. Listen, watch & apply the techniques. It's hard, but it bloody well works! :)
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Corey is the real world James Bond... on point!
8:05 is literally what happens to me like a week ago it got weird but we still stalk. I’ll try and play it James Bond😂 this gave me so serious confidence now
Mine reached out back to me after 2 weeks after breaking up with me saying she regrets it 😂
Let the games begin, great book , never needed it , as always if a girl didn’t want me I just naturally walked away , now that I’m older the girls I date are 15-20 years younger and now they play games , maybe I never noticed before , but I lost a good quality girl and that brought me to your work , dam 48 and learning all over again , thanks bud for your info , now I’m dating a girl 20 years younger and a 10 , but I know she loves the games as she is a go go dancer and very beautiful, but with your Info I’m excited to see this test :) , let the games begin , I’m hunting with knowledge
3:13 Willing to make things work
7:37
Its hard not to talk to the person that u love the most and move on or wait
It does suck XD
My ex broke up with me a month and a half ago. but I kept texting and chasing her UNTIL I found this awsome videos so I stopped contacting, and doing interesting activities. SHE just asked me to get back together. is it too soon? do I have to wait longer ? I don't want to look easy for her now. I don't understand. I'm so grateful to Corey tough :)
seems like enough time has passed and even though you failed the no contact rule just set up a date, treat her as if its the first time you met
How'd it go?
The real question is "what do I want"?
Update please
VADOR 93 she is gay nothing wrong with that.
Currently in 1 week of no contact after being undoubtedly left by the woman I love. This No Contact is rough but with the help of Corey and Rory from The Love Chat has helped me keep it up. I’ve been focusing on myself and got back into Martial Arts starting BJJ. Going into week 2 of no contact like I said it’s been rough but gotta keep it up!
Rich & Rare Gaming any news ?
Amonix Hey man I’m still in no contact with my ex. Since then I’ve been focusing on Jiu Jitsu which has helped me majorly. My ex went back to her abusive ex boyfriend about a month or weeks after our separation. I’m now in a new relationship with a great woman. After months of waiting for my ex to come back around I guess you can say I just had to keep moving forward and get back in the dating game. The scars my ex left on me are still there but they are getting better.
@@richraregaming6906 hope you are well bro
I’m on day 2 and I’m dying 😂😂😂
Hard to do the no contact when u share kids….. however it gives me more exposure to her to notice positive changes in my life.
I looked at her without getting upset and told her that it's not what I want but im fine with, if you have a change of heart you know where to find me if it's not late. I left and a week later she was texting me
I broke nc and did some stupid stuff. She told me she knows in her heart she and i are not for eaxh other. Pretty tough
Hey corey, your advice is the best!! your a top dog!! This is really helpful for my situation! Thank you brother! from London UK!
This video is so so so relevant to my current situation right now.
She broke up with me cause i was too nice....
There is this other coach who says that during the no contact period of 30 days, your ex only loses ALL attraction for you because her emotions quickly fade out and she gets over you like she just met you yesterday. He recommends texting or calling her after 3-7 days to rekindle her attraction.
He also states that this no contact rule works only for women wanting to get their boyfriend back. 80% of the time, guys lose their women during this no contact rule since she forgets about you and gets with another dude.
I don’t know what to believe now...
All I can say is I did no contact before and 3 ex girlfriends contacted me. One was 2 years later. I didn't necessarily ignore them but I had just focused more on my career, friends, and hobbies. Then out of the blue, they reached out to me. The other 2 were around a month or so later.
Bro! your like Hitch or something. solid real talk about relationships.
What about long distance relationships? I know it's not optimal but there a girl I really liked who I got dumped by.
Distance wasn't the issue, it was feelings.
did she ever came back? Mine broke up yesterday
Is it weird that I ama woman and watch all your videos? I totally resonate with the mans position. I am actually quite feminine I think. But the things you talk about are the same things men do to me. My boyfriend has broken up with me several times and I just agree with his decision, go have the time of my life with his offering of my singleness and forget about him and then he comes back. He is a good lay so I will sleep with him but then I am off on my own again cause I can never take him seriously to be the solid, strong man I am interested in since his emotions are so up and down with the constant threat of breaking up with me. Just shows he is insecure and isn't sure about where he is going in life. It is unattractive.
Thanks for sharing. I totally understands your situation. My woman is like that. The insecurity from her shines through. She's dying inside when shes alone so she either be with her ex or trying with me again. To you and me both i guess laying The cards out and tell them straight up whats going on is best and IF they are fleaky again , just leave forever.
Nope,I’ve been here too,since 2016 😊
I went no contact. Hasn’t been 24 hrs yet and damn it’s dragged by 😂 I’m hurting, but I’m also getting busy. Getting a gym membership and working out every day I can, and focusing on my son who needs me bad right now, and to be honest, it hurts but I’m so relieved. I let it go. Said if she comes back great, if she doesn’t, fine, there’s someone better. In the meantime I gotta get back into my own place and keep focused on me. Everything’s gonna be just fine 😊
Dude, were in the same boat at the same time. Focus on yourself and listen to videos by Corey or read his book. His knowledge is spot on and self empowering. I was crushed 10 days ago and now I'm feeling in different. Not sure what the hell I'll do if she contacts me. Anyway you got this. You're number 1 in your life or maybe 2 behind your son but no woman should ever be higher than you. She'll lose respect for you if you stop working out, do hobbies, and hang with your friends. Keep doing you whether you're single or not.
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I am so surprised and feel bad to see many men here having the same problems as we girls do and are asking the same questions and some even got bitter to another gender.
Perhaps those horrible women who went cold, distanced, nasty to you, were dumped by last men who treated them that way, and vice versa, when your heart broke by these nasty women and you close your heart and went cold and distanced easily in your next relationship, you will break some nice girl's heart and she started to bring this bitterness to her next relationship. So please, stop this bad loop. Be the honest, none game playing gentlemen you were again to attract the same mind.
Most of girls Do want commitment. Most of girls...or I shall say women Do want someone who is emotionally matured, and open and do communicate. There are immature girls who are in their early 20s who doesn't want to settle down, just like many men, and its even a popular beliefs among women to believe men don't want a committed relationship nor marriage, that men just want sex! And will disappear as soon as a woman slept with them and full in love with them. But obviously not all men and women are like that. You can go to those women's dating couch TH-cam sites and will see they all have the same myth to men as you do to women.
So if you do want more than just sex, if you want someone who will love you and support you and communicate with you, please always be it and dont let anyone change you.
Do enjoy your options of dating more than one women until you find someone great to go exclusive with, but Don't be a playboy at all and don't collect women like trophies. I for one always run as soon as I know a guy is a playboy no matter how rich, handsome he is. Simply because playboys are actually feminine and unsecured to need attention and fame to feel strong.
It's the real masculine men who is not afraid to be vulnerable, sincere, and exclusive to me, and enjoy his own life and work that really catches my heart
Thank you for this advice!
Boys... Intrudersss! LOL its a trap...
His advice goes for both genders. It's difficult for both men and women to be smothered. I have met wonderful girls that have made these mistakes and made me lose interest. Can't help it and it's painful to loose interest for somebody we initially liked. His advice is to improve our general human interactions, taking into account the other person's perspective.
Shut up. You bitches are the ones that cheat and divorce 70% of the time. Its your fault the game is played this way. Play games, get fucked.
Smh lolll if you guys listen to women words damn u a full of shit but I don’t understand how some guys can still open their heart to a new women cuz their no unicorn that shit doesn’t exist, so listen once a women knows u love them too much it’s over for u ok
She ended our relationship ship about a month ago and today I ended the friendship she wanted to have with me because I will not allow her to put me in a friend zone. I hope we could come back together and she can see the value that I am giving myself because I do not want her to be stringing me along. I love her but I am not a friend I deserve romance and I deserve to be loved.
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Well I dumped my guy after he I found out he was ready to go on a friends with benefits date with another on POF. Trust has been broken.
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My girl dumped me.. her reason is she's tired of hurting me...
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Coming from a broken family and surroundings full of thugs and bums. I found it hard to date the girls from good rich families. I have been able to attract them, but getting physical with them was a problem cuz I always found the class difference a bit on the face. Some, women were oo easy for love making, but the snobby up class were real tight.
This book is valuable only if you are willing to unlearn everything you learned over the years and re learn
Thanks for the video
Hi Coach Corey, I moved from Asia to US a few months ago for school and soccer scholarship. My ex and my moms are bestfriends since 40 years and after a month I got here we fell in love. She is 2 years older than me and she has a job and I am in school right now. But she knew the situation and we decided that we should just be in a relationship till 2 years and then get engaged. We were so much in love, I was her first, and she was mine. Because I moved out here from far and as an international student, I had to depend on my parents a little and her too. and I realized later on that I took advantage of her subconsciously and totally forgot about her expectations. We were the first for each other too, physically. She said that I hurt her so much and she just said that she does not want to be with me anymore. A week before the breakup she was letting me know that she wants to marry me and I said the same and everything was perfect. She was letting little things pile up in her as it is her nature ,like she wanted me to call her everyday, talk to her, then when I went to her parents place for my thanksgiving vacations, which I generally do, (her parents does not know about us so we have to act different), everything was fine for the first few days, we went on walks, we held hands, she talked about marriage and I loved her and she loved me so much. then I totally forgot that she had to work and study for her GRE exam due later december, and I kept on nagging her that she isn't giving me enough time and I need her and made comments that she is acting weird. But I honestly loved her and never hurt her like that, it was unintentional but I realize all my mistakes. and I told her that. she acted distant in the last few days of the week and I rather than understanding, kept on asking her if she loved me anymore or not and she is being weird with me not realizing the pressure she has on her this month. Then at the end of the break she told me that I should not come to her place for the winter vacations as it is unhealthy for our relationship acting different in front of her parents, I kept on being clingy and when I got back to school, she said that we should break up because you hurt me and you are too dependent on everyone. that I have a long way to go and I am not the right guy for her right now and this relationship is not right for her. She has been through a lot and she is very independent, but she really did love me a lot and did everything for me. and now she said that, and at first I was begging her and everything because I really do love her. then i told her that i respect her wishes and I would not bother her. But i cannot live without her, everyday I wake up and think about her and I know everybody will say that be happy and move on but that is not possible for me. She is the only one I want and without her no matter what I achieve I do not get happy. I need to get her back, I need her in my life not just for me, but because I can make her happy, I have made her happy but it seems like she is only focusing on the bad aspects right now. She said she has to focus on herself only now and not worry about me. I want her to love me and be with me for the rest of our lives, I have no other hope. Please help.
Regards
What happen also kinda in those situation
Ok...so like everyone else I'm sure, I absolutely had to pause the video after the bugs bunny comment and say "LMFAOOOOOO" 😅😅
I have to keep watching your video's everyday in order to not give in and text her first Im strong with everything but weak as fuck when it comes to that 1 special girl and I hate it
I've made the mistake of agreeing to the friendship yet we havent spoken in about a week. What should I do in this situation? does the no contact rule apply here or is there a different approach for this situation?
I am 18 thanks to youtube algorithm i landed on his channel orelse i would have been the other 97%dudes out there
Guys when Corey says plan the night and let her discover it don’t forget that she also wants to be in a love story. It’s one of my past mistakes that I’ve done. Don’t program everything and times and the schedule. Because it might demonstrate you as controlling and not flexible and when this happens she’ll start to test you with little subtle things like trying to change the program so much and even changing the table like 3 times. And even if you go along with the changes it makes you subordinate. If you don’t you’ll be a control freak. And in either case she may think that the spontaneity is lost , that maybe you aren’t much flexible even if you have changed your program a little bit. Then you’ll frustrate yourself because its just a tough situation to be in. If you want to program your dates don’t forget to not be a robot and even a pleaser. When you try so hard to plan a date that everything is so perfect and she doesn’t need to do anything she might find herself a little bored. Like it isn’t that exciting like it was when you didn’t work so hard to make it so perfect. The reality is that when you try to do everything Corey teaches so perfectly and you were already a nice guy when you have first found out about Corey it can make you even a bigger pleaser and a nice guy just because you forget how to be yourself and try to hide your weak spots and try to be so textbook. When Corey says don’t be a robot that’s what he means. So to sum this up let’s say that don’t forget to be yourself and accept yourself even with your minor errors, try to get better but don’t hide your mistakes because it doesn’t just work and don’t try to do everything so textbook that you stop having fun just to do everything right to please your lover. She needs to love you for yourself . Not because your trying to do everything right just like a robot. That robot always fails. And lastly let the love story happen.
Never ever ever take them back, Millons of other women out there lads who will love you forever please God, never take back an ex girlfriend you'll be only falling in love with the memories not the person, please don't do it, just move on with your life and get some one 😉 better please God 🙏🙂.
Women don't give up their sexual intimacy that easily as you describe... at least those around here don't they are ultra stuck up. However you do have some great strategies overall.
That isn’t stuck up. they’re just not comfortable or interested in sex without relationship investment.
Why is my ex stalking me two weeks after she broke it off? She knows I’m dating someone else. She’s been stalking me since she broke up with me even tho we don’t follow each other. (Social media, Instagram story)
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Ex gf called me yesterday and today after 2 weeks of NC, i picked up and said Hi in a chill mode. She says hello, how are things, how are you? Im great ty! Life is good and tons of good things are happening but I can't tell you all about it. Then she goes all emotions on me : I miss us, don't you? Yes ofc i do i replied with a calm Deep voice. Then afterwards she started to bring up the breakup and the reason and past memories. I just let her do the talking and Replied : I've Heard you and learned from it. The mistake i did was me ignoring her for 6 months. I would of breakup with me too..if I were in her shoes, I told her I've Heard you and took it to my heart and moved on. Life has so much to offer and is beatiful. She was down and not so cheerful but when she Heard about me and how I am doing..her mood changed and Went from sad to a bit cheerful. We laughed sometimes. So then I brought up the good memories of US. She laughed and was a bit more happy and then I said : look the reason why i picked up, is one reason : Where do I have you? IF you're here to have emotional support from me, Sorry I dont have the time & energy for you. IF you cant provide me Us thing or such then don't call me untill you're 100% sure. Because I want you but i've accepted the fact that I can do with or without you in LIFE. Then she Went silent and said I do understand you but i can't be straightforward, I just't dont know. SO my QUESTION IS WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO? give her more time and space? If so then I will continue doing so..let her chase ME please reply so my brain stops going 10000000 xD
Just walk away dude. Tell her you are not interested in a friendship with her and tell her she wont be receiving any emotional support if she wants to be friends. Walk away, be mysterious, go to the gym and talk to other females. She will chase you down and if not you can live without her, no problems.
cheers
+Dragan King I dated a girl I fell in love with deeply for 3 years. I made some typical Beta male mistakes such as not courting her anymore, laying all my problems on her, becoming needy/insecure, doing the same stuff over and over etc. Anyways she ended up dumping me and left for another guy with the text book status response: "He was just a friend, and it just kinda happend." Translation: This has been in the works for months, he's your replacement. Life went on, and about 4 months later, she starts getting in contact with me because there is problems with the current boyfriend. To then summarize and condense the next 6 months that follow, I ended up rescuing her from that guy 7 times. She would stay at my place for 1-2 weeks then bounce out, and because of my emotional attachment and love, I just continued to repeat this shit over and over to the point it was the exact definition of "Insanity". So for a better part of almost a full year, I was there for her, helped her mentally and financially, gave her stability, bent of backwards to try prove I was the better deal "Approval seeking behavior". On three different occasions she even went as far as sending me naked photos, saying she wanted to marry me, stating "I LOVE YOU", "I MISS YOU" etc, but it was ultimately just a mental circle jerk. For my efforts: I got friend zoned countless times, denied sex, wasted thousands of my own money, used as an emotional tampon, drove all over the place wasting my gas/time, and cock blocked from any other female that would of had interest in me. So in conclusion, my advice to you is to be extremely careful and do not ignore the Red Flags. If your ex tries to friend zone you more than once, I would get the hell out of there, stand your ground, do not compromise, and lay out the house rules. It's not your problem if she continues to want to try change the terms and conditions, and there are always ex girlfriends/boyfriends that will be happy to dick you around if they sense you can be manipulated. Make sure you also watch her actions match her words. If she says one thing, but does another, don't even waste your time. Any women who truly wants to get back with you, or truly values/misses you will not waste your time.
+Dragan King wow she kept called so I picked up and then she suggested for us to hangout and just Catch up. So i decided time and played hard to get i said '' hm, well not today, friday 8pm?, got stuff 2 do'' hahah! Yes, sounds perfect she goes. So once she opens the door she jumps into my arms and holds me long...While my hand was resting to her waist..just one hand. After she let go we were supposed to go out with our 2 dogs which Í haven't seen for 2 weeks. So we did walk and talk about our Life and so. She had a soccer match and I asked nicely how did that go *smile* she goes all happy and says Well we had fun but we lost!. So I replied : Oh well that's the Point isn't it, loser? :) we both laughed hard and once we got inside my ex Place she then invited me IN. Ofc i Went inside. She sat at the couch while i was siting 2meters away just because. She goes '' wont you please come sit next to me?'' I just Went and did it and smiled ofc. She then put her head towards my shoulder. After 1hour i was thinking of leaving but da hell..I didnt expect much either. So she stands up and asks me ''what moview do you want to watch'' I Went all suprised hahah. So I let her decide on that. After picking a Movie she asked if we could go and buy some snacks. On the way to the shop, she hold my arm and hard..didnt let go if it at all. I didn't touch her or kiss or so. I kept being a bit hot and Cold but in a good way!! Once back home she sat next to me and had her wrist Close to mine and she knew I wanted to hold hands but ofc no. WHen she wanted to do so I just took my hand and '' scratched my head'' after 3hours being there, having a good time spending and letting her see the better version of me. I told her : I'm sorry for all the mistakes I have done. She replied the same. And i told her I can't really tell you what I'm feeling so I dont want to hurt me. But you know what i want and no friendship. Not interested at all. Yes i know and I'm not at your level yet. No it's ok i replied. My door is open but the more Days ago and so the more I start to belive that the breakup maybe was right after all. So after that I grabbed my bag and was ready to leave. THen she goes, Can' you sleep over tonight? it's late and dark, plus it's friday. I said na it's fine i'll manage to get to my parents house! Are you sure? Yes and thanks. She wanted me to sleep at the sofa and not with her in bed.Otherwise I wouldn't reject ;) but i did and opened the door and she Hugs me again..long and hard. I was about to leave and as I was... turned around and looked her into her Eyes and gave her a mini hug and told her sleep well and have a good one untill next time. So did I do anything wrong`?? She did all the Initianing..I Think I did succés with her chasing me. But it's now that it's starts to get REAL. Either she wants to continue or not. And as i told her, I realized I can manage without you. And there are other Girls that are on my tail that I'm not intersted in, honestly speaking. Hehe ;) g
I think it's reasonable to suggest that her wanting to "Catch up" was her way
of re-evaluating her decision to break up with you. She demonstrated multiple
times in what you wrote that she still has interest in you. The blunder here is
you practically allowed her to lead the entire series of events. You have already
told her you don't want to be friends, so if she wants to see you then you should
of planned and arranged an evening where you go to dinner/dancing/karaoke. This
way your giving her an opportunity to come along for the ride, socialize with you,
laugh, touch and grow those feelings of attraction towards you. Then after a
successful night of fun she likely would of been all over you. Instead your walking
around the park, bringing up the past, apologizing, and then watching a movie with
this awkward back and forth touching that went no where. This is not going to make her
crave and desire you more. The good thing was that you left, and did not agree to sleep
on the couch, but going forth you need to stop talking about the past relationship, do
not apologize anymore, it just brings up bad memories, and when she reaches out you make
sure to plan an awesome evening, then when you have her laughing, having an amazing time
you can slowly get that touching going. When your on the date, you pay attention to
her body language, and that can help you know when she's loosening up and not on her guard,
but honestly if you do everything right on a well planned evening, your ex sounds like she
will have no problem going into your arms.
The GovNer well I want her to chase me and i got as i wanted. She is not worth going out for dates. Not yet. Untill she says that she wants me , US. Its me who got my heart thorned and got dumped
I gave 3 times chances.. She fucked up so no more mr nice guy. IF she wants us, she will start chasing me .
I had a recent encounter with a girl like no other on tinder too. Collage girl lives close by. When I first met her I could tell it wasn't going to work out.I went with it though because I was learning aka weak and didnt know any better. We took things very fast 2 dates in 5 days. I got the questions of what I want out of this on the second date and after it. This led to confusion, misunderstanding, and overreaction on both parties. So we ended up meeting up for coffee and talking about it. Keep in mind this was a 1 week meet up. This girl showed me what I wanted and what to do and not to do for that one who comes along in my life that I want to keep around. I heard the "I dont see us going in to a relationship like that, we can be friends." I kept my cool and told her I dont want to be friends and contact me if you change your mind, figure it out whatever. We had good conversations about the things we did and laughed a lot. I could tell she wanted to go, so I walked her to her car. She told me she would contact me if she figures it out. We hugged I felt like going for a kiss but I felt it would come off wrong because it was a meet to figure it out. I acted like this wouldn't effect me in my life and like I would just continue on like normal. Now I just continue my life as it never happened and wont effect me in my mission. I thank that girl for all the lessons I learned and for showing me what I really want. This is my story. I hope this helps someone out there and makes them smile because I know I am even though its hard life will carry on and so will I.
Same situation here. College girl. I’m much older. Had a lot of fun. Then I got the “I’m not interested in a relationship” she did offer to be fwb but we never ended up meeting up again.
I tried doing this mystery date thing TWICE with 2 different girls, got flaked on twice! - I'm trying the strategies here and there and I dont get that much success! 😕... Ehh gotta keep trying I guess.
Ha. My wife left got an apartment then started Harrasing me to always call het. Text her and go see her even though I have no car atm and she moved like 20 miles away. Ugh. Wtf. Why even move.
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I need help BIG TIME. Going through a breakup with a man I love so whole heartedly and no matter how much I was willing to work on our shit he just didn't want to anymore. . He didn't like me having male friends so there's that piece and because I'm a strong woman who wouldn't be submissive to his shit he didn't like it.
I'd love it if he came chasing me again. ;)
if she chases me, imma run away lol
create a fun experience got it!
the one and only...i just did this with my ex.....i saw here on messenger and didnt text her....she ended up texting me. she initiated the contact.....this works.
God I need to talk to this guy 1-on-1 he’s going to help me
dont leave the door open thats weak just forget about her
This may or may not get her back. But it does stop you from begging which definitely won't get her back. And it will stop you from looking like a fool and regretting it 6 months from now. I promise I've been there. I've hit up girls that dumped me and tried to explain myself to them only for it to 1 not work and 2 I regret the shit out of it after a few months go by and I'm over her.
What if We broke up because she wanted to be exclusive and I declined?
Hey Corey. Good advices. Fact is that nowadays 90% of women are toxic as hell and you should really look for the one who doesn't bring you to act this way. I mean, all you say is gospel, but men who find a mature and balanced woman are blessed. If a woman tests you for emotional strength she's not loving you, she's loving what you provide so maybe being needy is a man way of testing for true love(?). Who knows, thanks for the advices
Man you saved my arse thanks I'll donate everything is have
I stumbled across you a few weeks ago and been watching your vids. Dude, you're on the right track but making us smart guys have less women with these nerds learning this shit. I've agreed with about everything you've said. My motto is. "Women want what they can't have". Keep them wanting more and the most important thing is be mysterious. I have the hottest chick in a 50 mile radius and for two years strong she bows down to me. She's my all too but I never make it easy for her unless it's the most paramount matters of our hearts. I rule my house and she knows any decision I make is best for us. I always give her input on all but ultimately I make the final decision. Be a man guys, I've you're a little bitch you'll be in what Wayne says, "Friend Zone"! That happened to me in middle school once. Lmfao
Yall still together or was she cheating on you like most of them do.
so do i need to stop talking to her all together? like we go to church together will that be a problem?
How is it now?
Got another one for you
Girls sister & pastor out to ruin our friendship
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I enjoyed the Dice reference heh heh
this guy makes me laugh so hard with his smiling lol but very insightful
I'm going through the same thing just recently my gf after 4 months wants a break. And don't know if she wants to be in a relationship with me. Because one hand she really likes me and wants it to work and like having me around but on the other hand she feels the past month of the relationship is being forced smothered and getting turned-off. My question is does it sound like she just needs space and let her come to me or is there no chance for us to come back together
Update?
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