@@Robsparks413 this is totally true for me too dude, it's harder to do this when the girl is really hot and had a lot of male orbiters around her, but I'm learning how to handle that thanks to Corey
The proof is in the poon-ding! ;) Amazing how accurate the information is and how real a woman's responsiveness is when a man integrates and embodies it effortlessly.
You've got a few things right here Corey. A woman with self esteem, who values herself, wants to know that a man has some standards. That he picks his women carefully. Then when he chooses you, it's a real complement. However, this same woman meets true indifference with indifference. The result of this is a competition to see who can care less. - Your example of Carey grant is different. This is joking banter that they both know is a farce. The true message to get out of this: Don't treat a woman like something special until you've gotten to know her enough to believe that she's something special.
Very true, I had a date recently with a beautiful lady, hugely successful: had responsibility for over a hundred people in her company, lives in a penthouse, and the word indifference summed her up perfectly. I was dealing with someone that was a hundred percent comfortable in their own skin. I did many things wrong in the courtship phase and I have no idea if I’ve lost her or not (probably have) as I’m on no contact with her at the moment. These kind of people are so hard to deal with.
Kathleen, I’ve been dating 9’s be 10’s for years but never seemed to keep my power until I started following Coreys advice. The woman I’m dating now is a 12 and she’s doing 100% of the contacting and I’m blown away by how the dynamics have shifted. I found his videos when she told me she wanted to be celibate and I followed his advice and she started backpedaling. Since then, my life and relationship have shifted
@@lilypowell1123 I’ve been noticing your comments, what Corey is teaching actually works and quite frankly the way you perceive it doesn’t matter. I was the typical American man, a pussy, and I did my due diligence with Corey’s wisdom and oh my goodness it completely changed my life for the better. I’m more of a man and the ladies notice it, now I have an absolutely amazing girlfriend who I genuinely love and my life couldn’t be going any better.
You're cold? Well come on over here honey and start hugging and kissing me. I promise you that we'll create enough body heat that you won't be cold anymore ;)
That's when you hit her with the " I'm no Fred Flintstone.. but I'm sure i can make your bedrock" haha or " do you wash your pants in Windex? Cuz I can see myself in them" haha
@@motorcitysobie2824 I HOPE YOUR KIDDING GUY !! THIS VIDEO IS SOOOO NOT WHAT TO DO OR THINK !! THIS DUDE IS A SORRY LOSER !! UGH .JUST LISTEN TO THAT WEIRD VOICE !!! 😄 HAHAHAHA 😄!!!
This is so true I don’t know how you was able to get this gift but I asked my gf why did she chose me when she had 10 other different dudes she said because you was the only one that did not try to tie me down rite away you had a let’s see how this goes type of mindset and that drove her crazy
Im from South Africa, bought the book and the Audiobook. This shit is amazing how we have walking around and not seeing shit. Now you jus look at a guy chattin up a girl and in my mind I be like "this dude needs to stop already" 🤣
Man I've listened to alot of nonsense on youtube about this matter, and YOU REALLY KNOW what you're talking about... The things you discuss just makes sense, and it seems like it is guaranteed to work
I did exactly what Corey said dont do.....give ur heart and affection away early and too easily. I fucked up royally, and wish I found Corey 3 months ago.
@Eternal Entertainment same! Only on read/listen 4 but it's working well. Hell as a 39 year old bald guy I picked up a beautiful 22 year old in a coffee shop - and she totally did all the work! 😁
I've seen all this guy's videos, downloaded his shit on my kindle and the shit he's saying is 100% true, if you read any bad review's he's gotten for any reason..pay absolutely no mind. I'ts probably some chump who doesn't have the balls to stay away when he needs to.or is just uncomfortable with himself. (Hence why he probably bought the book in the first place) I'm only 19 years old and I'm glad that I stumbled across this video and got an edge over my pals when it comes to women. Thanks Corey
Bought your book, great material, spot on! I am on my second read through, I will be back with questions after the fifteenth read. Everything you've presented has been spot on, and your recommendation to read at least ten to fifteen times, as well as refer to your videos, is advice worth its weight in gold--combining them engages as many of your senses as possible, both accelerating learning and developing deeper and more complete understanding and greater retentuon. The same fundamental approach I used to master material and assimilate it quickly in medical school. While I intend to use your material in my own life, the more important purpose is I am going to use it to help teach my sons. I want them to have every advantage in life and relationships, all relationships: with women, with friends, with coworkers, and with money. My boys are both mild Asperger Syndrome (mild high-functioning autistic spectrum disorder), and I feel Your materials and insights, presented in concrete terms rather than abstract concepts, are perfect for them. Your book and videos are a great supplemental resource for parenting moments! Anyone ever tell you that? Meanwhile, the Cary Grant/Catherine Hepburn movie you were referencing is "Charades", and you are right, it was an excellent film. Kudos to you do for your fine work! Dr. John L. Trench III
@@loqueando666 which goes to show "Bess" will never give him the time of day and will be fooking someone else. But who would want to be with an ice queen anyway?
8:24 Put women on probation. As human beings we always appreciate things that we have to work hard for, and we tend to take for granted things that come too easy. 10:54 Society (the West) presenting an image where the sexes are all the same totally destroys the sexual polarity. 12:25 A woman wants a man who is a challenge. If you’re easy and you come unglued with women you like, you may become their male girlfriend but never their lover. She wants to be around a guy who’s comfortable in his own skin, that likes who he is, and perceives himself as a catch.
That is so damn true tv shows movies show the guy working for the girls attention but in reality its the girl who works for his attention or so the guy stalkin her
+colloredbrothers watch every thing from marlon brando, clark gable, humphrey bogaert, cary grant, the godfather, steve mcqueen, al pacino, michael caine, alain delon( french alpha actor)
Dude, just watch all the Bond films, especially Daniel Craig's Bond, cause he's more modern Bond, very manly, when it comes to his mission, he doesn't give a shit about anything else, when it comes to women, even for M, his boss and mother figure, he teases her all the time, and moneypenny as well. There's a reason Coach keeps making an example out of him
I do have a question: Why do amazingly beautiful women laugh and respond so well when I tastefully make fun of an imperfection they may have, or make fun of them in general? Example I video chatted with a beautiful woman that called me as she woke up, I said "your smiling, but how fresh is that breath?" or "I loved that picture but I can tell you were trying hard to get that pose right to please, I though.poor thing she's giving her all to attract me". She loved it and laughed so hard and seemed to want more!! This just on example with one girl.
A Clark Gable film from 1934 "It Happened One Night" shows how the man never puts the woman on a pedestal, but instead treats her like a brat, which only makes her curious about him. He never worships her, but keeps their interactions playful, then serious, then playful again the whole time. It was a great display of making her feel uncertain about his true feelings.Very interesting to see what you've been describing happen on film. Guess who the girl chooses in the end? =8)
I recently started reading your book. See a lot of my mistakes with the women I've really liked. Like, most of this stuff are things I subconsciously did towards some women, but wasn't aware I was doing it. And now I realize where I was doing things right and wrong. There's one person in particular that I'm interested in now. I lost my composure for a moment and got stupidly emotional. We're all in quarantine 2020 so I didn't ask her out like I normally would. Gave her the chance to define the relationship, which she of course said she wanted to be friends and that she was healing from her last bf. So I was like fuck that because I've been through it before. Gave it a couple days. She kept looking through my stories on snap which made me feel "I think I still have a chance here." The key is to catch this shit fast. But I felt I had to fast track it. So yes, I broke the don't text her rule, but only because I knew exactly what I wanted to say and how to say it. So I went through her, snap. She had one that said "let me be your distraction", which I replied with a "Only if I'm your distraction first." Had to get that flirtiness back. She replied with a "yikes 👀" It hurt for a sec, but I had to play it off. "Why yikes?" Her: "I have other distractions." (This one also hurt for a sec) Me: "Oh really now? Well, alright. If you want me to be your main distraction let me know. I'm working on some stuff" her: "as in myself 😂 but I will" Me: "Alright." Her: "How ya been?" Me: "Oh, so now you're ready for me to be your distraction? I'm fine. Lol, give me an hour, though. When I said I was working on some stuff I meant a song I'm writing and some reading. Lol 😂" Her: "Oh nice . & no I was just asking how you're doing" Me: "I said message me when you want me to be your only distraction. Lol I meant that. I've been thinking the last few days. I don't want to be your friend. I know you have some healing to do. I even dropped a ball of my own on you. My fault. Lol I won't rush you. I won't chase you. Just hit me up when you're ready. Give me at least an hour, though. Lol" Her: "So you prefer me to not hit you up til I'm ready?" (She's testing. Trying to see how willing to walk away I am.) Me: "Yeah, actually. Because with quarantine right now and not being able to meet you, and trying to navigate getting to know you when it feels you have no romantic intentions with me, isn't cutting it. I'd rather you talk to me when you want to get drunk, have some fun, your hair pulled, tied down, and back broke like a kit kat. I've been down the friend rode before. I know where it leads with someone as intoxicating as you. I'm not doing it to myself. Though, I did think up video dating if you'd like to set something up." Her: "Video dating?" From there I set up a date. Not talking to her until it.
Dude, it becomes very robotic. You are saying these things instead of living them and naturally showing her that you don’t chase. She is probably wondering, if you don’t chase and you’re not feeling needy, how come you’re still here even though I am barely showing interest. Don’t you have options? If so, why? It’s much better to get comfortable with myself for real, and start loving myself for real so I don’t put up a facade of confidence, but instead actually am confident.
watch the first half of 'Father Goose' with Cary Grant and Leslie Caron......he's semi rude to her, dismissive, very alpha, without overdoing it....it's great :)
You for sure understand when the parents are away and don't take initiative to teach there children proper communication skills between a man and a women the children are most likely to be taught by HOLLYWOOD...GoOd Video Coach Corey Wayne ,I Wish You the Best Brother keep up the Great Work !!!
This is what I noticed in my life, past life that is, rather recently. I could talk, and still can, to any woman, anytime, anywhere. This all came about because I discovered it the last day of high school eons ago, and I had no idea how a terribly shy guy, could all the sudden start off a conversation which went five minutes straight, with the most beautiful high schooler I had ever seen. Later in life, I HAD TO work with a lot of female users and programmers in IT. I discovered, the only way I could not talk to them hardly at all, was when I put romance in my head. When I took romance out, I could talk to absolutely any of them, even ones I never met, and they enjoyed it too. And to think, I never went to the company parties, for I was an introvert who hated those. While I agree with the indifference mentioned here, I went a step further, because I was far shyer to begin with, and that is I wasn't indifferent with them at all, on business or anything that might strike their minds, but just when it came to romance. I never put it in my head, and wouldn't compliment them, etc. I never wanted to be seen as kissing up, nor in dominating them. What it can do, is free you up. You not only can talk to them any time, but you also are building up some comfort with them. This is important, because you are laying a bridge. You are using this to get to know them better, than romance would cloud your vision to catch red flags. Then if they pretty much pass, you can ask them out with ease, because the two of you already have a basis to talk and not be dead silent at a date, plus it just will make asking them out easier, and easier for them accept as well. The funny thing about me getting that ability, is I had no idea how I did it, but in the business environment, it was pretty easy to come by.
If i do not like a man, he can be the most indifferent man on earth, i do not care. The indifference card is somehow useful when a woman likes a man, otherwise, it is useless. And, even if the woman likes a man but he plays the indiferent one, just to get her, he might be dissapointed to find that she was a high self esteem woman who didnt enjoy games. Being indifferent does not equal being confident. Nonetheless, some indifference is good, at some points, specially in relationships with high ego women.
$1000 per hour to get coaching from this guy! Unbelievable! And I was seriously considering getting some. Oh well looks like it's just me, the book and videos
Is it perceived a weakness or a "lack of indifference" if a busy man is ready to change his week schedule to meet a busy woman that he is dating? (she would find out that he sacrificed/cancelled something to see her)
come back next eve after work.mom there alone. I comfort her and she says she loves me.(priorly when i confronted her etc..she mentioned about not being together because too much with me being there and trouble dealing with daughter missing school,anxiety etc..need a break"..or", we can continue as we are if I can put up with her dealing with daughter. We continue..Later still heats up w/issues and I brought keys/garage opener and left them. text her a few days later..Continued
While im @it the girlfriend i'm talking about was a longtime girlfriend that i had been friends with @university.She was so gorgeous @uni i just didnt know what the hell to do so i kept on a poker face, she was in the ConstructionEngineeringCourse i was doing and so had no end of male attention as you can imagine, however 1 night @ the bar she just came up to me &wouldnt even leave myside even though i tried to ignore her by talking to friends, then she took me outside & kissed me. Indifference
Bro, you should see how the dudes act at my shop when the hr ladies come in.. They are both very attractive and these dudes voices get all high and they become this super nice guy and they look week.. It's actually quite entertaining. So when a female sees a dude that doesn't become putty around her she notices that shit man.
Parden, I meant to say, I did feel the real love between us.She does have a stubborn attitude at times.she is a happy type character that likes to help-volunteer-God,helping, careing etc on her FB page. You think she boiling mad and needs to cool down, but does love me very much still? This time i am not responding to her unless she comes back saying she loves me and sorry etc..is this the right thing to do? Give her time to miss me? I've done everything(?)right in this relation to work!
then accuse me of being controling and remind her of her ex(he passed away few yrs prior of cancer, but she wanted divorse).I am only concerned for myself and would leave, not control you".. I helped with her projects etc..(not always with the snap of her finger)but eventually got them done..sex start fading,avoiding me etc..daughter get in my face with kicking and hitting.Mom does not stop her.I bow up about to the 2 of them attacking me etc..I leave...Continued above
I appreciate your videos very much, but tried in vain to find a 99 cent download of any of your books on Amazon. Is that no longer the case, or what should I search for (and what is the title of the book)? Thanks for all of the great videos!
I would do the same thing with the sweather but not for Beth.. I would do for a sweet loving woman.. I think that's the difference. Its the intention you have by doing things you do for a woman.
The man trying to get a sweater for Best was a real gentleman. I love attentive men. The rest are pricks. I don’t like pricks who think they know everything and think they are are to important.
Cecilia this is true, logically people will argue its not, but its not a logical process its an animal process.Just like your heart beats 60x a minute there is not logically much you can do to change it. I run construction projects, on 3 of these overtime there has been dropdead gorgeous admin girls and everyone else a man, because im the boss i know we cant be together, everyone goes guga about these girls, i just treat them like one of the boys because of boss relationship, not to be mean...
Hey, Corey just reading your book, and high lighted this link, to watch this video. Who the hell needs Comedy when we all just surf up your videos. The more I watch your videos, and I'm not a shy guy, I'll just talk to anyone in line at checkout buying food or whatever. My whole issue is, getting involved with a lady, and her and lawyers or judges, thinking there going to fuck me, for what I have before meeting a lady, or after. [ Anyway, back to the book. ] And ps I'm lucky to have David DeAngelo info as well. His shit rocks. Care
you manage to put me someplace far away when you make love to me,no one has ever done that before"..not even close!..and other texts that she loves me so much and never had sparks like we do, and just wanted you to know that"..etc..Now she has a house and daughter,i have apartment(just blocks away).spend 99.9% there of course.Wow! relation is great, found someone that I"m gonna be with forever and trust(nice girl).Her daughter has anxiety issues from deceaced father prior..Continued above
Indifference is great for women however when a man is like this even a high confidence women wont go for it -it is confusing and we have to guess we question ourselves and then we walk away to find a real man that doesn’t play these games
It's not games. It's keeping value. If 9 out of 10 guys kiss your ass all the time you won't respect them. But the 1 guy who's different (still treats you with respect etc) who doesn't loose his shit around you just because your hot that's the one women will like more.
A colleague is trying very hard to get noticed by this Brasilian colleague. It is very clear he has a crash for her. What irritates me is that every time she speaks to me he does everything he can to get into the conversation and make sure that she speaks to him and not to me. Now I don't want to start any kind of competition with him because I think that's really stupid but I still can't stand this dude (Not to mention that, in several occasion, I felt like he was trying to screw me in front of the boss!). What should I do? How can I get indifferent to his behaviour and his crap?
Coach Corey, can I just ask what you reply to a female that says she misses you? I replied..I'll let you know when I see you... Any other thoughts welcome
Don't treat a woman like something special until SHE PROVED TO YOU PERSONALLY she's something special.
Agreed 100%
Easier said then done An if shes hot its 10 times harder
@@gabrialblast2007 YEAH MOVIES !!! SURE ....
@@Robsparks413 this is totally true for me too dude, it's harder to do this when the girl is really hot and had a lot of male orbiters around her, but I'm learning how to handle that thanks to Corey
@@Robsparks413 it's hard but if you practice not giving a shit you will no longer feel that way.
this man is a genius, he will change your life the same way he did with mine!!
Mohammed cool just got his new book on Audible and it’s intriguing
@@kittenheels1958 I bought his book, cant wait to read it on paper!!!!
His stuff has worked very well for me more than once. And I screwed up because of not following his advice.
The proof is in the poon-ding! ;)
Amazing how accurate the information is and how real a woman's responsiveness is when a man integrates and embodies it effortlessly.
You've got a few things right here Corey. A woman with self esteem, who values herself, wants to know that a man has some standards. That he picks his women carefully. Then when he chooses you, it's a real complement. However, this same woman meets true indifference with indifference. The result of this is a competition to see who can care less. - Your example of Carey grant is different. This is joking banter that they both know is a farce. The true message to get out of this: Don't treat a woman like something special until you've gotten to know her enough to believe that she's something special.
Kathleen Melen "he chooses his women." That's what women want to see. Why are nut cases.
Watching the men's channel, eh?
Very true, I had a date recently with a beautiful lady, hugely successful: had responsibility for over a hundred people in her company, lives in a penthouse, and the word indifference summed her up perfectly. I was dealing with someone that was a hundred percent comfortable in their own skin. I did many things wrong in the courtship phase and I have no idea if I’ve lost her or not (probably have) as I’m on no contact with her at the moment. These kind of people are so hard to deal with.
Kathleen, I’ve been dating 9’s be 10’s for years but never seemed to keep my power until I started following Coreys advice. The woman I’m dating now is a 12 and she’s doing 100% of the contacting and I’m blown away by how the dynamics have shifted. I found his videos when she told me she wanted to be celibate and I followed his advice and she started backpedaling. Since then, my life and relationship have shifted
@Ger’varis Anderson I'm a woman. I know how I react to someone who's aloof.
The beauty in it now is that . I now know where i went wrong 😊
Listening to this guy !!😄 hahaha 😄 !!!
@@lilypowell1123 I’ve been noticing your comments, what Corey is teaching actually works and quite frankly the way you perceive it doesn’t matter. I was the typical American man, a pussy, and I did my due diligence with Corey’s wisdom and oh my goodness it completely changed my life for the better. I’m more of a man and the ladies notice it, now I have an absolutely amazing girlfriend who I genuinely love and my life couldn’t be going any better.
You're cold? Well come on over here honey and start hugging and kissing me. I promise you that we'll create enough body heat that you won't be cold anymore ;)
That's when you hit her with the " I'm no Fred Flintstone.. but I'm sure i can make your bedrock" haha or " do you wash your pants in Windex? Cuz I can see myself in them" haha
@@motorcitysobie2824 I HOPE YOUR KIDDING GUY !! THIS VIDEO IS SOOOO NOT WHAT TO DO OR THINK !! THIS DUDE IS A SORRY LOSER !! UGH .JUST LISTEN TO THAT WEIRD VOICE !!! 😄 HAHAHAHA 😄!!!
@@lilypowell1123 we got a triggered karen here... call the alarm
This is so true I don’t know how you was able to get this gift but I asked my gf why did she chose me when she had 10 other different dudes she said because you was the only one that did not try to tie me down rite away you had a let’s see how this goes type of mindset and that drove her crazy
11:00 it's funny how the guys being "nice" is what portrayed in media, but in the real world biologically women still attract to indifference
To everyone! Buy this man book and read it ! It will change you !!!
Thanks coach!
10-15 times! "Repetition is the Mother of skill" (Shit, I need to read it another 14 times then)
Im from South Africa, bought the book and the Audiobook. This shit is amazing how we have walking around and not seeing shit. Now you jus look at a guy chattin up a girl and in my mind I be like "this dude needs to stop already" 🤣
Man I've listened to alot of nonsense on youtube about this matter, and YOU REALLY KNOW what you're talking about... The things you discuss just makes sense, and it seems like it is guaranteed to work
I did exactly what Corey said dont do.....give ur heart and affection away early and too easily. I fucked up royally, and wish I found Corey 3 months ago.
Love how Corey makes the stories
Man, obviously you haven't red the book
*Read
Dude that was a good catch. How in the world did you see that? I always thought it was “red.”
Just bought the book!!
How's the book been working for you
Hows the book working?
@Eternal Entertainment same! Only on read/listen 4 but it's working well. Hell as a 39 year old bald guy I picked up a beautiful 22 year old in a coffee shop - and she totally did all the work! 😁
@@christopherkokoski1668 good shit
I’ve got a lot of favorite Corey Wayne videos. But this is my favorite CCW video of all time
I've seen all this guy's videos, downloaded his shit on my kindle and the shit he's saying is 100% true, if you read any bad review's he's gotten for any reason..pay absolutely no mind. I'ts probably some chump who doesn't have the balls to stay away when he needs to.or is just uncomfortable with himself. (Hence why he probably bought the book in the first place) I'm only 19 years old and I'm glad that I stumbled across this video and got an edge over my pals when it comes to women. Thanks Corey
So what’s your update 10 years later.. a lot of success?
jesus hes 29 years old now
@@musashi542indeed lmao
Bought your book, great material, spot on! I am on my second read through, I will be back with questions after the fifteenth read. Everything you've presented has been spot on, and your recommendation to read at least ten to fifteen times, as well as refer to your videos, is advice worth its weight in gold--combining them engages as many of your senses as possible, both accelerating learning and developing deeper and more complete understanding and greater retentuon. The same fundamental approach I used to master material and assimilate it quickly in medical school.
While I intend to use your material in my own life, the more important purpose is I am going to use it to help teach my sons. I want them to have every advantage in life and relationships, all relationships: with women, with friends, with coworkers, and with money. My boys are both mild Asperger Syndrome (mild high-functioning autistic spectrum disorder), and I feel Your materials and insights, presented in concrete terms rather than abstract concepts, are perfect for them. Your book and videos are a great supplemental resource for parenting moments! Anyone ever tell you that?
Meanwhile, the Cary Grant/Catherine Hepburn movie you were referencing is "Charades", and you are right, it was an excellent film.
Kudos to you do for your fine work!
Dr. John L. Trench III
lol "ummm Bess is cold does anyone have a sweater" im dead
Im laughing more at the "ummmm" lol
Who gives a fook about bess
@@loqueando666 which goes to show "Bess" will never give him the time of day and will be fooking someone else. But who would want to be with an ice queen anyway?
8:24 Put women on probation. As human beings we always appreciate things that we have to work hard for, and we tend to take for granted things that come too easy.
10:54 Society (the West) presenting an image where the sexes are all the same totally destroys the sexual polarity.
12:25 A woman wants a man who is a challenge. If you’re easy and you come unglued with women you like, you may become their male girlfriend but never their lover. She wants to be around a guy who’s comfortable in his own skin, that likes who he is, and perceives himself as a catch.
That is so damn true tv shows movies show the guy working for the girls attention but in reality its the girl who works for his attention or so the guy stalkin her
Just knowing that showing little emotion is effective helps me.
Corey you should make a list of old movies where we can see a typical example of an alpha.
+colloredbrothers The Fountainhead is a must see.
+colloredbrothers watch every thing from marlon brando, clark gable, humphrey bogaert, cary grant, the godfather, steve mcqueen, al pacino, michael caine, alain delon( french alpha actor)
+colloredbrothers Tony Stark, James Bond, Lex Luthor in Smallville.
Dude, just watch all the Bond films, especially Daniel Craig's Bond, cause he's more modern Bond, very manly, when it comes to his mission, he doesn't give a shit about anything else, when it comes to women, even for M, his boss and mother figure, he teases her all the time, and moneypenny as well. There's a reason Coach keeps making an example out of him
Read the book... LOL
This guy speaks the truth. Nothing more. Nothing less.
Dirty Harry carried a 44 magnum. Come on Coach. Get with the program...
Out of all his videos this video hit home . I have a higher respect for corey sayne now wow.
I do have a question: Why do amazingly beautiful women laugh and respond so well when I tastefully make fun of an imperfection they may have, or make fun of them in general? Example I video chatted with a beautiful woman that called me as she woke up, I said "your smiling, but how fresh is that breath?" or "I loved that picture but I can tell you were trying hard to get that pose right to please, I though.poor thing she's giving her all to attract me". She loved it and laughed so hard and seemed to want more!! This just on example with one girl.
eastlake93 girls wanna have fun and love to banter. It’s all a part of the seduction process.
3:30 thank you for this story. I feel George , I am like him on my way to learn the right way. Thanks for sharing.
You have changed my life forever 💙
A Clark Gable film from 1934 "It Happened One Night" shows how the man never puts the woman on a pedestal, but instead treats her like a brat, which only makes her curious about him. He never worships her, but keeps their interactions playful, then serious, then playful again the whole time. It was a great display of making her feel uncertain about his true feelings.Very interesting to see what you've been describing happen on film. Guess who the girl chooses in the end? =8)
Salty.. then sweet. It requires a certain balance. Too much of either will kill you.
what an amazing video, coach corey thanks for the priceless wisdom
Really like this. This was gold. Do a video about being indifferent in a marriage or committed relationship
Respect man you are a living buddha
I recently started reading your book. See a lot of my mistakes with the women I've really liked. Like, most of this stuff are things I subconsciously did towards some women, but wasn't aware I was doing it. And now I realize where I was doing things right and wrong.
There's one person in particular that I'm interested in now. I lost my composure for a moment and got stupidly emotional. We're all in quarantine 2020 so I didn't ask her out like I normally would. Gave her the chance to define the relationship, which she of course said she wanted to be friends and that she was healing from her last bf.
So I was like fuck that because I've been through it before. Gave it a couple days. She kept looking through my stories on snap which made me feel "I think I still have a chance here."
The key is to catch this shit fast. But I felt I had to fast track it. So yes, I broke the don't text her rule, but only because I knew exactly what I wanted to say and how to say it.
So I went through her, snap. She had one that said "let me be your distraction", which I replied with a "Only if I'm your distraction first."
Had to get that flirtiness back.
She replied with a "yikes 👀" It hurt for a sec, but I had to play it off. "Why yikes?"
Her: "I have other distractions." (This one also hurt for a sec)
Me: "Oh really now? Well, alright. If you want me to be your main distraction let me know. I'm working on some stuff"
her: "as in myself 😂 but I will"
Me: "Alright."
Her: "How ya been?"
Me: "Oh, so now you're ready for me to be your distraction? I'm fine. Lol, give me an hour, though. When I said I was working on some stuff I meant a song I'm writing and some reading. Lol 😂"
Her: "Oh nice . & no I was just asking how you're doing"
Me: "I said message me when you want me to be your only distraction. Lol I meant that. I've been thinking the last few days. I don't want to be your friend. I know you have some healing to do. I even dropped a ball of my own on you. My fault. Lol I won't rush you. I won't chase you. Just hit me up when you're ready. Give me at least an hour, though. Lol"
Her: "So you prefer me to not hit you up til I'm ready?"
(She's testing. Trying to see how willing to walk away I am.)
Me: "Yeah, actually. Because with quarantine right now and not being able to meet you, and trying to navigate getting to know you when it feels you have no romantic intentions with me, isn't cutting it. I'd rather you talk to me when you want to get drunk, have some fun, your hair pulled, tied down, and back broke like a kit kat. I've been down the friend rode before. I know where it leads with someone as intoxicating as you. I'm not doing it to myself.
Though, I did think up video dating if you'd like to set something up."
Her: "Video dating?"
From there I set up a date. Not talking to her until it.
How it went?You are more in to her still, than she is with you?
Dude, it becomes very robotic. You are saying these things instead of living them and naturally showing her that you don’t chase.
She is probably wondering, if you don’t chase and you’re not feeling needy, how come you’re still here even though I am barely showing interest. Don’t you have options? If so, why?
It’s much better to get comfortable with myself for real, and start loving myself for real so I don’t put up a facade of confidence, but instead actually am confident.
You are telling her way to much about what she's doing to you and you are asking instead of assuming she wants you.
watch the first half of 'Father Goose' with Cary Grant and Leslie Caron......he's semi rude to her, dismissive, very alpha, without overdoing it....it's great :)
superb advice...so thank you...LEAD don't NEED... and don't be TOO available...see what SHE brings to the table (besides her a..)
"Probation" That's my new mindset going forward!
Probation, not pedestals!
4 years later...Phil is still single
@@hopefully2224 Hopefully Not..
Hollywood should start making Coach Corey Wayne movies.
Come on Corey! It’s a 44 mag
Jesus, Corey has an amazing taste in movies!
You for sure understand when the parents are away and don't take initiative to teach there children proper communication skills between a man and a women the children are most likely to be taught by HOLLYWOOD...GoOd Video Coach Corey Wayne ,I Wish You the Best Brother keep up the Great Work !!!
The fact you've seen the Cary Grant movies etc. has only made me respect you 10x more.
This is what I noticed in my life, past life that is, rather recently. I could talk, and still can, to any woman, anytime, anywhere. This all came about because I discovered it the last day of high school eons ago, and I had no idea how a terribly shy guy, could all the sudden start off a conversation which went five minutes straight, with the most beautiful high schooler I had ever seen. Later in life, I HAD TO work with a lot of female users and programmers in IT. I discovered, the only way I could not talk to them hardly at all, was when I put romance in my head. When I took romance out, I could talk to absolutely any of them, even ones I never met, and they enjoyed it too. And to think, I never went to the company parties, for I was an introvert who hated those. While I agree with the indifference mentioned here, I went a step further, because I was far shyer to begin with, and that is I wasn't indifferent with them at all, on business or anything that might strike their minds, but just when it came to romance. I never put it in my head, and wouldn't compliment them, etc. I never wanted to be seen as kissing up, nor in dominating them.
What it can do, is free you up. You not only can talk to them any time, but you also are building up some comfort with them. This is important, because you are laying a bridge. You are using this to get to know them better, than romance would cloud your vision to catch red flags. Then if they pretty much pass, you can ask them out with ease, because the two of you already have a basis to talk and not be dead silent at a date, plus it just will make asking them out easier, and easier for them accept as well. The funny thing about me getting that ability, is I had no idea how I did it, but in the business environment, it was pretty easy to come by.
Growing up instinctively was this way. Explains a lot. Most never got it
I shall be every damsels knight in shining armour 💪, no matter what!! I shall always remain the nice guy
If i do not like a man, he can be the most indifferent man on earth, i do not care. The indifference card is somehow useful when a woman likes a man, otherwise, it is useless. And, even if the woman likes a man but he plays the indiferent one, just to get her, he might be dissapointed to find that she was a high self esteem woman who didnt enjoy games. Being indifferent does not equal being confident. Nonetheless, some indifference is good, at some points, specially in relationships with high ego women.
Everyone women has low self esteem
That’s ok, he’ll move on there’s always another stop
Btw if anyone is wondering what movie he was talking about. It's "charade" 1963
Thanks you Corey, your advices are still gold. 🙏🙏
It was a .44
That was actually a .44 magnum that harry was using dude!
PUNK
love your vids. They are helping getting my confidence back
great video, graybeard. keep up the good work!
Clint Eastwood used a .44 Magnum in that movie...
Good info though! Thanks corey
+Ramon Gallegos exactly ...wimpy 357...Harry Callahan and his big.44 I grew up on those legendary movies
:)
Lookin' good here, Corey!
Thats your KEY speech. Bravo
Clint Eastwood so cool. love him. wish he shared screen with bruce lee in an action movie.
Corey you killing me 😂😂
12:10 ... "I am sure she's the one" are you fucking kidding me? Lol you pretty honest and blunt. Thank you Sir
Love your fucken videos man, I've watched almost all of them and it's funny that each of your videos almost covers my *exact* situation. Thanks dude
A competition to see who could care less. Yah.... That's my life
12:17 "are you f***ing kidding me!" That's hilarious
Pay attention guys. This story of the ice queen is from page 99 of his book.
Well here I am another hour of watching the coach
"I'm not done complaining yet". I didn't get it damn...
He’s teasing and testing her.
Corew Dub! You be so on point!
Long story but useful information
Amazing video! So valuable!
Such true advice
Being a douchebag is a massive turn off. Being a non douchebag is a major turn on.
one of your best videos
I watched that flick. You crack me up. Corey....
If I just be myself then everything you have y told me to do goes out the window
$1000 per hour to get coaching from this guy! Unbelievable! And I was seriously considering getting some. Oh well looks like it's just me, the book and videos
The books free. He says in almost every video to read it 10-15 times. I think he wants his book read more than to give individual coaching.
whoa look at this wise guy 😂😂😂
It works... read his book.
Great Video. Soaked it All in.
7:30 the movie is Charade.
Is it perceived a weakness or a "lack of indifference" if a busy man is ready to change his week schedule to meet a busy woman that he is dating? (she would find out that he sacrificed/cancelled something to see her)
You can become indifferent when you realise there is little difference between talking to/being around women and talking to/being around men
2.00-Reminds me of the scene from Anchorman when the hot blonde walks into the office
Dirty harry had. 44 mag just sayin
come back next eve after work.mom there alone. I comfort her and she says she loves me.(priorly when i confronted her etc..she mentioned about not being together because too much with me being there and trouble dealing with daughter missing school,anxiety etc..need a break"..or", we can continue as we are if I can put up with her dealing with daughter. We continue..Later still heats up w/issues and I brought keys/garage opener and left them. text her a few days later..Continued
Solid fucking advice. Thanks Corey!
While im @it the girlfriend i'm talking about was a longtime girlfriend that i had been friends with @university.She was so gorgeous @uni i just didnt know what the hell to do so i kept on a poker face, she was in the ConstructionEngineeringCourse i was doing and so had no end of male attention as you can imagine, however 1 night @ the bar she just came up to me &wouldnt even leave myside even though i tried to ignore her by talking to friends, then she took me outside & kissed me.
Indifference
Bro, you should see how the dudes act at my shop when the hr ladies come in.. They are both very attractive and these dudes voices get all high and they become this super nice guy and they look week.. It's actually quite entertaining. So when a female sees a dude that doesn't become putty around her she notices that shit man.
The man.. Thanks, coach
Whos on page 68? This is my 14th read
Parden, I meant to say, I did feel the real love between us.She does have a stubborn attitude at times.she is a happy type character that likes to help-volunteer-God,helping, careing etc on her FB page.
You think she boiling mad and needs to cool down, but does love me very much still?
This time i am not responding to her unless she comes back saying she loves me and sorry etc..is this the right thing to do? Give her time to miss me?
I've done everything(?)right in this relation to work!
Dirty Harry used a 44 magnum not a 357 magnum.
Who cares ?
Corey's just keeping us on our toes he was waiting to see if someone noticed.
Success4TheBest lol
then accuse me of being controling and remind her of her ex(he passed away few yrs prior of cancer, but she wanted divorse).I am only concerned for myself and would leave, not control you".. I helped with her projects etc..(not always with the snap of her finger)but eventually got them done..sex start fading,avoiding me etc..daughter get in my face with kicking and hitting.Mom does not stop her.I bow up about to the 2 of them attacking me etc..I leave...Continued above
"I'd rather feel pain than nothing at all...the opposite of love is Indifference" the Lumineers
Good one. I'd love to buy you a drink sometime. 😉
John Doe you are not learning yet. Read book 15 more times please and stop being desperate and ruining mens reputations.
@@samshepherd5661 I am now on my 22nd read and I totally regret sending that message. But I'll leave it there to remind myself how far I have come.
I appreciate your videos very much, but tried in vain to find a 99 cent download of any of your books on Amazon. Is that no longer the case, or what should I search for (and what is the title of the book)? Thanks for all of the great videos!
It was a 44 magnum coach!
I would do the same thing with the sweather but not for Beth.. I would do for a sweet loving woman.. I think that's the difference. Its the intention you have by doing things you do for a woman.
The man trying to get a sweater for Best was a real gentleman. I love attentive men. The rest are pricks. I don’t like pricks who think they know everything and think they are are to important.
Who cares tho, you probably arent that attractive.
@@alanperez7657 Did I offend the prick in you?
@Carmelita Good zzzz try again.
Stop the cap
Cecilia this is true, logically people will argue its not, but its not a logical process its an animal process.Just like your heart beats 60x a minute there is not logically much you can do to change it. I run construction projects, on 3 of these overtime there has been dropdead gorgeous admin girls and everyone else a man, because im the boss i know we cant be together, everyone goes guga about these girls, i just treat them like one of the boys because of boss relationship, not to be mean...
Hey, Corey just reading your book, and high lighted this link, to watch this video. Who the hell needs Comedy when we all just surf up your videos. The more I watch your videos, and I'm not a shy guy, I'll just talk to anyone in line at checkout buying food or whatever.
My whole issue is, getting involved with a lady, and her and lawyers or judges, thinking there going to fuck me, for what I have before meeting a lady, or after. [ Anyway, back to the book. ] And ps I'm lucky to have David DeAngelo info as well. His shit rocks. Care
Perfect. 👌
Lol this video was uploaded 10 years ago on this day
you manage to put me someplace far away when you make love to me,no one has ever done that before"..not even close!..and other texts that she loves me so much and never had sparks like we do, and just wanted you to know that"..etc..Now she has a house and daughter,i have apartment(just blocks away).spend 99.9% there of course.Wow! relation is great, found someone that I"m gonna be with forever and trust(nice girl).Her daughter has anxiety issues from deceaced father prior..Continued above
Just got the book
Indifference is great for women however when a man is like this even a high confidence women wont go for it -it is confusing and we have to guess we question ourselves and then we walk away to find a real man that doesn’t play these games
It's not games. It's keeping value. If 9 out of 10 guys kiss your ass all the time you won't respect them. But the 1 guy who's different (still treats you with respect etc) who doesn't loose his shit around you just because your hot that's the one women will like more.
A colleague is trying very hard to get noticed by this Brasilian colleague. It is very clear he has a crash for her. What irritates me is that every time she speaks to me he does everything he can to get into the conversation and make sure that she speaks to him and not to me.
Now I don't want to start any kind of competition with him because I think that's really stupid but I still can't stand this dude (Not to mention that, in several occasion, I felt like he was trying to screw me in front of the boss!).
What should I do? How can I get indifferent to his behaviour and his crap?
Coach Corey, can I just ask what you reply to a female that says she misses you? I replied..I'll let you know when I see you...
Any other thoughts welcome
.44 magnum*