My abusive ex would do the same thing as this dude did. He called me 80 times in one night and blew other people's phones as well to get me talk to him. He also threatened me with a welfare check at 5am. I genuinely feel for this woman
The plaintiff deserves a good night's sleep also a different lawyers...Ma'am you did the one thing I'm supposed to tell you to do, at least file a report so that the incident is reported and shit, and I failed to do that? "Yes"
If he would have swallowed the Red Pill you wouldn't have had that issue. Will you please call him and tell him to forgive his mama so this doesn't happen to another woman???
Don't let the harmless good ole boy schtick fool you. I'm in Texas, and I've been around plenty of "country boys" just like him. It's all an act. This guy is manipulative and knows exactly what he's doing.
Same thing happened to my daghter. Her boyfriend was calling everyone in her contact list of a phone of hers he stole accusing her of affairs, stealing, etc. He is now in rehab for crystal meth!
I had an ex who was a fatal attraction. I’m not exaggerating either. He would physically assault me in front of his own mother and his younger brother and sister. He also SA me in front of his mother and uncle. He was sick and I was just a young girl who was terrified and stuck. It was a long story, could have almost been a lifetime movie. When I finally escaped him, he would call me morning day and night, thankfully back then there wasn’t text messaging but nonetheless he was ringing my phone like crazy, I finally just would take the phone off the hook or just unplug it, but then if I did that I knew he would drive by my house or work sometimes up to 20x a day. I knew if I didn’t get away from him, he would have taken my life. It doesn’t take much to make crazy, go fatal.
Loved the look on his lawyers face when her lawyer asked for the injunction to not contact each others families. He knows it's going to be very hard to keep his client from calling his former mother-in-law.
my abusive ex was so embarrassing in his behaviour all along these same lines, he hit a tree with his head riding a motorcycle while passing on the right, the entire family was relieved when he finally passed
Now, Mike, not every woman is a dirty dog. Women also get dumped on by judges who have been burnt themselves and by cheating husbands. So don't be putting all of us in one basket.
Well, at least women can do SOMETHING a bit irritating to men considering MEN are in the very high bracket of k*lling, r*ping and b*ating women. Yes some women do it but it’s so much higher for men to do!!! How many men worry living alone at night, walking in a park alone or walking down the street alone? Do men have to park under a light in a lot while shopping? Nope! Poor little guy is sad cause she didn’t want him. He be ok. If a person says leave me alone, you leave them alone!
I appreciate the joy you share in your flamingo’s. Two of ours have finished school. Our third is still in high school. One’s an RN, with a BS at Northwestern Hospital downtown. I’m sure you’re familiar with the hospital off LSD. Our other is a dispatcher in Grundy County. They bookend our emergency services. We are very proud of them and brag whenever we can. Our third is interested in welding and cars right now. He goes to a trade school through his high school for two hours every day. All three are still bright eyed and ambitious in what they do. The smile and glow in your eyes, seen on video, is experienced by us too. Thank you for sharing. Be good and have a great day tomorrow.✌️
I was married to John Laney in 1989 - 1991, which I’m embarrassed to say. He was horrible and abusive. It’s funny that they are fighting over a dog when he shot my dog in the head when I was in labor with my son. Poor JJ. I feel for you.
It's funny? Really? Because you were in a horrible situation, someone else's situation is amusing? You sound like a Narcissist. Your problems and life situations must beat everyone else's huh. The world circles around you, right?
I don’t think she meant funny in that way. That’s certainly not how I read it. You name call her but you were quick to make an assumption and then jump down the throat of a complete stranger. What kind of person does that make you? You could have just asked her to clarify her statement.
TWO Things, #1 Natalie D is quickly become a Court Stream National Treasure. The videos she digs up are just awesome. The only thing missing is Banjo music playing quietly in the background. #2 DUDE, your living with and hooking up with a new women while screaming out the window to his wife I LOVE YOU BABY and no piece of paper is gonna keep us apart !!!!! And what the hell man LEAVE OTIS OUT OF THIS, HES THE BIG SWEETY AND HE DOESNT DESERVE ALL THIS CRAZY!!!
Hahaha!!! Yeah she kicked him out of his house and refuses to let him in his house while demanding he pay all the bills even to the point of him being homeless but he is abusive? She is abusive but like many women they get the government to do the abusing for them and turn their ex into a wage slave for her.
I once had an older male lawyer take me to task because he found the language in the motion for a protective order offensive to the court. He admonished me for using it as his client was offended also. When we got to court I asked the judge if he wanted to know the words or if just saying curse words was enough. He said he would like to hear exactly what the opposing party said. My client leaned into the mike with her best NY accent and said, "He caulled me, a c**, a b***, and a wh**." Then I rested. LMAO
That's on the record. So at least we have... this woman's sworn testimony that she is indeed.. "Not a whore". Also judge needed to get that stricken her lawyer should've spoken up... oh. Wait.
As a woman, this is one of those situations where it might just be better to run & don’t look back. Very dangerous. Or accept the dog & horse & head out.
Mike, WTH? Why are you siding with the guy? He was his own worst enemy? He is everyone's worst enemy! Everyone hates him. The sheriff told him not to come back! And why are you assuming she gets it all and he gets nothing? Do you have any information we don't? If you consider what he did, how he called her over 60 times at night, then you could assume the guy is a control freak. And he called her mom right after the dad had died and harassed her. The guy is crazy and dangerous.
Mike sides with the man the vast majority of the time. I think I remember seeing him side with one woman ever. Her name was Hannah and she was super prepared for her TPO hearing and her ex took the 5th. I like Mike and really enjoy his channel. But he has a strong pro-male bias
Seriously, WTH are you talking about. How did mike side with the guy? He said over and over and over and over that she was crazy, that he was wrong, that he would advise him to stop the BS and only fight for the dog. He said he's paying for everything, and that's true, she needs to pay for the truck. Other than that he laughed and mocked the guy? I normally understand how people may misconstrue things, but how you got there is so far beyond me it's in another time zone.
I’m shocked you have sympathy for this guy!! Men who threaten women, harass them and cause physical damage to their property, etc are most likely to ATTACK and KILL the spouse. He’s DANGEROUS. If he thinks he shouldn’t pay for credit card bills, fine , take that to court. But NEVER is it ok to threaten and to violate the orders to stay away. This is a serious threat.
@@maryholden3136 Did he? After the hearing, Mike: "I feel bad but he brought it all on himself... For reasons I can't contemplate, they both work, and he gives her everything including his dog and I, I don't know she has no obligations whatsoever." How can anyone hear all the stuff the guy did and feel bad for him? Mike seemed fixated on the money and seems fairly dismissive of the very real threats the guy is doing (referring to them as a bunch of crazy stuff, he screwed everything up, etc.). Seemed to be less about coming around and more like acknowledging the obvious facts that the guy openly violated the court order by taking the dog and truck. I think most comments are looking past the court issues and more at "wow, this guy might try to attack her." which makes any sympathy towards him really cringe. There's plenty of cases where the woman is taking the guy for all he's worth, but this ain't one of them, but that seems to be how Mike is seeing it.
He's complaining about the things he's paying, but yet he wants to keep her truck so that he can pay to get it fixed??! Come on! He's obviously just doing that to keep the truck from her!
Haygood seems to suck at this. Every time he tries to point out that she has no proof of what she is saying, she states that she has text messages from the defendant proving it. LOL
I've been rewatching for 2 days from the 21 minute-23 minute mark. This is the most hilariously bad question ever asked by a lawyer: I'd expect that question from a sov cit!
He needs to be Mentally Evaluated before he kills her. That guys definitely unhinged! And I’d get the dog to a vet asap and the truck to a mechanic before driving it. 😮
All is fair in love and war. There isn't much rational about what this guy Nissan doing. Anything that gets a reaction is what he's after, and that he's totally nit letting go the relationship in his head, and the disconnect is too hard to gonout without swinging, slashing, texting, and interfering.
And if she loved him she wouldn’t have kicked him out of his own home and then have him pay her bills too. At this point she’s admitting she can’t even function as an adult.
38:37 how do you feel sorry for this man? He literally is harassing this woman. Constantly, he took two trucks with him, he took the dog that he bought her. Which if you take the dog out of it still everything is doing is nuts. Lastly, he is threatening her and everyone who walks into her home. Which by the way, means he’s stalking her home. She will be lucky to live through this divorce, this is the kind of man. Once he loses, everything he will go to far.
Well he is financing the life of a woman that also wants the family dog and the car on top. She pays no bills to support herself and he’s out his own house. I think he’s just gone crazy at this point.
@@JJCentral51why do you think she left him in the first place? He was kicked out of the house because he as a RESTRINGING ORDER against him! She didn’t “kick him out” he abused her and he was legally removed.
@@JJCentral51 he's not "out" his own house. He still owns it and in fact, since we have no information on their property, they may own it jointly. What was said is that he agreed to continue to pay bills, not that he pays for everything. If he doesn't like the arrangement, he's free to go back to court and change the agreement where she either has to buy him out of his half of the community property or they agree to sell it and split the profit. However, I'm guessing he doesn't do this and "generously" continues to pay the mortgage ( or whatever part he agreed to since we were never given specifics) and anything else because that gives him control and in his mind, gives him a right to continue to torment this woman. A woman who has flat out told him several times she doesn't want him or anything to do with him, yet he can't take no for an answer. He moves between rage, revenge and trying to make up. This pattern of behavior is well documented in those that eventually hurt or kill their exes. So stick up for him all you like. He could easily disengage himself and start a new life yet HE chooses not to. And she gets to pay the price. Hopefully not with her own life, as several have before her.
Shutting them out from everyone as in taking away their autonomy and expression of them self is not correct but shutting them out from oneself after having already tried to hear them out and consider both views etc and coming to a firm realization in opposition to them is the only correct move actually. Any other route leads to only stagnation@@edzme
He is a simp. She clearly doesn’t want him and that’s absolutely fine. But he is desperate to get her back. Not too sure about the idiots harassment of her; her poor mother; and others.
This guy is nuts...... dangerously nuts. I don't think any drugs are involved here. This kind of crazy doesn't need any additives to make it clear. This lady needs to get that house sold and get as far away from him as possible.
This reminds me of when I was getting divorced. During the time period we were separated and going to court, I went away for the week-end. I came home to find that all of my horses had been stolen - by the soon to be ex. He told me he didn't take them, but in court had to fess up to the judge when asked. He did take them. However since he had taken them to another state, there was nothing the judge could do about it. - and the kicker was they weren't even counted in the division of property. I could write a book and it would be riveting, and a lot of it, some would not believe. I had a protective order and a restraining order and they weren't worth the paper they were written on.
Sheesh! I'm having my own flashbacks and empathize with your experience. I was luckier than you though in that I got a permanent restraining order written into the final decree. I did have the police and the mediator provide affidavits to the court to REQUEST this for me because he'd threatened me in the mediators office and the police had taken me to the DV shelter. I lost family heirlooms and other precious items because he had "packed" boxes for the police escorted pickup and I wasn't able to check them (only a few) and they turned out to be full of chains and other heavy junk!
@@savannahgary6351I feel for you, when it came time for property distribution two years later, I forgot to ask for a piece of furniture my grandfather had built. It had been a long, contentious divorce and custody battle that ended up taking about 3.5 years. However, the property I did get was damaged. The worst was my vacuum, which he’d used as a shop vac. When I turned it on, dust spewed out of it, so into the trash it went. Narcissists always have to punish you for not doing what they want or making them look bad.
Those orders never are worth anything. I found that my ex was tracking me my whole marriage jealous insanity. He worked for security systems and believe me he had top security clearance for the US government so not a good thing. So he knew when I was leaving him I had a U-Haul at our old house removing my things that hadn't been moved to the apartment yet. Unfortunately I left behind I went to The U-Haul to get the keys because for some reason the house was locked turned out that I guess the neighbor had taken the keys always looking out for his neighbor thinking I was doing something bad. He kept me from getting my pictures I will meet him on the other side and let him know he was wrong. He didn't know what lived next door. I didn't realize what I had married. I had married yeah you can write a book some of these people are freaky scary and mine had purposely gone to church to find an orphan and the reason he came to our church was his best friend had found him an orphan me. And the reason he needed an orphan because his mother belongs to the Japanese Yakuza her brother was the head of Los Angeles and his father was not active in it He had nothing to do with it He wanted nothing to do with the crap He was an American Italian Irishman whose mother was a known known killer the Port hueneme Killers who killed elderly people the only reason they're not known is her partner in crime committed suicide when the police realized what was going on and came after them and my his grandmother my husband's grandmother had a massive stroke because she fought the last person they stole from and killed was haunting her. The sun turned them in to the police but this hadn't been the first investigation The police just couldn't pin anything but there was a missing ring and they had a history of getting these people lonely elderly people they would befriend them They would help them out with their lives and then they would kill them with insulin and they had figured it out on this body There was an injection site that didn't belong there because the doctors were getting better at their forensics and they dug up a few more bodies some people have had been cremated but others weren't and so they went back and the police were after them and her friend committed suicide and yeah there was a ring and I didn't know it but my husband and I picked up the ring from the jeweler and saved my grandmother-in-law's ass. But they wouldn't have put her in jail anyway because she was in a wheelchair. But she told me she was terrified She couldn't sleep I ended up taking care of her for 6 months because I was a nurse and believe me my husband's family paid me well however I wasn't smart enough to take the money bank it and put it away so that I could get away I hadn't put everything together until a little later when I ran into talking privately which they didn't ever want but it was a few years and it was his sister came down and talked to me about the family and that's when everything fell together and there were some things my ex was doing that really freaked me out and that's when I realized oh crap what did I marry. And then when the truth came out about the grandmother that oh yeah she was sold by travelers who taught her how to be a grifter in a pickpocket and roll men for money and all this stuff and I'm like what. But the grandfather or a great grandfather had been a high man in the mob the Italian the original Italian mob in New York not the stuff they show on TV and he spent a lot of money a lot of money to find those girls and he got them back It was a big thing. But they were already ruined crime was their line and that's how she met her he thought he was saving her only did was ruin his career in the military not really he government kept him but they never really knew what she was but she married a military officer in the army. And off it goes. Oh yeah but there's nothing scarier than your husband showing up with a half truck load of crap that was it staying in our garage or basically your parents house that we're living in Oh well I thought it was really funny and it showed up you know outside this door or he said he bought it yeah you needed a hundred banana lights why and then I realized there were things he was saying about stores being broken into Oh a tire was thrown through the only window that you guys didn't put an alarm on really? And I started realizing along with the spousal abused the insane jealousy crap like that that there was something really not right here and then his mom tired of talking to me about how I needed to learn to lie and hide money and hide property and assets and land and oh yeah it got really freaky and I realized I wasn't the right daughter-in-law and she said I wasn't She needed a Japanese one.
Never be embarrassed for something that happened that you believed would be something special. People trick us all the time. We learn from it we grow and we end up with a better life hopefully we build off of it If we don't well shame on us. And maybe part of it is we weren't given the right tools to be able to pick the right guys look at all the really really good guys who end up with women just like this who treat them really horrible. I'm watching my brother go through it right now. I'm wondering will she kill him? I think he's afraid she will kill his baby The toddlers almost three now but I wouldn't put it past her if he says no. She's forcing him in to getting married. I don't want him to marry her. It's a really huge mistake that means he's going to be responsible for her four children. It's a huge mistake.
@@Matilda-cw4grI think it comes from personal pain on his part, he had a divorce at some point and yeah. I will say, even though he has opinions on it he upholds the law and I respect Mike for that. He could let his biases cloud his legal judgment but he doesn't and not a lot of people can do that.
Mike... She's WORKING. So is he REALLY paying everything? He's good if he sucked you in too. Didn't you hear... HE used those credit cards too. Yeah he's paying truck payments... those trucks would have cost $70k or more. I doubt she got them on a grocery store job pay.. HE bought them. I'm sure she's paying other bills too and HAS been during the marriage. Plus, she hasn't even had the truck to use as he conveniently claims it is broken down. The judge was wise to restrict the money to be used to fix the truck. If nothing is broken, then he gets it back. But I bet he breaks something first. If he'd quit acting like a JackA... and get on with divorce instead of trying to intimidate her... maybe they could reach a financial settlement. BUT NO... he'd rather play mind games and drag it out. Her attorney unconventional ... but he did make an impact with the hell he's making of her life. Imagine living in a small town and he's threatening your boss... sending trash to your church & family. As far as the toys... If she had them at all and it wasn't just more of his lies. Maybe they belong to his side piece!? Do you REALLY think he cares at all about Otis? He's a manipulator. If the dog was so important to him he would have taken Otis with him when he left. If he loved the dog so much he wouldn't have agreed to in the first agreement to give it back to her. You can have a dog in most RV parks. His attorney could have brought medical documentation or a letter from the therapist. It's just a way to further harass her as he knows it hurts her. I get you see the worst sometimes. But why feel bad for THIS nut? But I don't think this woman is out to ruin him. I don't feel sorry for the husband at all. The stuff he's doing is scary. If he's pulling this crap when he knows it will end up in court... then he has probably done worse. As her attorney brought up... she hasn't reported some things that could have gotten him in trouble. That is what abused women do. They cover stuff up. I have a friend that married and divorced a guy just like him TWICE! He ruined their finances the first time and slapped her around some but convinced her to marry him again.... and went on to ruin her health. The second go round he pushed he down stairs! A month after their 2nd divorce was final... she collapsed in her apartment due to complications from a surgery to repair her leg from that "fall". They found her 2 days later when her work sent someone to check on her. She lived another week but never regained consciousness. She never reported that he was why she "fell" down the stairs. She just divorced him again and tried to move on. This was also in Texas. She had a Masters Degree in health administration and worked for a hospital system... but still believed that turd brain's words... he was that good of a manipulator. The guy in the video i's paying over $600 on RV payments. Thats not some cheap RV... and over $600 for lot rent? So $1200+. It's not like he's forced to boondock. These RV resorts that cost that much have pools, restaurants, bars, etc... I know that part of Texas... he could afford an apartment for less, but he knows he's more likely to get the cops called on him when he's on a bender if he's in a nice apartment or condo.... plus, it makes him look sympathetic.
It’s pretty simple. Mike isn’t defending the guy. He’s criticising the position that he should be required to pay all of her bills after she ended the marriage and took possession of the house. That’s a ridiculous position, the sheer magnitude of entitlement to believe some bloke should pay your bills after you end the marriage is delusional.
This guy is completely unhinged and insane. He doesn't just deserve to have her dog and car taken away from him and have to pay for it, he deserves to be in prison for the insane stalking and harassment he's done, and the fact that he very likely murdered that poor dog rather than let her have him. It's cute that your instinct was to feel bad for this guy, but sometimes the man in the situation is completely and utterly 100% in the wrong, and this is clearly one of those times.
But maintaining all the bills and accounts at the house she lives in, that he paid for? We all know why she's staying inside the lines on the real costs and pursuing the sentimental stuff slowly.
He doesn't want the dog. If he did, he wouldve taken him home. He didn't and took it to stay in another state. That shows that he took the dog to hurt her. He's a POS!!!
This guy is terrifying. He claims that he loves her more than anything, but he doesn't mean it or he wouldn't have another woman. What he loves is *control.* He wants to keep her under his thumb, and he's mortally offended at the thought that she is interested in going on without him. There's a reason the most deadly time for any abused woman is right after she says she intends to leave. This is clearly the most dangerous time for Ms. Laney. She may need to move away to an address that he doesn't have... but if she goes too far to protect them from him, then her family might be in danger, as a way to harm her by proxy. Mike, I think you're giving him way too much sympathy. I'm not saying that she deserves a whole lot of sympathy *either,* but all she's been going after is his money, and she's been doing it within the law. He's been commiting what would easily be considered criminal harassment if she *or* her family had chosen to press charges. He's trying to dominate her life. He's threatened to hurt her, and he's threatened to hurt anyone who's helping her get out from under his thumb in any way, from her mother to her lawyer to any mythical boyfriend he might imagine her to have. That is not even a little bit okay, and I'm disappointed that you seem to consider it less important than the fact that she's tried to negotiate by hardball in the divorce finances.
I know there's a syndrome. You have to care about your Children more than yourself! if you truly loved your Children, this would never happen. There are programs that will help you. When you get arrested with drugs and all the other absolute nastiness, you cry my Babies. They don't deserve it.
I totally agree with you. Mike seems to be centered on money issues. You have pointed out the true situation, the danger she is facing... Yes you have the zeitgeist of it all truly. Appreciate seeing your understanding of this situation, it is a rare thing in my experience!
I completely agree with you. I think Mike missed the target completly on this one and your assesment of the situation is accurate. (Edit Still love watching ya mike but I just disgree with ya on this one)
@@lucasmoore8801 Yup. I still love watching Mike too, and usually I think he does a fine analysis job. I think he just missed the boat this time. Everybody does once in a while.
I had an ex that used to call and text like that if I didn't answer him ... literally 100's of times some days the most horrible nasty foul things.. he used to call my local police department do come and do a welfare check at 2 am to my house, my parents house etc etc.... then it did it to my family and friends on social media... it was INSANE I had to change my number and get rid of social media for years... I wouldn't hear from him for 6 months or a year... then make a new social media account and within 12 hours.... it would start over again.... I thank GOD I never owned anything with him, married him or had any children with him and I am damned lucky he moved away and onto someone else. This poor woman. Court orders don't stop people like this.
My daughter’s ex would call her like this with an unknown number, so that way he could say it wasn’t him. Then when she wouldn’t answer he would call their children at all hours of the night. They had to turn their phones off to get sleep. Then he started calling the police for welfare checks!! Denied everything when they went to court including the welfare checks. 🤥
"ma'am, are you a whore? .... you're not a whore? hmmm? not a dirrrrty little girl? you don't go off with girls and scissor and eat box?" 🤣 I'm flipping dead!!
I was disappointed as well. I gather Mike went through a messy divorce from some comments he's made and he shows bitterness toward women sometimes but supporting this guy in this video is beyond all that. I don't understand what Mike is thinking.
@@GrubbyPigeon Yeah, I try to ignore it because I'm not the kind of person who just focuses on a person's one fault without seeing the whole picture. So I watch Mike and enjoy it. Unless he's commenting on women. Man, he's angry. Something must have happened. Do you have any details?
To be honest I've been with a toxic ex to be honest we were both toxic for each other. I would just leave and restart. I've had to do that before and it ended up being the best decision i made for myself and my daughters.
Right? There are many cases of men (boyfriends, fiancés, ex's) murdering women and people will say "Oh how did no one prevent this! How could this have happened?" yet they'll ignore and brush off escalating ^^behavior^^ like this mans...
Now my brain has switched. She put in on the line. He was not to take the dog or the truck and now he's stalking her, insentitly, totally crazy. This is a dangerous situation. Not the best Attorney I've ever seen but yeah. I'd say the best evidence except for the title for the truck and the Papa, I'm on her side. ❤
@@Juhani139the human brain is a true piece of magic. There’s no way I should’ve been able to instantly use the correct word with it spelled that orhibiblee.
I thought about saying that, too. Then I saw, ‘1 reply’ and thought, “Someone beat me to it.” Not even being shitty. Everything that was written about Mike was true, just… yeah… *you’re 😌
@@bonnieconzen788 🤣 You inserted an unnecessary comma and ended a sentence with preposition. Who is nitpicking? I certainly am but I couldn't resist. Note how I didn't type "resist it" ? I recently retired from a healthcare career and communication with patients was vital. I often spoke in the vernaclar of those "less educated" than I. I enjoyed interacting with these people more than those who judge based on grammar or spelling. I learned those who judged were too busy listening for errors and would miss important instructions given. Listening is the most important part of good communication. If one wishes to point out words spelled incorrectly may I suggest they proof read their own work before leading with their chin. My grandfather completed only 5 years of school. My memories of him are not of how poorly he wrote but are cherished simply for the richness and power of his wisdom. I never once heard him insult another because he was, above all else, a humble man. Just sayin' y'all 🤣. Peace.
His own words prove he stole Otis to hurt her, and planned to take her mare as well but was thwarted when the horse trailer was missing. A therapy dog is a pet with a certain personality whose owner undergoes special training and commits to take on visits to institutions, usually to cheer and offer affection to sick children and adult residents. They are also really helpful with children who stutter or fear reading out loud. Reading to a dog that's sitting next to them boosts confidence with almost miraculous results. I've trained service dogs and therapy dogs for 40 years. Otis' breed is unsuitable for several reasons, from not loving everyone they meet, to their difficulty breathing and the constant slobbering. When Mr Laney said his doctor recommended that he keep Otis as his personal therapy dog, his lie was so obvious. 🤔 He may have intended to infer he needed Otis as an emotional support dog, but that too is belied by the fact Otis doesn't live with him at all. He doesn't give a sh*t about Otis. Furthermore, he doesn't love his wife. Punishing and controlling her is the result of his obsession, not love.
@Allie B, I don't think he loves the dog. Why would he leave it with her for a year? Why would he house it in Oklahoma when he stated that he worked in Oklahoma ONE weekend a month?
I understand that many ex-wives make things up, but i also know that there are men and women who are narcissists and abusive. I support her on this one. My ex-wife was a narcissist and would call at 3am. I feel for her.
I HATE it when you ask someone a question and then say a hundred words BUT NEVER ANSWER YOUR QUESTION !!! My ex did that all the time and it was a never ending point of contention. That's what that old guy is doing. "How much are you spending on that house each month Mr. Laney ?"...."Well, I had to get insurance on the house and I'm paying the electricity blah blah blah blah blah blah."..."Uh huh, AND HOW MUCH ARE YOU PAYING ON THE HOUSE EACH MONTH YOU JACKASS !!!"
To me, Mr. Laney has the earmarks of Manic/Depression. All those texts, messages and calls and the wild mood swings certainly are red flags as far as I am concerned.
😮. If that is her Attorney, I would definitely not wanting him asking me questions. It is making her look so bad and all her church ladies watching 😡. He looks like an alcoholic. Despite her Attorneys questions, he has buried himself from listening and seeing all the phone calls and texts. Fact is he does not want the divorce, but will do everything he can in threats. He is ridiculous. He has violated court orders by being in her house, taking the truck and dog clearly outlined in the court order. He really dug the hole for himself.
My abusive ex would do the same thing as this dude did. He called me 80 times in one night and blew other people's phones as well to get me talk to him. He also threatened me with a welfare check at 5am. I genuinely feel for this woman
Mike doesn't. Wonder why.
The plaintiff deserves a good night's sleep also a different lawyers...Ma'am you did the one thing I'm supposed to tell you to do, at least file a report so that the incident is reported and shit, and I failed to do that? "Yes"
If he would have swallowed the Red Pill you wouldn't have had that issue. Will you please call him and tell him to forgive his mama so this doesn't happen to another woman???
I don’t feel for her in the least.
Alcohol, right?
That's not love that's obsessive stalking! He needs to be criminally charged and jailed!
I can't believe he sent those pictures to the elders and her mother 😂😮
This is a guy that would murder this woman. The mind set of "if I can't have her, no one can have her ". I'm scared for this woman
This woman should be very afraid of this individual! Most Narcissist wouldn’t go that far but this man isnt trust worthy.
This was my EXACT thought. All I pictured was him unaliving her. 😢
Don't let the harmless good ole boy schtick fool you. I'm in Texas, and I've been around plenty of "country boys" just like him. It's all an act. This guy is manipulative and knows exactly what he's doing.
I agree. It’s all a show. You can smell the bull crap 💩 Southern women have good noses and wear our boots to wade through it.🤠
Yeah his mother is the only one on his bank account That's a sign a very good sign he's a piece of s***.
100%
YEP
Oh, they know, but men are always on code, always looking out for each other when they know they are full of shit.
Same thing happened to my daghter. Her boyfriend was calling everyone in her contact list of a phone of hers he stole accusing her of affairs, stealing, etc. He is now in rehab for crystal meth!
I had an ex who was a fatal attraction. I’m not exaggerating either. He would physically assault me in front of his own mother and his younger brother and sister. He also SA me in front of his mother and uncle. He was sick and I was just a young girl who was terrified and stuck. It was a long story, could have almost been a lifetime movie. When I finally escaped him, he would call me morning day and night, thankfully back then there wasn’t text messaging but nonetheless he was ringing my phone like crazy, I finally just would take the phone off the hook or just unplug it, but then if I did that I knew he would drive by my house or work sometimes up to 20x a day. I knew if I didn’t get away from him, he would have taken my life. It doesn’t take much to make crazy, go fatal.
I'm glad you got away babes and I hope you're thriving 💕
Loved the look on his lawyers face when her lawyer asked for the injunction to not contact each others families. He knows it's going to be very hard to keep his client from calling his former mother-in-law.
Throw him in jail for violating any orders.
my abusive ex was so embarrassing in his behaviour all along these same lines, he hit a tree with his head riding a motorcycle while passing on the right, the entire family was relieved when he finally passed
He is insane and might end up really hurting her.
This is a dangerous man
Now, Mike, not every woman is a dirty dog. Women also get dumped on by judges who have been burnt themselves and by cheating husbands. So don't be putting all of us in one basket.
O yes, they are Mike is totally right!
Well, at least women can do SOMETHING a bit irritating to men considering MEN are in the very high bracket of k*lling, r*ping and b*ating women. Yes some women do it but it’s so much higher for men to do!!! How many men worry living alone at night, walking in a park alone or walking down the street alone? Do men have to park under a light in a lot while shopping? Nope! Poor little guy is sad cause she didn’t want him. He be ok. If a person says leave me alone, you leave them alone!
Have to wonder what happened to Mike…?
@@merlynshandley6337Says an abuser!!
Yes, women get burned by judges at a 1-8 ratio. Men get ruined in court against cheating wives far more often.
This is a campaign of harassment that is beyond the pale. He needs to stop, if he can't, he needs to be in jail or prison.
Too late for warnings. He needs to reconsider his actions while in jail.
I appreciate the joy you share in your flamingo’s. Two of ours have finished school. Our third is still in high school. One’s an RN, with a BS at Northwestern Hospital downtown. I’m sure you’re familiar with the hospital off LSD. Our other is a dispatcher in Grundy County. They bookend our emergency services. We are very proud of them and brag whenever we can. Our third is interested in welding and cars right now. He goes to a trade school through his high school for two hours every day. All three are still bright eyed and ambitious in what they do. The smile and glow in your eyes, seen on video, is experienced by us too. Thank you for sharing. Be good and have a great day tomorrow.✌️
I was married to John Laney in 1989 - 1991, which I’m embarrassed to say. He was horrible and abusive. It’s funny that they are fighting over a dog when he shot my dog in the head when I was in labor with my son. Poor JJ. I feel for you.
It's funny? Really? Because you were in a horrible situation, someone else's situation is amusing?
You sound like a Narcissist. Your problems and life situations must beat everyone else's huh. The world circles around you, right?
I don’t think she meant funny in that way. That’s certainly not how I read it. You name call her but you were quick to make an assumption and then jump down the throat of a complete stranger. What kind of person does that make you? You could have just asked her to clarify her statement.
Obviously not “funny haha” but “funny ironic.” I’m so sorry that you went through that.
Oh my gosh I'm so sorry 😞 also glad you got rid of him
Same. Or replace it with "the irony".
The defendant comes across as a gaslighting abusive husband who portrays himself as the victim. She is lucky to still be okay, and even alive.
Yep
Oh, wow! Where have I heard that before??? Not to get political but wow!
Hope she stays that way
This is a stalker, suuuuuper dangerous
Get that dog fast.
The wife needs to hustle at work and/or economize in order to pay her bills on her own, and the husband needs to be in jail.
TWO Things, #1 Natalie D is quickly become a Court Stream National Treasure. The videos she digs up are just awesome. The only thing missing is Banjo music playing quietly in the background. #2 DUDE, your living with and hooking up with a new women while screaming out the window to his wife I LOVE YOU BABY and no piece of paper is gonna keep us apart !!!!! And what the hell man LEAVE OTIS OUT OF THIS, HES THE BIG SWEETY AND HE DOESNT DESERVE ALL THIS CRAZY!!!
Hahaha!!! Yeah she kicked him out of his house and refuses to let him in his house while demanding he pay all the bills even to the point of him being homeless but he is abusive? She is abusive but like many women they get the government to do the abusing for them and turn their ex into a wage slave for her.
Somebody think of OTIS!!😢😢❤❤
He looks like he would do all the things he is being accused of😂
I once had an older male lawyer take me to task because he found the language in the motion for a protective order offensive to the court. He admonished me for using it as his client was offended also. When we got to court I asked the judge if he wanted to know the words or if just saying curse words was enough. He said he would like to hear exactly what the opposing party said. My client leaned into the mike with her best NY accent and said, "He caulled me, a c**, a b***, and a wh**." Then I rested. LMAO
😂
Good times 🤩
His client was offended by having his statements repeated... That's classic
He looked nuts and abusive.
Ah yes, he was a fool for being offended at bad words, but you are an angel for getting a PTO over bad words, you are a massive hypocrite hun.
“Are you a whore?” I busted out laughing at this. What is wrong with that attorney 😂
That's on the record. So at least we have... this woman's sworn testimony that she is indeed.. "Not a whore". Also judge needed to get that stricken her lawyer should've spoken up... oh. Wait.
He was asking that cuz the husband accused her of being a whore and having multiple affairs I think it worked
It's a setup for defamation in the future. He knows what he's doing
I went to school with Robert “Sandy” Clark. He was never afraid to push the envelope.
Her lawyer did a good thing talking about the crap her husband has been doing! It showed HIS nastiness, and in no way devalued her.
I agree. He’s one vile, vindictive human; of JMHO ✌️
As a woman, this is one of those situations where it might just be better to run & don’t look back. Very dangerous.
Or accept the dog & horse & head out.
yep better to run very far away and take nothing
@@hejnyei totally agree
Mike, WTH? Why are you siding with the guy? He was his own worst enemy? He is everyone's worst enemy! Everyone hates him. The sheriff told him not to come back! And why are you assuming she gets it all and he gets nothing? Do you have any information we don't? If you consider what he did, how he called her over 60 times at night, then you could assume the guy is a control freak. And he called her mom right after the dad had died and harassed her. The guy is crazy and dangerous.
Clearly, this is not a sweet little old man.
cope
@@MIurbexSays an abuser!
Mike sides with the man the vast majority of the time. I think I remember seeing him side with one woman ever. Her name was Hannah and she was super prepared for her TPO hearing and her ex took the 5th. I like Mike and really enjoy his channel. But he has a strong pro-male bias
Seriously, WTH are you talking about. How did mike side with the guy? He said over and over and over and over that she was crazy, that he was wrong, that he would advise him to stop the BS and only fight for the dog. He said he's paying for everything, and that's true, she needs to pay for the truck. Other than that he laughed and mocked the guy? I normally understand how people may misconstrue things, but how you got there is so far beyond me it's in another time zone.
Very typical of a Narcissist!
I’m shocked you have sympathy for this guy!! Men who threaten women, harass them and cause physical damage to their property, etc are most likely to ATTACK and KILL the spouse. He’s DANGEROUS. If he thinks he shouldn’t pay for credit card bills, fine , take that to court. But NEVER is it ok to threaten and to violate the orders to stay away. This is a serious threat.
Yeah I was pretty shocked when he said that too😬
I couldn’t believe it either, it’s shocking😮
Mike is a bitter divorced guy
I don't understand the comments..... Mike initially felt sorry for the guy because of the dog but came around quickly once the reality became clear
@@maryholden3136 Did he? After the hearing, Mike: "I feel bad but he brought it all on himself... For reasons I can't contemplate, they both work, and he gives her everything including his dog and I, I don't know she has no obligations whatsoever." How can anyone hear all the stuff the guy did and feel bad for him? Mike seemed fixated on the money and seems fairly dismissive of the very real threats the guy is doing (referring to them as a bunch of crazy stuff, he screwed everything up, etc.).
Seemed to be less about coming around and more like acknowledging the obvious facts that the guy openly violated the court order by taking the dog and truck. I think most comments are looking past the court issues and more at "wow, this guy might try to attack her." which makes any sympathy towards him really cringe. There's plenty of cases where the woman is taking the guy for all he's worth, but this ain't one of them, but that seems to be how Mike is seeing it.
He's complaining about the things he's paying, but yet he wants to keep her truck so that he can pay to get it fixed??! Come on! He's obviously just doing that to keep the truck from her!
Haygood seems to suck at this. Every time he tries to point out that she has no proof of what she is saying, she states that she has text messages from the defendant proving it. LOL
He forgot rule number one of cross examination - Don't ask a question to which you don't already know the answer.
@@LegoAssassin098 Exactly
He looks like Chumlee to me.
@@ladybugjess272 Exactly LOL
He knows his client is an abusive a-hole.
The court needs to appoint a GAL for 😂Otis
I think that crazy bastard might hurt the dog just to terrorize the wife. Mike’s knee jerk hostility to the female in these cases is unjustified here.
yep. his knees jerk quite a bit when it comes to females.
I've been rewatching for 2 days from the 21 minute-23 minute mark. This is the most hilariously bad question ever asked by a lawyer: I'd expect that question from a sov cit!
I'm on her side..... he's stalking her
These channels always cry victim and boohoo for men even when it's so clear that the man is in the wrong. 🙄 drives me mad
He needs to be Mentally Evaluated before he kills her. That guys definitely unhinged! And I’d get the dog to a vet asap and the truck to a mechanic before driving it. 😮
Ridiculous. If he loves her so much, he wouldn’t want her to be without a vehicle or her dog.
All is fair in love and war. There isn't much rational about what this guy Nissan doing. Anything that gets a reaction is what he's after, and that he's totally nit letting go the relationship in his head, and the disconnect is too hard to gonout without swinging, slashing, texting, and interfering.
@@bend3rbotthat is one of the most obviously false sayings.
And if she loved him she wouldn’t have kicked him out of his own home and then have him pay her bills too. At this point she’s admitting she can’t even function as an adult.
@@Lord_Shadowzyou just outed yourself as an incel. Congrats.
@@bend3rbottell me why I read his name on the screen and then read your comment and really thought “ wait a minute his name is Nissan?!” 😮😂
In Norway, and this is a fact, when something or a situasion is wild and crazy, we call it «Helt Texas» or «Completely Texas» 😂
LOL that’s amazing
I’m telling my Texan bestie that their strain of crazy is an international sensation 😂
I live in the States and I absolutely agree with your perspective 😂
You also spell the word “situation”, like this?? “Situasion”??
@@DrMariaaahow you doing Maria?! 😚
Ohhhhh the voice of Att. Robert Clark. 😖😵💫😵💫😵💫 Its like a t-rex chewing on my ear drum!!! 😖😖😖
38:37 how do you feel sorry for this man? He literally is harassing this woman. Constantly, he took two trucks with him, he took the dog that he bought her. Which if you take the dog out of it still everything is doing is nuts. Lastly, he is threatening her and everyone who walks into her home. Which by the way, means he’s stalking her home. She will be lucky to live through this divorce, this is the kind of man. Once he loses, everything he will go to far.
Well he is financing the life of a woman that also wants the family dog and the car on top. She pays no bills to support herself and he’s out his own house. I think he’s just gone crazy at this point.
@@JJCentral51why do you think she left him in the first place? He was kicked out of the house because he as a RESTRINGING ORDER against him! She didn’t “kick him out” he abused her and he was legally removed.
This is why I canceled my channel membership. I still watch from time to time, but Mike is wrong towards women a lot.
@@JJCentral51 he's not "out" his own house. He still owns it and in fact, since we have no information on their property, they may own it jointly. What was said is that he agreed to continue to pay bills, not that he pays for everything. If he doesn't like the arrangement, he's free to go back to court and change the agreement where she either has to buy him out of his half of the community property or they agree to sell it and split the profit. However, I'm guessing he doesn't do this and "generously" continues to pay the mortgage ( or whatever part he agreed to since we were never given specifics) and anything else because that gives him control and in his mind, gives him a right to continue to torment this woman. A woman who has flat out told him several times she doesn't want him or anything to do with him, yet he can't take no for an answer. He moves between rage, revenge and trying to make up. This pattern of behavior is well documented in those that eventually hurt or kill their exes. So stick up for him all you like. He could easily disengage himself and start a new life yet HE chooses not to. And she gets to pay the price. Hopefully not with her own life, as several have before her.
@@sophiaackley3535right?! Really gross attitude
Wow, that guy was his own worse enemy...
Mike you need counseling if you think the guy is the victim here. I don't think I can watch you anymore.
sometimes people have opinions you don't agree with, shutting them out isn't the correct move
Shutting them out from everyone as in taking away their autonomy and expression of them self is not correct but shutting them out from oneself after having already tried to hear them out and consider both views etc and coming to a firm realization in opposition to them is the only correct move actually. Any other route leads to only stagnation@@edzme
His cowboy hat on the table..i had to do a double take. I thought it was a bed pan😂
8:50 - is it normal for an attorney to just start chatting on the phone during the defense’s opening statement?
A therapy dog!? My God, that dog is gonna need therapy! Their priest or JoP should have concluded "I now pronounce you dumpster and fire."
😂😂😂 poor Otis.
😂😂😂😂
My brother has a Bassett Hound named Otis after the great Otis Redding. His tag reads, "OTIS The Ladies Man." 😄
The way the judge lifted his glasses off his face when he said “mam are you a whore” 😂😂😂 the judge was shook
I so love everyone in LTWM, the imaginative things that they all have to say.🤣🤣
True!
His motivation for ALL OF HIS BAD BEHAVIOR and abuse of his "wife" is his hurt feelings of REJECTION from seeing sex toys, ridiculous.
This is the reason why I gave my crazy deranged ex-husband back whatever he wanted if it meant me starting over and I did.
Exactly! I did the same with my ex: packed up what I needed and moved far FAR away.
Same here, only recently learned about narcissistic
behavior. The hard part was I was also leaving a wonderful stepson and .
A group of flamingos is called a "flamboyance". Just a little useless trivia😂
A group of bunnies is a Fluffle 🤗
I was in the UK fire service. We had a ‘confusion’ of officers and a ‘reluctance’ of firemen. 😅😅
He is a simp. She clearly doesn’t want him and that’s absolutely fine. But he is desperate to get her back. Not too sure about the idiots harassment of her; her poor mother; and others.
🤭
If a group of crows is called a murder, is just a couple of crows called an aggravated assault?
This man is crazy and he may very well end up killing her or someone else.
Bless you and your family Mike!!
This guy is nuts...... dangerously nuts. I don't think any drugs are involved here. This kind of crazy doesn't need any additives to make it clear. This lady needs to get that house sold and get as far away from him as possible.
This reminds me of when I was getting divorced. During the time period we were separated and going to court, I went away for the week-end. I came home to find that all of my horses had been stolen - by the soon to be ex. He told me he didn't take them, but in court had to fess up to the judge when asked. He did take them. However since he had taken them to another state, there was nothing the judge could do about it. - and the kicker was they weren't even counted in the division of property. I could write a book and it would be riveting, and a lot of it, some would not believe. I had a protective order and a restraining order and they weren't worth the paper they were written on.
Write the book!
Sheesh! I'm having my own flashbacks and empathize with your experience. I was luckier than you though in that I got a permanent restraining order written into the final decree.
I did have the police and the mediator provide affidavits to the court to REQUEST this for me because he'd threatened me in the mediators office and the police had taken me to the DV shelter.
I lost family heirlooms and other precious items because he had "packed" boxes for the police escorted pickup and I wasn't able to check them (only a few) and they turned out to be full of chains and other heavy junk!
@@savannahgary6351I feel for you, when it came time for property distribution two years later, I forgot to ask for a piece of furniture my grandfather had built. It had been a long, contentious divorce and custody battle that ended up taking about 3.5 years. However, the property I did get was damaged. The worst was my vacuum, which he’d used as a shop vac. When I turned it on, dust spewed out of it, so into the trash it went. Narcissists always have to punish you for not doing what they want or making them look bad.
Those orders never are worth anything. I found that my ex was tracking me my whole marriage jealous insanity. He worked for security systems and believe me he had top security clearance for the US government so not a good thing. So he knew when I was leaving him I had a U-Haul at our old house removing my things that hadn't been moved to the apartment yet. Unfortunately I left behind I went to The U-Haul to get the keys because for some reason the house was locked turned out that I guess the neighbor had taken the keys always looking out for his neighbor thinking I was doing something bad. He kept me from getting my pictures I will meet him on the other side and let him know he was wrong. He didn't know what lived next door. I didn't realize what I had married. I had married yeah you can write a book some of these people are freaky scary and mine had purposely gone to church to find an orphan and the reason he came to our church was his best friend had found him an orphan me. And the reason he needed an orphan because his mother belongs to the Japanese Yakuza her brother was the head of Los Angeles and his father was not active in it He had nothing to do with it He wanted nothing to do with the crap He was an American Italian Irishman whose mother was a known known killer the Port hueneme Killers who killed elderly people the only reason they're not known is her partner in crime committed suicide when the police realized what was going on and came after them and my his grandmother my husband's grandmother had a massive stroke because she fought the last person they stole from and killed was haunting her. The sun turned them in to the police but this hadn't been the first investigation The police just couldn't pin anything but there was a missing ring and they had a history of getting these people lonely elderly people they would befriend them They would help them out with their lives and then they would kill them with insulin and they had figured it out on this body There was an injection site that didn't belong there because the doctors were getting better at their forensics and they dug up a few more bodies some people have had been cremated but others weren't and so they went back and the police were after them and her friend committed suicide and yeah there was a ring and I didn't know it but my husband and I picked up the ring from the jeweler and saved my grandmother-in-law's ass. But they wouldn't have put her in jail anyway because she was in a wheelchair. But she told me she was terrified She couldn't sleep I ended up taking care of her for 6 months because I was a nurse and believe me my husband's family paid me well however I wasn't smart enough to take the money bank it and put it away so that I could get away I hadn't put everything together until a little later when I ran into talking privately which they didn't ever want but it was a few years and it was his sister came down and talked to me about the family and that's when everything fell together and there were some things my ex was doing that really freaked me out and that's when I realized oh crap what did I marry. And then when the truth came out about the grandmother that oh yeah she was sold by travelers who taught her how to be a grifter in a pickpocket and roll men for money and all this stuff and I'm like what. But the grandfather or a great grandfather had been a high man in the mob the Italian the original Italian mob in New York not the stuff they show on TV and he spent a lot of money a lot of money to find those girls and he got them back It was a big thing. But they were already ruined crime was their line and that's how she met her he thought he was saving her only did was ruin his career in the military not really he government kept him but they never really knew what she was but she married a military officer in the army. And off it goes. Oh yeah but there's nothing scarier than your husband showing up with a half truck load of crap that was it staying in our garage or basically your parents house that we're living in Oh well I thought it was really funny and it showed up you know outside this door or he said he bought it yeah you needed a hundred banana lights why and then I realized there were things he was saying about stores being broken into Oh a tire was thrown through the only window that you guys didn't put an alarm on really? And I started realizing along with the spousal abused the insane jealousy crap like that that there was something really not right here and then his mom tired of talking to me about how I needed to learn to lie and hide money and hide property and assets and land and oh yeah it got really freaky and I realized I wasn't the right daughter-in-law and she said I wasn't She needed a Japanese one.
Never be embarrassed for something that happened that you believed would be something special. People trick us all the time. We learn from it we grow and we end up with a better life hopefully we build off of it If we don't well shame on us. And maybe part of it is we weren't given the right tools to be able to pick the right guys look at all the really really good guys who end up with women just like this who treat them really horrible. I'm watching my brother go through it right now. I'm wondering will she kill him? I think he's afraid she will kill his baby The toddlers almost three now but I wouldn't put it past her if he says no. She's forcing him in to getting married. I don't want him to marry her. It's a really huge mistake that means he's going to be responsible for her four children. It's a huge mistake.
Mike is sympathetic with this crazy guy. Say what? 😂
I can't understand how anyone could find Mr Pizzabelly (Laney) desirable!
In my opinion after watching a lot of his videos, Mike isn't a fan of the ladies, marriage, or nuance in general. Especially after cocktails.
@@Matilda-cw4gr mike is often the m word IMO. I stop watching sometimes because of it.
@@Matilda-cw4grI think it comes from personal pain on his part, he had a divorce at some point and yeah. I will say, even though he has opinions on it he upholds the law and I respect Mike for that. He could let his biases cloud his legal judgment but he doesn't and not a lot of people can do that.
Mike... She's WORKING. So is he REALLY paying everything? He's good if he sucked you in too. Didn't you hear... HE used those credit cards too. Yeah he's paying truck payments... those trucks would have cost $70k or more. I doubt she got them on a grocery store job pay.. HE bought them.
I'm sure she's paying other bills too and HAS been during the marriage. Plus, she hasn't even had the truck to use as he conveniently claims it is broken down. The judge was wise to restrict the money to be used to fix the truck. If nothing is broken, then he gets it back. But I bet he breaks something first.
If he'd quit acting like a JackA... and get on with divorce instead of trying to intimidate her... maybe they could reach a financial settlement. BUT NO... he'd rather play mind games and drag it out.
Her attorney unconventional ... but he did make an impact with the hell he's making of her life. Imagine living in a small town and he's threatening your boss... sending trash to your church & family.
As far as the toys... If she had them at all and it wasn't just more of his lies. Maybe they belong to his side piece!?
Do you REALLY think he cares at all about Otis? He's a manipulator. If the dog was so important to him he would have taken Otis with him when he left. If he loved the dog so much he wouldn't have agreed to in the first agreement to give it back to her. You can have a dog in most RV parks. His attorney could have brought medical documentation or a letter from the therapist. It's just a way to further harass her as he knows it hurts her.
I get you see the worst sometimes. But why feel bad for THIS nut? But I don't think this woman is out to ruin him. I don't feel sorry for the husband at all. The stuff he's doing is scary. If he's pulling this crap when he knows it will end up in court... then he has probably done worse.
As her attorney brought up... she hasn't reported some things that could have gotten him in trouble. That is what abused women do. They cover stuff up. I have a friend that married and divorced a guy just like him TWICE! He ruined their finances the first time and slapped her around some but convinced her to marry him again.... and went on to ruin her health.
The second go round he pushed he down stairs! A month after their 2nd divorce was final... she collapsed in her apartment due to complications from a surgery to repair her leg from that "fall". They found her 2 days later when her work sent someone to check on her. She lived another week but never regained consciousness. She never reported that he was why she "fell" down the stairs. She just divorced him again and tried to move on. This was also in Texas. She had a Masters Degree in health administration and worked for a hospital system... but still believed that turd brain's words... he was that good of a manipulator.
The guy in the video i's paying over $600 on RV payments. Thats not some cheap RV... and over $600 for lot rent? So $1200+. It's not like he's forced to boondock. These RV resorts that cost that much have pools, restaurants, bars, etc... I know that part of Texas... he could afford an apartment for less, but he knows he's more likely to get the cops called on him when he's on a bender if he's in a nice apartment or condo.... plus, it makes him look sympathetic.
This guy should get a stint in the prison for this harassment!
Prison for harassment? 🙄 Wow
Why are you on his side Mike? He’s very clearly abusive lol and psycho
@@NicolaMaxwellyeah I don’t think he was…
Yeah I’m like WTF?
Because Mike is an abuser ?
It’s pretty simple.
Mike isn’t defending the guy.
He’s criticising the position that he should be required to pay all of her bills after she ended the marriage and took possession of the house.
That’s a ridiculous position, the sheer magnitude of entitlement to believe some bloke should pay your bills after you end the marriage is delusional.
Yes, folks use them as a "swimming pool". When gets as hot here, they are nice to sit in them and cool off.
The Attorney for the litigant "Is the bad man a bad man that does bad things" Plaintiff "uh yes he was a horrible man"
my ex did almost all the exact same shit and made the same claims about me...classic narcissistic behavior 🙄
This guy is completely unhinged and insane. He doesn't just deserve to have her dog and car taken away from him and have to pay for it, he deserves to be in prison for the insane stalking and harassment he's done, and the fact that he very likely murdered that poor dog rather than let her have him. It's cute that your instinct was to feel bad for this guy, but sometimes the man in the situation is completely and utterly 100% in the wrong, and this is clearly one of those times.
Trying to take a dog away from a Texas woman...dumb ways to die
But maintaining all the bills and accounts at the house she lives in, that he paid for? We all know why she's staying inside the lines on the real costs and pursuing the sentimental stuff slowly.
@@bend3rbot we didn't see how that was decided in earlier hearings
ROFLMAO!😂
@@bend3rbotyeah that means he gets to stalk and abuse her and her family and friends. Makes sense.
Wife looks like Helen Hunt
My first thought too.
thanks first thing I noticed
The attorney for the dude looks like chum lee from pawn stars lol
He doesn't want the dog. If he did, he wouldve taken him home. He didn't and took it to stay in another state. That shows that he took the dog to hurt her. He's a POS!!!
🎶She done took my heart, then my truck, and now she took my dog.🎶
Ya ..there's definitely a country song in there!
She Tok-muh-job. 🎉
Oh he didn't' read her past charges, now did he. I always go ahead, let me see if I'm right.
Oh no not the dog 😢
@@ScruMi2she tuuk yer yob!
Let's hear the details of her " out of control credit card spending " ?
This guy is terrifying. He claims that he loves her more than anything, but he doesn't mean it or he wouldn't have another woman. What he loves is *control.* He wants to keep her under his thumb, and he's mortally offended at the thought that she is interested in going on without him. There's a reason the most deadly time for any abused woman is right after she says she intends to leave. This is clearly the most dangerous time for Ms. Laney. She may need to move away to an address that he doesn't have... but if she goes too far to protect them from him, then her family might be in danger, as a way to harm her by proxy.
Mike, I think you're giving him way too much sympathy. I'm not saying that she deserves a whole lot of sympathy *either,* but all she's been going after is his money, and she's been doing it within the law. He's been commiting what would easily be considered criminal harassment if she *or* her family had chosen to press charges. He's trying to dominate her life. He's threatened to hurt her, and he's threatened to hurt anyone who's helping her get out from under his thumb in any way, from her mother to her lawyer to any mythical boyfriend he might imagine her to have. That is not even a little bit okay, and I'm disappointed that you seem to consider it less important than the fact that she's tried to negotiate by hardball in the divorce finances.
I know there's a syndrome. You have to care about your Children more than yourself! if you truly loved your Children, this would never happen. There are programs that will help you. When you get arrested with drugs and all the other absolute nastiness, you cry my Babies. They don't deserve it.
@@missb5982 I don't think they have children. They just have a dog.
I totally agree with you. Mike seems to be centered on money issues. You have pointed out the true situation, the danger she is facing... Yes you have the zeitgeist of it all truly. Appreciate seeing your understanding of this situation, it is a rare thing in my experience!
I completely agree with you. I think Mike missed the target completly on this one and your assesment of the situation is accurate. (Edit Still love watching ya mike but I just disgree with ya on this one)
@@lucasmoore8801 Yup. I still love watching Mike too, and usually I think he does a fine analysis job. I think he just missed the boat this time. Everybody does once in a while.
Thanks Mike!
All kidding aside... she had a better lawyer
He has a body-type indicative of alcoholism; slender extremities and round belly.
I had an ex that used to call and text like that if I didn't answer him ... literally 100's of times some days the most horrible nasty foul things.. he used to call my local police department do come and do a welfare check at 2 am to my house, my parents house etc etc.... then it did it to my family and friends on social media... it was INSANE I had to change my number and get rid of social media for years... I wouldn't hear from him for 6 months or a year... then make a new social media account and within 12 hours.... it would start over again.... I thank GOD I never owned anything with him, married him or had any children with him and I am damned lucky he moved away and onto someone else. This poor woman. Court orders don't stop people like this.
Brilliant questioning & answers 😂😂
So disappointed in Mikes lack of compassion to this plaintiff.
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You must have watched a completely different video from the one we are watching.
His misogyny couldn’t be any louder.
@@BlackJack-sx1jw you’re hilarious.
@@jasonandersen5975
Thank you!
My daughter’s ex would call her like this with an unknown number, so that way he could say it wasn’t him. Then when she wouldn’t answer he would call their children at all hours of the night. They had to turn their phones off to get sleep. Then he started calling the police for welfare checks!! Denied everything when they went to court including the welfare checks. 🤥
This one was great. Thanks Mike. ❤
"ma'am, are you a whore? .... you're not a whore? hmmm? not a dirrrrty little girl? you don't go off with girls and scissor and eat box?" 🤣 I'm flipping dead!!
I dont know how anyone can feel bad for this guy. Thats part of what's wrong with society. Stop feeling bad for dangerous people.
Shame on you Mike to feel sorry for this guy at all. He is a dangerous person who will likely do harm to her or someone else.
I was disappointed as well. I gather Mike went through a messy divorce from some comments he's made and he shows bitterness toward women sometimes but supporting this guy in this video is beyond all that. I don't understand what Mike is thinking.
@@anna3036100% I always cringe when he talks about women
@@GrubbyPigeon Yeah, I try to ignore it because I'm not the kind of person who just focuses on a person's one fault without seeing the whole picture. So I watch Mike and enjoy it. Unless he's commenting on women. Man, he's angry. Something must have happened. Do you have any details?
@@anna3036 my guess is he had a contentious divorce and maybe someone cheated on him in the past
I agree, he sometimes seems like he sides with the man over the woman, even if the man is in the wrong. It’s disappointing for sure.
FYI. These texts look exactly like my alcoholic narcissist ex.
It's sort of classic
To be honest I've been with a toxic ex to be honest we were both toxic for each other. I would just leave and restart. I've had to do that before and it ended up being the best decision i made for myself and my daughters.
That guy's emotional stability is escalating. He will kill her if he thinks she has moved on. There are too many red flags to ignore.
Right? There are many cases of men (boyfriends, fiancés, ex's) murdering women and people will say "Oh how did no one prevent this! How could this have happened?" yet they'll ignore and brush off escalating ^^behavior^^ like this mans...
Now my brain has switched. She put in on the line. He was not to take the dog or the truck and now he's stalking her, insentitly, totally crazy. This is a dangerous situation. Not the best Attorney I've ever seen but yeah. I'd say the best evidence except for the title for the truck and the Papa, I'm on her side. ❤
After watching the video I'm totally not on her side, what a 🐷 POS it literally makes me wanna cry.
Stalking her... what?
@@AliceNsWonderlandwatch the first 5 minutes again. He was sending up to 50 messages a day and threatening her boss at her job.
Insentitly??
@@Juhani139the human brain is a true piece of magic. There’s no way I should’ve been able to instantly use the correct word with it spelled that orhibiblee.
He could have lost this case as a pro se and saved his attorney fees
Ah, yes, the "I harass her because I love her" defense.
Right and "I don't want to divorce". Well too bad, you don't own her.
As women we pretty much know all about the men who have this in their DNA...
His lawyer's hairy chin makes him look like an old billy goat. Maybe that's the look he's going for? Got any old goat sound effects?
Your probably a good lawyer, your a good TH-camr... Obviously your a good DAD. Good for you Mike! Impressive
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I thought about saying that, too.
Then I saw, ‘1 reply’ and thought, “Someone beat me to it.”
Not even being shitty. Everything that was written about Mike was true, just… yeah… *you’re 😌
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@@bonnieconzen788 🤣
You inserted an unnecessary comma and ended a sentence with preposition.
Who is nitpicking? I certainly am but I couldn't resist. Note how I didn't
type "resist it" ?
I recently retired from a healthcare career and communication with
patients was vital. I often spoke in the vernaclar of those "less educated" than I.
I enjoyed interacting with these people more than those who judge based on grammar or spelling.
I learned those who judged were too busy listening for errors and would miss important instructions given.
Listening is the most important part of good communication.
If one wishes to point out words spelled incorrectly may I suggest they proof read their own work before leading with their chin.
My grandfather completed only 5 years of school. My memories of him are not of how poorly he wrote but are cherished simply for the richness and power of his wisdom.
I never once heard him insult another because he was, above all else, a humble man.
Just sayin' y'all 🤣.
Peace.
I didn't know TH-cam employs proof readers. Oh they don't 🤣.
Don't cha just love how many are self appointed tho ?
Enjoyed your post.
Thanks.
If he really loved her, he wouldn't have stolen her truck and her dog.
True. Also I see you’re a zebra! What type of EDS do you have? I have type 3. Hope you’re well spoony. ❤️
Sounds like a country song to me
Stolen? Two people in a marriage that own everything 50/50%. Hmm
Toys aren’t cheating. Husbands lack of knowledge of her needs says more about him.
His own words prove he stole Otis to hurt her, and planned to take her mare as well but was thwarted when the horse trailer was missing.
A therapy dog is a pet with a certain personality whose owner undergoes special training and commits to take on visits to institutions, usually to cheer and offer affection to sick children and adult residents. They are also really helpful with children who stutter or fear reading out loud. Reading to a dog that's sitting next to them boosts confidence with almost miraculous results.
I've trained service dogs and therapy dogs for 40 years. Otis' breed is unsuitable for several reasons, from not loving everyone they meet, to their difficulty breathing and the constant slobbering. When Mr Laney said his doctor recommended that he keep Otis as his personal therapy dog, his lie was so obvious. 🤔 He may have intended to infer he needed Otis as an emotional support dog, but that too is belied by the fact Otis doesn't live with him at all.
He doesn't give a sh*t about Otis. Furthermore, he doesn't love his wife. Punishing and controlling her is the result of his obsession, not love.
@Allie B, I don't think he loves the dog. Why would he leave it with her for a year? Why would he house it in Oklahoma when he stated that he worked in Oklahoma ONE weekend a month?
When did Chumlee become a lawyer?
❤ Im here for Otis !!!
Agree, an attorney who resorts to the demeaning manner of questions (statements) against his own client should be reported for ethical violations
Why is Mr. Clark asking questions with Mr. Laney who has already agreed to the things the Plaintiff was asking for?
I understand that many ex-wives make things up, but i also know that there are men and women who are narcissists and abusive. I support her on this one. My ex-wife was a narcissist and would call at 3am. I feel for her.
Her soon to be ex is scary. His mindset if he can't have her nobody can. Let's pray the dog is still living and he doesn't flip out
Not sure why Mike defends the husband. Admits husband did everything wrong and no one made mention of bad behavior by the wife.
I HATE it when you ask someone a question and then say a hundred words BUT NEVER ANSWER YOUR QUESTION !!! My ex did that all the time and it was a never ending point of contention. That's what that old guy is doing. "How much are you spending on that house each month Mr. Laney ?"...."Well, I had to get insurance on the house and I'm paying the electricity blah blah blah blah blah blah."..."Uh huh, AND HOW MUCH ARE YOU PAYING ON THE HOUSE EACH MONTH YOU JACKASS !!!"
To me, Mr. Laney has the earmarks of Manic/Depression. All those texts, messages and calls and the wild mood swings certainly are red flags as far as I am concerned.
That’s what I used to think was wrong with my ex (in Texas!), then found out that he had been doing coke since age 15.
😮. If that is her Attorney, I would definitely not wanting him asking me questions. It is making her look so bad and all her church ladies watching 😡. He looks like an alcoholic. Despite her Attorneys questions, he has buried himself from listening and seeing all the phone calls and texts. Fact is he does not want the divorce, but will do everything he can in threats. He is ridiculous. He has violated court orders by being in her house, taking the truck and dog clearly outlined in the court order. He really dug the hole for himself.
I was having a rough day. Thank you for making my ruff tuff day better. Signed Otis