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The Five Overexcitabilities (what do the five forms of intensity look like?)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 14 ส.ค. 2024
- The Five Overexcitabilities in detail, including what the behaviours look like, and how they interconnect in the brain. Also, a speculative guess at whether Sir Isaac Newton had OEs!
OE Test resource - www.positivedi...
Dabrowski’s theory of positive disintegration is a psychology framework for understanding intense experiences that often look and feel like mental illness, but which can also be viewed as building blocks for creating an authentic personality. This theory also talked about OE in gifted and creative people as 'developmental potential', and proposes that the intense and sensitive people may have a different view of the world, and an accelerated pathway through crisis to a more authentic self.
If you're exploring better ways to manage your mental health, a gifted or creative person who feels the world intensely, or going through a crisis (dark night of the soul), this channel might be for you!
If you would like to support this channel, and see more content, please consider donating to the Dabrowski Center. The Dabrowski Center is a completely not-for-profit organisation that serves several communities of interest by providing resources, advocacy, and information about the Theory of Positive Disintegration. Click here to donate: donorbox.org/d...
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Find other ND people - Adults With Overexcitabilities Facebook Page and Group / adultswithoe
Find out more about overexcitabilities - The Tragic Gift blog tragicgift.com/
Great explanation made something very hard to understand easier and very helpful keep up the good work
Thanks! 😊🌈✨
“You get too deep, too fast”
Thank you for the video. It makes me feel understood and less alone.
Glad it was helpful! 🙏💕✨
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this topic.
How interesting. I think I have most of these. I appreciate this framework for understanding myself. It has been needed
Thank you! 🙏 I hope it helps 💕
@@adultswithoverexcitabiliti3367 thank you 😊
Thank y'all. It's good to start understanding. I appreciate this so very much.
I’m glad you’ve been able to start your journey, and this has helped 😁💕
It makes a huge difference in not only making sense of your past, but figuring out who you can be in the future.
Extraordinarily helpful video
Thank you 🙏💕
I'm From Brazil, and I discovered I have ADHD and all these five Oes is very high for me! Now i'm gonna talk with my psychoanalyst if I have High Abilities/Superendowmet with ADHD! THANK YOU!
Good luck with journey! 💕✨
I've never met someone that I can relate with either. Some just know! everyone else around them do as well lol. I just wish that I would have found out way younger , I thank it would have made things a lot more manageable
I wish I’d known a lot younger too. All we can do is spread this message to save others the very long wait! 💕
I like that explanation a lot, and it helps me structure the issues I'm dealing with. So please keep doing this, as you have a gift to help people that have relatively little places to go for help.
Thank you 🙏 💕 very grateful, and happy you find it useful ✨
I am everything on all the lists except workaholic but if I am going for something I will work extremely hard
This is a brilliant explanation! Thank you so much!!!! It really helps…
Thanks 😊🌈✨
I'm definitely a fellow swan, as is my husband and our two adult children. All with a different mix. Thanks for this channel. Immensely helpful and this is just the second video I have watched.
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I’m still confused with OE. I always thought I probably had ADHD but I was formally diagnosed with ASD and Mental Giftedness with OE. So I suppose I hit the jackpot and was given a double whammy.
Chris Wells, who I do the Positive Disintegration podcast with, talks about the connection between ADHD and OE (and published a paper on it with Frank Falk). If you think of OE as an umbrella which then kind of Venn Diagram’s itself and overlaps a little with things like ADHD and HSP, you’re about right.
Either way is a neurodivergence from the norm.
Fellow "ugly duckling" (and Megadeth fan). Thanks for making these videos.
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This meshes with my own subjective experiences so very well. I have 4 out of 5 of these VERY strongly. This has caused great confusion, conflict and distress in my life. However, learning about this gives me hope that I might not be "defective" but rather "different".
More than that - you’re not alone 💕
Thank you so much for your great TH-cam channel and your swan diaries, I think it’s a lovely and courageous thing to share yourself like this I love it thank you for that and for being you!
I would love to be in touch and I would love to know about the Dutch science but you were talking about in the first video of yours, let me know how we can meet online of course as I am in the Netherlands, I am in French tong 😂And I love your sunny accent!
Thanks so much 🙏💕 I have a bunch of summaries on Dabrowski and links to a heap of resources on my site www.tragicgift.com where you can start your knowledge journey 🤗✨
Hi! I’m from Spain. I really love this video 😍 and your channel. Thanks a lot for that :) I identify myself in a few oes. Sometime ago I’ve thought I was HSP, I’ve reed a lot about that and about multiple intelligences theory. Is so interesting to understand how everything is connected ☺️
Thank you so much! 😊 there does seem to be a lot of cross over with HSP, although the biggest difference seems to be in how they recommend handling it. I hope you find this helpful to your learning journey ❤️🌈✨
@@adultswithoverexcitabiliti3367 Thank you for your response 🙂 I am still on this journey of self-knowledge and understanding others. I think it is an important as well as interesting and necessary task. I went through a difficult time in my life and as you comment in your video it helped me a lot to have friends and to be my own psychotherapist. I think that also to go in the right direction you need self-knowledge, self-observation and reading to understand further.
@@random_me85 I am still on this journey myself, learning as I go, even as I share with other people… it’s difficult at times, but very much worth it. I would say I feel very different, but in reality, I feel more my authentic self with each step, and that is very exciting 😊
@@adultswithoverexcitabiliti3367 That's great, to be more yourself, I guess at some point in our lives some people made us unconsciously feel that something is wrong with the way we are. They tell us that we think too much, that we are dramatic or that we worry about silly things. You feel different and you don't know why, but once you start this journey you understand that being different is not bad, you accept and embrace that difference, because what a boring world it would be if we were all the same. You find incredible strength in being true to your values and paying homage to the truth and even if no one understands it, you know it and that is enough. You understand that no one can have that much power and that there is not only one truth
@@adultswithoverexcitabiliti3367 The only person I think that would have known how I was and why has long been passed. I can't believe I'm 48 and find this site. I thank you. Gifted test giver at school only gave a short chat with me about it and gave no name to it. Now y'all helped me to finally be able to start having a greater than understanding than before, thx
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ASD HFA Aspergers = HSP highly sensitive person it’s that same just different labels 🏷
It’s a spectrum so the traits may vary and in different environments, we still have long way to go to understand
There certainly is a long way to go with understanding (in particular for me! I’m still learning). Rather than just be a linear spectrum, it may also be a Venn Diagram situation.
Chris Wells and Frank Faulk recently published a paper on ADHD and Overexitabilities, which looks at overlap. There’s definitely a lot more research to be done…
Being ASD sure makes you more likely to be HSP, but the opposite isn't necessarily the case. They are separate things but do have a lot of overlap. You could perfectly well be a hypo-sensitive ASD or a non-autistic HSP.
My psychomotor is not as prominent although that's likely due to my DCD (which is known to cause lethargy)
Primary emotional overexcitability with maxed out intellectual trying to compensate. Also an Aussie! Its fun to watch your vultology at work!
Well Dabrowski did say, emotional, imagination and intellect are the “big three” in so far as personality development. 😁
🇦🇺! And yes I’m fully aware my face never stops 😂😂 I got no poker face!
This is me all day long
Me too lolll
great video thank you!
Nice shirt
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4/5. OOF
Psycho motor is the only one im maybe .5
So 4.5/5
Also I know Myers-Briggs is pretty much a meme and just a derivative of Jung, but I would be curious how many people who identify with the majority of these fall into the:
NTP (Intuitive/Thinking/Perceiving) Type
That’s an interesting question- we’d need to test a bunch of OE people on their personality type 🤔
Yes.... I believe we may be in the same tribe.
I don't relate to the rebellious part but the rest... yes.
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Would I be able to talk to you about this? I'm kinda confused and you seem more familiar with OEs. In my own limited looking, all 5 OEs match my behaviour and I'm kinda confused.
Sure - you can email adultswithoverexcitabilities@gmail.com
Well fuck... I have adhd and I definitely have traits of this.
There are definitely overlaps- the neurodivergent landscape is a bunch of Venn diagrams
This vid is an absolute masterpiece. It's more like a mirror actually. How much did I score?
Thanks 🙏💕 I know the feeling- it’s weird seeing yourself so clearly in the theory.
I have Imaginitive, Intellectual and Emotional.
Existential and Loneliness were both misspelled.
Thanks - I’ll have a word with my proof reader 😕 (oh, wait - it’s me) 😂.
Shit, I've heard all of those!
Talk to you later, still crying...
Discovering yourself is a wonderful experience
This sounds a lot like Asperger's. Doesn't it? I know just a little bit about the Aspie ways (its like being a jedi, I hear... I dabbled in the dark side, for a bit, hence the name.)
It does in some ways. The funny thing is there’s bits of OE that sound like a lot of things - from being on the spectrum, to bipolar and ADHD. But there will be bits that don’t match. It’s very Venn Diagramish… it’s not uncommon for OE people to go through a ‘I was once told I had phase’
If I look like a swan, swim like a swan and act like a swan, I am probably a swan. 🦢
Welcome to the flock 😊🦢
What do you mean by swan? What does it represent?