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This is going to sound bad.. You know that smell that all puppies have on their breath? ..I accepted the advances of a 22 year old,she initiated all pursuits lol Well..it turns out that all young women have have a certain smell to them! It took me back to my highschool days!! Sorry NOT sorry!
Hi Rich, to proof you are right, I am older, fat and poor but I have interesting hobbies she likes and I share those with her, I also make her laugh and I often cook for her mom. With that simple things, I am fortunate this young amazing lady has been with me for 10 years already. I hope my luck doesn't run out. Cheers.
@@Admin-qy4zi naaaah. Most people are boring. When you are younger you have some dreams, and that "spark". The worse thing you can do in your life is to be at some point a ready product. I did this mistake. Loosing that "spark" I became predictable and boring. If you are not fishing for dumb young woman - you should strive for having some higher goals and be interesting. Being that ready product you are destination. Destination isn't sexy - journey is.
Stay in shape and take care of yourself. I’ve seen so many men this summer in their 40’s-60’s driving sports cars and they’re overweight. What’s the point of making bank if you’re gonna look like shit.
Because they can still fuck more young women than some obsessed gym visitor, therefore they don't feel very motivated to change that. Although, I agree with the overall point, we should take care of ourselves.
This was one of Rich's best and useful videos. Even for younger men, having hobbies and being interesting is important. Honestly, who wants to enter HER world of shopping, Facebooking, and baby showers?
@@jamesmorrin2729 Exactly. No man should be the least bit interested in her hobbies. Her hobbies, more often than not, are stupid. She wants to come into your world if she's worth af.
It's been a long time I watched this channel. Nothing really changed here, only me. It took some time to rewire my brain, but my life has gotten much better in return. No more chasing tail, no more dating, no more BS. I concentrate on my health, wealth, friendships, and all the other things I find important. Life has never been this good and I cannot imagine I would ever give it up for a woman.
MGTOW...I was talking to my parents who couldn't understand my brother's divorce and I told them about how most guys don't pick up the ques, but women (and most people) telegraph how they are, will be (selfish, generous, conniving, whining)....'cut them off, that's why I'm still single.'
@@Johnslist I avoided a lot of marriages that were not good for me. Thank God I was too cautious as an automatic defensive mode that some how kept me off a very dangerous highway made up of broken heroes on a last chance powerglide....baby we were born to run. Run from western women. Look for quiet, loyal, women who have feminine traits.
As a seasoned gentleman myself (42) dating multiple young women (18 to 25), I haven't made bank nor do I have any particularly exotic hobbies. I do have a very interesting past (multiple years travelling the world), but this doesn't seem to be a big factor in their attraction. In my experience you can do quite well with young women just by generally having your shit together to a reasonable degree eg you're living on your own, keep your place reasonably clean and tidy, you're self-sufficient, have a respectable (but not necessarily high) income. Basically if you're secure and stable, have some vitality about you, not fat, have one or two hobbies you enjoy, and she's into older men, then she'll be happy.
As a 40 year old myself, why the hell would you even want to date an 18 year old? That’s like babysitting. They have almost nothing in common with our generation.
For the rest of us relatively poor men out there: The most success I ever had in my dating life was when I had my own nice 2br apartment and most of my dates consisted of going to dinners (or a live standup comedy show if they were lucky) followed by a few weeks of netflix and chill. One time we were driving and I had her lean over in my seat... After a little bit of that I pulled over and we both went in the back seat. When she left that night she cried and said she never felt so alive. Excitement doesn't always have to be expensive.
I'm 39. In my recent experience dating women in their 20's, 75% of them (Gen Z) into polyamory. They have no issues lying to your face that they are not polyamorous, but don't believe them. This is the reason why I don't waste time with them anymore. If all you want to do is have sex with them, then they are easy, albeit tainted.
If and when neccessary I just pay them for sex if that's what they're offering. I in no shape or form want a 20 something year old in my domestic space 24/7. They LIE LIE LIE and if you spent all your money trying to impress them you'll go ballistic.
A woman will be perfectly content spending all day with a man to whom she is strongly attracted, doing only basic everyday activities, without becoming "bored" whatsoever. Boredom is often a sign of the dwindling of the honeymoon period, or of spending far too much time together. It may also be a symptom of a mismatch in the type and amount of stimulation that both members of a couple need for a sense of overall well-being. Finally, some simply lack the ability to self-reflect and address their boredom, and are instead dependent upon others for entertainment. I completely agree that having hobbies and involving her in them is absolutely essential.
@dum that’s legit I’ve been seeing a girl for probably over 2 years now I work flat out and see her once and only just recently twice a week I’ve probably gone out with her 10, maybe 15 times over that 2 year period She just comes over, cooks our dinner, we chill, watch a movie and smash She just enjoys my company Well that and the good D I give her I guess 💁
Idk lads, some girls want it more than others, others are more relaxed Also I do think a lot of girls only want one guy at a time, if you have her mind, then she won’t fuck around You have to judge the girl and the situation yous are in
@@pugsymalone6539 Thats just it, you don't have to be a jester and being boring works only to your detriment when it comes to options. The point of the video is to show that women are notoriously hypergamous and will absolutely trade you up even if you think she is loyal it will always be in the back of her mind. If your life is empty and devoid of things to look forward too... guess what she won't be looking forward to you and will throw you away for some dude who would literally destroy her life and still support him because he is moving back and forth and is interesting even if it is destructive. You can choose to elevate or destroy a woman but if you have nothing to look forward too then its like being with a cat. You don't have to entertain her, you just have to have a life thats active and whatever direction that activity goes so long as you have it and include her she will follow
@@BigBadBossu I don't disagree with the message in the video, I get it. What I'm saying that I've played that game and it always ends the same. I'm now boring as in; I will live a low-key life in a nice home, eat and drink well, have a nice garden and well trained, well cared for pets. If a gal wants to join me in that, fine. I will not leave my comfort zone to get laid by a squirrel who will never be satisfied with the status quo.
@@BigBadBossu Listen to yourself, you are exactly right she'll "always" want to trade up. Nature has a plan for survival of the human race. That includes frequent, promiscuous sex with all sorts of genetic variety. Does that sound like it heavily involves you, as one man? No. It doesn't. Accept your lot in life, she will move on no matter who you are or what you do. Unless... you successfully keep her miserable, and why in the world would you hope to do that. Its just your turn. Be a man and move on too.
Be interesting and exciting because it's what you like being. Never try to be something hoping it will get you women. Firstly because it's too much work inventing a persona that you think is what women want, secondly it's fake. You know it and they will recognize it sooner or later. Do things you love and be engaged in your passions, be authentic and genuine in your interests and you will be satisfied and fulfilled with or without a woman. Be that kind of man and you won't have to "try hard" your way into women being interested in you. I see so many guys asking for tips and tricks and what is the secret to getting girls, well there is no secret. Either you are the kind of guy that people want to be around because it's just who you are or you aren't. Be the man you dreamed of being when you were a kid and be awesome!
That's real talk right there. Be happy with yourself and let everything else come along. Who wants to be around someone who's not happy with being around themselves
That's what's wrong with most people. You can't have a taste of the sushi for free. This guy is completely on his game. Women aren't free, nor cheap. You got to pay, to play. ON TOP Of being an interesting person to be around like he alluded in the video. Good looking, wealthy men are almost a dime a dozen now with the tech jobs and entrepreneurs around.
Well where has the pure relationships gone to? More importantly, if she is in need of money for luxus desires, perhaps she has some struggles with her self esteem? Maybe just stay away from women that depend on luxury for esteem boost too much!
When I was growing up and I said to mom that I was bored, she would say "boredom comes from within". More and more I realize her wisdom. If I have to entertain a woman all the time when I am with her, she will ALWAYS have to be entertained by me making me obligated to entertain her. Rich makes a great point that we should be involved in our hobbies and have fun interests but a woman has to put in some effort to the relationship too. Otherwise its just another train wreck situation.
I agree. Do something interesting. Lots of guys loose hobbies after they are married. Wife’s don’t like husbands to have hobbies. Hobbies take up time away from them. I see it in young couples all the time. When I see older people divorce he doesn’t know what to do. He lost friends because of the wife. This older gentleman lost his wife and a few weeks later he found someone new so he could attend to her needs. His kids asked why would he do that. It’s because he has no friends and doesn’t have hobbies, he doesn’t know what to do with his time. It’s sad. Men are taught to give everything up for family. When you see a woman who lost her husband continues to see her friends and do things. Why because a guys “friends” used/are her friends husbands. Not a lot of connection most of the time.
It's disgusting to be honest on all fronts. And EVERYONE knows this subconsciously, yet still tends to their selfish desires even in a marriage. I've heard of women who are uncomfortable with their significant other being fit because of their insecurities. That whole "give up everything for family" thing needs to stop. We not in the past anymore.
I can totally relate. WHen I was married in the past , I ended up losing touch with friends , not doing the things I liked . All because she had issues with it all . Even gym was an issue because she wasnt into the gym and was very insecure etc . I started doing these things again after the divorce. Many of my old friends are now married and so I dont see them because they are now doing what I used to do !
@@MrTimjm009 Richard Cooper calls this the "beta"-nizing by a thousand concessions. When I Heard that for the first time, I understood what he meant based on past relationships
Very true. Especially if the wife has no hobbies she will grow tired of sitting around the home doing nothing while the husband is out enjoying his hobby. Men should never give up their hobbies/ interest.
I've never been married, but from what I see most wives do NOT want their husbands to have hobbies. As you say, the wives see his hobbies as taking time away from HER. And \ or it's money that could be spent ON HER. There's no way I would want to be in a situation like that.
I hear what you're saying but I'm in my 40's and think that entertaining/dating younger women is for the most part a waste of time, money and effort. You will be much better off and happier devoting your time to your own career and development.
I got divorced at 47 and spent the next 8 years trying to partner up wasting tons of money and time. I’m 56 now absolutely loving my single life but like the occasional play date/sleepover as long as they leave in the morning 🤣🤣💪🏼
We can always control our time, money and effort. That gives you higher value, which women are attracted to. When you don't try to impress to get the putang, is when the legs spread.
I'm in my early 30s and I dated a woman in her mid 20s and even then I could feel the generational difference between us. Not sure if the age gap mentioned here will work long-term but there's always exceptions to the rule. Right now I have no interest in dating since I've been busy just working on myself. Got a new career path lined up and saved so much money and keeping fit.
At 55 I mostly date girls from 20-30. The closer they are to 20, the more I have to consult urban dictionary. I have to look up A LOT of new slang every time we text! But in the end, it's worth it. They're still so much nicer and sweeter and more appreciative than older women.
My Cabin was a great thing I built up starting 20 years ago. Sure building the cabin, but also the land. Just this year I took one girl out to pick raspberries, blue berries and black berries. Then made jam with her those evenings. She had never made jam before, never canned anything and here she was on a date doing and learning. Thinking of little things like that and not just going out for other entertainment, but being able to make your own where you lead and she is following and learning how you live your life is better.
@@silverfox6883 Congrats to you for being good looking and being a rock star. Besides you gloating about it, how does this information help the rest of us?
Just started dating a girl nearly 30 and i m 47. Your video was VERY useful, solid advice.. Its in our hand as well to simply show them that we are not an ATM for them.
Great Video Richard. The reason why a lot men are boring is because they get into long term relationships at an early age. They spend most of their 20s and 30s perusing and pleasing woman. Then once in a long term relationship, all of their ambitions, goals and sadly , testosterone, dies. I cant tell you how many of my friends who are either married with children or live with their girlfriends who are just plain boring. Work,home then repeat. Aside from men focusing on their path to success, the opposite of why men are boring can be applied, and that is they are more focused on being “a good guy” to a woman who will leave them for another man who has many hobbies. This almost happened to me. I lived with my then girlfriend for almost 3 years and i saw all my interest in hobbies and lifestyle fade away and now they are back. My advice is become an enthusiast of something. Whatever it is (cars,gym,boats,planes,traveling ect). Point is, your interesting hobbies should be about 30% of your lifestyle aside from chasing excellence. You may even find excellence in that hobby. Cheers
You have a good point. As a chick, I enjoy men who are passionate about something other then p***y. I enjoy learning new things and being exposed to or helping fix car types I don't know or gadgets is really interesting.... Also, having the space to breathe sometimes while they do that stuff is a stress reliever. Absence makes heart grow fonder sometimes.
@@MX-CO problem is women always want more.. every time she sees you she’s hoping you’d want escalate - men are just fine with occasional fun, women on the other hand want to know ” where is this going “ therein lies the problem. 😬
@@MX-CO short answer: overseas - women in the west are destroyed by a combination of factors including but not limited to feminism and divorce laws which are 100% on their side. Good news is such unfair divorce laws are not in effect in 85% of the world hence interacting with women in the west feels like dealing with a man in a woman's body, whereas women in other places are actually feminine, desirable and pleasant. This all has to do with economics. When a woman does not need you economically, her entire demeanor and outlook is changed. You will quickly notice the difference in a woman's femininity and appeal in places such as Argentina, Colombia, Brazil, panama, East Europe etc. Or if you're into Asian women, Asia. You will never get a woman in the west to be what you want her to be. They make it look like they are enjoying casually dating you when in fact, they are like a baker who is giving you a sample of his cake in the hope that you will be buying the whole cake. This btw is coming from a person with experience of 350+ women from all regions of the world ;-)
@@peter11947 yes the care if its a super car or camaro... Yes they know how much super cars are worth even if they've never seen or heard of the vehicle... Women use Google to see what stuff costs man
@@peter11947 I totally agree.. I'm just speaking on the way a lot of gold diggers operate.. They do it to you every day.. Anytime you see a woman out in public, if youre fast enough you'll catch her look at your shoes in like a millisecond and then proceed to speak or whatnot
If they won't go for a ride in my 4-seat airplane and be into it, they not for me. Gotta like skydiving, roller coasters, white-water rafting and bungee jumping.
I actually prefer you show up in your Toyota/Honda so I know you aren’t trying to impress with toys. Most men who utilize toys & money makes me pull back instantly because I think you are trying over compensate & trying to use money to impress me. It shows a lack of confidence too. I want to get to know YOU, the person/soul. No money really necessary. We can sip water out of our water bottles strolling down the sidewalk, sitting on a bench, laughing & talking. Save the fancy meals/experiences for special occasions like anniversaries & vacations.
I brought a girl home to try to spin Drum & Bass records on my turntables. She was floored by how complicated it was to line up the 8/16 bars...and to understand the key and melody between tracks She was puddy in my hands afterwards.
My way of thinking as well. What he is saying is too much work for little value. I could be spending that time making more money or working on my hobbies. Living in a big city has the advantage of wide selection of young pretty girls with paid arrangement. If the first few times go well she can be regular. Also add more young girls to fill when she is not available. Also, you don't get attached.
Y'all are kinda missing the subtext here. He said invite her into your world. Meaning, you don't have to "entertain". Therefore, you can keep more of your money AND you can do whatever the fuck YOU want to do. She's just along for the ride, having fun, and staying engaged.
@@hlgoodkat9677 No buddy, we get it. If you find a girl who´s worth it from time to time, go for it. But most of the time, these 304´s arent worthy of that time with you, they are not worth the squeeze, give you only headaches. That´s why im most of the time with Joker. And as Bud said, most of the time it´s more peaceful and relaxing to just pay for the fun.
Can’t stress this enough I’m 40 now and I try to explain this to my peers. Yes you’re successful but one you’re not going to find the women you want doing the same thing you’ve been doing the last 30 years which is spending all your free time playing video games get out into the world yeah you make bank but does it matter if you go home and sit in the house after work or business? You’ll never get and keep the women you want if you turn into a hermit soon as work hours are over.
It's alot easier to go out to night spots in your 20s & 30s and pick up chicks...Try doing that in your 50s...It looks pitifull.... Only place I know where 50+ guys can pick up young fit chicks and not look ridiculous is Thailand.....
@@brianvesta no dude. Go out during the day and live your life. THEY will find you. Forget about nightlife, believe it or not they are bored of that too. They only find young jackasses like we were. The whole reason they like older dudes is because we're not doing that young mans game anymore and they know that
I’m 37 and is not considered the age group that you’re talking about, it I see exactly what you’re talking about! You attract who you’re, and that’s the equation. I’ve been working on myself since divorce and I would say my confident level have spiked to the roof!
Yep. I met a woman recently and she was interested. Invited her out one day and she was getting yet another tattoo. Rich described her perfectly. She always calls herself a badA$sB. Unfollowed her yesterday. She's trouble and even admitted how insecure she is.
Regardless of the mindset of tattooed girls, I find the tattoos themselves extremely unattractive. I can massively want a girl, but then if she has one large tattoo all the attraction is instantly gone. I’d honestly rather they had a massive birth mark or scar. It’s masculine and just pretty gross. Like putting a giant bumper sticker on a Ferrari.
@@AndrewEvenstar I don't agree. A little ink never hurt anyone. However, the new generation of Woke women are confrontational femi-nazis out looking for a fight. They lead with their politics. These women are truly broken.
@@FineBlueAgave I don't mind a couple small tattoos but this girl has ink everywhere. Also it was her presence on social media that turned me off big time after we hung out.
I got with a chick that had pennywises face tattooed on her thigh. Most repulsive thing to look at as your about to go down or have her legs in the air lol.
Spot on I'm 38 dating a 26 yr old and as soon as I stop doing "Fun" shit ie:socializing shit goes stale. Tried just giving her cash to go to the mall & do her own thing, but she complains unless I go with her and make it "Fun".
I'm the one getting bored with them usually. I couldn't care less about what they want and how they feel. I just let them enjoy their self-made little Disney drama as long as it doesn't affect me and most importantly it doesn't waste my time. As Rollo says, their twisted imagination is the best tool you can use to your advantage... and it requires zero effort. It can't get any easier than that.
"Sweet dreams are made of this Who am I to disagree? I travel the world and the seven seas Everybody’s looking for something Some of them want to use you Some of them want to get used by you Some of them want to abuse you Some of them want to be abused..."
I’ve got to respectfully disagree to a point. I’m 50/50 on this. Any girl that can’t just be content with your company is not a girl you’d want around long-term. Those are just jezebels, and they’re the kind of girls that will ruin your life. If a girl is truly into you, she’ll be content just sitting and talking with you on the porch, with a few glasses of wine. If your looking for those types of girls to just have fun with, for a shorter amount of time, then I suppose you’ve got a point, but not if you’re looking for a better quality girl. If a girl REALLY likes you, she’ll follow your lead on just about anything. She’ll literally alter her entire life and become just like you.
Totally agree with you, but would add that interesting active hobbies are still important. It could be aa simple as hiking or urban photography. Neither take much dollar investment.
100% agreed. But unfortunately in this age of social media and disney fantasies , most girls just want to get excited everyday. As long as girls are having these narsissitic, unrealistic attitude being normal is not enough. And Long-term relationships are almost impossible now days. So overall if you want sex follow what rich says.
"You have to give them something to look forward to..." No man, not my job. If a girl finds you attractive you can do no wrong. If she doesn't think you are attractive, but wants your resources, thats a total waste of your time from day 1.
100 percent this. If you are trying hard too much it means she is not attracted to you. Attractive men don't need to entertain her, they are his entertainment.
Life is a balancing act. I learned very early on that being world class at anything requires sacrificing other aspects of your life. Its much more effective being a jack of all trades in life as it will give you more balance, more knowledge and allow you to have a more worldly and interesting personality. And with regards to women, I’m personally looking for a team player rather than a party hopper. The minute the party stops, she’ll simply find another party.
Everything you said makes sense. I'm a 37-year-old guy it took me awhile to get to where I'm at financially. I have the means to take myself and a woman traveling to different countries. My main hobby is travel going to different beaches and jet skiing, museums, food and going to the gun range. Sometimes when I travel cross country being in the desert or wilderness and setting up target and shooting outdoors with no hearing protection. That part might frighten her a bit because I'm sure it would take some trust to lead up to it. But my main thing is international travel and going to interesting places.
Im half deaf, carry ear plugs or campact muffs or be exciting and buy NFA silencers! Legally purchased suppressors dont require additional paperwork to cross state lines like other NFA items
I second that, either get license for suppressor, or use ear plugs with noise activated ear muffs over them. I've got ten different ringing sounds in my ears 24/7. Its very mentally exhausting, and makes it hard to understand what people say, but not due to volume but the ringing will cancel out a syllable of a word or a whole word. You end stopping talking in groups because people get tired of repeating themselves. Heed my words. Also goes for lawn equipment too.
You're right on the hobbies part. I have many hobbies. Finding ladies that also like those same hobbies and live close to me in nearly impossible. So to ladies that don't share the same hobbies or interest I come off as boring very fast.
In the me too era, dating a young lady in Canada or the US is a great way to get into trouble. Nothing gets a girl thinking like a supercar, a yacht or a private jet.
You speak the truth here, brother! I am 59 now and the younger women (20-35+ years, not bragging), I have "entertained" nowadays expect to be taken care of and entertained. Whether it be frequent shopping sprees, international travel, luxury vehicles, etc., these gals are more attracted to my perceived wealth rather than me, my physique, or my older looks. I am tired of it really. I have realized that if I do not acquiesce to this mode of thinking, I will remain by myself or just have to look for older women who have their own money. I won't be a "sugar daddy" for any young "pooty-tat". They are typically a depreciating asset in most cases!
Well said. U are a an atm. If you looking for love date in your age group period.old should always bear in mind that it's only the purse that attracts young women. And moreover these young girls get passed around by a lot of men.
Number one mistake: dating a younger woman just to have sex with her instead of treating a date as an interview for a potential life partner, then wondering why it doesn't end well. If you treat her like a prostitute, she's going to realize she's being treated like a prostitute, and the relationship will end the same way.
As a woman, at first I disagreed. But then I thought about it… you’re right. I have my own money and a huge list of hobbies but I find that I want the man to show me that he would make my life better… men my age (I just turned 25) don’t know how to work, have fun, no hobbies, and are stuck up they think their looks and money are enough. You basically said that women want substance in this video. Very true… and is why I usually go for men older than me.
I once angered a woman on purpose. Kept saying she didn't know what she was talking about and she was wrong. Was in bed with me within an hour of meeting her. So yes. You can do anything but bore her
@@dannywholuv It was a joke ,they didn't have sex, she went to "bed" with him, and the punch line was he was so boring she fell asleep. He picked A- Aron as his name, hints at a funny guy making a funny joke....come on it was a good one, keep up.
I'm not a subscriber, but I'll watch a recommended video from time to time. Like anyone, I don't agree with 100% of your content and don't disagree with 100% of your content, but occasionally, I'll take something away from the videos and enjoy them. However, your line: "You're not entering their world, she's being invited to enter your world" is spot on, and one of the best things I've heard on this channel. It's great advice for older guys looking to date younger, and most older guys think they've got to act young or "cool" or whatever, but that's not why younger women are into you. She's into you because you're an older, seasoned man- lean into it. Don't send stupid emoji texts. Don't be an immature goof. Be the older, masculine man that lured her in the first place. It's not only great advice for older men, but it is good advice to younger guys too. Have your life plans, lay them out, and give her the opportunity to fit into it, don't alter it for her. Lay out who you are, what your vision is, and where you're headed. If she's interested, she'll adapt and squeeze herself into your world, not the other way around.
….or just have a fun FWB deal (which is the most realistic for an age gap over 12yrs) until she "gets bored" and move on; you're likely to get bored of her too. Especially if we're talking around the 20yr age gap where you're 40's vs her 20's, you'd be a fucking fool to think there's anything more there than temporary lust. That's where I'm at now and it's fun....but you GOTTA be ready for that gap in maturity. Also, you're ALWAYS gonna have a YUGE advantage if you're as fit as can be for your age. I barely make six figures a year but I've been training RELIGIOUSLY with kettlebells and calisthenics for decades so @ almost 50 I'm built like lean & agile college wrestler with a flat stomach; not a six pack (that's hard as you get older) but solid flat stomach. My friend is 50 and has stayed solid fit his whole life...his daughter's girlfriends in college tell her straight up "Your dad is a DILF, I'd totally do him". This cannot be emphasized enough. Get as fit as you can for YOURSELF, and it'll give you a tremendous edge with women while reaping all the benefits of optimal health.
@@sonyarowe1327 you're clueless. I'd bet you're an aging woman extremely jealous of younger women so much so that you've already "gone under the knife" or injected yourself with synthetic garbage to keep up with your much younger counterparts.
@@sonyarowe1327 In many ways, you're right. They certainly don't want me for marriage or any serious relationship of any kind, and I feel the same way about them. Most of them are in "serious relationships" with guys their age. They just want to come over a couple of times a week, get fucked real good for an hour and go on with their lives. To me that's heaven on earth and I'm happy to oblige.
Rich, you nailed this one. Even here in Costa Rica where the girls seem to fall from the trees, seasoned gentlemen with cash and no game have a hard time. When the only thing a guy has to talk about is his job and cable network news, he is destined to become some senorita's ATM.
I heard Costa Rica has a big prostitution scene, is that true? I’m actually planning to go there next year by myself and take advantage of the young beautiful women over there.
@@BuckROCKGROIN Cool, have you been there before? I heard it’s good to spend at least a day in San Jose where there is one famous brothel/hotel, then to head over to Jaco beach where there are lots of beautiful young women for rent for the evening. I was actually in Costa Rica 3 months ago but was with my family so I didn’t do anything like that.
sorry but Costa Rica is for unsophisticated men who simply don’t know better and haven’t been around enough to know there are million places better including the neighboring Panama. Costa Rica is simply low class
I feel this is harder as an introvert. I do like going out every so often, since I do get tired of staying at home. But I am not into things that are so "thrilling", such as riding a speedboat, rock climbing, riding tall/fast roller coasters, off roading, etc. Some of the places I like to go to are to learn something such as a museum, visiting historic landmarks, trying unique food, watching a live show, or checking out some kind of festival or local event. I do like going exploring around local cities and photograph unique things. As an introvert I like doing things that are more relaxing and may learn something new. There's women who like these too, but it seems it's mainly middle aged and older mature women who are into these kinds of activities. Not most women in their 20s. Also, it seems trying to have a knowledge of pop culture, history, trivia and current events from reading and watching many videos doesn't really seem to impress young women either.
You nailed it again I noticed most girls will tell you they are doing nothing or bored it's their default state in this state she's inviting you to ask her to do something interesting I noticed a girl will become more interested if i talk about my hobbies with her If she's not interested in your hobbies then sucks she is taken or busy i her life and not ready for you And it's better to not waste your time getting her interested A man thing is passion and hobbies or adventure and sport and most women Don't have those or suck at them and taking the lead in introducing her to your passion is how you connect with her or rather how she connect with you A good example of an older guy who dated a hot young girl was that professor who dated a sport girl and they went to live on various forests around the world, the woman was strong and hunt but the man had knowledge about plants and animals and could guide her Thro their adventure, that's how he kept her interested and not bored with him
As an older guy 68 I agree. Guys my age are no fun. Lost their sense of adventure. Their duds. Talk themselves out of every new thing that takes a little effort. I don't blame any woman for avoiding them.
60yrs upwards I don't they should be chasing skirts especially young women bcos u will used and get hurt. Just stick to your age group. If u want to be happy and fulfilled. U will be used for your purse .jeez who wants to fuck with an old wrinkled man .....u will be kept a secret not seen in public. Period
By that age isn't the little engine down stares pretty much not running anymore? I think by than I wouldn't care as much but I'm sure there are still men that have a high labido at that age I mean Hugh Hefner certainly did maybe to the end as well I think.
I know this goes against most advice. I just ask them if there's anything they've got on their box. Let's go tick it off because honestly I've gone almost everything I wanted to do.
You don't even know that person and you already do all this stuff. Too much investment and wasted time for someone you don't know. A drink or two and pull. If things go well you'll have plenty of time to do these things when you get to know her better
It’s not just lifestyle, it’s personality... a lot of these guys are timid and low energy/not talkative... it’s hard to change that without depending on substances. Just date the woman that loves you not the one you love and she’ll always try to prove herself to you
Great advice Rich, thanks for sharing. You can also keep yourself more interesting by observing the world around you, noticing trends and characteristics of people, neighborhoods and trends. And watching good video channels, listening to interesting podcasts and reading a variety of good books. This way you can talk about a number of different topics, and be able to continue or steer conversations in the direction you want. Which makes you a better leader compared to most guys, who just listen to mainstream news or don't stay current with new or different content.
yep. and it's because competition has gone up. worldwide economy has had a mass effect. people are meeting less in person, where you typically could attract local women But hey, just keep working on yourself (or at least keep up your appearance) because sometimes you never know who might come along
This is interesting. I once dated a girl that had money and did really cool interesting things, but she herself was actually boring and had a boring personality. I could be at a rock concert with her but be bored. I could be at Six Flags Great Adventure with her and be bored. Vice versa, other girlfriends I dated I could be home with absolutely nothing to do and have a good time talking with them and hanging out.
I've learned that buying more toys doesn't make you interesting. Same with making more money or getting more education. Either you are interesting or you're not. I don't do women who're after my resources, whatever those would be. It's me that's interesting or nothing is.
I am a nearly 80 year old man. The first mistake an older man has in dating a younger woman is.......dating a younger woman. They are so immature, inexperienced, insecure, chasing an impossible dream and quite honestly lack the experience to really satisfy not only the psychological needs of an older man but also the sexual needs. Younger women need more time to grow, mature, gain wisdom and experience. Younger women also tend to be too emotional about unimportant things.
Dang…you nailed it. We don’t care about the money, can you intellectually interest me? We crave being invited into your world & pouring into you & doing things with you. We have our own money but can you be a companion that I can converse & laugh with.
Excellent vid, Rich. Good spot on points. Hell, I'm now mid-sixties and 10-15 yrs ago I decided was time to get serious about my look (always considered myself average), game (had no game, didn't really even know what it meant), and start taking more risks (albeit calculated ones) in career and with women. It's paid off in a big way, both financially and with the women in my life. And I've never married (thank God). One thing I've learned, and I believe it's one thing that challenges all us men living in western cultures, is to choose women wisely. I had NOT chosen wisely for most of my life, and suffered because of it. I'm now only interested in high self-esteem, intelligent daddy's girls, for lack of a better term. (Basically women who when I ask them about their dad's immediately speak in glowing terms about them). I'd rather keep spinning plates (win-win) than settle for something (someone) I know I can get just because they look good or make good money. Again, thank you and keep em comin, brother!
So you made these changes at around the age of 50? I just turned 50 and am in the same boat you were in 15 years ago. Was wondering if it's possible to change?
Do you think that you are missing out on genuine love by spinning plates for the rest of your life? How do you envision the last few years of your life?
As one of the "Tyrones" I still have to game and impress these women and face the markets on weekdays. Hard work never ends for a man. That's why I dig this channel.
I think I got lucky.. I am 60 my wife is 33, we have been married 14 years and we never have had a fight or even a serious argument, we have one daughter ... Our life is pretty good
@@majormarketing6552 did the math she was 19 when we married... whats make that so creepy to you?... also creeps lurk in the dark. is your life so perfect you can judge others for being happy?
@@Hapfletcher She is so cheating on you right now. A 60 year old fart cannot satisfy a 33 year old woman. And yes, you're a creep for marrying a woman young enough to be your daughter when she was a teenager. A forty six year old with a teenager means she has major daddy issues, and you just want to bang your daughter. I feel bad for the daughter that the two of you have together. One parent looks like her sister, and the other looks like her grandpa.
It's so true...as a younger man I would date older women all the time and I was being invited into their world. I dated a woman for 1 year and she never came to my place I would always go there and spend the night there.
So, I'm one of those "seasoned' guys (I'm 67) that Rich is talking about; he and I actually talked about this stuff over the phone. Though I still take women out to dinner (going tonight, in fact), I've also done the following: 1. Worked on my physique and have taken off 20 lbs of fat and added back 5 lbs of lean muscle. 2. Lifting heavy stuff 3. Joined a Dojo. 4. Am fronting the idea of off-roading in my T4R to keep it "interesting"; while this has gotten me far more traffic of the feminine variety, I find they view off-roading with both exhilaration AND trepidation. 5. Using professional photography on dating apps. 6. Am now using the "ultimate female aphrodisiac": confidence. Still using an online approach but with each of Rich's suggestions, the return on investment has been, frankly, astounding.
So let me ask you a question. With all this knowledge about women, do you thing that your happy ? I mean rather than pushing guys into new relations with "hot girls it would be better to build a happy life with the right person and with good friends, good job. But "good" every where doesn't belong to this world, it's how to deal with struggles what makes the difference between real man and a simple male. I agree with a lot of your ideas but you have to put the woman in the equation so the benefit goes to the family, and that makes the man the woman and the children happy. The family is the unity wich built a healthy society
In general all true - when I was 30 and dating a 24 year old it didn’t matter she was top-of-her class college educated, she revealed no clue or preference for what she might like doing. I had to guess and often fell into what I liked to do, which caused only boredom.
This is so true. I'm getting to mid forties. Done a lot in my life. Had a record deal, single in the charts, been a school director, lived abroad. Ticked the boxes for an interesting life but now am burnt out. All those experiences are done and over. Can't live on past glories forever.
I still have trouble understand what "being boring" really is. And what is "exciting" for that matter? If I go out of my way to "not be boring" by doing things that I do not find interesting, fruitful, engaging etc., then what is the point of that?
Each woman is different. but bottom line is: make her attracted to you and like talking to you. I would tell you what I think he means by 'don't be boring' but then you might steal my secret ;)
I'm 40 and I can't even land a 38 year old. It became clear to me when I was 32 and not even able to land a 30 year old. Single then and single now. Funny thing is my act is together great. Nice car, house, $ in the bank, no debt and so on. Ladies are delusional on standards and I don't click any boxes.
Same as you. I’ve always worked hard and never been fired from a job in my life. I’ve got money in the bank and debt free. I’ve never been particularly flashy. I drive a 2003 Tacoma that I love and maintain. I’ve never owned a sports car. I’ve always considered myself down-to-earth. I guess that’s not enough.
@@thebrowithnoname1703 Immediately buy a used 2004 Black Corvette (C5). Best used sports car bang for the buck ride. Women notice vettes. ...and the C5 looks a lot better than the last 16 years of updated vettes. Buy a black one...then use Maquires three stage polishing kit for black paint to make it look better than new paint. YOU will be amazed at how much fun you have in affordable super car that is reliable and doesn't require pampering.
I listen to you from time to time boss. Since I only see some of your videos, it must be really good ones and I’m always enjoying what I see. I don’t know how I missed that you have a book so I’m gonna give that a check out, as someone who is gifted genetically, I’m seeing how being in shape with some money can really go along way. And I’m only 5’6 5’7 a good day.
I inherited "being boring" from my dad. Granted, he busted his butt for us, and I respect him for it, but I have the tendency to be boring. I'm good looking and women love my physique, but you can't bore them. Having cool experiences under your belt can help too, and can serve as conversation pieces.
I honestly find it a blessing these days to be considered boring (quiet). It gives a clear view of people you should/shouldn’t have in your life. Women that easily get bored of me are women that I should’ve never bothered in the first place.
Wrong mindset guys. Always expect vv0men to entertain you not the other way around. Being a dancing-monkey for them has never worked and never will. I'm always the one judging them and I state that very clearly during the interaction... They usually pretend to be upset but I know they love the challenge because they always make an extra effort to impress me.
Boring--he means just live your own life-if you’re the point of origin you’re automatically interesting. If she becomes the point of interest, and she’s an idiot, you’ll lose her. If you’re holding her at an arms length then she will be more likely to put in the work. It’s biological. My husband plays phone games when he’s not working and I hate it-but I’m not a cunt so I do the work to gain his attention. Modern women aren’t as easy to train but it can work.
Being a former US Army Paratrooper I took a young girl skydiving with my friends she screamed when we exited the aircraft all the way down to earth, I asked her how was it she was fucking speechless.
Well, if you're inviting them to wear that nice thing you like and come ride with you in your $300k car, then that kind of sounds like you're leading with your money, doesn't it?!
Respect to my fellow old man making this video. Best of luck on your next young girl pick-up the next time when you drive past your local high school. I used your advice and it works. I bought a van to hit it. Keep them away from my wife, kids, and money. Even make her pay for gas and have her working for me on the corners. Life is good.
This happened to me I took young girl to a restaurant and the waitress knew her. The waitress said to her nice you have a sugar daddy! First time in my life I heard that We still see each other now and then but I said I’m not paying rent or car payments I think it works because she thinks I’m funny
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If you're pushing monogamy you're still full of shit 😤👀
Yo Rich, whats your take on OF is getting out of the pornography business?
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This is going to sound bad..
You know that smell that all puppies have on their breath?
..I accepted the advances of a 22 year old,she initiated all pursuits lol
Well..it turns out that all young women have have a certain smell to them! It took me back to my highschool days!!
Sorry NOT sorry!
Hi Rich, to proof you are right, I am older, fat and poor but I have interesting hobbies she likes and I share those with her, I also make her laugh and I often cook for her mom. With that simple things, I am fortunate this young amazing lady has been with me for 10 years already. I hope my luck doesn't run out. Cheers.
- Not having enough money.
- Falling in love.
Those are the mistakes
So true
@@Admin-qy4zi naaaah. Most people are boring. When you are younger you have some dreams, and that "spark". The worse thing you can do in your life is to be at some point a ready product. I did this mistake. Loosing that "spark" I became predictable and boring. If you are not fishing for dumb young woman - you should strive for having some higher goals and be interesting. Being that ready product you are destination. Destination isn't sexy - journey is.
the latter in the worst one
Stay in shape and take care of yourself. I’ve seen so many men this summer in their 40’s-60’s driving sports cars and they’re overweight. What’s the point of making bank if you’re gonna look like shit.
I’m lost on how anyone has an excuse for being overweight anymore; we all know what we should and shouldn’t be eating.
they pay for the women 1 hour at a time. it works for them
True...Don't have to look like a body builder, but stay tight and no gut hanging over the beltline...
That goes for the wives as well...
Because they can still fuck more young women than some obsessed gym visitor, therefore they don't feel very motivated to change that. Although, I agree with the overall point, we should take care of ourselves.
I've learned quite early that being with a woman who depends on you for her daily dose of entertainment is a recipe for misery.
Oh man this is a powerful point.
Women are easily bored, they can’t stand being alone with themselves... Drives me nuts, like... Read a book or something...
This is how you get access to the sex though. pick your battles
@@kreaturae most cannot.. it is not in their nature. women are social
I make it clear that they need to be happy with themselves FIRST.
This was one of Rich's best and useful videos. Even for younger men, having hobbies and being interesting is important. Honestly, who wants to enter HER world of shopping, Facebooking, and baby showers?
Women arent interested in your hobbies! They want you to give them attention and be their muse. Just be youself. If they dont like it move on.
@@jamesmorrin2729 Exactly. No man should be the least bit interested in her hobbies. Her hobbies, more often than not, are stupid. She wants to come into your world if she's worth af.
@@RN-gx7wt So cringe??? WTF R U Talkin bout??
Why would let such a woman into your world? You must have really low standards. There are women who do sports, read books, travel etc.
Have hobbies and friends and a lifestyle that is attractive to her and all other dudes too.
It's been a long time I watched this channel. Nothing really changed here, only me. It took some time to rewire my brain, but my life has gotten much better in return. No more chasing tail, no more dating, no more BS. I concentrate on my health, wealth, friendships, and all the other things I find important. Life has never been this good and I cannot imagine I would ever give it up for a woman.
BINGO!!
As a woman, I’ve done the same & feel the same. Maybe that’s actually the goal of life- learning to love yourself THAT much.
MGTOW...I was talking to my parents who couldn't understand my brother's divorce and I told them about how most guys don't pick up the ques, but women (and most people) telegraph how they are, will be (selfish, generous, conniving, whining)....'cut them off, that's why I'm still single.'
@@Johnslist I avoided a lot of marriages that were not good for me. Thank God I was too cautious as an automatic defensive mode that some how kept me off a very dangerous highway made up of broken heroes on a last chance powerglide....baby we were born to run.
Run from western women. Look for quiet, loyal, women who have feminine traits.
It all sounds like a lot of work. I am already too busy.
If she says she's bored, it just means your spending way to much time with her. Plain and simple
Yup bye sounds like a Shhh test
I tell her to "be more entertaining then" ;)
After the bedroom action as a older man I'm gonna get bored of her way fast...Try talking to females in their 20s...."Stop the Cap"....🤷🏽♂️
I once told my gf "well has it occurred to you that you are the boring one"
@@Diazlsx07 And then what happened?
As a seasoned gentleman myself (42) dating multiple young women (18 to 25), I haven't made bank nor do I have any particularly exotic hobbies. I do have a very interesting past (multiple years travelling the world), but this doesn't seem to be a big factor in their attraction. In my experience you can do quite well with young women just by generally having your shit together to a reasonable degree eg you're living on your own, keep your place reasonably clean and tidy, you're self-sufficient, have a respectable (but not necessarily high) income. Basically if you're secure and stable, have some vitality about you, not fat, have one or two hobbies you enjoy, and she's into older men, then she'll be happy.
Can't wait for work
Absolutely agree
As a 40 year old myself, why the hell would you even want to date an 18 year old? That’s like babysitting. They have almost nothing in common with our generation.
@@VictoryAviation Jedem Daseine=
@@ФранкМатроскин I don’t know who that is or what it means 🤷🏼♂️
Marriage is like a Tornado: "In the beginning there's a lot of blowing and sucking, then you lose your house".
Lol, brilliant
Uhhhhaaa you made my day.
They scream when they come, and take the whole house when they leave
Great philosophy 👍
Whoa 🤯 fax 📠
For the rest of us relatively poor men out there:
The most success I ever had in my dating life was when I had my own nice 2br apartment and most of my dates consisted of going to dinners (or a live standup comedy show if they were lucky) followed by a few weeks of netflix and chill.
One time we were driving and I had her lean over in my seat... After a little bit of that I pulled over and we both went in the back seat. When she left that night she cried and said she never felt so alive.
Excitement doesn't always have to be expensive.
Exactly..this guy is describing nothing but rich men,and gold diggers,it doesn't apply to the majority of men..
Lol.
@@micah6817yes, but it describes ALMOST ALL women. Sucks but true!
Well you're atractive enough, its not cause you're more fun than most men, what you described is very generic things most people do...
I'm 39. In my recent experience dating women in their 20's, 75% of them (Gen Z) into polyamory. They have no issues lying to your face that they are not polyamorous, but don't believe them. This is the reason why I don't waste time with them anymore. If all you want to do is have sex with them, then they are easy, albeit tainted.
The truth about female nature...
Female empowerment, like abortion.
All I want with them is fun but they are not easy, bro.
But that’s Gen Z, what about Millennials?
If and when neccessary I just pay them for sex if that's what they're offering. I in no shape or form want a 20 something year old in my domestic space 24/7. They LIE LIE LIE and if you spent all your money trying to impress them you'll go ballistic.
Don't ever try to date seriously a party girl. They are never good.
Don't try do really anything seriously with party girls.
Why so ?
Honestly I am pretty sure that girl this guy in the thumbnail is with is a former or was a former party girl.
@Malcolm McCorkle I agree. Try to find the quiet girl too. I've found those to be the best in bed as well. The loud ones are usually just starfishes.
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A woman will be perfectly content spending all day with a man to whom she is strongly attracted, doing only basic everyday activities, without becoming "bored" whatsoever. Boredom is often a sign of the dwindling of the honeymoon period, or of spending far too much time together. It may also be a symptom of a mismatch in the type and amount of stimulation that both members of a couple need for a sense of overall well-being. Finally, some simply lack the ability to self-reflect and address their boredom, and are instead dependent upon others for entertainment.
I completely agree that having hobbies and involving her in them is absolutely essential.
@dum that’s legit
I’ve been seeing a girl for probably over 2 years now
I work flat out and see her once and only just recently twice a week
I’ve probably gone out with her 10, maybe 15 times over that 2 year period
She just comes over, cooks our dinner, we chill, watch a movie and smash
She just enjoys my company
Well that and the good D I give her I guess 💁
very well put!
@@Flash.It-App Yah but how many times a month? If its too infrequent most likely she's also smasing other dudes 💯 Gross 😆
@@Flash.It-App You're all happy being in her rotation.
Idk lads, some girls want it more than others, others are more relaxed
Also I do think a lot of girls only want one guy at a time, if you have her mind, then she won’t fuck around
You have to judge the girl and the situation yous are in
I’m a boring guy. Boring is really important to me. Any woman 👩 I date has to not only accept it but like it.
That is a great example of maintaining frame!
I'm with you, man. I'm boring. Not their court jester.
@@pugsymalone6539 Thats just it, you don't have to be a jester and being boring works only to your detriment when it comes to options. The point of the video is to show that women are notoriously hypergamous and will absolutely trade you up even if you think she is loyal it will always be in the back of her mind.
If your life is empty and devoid of things to look forward too... guess what she won't be looking forward to you and will throw you away for some dude who would literally destroy her life and still support him because he is moving back and forth and is interesting even if it is destructive. You can choose to elevate or destroy a woman but if you have nothing to look forward too then its like being with a cat.
You don't have to entertain her, you just have to have a life thats active and whatever direction that activity goes so long as you have it and include her she will follow
@@BigBadBossu I don't disagree with the message in the video, I get it. What I'm saying that I've played that game and it always ends the same. I'm now boring as in; I will live a low-key life in a nice home, eat and drink well, have a nice garden and well trained, well cared for pets. If a gal wants to join me in that, fine. I will not leave my comfort zone to get laid by a squirrel who will never be satisfied with the status quo.
@@BigBadBossu
Listen to yourself, you are exactly right she'll "always" want to trade up. Nature has a plan for survival of the human race. That includes frequent, promiscuous sex with all sorts of genetic variety. Does that sound like it heavily involves you, as one man? No. It doesn't.
Accept your lot in life, she will move on no matter who you are or what you do. Unless... you successfully keep her miserable, and why in the world would you hope to do that. Its just your turn. Be a man and move on too.
Be interesting and exciting because it's what you like being. Never try to be something hoping it will get you women. Firstly because it's too much work inventing a persona that you think is what women want, secondly it's fake. You know it and they will recognize it sooner or later. Do things you love and be engaged in your passions, be authentic and genuine in your interests and you will be satisfied and fulfilled with or without a woman. Be that kind of man and you won't have to "try hard" your way into women being interested in you. I see so many guys asking for tips and tricks and what is the secret to getting girls, well there is no secret. Either you are the kind of guy that people want to be around because it's just who you are or you aren't. Be the man you dreamed of being when you were a kid and be awesome!
Well said 👏
👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾 I too caught myself feeling and seeing this way
That's real talk right there. Be happy with yourself and let everything else come along. Who wants to be around someone who's not happy with being around themselves
Now this is solid perspective.👍
Post more or upload some contents of your own. It will be helpful.
Well said Zach, you have to be who you are.
You're so right Richard and I love the way you put that...
"Your not going into her world, You're inviting her into yours."
Giving them your money when they don't deserve or earn it.
That's what's wrong with most people. You can't have a taste of the sushi for free. This guy is completely on his game. Women aren't free, nor cheap. You got to pay, to play. ON TOP Of being an interesting person to be around like he alluded in the video. Good looking, wealthy men are almost a dime a dozen now with the tech jobs and entrepreneurs around.
Well where has the pure relationships gone to? More importantly, if she is in need of money for luxus desires, perhaps she has some struggles with her self esteem? Maybe just stay away from women that depend on luxury for esteem boost too much!
When I was growing up and I said to mom that I was bored, she would say "boredom comes from within". More and more I realize her wisdom. If I have to entertain a woman all the time when I am with her, she will ALWAYS have to be entertained by me making me obligated to entertain her. Rich makes a great point that we should be involved in our hobbies and have fun interests but a woman has to put in some effort to the relationship too. Otherwise its just another train wreck situation.
I agree 💯 with you. I am not here to be someone's feather and tickle them everytime they get an itch.
This is the truth
I say something similar all the time.
"Circumstances aren't boring. Only people are boring. Being bored is a choice."
I agree. Do something interesting. Lots of guys loose hobbies after they are married. Wife’s don’t like husbands to have hobbies. Hobbies take up time away from them. I see it in young couples all the time. When I see older people divorce he doesn’t know what to do. He lost friends because of the wife. This older gentleman lost his wife and a few weeks later he found someone new so he could attend to her needs. His kids asked why would he do that. It’s because he has no friends and doesn’t have hobbies, he doesn’t know what to do with his time. It’s sad. Men are taught to give everything up for family. When you see a woman who lost her husband continues to see her friends and do things. Why because a guys “friends” used/are her friends husbands. Not a lot of connection most of the time.
It's disgusting to be honest on all fronts. And EVERYONE knows this subconsciously, yet still tends to their selfish desires even in a marriage. I've heard of women who are uncomfortable with their significant other being fit because of their insecurities.
That whole "give up everything for family" thing needs to stop. We not in the past anymore.
I can totally relate. WHen I was married in the past , I ended up losing touch with friends , not doing the things I liked . All because she had issues with it all . Even gym was an issue because she wasnt into the gym and was very insecure etc . I started doing these things again after the divorce. Many of my old friends are now married and so I dont see them because they are now doing what I used to do !
@@MrTimjm009 Richard Cooper calls this the "beta"-nizing by a thousand concessions.
When I Heard that for the first time, I understood what he meant based on past relationships
Very true. Especially if the wife has no hobbies she will grow tired of sitting around the home doing nothing while the husband is out enjoying his hobby. Men should never give up their hobbies/ interest.
I've never been married, but from what I see most wives do NOT want their husbands to have hobbies. As you say, the wives see his hobbies as taking time away from HER. And \ or it's money that could be spent ON HER. There's no way I would want to be in a situation like that.
I hear what you're saying but I'm in my 40's and think that entertaining/dating younger women is for the most part a waste of time, money and effort. You will be much better off and happier devoting your time to your own career and development.
I got divorced at 47 and spent the next 8 years trying to partner up wasting tons of money and time. I’m 56 now absolutely loving my single life but like the occasional play date/sleepover as long as they leave in the morning 🤣🤣💪🏼
@@joziewales1965 I hope your getting tested for STI🤮🤢
We can always control our time, money and effort. That gives you higher value, which women are attracted to. When you don't try to impress to get the putang, is when the legs spread.
@@joziewales1965 tell it to the Judge ... at the Great White Throne.
I'm in my early 30s and I dated a woman in her mid 20s and even then I could feel the generational difference between us. Not sure if the age gap mentioned here will work long-term but there's always exceptions to the rule. Right now I have no interest in dating since I've been busy just working on myself. Got a new career path lined up and saved so much money and keeping fit.
That’s not an age gap
Its not an age gap.... must be some personality difference.
At 55 I mostly date girls from 20-30. The closer they are to 20, the more I have to consult urban dictionary.
I have to look up A LOT of new slang every time we text!
But in the end, it's worth it. They're still so much nicer and sweeter and more appreciative than older women.
My Cabin was a great thing I built up starting 20 years ago. Sure building the cabin, but also the land. Just this year I took one girl out to pick raspberries, blue berries and black berries. Then made jam with her those evenings. She had never made jam before, never canned anything and here she was on a date doing and learning. Thinking of little things like that and not just going out for other entertainment, but being able to make your own where you lead and she is following and learning how you live your life is better.
Make money. Make muscles. Learn game. Hold frame.
This strategy will last you about 2 years. Then she mentally checks out no matter what. Just pump and dump.
'Frame' hahaha wow I'd forgotten all about the 2000s.
I had heaps of much younger girls back in the day without being a big money earner, though I had the looks and was a bit of a rock star ...
@@silverfox6883 Congrats to you for being good looking and being a rock star. Besides you gloating about it, how does this information help the rest of us?
@@silverfox6883Yeah, you’re such a flake! You must have over 1k dislikes! Too bad they don’t show! Mine’s one.
Just started dating a girl nearly 30 and i m 47. Your video was VERY useful, solid advice.. Its in our hand as well to simply show them that we are not an ATM for them.
Be confident, be funny, be interesting, be fit, be stylish, be sincere, be honest, be high-value, be wary.
Great Video Richard. The reason why a lot men are boring is because they get into long term relationships at an early age. They spend most of their 20s and 30s perusing and pleasing woman. Then once in a long term relationship, all of their ambitions, goals and sadly , testosterone, dies. I cant tell you how many of my friends who are either married with children or live with their girlfriends who are just plain boring. Work,home then repeat. Aside from men focusing on their path to success, the opposite of why men are boring can be applied, and that is they are more focused on being “a good guy” to a woman who will leave them for another man who has many hobbies. This almost happened to me. I lived with my then girlfriend for almost 3 years and i saw all my interest in hobbies and lifestyle fade away and now they are back.
My advice is become an enthusiast of something. Whatever it is (cars,gym,boats,planes,traveling ect). Point is, your interesting hobbies should be about 30% of your lifestyle aside from chasing excellence. You may even find excellence in that hobby. Cheers
You have a good point. As a chick, I enjoy men who are passionate about something other then p***y.
I enjoy learning new things and being exposed to or helping fix car types I don't know or gadgets is really interesting.... Also, having the space to breathe sometimes while they do that stuff is a stress reliever. Absence makes heart grow fonder sometimes.
Leading with money is no different than buying an expensive garden tool.
Expensive pros are cheaper.
This all comes down to age...Us older guys know the score...If we have to pay we pay...Us older guys don't fall in love so easy....
@@brianvesta We're too tired for love.
Garden tools can be put to good use and you dont have to waste time entertaining them! Get down to business.
@@jamesmorrin2729 😂🤣😂
Always better to rent
3 F's rule. If it floats, flies or fuqs it is better to rent than buy.😎
@@MX-CO if you have to ask 😬
@@MX-CO problem is women always want more.. every time she sees you she’s hoping you’d want escalate - men are just fine with occasional fun, women on the other hand want to know ” where is this going “ therein lies the problem. 😬
@@MX-CO short answer: overseas - women in the west are destroyed by a combination of factors including but not limited to feminism and divorce laws which are 100% on their side. Good news is such unfair divorce laws are not in effect in 85% of the world hence interacting with women in the west feels like dealing with a man in a woman's body, whereas women in other places are actually feminine, desirable and pleasant. This all has to do with economics. When a woman does not need you economically, her entire demeanor and outlook is changed. You will quickly notice the difference in a woman's femininity and appeal in places such as Argentina, Colombia, Brazil, panama, East Europe etc. Or if you're into Asian women, Asia. You will never get a woman in the west to be what you want her to be. They make it look like they are enjoying casually dating you when in fact, they are like a baker who is giving you a sample of his cake in the hope that you will be buying the whole cake. This btw is coming from a person with experience of 350+ women from all regions of the world ;-)
@@MX-CO nor was I suggesting anything of the sort. Just have your fun and move on..
Rich: Don't lead with money
Also Rich: You need to show up driving a $300K car
@@peter11947 yes the care if its a super car or camaro... Yes they know how much super cars are worth even if they've never seen or heard of the vehicle... Women use Google to see what stuff costs man
@@peter11947 I totally agree.. I'm just speaking on the way a lot of gold diggers operate.. They do it to you every day.. Anytime you see a woman out in public, if youre fast enough you'll catch her look at your shoes in like a millisecond and then proceed to speak or whatnot
If they won't go for a ride in my 4-seat airplane and be into it, they not for me. Gotta like skydiving, roller coasters, white-water rafting and bungee jumping.
I actually prefer you show up in your Toyota/Honda so I know you aren’t trying to impress with toys. Most men who utilize toys & money makes me pull back instantly because I think you are trying over compensate & trying to use money to impress me. It shows a lack of confidence too. I want to get to know YOU, the person/soul. No money really necessary. We can sip water out of our water bottles strolling down the sidewalk, sitting on a bench, laughing & talking. Save the fancy meals/experiences for special occasions like anniversaries & vacations.
lol
I brought a girl home to try to spin Drum & Bass records on my turntables. She was floored by how complicated it was to line up the 8/16 bars...and to understand the key and melody between tracks She was puddy in my hands afterwards.
Yeah, that'll last.
Being interesting/entertaining to women is the single most useful piece of advice I've ever heard
Sorry, Rich. Not interested in becoming an entertainment coordinator. I'd rather just pay a "time sharing" fee when I'm looking for "companionship".
My way of thinking as well. What he is saying is too much work for little value. I could be spending that time making more money or working on my hobbies. Living in a big city has the advantage of wide selection of young pretty girls with paid arrangement. If the first few times go well she can be regular. Also add more young girls to fill when she is not available. Also, you don't get attached.
EXACTLY!
Give the burden of performance on them. Why should you protect the house if she doesn't make you a coffee every morning? stuff like that
Y'all are kinda missing the subtext here. He said invite her into your world. Meaning, you don't have to "entertain". Therefore, you can keep more of your money AND you can do whatever the fuck YOU want to do. She's just along for the ride, having fun, and staying engaged.
@@hlgoodkat9677 No buddy, we get it. If you find a girl who´s worth it from time to time, go for it. But most of the time, these 304´s arent worthy of that time with you, they are not worth the squeeze, give you only headaches. That´s why im most of the time with Joker. And as Bud said, most of the time it´s more peaceful and relaxing to just pay for the fun.
Call me crazy but I am sticking with my 54 year old wife . The only person I can trust.
This is good advice, broadly speaking. However, what happens if she lets herself go? I find this happens to many married women over 40.
@@damienhunt4264 She's asian. They don't let themselves go.
@@Jetsetfastfood nice
I thought I could trust mine after 43 yrs.....she left 2 days ago
@@walterpetronella1595 She probably had a good reason.
Can’t stress this enough I’m 40 now and I try to explain this to my peers. Yes you’re successful but one you’re not going to find the women you want doing the same thing you’ve been doing the last 30 years which is spending all your free time playing video games get out into the world yeah you make bank but does it matter if you go home and sit in the house after work or business? You’ll never get and keep the women you want if you turn into a hermit soon as work hours are over.
That's my problem. I can go out and get women. I just never do. Prefer my solitude. Peace is a helluva drug.
It's alot easier to go out to night spots in your 20s & 30s and pick up chicks...Try doing that in your 50s...It looks pitifull.... Only place I know where 50+ guys can pick up young fit chicks and not look ridiculous is Thailand.....
@@brianvesta no dude. Go out during the day and live your life. THEY will find you. Forget about nightlife, believe it or not they are bored of that too. They only find young jackasses like we were. The whole reason they like older dudes is because we're not doing that young mans game anymore and they know that
@@JMV005 Young hot women are not going find you if you're 50+....You can't real use day game like that at that age better off pay for play...
and then spend all the money on them.....🥱
I’m a girl and I approve this message 👏🏼
Well, I think we can all breathe a sigh of relief knowing that.
Hola, mami!
I use the master-slave approach. Do you approve? Thanks.
I never attracted women by my looks. Women stated they were attracted to my personality and my humor. Thank God that doesn’t fade with age!
They lied to you. They were attracted by your looks or money, period.
I’m 37 and is not considered the age group that you’re talking about, it I see exactly what you’re talking about! You attract who you’re, and that’s the equation. I’ve been working on myself since divorce and I would say my confident level have spiked to the roof!
Never ignore the heavily tattooed chicks they are always broken...
Yep. I met a woman recently and she was interested. Invited her out one day and she was getting yet another tattoo. Rich described her perfectly. She always calls herself a badA$sB. Unfollowed her yesterday. She's trouble and even admitted how insecure she is.
Regardless of the mindset of tattooed girls, I find the tattoos themselves extremely unattractive. I can massively want a girl, but then if she has one large tattoo all the attraction is instantly gone. I’d honestly rather they had a massive birth mark or scar.
It’s masculine and just pretty gross. Like putting a giant bumper sticker on a Ferrari.
@@AndrewEvenstar I don't agree. A little ink never hurt anyone. However, the new generation of Woke women are confrontational femi-nazis out looking for a fight. They lead with their politics. These women are truly broken.
@@FineBlueAgave I don't mind a couple small tattoos but this girl has ink everywhere. Also it was her presence on social media that turned me off big time after we hung out.
I got with a chick that had pennywises face tattooed on her thigh. Most repulsive thing to look at as your about to go down or have her legs in the air lol.
Spot on I'm 38 dating a 26 yr old and as soon as I stop doing "Fun" shit ie:socializing shit goes stale. Tried just giving her cash to go to the mall & do her own thing, but she complains unless I go with her and make it "Fun".
I hope you know how bad that sounds
Lol ... tell her you always found spanking to be fun, now lay across my legs.
@@tonyh1345 Lmao how?
Women also have to be interesting and fun not just men. I got rid of my ex because she was dumb and couldn't hold an intelligent conversation.
I'm the one getting bored with them usually. I couldn't care less about what they want and how they feel. I just let them enjoy their self-made little Disney drama as long as it doesn't affect me and most importantly it doesn't waste my time. As Rollo says, their twisted imagination is the best tool you can use to your advantage... and it requires zero effort. It can't get any easier than that.
They are so bad at everything other than faking looking good. No skills, No Interest for socializing with with outside of sex.
@@Nemesistyx lmfao at faking looking good. I still don’t get how we are fooled in this day
Okay, so if you don't like women, then date guys.
Twisted imagination to your advantage? How sad that is. Using each other up.
"Sweet dreams are made of this
Who am I to disagree?
I travel the world and the seven seas
Everybody’s looking for something
Some of them want to use you
Some of them want to get used by you
Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abused..."
I’ve got to respectfully disagree to a point. I’m 50/50 on this. Any girl that can’t just be content with your company is not a girl you’d want around long-term.
Those are just jezebels, and they’re the kind of girls that will ruin your life. If a girl is truly into you, she’ll be content just sitting and talking with you on the porch, with a few glasses of wine.
If your looking for those types of girls to just have fun with, for a shorter amount of time, then I suppose you’ve got a point, but not if you’re looking for a better quality girl.
If a girl REALLY likes you, she’ll follow your lead on just about anything. She’ll literally alter her entire life and become just like you.
agree 100%
Totally agree with you, but would add that interesting active hobbies are still important. It could be aa simple as hiking or urban photography. Neither take much dollar investment.
100% agreed. But unfortunately in this age of social media and disney fantasies , most girls just want to get excited everyday. As long as girls are having these narsissitic, unrealistic attitude being normal is not enough. And Long-term relationships are almost impossible now days. So overall if you want sex follow what rich says.
and… who needs long term 😬
Jordan B. Peterson is the dad I never had.
Richard Cooper is the uncle I never had.
Ironically the chicks are the most boring SMDH
YES and im a chick in my 20s haha
Ahh Peterson has some screws loose....
Peterson has gone a bit south, I don't hate the guy but he's been having it rough the past few years.
"You have to give them something to look forward to..." No man, not my job. If a girl finds you attractive you can do no wrong. If she doesn't think you are attractive, but wants your resources, thats a total waste of your time from day 1.
100 percent this. If you are trying hard too much it means she is not attracted to you. Attractive men don't need to entertain her, they are his entertainment.
Amen to that!
Life is a balancing act. I learned very early on that being world class at anything requires sacrificing other aspects of your life. Its much more effective being a jack of all trades in life as it will give you more balance, more knowledge and allow you to have a more worldly and interesting personality.
And with regards to women, I’m personally looking for a team player rather than a party hopper. The minute the party stops, she’ll simply find another party.
Everything you said makes sense. I'm a 37-year-old guy it took me awhile to get to where I'm at financially. I have the means to take myself and a woman traveling to different countries. My main hobby is travel going to different beaches and jet skiing, museums, food and going to the gun range. Sometimes when I travel cross country being in the desert or wilderness and setting up target and shooting outdoors with no hearing protection. That part might frighten her a bit because I'm sure it would take some trust to lead up to it.
But my main thing is international travel and going to interesting places.
Im half deaf, carry ear plugs or campact muffs or be exciting and buy NFA silencers! Legally purchased suppressors dont require additional paperwork to cross state lines like other NFA items
That’s the life.
I second that, either get license for suppressor, or use ear plugs with noise activated ear muffs over them. I've got ten different ringing sounds in my ears 24/7. Its very mentally exhausting, and makes it hard to understand what people say, but not due to volume but the ringing will cancel out a syllable of a word or a whole word. You end stopping talking in groups because people get tired of repeating themselves. Heed my words. Also goes for lawn equipment too.
Protect your hearing as much as possible. You'll wonder WTF I was thinking when you are dependent on hearing aids for normal conversation.
Dude, she ain’t gonna like you when your deaf.
You're right on the hobbies part. I have many hobbies. Finding ladies that also like those same hobbies and live close to me in nearly impossible. So to ladies that don't share the same hobbies or interest I come off as boring very fast.
In the me too era, dating a young lady in Canada or the US is a great way to get into trouble. Nothing gets a girl thinking like a supercar, a yacht or a private jet.
Goldiggerss
You speak the truth here, brother! I am 59 now and the younger women (20-35+ years, not bragging), I have "entertained" nowadays expect to be taken care of and entertained. Whether it be frequent shopping sprees, international travel, luxury vehicles, etc., these gals are more attracted to my perceived wealth rather than me, my physique, or my older looks. I am tired of it really. I have realized that if I do not acquiesce to this mode of thinking, I will remain by myself or just have to look for older women who have their own money. I won't be a "sugar daddy" for any young "pooty-tat". They are typically a depreciating asset in most cases!
Well said. U are a an atm. If you looking for love date in your age group period.old should always bear in mind that it's only the purse that attracts young women. And moreover these young girls get passed around by a lot of men.
Love and relationship are never mentioned in anyone's videos about dating. The veil has been destroyed.
Its ALL about "body-count"...
Everybody is so superficial - their "hobbies" so overrated. Really, who is going to give a hoot 50 years from now.
Number one mistake: dating a younger woman just to have sex with her instead of treating a date as an interview for a potential life partner, then wondering why it doesn't end well. If you treat her like a prostitute, she's going to realize she's being treated like a prostitute, and the relationship will end the same way.
As a woman, at first I disagreed. But then I thought about it… you’re right. I have my own money and a huge list of hobbies but I find that I want the man to show me that he would make my life better… men my age (I just turned 25) don’t know how to work, have fun, no hobbies, and are stuck up they think their looks and money are enough.
You basically said that women want substance in this video. Very true… and is why I usually go for men older than me.
Young men were thrown overboard a generation ago.
I once angered a woman on purpose. Kept saying she didn't know what she was talking about and she was wrong. Was in bed with me within an hour of meeting her. So yes. You can do anything but bore her
So you bored her so badly that she took a nap.
@@thechristianmale129 Good one.
Im not sure i understand, did the sex bore her?
@@dannywholuv It was a joke ,they didn't have sex, she went to "bed" with him, and the punch line was he was so boring she fell asleep.
He picked A- Aron as his name, hints at a funny guy making a funny joke....come on it was a good one, keep up.
I'm not a subscriber, but I'll watch a recommended video from time to time. Like anyone, I don't agree with 100% of your content and don't disagree with 100% of your content, but occasionally, I'll take something away from the videos and enjoy them. However, your line: "You're not entering their world, she's being invited to enter your world" is spot on, and one of the best things I've heard on this channel. It's great advice for older guys looking to date younger, and most older guys think they've got to act young or "cool" or whatever, but that's not why younger women are into you. She's into you because you're an older, seasoned man- lean into it. Don't send stupid emoji texts. Don't be an immature goof. Be the older, masculine man that lured her in the first place. It's not only great advice for older men, but it is good advice to younger guys too. Have your life plans, lay them out, and give her the opportunity to fit into it, don't alter it for her. Lay out who you are, what your vision is, and where you're headed. If she's interested, she'll adapt and squeeze herself into your world, not the other way around.
The “you can do anything you want to women except bore them” quote… it makes my skin crawl
….or just have a fun FWB deal (which is the most realistic for an age gap over 12yrs) until she "gets bored" and move on; you're likely to get bored of her too. Especially if we're talking around the 20yr age gap where you're 40's vs her 20's, you'd be a fucking fool to think there's anything more there than temporary lust. That's where I'm at now and it's fun....but you GOTTA be ready for that gap in maturity. Also, you're ALWAYS gonna have a YUGE advantage if you're as fit as can be for your age. I barely make six figures a year but I've been training RELIGIOUSLY with kettlebells and calisthenics for decades so @ almost 50 I'm built like lean & agile college wrestler with a flat stomach; not a six pack (that's hard as you get older) but solid flat stomach. My friend is 50 and has stayed solid fit his whole life...his daughter's girlfriends in college tell her straight up "Your dad is a DILF, I'd totally do him". This cannot be emphasized enough. Get as fit as you can for YOURSELF, and it'll give you a tremendous edge with women while reaping all the benefits of optimal health.
They don't want you, old man.
@@sonyarowe1327 You seem salty lol.
@@sonyarowe1327 you're clueless. I'd bet you're an aging woman extremely jealous of younger women so much so that you've already "gone under the knife" or injected yourself with synthetic garbage to keep up with your much younger counterparts.
@@sonyarowe1327 In many ways, you're right. They certainly don't want me for marriage or any serious relationship of any kind, and I feel the same way about them. Most of them are in "serious relationships" with guys their age. They just want to come over a couple of times a week, get fucked real good for an hour and go on with their lives. To me that's heaven on earth and I'm happy to oblige.
@@chunkwobbler2544 Smart man.
Rich, you nailed this one. Even here in Costa Rica where the girls seem to fall from the trees, seasoned gentlemen with cash and no game have a hard time. When the only thing a guy has to talk about is his job and cable network news, he is destined to become some senorita's ATM.
I heard Costa Rica has a big prostitution scene, is that true? I’m actually planning to go there next year by myself and take advantage of the young beautiful women over there.
@@David-fw4ly HUGE prostitution scene. And two dinosaur theme parks just a couple miles off the coast.
@@BuckROCKGROIN Cool, have you been there before? I heard it’s good to spend at least a day in San Jose where there is one famous brothel/hotel, then to head over to Jaco beach where there are lots of beautiful young women for rent for the evening. I was actually in Costa Rica 3 months ago but was with my family so I didn’t do anything like that.
@@David-fw4ly Not yet. But someday. I heard columbia is good too.
sorry but Costa Rica is for unsophisticated men who simply don’t know better and haven’t been around enough to know there are million places better including the neighboring Panama. Costa Rica is simply low class
Yup. Being "boring" is a cardinal sin when meeting and maintaining relationships with women.
But it seems its OK for women to be boring?
I feel this is harder as an introvert. I do like going out every so often, since I do get tired of staying at home. But I am not into things that are so "thrilling", such as riding a speedboat, rock climbing, riding tall/fast roller coasters, off roading, etc. Some of the places I like to go to are to learn something such as a museum, visiting historic landmarks, trying unique food, watching a live show, or checking out some kind of festival or local event. I do like going exploring around local cities and photograph unique things. As an introvert I like doing things that are more relaxing and may learn something new. There's women who like these too, but it seems it's mainly middle aged and older mature women who are into these kinds of activities. Not most women in their 20s.
Also, it seems trying to have a knowledge of pop culture, history, trivia and current events from reading and watching many videos doesn't really seem to impress young women either.
If she is bored with you, you lack connection. Everything becomes a joy with the right person.
You nailed it again
I noticed most girls will tell you they are doing nothing or bored it's their default state in this state she's inviting you to ask her to do something interesting
I noticed a girl will become more interested if i talk about my hobbies with her
If she's not interested in your hobbies then sucks she is taken or busy i her life and not ready for you
And it's better to not waste your time getting her interested
A man thing is passion and hobbies or adventure and sport and most women Don't have those or suck at them and taking the lead in introducing her to your passion is how you connect with her or rather how she connect with you
A good example of an older guy who dated a hot young girl was that professor who dated a sport girl and they went to live on various forests around the world, the woman was strong and hunt but the man had knowledge about plants and animals and could guide her Thro their adventure, that's how he kept her interested and not bored with him
As an older guy 68 I agree. Guys my age are no fun. Lost their sense of adventure. Their duds. Talk themselves out of every new thing that takes a little effort. I don't blame any woman for avoiding them.
60yrs upwards I don't they should be chasing skirts especially young women bcos u will used and get hurt. Just stick to your age group. If u want to be happy and fulfilled. U will be used for your purse .jeez who wants to fuck with an old wrinkled man .....u will be kept a secret not seen in public. Period
By that age isn't the little engine down stares pretty much not running anymore? I think by than I wouldn't care as much but I'm sure there are still men that have a high labido at that age I mean Hugh Hefner certainly did maybe to the end as well I think.
One of the best dates I took a girl on was Nordic skating on a big lake. She’d never done it before and found it really exciting.
I know this goes against most advice. I just ask them if there's anything they've got on their box. Let's go tick it off because honestly I've gone almost everything I wanted to do.
You don't even know that person and you already do all this stuff. Too much investment and wasted time for someone you don't know. A drink or two and pull. If things go well you'll have plenty of time to do these things when you get to know her better
@@raff5184 I agree. I'm assuming more than just 1 date.
Skál 💀🍻
It’s not just lifestyle, it’s personality... a lot of these guys are timid and low energy/not talkative... it’s hard to change that without depending on substances. Just date the woman that loves you not the one you love and she’ll always try to prove herself to you
Great advice Rich, thanks for sharing. You can also keep yourself more interesting by observing the world around you, noticing trends and characteristics of people, neighborhoods and trends. And watching good video channels, listening to interesting podcasts and reading a variety of good books. This way you can talk about a number of different topics, and be able to continue or steer conversations in the direction you want. Which makes you a better leader compared to most guys, who just listen to mainstream news or don't stay current with new or different content.
Are you serious? Man are dudes on here dumb.
Relationships and women in general are becoming more difficult as time goes on
yep. and it's because competition has gone up. worldwide economy has had a mass effect.
people are meeting less in person, where you typically could attract local women
But hey, just keep working on yourself (or at least keep up your appearance) because sometimes you never know who might come along
This is interesting. I once dated a girl that had money and did really cool interesting things, but she herself was actually boring and had a boring personality. I could be at a rock concert with her but be bored. I could be at Six Flags Great Adventure with her and be bored. Vice versa, other girlfriends I dated I could be home with absolutely nothing to do and have a good time talking with them and hanging out.
I've learned that buying more toys doesn't make you interesting. Same with making more money or getting more education. Either you are interesting or you're not. I don't do women who're after my resources, whatever those would be. It's me that's interesting or nothing is.
I could also hunt for my food but I prefer to just straight up pay for a good meal and leave.
I am a nearly 80 year old man. The first mistake an older man has in dating a younger woman is.......dating a younger woman. They are so immature, inexperienced, insecure, chasing an impossible dream and quite honestly lack the experience to really satisfy not only the psychological needs of an older man but also the sexual needs. Younger women need more time to grow, mature, gain wisdom and experience. Younger women also tend to be too emotional about unimportant things.
Dang…you nailed it. We don’t care about the money, can you intellectually interest me? We crave being invited into your world & pouring into you & doing things with you. We have our own money but can you be a companion that I can converse & laugh with.
I would invite them to my house for a date and make them watch when I paint warhammer miniatures for 4 hours. 😁
Hahah. I'd teach her Aircraft R/C flight.
😆
Being boring is a great way to get a so-so chick to go away.
and having a "fake interesting" personality will make her go away as well.
If you want her to go away, I found the quickest way from experience, is to pick your nose while talking to her. 😂
Excellent vid, Rich. Good spot on points. Hell, I'm now mid-sixties and 10-15 yrs ago I decided was time to get serious about my look (always considered myself average), game (had no game, didn't really even know what it meant), and start taking more risks (albeit calculated ones) in career and with women. It's paid off in a big way, both financially and with the women in my life. And I've never married (thank God). One thing I've learned, and I believe it's one thing that challenges all us men living in western cultures, is to choose women wisely. I had NOT chosen wisely for most of my life, and suffered because of it. I'm now only interested in high self-esteem, intelligent daddy's girls, for lack of a better term. (Basically women who when I ask them about their dad's immediately speak in glowing terms about them). I'd rather keep spinning plates (win-win) than settle for something (someone) I know I can get just because they look good or make good money. Again, thank you and keep em comin, brother!
So you made these changes at around the age of 50? I just turned 50 and am in the same boat you were in 15 years ago. Was wondering if it's possible to change?
Do you think that you are missing out on genuine love by spinning plates for the rest of your life? How do you envision the last few years of your life?
So maintain the image of being boring to keep your peace and sanity. Got it. 💪
As one of the "Tyrones" I still have to game and impress these women and face the markets on weekdays. Hard work never ends for a man. That's why I dig this channel.
1. Women don’t care how much $ u have if u don’t spend it on them. I never tell women I have $. Just be a good looking n a good bs’er n u’ll be fine
There are two sides of a mid-life crisis:
1. Buy a Corvette.
2. Date a woman in her 20's.
The Corvette is cheaper.
I think I got lucky.. I am 60 my wife is 33, we have been married 14 years and we never have had a fight or even a serious argument, we have one daughter ... Our life is pretty good
God bless you
Do the math. 33 - 14. You are a creep
^ Yeah that’s kind of f*cked
@@majormarketing6552 did the math she was 19 when we married... whats make that so creepy to you?... also creeps lurk in the dark. is your life so perfect you can judge others for being happy?
@@Hapfletcher She is so cheating on you right now. A 60 year old fart cannot satisfy a 33 year old woman. And yes, you're a creep for marrying a woman young enough to be your daughter when she was a teenager. A forty six year old with a teenager means she has major daddy issues, and you just want to bang your daughter. I feel bad for the daughter that the two of you have together. One parent looks like her sister, and the other looks like her grandpa.
It's so true...as a younger man I would date older women all the time and I was being invited into their world. I dated a woman for 1 year and she never came to my place I would always go there and spend the night there.
So, I'm one of those "seasoned' guys (I'm 67) that Rich is talking about; he and I actually talked about this stuff over the phone. Though I still take women out to dinner (going tonight, in fact), I've also done the following:
1. Worked on my physique and have taken off 20 lbs of fat and added back 5 lbs of lean muscle.
2. Lifting heavy stuff
3. Joined a Dojo.
4. Am fronting the idea of off-roading in my T4R to keep it "interesting"; while this has gotten me far more traffic of the feminine variety, I find they view off-roading with both exhilaration AND trepidation.
5. Using professional photography on dating apps.
6. Am now using the "ultimate female aphrodisiac": confidence.
Still using an online approach but with each of Rich's suggestions, the return on investment has been, frankly, astounding.
You should be doing all that stuff for yourself not women. Fuck em if they’re bored.
So let me ask you a question. With all this knowledge about women, do you thing that your happy ? I mean rather than pushing guys into new relations with "hot girls it would be better to build a happy life with the right person and with good friends, good job. But "good" every where doesn't belong to this world, it's how to deal with struggles what makes the difference between real man and a simple male. I agree with a lot of your ideas but you have to put the woman in the equation so the benefit goes to the family, and that makes the man the woman and the children happy. The family is the unity wich built a healthy society
A good lesson from this channel on what cars to avoid - Every in-car video I've seen lately is "taking the McLaren to the dealership for repairs". 😂
In general all true - when I was 30 and dating a 24 year old it didn’t matter she was top-of-her class college educated, she revealed no clue or preference for what she might like doing. I had to guess and often fell into what I liked to do, which caused only boredom.
This is so true. I'm getting to mid forties. Done a lot in my life. Had a record deal, single in the charts, been a school director, lived abroad. Ticked the boxes for an interesting life but now am burnt out. All those experiences are done and over. Can't live on past glories forever.
If a man has to entertain her the whole time, i would rather be single.
I still have trouble understand what "being boring" really is. And what is "exciting" for that matter? If I go out of my way to "not be boring" by doing things that I do not find interesting, fruitful, engaging etc., then what is the point of that?
Each woman is different. but bottom line is: make her attracted to you and like talking to you.
I would tell you what I think he means by 'don't be boring' but then you might steal my secret ;)
I'm 40 and I can't even land a 38 year old. It became clear to me when I was 32 and not even able to land a 30 year old. Single then and single now. Funny thing is my act is together great. Nice car, house, $ in the bank, no debt and so on. Ladies are delusional on standards and I don't click any boxes.
Same as you. I’ve always worked hard and never been fired from a job in my life. I’ve got money in the bank and debt free. I’ve never been particularly flashy. I drive a 2003 Tacoma that I love and maintain. I’ve never owned a sports car. I’ve always considered myself down-to-earth. I guess that’s not enough.
@@thebrowithnoname1703 Immediately buy a used 2004 Black Corvette (C5). Best used sports car bang for the buck ride.
Women notice vettes. ...and the C5 looks a lot better than the last 16 years of updated vettes. Buy a black one...then use Maquires three stage polishing kit for black paint to make it look better than new paint. YOU will be amazed at how much fun you have in affordable super car that is reliable and doesn't require pampering.
I listen to you from time to time boss. Since I only see some of your videos, it must be really good ones and I’m always enjoying what I see. I don’t know how I missed that you have a book so I’m gonna give that a check out, as someone who is gifted genetically, I’m seeing how being in shape with some money can really go along way. And I’m only 5’6 5’7 a good day.
He’s right, was able to hold a relationship like this for 10 years after that it became difficult.
So not only do I have to have lots of money, but now I also have to change my hobbies to things that THEY like?? Guess I'm staying single.
I inherited "being boring" from my dad.
Granted, he busted his butt for us, and I respect him for it, but I have the tendency to be boring.
I'm good looking and women love my physique, but you can't bore them.
Having cool experiences under your belt can help too, and can serve as conversation pieces.
that sums it up for me
I honestly find it a blessing these days to be considered boring (quiet). It gives a clear view of people you should/shouldn’t have in your life. Women that easily get bored of me are women that I should’ve never bothered in the first place.
@@calleocho2107 I get your point, but it's just a weak excuse. It has much more downsides.
Wrong mindset guys. Always expect vv0men to entertain you not the other way around. Being a dancing-monkey for them has never worked and never will. I'm always the one judging them and I state that very clearly during the interaction... They usually pretend to be upset but I know they love the challenge because they always make an extra effort to impress me.
Boring--he means just live your own life-if you’re the point of origin you’re automatically interesting. If she becomes the point of interest, and she’s an idiot, you’ll lose her. If you’re holding her at an arms length then she will be more likely to put in the work. It’s biological. My husband plays phone games when he’s not working and I hate it-but I’m not a cunt so I do the work to gain his attention. Modern women aren’t as easy to train but it can work.
Don't give any broad any tips on finance or how to build a business etc. unless it's your daughter, sister etc.
@Ramzes Motoa Yeah like don't wipe from back to front 🤣
I completely agree! Be exciting to women! Be bold! Be nothing like they’ve never seen! Be an exciting adventure.
It's about hanging out, having fun, and hooking up.
My man is 12 older than me he born in 1980 and I born 1992 ! So true you say ! Thanks for the video
Being a former US Army Paratrooper I took a young girl skydiving with my friends she screamed when we exited the aircraft all the way down to earth, I asked her how was it she was fucking speechless.
Yeah I get the same reaction when I got nothing but my nuts hanging out
Why you gotta be so extra
Well shit. Whats the chances i could arrange to take her into a hot lz in a 53 then on to some helo casting ?
But that’s like, the whole money thing. It’s not really you..
Super cool 👌🏾🤣🌻🌞🌈🦄
Well, if you're inviting them to wear that nice thing you like and come ride with you in your $300k car, then that kind of sounds like you're leading with your money, doesn't it?!
Yeah, Rich talks a good game.
100%. That's my fiance and me, we have a 12 years gap, yet he checks all the correct boxes you mentioned.
Respect to my fellow old man making this video. Best of luck on your next young girl pick-up the next time when you drive past your local high school. I used your advice and it works. I bought a van to hit it. Keep them away from my wife, kids, and money. Even make her pay for gas and have her working for me on the corners. Life is good.
This happened to me
I took young girl to a restaurant and the waitress knew her.
The waitress said to her nice you have a sugar daddy!
First time in my life I heard that
We still see each other now and then but I said I’m not paying rent or car payments
I think it works because she thinks I’m funny
BS