15 Things You Should Know If You Love A Highly Sensitive Person
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- Here are the things you should know if you love a highly sensitive person! Because loving highly sensitive people is not an average experience. HSP’s need to be loved differently than others. There are many things you have to take into consideration when in a relationship with someone of this nature.
Understanding highly sensitive people will help you communicate with them more effectively, and strengthen your bond as well. These people are so highly attuned with their nervous system, that they feel emotions in a very real and complex way. They love differently than others do, putting their heart and soul into every gesture, word, and action… And this can take a little getting used to.
Loving a highly sensitive and empathic person means they will call you out on your feelings and thoughts. You won't be able to keep secrets from them. They can sense things going on deep beneath the surface, and they don’t like to play games. On the downside of being sensitive lies the inability to get over things easily. If you break up with an HSP, you will likely experience more drama than with others.
While loving such a person might be complicated, they hold some wonderful characteristics that will make having them in your life a truly unique experience.
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Sensitivity is both a blessing and curse.
So true💔💓
I like sensitive people
I am a very sensitive person and I agree with you
It's so so bad at times and so so good at others. Ugh I wish I just wasnt HSP tbh
For me it's Curse
16. make sure you dont put music they dont like beacuse it can affect theyre mood , on the other hand a music can make them incredibly happy and joyfull.
So true. Music is our life, our safe haven.
So true
Soooo true, also i freaking can´t stand the sound that vacuuming/a vacuum makes. I have to wear headphones and listen to podcast or my fave music loudly so i can be even little more relaxed. Thankfully my boyfriend understands this and then he can vacuum and i can clean other things in more comfortable and not as noisy way.
yair cohen true
That's not True for everyone!
I’m crying, today is the day I finally understand myself.
Sweetheart, we are unique individuals as HSP's. Value it, always, but also be Aware of how much easier it can be to get hurt. Try to be strong and do things that HELP you feel stronger. Be around people who Appreciate you for you. Msg me back sometime. I feel the same way as you. It's wonderful to have a name to what we are. Yes, we love hard. But we are really intuitive to people around us. ALWAYS have your own hobbies! Whether it's enjoying any of your favorite music, or knitting, or being around children, teaching, helping others. Knowing your strengths and loves will usually always help you. Know who you are. Always believe that what you like and enjoy Is important. I wish I could meet more people like me in person....Hope you are okay! Write a long never-ending list of all things you enjoy. From the smallest tiny things to the big things. You will forget sometimes to take care of You. But you Must. And it's OKAY! Want to go get some ice cream or frozen yogurt with a friend? Do it. Do you want to create something fantastic and keep thinking about it? Do it. If you don't already have a precious pet--get one. They do wonders for people too. Just don't ever feel selfish for things you truly enjoy. I like being "soft." But yes, it can be hard as well when we care so much....Do what you love to do--even all the small things. Write that list. Find your goals--And Own Them. Xoxo
Same here🥺
Same!
I thought I was weird and alone!! Literally crying in shock rn
Omg same! I cried too
I've learned more about myself on TH-cam than I've ever learned from anybody in my life ... these videos are life changing , it makes people feel less alone .. That's huge
U ain't lying...TH-cam is saving me from years of therapy.
@m.bailey yes, I think it's an empathic trait. But, I've noticed that me seeing people's potential overrides the reality of where they are today. I can read someone like a book in a few minutes yet, I will look at an alternate reality of their great potential and ignore my better judgment. Anyways these videos have helped me much more than talking to therapists. And like u said. It's free!!!! Praise God!
@@t.l1357 XD XD XD XD
@M Bailey This is wonderfully put. I agree and that last statement is well put. 👌🏾
@@t.l1357 You just grilled me realize that I do that too. I will think about the skills they display and their potential and that will override my present outlook on them.
Highly sensitive person... Do not like to ask for anything.
so me
yes very trye
Vera_chan I disagree I was raised to know if you ask for help your weak. Therefore figuring it out yourself makes you stronger. I can't remember a time in my life asking for help was viewed as acceptable. The one time I did it backfired in a very bad way. I don't think it has anything to do with self care, for me I believe it's the fear of appearing needy or being rejected
True
I thought that was my ego...
Being an HSP myself, I can never understand how something that means nothing to someone, could mean the world to me? We hate asking for favours but love doing them even at the cost of exhausting ourselves. Somehow we feel obligated to love but get extremely uncomfortable and anxious when loved in turn. HSPs never reveal what hurt them because they do not want their loved ones to feel apologetic or bad about themselves. We're a bunch of caregivers but hate being taken care of. Most accurate video ever❤️
So true - very well said!!
the truth hurts
@Ligeia D.Aurevilly It is wonderful that you care about him so much. Having honest conversations and communicating to understand, asking directly if he would like some space may help, then giving him time to reach out to you when he is ready.
OMG, your comment just hit me straight in my chest - it was just so accurate! Also the whole video is accurate when it comes to HSP people.
Thats me!
Wow felt less lonely now after watching this video
RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@drivingbro hmmm...
I felt the same way when I discover Elaine
DrivingBro I don’t know man, HSP is a genetic trait. It is a gift when you can keep it in check.
It's basically describing women in general and just calling the mentality "Highly Sensitive Person."
the more I deal with people the less I want to deal with people
You put it so well!
Absolute truth!!!!😁
Perhaps we likeminded souls could all be alone together?
That's just normal I'd say..
I agree. I would love to be on a large piece of land somewhere with a small home that doesn't have anyone around for miles.
HSP here. The love we give, is unconditional. Another one I see as a common feature, is a deep love for animals.
Me too. I get more love from animals than I do from people. Always have.
100% agree. Passion for animals is a trate for us i think is couse we can relate to how it feels to be so wounrebol ♥️
Same
100%
YES!!!!!
I am a 28 years old HSP and i am still single. I have the constant feeling that I am putting a great effort to understand everybody while the rest of people dont put a single grain of effort in making me feel better. That's why I don't care about getting friends anymore and I prefer to be alone
I feel you dear.... myself I have come to learn that it's Okay to be alone than to have multiple friends who never care about how you feel...in a nutshell, they never want to understand you.... when you get to understand yourself and become your own friend you are likely to attract the right people in your life.... I totally understand coz I have been there and it's a position you wouldn't wish even your worst enemy to be in.... I can be your friend since we understand each other.
I’ve never related to a comment as much as to yours
( ; - ; ) I hope you find your people.
I found journal the best way to express/communicate and understand our own selves. Like I can be in a conversation with someone who mind me the correct way 😅
I’m so sorry you have come to that place. I have felt that way but then found that if I remove myself for a short time and write or read and get my mind of the torture then I feel refreshed
Every point perfectly defines me, a sensitive person...
But sometimes its so much Pain to be a sensitive person.
Me too except 14, and 15 have no idea but the first 13
100%
Right
I can relate! You are not alone
Balaji Shanker totally, especially when you‘re with someone who don‘t really care about your sensitivity.. but as mentioned in the video, we love with heart and soul
It can be beautiful but it can be hell too
Absolutely!!
“When you are dealing with a highly sensitive person, you are dealing with a human recorder” This is too accurate, because I pick up on every single detail of everything, my blood boils when people try to hide and avoid the truth about themselves when its screaming obvious to me. My friends have literally told me how scary it is to them that I never miss a detail. 😱😱😱
That's amazinggg✨🙏
As a HSP this is extremely accurate.
I agree
Im straight watching those videos in one sesh and low key im writing your comment under every single one Kappa
Yes i agree too
Cosmic Queen yeah I can relate....
I am an HSP; Highly Silly Product o ma 🎶🌌🍉mamma🍉🌌🎶
I grew up in a culture where being highly sensitive is viewed as a negative thing. This video has put highly sensitive people in a positive light. I'm happy that I can be myself and not feel insecure because of being highly sensitive.
I really know where you are coming from there
Polynesian culture for you lol
Even in every culture ,people see it as a negative trait . Btw I'm hsp too :)
same thing. in indian culture highly sensitiveness is seen as not such a good thing
I wish HSPs from all over the world can connect more. I feel like we are the cure to the loneliness many of us feel due to being so misunderstood. I appreciate all of you!
💓
Yessss your so right
Well, i guess then you'll have to vind strength in your sensirivity, and open up yourself. A risc Nooit easily taken by hsp's as i.know very wrll myself;). But taking yourself by the hand and speaking out helps, youre a human yourself, not a perfect servant, i learned to understand over the years... living myself does not mean i cannot open up to others... they might be much more happy to get to know my real unner state and reach out then i expected!!!
HSPs will not cope in a relationship with an angry person, especially if the anger is often directed at them. When your partner devalues you, or ignores you - you notice. I think the biggest point for me is the one about needing downtime and reducing noise. Loud environments really stress me out. Silence really is golden.
I'd add that we love much more deeply than others love us back. It's hard to feel truly known and loved as a HSP. We are always thinking of ways to make others feel "I am and loved" and wonder why we aren't loved back the same way...but we also won't ask for it, thinking they should just "know" what to do.
Colleen O'Leary so true
That's just happening to me right now :(
I'm an hsp I always love people more than they love me back, & it's heartbreaking. 💔😪
No truer words......
I totally agree
I used to think I was broken. But now I’m learning who I am. Knowing that it’s ok for me to be myself by these videos I feel less like I want to die. All I thought was a flaw is a strength. All these years. I want to know more about me now, what else have I missed. If I could miss it , I can understand how others can to.
Oh my, I've been reading some posts now, but yours kinda made me cry.. I'm an HSP, too and I realised it about a year ago. Until then I felt absolutely the same. Overall it got a lot better since then but now I'm having a hard time.. I'm totally stressed out and I hope I'll soon be able to appreciate the positive sides of being a HSP again
I too recently discovered the concept of an hsp and realised I'm one of them. Whatever I used to take blame for and feel was a weakness is actually a strength. These videos have really helped deal with my insecurities of being too weak.
God bless you!
We are many and very unique individual on the globe. Everyone who is HSP and comes to watch this video will end up in shock! This is so good to know that we are many and we are not sick but we are special!
How are you now? I really hope you've been able to feel more positive and kind to yourself. Your "feeling less like I wanted to die" really struck me, I get it, and I hope you and in a better way now. I've found a book on the topic by Dr Elaine Aaron, hoping it helps xxx
15-Hard to Breakup: It takes me years to get over someone. I'm healthier now, so perhaps 6-8 months. And relationships are RARRRREEE. Welcome to being an HSP
I read my own comment not knowing it was mine and thought "that's me"...then lol...oh it really IS ME!! HAHA
...it took me about (3) years to date again (unlike the ex) I was told, started dating probably 6 months after?...I cant "reboot" as quickly
Exactly lmao I was always wondering what I did wrong... so I never asked for it. I was just always there for people to make them feel less alone. Although I felt alone. I just didn’t want to burden anyone with my problems so I hid how I really felt
I had an unrequited love for 9 years 😬NINE YEARS 😭 But im finally with someone who really loves me. Its crazy how long I can love someone
'They prefer environments where they can hear conversations and their own thoughts' I have never been able to put this part of me into words- Thank you for sharing
YES!!! I don't like conversing when the music is loud, and especially when it's harsh music like rock and roll or rap, with a heavy beat.
@@vickikaravas8774 I totally agree! I love to dance, but hate to talk at the same time! I just want to move and feel the music. I used to hate it when I would be dancing and some guy would want to have a whole conversation. I would have to stop dancing to hear him and it would be very awkward! Talk OFF the dance floor, dance on the dance floor!
These are very true. Some things I'd like to add are intuition. I can almost always sense that something is about to happen with the person I'm having a relationship with. His tone, vocabulary, mood. All give it away to me that something is not quite right. I'd also like to add a sense of super appreciation when any attention is given. By any attention I mean just that. Small gestures tend to mean the world to me because I feel like "WOW he was thinking of me and only me when he did that." It takes very like sometimes to make me happy. And I truly appreciate the little things in life not the material stuff. Hmmm a dozen roses or lets spend the night together watching TV and cuddling. KEEP THE ROSES LOL
Jackie Baglione do you think intuition in this case is different from him saying they can read your actions so be honest, because they can always detect your behaviors?
This is exactly me as well...which means if they did something as little as raising their voice or talking to me while being tired I will mistaken that as him being not interested to talk to me and I would be very sad and cry easily ...
Max I could screenshot this to express what I’m experiencing when my lady is extremely bothered and “trying” to disguise but I’m picking everything up, can’t tell if it’s my fault or not and instantly become bothered 🤦🏿♂️
Davin Johnson like ur lady is also like me?
Jackie Baglione Yupp, pretty much me
I HATE TO BE RUSHED I am so sensitive and I see all consequences constantly and ppl don't get it this video really hit close to home I get this so much and I do NOT FORGET. It's a emotional Rollercoaster. X for a reason.
If I'm rushed things won't go well, I need time to get it all together. Go without me if you are in such a hurry.
Being rushed upsets me & makes me so mad. 😡
My Girlfriend is one of these people. We have been dating for 10 Months and I am just starting to understand her. She has told me more than once that when she is with me I have a calming effect on her. This past weekend we were together and I told her "a date with Laura is not just a date its an adventure". We both LOL.
Well she is lucky to have you and very considerate you would take the time to get to know how she works
@@saskiakelsey2552 -- Thanks for your kind comment.
@@Rooster1508 My best wishes with both of u...pls take care of her, she is a beautiful soul. Most of the ppl in her life won't understand her. Hope u got my point. Wishing u both be together for lifetime. Wishes and prayers from India.
@@sabuk9376 -- Thanks so much for your kind comment. I just called her and read it. She also says thanks.
Wanted to add that I think HSP might be genetic. My mother, my daughter and myself are exactly this.
Also HSP's you need to look after yourselves because we're very likely to suffer from anxiety and depression by feeling everything so deeply.
Love to you all.
As far as I know, research has shown that it is genetic. :)
Yes, my son is just like me too! Not my daughter though, which is fine she’s like her daddy and is rarely bothered. My boy has been wonderful to have because we totally get each other but I’m working hard on helping him learn to cope with it. I wasn’t helped as a child so developed an anxiety disorder, I sure hope to avoid that with him.
you ppl are a blessing..This me WOW
It is confirmed genetic. Look into SPS, sensory processing sensitivity. Thats the medical name for highly sensitive person (HSP)
Well... that’s a little too late... I’m suffering already lol man... being an hsp is a blessing and a curse
As a highly sensitive person myself, I have learned that age does mellow some of these traits. I am not as hard on myself as I once was and letting things go is easier. Great video
My husband send me this video I found myself it's exactly me and my personality I'm glad he has patience ,he knows I'm not a bad person and I love him so much thanks for this great video love it 👄😘😘🤗💋😘🤗💋
Take a step back and figure out why? In the long run... It might not be you...
Aaawwwwwwww. That's so nice. Thank you for sharing. May you all continue a wonderful relationship.
Don't let anyone tell you being sensitive is bad.
i normally asked my bf if i annoys him and he said no hes cool with it
...I am happy for U that U have someone in yer Life that is exercising this sort of patience with U...I am single, but have other relationships to manage:
Mom
Brother
Uncles
Cousins
Friends
...those ding dongs at work, lol (pray for me) lol 🙏🏾💜
@@coquijean Prayer's 🙏
They truely love and appreciate everything that brings peace.
This kind of videos really make me feel like "omg finally someone understand myself"... Seriously it's really difficult to find anyone to understand person like me... HSP and Introverted😅
Hi-fi
Me to a tee,👍😊
I'm a highly sensitive person. However, I do enjoy going out being around people & rock concerts, music.
30% of HSP are extroverted. I am as well. I love being around people and feeding on the energy, especially when everyone is having a good time, it invigerates me. But i cant take as much as most people. Its very tiring to keep track of the emotional state of 30 people at a party. And you cant "just stop" noticing those things, its who we are.
For 47 years I've lived with the ideals that I'm weak because I'm over sensitive. It's great to learn about the benefits and understanding it's a super power of sorts. Others have commented on my leadership style being hypa sensitive to the needs of others.
I've learnt tonight I need rest and now I know why my brain hurts at times. Thank you for your video.
...thank U for sharing...look when u hava opportunity, my alias is COQUIJEAN...u are very Brave!!😉👍🏾💜
I have alot of work to do
Nothings wrong with you. All of us are hsp.💕
Something I learned in drama school is that we remember because we care. And in that context it makes perfectly sense. We care about people, tend to (over-)analyze and think about the exact meaning (subtext) behind the words someone said. That's why we remember conversations quite accurately.
Actually all what you said is the real me..
But the last one, letting go of someone.
This is a thing that I easily do. Being sensitive means that if I hated someone I don't think twice before kicking them out of my life.
Because they hurt me deeply, even If I loved them so much before.
This still doesn't mean that I don't give many chances. But sometimes, it's nit that hard to let go..
My fiancé is highly sensitive and I wouldn’t want it any other way! She knows me better than I know myself! And she cares and worries about everyone so much! Thank you for this video! I will always keep learning the ways I can be supportive, understanding and loving!!
So relatable. I'm starting to understand myself more and more each day.
...just wait until ya' get to be (50)...yer perspective will be even more increased...with Success, I KNOW 😉💜
Congratulations, friend! U deserve this. ♥️
same here
@@coquijean so right you are. I'm 59.
I’m in a relationship with one, I’ve never felt more loved, respected and happy. I adore her delicate nature.
It’s not easy being a sensitive guy!! I really struggled to express myself when I was younger but I am still learning and improving every day. I’ve only been in one serious relationship (lasted 6 months) and I’m 33 now. I would love to be in a great relationship but I’m petrified of hurting someone. I’m trying to focus on being the right person and enjoy the journey of life, anything else is just cherries on the cake 😊
Can't stress how accurate this is about me
I will be showing this to my partner when God blesses me with one. :)
A billion thanks for putting this video out there so that people can understand us a bit more.
....and U will find a partner as U call it, continue to exercise Patience as U always do 😉👍🏾💜
I’m definitely an HSP. Friends, yoga is very healing!
yeah, you are right, i needed more downtime to decompress and more mood swings, but with yoga i am starting to balance it out....too much of sensitivity has ruined my emotional state, thats why i started yoga, and it really helps❤️
How does it help?
David Goliath it seems to reset my mind as it unscrunches my body. That results in a clean slate in which to deal with overstimulation. Don’t let things pile up in your head. And take good care of your body bc your mind takes out so much stress into the body. My experience at least.
This resonated so deeply with me. I'm blown away.
As an Empath or HSP I've learned to pick and choose my battles. We know when someone is being dishonest or lying to us. We know when we're being manipulated or taken advantage of. This type of situation usually led me to call that individual out, or end the conversation quickly and promptly excuse myself from that person. Now it depends on what my relationship is with the person in question. If it's an acquaintance and there's no hurtful intention towards others I let it go. More times than not the dishonesty takes more energy to address than I'm willing to give. When it's a family member it has variables. I look at how they're behaving. Are they defensive, scared, angry, confused, insecure,.etc? Will their dishonesty hurt myself and/or others? If I address the issue is it really worth the negative energy to myself, the people around me, and the environment for the next few hours or days? Will it have a positive outcome if addressed? I basically internalize whether the person and situation is worth the confrontation that'll affect us both. As I gain more understanding about my abilities, the boundaries I've set are becoming stronger. I now take into account that my personal well being is much more important and precious. It isn't always my place, or responsibility to counsel another person about their ethics and dishonest behavior. As an Empath there are times when positive mental health and self-preservation far outweigh confronting the negative or deceitful behavior of another. We can't help those who choose not to help themselves. It's a frustrating predicament for us. We want to help everyone. Finding a good balance is key. Our abilities to guide and heal are a blessing. It's our purpose for being here. 💖
Accurate ♥️♥️
Absolutely agree 💯, well said !!!👍👏
@@missmable6015 : Thank you very much! Sometimes I have a difficult time explaining, or putting empathetic experiences into context so others can understand more clearly.
It's nice to know the point's I made were clear and fully understandable. Much Respect Sent Your Way!
Totally accurate. Couldn't have said better myself. ❤️🥰
@@jld75-75 : What a difference a year makes. I've grown and gained so much more understanding this past year that it blows my mind. Understanding ourselves and our abilities seems to be coming on at a very fast pace. Sometimes it's a wee but difficult to keep up, but we tend to adjust rather quickly to the changes happening to and around us. I remember contemplating this comment before I wrote it. I'm an INFJ and sometimes what's in my head doesn't always make sense to other's when I share what I'm thinking and I get the WTF reaction from those present. Lol.😉 I'm glad what I wrote resonated with you and other's. It's nice to know your not the only one experiencing what being an empath truly is. Take care and much respect sent your way. Don't forget your a walking and talking miracle. You have a purpose for being here don't let anyone or anything stand in your way of serving that purpose. 💖
One thing it took me about 60 years to figure out is that we are extremely good listeners, totally empathetic, and make the best friends to others. People flock to us because of these qualities. But what I wasn’t understanding is that I was being lied to often, attracting the “users” in my friendships, and was there for others as free therapy. It took several years to wise up, but I finally dumped all of the users out of my life. It feels exhilarating! I am extremely careful to look for the warning signs now as I look for new friends. If they don’t ask questions about me and seem like they have no interest in my life, I won’t give them a second glance.
Its wise to be aware of these kinds of people, they seem to flock to certain personality types. I'm still learning to watch out for these people.
As being a sensitive person I can assure u all those points are 100% correct & relatable
Finally I know my nature better, you can add this one too: they genuinely like to help other people
Without asking for anything in return because we feel like we don’t deserve it. I feel like I owe the person for doing a kind gesture to me
Ace Six, yea its like that, but they think we are not normal
Mortaza Zargar exactly.. they think something is wrong with us. I suppressed the best side of me to survive... emotionally scarred from my parents.. I remember everything they did, said, and now I can’t be sensitive... I’m an hsp with many mental disorders.. *sigh* depressed btw🙃 how’s your day?
@@acesix5354, well. You are right about remembering every part. Now I'm better and calm. I did something very hard in the last six months. I wrote everything that happened to me and I was searching for why, everytime I could answer they why's it could help me to understand more about myself and other humen in my life. It was like a self diagnostic, Honestly it was really hard but now I'm well. the story is so long, maybe we can continue this chat in FB or whatsup.
Mortaza Zargar messenger? I started journaling like all my thoughts and how I felt. I started taking therapy to strengthen that part of me that I know is there. But to heal it in a way? I feel crazy saying that lmao
Oh wow! Can’t believe how accurate these characteristics of a sensitive person are. Great job doing this video!!!
Being an HSP I already knew why I did all of these things in this video, just didn’t know there was a word to describe me as such. Lol that was weirdly fun listening to these. Had to share with friends, they were relieved to watch this. Thank you!! 15 for 15
So enlightening and helpful. You helped realise I am normal. My sensitivity is driving everyone I know away. It is used against me as an argument to cover their hypocrisy.
Thank you so much.
I hated myself for no reason wtfffff 😂😂😂
Highly sensitive people are considerate towards others people & we just want the same in return. Its simple. Dont lie, play games, & or take me for granted. The little sweet gestures mean alot to us that others tend to overlook. Highly sensitive people love is one of a kind. We are passionate lovers & friends.
We also get misunderstood often.
This video was so accurate it litterly made me emotional. Last year it came out i am high sensitive and it has been a hard journey since then to let my mask come off and get to know myself truly after years of hiding my sensitivity. All the tips are welcomed if anyone has them 💖
My girlfriend is highly sensitive. I've made her cried many times. Those days I hadn't known about her mental uniqueness. I blamed her for nothing. I pressurised her many times. She begged me to not to hurt her. I thought that she's just acting. One day she cried shivering over my harsh text messages. At that time I realized there is something wrong with her. At that very day cold night I traveled so far to a mountain village to surprised her with a flower bouquet and other presents. my innocent angel with her wide eyes rush to me and just forgave me in a second. I realized how lucky I am to have such a sensitive girl. Since then I promised myself to kind to her and understand her and not to hurt her. We have to learn how to dealing with sensitive persons. They are wonderful, caring , warm, loyal, very romantic honest partners
You know, I just recently had to come to terms with these traits, because I’ve been shamed for it. If I get angry, or feel hurt, i can’t help but cry. I don’t want to, and I know I’m not that upset to really be crying, but it’s an automatic response. When I’m fighting it’s worse because they think I’m just crying to win the argument through guilt or something. Like I’m trying not to murder or hurt you right now, and your calling me a cry baby.... not the smartest move here. I had to come to terms that this is just how I am. For good and bad.
I am curious about the difference between male and female HSP. I cant relate to the crying, i feel my emotions and others deeply but its hard to make tears come out of my eyes. It doesnt mean i dont feel like crying, sometimes i wish i could have a good cry to release the emotion but they dont come. Theres a disconect from my emotions and the tear ducts in my eyes.
I cry alot too.Things that other people forget about 10 min. After there said I remember forever.
I have always cried a lot, sometimes even when I'm mad and not just sad. I have learned later, for me, that the tears are literally the bad energy leaving my body. So, I don't try and hold them back. Instead, I try to get to private place as soon as possible and allow the tears to flow for as long as they want to.
I cry tears of joy also, especially when I feel gratitude.
I figured out the "bad energy leaving my body" because the tears I cry from the painful or negative emotions burn my eyes. My eyes will hurt after crying and usually hurt up until I go to bed that night and sleep it off. The tears of joy do not burn my eyes. I think this is very interesting! I'd be curious to know if others feel this same experience. My son cried a lot as a child and through most of grade school, when his feelings were hurt, so this shows that males can also do this. (Someone mentioned they wondered if males and females are different).
Very good video, had me smiling, as it's exactly what my previous partners can't handle in me. Maybe we need to start a dating site for HSP's ..
Christina Bridge what would a hsp relationship be like?
@@user-hv6ov3pm3f Very intense, very intimate, not shallow at all, and trust is essentiel to us. We give everything we've got when we are in love
YES!!!!!
Just went through a 2 month get to know her thing. Day 2 she wanted sex. Told her I wasn't ready. Not what she expected to hear. Again, I'm the bad guy.
Lol
Woow! Being a HSP myself, I know this is such an accurate and precise video. 16) They are very high on their Morals and values and don't compromise on them. They do open up when they can't withstand things anymore, amid at such points they often blast, and this emotional outburst could lead to them opening up in rather blunt or rude ways!!!! For which again they feel guilty and bash themselves up!
Not being able to forget even after forgiving, not forgetting the exact details of what went wrong, remembering with accuracy, not able to let go off the past easily, mood swings and all the other things mentioned are things I hope others find useful to understand people like us! People around us misunderstand us so much, infact accusing us for being so sensitive; saying things like 'you just don't want to get over it' , 'you just can't forget anything bad,' and there's allot of insensitive criticism for even things like taking care of others and going way above and beyond! I have always been criticised by my family saying' Why do you have to do soo much for everybody!' or oooohhh you and your perfection! Or how much will you cry over it!!!!
I hope this video helps people to understand that HSP's are not trying to be NICE or fake, they do so genuinely and sincerely. They feel things deeply and are very empathetic. Infact they get the brunt for being HSP'S coz people feel they are too good to be true. As per research in psychology done 1988 onwards on HSP'S, studies show that they are turned down by society because they are so good, by labelling as Do-gooders! And are called antisocial because others look bad around them as they are too good and so the large majority turns them down.
I found this video very validating and empowering. Thanks
It's all of my attitude, you knows me well. I never thought that I'm a highly sensitive person, all I know is that I'm just sensitive.
Tread softly I wear my Hart on my sleeve thank you
All I can say is "Yes, yes, yes!"...This video describes the way I am almost completely...It is kind of strange hearing what it is like to deal with me from someone else's perspective...Loved the video, thanks 😊
It is hard to love a highly sensitive person. I am not drawn to those kind of people but they are truly awesome people. They feel emotions so strongly and is tough to see them suffer.
Most of these are sooooo true, my husband and I are BOTH highly sensitive people.
Sister as a sensitive woman myself I've often wondered what it would be like if the man I marry is also a HSP. How has it affected your marriage?
Mayah curious to know this too
This puts so much in perspective for me... when it says that we are our worst critic its real, just to give an example... i have always had a negative outlook on being HSP and used the fact that i dont like just anybody and categorized myself as "too picky", when in reality i just happen to know that i need to have interesting conversations that i can learn something from or something meaningful and that is not a bad thing ... i just happen to know what i like.... and well this video really shone a positive light to being HSP which i 100% appreciated and also related to EVERY point... and the insomnia part 100% now i dont feel so confused about this... thanks for the vid.
This is a very constructive interpretation of HSP people. Required viewing for non-HSPs but also HSPs. Well done.
this got me crying. this is damn accurate. few months ago i received a serious concussion from a car accident and haven't felt right since. my 'human recorder' skills are so messed up, my emotions and lessened capacity for the outside world have been completely overwhelming, like my already sensitive nervous system was short circuited. it's like the only way i know how to navigate the world isn't available. i'm terrified i'll never feel like myself again 😢 just means so much to see these vids and comments from other hsps finding themselves... i literally discovered hsp right around the accident time and felt so seen and validated like anything. hsps, protect your heads at all costs!! 🙏
That's me so much so that i cried watching. Thank u for sharing💗
Jill Blaske Oh my gosh, I cried, too!
Ali gamez i cry so easily and now i know why
Jill Blaske I looked up highly sensitive people a few years ago, and it completely changed my life. I was so glad to find out I didn't need to "stop being so sensitive" like so many of the people around me would say. You're beautiful the way you are, okay?
Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Hugs.
Ali gamez Thank u so much for saying that!!💗😊 it's happened to me too, oh you're way too sensitive!!
Please, my Dear Fellows, do not cry because i am going to cry, too.😢 You are soo sweet to get emotionally involved with this very thoughtful, caring and highly sensitive video, for which (and for all of them) hugging thanks, Dear (bright-minded) Brainy Dose 🤗💞💗🥀🌺🌸
Just pls Ease Your Precious Hearts and Love 'coz Love is Care, Care is Understanding, Understanding is the Peace of Mind&Soul. Thank You!
ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL 🙋 says a lot about me. I can't even sleep right now, middle of the night 🙁 still tossing about.
The next thing is to find that special person to love me this way😎
Thanks for sharing this amazing video with us ⚘
"Meg Merillies.🕴🏾.🗣.🙎🏾♂️.😃.i understand you very well.🌷.⚘.💁🏾♂️.🙂.🙋🏾♂️.👍🏿.😁.😎.😉.👋🏿."⚘
Thank you, it's nice to know that someone else is with me ...thumbs up
"Meg Merillies.👍🏾😃.you're welcome...🙂😄😉😎👍🏾."
You will no never find anyone like me Its impossible to find someone with same interests and who accepts u for who u are so id rather just follow my dream on my own bcs i like to be on my alone but when i find a girl it dont work out
Also i would like to get to know
To be honest, today was the day i even got to know about the fact that this is a "different" kind of human... a kind that i am... ive now started to read and find out what it is to actually be a HSP... and when i watch this clip... i relate so so so much to myself and who i am... i truly am a HPS. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO. I NEEDED THIS SO BAD!
I’ve never had anyone describe me so accurately! I feel much better about myself now
Where can we learn more about being sensitive. I felt relief after this video like I have been searching for some truth my whole life.
Thank you
P W there’s actually quite a bit of information on highly sensitive people ( hsp ) google those key words. Good luck!
There is a great book by Elaine Aron called " The Highly Sensitive Person". It's life changing and helped me realize that there's nothing wrong with me, I'm just HSP.
Omg I swear
@@kristen9678 Too bad I the only HSP I know is a guy. I can't find girl like me where I live (Madagascar). I thought I was broken but a book changed my life. It's in french but I guess it's the same thing
Me too
I recently found out "highly sensitive person" best described me. I started to follow some of the advice to live better. Thank you. I wish to share this video with my future bf.
I am here because of one of my BEST Friends...while watching, I would cry during the listings...wipe my tears, then the next listing would come up...and i would start crying again
its 1/2020 and I could have shared this with so many when I was maybe in my teens?... unfortunately, in this generation and time, I recognize alot of desensitized people, and they usually say I am "too sensitive"...I never respond, because I dont want to hurt their feelings
...im not fragile or jaded...but I do know during my time in this Life.....it takes more strength to be patient and tactful than relinquish caprice emotions
and to Top it all, I also have (ASMR) lol...im (49) but im Thankful to realize that ive been this way since I realized who I am...and the best part is...
Its NOT a weakness
thank U for this Empowerment🙏🏾💜💜💜
This video is absolutely spot on! Observation and Include: Iam very easily (completely!) overwhelmed: I am extremely careful and selective about what music I listen to, what restaraunts I frequent, who I spend time with, et. al. Noise Levels. Light. Temperature. Schedule. Smell. I am highly intuitive and empathic. Definitely an INFJ! If a new person interrupts me in an already established "routine", and I know what I'm doing, I WILL go off! Thanks for this video. Subscribed. Maria
I notice that people are actually drawn to us but also I even seen some people actually seek us out...
I've always wondered why I felt so much more sensative than others. This video explained me . Period
One of the best videos on this subject I have ever experienced! This HSP says your video is "spot on"! Thank you very much for creating this insightful video.
When youre a hsp and single so when youre having an imsonia with no one else to help you and all that you have is youtube
Some months back I was struggling with insomnia and that's how I landed here... I can tell you for sure that you are not alone and personally i understand that sometimes you have no one to turn to simply because even those you call friends may never understand you.# God's love is real.
hello Dallin'😉💜...
Try ASMR! 🙂
This describes me perfectly. Everyone tells me I’m too sensitive but I can’t help it. 🤷🏻♂️
You don't have to change. It's who you are. People have criticized me my whole life for being a hsp
Good observation and very well said!
Yes, i would like to add that: They are honest and fair in their dealings.
When misunderstood, they are hurt.
They sacrifice anything if dealt with love, respect and care.
Very loyal yes, and down to earth people.
Thank you indeed.
You are totally right here. I loved someone for three years. It seems I might be an HSP but if she knows this. It didn't stop her leaving..did it Maria!
So on point... you didn’t miss a beat 💜💜💜
I'm surprised at how accurate this video actually was
Meeting a nice person and having stuff in common with them is great, and having trouble getting them to discuss deeper issues (even the good ones) is so hard. I had to leave a recent relationship for both our sakes...just needed someone who can meet me on a deeper level.
ATTENTION!
Whoever reading this, please help me with dealing with HSPs. I love a girl and she is over sensitive, she can get mad for simplest reasons, annoyed for nothing and mostly cry for no reason. Whatever I would do or say she thinks I don't mean because we had a lot of fights over the past 4 5 months. On top of that it's distance relationship. We have been together for 3 years now and never seen each other in person. I'm very very struggling with dealing with her. Sometimes I want to give up but I love her too much and change my mind. But I don't want to feel like that. And don't want HER to feel bad due to me.
Thank you in advance for your advise. Every single information would be important to me.
P.s I learnt a lot from this video, most of the things perfectly describes her. Great job.
Excellent video thank-you👏
16. Highly sensitive to noise!! Too loud, soft noises when trying to sleep, music, background tv or conversations. It's nearly impossible for my brain not to tune into it ALL!
I don't know who did this video but they nailed it. Everything they said absolutely applies to me and yes being sensitive can be a blessing or a curse.I was told as a very young girl " you're too sensitive " and as an adult I can pick up on things long before others see what's coming. Loved this video.
Thank you so much for this excellent detailed video! I have had the chance to follow your videos for some time now and I must admit, I cannot but recognize myself and start to "get on the way" of embraceing the strengths and weaknesses of being highly sensitive person, which is not always easy.
Wow! I am very impressed on how accurate this is, because I am a Highly Sensitive person 😊🙈
This video is so spot on! It's incredibly accurate. Describes me perfectly.
I've always been emotional but was never really able to figure out why I knew someone was upset. Not til a few years ago. I always thought it was just bc of my diagnoses, but after watching this, and many more video's, I'm starting to learn that I'm not crazy, I'm not weird, I'm normal but different. Many on here will get it, but most people will never understand what it's like to learn that what you are, who you are, how you are, is all normal, and they'll never understand what a relief it is to know that it's not just you! You're not the only person out there who has a hard time with certain things that most other people just get over. I'm not a drama queen, I'm not manipulating people, I'm not a horrible person, I'm just me; and I'm finally starting to accept me, and love me, for me.
This video is beyond amazing! It’s so accurate in describing the personality of a highly sensitive person. I am typical example of an HSP extrovert (ticked 24 out of 25 boxes in the test).
Thank you for making this video :)))
Absolutely me, 100%.. Thank you so much for this video..
I can relate to, not all, but most the characteristics mentioned in this video, especially when it comes to 1) decision making, 2) unable to turn my brain off at night, and 3) capable of forgiving, but not forgetting.
This video just answered all my questions. Now I know why I am what I am. Feeling special.
This video really hits home. I can't think of anything I would add. I am overwhelmed with feeling from just watching this. Sometimes I feel so much I shut down and go numb.
And we can talk about our feelings for hours if you let us!! Or even other people’s feelings
Very on point! Still we can get tools to manage some of this. I’ve evolved in many of this points and I used to hate to be called too sensitive but understanding my nature made me love myself more and use it for my own advantage. I love that I can pick up vibes cause they are clues for me to know what am I dealing with so we can usually pay attention to it and be ahead in whatever situation we’re facing.
YES! My thoughts exactly
This so describes me! And explains why my life has been hard. Thank You very Much! I do not feel so weird anymore. It helps me understand some others better, too.
Thank you so much for raising awareness for people like me :)
Literally me though. My boyfriend and I have to deal with me being so dramatic and being HSP. It’s so frustrating at times but I just know I need to walk away. So, I can calm down and not make anything worse
geez i thought this would be about my friend, and it's turn out to be about me. The things you'll discover in life
Everything is so relatable...but spot on about how it's like for a highly sensitive person to make a decision.
Hi. I am an extremely sensitive person, even diagnosed with it, the worst thing that can break up your relation with a person like me is lying, once a person has lied to me, the bottom of the relationship is gone, even years later it will show, I am speaking of experience. Once a person breaks up the trust, it will never get better...... I have missed this in your video. Take care and thanks for your work! I appreciate.