Grandmother is pregnant with her grandchild | Chicago Med
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Season 06, Episode 10, So Many Things We've Kept Buried,
Crockett deals with a patient who ends up having more in common with him than he thinks.
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id have to say dr choi is once again the only normal person in the hospital
I like dr halstead
I can never understand why any normal person would put a pregnancy of an unviable foetus over a living woman
@@trullyfreak one could look at it as a living woman giving up her life so the foetus/baby is born and live a long and fulfilled life but then again there is a chance both could die
You mean professional
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1) If this hadn’t worked the mum and the baby would be both be dead
2) I get the mum is trying to make up for years of neglect but they need therapy not surrogacy
3) How many times do these doctors go behind each other’s backs? Seriously, I’d never trust my coworkers if I worked there
Exactly 💯!!!!!!!! Plus is it okay to have an 54 year old surrogate who had alcohol abuse issue and may still have it and you don't even like her!!! Even of her mom wanted to make up for the neglect if I were in the daughter's place I wouldn't feel comfortable taking favour from some who I don't trust even if it is free.
Well not every doctor makes the best decisions for the patient. Thats why ypu always get more than one opinion
are we gonna mention the psychological effects of this sacrifice on the daughter? like dying for the baby is not the way to go to make up for your mistakes. she clearly loves her mother and the fact that she is alive and with her family is all that should matter. why cause further trauma?
I don't need grandkids, but if one of my kids needed my help this way, I would sacrifice everything.
Your logic is sound, but the conclusion is only as valid as your assumptions and we don't know the full context, that includes if the mother feels she is going to relapse into alchoolims and die anyhow as her heart is barely holding. So we sometimes have to deffer to others and understand that we don't have all the cards.
because people think sacrificing your life is more honourable.
its really not. it takes courage, strength, and a lot of persistence to change. its harder than just quitting.
S E...cant agree more with u
Man in all realness dr Choi is correct . Going behind the back and influencing the pt is BS
I wouldn't call it influencing. The patient has the right to know all the options available to her
No he is not, he was about to violate the Declaration of human rights, the law, and the code of ethics. The patient is not a toy you play God with, is a human with rights. The call is hers and only hers. The Nurse did well, even risking being fired.
at first i thought the daughter was arrogant. then the moment she said her mother is more important than the baby, i lost it.
well her mom was absent for most of her life and is now recovering. she made it clear that she'd rather have a recovering mom now than have her die and leave a baby.
@@gasun1274 she clearly showed arrogance in the beginning so perhaps anyone would think that she would choose the baby. but yeah, it’s nice that she has that mindset.
@@romanumerals I suppose it seemed arrogant at the time but with context it is clear the mother left deep scars on her daughter. Two years sober is a great feat yes but when matched against however many years of not, the daughter unfortunately has plenty of reason to be cold with her mother
@@joshuad3507 that's what i also thought. it's like why would she choose her mother when she had beed absent for most of her like. but I'm glad she did not have that mindset.
When you are the only one sane but are made to be the bad guy 😭
This is the summary of the entire show.
Always thought this storyline was pretty weird. Surrogate mother at 54, history of substance abused, doesn't look like the daughter is a big believer that she's not abusing substances. Just on medical grounds and on personal judgement grounds how did this decision not get blown up from the get go?
i guess since it wasn’t a professional one and the daughter couldn’t afford anything so she took what she could get they probably didn’t even mention it to the person doing the surrogacy or anythinf
@@goofy7135 The process of a surrogate almost has to be professional where I am (of course that isn't Chicago) in the sense that while you don't have to use an agency if you have a volunteer, the doctor would do a medical exam and take history into account.
It's not something that can be done cheap.....unless the father of the child just...banged the grandmother I guess.
@@goofy7135 Some doctors will cut your arm off for a buck.
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Some of the ideas are just nuts but it IS fiction and played for drama.
A 54 year old ex alcoholic is a terrible choice for a surrogate... I can't believe anyone in real life would actually do that.
that age is illegal in country to that
This is totally messed up.
A mother is carrying her daughter's child, and not to mention the arrogance of the daughter is way too much.
I don't think it's all that crazy. I've heard of family members carrying their family's surrogate children because they can be a surrogate for free vs having the parents have to pay for a surrogate
This is a lot more common than you would think?
How can you tell it is arrogance. She is angry over her mother's past actions which led to her present medical condition and she doesn't want to hide the facts. Makes the diagnosis easier. A mother carrying her daughter's child is very special, should be respected, yes but she is also a mother who let down her daughter, she is entitled to be angry.
I wouldn’t call it arrogance as much as I would call it anger. When you have an alcoholic parent, you harbour a lot of anger towards them even after they’ve gotten sober, because so much irreversible damage has been done.
she’s an alcoholic id be upset too if it could mess with my baby
can we please talk about how unethical dr.halstead is by basically using his patients as experiments???
if being an experiment saves mine or a baby's life go for it.
@@poemone2257 okay tell me that after the doctor who saved your life gets fired for being unethical LOL how is he gonna save your life again if hes no longer a doctor?
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@@boombadabing9129 beats me. If he fired he fired
He has also ignored a patient's DNR before. In real life he probably would have been fired a long time ago. 🤭
that title could be taken in such a different way lol
They are believing the Daughter over the mother
They do realize that with proper medical care premature children born after 21 weeks' gestation are capable of living outside the womb, right? In fact, the youngest premature child born, and alive today was born at 20 weeks.
It may have been an old episode, filmed before the 20 week benchmark. Or it may be that the resources at the TV show's hospital were not as sophisticated as those at the real-life hospital that supported the 20 week premature child.
There is less than 10 % chance at 22 weeks to survive and they can have severe problems from being born too early. At 24 weeks the chances of survival are 40 to 70 %. I would also think a baby that small would need specialized care that not all hospitals can provide.
Those cases you are referring to are PRETTY rare. Of course, there have been Babys born that far along on the pregnancy and survived but their chances are pretty low. Most of all the chances that the baby doesnt suffer lasting health problems from being born that early in pregnancy are pretty much Zero.
Just because some foetuses can survive birth at 21 weeks or even 20 weeks doesn't mean that all can - AND, it doesn't mean that being born that early is a good thing. Premature birth can have severe consequences for the child on all levels.
Birth before 24 weeks gestation, the chance of survival is less than 50%.
The survival rate at 24 weeks is 60-70%. But that means you have a 30-40% chance of death, either at birth or afterwards.
Premature birth is not something simple or easy to get through. It is devastating for most people who go through it.
The chances of it surviving are less than 1% at 20 weeks. They're not going to let her die for less than 1% chance of survival
If the grandmother died and they did keep her body hooked up to machine until they could remove the baby, wouldn't that cost A LOT of money? They already said they didn't have enough money for a surrogate. I am not sure I do not live in the United States but it sounds like it would have been expensive.
Maybe the mother's health/life insurance would cover it (doubtful) whereas hiring a surrogate and providing for them usually isn't covered by insurance.
Not only would it cost a lot but the baby probably wouldn't survive. While I can't remember all the details, I know there was a case in Ireland where they did this with a brain-dead pregnant lady, and the baby did not survive.
That was quite a gamble with below average of success percentage, but at the end of the day with what possibility can you live with? The normal procedure “might” kill her, and the alternative “could” kill her
The mom is 5x, it is dangerous to carry a child, and I don't think this is a way to make up for the past, she is going through guilt trip, it is good to see the daughter explaining how important she is to her than the unborn baby
Why do I have tears in my eyes!
Idk
Onions
Check an ophtalmologist.
Those are not optimal. Also every fetus is different, that's why it's not a guarantee and you could risk life long disabilities or life long pain, no matter how short that is.
That siren dadadaaaaa dada dadadaaaaaa dada...gave a whole new trauma in my body..i always react and rush with them mentally whenever i hear that.
Sorry im 52 i got a son and had he been married and they asked me to carry their kid, my answer will be a resounding no, hell no.
O my God that’s so emotional I couldn’t believe
This is the most unprofessional thing I've ever seen no idea how will wasn't fired in season 1.
Are you a doctor? I'm guessing no. So your opinion is irrelevant.
@@waymilky442 Do you own TH-cam....I'm guessing no? So your presence under my comment is unnecessary. I can bet you haven't even watched the show to know why he should've been fired. Ignorance at its best. Dismiss your presence, I assure you nothing has ever been more unwanted.
@@oprahwilliams8752 I am watching the show. And I am free to comment.
@@waymilky442 As am I. I left my comment. Will should have been fired in season 1, violating DR'S and all manner of illegal activity. Why you had to stop here is beyond me. Keep it moving.
@@oprahwilliams8752 Literally what? "All manner of illegal activity"? Like what? Not only do you not know anything about medicine but about law neither.
Is it messed up to say that the way the daughter talked to the mother is normal between my mom and grandmother? Everytime she has a medical issue, her and my step-dad either ignore it or won't let her explain her issue correctly, since she has to have someone go for her as we live and have doctors in Spain and she doesn't know the language, so unless I go, neither of them will tell the doctors her opinions, and what is causing her pain and my mom will only yell at her to shut up and tell the doctors what she thinks is happening
That's awful. You should really talk to her about it
She is actually in the hospital now, not my mom's fault though, my grandmother refused to go to the doctor because she hates hospitals and I've tried to convince her in a nice and because she didn't want to go til it got bad, it ended up in a fight between us on new year's day. Now I admit, my nan shouldn't have been stubborn and had just gone, but again, when the doctors came for a home visit, my mom tried to convince them about what she thought was the matter. There's no convincing my mother, all she does is yell and yell when you try to assess a situation
@@AISpectre I hope things got well for your grandma and you, best of luck with that situation.
Omg this made me cry. Very intense scene.
Idk why the daughter is suddenly acting like she cares for her mom. If she cared she never would have asked her to be a surrogate. The fact pregnancy at that age is extremely dangerous is not a secret. Like it’s completely well known. And she still had her mom do it.
Did they have no other female relatives that were younger and healthier?
There was an actual person who got pregnant naturally at 61. It’s not always perfect
@@TJ-dy1cy that’s extremely rare though. Women start menopause in their 50s
Maybe it was a wake up call
I thought she’d be 70 or 80 bro
Same
in medicine anything more than 35 is a big no no
You're either 12 years old, or have the maturity of a 12 year old
yeah i agree, that was an exaggerration from me😂 but anything over 35 is considered a risk factor to many genetic diseases
All the people here... You give the patients ALL OPTIONS AND THEY DECIDE. its not dr chois job to decide. As a former medical professional, Halstead did the right thing
I'm 20 years older than my daughter and would do the same for her if she needed me to. Its heartbreaking for people who struggle or can't get pregnant. 💔
Just adopt.
My mum is 40 years older than me, and she is infertile and too old to carry a baby to full term but she would the same thing for me, I love my mum. ❤❤❤
@@pragyasubba2283 adoption isn't for everyone however I would happily adopt a child even with my own 2 children.
@@nataliemcmillan2605 Why is it an issue?
@@skepticalmagos_101 why is what an issue?
That was an emotional scene! Had me tearing up.
This is so far from what real medicine is like
Loved it... So emotional ❤
almost had my heart stop
That doc had absolutely no right to talk to the patient knowing she definitely wld accept.. And doing that behind dr. Choi’s back.. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
So if you couldn't afford a professional surrogate, you get your mother instead, who is not physically capable to carry a child for 9 months due to complications. The child (who is already expensive to begin with) and the surrogate are both highly vulnerable. Okay.
I really hate dr Halstead he always puts his emotions before the patients wishes his medical license should be revoked
Omg. This gives me chills 😭
hi remember to don't use God's name in vain
@@mariamendoza8934it’s not Gods name. God is his title. His name is Yahweh
she was never there for her daughter so now she chooses to die to continue not being there lmao
It's sad to see she coded a bunch
Tbf injecting significant local anesthetic intravenously is very concerning. The few real world attempts have found asystole is more common than successful cardioversion.
The last scene omg
when you see the 202 pulse on one screen that clearly looks like tachy, another screen that was on about 180 that also looked like tachy or an SVT and the sound of beeping in the background that sounded more like sinus
and then the mf says AF. watching this show as a medic is mostly satisfying for "spot the medical mistake"
there are also many many more mistakes there but meh
Go watch house then come back to watch this and see if you feel better about it
@@maggiethedruid9010 have'nt watched house in many years i only remember it was overly dramatic using rare diseases and conditons that honestly you only get to see once a decade or so.
and honestly the show was more about trying to put the protagonist - dr house , on a pedestal. oh see how much he knows when along the way he made so many mistakes that would have cost him his liecense in reality long long ago along with the first patient
That is satisfying for me, too. But, unfortunately, the general public that has no medical knowledge will often take it as fact. And then grow up to be congressmen who make laws that have no scientific/medical basis whatsoever - the equivalent of practicing medicine not only without a license but also no education in biology whatsoever.
@@mariaportnoy2019 u think we, the normal people, watch dr house for biological knowledge 😅
@@mariaportnoy2019funny how you think we,the norms, watch it for knowledge 😂😂😂
Why is Dr choi so grumpy in this New Seasons of the show I don't really know
He got promoted and become the head of the ward. So hes super stressed out thinking its a huge responsibility
He got promoted yess
English ist not my first language, but I'm very interested in this "magical" afib cure. What's the name of it? I'm understanding "tetracain" but that's just a numbing med?!
i am practicing my mascara and ended up crying lol
mis-information on the internet get the best of us.
Is it okay to have an 54 year old surrogate who had alcohol abuse issue and may still have it and you don't even like her!!!
Even of her mom wanted to make up for the neglect if I were in the daughter's place I wouldn't feel comfortable taking favour from some who I don't trust even if it is free.
At least the mother was trying to do best for her daughter.
That daughter she seems ungrateful and arrogant at first.
Her mother neglected her for most her life. That doesn't go away by doing one good thing
@@2EKgn16 it sounds like it was the mother's idea and she wasn't going to be dissuaded.
If they thought there might be issues due to the mother's history why didn't they ask another female relative? Or better yet adopt.
Cause adoption is expensive and inaccessible for many and other relatives can say no or be even more unsuitable.
@@professionalinsomniac8338 and surrogacy treatment isn't expensive?
I need to talk with the writers 😅
i thought this was gonna be something freaky when i read the video title
And I thought I had to make hard decisions
In the Netherlands we have big events called kermis (carnavals) and there are a lot of crazy things to do. One of them is what you just saw. We call it a lunapark and it is ment to trick your brain a little. You have moving stairs, a hall filled with mirrors, moving floors etc. It is really fun and when you have a chance to visit one I recommend going to one and have fun. (The entrance of is free but you pay for attractions and snacks)
I think that what I've just saw is not a carnaval but a weird Chicago MD episode 😂 Good coincidence though
@@Rikapaprika op. Wrong one🤣🤣🤣 (shal I delete it or not?🤔
@@Shing-Yu laat maar staan, is leuk haha
@@red_weed iemand die Nederlands spreekt kom je niet zo vaak tegen😂😂
@@Shing-Yu nee dat klopt. Hallo mede nederlanders :D
I don't understand what happened...
She looks younger than me
aaaaaand, they all just died because they're all TOUCHING THE BED when they shocked, with NO clear announcement LOL
The title of this vid is confusing
So okay is it her kid or a sibling 😅who said everything is possible this draws the line 😂
Well, biologically, her child 100%, and since she will raise them, I would say definitely her kid
Dude clearly bunked high school biology classes and it's showing😂
I'm a mum, I would do anything for my daughter.
I would hope you wouldn't allow yourself to be guilt-tripped into carrying a dangerous pregnancy in order to make up for something silly, though.
@@jupitersnoot4915 I would,and very nearly have, die for her but would rather live for her and do my best to make her life the best that I could.
me hizo llorar.
Maybe call and obstetrician and cardiologist?
There was a woman in South Africa who acted as a surrogate for her daughter. She gave birth to triplets.
So many judgements on a woman making her own decisions
The mother looks younger than the dauther
Why don’t people ever go for adoption? Is your bloodline some royal family or something?
She trying to redeem herself for not being there for her daughter.
Ethan 🤔🙄 going behind Dr Choi
No way man
If I was Dr Choi it would take everything in me to not punch Halstead were he a real person.
What in the hell?
What to do when I am early
Make an analysis essay of 1000 words.
This is a weird situation that a mother is caring her childs kid ...😮
0:42 she doesn’t look 54.
Sweet home Alabama
you do know they separate the egg cells from the daughter, fertilized it with the sperm in the lab then put it inside the mother, right? Basically the mother is the tube that holds the embryo until it grows to a baby. No Incest.
Not one of them tries the non invasive vagal manoeuvre? Hmm.
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Dr choi is best one literally
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daughter is pretty rude
Anyone else think that the mum looks like Eddie from stranger things? or is it just me
bruh why would any sane person would want their middle aged mother to carry their baby- so many things wrong w that n sm bad things can happen + is aware the mom WAS an alcoholic💀 0:45 n bruh yk u too old why r u carrying their baby lmfao
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fairly disgusting.
Hey salsa salsa but you don’t know what name of
Nachos!
I view, with 12 likes... TH-cam may be drunk again 😅
Nah, this ain't it and the grandmother is wrong. Her daughter finally had a chance to have *a mother* and she was going to take that away from her again. To me that was just an easy way out: sacrifice herself to absolution by dying for her daughter's baby to live. The fact that "everything worked out" was just the unrealistic tv drama happy ending.
If her daughter can pester her poor 54 year old mom to have her baby just because she can't, she must be prepared for the other side of the deals too.
She was being so rude to her mum like she is holding her baby su and let her answer she seems so rude and mean like that ur mum 😂
Her mother wasn't there for most of her daughter's life, so she doesn't feel like she can trust her
So many of these dhar Mann has made vids on
So you see…
It’s normal in the US 😂
That Daughter is so selfish
It seems as if the mother was the one being neglectful and selfish first. She is now changed and trying to give back to her daughter, but we must understand her daughter situation as well.
And the daughter even wanted to prioritise the mother before her child.
@i ?
This is crazy I mean who's with me 👇 and yes I did like my own comment
She looks 80 but she is 54.Thats messed up
You must be very young, she doesn't look 80 at all
are you joking she doesn't even look 54!
Alcohol will do that to ya
Hi
Yet my mother won't take in my fiance for a week after we lost our flat she's left him on the streets! I wiped my savings out on hotels now we're desperately trying to get somewhere to live!
Don't blame your mom for that. She obviously have her reasons. You guys are adults and responsible for yourself. Look into why you guys lost your house. What caused and led up to that. I'm sure one of you is the reason, so why resent your mom? Is your fiance always kind to your mom?
You are both adults who should be able to support yourselves. Your mum doesn't owe either of you a place to live. You forget your fiance isn't her blood relation and as you are not yet married not even your spouse.
Bet there’s waaaay more to that story…
Look at end of the day a mother will always sacrifice her life for that of her child no matter which way u look at it I have 4 children and I'd do the same no matter what age am at. So stop with negative comments.
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You know humanity is fuc**Ed up when this happens. Why don't people accept that not all people meant to have children?.why do you have to go through these extreme complicated measures to have a child?.. I know it is hard but you have to live with it.
Not to mention the amount of children that need adoptive homes. Including the ones who were brought into the world via surrogacy but were rejected by the birth parents when they didn't turn out how they wanted. There was a couple from China who went through loads of rounds of IVF only to put the twins up for adoption when they turned out to be girls. In that case there seems to be a good reason for infertility.
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