@cascade. ❤ it's difficult. One day at a time. My husband has been without work for 3 years due to epilepsy and a nervous breakdown. Keep up you chin and pray and believe
When I start to feel overwhelmed, I just pray, "Lord, I trust you." Sometimes I have to speak it into fruition even if I don't feel it. The psalms have also been a huge comfort, and a great tool for praying my anxiety and anger over to God. Hang in there!
I am a preacher’s wife (and daughter too) and we’ve been in that exact position before. Thank you for being real. Prayers for you during this time. And I love diet soda.😊
As someone who works in academic advising, and career planning/human resources, whether you get fired/lose your job or walk away on your own it is still a gut punch especially if it is something you were not planning. So be kind to yourself and take a deep breath. I am so glad you decided to share this because it shows other people that they are not alone and more importantly that it is not their fault if they get fired. Sometimes life chooses to send us in a direction we did not see coming. So I guess the big question is since you can work from anywhere, will you stay in OK or go to another state with the kids in school etc?
@@kathyk9519 Yes, I know that Daniel resigned, but I wanted to make sure that people understood whether they resign or are fired, they should be kind to themselves. It isn't their fault most of the time.
@@missnewzealand6103 Because many times when we get fired there are circumstances beyond our own control that we don't see coming. Sometimes we cause the problem make no mistake, but many times we don't see it coming.
Your positive mindset, love for the Lord, and belief in His plan for your family, are so inspiring. Thank you for sharing with us, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Thank you for this! I was on staff at a church as part of the childrens ministry going on 7 years and I ended up leaving and my last day was 7/2/23 (it was not planned as I truly thought we would be there forever). It has rocked my world ( all 6 of us actually) and I am still grieving. But watching this video today was sooo encouraging. Thank you 🤍
I just left my job and accepted a position with my church as we structure to open our child care center. Because we're not open yet, I am not bringing in any income. This is a step in faith, and like others have said, I consider my church, my family. I understand your grieving...lifting you in prayer towards healing...
As a fellow Pastor’s wife I totally understand how this impacts your WHOLE life!! I am praying for your family but especially for your kiddos to walk in the peace and favor of the Lord❤ May your latter days be even greater than the former.
Thank you for sharing these parts of your life. As someone who has been in ministry for 15 plus years, you hit the nail on the head when you said it becomes and is your life.
I just went today and noticed several items have gone up by more than just a few cents. I saw a friend while I was there and she said, “Have you noticed the prices have gone up?”😏
Prices in Aldi Australia have gone through the roof. Some by as much as $2-$3 for an block of cheese. It’s disproportionate to the increase in the cost of living and even though it’s still cheaper than other supermarkets, the margin of savings are dwindling. And for quite a lot of items, there is no difference in prices buying at Aldi any more. It is such a disappointment.
I feel you. My husband lost his mortgage industry job 10 months ago, and I can sincerely say this season has been one of the absolute sweetest, despite also carrying challenges. Praying for God's plan and purpose for you and your family!
Thank you for saying, “We know that with the Lord there are no surprises.” I’ve had a not so good surprise at my job this week, so I can relate. But I am also incredibly peaceful because I know that there’s no point in worrying. God knew this was coming, and I can rest easy in that.
Mindy, I'm only 2 minutes into this and I want to send you encouragement, confidence in your family's future, sympathy, and strength. Whatever comes, your family is strong enough to get through it.❤
We’re facing a lot of uncertainty and on the edge of disaster. If we can just hang on a little longer there’s a great chance we completely flip the script in as little as a year. Seeing your faith is inspiring. Normally I’d be losing sleep and making drastic moves that prolong the goals we need to achieve. But this time I have more faith and am trusting the course God put us on. Thank you for sharing your personal life and being an example. Looking through the comments it seems many of us needed this message right now.
I always enjoy your videos. Thank you for sharing the news about your husband's job - you do a huge service by modeling a sane and humane response to a scary life change. I hope Ruthie enjoyed her birthday. Your box mix cupcake recipe is legit delish! Thanks for keeping it real. Love to you and your family!!!
The. Lord is guiding a lot of Christian’s in different ways. I am a caregiver for my husband cannot begin to tell you how The lord has provided for us. We are in our mid to late 70’s
My mother's affairs were starting to cause me to take too many days off as a teacher. I decided to retire after 33 years, but 6 years short of my goals. I am so stressed out about the change. It has been a 4 month long ordeal but my mother is now in assisted living, we have sold her house, and I now have time to search for a less stressful job than teaching. Good luck to you. PRAYERS!
Thank you for sharing this. I was just laid off from my role in HR. I’m the sole income earner since my husbands recent traumatic brain injury, so it’s a scary time, but one where we are leaning on our gracious God.
My son in law used to work at the same church. He's the one who told me about your channel. He was phased out last year. It was rough at first, but he's so much happier than he was. I believe God will do the same for your family. God bless you!!
When you talked about leaving 1/2 way through a vacation that you’d planned for a year, I thought “uh oh”. I admire your positive outlook, strength, and faith. I have been having a difficult time at work and I pray about it daily. Happy Birthday to sweet Ruthie!
What a huge decision. Following God's lead through Faith is scary but comforting. We went through this at our Church 4 years ago. I, of course, was not a part of the changes but the whole church was kept in the loop as the changes were being made. Praying for your family. Love your videos.
Hugs my dear!! I was a preacher's kid, so I do understand the ups and downs of ministry life. I affirm what you said, "God knows". He has plans for us that we cannot imagine. All the best.
I know what that punch in the gut feels like. I am so sorry your family had that interrupt your special trip, and that you are having to carry around the mixed bag of feelings…one foot in front of the other, sometimes it is the sacrifice that takes us to where we need to be next. ❤️
I needed this message so much. Husband left his job 3 years ago. I have been the sole provider.. but this reminded me, GOD has been the one providing for us. He has opened the doors for me to make it easier on my family.
As a pastors kid I 1000% understand where you guys are in life. I have always appreciated how you focus on the family. I’m so proud of you guys for leaving instead of staying in a potentially toxic situation. I wish my parents would have done that.
New broom? Old kitchen broom retires to basement. Basement broom goes to garage. Garage broom goes to patio. Patio broom goes to scrap metal under hubbies lathe. Lathe broom goes onto the burn pile...unless it is winter and then is Frosty's accessory.
Thank you for being BOLD to speak Jesus. BRAVE for proclaiming God. If you acknowledge Me before men I will acknowledge you before My Father in heaven.
Happy Birthday to Ruthie! Thank you for sharing what's going on. My best friend was married to a pastor. Sometimes life is a roller coaster ride! I'll keep you all in my prayers, and I know God will lead you to something better.
I feel for you Mindy. Between November of 2021 until April 2022, my husband went without income due to illness. It was a struggle...but we got through it!
About to lose my job more than likely but worse than that my boss has terminal cancer in like 5 locations. You’re exactly right we may be surprised but God is not. Holding fast for answers. Needed this video today and praying for your family. 😢
Thank you for your testimony for how God is working! Please pray for me, because I am still in the wilderness since an unstable living situation that my former roommate put me through. Even the aftermath has contained too many bad things. Please pray that God shows me the good in all the bad so I don’t feel so afraid of an unknown future and a difficult present. Sorry to say so much.
Tears, hugs, love, and prayers! I once left my paid position in a mega church - I understand the weight of your decision! God's got you! And we'll pray you through!! Happy birthday, Ruthie!! I'm glad your folks are coming in town. You are SO loved!!! ❤
God really does His best work in the wilderness. How well can you hear His voice at a party or a rock concert? It’s when we are at a stand still, and lost, that we are most receptive. All is well that starts and ends with Him
That's always a hard move. Our church has gone through a lot of changes the last couple years and its been so difficult. I pray whatever comes next is God-led and God-willing, a good fit.
If you are in prayer, you are doing the right things. There are disturbing things happening in churches for a while now. A small group of younger people can really change a church. Making older people feel unwelcome whether employees or congregants is one, until they figure out young people don't tithe, they throw in a $20 when they have it and then the "young" staff turns 40 and are now "old.". Young people thinking the church must have *only very modern music and everything be remodeled/changed or people will not come. God will work on people's hearts even when staff members are "old" or the church name doesn't reflect that it is a church.
This year has been a tough one for us as well. I have always been frugal so it has helped us through this. Earlier this year my husband was diagnosed with cancer and three months ago lost his job. We are holding on to God and He has been good. Thanks for sharing your experience!
❤ Prayers for ya'll. My husband lost his job just as our daughter left for college. It was devastating because of the loss of income but for him personally. He was let go because of time he had to take off for surgery. His job was physically demanding and in the end, losing that job was good for his health. Going through that storm is can be emotional and frightening. With three kids, we worried. God has you ❤ He will always have your best in His hands.
I am so sorry your family I’d going through this. Jeremiah 29:11 came to mind which I am sure you are familiar with. “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” May I ask what denomination, if any, you are affiliated with?
Yep! That's the verse I put at the end of the video! So true! We served in the UMC, but we are not affiliated with a specific denomination at this time. My husband transferred his credentials to the Global Methodist Church.
I love your positive mindset. I have literally been on a health rollercoaster for the last 21 years. So many doctors have been amazed at what I have survived and I know its been my faith in God and all of the prayers I have received from others. 🙏🏻 that your new direction leads you to an even better life!!
You are such an awesome mother and wife to support your husband through everything. ❤ I can't wait to see what's next on your journey. Can you post the cake and cupcake recipe? I always try to write it down but miss it lol
Please know that my wife and I are praying for you and your family. God is there with you each and every day! Bless you all! With love in Him, Dave and Terri
My husband lost his job in January of this year and the income loss at first was a very hard hit. But having him home with the kids especially with a new one due to be here in just a few weeks, has actually been an unexpected blessing.
My husband has been in ministry for 10 years and we recently came out of a very difficult season of ministry as well. We ended up relocating and found a new amazing church family. I was starting to wonder if one even existed! Praying you will lean on the Lord and trust him during this time! He is faithful!
We just recently changed churches because we felt led to and love our new church family. We'll keep y'all in our prayers as y'all go through this change.
@SeeMindyMom you're welcome, friend. Us too. My hubby is here because of prayer. He has died twice (tractor trailer rollover accident and sepsis) and battled Covid, but God's not done with him yet. He's on oxygen 24-7 due to Covid damaging his lungs.
I laughed so hard at the diet soda comment then the video clip 🤣 I also drink the diet soda. And I have recently been drinking zero sugar Sunkist orange soda….amazing! I’m sure it’s terrible but to quote the clip…..”I don’t care! I love it! “
Everything happens for a reason....a door closes and another one opens. I don't know....seems like a lot of congregations become more private clubhouse politics and less houses of worship. Just sayin. (while you were on vacation...and then threw a reception....odd. Just sayin, not sayin.)
I understand being in the wilderness. It is both scary and exciting, but you will be fine, better than fine, you will be great. Because of Daniel's professional background, he will have a lot of opportunities come his way. Your family is the core of of your existence; you will all, as one, embrace this next chapter and grow.❤❤❤
I am sorry to hear this. It sounds like your husband refused to go against his principles and rather walked away than do his job not as good as he wants to. Good for him! It is more important to stay true to yourself than someone else...I hope he will soon find something new and exciting, and that you and your family will have happiness and security. Something tells me that it will not take long. Best wishes to you and your family ❤
Mindy…what a wonderful example of a faithful servant. Both of those scriptures at the end are perfect. Thank you for your openness about your faith in an age where Christians are frequently mocked and scoffed at. We went through this very thing and had to take a literal leap into God’s mighty and capable arms and trust HE had our future in His hands. It was the hardest thing we ever did but God blessed us beyond measure. It was scary but it taught me so much about letting go of the control and worry and believing Gods knows best. I am believing and agreeing with you that this will lead to bigger and better things! God bless you, your family and your ministry!
I can't keep any of the Little Debbie vanilla frosted cakes (Zebra, Fancy, birthday) in the house because I can't stop eating them. Sorry to hear your husband had to make that painful decision, but it sounds as if your strong values helped you come to the right decision.
My husband is a pastor too and I know how difficult it is to leave a church you've poured yourself into - where your dearest friends are - and where your kids have grown. Your video really tugged on my heartstrings. You have such a positive attitude though, and I know the Lord is going to take good care of you and your family. I look forward to hearing about what God's doing in the days ahead!
Thank you! That's exactly it, and it's difficult to explain sometimes how multiple facets of your life are connected to a single place when you work in the ministry. Thank you for seeing us! :)
17:40 Ah! I just got choked up when you said this. 🥹 I needed this reminder. This too shall pass… Thank you for being so rare and vulnerable with us. Praying for you and your family during this season. 🙏🏼❤️
This past January my husband, at the age of 67 lost his good paying executive position that has been in his occupational wheelhouse for over 40 years. Then he took a part-time gig that brought a small amount of money, but as of September 1st he no longer has that. Times are getting tough for a lot of people and we are going to need those budget recipes you do on your channel! God bless you and your family. God has plans to prosper you 🙏.
Oh, wow, I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope that the best door opens for your husband and your family soon, and that it's the best, most unexpected blessing!
I had to stop the video to comment that YES, there is an "inside broom" and an "outside broom" at our house and I don't understand households that don't have a distinction. Like .... what are you doing? lolololol
I’ve recently come to love the phrase “hard is not the same as bad”. Thank you for being so open and real on your channel. Praying for you and your family. Can’t wait to see what God has in store for you guys!
Dear Mindy - just wanted you to know my prayers and positive thoughts are added to the many mentioned by your family, friends and fans. I hope you will not be in "limbo" for long, and that the perfect offer will present itself. Thanks for keeping us in mind and still presenting us with frugal options while your own world is flipping a little. I've had church challenges over the years, too, and the fact that the upset comes from your place of safety and comfort can really rock your faith. But, God may be perfect, but all of us servants are not. Take care, and keep the faith!
I don't go to church anymore. I find there is a lot of drama at church to say the least. I am being very NICE. I had a preacher say something he should have NEVER said to anyone! And that's the last time I went to church which was Easter Sunday of the year 2000. I am not into choosing a particular "religion" either. I can praise God anywhere. I hope things work out for you and I am sorry your vacation was cut short. Thanks for all your videos I love them all!
The church helps us to encourage one another & grow closer to our Lord & Savior. The church is not perfect & will never have perfect people because only Jesus is perfect. I am sorry that the preacher said something to upset you. We have been hurt by our former pastor as well. We forgave him & we go to a different church now. Everyday we are growing close to Jesus Christ or farther away. Life can be challenging at times... my 46 year old husband has terminal cancer & I just lost my job 2 months ago but the Lord is faithful. His perfect peace is more than enough to help us with the hard times. Surrender all day /everyday, treasure every moment taking nothing for granted. No time to sweat the small stuff & sorry that I wasted precious time. Blessing always, RM from Florida
I clicked on this so fast...😂 Editing to add: Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him, and he shall direct thy paths. (Proverbs 3: 5-6) ❤❤
I’m so happy you shared this with us! Me and my husband and our children are currently in a “waiting season.” There are things that are or aren’t happening or we just don’t understand and the thing that gets me through is that God always has a plan and His plan is far better than my own! Change is hard, especially when it’s out of your comfort zone and/or when it’s unexpected. But God allows us to go through the changes to help us grow and to put our faith and trust in him! That’s awesome that the Lord is already putting new job offers in your husband’s path.
We also are in full-time ministry as a family here in New Jersey. And we will be praying for you because as it says in Jeremiah, he does know the plans he has for you sometimes we wish he would just tell us a little bit quicker… Lol but know that you have a friend in New Jersey who’s lifting you up in prayer and also who knows that the Lord has already gone before you.🍁🍂😊
Hi from Maine Mindy🙋🏻♀️ Maybe try using that scrubbie with BAKING SODA as a cleaner for the Yeti mugs INSTEAD of comet?🥴🤷🏻♀️👍👌. BIG birthday wishes to Ruthie🥳🎂👏👏 Sending BEST WISHES on the exciting adventures awaiting your family - you/hubby and the kiddos will ROCK the new journey!!🤩😃😎❤️
I made these cupcakes the day after watching this video. I used a yellow cake mix with vanilla pudding. I used fancy cupcake papers and they had a nice height to them. 18 cupcakes in all. I made a delicious chocolate frosting that I piped on. Shared with family and they all said hands down best cupcake ever. So moist. Now I’m spoiled. I’m going to line up my cake mixes from my pantry and made sure I have corresponding pudding mixes on hand to mix in. Great recipe. Thanks for sharing.
So much respect for you Mindy! Love watching your videos and I will be praying that God leads y’all through these waters and to bless wherever He guides y’all! Much love from Texas! ⭐️
Praying for comfort as you try to navigate the changes in your ministry going forward! Your work won’t change because of a position, so wishing you many blessings as you work in a different path!
Yes, God does His best work in the wilderness, thank you for being transparent with us, and God has great plans for you and your family. God will use this to bring other people to the Lord.
My husband stepped down at our church earlier this year. It’s so hard - but, completely understand! Praying The Lord comforts you guys in this transition season. ♥️
Sometimes it’s hard to see the silver lining when you’re surrounded by the storm….but as you said…God knows it’s there and revels it to us in His time. Sending prayers to you and your family for strength and comfort.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thank you Mindy Mom for sharing this with us. My husband and I may be at a crossroad in the not so distant future. We have been praying about this for a while now, and this change is of our own fruition as well, with God's help of course. I hope that you and your family had a very happy and blessed Thanksgiving. Above all, remember, that God is good, all the time.❤
Oh Mindy I was concerned when you mentioned cutting your trip short! Thank you for sharing with us and being vulnerable I'll be praying for you and your family. You are totally right that God has a plan an I'm glad you're seeing confirmation. We have been in a wilderness experience just over a year with job loss and relocation just starting to see light at the end. There is heart break but God will bring beauty from the ashes! Eph 3:20-21 ❤
I am so sorry for what you and your family are going through I wish you well in your future plans. On another note about the stains in your Yeti cups instead of using cleanser and scrubbing your cups use a denture cleaning tablet and water name brand or generic makes no difference works very well and no scrubbing or risk of scratching your cups. I use the method for all my stainless cups, tumblers , and mugs! Much love to you and your family! God bless!
God’s love is manifested in many ways and you and your family are one of them. Thank you for sharing Romans 8,28 which has been the verse that has sustained me and given me comfort and peace during my 77 years. God is good and has loving plans for your family! Thank you for blessing our lives through your channel.
Blessings to you and your family! Be sure to keep the kids in the loop. When my hubby got laid off--during the slow down in the early 2000's--I kept doing what I was doing and kept the house running while he seached for a job. He's never been laid off longer than 3 weeks (amazing to me), AND he found work in his field. ODAT.
Prayers for you all. God know His plans for your next adventure. A tip to clean out your Yeti, A small drop of liquid dishwasher soap ( like Cascade ) and boiling hot water. Let set over night. Make sure to rinse out really well. Its works perfectly. Nice and clean. And yes, I have a broom for the inside and a broom for the outside! Have a great weekend 😊
When I was a little girl my dad was laid off a lot, one time he took me on a weekend camp out cause ,we didn't have a ton of great family times but he wanted to take me camping, he had no money for food or camping so we went to a state park and he returned bottles and cans and bought every kind of little Debbie they had at the time 1982,❤ that's all we ate that weekend I was 8 and I could have cared less it was one of my bess memories❤️. Little Debbie are great frozen too now that I'm over 50 too
…And he makes ROADS in the wilderness and RIVERS in the desert- Isaiah 43:19. Already praying for your rivers and roads for you and your precious family! You are loved- from a fellow minister’s wife of 29 years.
Just watching this now as I'm behind on your videos. So sorry to hear this Mindy but know God will provide for you and your family. Blessings to you 🙏🙏🙏 P.S. You are doing a great job 👍❤ Love'd Ruth's birthday party.❤
Sister you will be blessed. If God brings you to it He’ll bring you through it! Prayers for a new job on the way! Phillippians 4:4 Rejoice in the Lord Alway: and again I say, Rejoice.❤️🙏🏻
I swear this video was made just for me to hear. My husband lost his job this past week. I’m holding on to God for strength through this storm.
The Lord bless you & keep you!
❤❤❤ sending positive vibes your way!
@cascade. ❤ it's difficult. One day at a time. My husband has been without work for 3 years due to epilepsy and a nervous breakdown. Keep up you chin and pray and believe
Didn’t lose my job, but going through struggles. It was very encouraging and a timely word for many of us. God doesn’t leave or forsake his own.
When I start to feel overwhelmed, I just pray, "Lord, I trust you." Sometimes I have to speak it into fruition even if I don't feel it. The psalms have also been a huge comfort, and a great tool for praying my anxiety and anger over to God. Hang in there!
“God does some of His best work in the wilderness, it’s going to be okay” ♥️♥️♥️♥️ OOOH. Sooo good Mindy! -Madison
amen!❤
👏👏👍👍 AWESOME way to turn a “YIKES” Into a “ We’ll be just FINE”!!😃😎
I am a preacher’s wife (and daughter too) and we’ve been in that exact position before. Thank you for being real. Prayers for you during this time. And I love diet soda.😊
As someone who works in academic advising, and career planning/human resources, whether you get fired/lose your job or walk away on your own it is still a gut punch especially if it is something you were not planning. So be kind to yourself and take a deep breath. I am so glad you decided to share this because it shows other people that they are not alone and more importantly that it is not their fault if they get fired. Sometimes life chooses to send us in a direction we did not see coming. So I guess the big question is since you can work from anywhere, will you stay in OK or go to another state with the kids in school etc?
Remember He didn't get fired he chose to leave. Big difference! 😊
How is it not your fault if you get fired?
Thank you! We are hoping to stay in Tulsa, but we are open to where the Lord is leading us, even if it's to another place. :)
@@kathyk9519 Yes, I know that Daniel resigned, but I wanted to make sure that people understood whether they resign or are fired, they should be kind to themselves. It isn't their fault most of the time.
@@missnewzealand6103 Because many times when we get fired there are circumstances beyond our own control that we don't see coming. Sometimes we cause the problem make no mistake, but many times we don't see it coming.
Your positive mindset, love for the Lord, and belief in His plan for your family, are so inspiring. Thank you for sharing with us, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Thank you for this! I was on staff at a church as part of the childrens ministry going on 7 years and I ended up leaving and my last day was 7/2/23 (it was not planned as I truly thought we would be there forever). It has rocked my world ( all 6 of us actually) and I am still grieving. But watching this video today was sooo encouraging. Thank you 🤍
I just left my job and accepted a position with my church as we structure to open our child care center. Because we're not open yet, I am not bringing in any income. This is a step in faith, and like others have said, I consider my church, my family. I understand your grieving...lifting you in prayer towards healing...
As a fellow Pastor’s wife I totally understand how this impacts your WHOLE life!! I am praying for your family but especially for your kiddos to walk in the peace and favor of the Lord❤ May your latter days be even greater than the former.
Thank you for sharing these parts of your life. As someone who has been in ministry for 15 plus years, you hit the nail on the head when you said it becomes and is your life.
Thank you for your work!
I went to Aldi yesterday and my standard grocery haul was about $35 more than usual. It was painful
It's gone up for sure!
I just went today and noticed several items have gone up by more than just a few cents. I saw a friend while I was there and she said, “Have you noticed the prices have gone up?”😏
Please tell me you’re lying, I only shop 1x/month at Aldi for specific things and haven’t been in a month…😭
Prices in Aldi Australia have gone through the roof. Some by as much as $2-$3 for an block of cheese. It’s disproportionate to the increase in the cost of living and even though it’s still cheaper than other supermarkets, the margin of savings are dwindling. And for quite a lot of items, there is no difference in prices buying at Aldi any more. It is such a disappointment.
I feel you. My husband lost his mortgage industry job 10 months ago, and I can sincerely say this season has been one of the absolute sweetest, despite also carrying challenges. Praying for God's plan and purpose for you and your family!
Thank you for saying, “We know that with the Lord there are no surprises.” I’ve had a not so good surprise at my job this week, so I can relate. But I am also incredibly peaceful because I know that there’s no point in worrying. God knew this was coming, and I can rest easy in that.
Mindy, I'm only 2 minutes into this and I want to send you encouragement, confidence in your family's future, sympathy, and strength. Whatever comes, your family is strong enough to get through it.❤
We’re facing a lot of uncertainty and on the edge of disaster. If we can just hang on a little longer there’s a great chance we completely flip the script in as little as a year. Seeing your faith is inspiring. Normally I’d be losing sleep and making drastic moves that prolong the goals we need to achieve. But this time I have more faith and am trusting the course God put us on. Thank you for sharing your personal life and being an example. Looking through the comments it seems many of us needed this message right now.
Stepping out in faith is scary, sometimes. I feel that in my bones right now! I totally understand.
I always enjoy your videos. Thank you for sharing the news about your husband's job - you do a huge service by modeling a sane and humane response to a scary life change. I hope Ruthie enjoyed her birthday. Your box mix cupcake recipe is legit delish! Thanks for keeping it real. Love to you and your family!!!
Amen!! God has a plan, it’s better than we could ever imagine! Ephesians 3:20
Your right! No TESTIMONY withOUT a TEST! Prayers for your family!
The. Lord is guiding a lot of Christian’s in different ways. I am a caregiver for my husband cannot begin to tell you how The lord has provided for us. We are in our mid to late 70’s
My mother's affairs were starting to cause me to take too many days off as a teacher. I decided to retire after 33 years, but 6 years short of my goals. I am so stressed out about the change. It has been a 4 month long ordeal but my mother is now in assisted living, we have sold her house, and I now have time to search for a less stressful job than teaching. Good luck to you. PRAYERS!
Thank you for sharing this. I was just laid off from my role in HR. I’m the sole income earner since my husbands recent traumatic brain injury, so it’s a scary time, but one where we are leaning on our gracious God.
My son in law used to work at the same church. He's the one who told me about your channel. He was phased out last year. It was rough at first, but he's so much happier than he was. I believe God will do the same for your family. God bless you!!
When you talked about leaving 1/2 way through a vacation that you’d planned for a year, I thought “uh oh”. I admire your positive outlook, strength, and faith. I have been having a difficult time at work and I pray about it daily.
Happy Birthday to sweet Ruthie!
I hope things come together for you at work! Thank you for the kind words! :)
@@SeeMindyMom thank you so much! With all that you have going on in your life, you took time to read my comment and respond…thank you!
What a huge decision. Following God's lead through Faith is scary but comforting. We went through this at our Church 4 years ago. I, of course, was not a part of the changes but the whole church was kept in the loop as the changes were being made. Praying for your family. Love your videos.
Thank you, Nancy!
Hugs my dear!! I was a preacher's kid, so I do understand the ups and downs of ministry life. I affirm what you said, "God knows". He has plans for us that we cannot imagine. All the best.
So true! Thank you for the reminder. :)
I know what that punch in the gut feels like. I am so sorry your family had that interrupt your special trip, and that you are having to carry around the mixed bag of feelings…one foot in front of the other, sometimes it is the sacrifice that takes us to where we need to be next. ❤️
I got chicken thighs for 98 cents on sale. I stocked up for on fixed income. Love your videos
I needed this message so much. Husband left his job 3 years ago. I have been the sole provider.. but this reminded me, GOD has been the one providing for us. He has opened the doors for me to make it easier on my family.
As a pastors kid I 1000% understand where you guys are in life. I have always appreciated how you focus on the family. I’m so proud of you guys for leaving instead of staying in a potentially toxic situation. I wish my parents would have done that.
New broom? Old kitchen broom retires to basement. Basement broom goes to garage. Garage broom goes to patio. Patio broom goes to scrap metal under hubbies lathe. Lathe broom goes onto the burn pile...unless it is winter and then is Frosty's accessory.
Thank you for being BOLD to speak Jesus. BRAVE for proclaiming God.
If you acknowledge Me before men I will acknowledge you before My Father in heaven.
Happy Birthday to Ruthie! Thank you for sharing what's going on. My best friend was married to a pastor. Sometimes life is a roller coaster ride! I'll keep you all in my prayers, and I know God will lead you to something better.
My husband and I are going through this exact thing right now. Thank you so much for posting this! God is so good!❤️
I feel for you Mindy. Between November of 2021 until April 2022, my husband went without income due to illness. It was a struggle...but we got through it!
About to lose my job more than likely but worse than that my boss has terminal cancer in like 5 locations. You’re exactly right we may be surprised but God is not. Holding fast for answers. Needed this video today and praying for your family. 😢
That's so tough on so many levels. I pray peace for you and yours at this time.
As someone who is a mom trying to get back into the workforce just for grocery money I feel this video deep in my bones.
Thank you for your testimony for how God is working! Please pray for me, because I am still in the wilderness since an unstable living situation that my former roommate put me through. Even the aftermath has contained too many bad things. Please pray that God shows me the good in all the bad so I don’t feel so afraid of an unknown future and a difficult present. Sorry to say so much.
Tears, hugs, love, and prayers! I once left my paid position in a mega church - I understand the weight of your decision! God's got you! And we'll pray you through!! Happy birthday, Ruthie!! I'm glad your folks are coming in town. You are SO loved!!! ❤
This was a hard video to watch, for the subject for sure (I am so sorry that your lives took that turn), but the cutaway to tv clips confused me so.
Praying for you and your family!! May you find peace and strength. 😊
God really does His best work in the wilderness. How well can you hear His voice at a party or a rock concert? It’s when we are at a stand still, and lost, that we are most receptive. All is well that starts and ends with Him
That's always a hard move. Our church has gone through a lot of changes the last couple years and its been so difficult. I pray whatever comes next is God-led and God-willing, a good fit.
Thank you so much!
If you are in prayer, you are doing the right things. There are disturbing things happening in churches for a while now. A small group of younger people can really change a church. Making older people feel unwelcome whether employees or congregants is one, until they figure out young people don't tithe, they throw in a $20 when they have it and then the "young" staff turns 40 and are now "old.". Young people thinking the church must have *only very modern music and everything be remodeled/changed or people will not come. God will work on people's hearts even when staff members are "old" or the church name doesn't reflect that it is a church.
This year has been a tough one for us as well. I have always been frugal so it has helped us through this. Earlier this year my husband was diagnosed with cancer and three months ago lost his job. We are holding on to God and He has been good. Thanks for sharing your experience!
Prayers for all of your family
I do that with my brooms! You gotta have an outside broom AND an inside broom. It's a necessity.
❤ Prayers for ya'll. My husband lost his job just as our daughter left for college. It was devastating because of the loss of income but for him personally. He was let go because of time he had to take off for surgery. His job was physically demanding and in the end, losing that job was good for his health. Going through that storm is can be emotional and frightening. With three kids, we worried. God has you ❤ He will always have your best in His hands.
I am so sorry your family I’d going through this. Jeremiah 29:11 came to mind which I am sure you are familiar with. “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” May I ask what denomination, if any, you are affiliated with?
Yep! That's the verse I put at the end of the video! So true! We served in the UMC, but we are not affiliated with a specific denomination at this time. My husband transferred his credentials to the Global Methodist Church.
I love your positive mindset. I have literally been on a health rollercoaster for the last 21 years. So many doctors have been amazed at what I have survived and I know its been my faith in God and all of the prayers I have received from others. 🙏🏻 that your new direction leads you to an even better life!!
Wow, they destroyed your vacation, and claim Jesus…just wow.
You are such an awesome mother and wife to support your husband through everything. ❤ I can't wait to see what's next on your journey. Can you post the cake and cupcake recipe? I always try to write it down but miss it lol
I am putting it in the description box right now! :)
@@SeeMindyMom thank you so much! ❤️
Please know that my wife and I are praying for you and your family. God is there with you each and every day! Bless you all! With love in Him, Dave and Terri
Mindy your so right, God has got y’all. 🙏
Amen! I find the fact that He is in control gives me peace and I know He will carry you all through this. Like you said He is never surprised
My husband lost his job in January of this year and the income loss at first was a very hard hit. But having him home with the kids especially with a new one due to be here in just a few weeks, has actually been an unexpected blessing.
My husband has been in ministry for 10 years and we recently came out of a very difficult season of ministry as well. We ended up relocating and found a new amazing church family. I was starting to wonder if one even existed! Praying you will lean on the Lord and trust him during this time! He is faithful!
We just recently changed churches because we felt led to and love our new church family. We'll keep y'all in our prayers as y'all go through this change.
Heard Walmart was going up 6%. I shop mostly at Aldi
Thank you, Alma! We believe in prayer and we will take all that is offered. :)
@SeeMindyMom you're welcome, friend. Us too. My hubby is here because of prayer. He has died twice (tractor trailer rollover accident and sepsis) and battled Covid, but God's not done with him yet. He's on oxygen 24-7 due to Covid damaging his lungs.
I laughed so hard at the diet soda comment then the video clip 🤣 I also drink the diet soda. And I have recently been drinking zero sugar Sunkist orange soda….amazing! I’m sure it’s terrible but to quote the clip…..”I don’t care! I love it! “
Loved this visit with you! It will be okay going forward. Thanks for all the wonderful tips!
My husband is a pastor and I just appreciate your faith in a faithful God. Praying all the best for you and your family. ❤
Thank you for sharing your experience with us and for such a beautiful testimony during a challenging time. It’s fills the cup.
We quite drinking soda all together ❤️ 😊
The office space and Will Ferrell clips were perfect 😂
I thought so! I sometimes need a little laugh to lighten up difficult moments. :)
Everything happens for a reason....a door closes and another one opens.
I don't know....seems like a lot of congregations become more private clubhouse politics and less houses of worship. Just sayin.
(while you were on vacation...and then threw a reception....odd. Just sayin, not sayin.)
There was a lot about the situation that was bizarre. Like I said...many things affirmed it was time to step aside. :)
I understand being in the wilderness. It is both scary and exciting, but you will be fine, better than fine, you will be great. Because of Daniel's professional background, he will have a lot of opportunities come his way. Your family is the core of of your existence; you will all, as one, embrace this next chapter and grow.❤❤❤
I am sorry to hear this. It sounds like your husband refused to go against his principles and rather walked away than do his job not as good as he wants to. Good for him! It is more important to stay true to yourself than someone else...I hope he will soon find something new and exciting, and that you and your family will have happiness and security. Something tells me that it will not take long. Best wishes to you and your family ❤
Mindy…what a wonderful example of a faithful servant. Both of those scriptures at the end are perfect. Thank you for your openness about your faith in an age where Christians are frequently mocked and scoffed at. We went through this very thing and had to take a literal leap into God’s mighty and capable arms and trust HE had our future in His hands. It was the hardest thing we ever did but God blessed us beyond measure. It was scary but it taught me so much about letting go of the control and worry and believing Gods knows best. I am believing and agreeing with you that this will lead to bigger and better things! God bless you, your family and your ministry!
Thank you so much for the kind words and the encouragement. Hearing those types of testimonies from friends near and far is really helpful!
I can't keep any of the Little Debbie vanilla frosted cakes (Zebra, Fancy, birthday) in the house because I can't stop eating them. Sorry to hear your husband had to make that painful decision, but it sounds as if your strong values helped you come to the right decision.
Zebra cakes are my favorite (after oatmeal cream pies, of course)! Thank you for you kind words. :)
My husband is a pastor too and I know how difficult it is to leave a church you've poured yourself into - where your dearest friends are - and where your kids have grown. Your video really tugged on my heartstrings. You have such a positive attitude though, and I know the Lord is going to take good care of you and your family. I look forward to hearing about what God's doing in the days ahead!
Thank you! That's exactly it, and it's difficult to explain sometimes how multiple facets of your life are connected to a single place when you work in the ministry. Thank you for seeing us! :)
17:40 Ah! I just got choked up when you said this. 🥹 I needed this reminder. This too shall pass…
Thank you for being so rare and vulnerable with us. Praying for you and your family during this season. 🙏🏼❤️
This past January my husband, at the age of 67 lost his good paying executive position that has been in his occupational wheelhouse for over 40 years. Then he took a part-time gig that brought a small amount of money, but as of September 1st he no longer has that. Times are getting tough for a lot of people and we are going to need those budget recipes you do on your channel! God bless you and your family. God has plans to prosper you 🙏.
Oh, wow, I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope that the best door opens for your husband and your family soon, and that it's the best, most unexpected blessing!
@@SeeMindyMom and with your family! Blessings! This might just be a blessing in disguise.
I had to stop the video to comment that YES, there is an "inside broom" and an "outside broom" at our house and I don't understand households that don't have a distinction. Like .... what are you doing? lolololol
Yes! So true!
I’ve recently come to love the phrase “hard is not the same as bad”. Thank you for being so open and real on your channel. Praying for you and your family. Can’t wait to see what God has in store for you guys!
Dear Mindy - just wanted you to know my prayers and positive thoughts are added to the many mentioned by your family, friends and fans. I hope you will not be in "limbo" for long, and that the perfect offer will present itself. Thanks for keeping us in mind and still presenting us with frugal options while your own world is flipping a little. I've had church challenges over the years, too, and the fact that the upset comes from your place of safety and comfort can really rock your faith. But, God may be perfect, but all of us servants are not. Take care, and keep the faith!
So true! Thank you!
God does some of his best work in the wilderness❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏another great video even in this difficult time❤️❤️❤️❤️
I don't go to church anymore. I find there is a lot of drama at church to say the least. I am being very NICE. I had a preacher say something he should have NEVER said to anyone! And that's the last time I went to church which was Easter Sunday of the year 2000. I am not into choosing a particular "religion" either. I can praise God anywhere. I hope things work out for you and I am sorry your vacation was cut short. Thanks for all your videos I love them all!
The church helps us to encourage one another & grow closer to our Lord & Savior. The church is not perfect & will never have perfect people because only Jesus is perfect. I am sorry that the preacher said something to upset you. We have been hurt by our former pastor as well. We forgave him & we go to a different church now.
Everyday we are growing close to Jesus Christ or farther away.
Life can be challenging at times... my 46 year old husband has terminal cancer & I just lost my job 2 months ago but the Lord is faithful. His perfect peace is more than enough to help us with the hard times.
Surrender all day /everyday, treasure every moment taking nothing for granted. No time to sweat the small stuff
& sorry that I wasted precious time.
Blessing always,
RM from Florida
I clicked on this so fast...😂
Editing to add: Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.
In all thy ways acknowledge Him, and he shall direct thy paths. (Proverbs 3: 5-6) ❤❤
Well said! If there's such a thing as "life verse", or just a verse that I keep coming back to in my lifetime, it's that one!
Thank you for this timely video. I was laid off from my job this this week and my husband is self employed so the stress has been high!
I’m so happy you shared this with us! Me and my husband and our children are currently in a “waiting season.” There are things that are or aren’t happening or we just don’t understand and the thing that gets me through is that God always has a plan and His plan is far better than my own! Change is hard, especially when it’s out of your comfort zone and/or when it’s unexpected. But God allows us to go through the changes to help us grow and to put our faith and trust in him! That’s awesome that the Lord is already putting new job offers in your husband’s path.
We also are in full-time ministry as a family here in New Jersey. And we will be praying for you because as it says in Jeremiah, he does know the plans he has for you sometimes we wish he would just tell us a little bit quicker… Lol but know that you have a friend in New Jersey who’s lifting you up in prayer and also who knows that the Lord has already gone before you.🍁🍂😊
Hi from Maine Mindy🙋🏻♀️ Maybe try using that scrubbie with BAKING SODA as a cleaner for the Yeti mugs INSTEAD of comet?🥴🤷🏻♀️👍👌. BIG birthday wishes to Ruthie🥳🎂👏👏 Sending BEST WISHES on the exciting adventures awaiting your family - you/hubby and the kiddos will ROCK the new journey!!🤩😃😎❤️
I made these cupcakes the day after watching this video. I used a yellow cake mix with vanilla pudding. I used fancy cupcake papers and they had a nice height to them. 18 cupcakes in all. I made a delicious chocolate frosting that I piped on. Shared with family and they all said hands down best cupcake ever. So moist. Now I’m spoiled. I’m going to line up my cake mixes from my pantry and made sure I have corresponding pudding mixes on hand to mix in. Great recipe. Thanks for sharing.
So glad you liked them!
So much respect for you Mindy! Love watching your videos and I will be praying that God leads y’all through these waters and to bless wherever He guides y’all! Much love from Texas! ⭐️
Praying for comfort as you try to navigate the changes in your ministry going forward! Your work won’t change because of a position, so wishing you many blessings as you work in a different path!
Thank you!
Yes, God does His best work in the wilderness, thank you for being transparent with us, and God has great plans for you and your family. God will use this to bring other people to the Lord.
My husband stepped down at our church earlier this year. It’s so hard - but, completely understand! Praying The Lord comforts you guys in this transition season. ♥️
Sometimes it’s hard to see the silver lining when you’re surrounded by the storm….but as you said…God knows it’s there and revels it to us in His time. Sending prayers to you and your family for strength and comfort.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
So true, thank you. Those are wise words and a good reminder.
Thank you Mindy Mom for sharing this with us. My husband and I may be at a crossroad in the not so distant future. We have been praying about this for a while now, and this change is of our own fruition as well, with God's help of course. I hope that you and your family had a very happy and blessed Thanksgiving. Above all, remember, that God is good, all the time.❤
Love your faith and how you use your platform to encourage, inspire and shine your light! Praying for a smooth transition for you all!
Oh Mindy I was concerned when you mentioned cutting your trip short! Thank you for sharing with us and being vulnerable I'll be praying for you and your family. You are totally right that God has a plan an I'm glad you're seeing confirmation. We have been in a wilderness experience just over a year with job loss and relocation just starting to see light at the end. There is heart break but God will bring beauty from the ashes! Eph 3:20-21 ❤
Thank you for the encouragement, and for that verse reminder! I hope the right door is opening for you and your family now!
I am so sorry for what you and your family are going through I wish you well in your future plans. On another note about the stains in your Yeti cups instead of using cleanser and scrubbing your cups use a denture cleaning tablet and water name brand or generic makes no difference works very well and no scrubbing or risk of scratching your cups. I use the method for all my stainless cups, tumblers , and mugs! Much love to you and your family! God bless!
I love diet soda so much. And aspartame is in the same “possibly carcinogenic” rank as ALOE VERA. Aloe Vera people. I’m willing to risk it 😂
I'm pretty sure there are lots of things on this planet trying to kill me, and I've decided not to worry about diet soda. LOL!
Really? Lol. I drink some diet soda. And lots of water.
God’s love is manifested in many ways and you and your family are one of them. Thank you for sharing Romans 8,28 which has been the verse that has sustained me and given me comfort and peace during my 77 years. God is good and has loving plans for your family! Thank you for blessing our lives through your channel.
Blessings to you and your family! Be sure to keep the kids in the loop. When my hubby got laid off--during the slow down in the early 2000's--I kept doing what I was doing and kept the house running while he seached for a job. He's never been laid off longer than 3 weeks (amazing to me), AND he found work in his field. ODAT.
I didn't know you could buy bakery buttercream frosting at Walmart 😮 yum! I definitely need to do this. 😅
It’s the best!
Prayers for you all. God know His plans for your next adventure.
A tip to clean out your Yeti, A small drop of liquid dishwasher soap ( like Cascade ) and boiling hot water. Let set over night. Make sure to rinse out really well. Its works perfectly. Nice and clean. And yes, I have a broom for the inside and a broom for the outside! Have a great weekend 😊
The broom...like your old tennis shoes become the garden shoes.😊 BOOMER SOONER!!!
When I was a little girl my dad was laid off a lot, one time he took me on a weekend camp out cause ,we didn't have a ton of great family times but he wanted to take me camping, he had no money for food or camping so we went to a state park and he returned bottles and cans and bought every kind of little Debbie they had at the time 1982,❤ that's all we ate that weekend I was 8 and I could have cared less it was one of my bess memories❤️. Little Debbie are great frozen too now that I'm over 50 too
New ministries are birthed in the wilderness!
Amen!
So true! Thank you!
I found 8 Cheerios oat crunch berry family size cereal at dollar tree, but I had 8 $1 off coupons, so all 8 boxes for $2.11 total!
…And he makes ROADS in the wilderness and RIVERS in the desert- Isaiah 43:19. Already praying for your rivers and roads for you and your precious family! You are loved- from a fellow minister’s wife of 29 years.
Just watching this now as I'm behind on your videos. So sorry to hear this Mindy but know God will provide for you and your family. Blessings to you 🙏🙏🙏 P.S. You are doing a great job 👍❤ Love'd Ruth's birthday party.❤
Sister you will be blessed. If God brings you to it He’ll bring you through it! Prayers for a new job on the way! Phillippians 4:4 Rejoice in the Lord Alway: and again I say, Rejoice.❤️🙏🏻
Thank you for sharing your story. Especially appreciate your closing remarks. God is Sovereign.