@cascade. ❤ it's difficult. One day at a time. My husband has been without work for 3 years due to epilepsy and a nervous breakdown. Keep up you chin and pray and believe
When I start to feel overwhelmed, I just pray, "Lord, I trust you." Sometimes I have to speak it into fruition even if I don't feel it. The psalms have also been a huge comfort, and a great tool for praying my anxiety and anger over to God. Hang in there!
I am a preacher’s wife (and daughter too) and we’ve been in that exact position before. Thank you for being real. Prayers for you during this time. And I love diet soda.😊
My husband has been in ministry for 10 years and we recently came out of a very difficult season of ministry as well. We ended up relocating and found a new amazing church family. I was starting to wonder if one even existed! Praying you will lean on the Lord and trust him during this time! He is faithful!
My son in law used to work at the same church. He's the one who told me about your channel. He was phased out last year. It was rough at first, but he's so much happier than he was. I believe God will do the same for your family. God bless you!!
As someone who works in academic advising, and career planning/human resources, whether you get fired/lose your job or walk away on your own it is still a gut punch especially if it is something you were not planning. So be kind to yourself and take a deep breath. I am so glad you decided to share this because it shows other people that they are not alone and more importantly that it is not their fault if they get fired. Sometimes life chooses to send us in a direction we did not see coming. So I guess the big question is since you can work from anywhere, will you stay in OK or go to another state with the kids in school etc?
@@kathyk9519 Yes, I know that Daniel resigned, but I wanted to make sure that people understood whether they resign or are fired, they should be kind to themselves. It isn't their fault most of the time.
@@missnewzealand6103 Because many times when we get fired there are circumstances beyond our own control that we don't see coming. Sometimes we cause the problem make no mistake, but many times we don't see it coming.
As a fellow Pastor’s wife I totally understand how this impacts your WHOLE life!! I am praying for your family but especially for your kiddos to walk in the peace and favor of the Lord❤ May your latter days be even greater than the former.
I feel you. My husband lost his mortgage industry job 10 months ago, and I can sincerely say this season has been one of the absolute sweetest, despite also carrying challenges. Praying for God's plan and purpose for you and your family!
Thank you for this! I was on staff at a church as part of the childrens ministry going on 7 years and I ended up leaving and my last day was 7/2/23 (it was not planned as I truly thought we would be there forever). It has rocked my world ( all 6 of us actually) and I am still grieving. But watching this video today was sooo encouraging. Thank you 🤍
I just left my job and accepted a position with my church as we structure to open our child care center. Because we're not open yet, I am not bringing in any income. This is a step in faith, and like others have said, I consider my church, my family. I understand your grieving...lifting you in prayer towards healing...
Thank you for saying, “We know that with the Lord there are no surprises.” I’ve had a not so good surprise at my job this week, so I can relate. But I am also incredibly peaceful because I know that there’s no point in worrying. God knew this was coming, and I can rest easy in that.
Thank you for sharing these parts of your life. As someone who has been in ministry for 15 plus years, you hit the nail on the head when you said it becomes and is your life.
My mother's affairs were starting to cause me to take too many days off as a teacher. I decided to retire after 33 years, but 6 years short of my goals. I am so stressed out about the change. It has been a 4 month long ordeal but my mother is now in assisted living, we have sold her house, and I now have time to search for a less stressful job than teaching. Good luck to you. PRAYERS!
Tears, hugs, love, and prayers! I once left my paid position in a mega church - I understand the weight of your decision! God's got you! And we'll pray you through!! Happy birthday, Ruthie!! I'm glad your folks are coming in town. You are SO loved!!! ❤
Thank you for sharing this. I was just laid off from my role in HR. I’m the sole income earner since my husbands recent traumatic brain injury, so it’s a scary time, but one where we are leaning on our gracious God.
Your positive mindset, love for the Lord, and belief in His plan for your family, are so inspiring. Thank you for sharing with us, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
When you talked about leaving 1/2 way through a vacation that you’d planned for a year, I thought “uh oh”. I admire your positive outlook, strength, and faith. I have been having a difficult time at work and I pray about it daily. Happy Birthday to sweet Ruthie!
Mindy, I'm only 2 minutes into this and I want to send you encouragement, confidence in your family's future, sympathy, and strength. Whatever comes, your family is strong enough to get through it.❤
Hugs my dear!! I was a preacher's kid, so I do understand the ups and downs of ministry life. I affirm what you said, "God knows". He has plans for us that we cannot imagine. All the best.
As a pastors kid I 1000% understand where you guys are in life. I have always appreciated how you focus on the family. I’m so proud of you guys for leaving instead of staying in a potentially toxic situation. I wish my parents would have done that.
I needed this message so much. Husband left his job 3 years ago. I have been the sole provider.. but this reminded me, GOD has been the one providing for us. He has opened the doors for me to make it easier on my family.
I know what that punch in the gut feels like. I am so sorry your family had that interrupt your special trip, and that you are having to carry around the mixed bag of feelings…one foot in front of the other, sometimes it is the sacrifice that takes us to where we need to be next. ❤️
I always enjoy your videos. Thank you for sharing the news about your husband's job - you do a huge service by modeling a sane and humane response to a scary life change. I hope Ruthie enjoyed her birthday. Your box mix cupcake recipe is legit delish! Thanks for keeping it real. Love to you and your family!!!
What a huge decision. Following God's lead through Faith is scary but comforting. We went through this at our Church 4 years ago. I, of course, was not a part of the changes but the whole church was kept in the loop as the changes were being made. Praying for your family. Love your videos.
Happy Birthday to Ruthie! Thank you for sharing what's going on. My best friend was married to a pastor. Sometimes life is a roller coaster ride! I'll keep you all in my prayers, and I know God will lead you to something better.
I love your positive mindset. I have literally been on a health rollercoaster for the last 21 years. So many doctors have been amazed at what I have survived and I know its been my faith in God and all of the prayers I have received from others. 🙏🏻 that your new direction leads you to an even better life!!
I feel for you Mindy. Between November of 2021 until April 2022, my husband went without income due to illness. It was a struggle...but we got through it!
We’re facing a lot of uncertainty and on the edge of disaster. If we can just hang on a little longer there’s a great chance we completely flip the script in as little as a year. Seeing your faith is inspiring. Normally I’d be losing sleep and making drastic moves that prolong the goals we need to achieve. But this time I have more faith and am trusting the course God put us on. Thank you for sharing your personal life and being an example. Looking through the comments it seems many of us needed this message right now.
New broom? Old kitchen broom retires to basement. Basement broom goes to garage. Garage broom goes to patio. Patio broom goes to scrap metal under hubbies lathe. Lathe broom goes onto the burn pile...unless it is winter and then is Frosty's accessory.
This year has been a tough one for us as well. I have always been frugal so it has helped us through this. Earlier this year my husband was diagnosed with cancer and three months ago lost his job. We are holding on to God and He has been good. Thanks for sharing your experience!
17:40 Ah! I just got choked up when you said this. 🥹 I needed this reminder. This too shall pass… Thank you for being so rare and vulnerable with us. Praying for you and your family during this season. 🙏🏼❤️
Mindy…what a wonderful example of a faithful servant. Both of those scriptures at the end are perfect. Thank you for your openness about your faith in an age where Christians are frequently mocked and scoffed at. We went through this very thing and had to take a literal leap into God’s mighty and capable arms and trust HE had our future in His hands. It was the hardest thing we ever did but God blessed us beyond measure. It was scary but it taught me so much about letting go of the control and worry and believing Gods knows best. I am believing and agreeing with you that this will lead to bigger and better things! God bless you, your family and your ministry!
Yes I also do the broom thing . I am praying for your family in your recent decision . In ministry it has to be so hard … like you said it’s your family , friends and place you worship … it is your whole life . Happy Birthday Ruthie !
I’m so happy you shared this with us! Me and my husband and our children are currently in a “waiting season.” There are things that are or aren’t happening or we just don’t understand and the thing that gets me through is that God always has a plan and His plan is far better than my own! Change is hard, especially when it’s out of your comfort zone and/or when it’s unexpected. But God allows us to go through the changes to help us grow and to put our faith and trust in him! That’s awesome that the Lord is already putting new job offers in your husband’s path.
About to lose my job more than likely but worse than that my boss has terminal cancer in like 5 locations. You’re exactly right we may be surprised but God is not. Holding fast for answers. Needed this video today and praying for your family. 😢
My husband lost his job in January of this year and the income loss at first was a very hard hit. But having him home with the kids especially with a new one due to be here in just a few weeks, has actually been an unexpected blessing.
My husband stepped down at our church earlier this year. It’s so hard - but, completely understand! Praying The Lord comforts you guys in this transition season. ♥️
I just went today and noticed several items have gone up by more than just a few cents. I saw a friend while I was there and she said, “Have you noticed the prices have gone up?”😏
Prices in Aldi Australia have gone through the roof. Some by as much as $2-$3 for an block of cheese. It’s disproportionate to the increase in the cost of living and even though it’s still cheaper than other supermarkets, the margin of savings are dwindling. And for quite a lot of items, there is no difference in prices buying at Aldi any more. It is such a disappointment.
As a UMC pastor I feel ya! I thought I might be in this situation but for now things have leveled and I am here. But, since we could be reappointed any year I have really worked to manage the anxiety that is always present. I am praying that your next steps will be clear. Blessings to you!
❤ Prayers for ya'll. My husband lost his job just as our daughter left for college. It was devastating because of the loss of income but for him personally. He was let go because of time he had to take off for surgery. His job was physically demanding and in the end, losing that job was good for his health. Going through that storm is can be emotional and frightening. With three kids, we worried. God has you ❤ He will always have your best in His hands.
Praying for comfort as you try to navigate the changes in your ministry going forward! Your work won’t change because of a position, so wishing you many blessings as you work in a different path!
I am praying for you and your family. I feel a peace about your family when I pray. Thanks for standing up for what you believe. My family and I have been through some wilderness medically these past few years and God always has a plan and his plan is best!
You are such an awesome mother and wife to support your husband through everything. ❤ I can't wait to see what's next on your journey. Can you post the cake and cupcake recipe? I always try to write it down but miss it lol
Thanks for sharing ❤ My husband and I are gearing up to help plant a church in KC and leaving the church I've attended for the last 20+ years is heartbreaking, but we are stepping out in faith and hoping to provide a place where others will be blessed like we have been at our current church.
I understand being in the wilderness. It is both scary and exciting, but you will be fine, better than fine, you will be great. Because of Daniel's professional background, he will have a lot of opportunities come his way. Your family is the core of of your existence; you will all, as one, embrace this next chapter and grow.❤❤❤
Prayers going our you and family. I completely understand having faith with the Lord. I have been unemployed for 4 months and still looking for a job and having faith with God. But I have fallen out many times due to certain circumstances. Then I pray and open the Bible.
My husband resigned in 2020 from his pastoral position after serving for 9 years. His resignation was due to decisions being made as well by other leadership. We loved our church family so much! It is still a punch in the gut and he still has not gone back into full-time vocational ministry (which has been insanely hard for me), but he continues to serve in our new local church. He recently turned down another position because he still needs more time to heal. Ministry is awesome, often hard, but the rewards are eternal. Praying you all stay faithful to each other as a couple, faithful as a family, faithful in a new ministry and faithful to our great Savior. Love your channel. So neat to see how God has prepped you to be so frugal for your family long before you knew that this trial would come.
Oh wow, we have heard similar stories from friends of ours, you are not alone. Covid was hard on lots of people and professions, and it was a tough time to be in ministry!
That's always a hard move. Our church has gone through a lot of changes the last couple years and its been so difficult. I pray whatever comes next is God-led and God-willing, a good fit.
Sending you love, hugs and prayers that your family has all the peace, provided by God, during this change in your life. You are so right, He knew. He planned it. And your family will be blessed greatly by Him for following His instructions to you. ❤
Thank you for being real! I have a son with High functioning autism that was "laid off" from a job. So, I get it. Praying for you and your family. It's hard being in the "wilderness", but so many people are standing with you. That's what faith and Christianity is all about.
We just recently changed churches because we felt led to and love our new church family. We'll keep y'all in our prayers as y'all go through this change.
@SeeMindyMom you're welcome, friend. Us too. My hubby is here because of prayer. He has died twice (tractor trailer rollover accident and sepsis) and battled Covid, but God's not done with him yet. He's on oxygen 24-7 due to Covid damaging his lungs.
I’ve recently come to love the phrase “hard is not the same as bad”. Thank you for being so open and real on your channel. Praying for you and your family. Can’t wait to see what God has in store for you guys!
My husband and I are in ministry as well, and from one pastor’s wife to another, I honor your faith and thank you for sharing your journey. I will be praying for you.
Bless you and your family keep your eyes on him and know in your heart he has instilled in you everything you need for this part of your journey ❤❤ have a blessed weekend
The. Lord is guiding a lot of Christian’s in different ways. I am a caregiver for my husband cannot begin to tell you how The lord has provided for us. We are in our mid to late 70’s
Solidarity and prayers coming your way. I was a minister and church-hurt, is some of the most difficult hurts. Because of enmeshment. Sending love from Ontario 🇨🇦
I too am navigating through an unexpected career transition- I am a PT and my company decided to transition to a contract company - we were given less than a 3 week notice- i had the option to sign on with the contract company , but several of their practices were just not something i was comfortable with- i was fortunate in that i had a part time offer with a different company, which is the option i chose. I realize i am far more fortunate than many, but it is still very much an unexpected gut punch and decrease in income- thank you so much for your honesty and transparency- wishing you all of the very best!
My husband is a pastor too and I know how difficult it is to leave a church you've poured yourself into - where your dearest friends are - and where your kids have grown. Your video really tugged on my heartstrings. You have such a positive attitude though, and I know the Lord is going to take good care of you and your family. I look forward to hearing about what God's doing in the days ahead!
Thank you! That's exactly it, and it's difficult to explain sometimes how multiple facets of your life are connected to a single place when you work in the ministry. Thank you for seeing us! :)
I made these cupcakes the day after watching this video. I used a yellow cake mix with vanilla pudding. I used fancy cupcake papers and they had a nice height to them. 18 cupcakes in all. I made a delicious chocolate frosting that I piped on. Shared with family and they all said hands down best cupcake ever. So moist. Now I’m spoiled. I’m going to line up my cake mixes from my pantry and made sure I have corresponding pudding mixes on hand to mix in. Great recipe. Thanks for sharing.
This past January my husband, at the age of 67 lost his good paying executive position that has been in his occupational wheelhouse for over 40 years. Then he took a part-time gig that brought a small amount of money, but as of September 1st he no longer has that. Times are getting tough for a lot of people and we are going to need those budget recipes you do on your channel! God bless you and your family. God has plans to prosper you 🙏.
Oh, wow, I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope that the best door opens for your husband and your family soon, and that it's the best, most unexpected blessing!
I don't go to church anymore. I find there is a lot of drama at church to say the least. I am being very NICE. I had a preacher say something he should have NEVER said to anyone! And that's the last time I went to church which was Easter Sunday of the year 2000. I am not into choosing a particular "religion" either. I can praise God anywhere. I hope things work out for you and I am sorry your vacation was cut short. Thanks for all your videos I love them all!
The church helps us to encourage one another & grow closer to our Lord & Savior. The church is not perfect & will never have perfect people because only Jesus is perfect. I am sorry that the preacher said something to upset you. We have been hurt by our former pastor as well. We forgave him & we go to a different church now. Everyday we are growing close to Jesus Christ or farther away. Life can be challenging at times... my 46 year old husband has terminal cancer & I just lost my job 2 months ago but the Lord is faithful. His perfect peace is more than enough to help us with the hard times. Surrender all day /everyday, treasure every moment taking nothing for granted. No time to sweat the small stuff & sorry that I wasted precious time. Blessing always, RM from Florida
Blessings to you and your family! Be sure to keep the kids in the loop. When my hubby got laid off--during the slow down in the early 2000's--I kept doing what I was doing and kept the house running while he seached for a job. He's never been laid off longer than 3 weeks (amazing to me), AND he found work in his field. ODAT.
Another of your subscribers is out here praying for you and the family-I am hopeful the other side of this wilderness is an unexpected delight. So so sorry you are having to go through this uncertain time, but glad you’re all together for it.
Please know that my wife and I are praying for you and your family. God is there with you each and every day! Bless you all! With love in Him, Dave and Terri
Ugh. So sorry. My husband is recently retired from the ministry. It’s difficult because so much of your social life, friendships, and kids relationships are tied to your church. Praying for your family as y’all search for the next ministry spot the Lord has for y’all. Thanks for sharing your life with us.
Thank you for being up front and sharing. Lots of prayers will be going up for your life direction. We are retired now, but my husband’s job loss (downsizing at a few different places he worked) was scary. But God was and is faithful. We were more than abundantly blessed in ways I still can’t even understand.
Praying for your family during this transition. Thank you for what you give to us through your channel and your willingness to be authentic and vulnerable.
Thank you for sharing your journey. My husband is not a pastor but we are heavily involved in ministry at our church and i often think about how much it would turn our lives upside down if we had to leave for some reason.
thank you for sharing your story. God bless you and your family. We have been in the wilderness as well recently. I understand. God is good and will see you through this storm. It will be ok and God is faithful. Praying for you and your family . God bless you all.
Bless for being so open about this difficult decision for you and your family. My husband are also going through a career change and relocation. Praying for a smooth transition for you and your family.
Hi Mindy! Just wanted to check-in & say how much I appreciate you sharing your family's story with us. I'm sure it took a lot of courage to share your husband's church position story with your viewers. Please know we all support you & your family. And as a woman of Christian faith myself, I find that leaning into faith during stressful uncertain times is always the right decision. We can't always control or know where our lives take us, but with God in our lives & letting our faith lead us, everything will work out. Sending positive prayers to your & your family. Happy Birthday to Ruthie too! Hope she enjoyed her birthday celebration!
As a preacher’s daughter, my heart is breaking because I truly understand what this will mean for your family. One thing about ministry is that the whole family is involved where as when a parent works in an office, for example, maybe only the parent is involved. I know that it will be good. And even if you have to move, your kids are at a good age to relocate. Trust me, I relocated a lot and it wasn’t the worst. I thought it was, but it actually wasn’t and it gave me a chance for a new start. My prayers are with y’all. 💗🙏🏻
I will definitely keep y'all in my prayers. Our family knows all too well, in the last couple of years those gut-punch moments. Could you say a prayer for my family please? I love and respect your fearless, inspirational, and steady faith. The end of your video with your words and the Bible verses hit home for me. You are a strong woman of God and it shows!
Sometimes it’s hard to see the silver lining when you’re surrounded by the storm….but as you said…God knows it’s there and revels it to us in His time. Sending prayers to you and your family for strength and comfort.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Prayers for you my dear youtube video friend. Always enjoy your videos, I’m going to try your cupcake recipe for our next Church Cake Auction Fundraiser. Love the idea also of buying the frosting ready in tube to frost, what a great idea!!
Prayers coming your way. As you said all will work out the way it is meant to be. Thank you for sharing this news with all of us. Look forward to your next awesome video.
Thankyou for the great video and words of wisdom. I am single and lost my job a few weeks ago. I'll be 61 next month and it seems like nobody wants to hire anyone over 50! I know God has a plan, but it's scary and your words have helped comfort me. Good luck and God bless you!❤
We are just coming out of a season in the wilderness and this is one of many affirmations this week of Gods love and grace on us. Thank you for being a messenger.
I really listened and this touched my heart. Especially being in the wilderness. Know God has been putting a great plan together for your family. Our walk is being ,helping our daughter along with our son's help and our faith as she goes thru her cancer journey. Never thought about us being" in the wilderness." Am doing some sole searching as I write this.She just left to go pick up our granddaughter and spend a week once again with a friend. I am going to talk and pray to help with my feelings. God bless and Take care!!
Thank you for your testimony for how God is working! Please pray for me, because I am still in the wilderness since an unstable living situation that my former roommate put me through. Even the aftermath has contained too many bad things. Please pray that God shows me the good in all the bad so I don’t feel so afraid of an unknown future and a difficult present. Sorry to say so much.
I am so sorry for what you and your family are going through I wish you well in your future plans. On another note about the stains in your Yeti cups instead of using cleanser and scrubbing your cups use a denture cleaning tablet and water name brand or generic makes no difference works very well and no scrubbing or risk of scratching your cups. I use the method for all my stainless cups, tumblers , and mugs! Much love to you and your family! God bless!
Bless you and your family! Thank you for sharing. The way you handled this situation is an example to all! I hope you find the peace you need to get thru all this! Live to you all!
I will be praying for you and your family! I am so sorry y’all were faced with such a hard decision and had to end your trip early. Praying great things are right around the corner for y’all. Thanks for sharing! 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
I swear this video was made just for me to hear. My husband lost his job this past week. I’m holding on to God for strength through this storm.
The Lord bless you & keep you!
❤❤❤ sending positive vibes your way!
@cascade. ❤ it's difficult. One day at a time. My husband has been without work for 3 years due to epilepsy and a nervous breakdown. Keep up you chin and pray and believe
Didn’t lose my job, but going through struggles. It was very encouraging and a timely word for many of us. God doesn’t leave or forsake his own.
When I start to feel overwhelmed, I just pray, "Lord, I trust you." Sometimes I have to speak it into fruition even if I don't feel it. The psalms have also been a huge comfort, and a great tool for praying my anxiety and anger over to God. Hang in there!
I am a preacher’s wife (and daughter too) and we’ve been in that exact position before. Thank you for being real. Prayers for you during this time. And I love diet soda.😊
“God does some of His best work in the wilderness, it’s going to be okay” ♥️♥️♥️♥️ OOOH. Sooo good Mindy! -Madison
amen!❤
👏👏👍👍 AWESOME way to turn a “YIKES” Into a “ We’ll be just FINE”!!😃😎
My husband has been in ministry for 10 years and we recently came out of a very difficult season of ministry as well. We ended up relocating and found a new amazing church family. I was starting to wonder if one even existed! Praying you will lean on the Lord and trust him during this time! He is faithful!
My son in law used to work at the same church. He's the one who told me about your channel. He was phased out last year. It was rough at first, but he's so much happier than he was. I believe God will do the same for your family. God bless you!!
As someone who works in academic advising, and career planning/human resources, whether you get fired/lose your job or walk away on your own it is still a gut punch especially if it is something you were not planning. So be kind to yourself and take a deep breath. I am so glad you decided to share this because it shows other people that they are not alone and more importantly that it is not their fault if they get fired. Sometimes life chooses to send us in a direction we did not see coming. So I guess the big question is since you can work from anywhere, will you stay in OK or go to another state with the kids in school etc?
Remember He didn't get fired he chose to leave. Big difference! 😊
How is it not your fault if you get fired?
Thank you! We are hoping to stay in Tulsa, but we are open to where the Lord is leading us, even if it's to another place. :)
@@kathyk9519 Yes, I know that Daniel resigned, but I wanted to make sure that people understood whether they resign or are fired, they should be kind to themselves. It isn't their fault most of the time.
@@missnewzealand6103 Because many times when we get fired there are circumstances beyond our own control that we don't see coming. Sometimes we cause the problem make no mistake, but many times we don't see it coming.
As a fellow Pastor’s wife I totally understand how this impacts your WHOLE life!! I am praying for your family but especially for your kiddos to walk in the peace and favor of the Lord❤ May your latter days be even greater than the former.
I feel you. My husband lost his mortgage industry job 10 months ago, and I can sincerely say this season has been one of the absolute sweetest, despite also carrying challenges. Praying for God's plan and purpose for you and your family!
Thank you for this! I was on staff at a church as part of the childrens ministry going on 7 years and I ended up leaving and my last day was 7/2/23 (it was not planned as I truly thought we would be there forever). It has rocked my world ( all 6 of us actually) and I am still grieving. But watching this video today was sooo encouraging. Thank you 🤍
I just left my job and accepted a position with my church as we structure to open our child care center. Because we're not open yet, I am not bringing in any income. This is a step in faith, and like others have said, I consider my church, my family. I understand your grieving...lifting you in prayer towards healing...
Thank you for saying, “We know that with the Lord there are no surprises.” I’ve had a not so good surprise at my job this week, so I can relate. But I am also incredibly peaceful because I know that there’s no point in worrying. God knew this was coming, and I can rest easy in that.
Thank you for sharing these parts of your life. As someone who has been in ministry for 15 plus years, you hit the nail on the head when you said it becomes and is your life.
Thank you for your work!
My mother's affairs were starting to cause me to take too many days off as a teacher. I decided to retire after 33 years, but 6 years short of my goals. I am so stressed out about the change. It has been a 4 month long ordeal but my mother is now in assisted living, we have sold her house, and I now have time to search for a less stressful job than teaching. Good luck to you. PRAYERS!
Tears, hugs, love, and prayers! I once left my paid position in a mega church - I understand the weight of your decision! God's got you! And we'll pray you through!! Happy birthday, Ruthie!! I'm glad your folks are coming in town. You are SO loved!!! ❤
Thank you for sharing this. I was just laid off from my role in HR. I’m the sole income earner since my husbands recent traumatic brain injury, so it’s a scary time, but one where we are leaning on our gracious God.
Your positive mindset, love for the Lord, and belief in His plan for your family, are so inspiring. Thank you for sharing with us, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
My husband is a pastor and I just appreciate your faith in a faithful God. Praying all the best for you and your family. ❤
When you talked about leaving 1/2 way through a vacation that you’d planned for a year, I thought “uh oh”. I admire your positive outlook, strength, and faith. I have been having a difficult time at work and I pray about it daily.
Happy Birthday to sweet Ruthie!
I hope things come together for you at work! Thank you for the kind words! :)
@@SeeMindyMom thank you so much! With all that you have going on in your life, you took time to read my comment and respond…thank you!
Mindy, I'm only 2 minutes into this and I want to send you encouragement, confidence in your family's future, sympathy, and strength. Whatever comes, your family is strong enough to get through it.❤
Hugs my dear!! I was a preacher's kid, so I do understand the ups and downs of ministry life. I affirm what you said, "God knows". He has plans for us that we cannot imagine. All the best.
So true! Thank you for the reminder. :)
As a pastors kid I 1000% understand where you guys are in life. I have always appreciated how you focus on the family. I’m so proud of you guys for leaving instead of staying in a potentially toxic situation. I wish my parents would have done that.
My husband and I are going through this exact thing right now. Thank you so much for posting this! God is so good!❤️
I needed this message so much. Husband left his job 3 years ago. I have been the sole provider.. but this reminded me, GOD has been the one providing for us. He has opened the doors for me to make it easier on my family.
I know what that punch in the gut feels like. I am so sorry your family had that interrupt your special trip, and that you are having to carry around the mixed bag of feelings…one foot in front of the other, sometimes it is the sacrifice that takes us to where we need to be next. ❤️
I always enjoy your videos. Thank you for sharing the news about your husband's job - you do a huge service by modeling a sane and humane response to a scary life change. I hope Ruthie enjoyed her birthday. Your box mix cupcake recipe is legit delish! Thanks for keeping it real. Love to you and your family!!!
What a huge decision. Following God's lead through Faith is scary but comforting. We went through this at our Church 4 years ago. I, of course, was not a part of the changes but the whole church was kept in the loop as the changes were being made. Praying for your family. Love your videos.
Thank you, Nancy!
Happy Birthday to Ruthie! Thank you for sharing what's going on. My best friend was married to a pastor. Sometimes life is a roller coaster ride! I'll keep you all in my prayers, and I know God will lead you to something better.
I love your positive mindset. I have literally been on a health rollercoaster for the last 21 years. So many doctors have been amazed at what I have survived and I know its been my faith in God and all of the prayers I have received from others. 🙏🏻 that your new direction leads you to an even better life!!
I feel for you Mindy. Between November of 2021 until April 2022, my husband went without income due to illness. It was a struggle...but we got through it!
We’re facing a lot of uncertainty and on the edge of disaster. If we can just hang on a little longer there’s a great chance we completely flip the script in as little as a year. Seeing your faith is inspiring. Normally I’d be losing sleep and making drastic moves that prolong the goals we need to achieve. But this time I have more faith and am trusting the course God put us on. Thank you for sharing your personal life and being an example. Looking through the comments it seems many of us needed this message right now.
Stepping out in faith is scary, sometimes. I feel that in my bones right now! I totally understand.
New broom? Old kitchen broom retires to basement. Basement broom goes to garage. Garage broom goes to patio. Patio broom goes to scrap metal under hubbies lathe. Lathe broom goes onto the burn pile...unless it is winter and then is Frosty's accessory.
This year has been a tough one for us as well. I have always been frugal so it has helped us through this. Earlier this year my husband was diagnosed with cancer and three months ago lost his job. We are holding on to God and He has been good. Thanks for sharing your experience!
Prayers for all of your family
17:40 Ah! I just got choked up when you said this. 🥹 I needed this reminder. This too shall pass…
Thank you for being so rare and vulnerable with us. Praying for you and your family during this season. 🙏🏼❤️
Mindy…what a wonderful example of a faithful servant. Both of those scriptures at the end are perfect. Thank you for your openness about your faith in an age where Christians are frequently mocked and scoffed at. We went through this very thing and had to take a literal leap into God’s mighty and capable arms and trust HE had our future in His hands. It was the hardest thing we ever did but God blessed us beyond measure. It was scary but it taught me so much about letting go of the control and worry and believing Gods knows best. I am believing and agreeing with you that this will lead to bigger and better things! God bless you, your family and your ministry!
Thank you so much for the kind words and the encouragement. Hearing those types of testimonies from friends near and far is really helpful!
Yes I also do the broom thing . I am praying for your family in your recent decision . In ministry it has to be so hard … like you said it’s your family , friends and place you worship … it is your whole life . Happy Birthday Ruthie !
Amen!! God has a plan, it’s better than we could ever imagine! Ephesians 3:20
Your right! No TESTIMONY withOUT a TEST! Prayers for your family!
I’m so happy you shared this with us! Me and my husband and our children are currently in a “waiting season.” There are things that are or aren’t happening or we just don’t understand and the thing that gets me through is that God always has a plan and His plan is far better than my own! Change is hard, especially when it’s out of your comfort zone and/or when it’s unexpected. But God allows us to go through the changes to help us grow and to put our faith and trust in him! That’s awesome that the Lord is already putting new job offers in your husband’s path.
About to lose my job more than likely but worse than that my boss has terminal cancer in like 5 locations. You’re exactly right we may be surprised but God is not. Holding fast for answers. Needed this video today and praying for your family. 😢
That's so tough on so many levels. I pray peace for you and yours at this time.
Thank you for being open and honest. My husband and I recently walked through a similar situation. It’s encouraging to know we are not alone. ❤
Praying for you and your family!! May you find peace and strength. 😊
Amen! I find the fact that He is in control gives me peace and I know He will carry you all through this. Like you said He is never surprised
My husband lost his job in January of this year and the income loss at first was a very hard hit. But having him home with the kids especially with a new one due to be here in just a few weeks, has actually been an unexpected blessing.
My husband stepped down at our church earlier this year. It’s so hard - but, completely understand! Praying The Lord comforts you guys in this transition season. ♥️
I went to Aldi yesterday and my standard grocery haul was about $35 more than usual. It was painful
It's gone up for sure!
I just went today and noticed several items have gone up by more than just a few cents. I saw a friend while I was there and she said, “Have you noticed the prices have gone up?”😏
Please tell me you’re lying, I only shop 1x/month at Aldi for specific things and haven’t been in a month…😭
Prices in Aldi Australia have gone through the roof. Some by as much as $2-$3 for an block of cheese. It’s disproportionate to the increase in the cost of living and even though it’s still cheaper than other supermarkets, the margin of savings are dwindling. And for quite a lot of items, there is no difference in prices buying at Aldi any more. It is such a disappointment.
As a UMC pastor I feel ya! I thought I might be in this situation but for now things have leveled and I am here. But, since we could be reappointed any year I have really worked to manage the anxiety that is always present. I am praying that your next steps will be clear. Blessings to you!
❤ Prayers for ya'll. My husband lost his job just as our daughter left for college. It was devastating because of the loss of income but for him personally. He was let go because of time he had to take off for surgery. His job was physically demanding and in the end, losing that job was good for his health. Going through that storm is can be emotional and frightening. With three kids, we worried. God has you ❤ He will always have your best in His hands.
Praying for comfort as you try to navigate the changes in your ministry going forward! Your work won’t change because of a position, so wishing you many blessings as you work in a different path!
Thank you!
Thank you for sharing your experience with us and for such a beautiful testimony during a challenging time. It’s fills the cup.
I am praying for you and your family. I feel a peace about your family when I pray. Thanks for standing up for what you believe. My family and I have been through some wilderness medically these past few years and God always has a plan and his plan is best!
You are such an awesome mother and wife to support your husband through everything. ❤ I can't wait to see what's next on your journey. Can you post the cake and cupcake recipe? I always try to write it down but miss it lol
I am putting it in the description box right now! :)
@@SeeMindyMom thank you so much! ❤️
Thanks for sharing ❤ My husband and I are gearing up to help plant a church in KC and leaving the church I've attended for the last 20+ years is heartbreaking, but we are stepping out in faith and hoping to provide a place where others will be blessed like we have been at our current church.
God go with you in the this new thing. We know he does those from time to time. :)
I understand being in the wilderness. It is both scary and exciting, but you will be fine, better than fine, you will be great. Because of Daniel's professional background, he will have a lot of opportunities come his way. Your family is the core of of your existence; you will all, as one, embrace this next chapter and grow.❤❤❤
Prayers going our you and family. I completely understand having faith with the Lord. I have been unemployed for 4 months and still looking for a job and having faith with God. But I have fallen out many times due to certain circumstances. Then I pray and open the Bible.
Mindy your so right, God has got y’all. 🙏
My husband resigned in 2020 from his pastoral position after serving for 9 years. His resignation was due to decisions being made as well by other leadership. We loved our church family so much! It is still a punch in the gut and he still has not gone back into full-time vocational ministry (which has been insanely hard for me), but he continues to serve in our new local church. He recently turned down another position because he still needs more time to heal. Ministry is awesome, often hard, but the rewards are eternal.
Praying you all stay faithful to each other as a couple, faithful as a family, faithful in a new ministry and faithful to our great Savior.
Love your channel. So neat to see how God has prepped you to be so frugal for your family long before you knew that this trial would come.
Oh wow, we have heard similar stories from friends of ours, you are not alone. Covid was hard on lots of people and professions, and it was a tough time to be in ministry!
@@SeeMindyMom it definitely was. Praying for you and your family.
That's always a hard move. Our church has gone through a lot of changes the last couple years and its been so difficult. I pray whatever comes next is God-led and God-willing, a good fit.
Thank you so much!
Sending you love, hugs and prayers that your family has all the peace, provided by God, during this change in your life. You are so right, He knew. He planned it. And your family will be blessed greatly by Him for following His instructions to you. ❤
Loved this visit with you! It will be okay going forward. Thanks for all the wonderful tips!
Thank you for being real! I have a son with High functioning autism that was "laid off" from a job. So, I get it. Praying for you and your family. It's hard being in the "wilderness", but so many people are standing with you. That's what faith and Christianity is all about.
We just recently changed churches because we felt led to and love our new church family. We'll keep y'all in our prayers as y'all go through this change.
Heard Walmart was going up 6%. I shop mostly at Aldi
Thank you, Alma! We believe in prayer and we will take all that is offered. :)
@SeeMindyMom you're welcome, friend. Us too. My hubby is here because of prayer. He has died twice (tractor trailer rollover accident and sepsis) and battled Covid, but God's not done with him yet. He's on oxygen 24-7 due to Covid damaging his lungs.
Love your faith and how you use your platform to encourage, inspire and shine your light! Praying for a smooth transition for you all!
I’ve recently come to love the phrase “hard is not the same as bad”. Thank you for being so open and real on your channel. Praying for you and your family. Can’t wait to see what God has in store for you guys!
My husband and I are in ministry as well, and from one pastor’s wife to another, I honor your faith and thank you for sharing your journey. I will be praying for you.
As someone who is a mom trying to get back into the workforce just for grocery money I feel this video deep in my bones.
Bless you and your family keep your eyes on him and know in your heart he has instilled in you everything you need for this part of your journey ❤❤ have a blessed weekend
The. Lord is guiding a lot of Christian’s in different ways. I am a caregiver for my husband cannot begin to tell you how The lord has provided for us. We are in our mid to late 70’s
Praying for your family, for direction and provision. Ministry can be rough, but keep trusting God for His good plan! He is always faithful. 💜
Solidarity and prayers coming your way. I was a minister and church-hurt, is some of the most difficult hurts. Because of enmeshment.
Sending love from Ontario 🇨🇦
The office space and Will Ferrell clips were perfect 😂
I thought so! I sometimes need a little laugh to lighten up difficult moments. :)
I too am navigating through an unexpected career transition- I am a PT and my company decided to transition to a contract company - we were given less than a 3 week notice- i had the option to sign on with the contract company , but several of their practices were just not something i was comfortable with- i was fortunate in that i had a part time offer with a different company, which is the option i chose. I realize i am far more fortunate than many, but it is still very much an unexpected gut punch and decrease in income- thank you so much for your honesty and transparency- wishing you all of the very best!
My husband is a pastor too and I know how difficult it is to leave a church you've poured yourself into - where your dearest friends are - and where your kids have grown. Your video really tugged on my heartstrings. You have such a positive attitude though, and I know the Lord is going to take good care of you and your family. I look forward to hearing about what God's doing in the days ahead!
Thank you! That's exactly it, and it's difficult to explain sometimes how multiple facets of your life are connected to a single place when you work in the ministry. Thank you for seeing us! :)
I made these cupcakes the day after watching this video. I used a yellow cake mix with vanilla pudding. I used fancy cupcake papers and they had a nice height to them. 18 cupcakes in all. I made a delicious chocolate frosting that I piped on. Shared with family and they all said hands down best cupcake ever. So moist. Now I’m spoiled. I’m going to line up my cake mixes from my pantry and made sure I have corresponding pudding mixes on hand to mix in. Great recipe. Thanks for sharing.
So glad you liked them!
This past January my husband, at the age of 67 lost his good paying executive position that has been in his occupational wheelhouse for over 40 years. Then he took a part-time gig that brought a small amount of money, but as of September 1st he no longer has that. Times are getting tough for a lot of people and we are going to need those budget recipes you do on your channel! God bless you and your family. God has plans to prosper you 🙏.
Oh, wow, I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope that the best door opens for your husband and your family soon, and that it's the best, most unexpected blessing!
@@SeeMindyMom and with your family! Blessings! This might just be a blessing in disguise.
This is so hard for your family. Praying for healing. And for God to lead your husband and your family where he wants you.
I don't go to church anymore. I find there is a lot of drama at church to say the least. I am being very NICE. I had a preacher say something he should have NEVER said to anyone! And that's the last time I went to church which was Easter Sunday of the year 2000. I am not into choosing a particular "religion" either. I can praise God anywhere. I hope things work out for you and I am sorry your vacation was cut short. Thanks for all your videos I love them all!
The church helps us to encourage one another & grow closer to our Lord & Savior. The church is not perfect & will never have perfect people because only Jesus is perfect. I am sorry that the preacher said something to upset you. We have been hurt by our former pastor as well. We forgave him & we go to a different church now.
Everyday we are growing close to Jesus Christ or farther away.
Life can be challenging at times... my 46 year old husband has terminal cancer & I just lost my job 2 months ago but the Lord is faithful. His perfect peace is more than enough to help us with the hard times.
Surrender all day /everyday, treasure every moment taking nothing for granted. No time to sweat the small stuff
& sorry that I wasted precious time.
Blessing always,
RM from Florida
Blessings to you and your family! Be sure to keep the kids in the loop. When my hubby got laid off--during the slow down in the early 2000's--I kept doing what I was doing and kept the house running while he seached for a job. He's never been laid off longer than 3 weeks (amazing to me), AND he found work in his field. ODAT.
Another of your subscribers is out here praying for you and the family-I am hopeful the other side of this wilderness is an unexpected delight. So so sorry you are having to go through this uncertain time, but glad you’re all together for it.
Please know that my wife and I are praying for you and your family. God is there with you each and every day! Bless you all! With love in Him, Dave and Terri
Ugh. So sorry. My husband is recently retired from the ministry. It’s difficult because so much of your social life, friendships, and kids relationships are tied to your church. Praying for your family as y’all search for the next ministry spot the Lord has for y’all. Thanks for sharing your life with us.
Praying for you and your family! Thanks for keeping it real and sharing what you know on this platform!
Thank you for being up front and sharing. Lots of prayers will be going up for your life direction. We are retired now, but my husband’s job loss (downsizing at a few different places he worked) was scary. But God was and is faithful. We were more than abundantly blessed in ways I still can’t even understand.
Praying for your family during this transition. Thank you for what you give to us through your channel and your willingness to be authentic and vulnerable.
It’s my pleasure. Thanks for watching. :)
Thank you for sharing your journey. My husband is not a pastor but we are heavily involved in ministry at our church and i often think about how much it would turn our lives upside down if we had to leave for some reason.
thank you for sharing your story. God bless you and your family. We have been in the wilderness as well recently. I understand. God is good and will see you through this storm. It will be ok and God is faithful. Praying for you and your family . God bless you all.
Bless for being so open about this difficult decision for you and your family. My husband are also going through a career change and relocation. Praying for a smooth transition for you and your family.
Hi Mindy! Just wanted to check-in & say how much I appreciate you sharing your family's story with us. I'm sure it took a lot of courage to share your husband's church position story with your viewers. Please know we all support you & your family. And as a woman of Christian faith myself, I find that leaning into faith during stressful uncertain times is always the right decision. We can't always control or know where our lives take us, but with God in our lives & letting our faith lead us, everything will work out. Sending positive prayers to your & your family. Happy Birthday to Ruthie too! Hope she enjoyed her birthday celebration!
Thank you for this timely video. I was laid off from my job this this week and my husband is self employed so the stress has been high!
Thanks for being so honest and real. Good things happen to great people. God bless you and your family!!!
As a preacher’s daughter, my heart is breaking because I truly understand what this will mean for your family. One thing about ministry is that the whole family is involved where as when a parent works in an office, for example, maybe only the parent is involved. I know that it will be good. And even if you have to move, your kids are at a good age to relocate. Trust me, I relocated a lot and it wasn’t the worst. I thought it was, but it actually wasn’t and it gave me a chance for a new start. My prayers are with y’all. 💗🙏🏻
I will definitely keep y'all in my prayers. Our family knows all too well, in the last couple of years those gut-punch moments. Could you say a prayer for my family please? I love and respect your fearless, inspirational, and steady faith. The end of your video with your words and the Bible verses hit home for me. You are a strong woman of God and it shows!
Sometimes it’s hard to see the silver lining when you’re surrounded by the storm….but as you said…God knows it’s there and revels it to us in His time. Sending prayers to you and your family for strength and comfort.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
So true, thank you. Those are wise words and a good reminder.
Prayers for you my dear youtube video friend.
Always enjoy your videos, I’m going to try your cupcake recipe for our next Church Cake Auction Fundraiser. Love the idea also of buying the frosting ready in tube to frost, what a great idea!!
Prayers coming your way. As you said all will work out the way it is meant to be. Thank you for sharing this news with all of us. Look forward to your next awesome video.
Thankyou for the great video and words of wisdom. I am single and lost my job a few weeks ago. I'll be 61 next month and it seems like nobody wants to hire anyone over 50! I know God has a plan, but it's scary and your words have helped comfort me. Good luck and God bless you!❤
We are just coming out of a season in the wilderness and this is one of many affirmations this week of Gods love and grace on us. Thank you for being a messenger.
My pleasure. Thank you for letting me know!
I really listened and this touched my heart. Especially being in the wilderness. Know God has been putting a great plan together for your family. Our walk is being ,helping our daughter along with our son's help and our faith as she goes thru her cancer journey. Never thought about us being" in the wilderness." Am doing some sole searching as I write this.She just left to go pick up our granddaughter and spend a week once again with a friend. I am going to talk and pray to help with my feelings. God bless and Take care!!
Thank you for your testimony for how God is working! Please pray for me, because I am still in the wilderness since an unstable living situation that my former roommate put me through. Even the aftermath has contained too many bad things. Please pray that God shows me the good in all the bad so I don’t feel so afraid of an unknown future and a difficult present. Sorry to say so much.
Oooooh we have been there! So sorry you're going through this! God worked it all to the good for us and will for you as well.
I am so sorry for what you and your family are going through I wish you well in your future plans. On another note about the stains in your Yeti cups instead of using cleanser and scrubbing your cups use a denture cleaning tablet and water name brand or generic makes no difference works very well and no scrubbing or risk of scratching your cups. I use the method for all my stainless cups, tumblers , and mugs! Much love to you and your family! God bless!
Bless you and your family! Thank you for sharing. The way you handled this situation is an example to all! I hope you find the peace you need to get thru all this! Live to you all!
Love...not live...lol
I will be praying for you and your family! I am so sorry y’all were faced with such a hard decision and had to end your trip early. Praying great things are right around the corner for y’all. Thanks for sharing!
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