You're so right here! It takes strength of character to stand up and get rid of these time wasters. They want to bring you down to their level. I was seeing a narc for a few years, and at the end I was no further ahead than the first day I met him. I was so angry like you said, I stay away now from these toxic manipulators but have got caught up in the arguing that goes in endless circles. Block, and keep them blocked!
What make sense is that nothing makes sense with people like that. Cutting them off will definitely reveal then to everybody else sooner or later. They try to hoover you back and reel you in to use you as their meat shield and scapegoat out of you.
They do know exactly what they did. They do play dumb. But I proved to myself that ever since I went no contact, I allow no one in my home, stopped using FB ( literally no one can reach me by social media unless I give my actual email and it's not my TH-cam Gmail either) none of those terrible things are happening anymore..like when I set my keys on the table...they stay there...they don't get moved(hidden) on me. Things like that... You are on the ball! #Amen
@@maddyblackier8953 Yea Maddie. My friend would call me and say she couldn't find her keys at 6 am ro get on the road. She had a female staying with her that always wanted to use the car while she went to work. When she said NO, I'm taking myself to work and back> that's when the occasional flat tire, then missing keys occurred. She ended up getting a tow to Volkswagen for $125 and a new key foe $340. She never told the girl where the car was for the days at the shop. She was so surprised to see it back. My friend told her to pack up and leave that day. The girl complied. But the windshield was hammered the next day.
@@federal6616 It felt really nice this morning (every morning) to wake up and find my keys still in the same place that I left them. I have had my lug nuts loosened on my tires, break lines cut. I got rid of that car altogether it costed me 1100$ to fix the damages they caused. They can't know where you live , work or what you drive.
Same here. I'm on the fence on whether to take the scissors he handed me to cut the tie... might give it a bit and see if he wants to keep the friendship or not. I don't want to Door slam them but it seems like they're giving me no choice. Most people are trash
I was always there for my old friends...and I tell you it ain't easy mentally when you're left behind like they don't even care... you have barely anyone to talk to or trust... there are people who are definitely never coming back...
@@patriciaking7892 yes I do know...I don't care what people say that crap hurts...it has been years of having almost a stinging in my heart...a physical pain...people can say men shouldn't cry I don't care...I held that shit for like almost 6 years and I had nights I just wept coming home from work...feeling so torn to shreds inside, so dehumanized...I mean I had other evils coming at me from different angles...but when you really care and love people like family...it hurts when they do that sketchy stuff and up and leave...
Thank you Lord. they even act like they don't know you but they know what they did to you. And they are watching you to see how far you'll go with all that they did to you. Lord help me keep my head up high.
I been in a Situation where she was taking advantage of me. I just cut her lose and never look back. She keep reaching out but I gave her the cold shoulder. I don’t need her she need me. No Contact works.
The more you see yourself as what you'd like to become and act as if what you want is already there, the more you'll activate those dormant forces that will collaborate to transform your dream into your reality. Much Love from a Law Of Attraction TH-camr 💜
Joel. I seriously can’t get over everything you’re saying……. A perfect match explaining all those horrible HORRIBLE people out there. God Bless You 汁♡♡♡
The Marijuana analogy.100 percent. Those plants are like your babies. Not " like" your children. But a nuture nature attitude is what it takes to have budding beauties.. Time. Investment. Love, are all things you put into a relationship as its blossoming and forevermore. Deffinitely "cut them off"!! "Raw n Unfiltered".
Yes, it is hard to believe the quality inside some people, you look into their eyes and wait for any compassion or remorse.... Nothing. Empty..... Not easy to accept.
Feeling like wasted time: is actually wasted learning. If feel like wasted time, you'll naturally feel regret If you're in regret: some life lesson isn't being learned. Either you close up to life or is going to happen again. You've have to do the it from a space from the heart: that way won't feel regret
Well I must be one hell of a person because I’ve always had nothing but good intentions and love And I put 110% into every person that I’m in a relationship with or that I say I love I Mean everything I do too when I say something I mean it I just had to throw my ex out it’s been about a year now thank God and I never want to see that Person again and I value time to get socks cause I wasted four years of my life to with my ex. And me I am way too passionate I’m a super passionate person but I wouldn’t change it and I’m the one always gets screwed when I invest too much . You’re absolutely right I believe that 100% 110% you’re absolutely right
Incredible Massive Healing Energy and Truth. We Love You. Even those old enough to look back on wasted Decades consider you as eternally wise beyond your apparent years. Brave Warrior, You Are Honored. Thank You.
Yep! Wasted my time on 2 LTM for 28 years! So happy to be on my own now! The 1st year of grieving was tough. But now I’m excited to set up my new little place and settle in with my favorite pooch. :) Very thankful for all the narc channels on YT. So thankful! :)
Discard you lik a dirty toilet paper .... Next day are on cloud nine with new toy ... They are lik fleas jumping from one dog to another .... The flea misses the dog?!? Nops .... It misses the blood=food=energy=supply for a narcissist ....
They do know.... what they have done... it’s in their EYES!!! 👁 Anyone ever get “nobody is that good!?” Commented to them... I didn’t understand them ...until they came back at me to place apon bad/wrong perhaps evil things... and all because of jealousy!!!! At the time this was said, I was explaining my plans; I was forgiving people and trying to set them up for helping making a better future... if they wanted it.. I was offering to teach them instead of just giving it to them... not joking... Instead they would rather take from you alittle now... Instead of an substainable future lol 😂 Wow right? Meaning, I will not hand you money, but will provide an income, a job, a business, a future... not joking... many times .., many people... No, people want instant
Never actually thought of myself as one.. but just by entertaining the thought, in the space of a week, I almost don’t recognize myself anymore. King. Everything good that you have and everything good that’s coming your way, you deserve it all. Very obvious that you’re chosen
And the Devil said: How to get fooled the good ones?!? .... Already know!!! Let's send the Evil disguised of Good = Narcissist! .... Pure Evil .... With a chip of destruction inside ....
Yes....as good as your intentions!!!! Amen Brother!!! I will not be changed by their nastiness!!! But by God Himself... I've walked away for good from family and so called friends!!!!!
I luv ur take on narc.. T I M E .....they are time stealers.....you are wise for your Years... you learned Early.....it took me 38 years.....a Lifetime...............................
Time wasters nail on the head. Once you know who these people are you just navigate around and through and keep it moving. The values have to be pretty darn similar and if there's are way off there's your answer. Took me a while to realize that there's people like this in the world.I enjoy time with myself and also enjoy time with people that love and value me.
2:11.pm. Arizona Time. " cut them off".100% correct. God said.."stephanie ,you must cut them off.. completely..No contact". So.. That's exactly what I've done. So. THIS is Quality advice my friend. 214x10 blessings must be yours. In Jesus Mighty Name. Amien. ☝
2:11-2:42. One month ago I did that. I walked away after trying trying and trying for YEARS. its tremendously hard to deal with because it’s my family that I had to walk away from. And it hurts deeply. My life is my family… But straight up betrayal? Really? I have no words….. They shattered my heart man.
I just want to say thank you all your video has been helping I’m going thought a mid life crisis I now realize I am a chosen one I have value and my time and energy is important.
They find people who’s time is their love language and abuse it that way. Ok, let’s take that further…they learn whatever love language you have, and abuse it. Hurting people hurt people. Break the cycle. Take your anger out on a bike, work out, care for a dog.
I can’t believe any person is lost. It’s not processing in my head. How come they can’t see love? This makes me sad. Even a dog can see love. Are these people that hurt? Tearing up right now.
Incredible Development Is Very Important In Life God Put This Types Of People In Our Life For Us To Grow And Prosper The Person Who Causes Pain In Our Life Led Us To The Journey Of Sucess We Should Be Thankful To Them 😁
It will be more than that. I am here to do one thing. The mission has been completed. The extra is this... we are going to watch... lightning strikes at me won't stop the angels . We are ready
I had cut off family for accusing me of stealing. They found their jewelry a day later now begging me to come back...since I cut them off they saying that I’m fake and that I didn’t care for them. Would you go back be honest or am I trippin ?
Try being a faithful loyal female who invested 22yrs on loving a boy that refused to grow up and be a man. He would pretend lie cheat steal. That's why I am alone to this day. He moved after he found where I was. Never again ever. I gave him everything now I am investigating in me and my future. I do feel bad that he will never be anything but that was his choice. I invested everything so he would grow into a man. He chose to play me for a fool. Never again.
Trauma if stroke nothing compared to wat others do to one person they deny wat they do .they think I'm desensitizes to they're target ING I going to take my life my children also gaslight me my mother brother my sisters also just pawn in they're show yes I was told my children make show of me hanging me out to dry comments I have no family now I'm homeless because of they're reverse technology in trustworthy .sometimes we have to leave no one real around me now 2friends that told me my mother was badmouth me in work before they took car run me into ground with phnewmonia aids pluersly stroke was nothing compared to wat they do .some soul family on this . Thank you .they treat me lesser than human took my privacy to even wash my self a rape on soul level . Emotional spiritual going on years now .💜
It’s crazy that most of us who came across these narc channels is because we isolated and started looking for answers. God bless you Terry
That's exactly how I feel.
Yes, he’s been such a great blessing!
Thats the only thing most of us feel we can do ❤
Amen true statement
Amen
Leaving them in silence and creating a new life delivers the ultimate narcissist injury.
unfortunately i don’t think they will stop the stalking....
Keep on speaking the truth!!! These demons know exactly what they did to to you. Cut them off no explanation needed!!!!
100% agreed I cut people off all the time/ This tactic gets great results./ Simply because they need us and we don't need them and they know it🤭
Perfectly Put !!! 🥰
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Spiritual battle. Empaths vs narcissists. Stay strong everyone. Let old trash go. Pray for them. That's all u can do. narcissists DO NOT CHANGE.
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People are effed up they will try to take everything from u when they see ur potential
yeah thats what my haters are doing
Protect my incomes at all cost ! Delete block remove those takers
@@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan yup u gotta be wise in these last days
They're trying to stay alive so bad and don't even know they're dead! You did awesome!!
You can see pure evil by looking deeply into thier dead eyes.... It sends an unmistakable signal to your brain to run away!!!!!
True the eyes are the window the the soul and our intentions
Like some late night Slavic girls , and Turkish girls . Dark dark dark dark make me feel cold ....
My strong intimidating eye contact can see through people soul
If you let them back after they done some shady things it will only get worse when you let them back in and they will disrespect you way worse.
I agree 👍💯
Let them pay the price for done me dirty ! Leave dark sucking vibes girls alone . They are angry because of run off money .
Yup, been there, done that….I cut off a lot of people silently….then they try to weasel back in…nope, nope and nope.
And NOPE
,and NOPE
And nope
Time is more valuable than money Yet so many people waste their time for money. You can earn back lost money but you can never earn back lost time.
Let the dead bury their dead but we're alive in Christ! You're amazing you tuber!!
It hurts letting go but it hurts even more holding on to something that means you no good.
Clay Alston, what hurts me is being LONELY not leaving them alone.
@@patriciaking7892 Being lonely and being alone is two different things. You're never alone even when your by yourself.
Most suffer from an unsound mind and often are having psychotic breaks because they control nothing.
I'm in isolation now, and it's HELL. I Pray I'll develope a tough skin through it all.
You're so right here! It takes strength of character to stand up and get rid of these time wasters. They want to bring you down to their level. I was seeing a narc for a few years, and at the end I was no further ahead than the first day I met him. I was so angry like you said, I stay away now from these toxic manipulators but have got caught up in the arguing that goes in endless circles. Block, and keep them blocked!
Agreed!! The test of time always holds true.
If your in the same place you were at the end of a toxic friendship you were dealing with a narc
What make sense is that nothing makes sense with people like that. Cutting them off will definitely reveal then to everybody else sooner or later. They try to hoover you back and reel you in to use you as their meat shield and scapegoat out of you.
They do know exactly what they did. They do play dumb. But I proved to myself that ever since I went no contact, I allow no one in my home, stopped using FB ( literally no one can reach me by social media unless I give my actual email and it's not my TH-cam Gmail either) none of those terrible things are happening anymore..like when I set my keys on the table...they stay there...they don't get moved(hidden) on me. Things like that...
You are on the ball! #Amen
Wow. I know someone thos was happening to. Keys getting lost n shit
Probably what I need to do
@@federal6616 let me guess....right before work? They laugh while you frantically look everywhere.
@@maddyblackier8953 Yea Maddie. My friend would call me and say she couldn't find her keys at 6 am ro get on the road. She had a female staying with her that always wanted to use the car while she went to work. When she said NO, I'm taking myself to work and back> that's when the occasional flat tire, then missing keys occurred. She ended up getting a tow to Volkswagen for $125 and a new key foe $340. She never told the girl where the car was for the days at the shop. She was so surprised to see it back. My friend told her to pack up and leave that day. The girl complied. But the windshield was hammered the next day.
@@federal6616 It felt really nice this morning (every morning) to wake up and find my keys still in the same place that I left them. I have had my lug nuts loosened on my tires, break lines cut. I got rid of that car altogether it costed me 1100$ to fix the damages they caused. They can't know where you live , work or what you drive.
If I cut them off ✂️chances are they handed me scissors & they didn't even realize it ...😅 Keep speaking the truth bc I agree with you🤞💯
Same here. I'm on the fence on whether to take the scissors he handed me to cut the tie... might give it a bit and see if he wants to keep the friendship or not. I don't want to Door slam them but it seems like they're giving me no choice. Most people are trash
I was always there for my old friends...and I tell you it ain't easy mentally when you're left behind like they don't even care... you have barely anyone to talk to or trust... there are people who are definitely never coming back...
Phil U, I know right😢😢.
@@patriciaking7892 yes I do know...I don't care what people say that crap hurts...it has been years of having almost a stinging in my heart...a physical pain...people can say men shouldn't cry I don't care...I held that shit for like almost 6 years and I had nights I just wept coming home from work...feeling so torn to shreds inside, so dehumanized...I mean I had other evils coming at me from different angles...but when you really care and love people like family...it hurts when they do that sketchy stuff and up and leave...
Thank you Lord. they even act like they don't know you but they know what they did to you. And they are watching you to see how far you'll go with all that they did to you. Lord help me keep my head up high.
I been in a Situation where she was taking advantage of me. I just cut her lose and never look back. She keep reaching out but I gave her the cold shoulder. I don’t need her she need me. No Contact works.
Does that mean block?!?
Right now I don't let em get to me I just treat them like they're not there
Way down these people will steal everything you work for they will not help you build they will take what I built from your hard work and scrafieces
The more you see yourself as what you'd like to become and act as if what you want is already there, the more you'll activate those dormant forces that will collaborate to transform your dream into your reality.
Much Love from a Law Of Attraction TH-camr 💜
Joel.
I seriously can’t get over everything you’re saying…….
A perfect match explaining all those horrible HORRIBLE people out there.
God Bless You 汁♡♡♡
The Marijuana analogy.100 percent. Those plants are like your babies. Not " like" your children. But a nuture nature attitude is what it takes to have budding beauties.. Time. Investment. Love, are all things you put into a relationship as its blossoming and forevermore. Deffinitely "cut them off"!! "Raw n Unfiltered".
💯💯great message!. Silence can be more powerful than words.
PREACH!!! BRO! KEEP DOING BIG THINGS & MOVE IN SILENCE.
Yes, it is hard to believe the quality inside some people, you look into their eyes and wait for any compassion or remorse.... Nothing. Empty..... Not easy to accept.
I did away with all social media except youtube. Gotta watch TJJ😆
Taking or not taking Accountability show's one's True Character.
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Feeling like wasted time: is actually wasted learning. If feel like wasted time, you'll naturally feel regret
If you're in regret: some life lesson isn't being learned. Either you close up to life or is going to happen again. You've have to do the it from a space from the heart: that way won't feel regret
Well I must be one hell of a person because I’ve always had nothing but good intentions and love And I put 110% into every person that I’m in a relationship with or that I say I love I Mean everything I do too when I say something I mean it I just had to throw my ex out it’s been about a year now thank God and I never want to see that Person again and I value time to get socks cause I wasted four years of my life to with my ex. And me I am way too passionate I’m a super passionate person but I wouldn’t change it and I’m the one always gets screwed when I invest too much . You’re absolutely right I believe that 100% 110% you’re absolutely right
Incredible Massive Healing Energy and Truth. We Love You. Even those old enough to look back on wasted Decades consider you as eternally wise beyond your apparent years. Brave Warrior, You Are Honored. Thank You.
Yep! Wasted my time on 2 LTM for 28 years! So happy to be on my own now! The 1st year of grieving was tough. But now I’m excited to set up my new little place and settle in with my favorite pooch. :) Very thankful for all the narc channels on YT. So thankful! :)
whats the LTM initials for I have a right idea when you mentioned for 28 years!
Pure And Utter Facts! From Mr Terry Joel Junior, Yo!!! 🇬🇧 🙏 🇨🇦
The wasted time is really hard to accept
same its my only regret
but then again i think would i be alive if i didn’t go through what i went through...
Discard you lik a dirty toilet paper .... Next day are on cloud nine with new toy ... They are lik fleas jumping from one dog to another .... The flea misses the dog?!? Nops .... It misses the blood=food=energy=supply for a narcissist ....
They do know.... what they have done...
it’s in their EYES!!! 👁
Anyone ever get “nobody is that good!?”
Commented to them...
I didn’t understand them ...until they came back at me to place apon bad/wrong perhaps evil things... and all because of jealousy!!!!
At the time this was said, I was explaining my plans;
I was forgiving people and trying to set them up for helping making a better future... if they wanted it..
I was offering to teach them instead of just giving it to them... not joking...
Instead they would rather take from you alittle now... Instead of an substainable future lol 😂 Wow right?
Meaning, I will not hand you money, but will provide an income, a job, a business, a future... not joking... many times .., many people...
No, people want instant
Never actually thought of myself as one.. but just by entertaining the thought, in the space of a week, I almost don’t recognize myself anymore.
King. Everything good that you have and everything good that’s coming your way, you deserve it all. Very obvious that you’re chosen
And the Devil said: How to get fooled the good ones?!? .... Already know!!! Let's send the Evil disguised of Good = Narcissist! .... Pure Evil .... With a chip of destruction inside ....
Yes....as good as your intentions!!!! Amen Brother!!! I will not be changed by their nastiness!!! But by God Himself... I've walked away for good from family and so called friends!!!!!
This is so spot on as always. They just don't chaing. As much as we want them to chaing they won't.
I luv ur take on narc.. T I M E .....they are time stealers.....you are wise for your Years... you learned Early.....it took me 38 years.....a Lifetime...............................
They're possessed by some evil spirit
They are vessels for a multitude of unclean spirits
Time wasters nail on the head. Once you know who these people are you just navigate around and through and keep it moving. The values have to be pretty darn similar and if there's are way off there's your answer. Took me a while to realize that there's people like this in the world.I enjoy time with myself and also enjoy time with people that love and value me.
SPEAK 🗣 the TRUTH Terry‼️👏👏👏LIARS, deceptive manipulating snakes 🐍 Disrespectful live without morals and purpose they bite the band that feeds them!
2:11.pm. Arizona Time.
" cut them off".100% correct. God said.."stephanie ,you must cut them off.. completely..No contact". So.. That's exactly what I've done. So. THIS is Quality advice my friend. 214x10 blessings must be yours. In Jesus Mighty Name. Amien. ☝
Yes Joel! Great video mate, every word you speak is pure 💯💯💯% Wisdom Bro! Thank You.😃👊
2:11-2:42.
One month ago I did that.
I walked away after trying trying and trying for YEARS. its tremendously hard to deal with because it’s my family that I had to walk away from.
And it hurts deeply.
My life is my family…
But straight up betrayal? Really?
I have no words…..
They shattered my heart man.
Terry you speak of my family. It makes ne so sad. Why would anybody hurt a little child and call them stupid?
It's a never ending cutting off.
Dude why every thing you say matches with my life
Because all chosen ones are connected
Everything he says plus more that I didnt realise 👍
I just want to say thank you all your video has been helping I’m going thought a mid life crisis I now realize I am a chosen one I have value and my time and energy is important.
Terry you are prophetic, thank you
Thank you woman of god
Bravo! 🙏🏼✨
one of your best videos they keep coming around and showing you what they are till you believe it.
Ive cut off everyone family so called friends even work colleagues
They find people who’s time is their love language and abuse it that way. Ok, let’s take that further…they learn whatever love language you have, and abuse it. Hurting people hurt people. Break the cycle. Take your anger out on a bike, work out, care for a dog.
PSA: YOU don’t want to be the focus of THEIR hurt.
They do want love. It’s just a f’d up version that people, like me, who haven’t been abused can’t comprehend.
If they don't adhere to your code. Them move on!! Stay strong men
Very good keep them coming
I can’t believe any person is lost. It’s not processing in my head. How come they can’t see love? This makes me sad. Even a dog can see love. Are these people that hurt? Tearing up right now.
Excellent lesson...
Incredible Development Is Very Important In Life God Put This Types Of People In Our Life For Us To Grow And Prosper The Person Who Causes Pain In Our Life Led Us To The Journey Of Sucess We Should Be Thankful To Them 😁
💯💯💯💯💯💯 yup I lost my job because of this individual.
“Let’s say you love weed” 😂
I agree with you 100 percent you are tight on point.😊
It does make sense because they'll look at you though like what they know and yes silently
Makes total sense to me my dude.
Peace and love
Right on time, Terry. As always.
It will be more than that. I am here to do one thing. The mission has been completed. The extra is this... we are going to watch... lightning strikes at me won't stop the angels . We are ready
My ex will learn the hard way and so many others
Yup let them go
This video came at the perfect time . Thank you man👍
I owe you terry
Thank you
Thank you so much
Luv ya man
Xxx
She acts like she did nothing wrong prancing around with the new idiot one week later.
thank you terry. great advice.
I had cut off family for accusing me of stealing. They found their jewelry a day later now begging me to come back...since I cut them off they saying that I’m fake and that I didn’t care for them. Would you go back be honest or am I trippin ?
My ex is literally flashing a flashlight thru my window right now 💀 id love to cut him off but he does ish like this. Who still has a flashlight 😵
Look at those 👀💙
You are so on point... Appreciate you so
Good stuff 👏 thanks
You’re growing on me bro
They know they lie lie lie cropution is real I know 💯 percent where ur coming from
Try being a faithful loyal female who invested 22yrs on loving a boy that refused to grow up and be a man. He would pretend lie cheat steal. That's why I am alone to this day. He moved after he found where I was. Never again ever. I gave him everything now I am investigating in me and my future. I do feel bad that he will never be anything but that was his choice. I invested everything so he would grow into a man. He chose to play me for a fool. Never again.
I'm happy mate having a good day storm cleanup bins finally here ..keep calm carry on
God bless 🙌🙏 you Brethren Tjj.
Tgr
I always told him I don't need him I wanted him. Not anymore I cut him off and want nothing to do with him.
Yeah Bruddah yeah. 👍🏼
Yea they steal your plants
Parasites on two legs 🦶🦶❌✂️ in
🌟✨2022✨🌟
For better health and wealth
Thank u 💘👑
Your on one bro....I'm there too!
On target brother.
Thank you so much this video truly helped.
People such as you describe here just want to be entertained. F.....that.
Deep💯💯💯💯
👍🏻❤️💯🌟
SO TRUE
I was tricked trust ed someone 🧐
Trauma if stroke nothing compared to wat others do to one person they deny wat they do .they think I'm desensitizes to they're target ING I going to take my life my children also gaslight me my mother brother my sisters also just pawn in they're show yes I was told my children make show of me hanging me out to dry comments I have no family now I'm homeless because of they're reverse technology in trustworthy .sometimes we have to leave no one real around me now 2friends that told me my mother was badmouth me in work before they took car run me into ground with phnewmonia aids pluersly stroke was nothing compared to wat they do .some soul family on this . Thank you .they treat me lesser than human took my privacy to even wash my self a rape on soul level . Emotional spiritual going on years now .💜