Why People Blame Others

Remember that codependency and shame are a lack of personal responsibility. We are stuck in the adapted wounded child state, where we cannot take ownership for any of our mistakes, and the only way out is to blame someone else.
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[@AParrotnamedCharlie]

Kept my boundaries today kind sir. All I heard was four different reasons, kept changing their story, why I should ignore my feelings and let them come and see me. When someone says no, they do not feel like having company, the person should respect that. Well in this case they had no choice but to.

[@marilyncole3368]

Good for you!

[@fmtforme]

My husband of 30 years. We’re now divorcing. He cannot take responsibility for irresponsible behavior and just blames me for leaving.

[@missdjerotica]

Congratulations for getting out!!! Sending love and light!!! I love you ❤

[@atari8603]

Western people will always divorce for no reason

[@marilyncole3368]

My problem is that I tend to blame myself for EVERYTHING! I'm learning to train myself out of this behavior though. When you're told all your life that everything was your fault you start believing it

[@StoicContrarian]

Everything is your fault; that’s the whole point of this video. Otherwise other people have power over your life.

[@missdjerotica]

My ex would tell me over and over again that it was my periods’ fault that we would fight. That I needed to get a hysterectomy. Him and his mom made up a plan that he would go stay at his moms house each month when I had my period. Even though we would have issue’s because of his choices and deceit towards me about his actions. I’m in 3 therapy groups weekly now. This is hard work getting better from everything. So hard.

[@jennyanderson4796]

Our periods are major , loss of sleep & forgetting to eat right or I can never seem to go with out caffeine which is not good then were not excellent at figuring out the best herbs minerals or vits that could have helped with this & in turn get easily labeled as mental its so terrible almost worthy of an entire study .... geez lousie ... your not alone !

[@Alphacentauri819]

That's sad.
It wasn't you having a period that caused the issue. Sure, our hormones can cause us to be more vulnerable (prone to emotional dysregulation, and more), however, to target that is to ignore the bigger issues.
It sounds like there were problems with boundaries & needs, knowing them, communicating them clearly and calmly.
If there is pulling others in (like his mom) into such things, without trying to calmly work it out with you first...that's unhealthy.
Blame is a maladaptive pattern (often from childhood) that avoids vulnerability and responsibility.
It is key to work on our own issues, and only date others who will show up in the same way.
Healing your attachment style, core wounds, is imperative. Also, showing up for yourself every day, with kind words, activities that support you, habits that encourage your health and growth (physical, mental, emotional, spiritual), will ensure that you will only tolerate healthy others in your life.

[@michellegaines3568]

So true 💯

[@bhaddaszz]

(FACTS OVA FEELINGS) The Very First Chance that ADAM/ MAN got He Put the Blame On WOMBMAN

[@jeffrey9757]

this reminds me of the ex-president.

[@PinkYellowGreen2023]

Nobody will admit to anything you blamed them for, so don't. It is a waste of time. No one ever admits or confesses to anything you blame them for. Its ALL YOUR FAULT ALL OF THE TIME