As a non-native English speaker, I find your speeches easy-to-understand. I always try to peak up your style in talking and organizing ideas. thanks a lot.
•She always talks about how she feels about you •She always talks about the future with you •She questions when she doesn’t hear from you •She wants to spend a lot of time with you •She does things that solely benefit you
I haven't been this kind of situation with any women in my entire life. How measurable it is. Even though I am the one who does cold approaches. So far 10,000 German Women. How perfect life I have.
Hi I'm single an out of my 65 years I've been married for 45 of those years, only two relationships in my life, 5 Beautiful children, 13 grandchildren, I really love what You do, more than Ever it's helps me out, love Your voice an I love Your clarity as You explain things, I'll be watching an learning, THANK YOU
Great video because all of this is true as a man you just have to have that luck she really loves you with this attachment signs then you are a lucky men. 👍🏽
Apollonia - this is really good...and true! It helped me a lot in figuring out what's happening between me and the woman I am in love with. However, I am afraid because there is some instability - she is in recovery - but she has so much feminine power that she could chew me up and spit me out. An uneasy feeling to be sure, and one that raises concerns. The pain...
Don't waste your time chasing. If she doesn't invest in you then let her go. Don't let a woman dictates your life. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Trust me.
A healthy attachment such as that sounds wonderful, Apollonia - you're an amazing partner for those acts of service and it's great you have one another. Definitely the kind of relationship I would aspire to having for myself some day.
She talks about how she hates me She always talks about a future without me She asks why I'm bothering her She spends time with her Pooky She could care less about what I want .......wait a minute 🤔
If she is a feminist it doesn’t matter if she is emotionally attached to you. Her attachment to her feminist beliefs if stronger and more comprehensive than any emotional attachment she has to you; that is, unless you are also a feminist.
Apollonia, Baking that banana nut bread for your love on those long hard days; is absolutely a beautiful thing to do. It's a gesture that he'll never forget. You get ✋🏾👍😉 for that! God! Bless!
Apollonia Ponti. Can you make a video about people pretending being someone they are not due to low self esteem, how this will effect them in the long terms?
Banana nut bread!!! Give me that with a cup of coffee.. I’m an addict. He’s a lucky guy. I appreciate you tho’ Ms. Ponti.. your videos have been very encouraging for me through some tough times. Shukran Jazilan!! 🙏🏽
You are gorgeous and I noticed some signs that a woman could be attached to me or not.Even when I use to be in a relationship until it fell apart when my ex girlfriend was cheating on me smothering into bullshit I did right by her but it was too bad that it was never enough so I left her after that.
Trying to follow the things you say but dang it hurts to hear your her best friend, she can’t live without you in her life but she doesn’t feel a romantic connection to you. #friendszone 😕
My wife and I are divorced. However, we are considering reconciling our marriage. She pretty much contains all these qualities regarding Timmy, which is one of the reasons why I’m most likely taking her back. We all have our ups and downs, but not any woman can provide these five traits so when you find it, hold onto that person.
Thanks, you really have intreating and useful things to say. I have seen also other video of other youtubers about this topic but usually people make 10 minute video telling nothing, just llike subscribe, look my this other video, share with frieds, but no real content, just waste of time. Your video are pure information, useful information, thanks for the time you put into it!
I like number one and number five. My ex was like that, bubbly, full of life, talented, lots of hobbies, very supportive at first but eventually her career ate her soul and took from her everything she loved.
I don't mean to bother you but when I search on on Instagram it says user not found. Can you please unblock me on Instagram?.i promise I won't message you on Instagram ever again. @@ApolloniaPonti
I don’t know what kinda woman she’s speaking about but I haven’t encountered anyone like that in a loooonnnnggg time. But it sounds nice to have...I’m sure she’s around somewhere, positive thinking😉
Good Afternoon Ms. Appollonia you're an amazing & awesome Coach who does great work. Question, what if we are friends with benefits & she grows attraction to you but yet she saids the are complicated what does that mean 🤔
Healthy emotional attachment. I've never had with a woman I know a couple as friends still never dated. Acts of service that would not benefit her as a independent man too a point who can cook it would be confusing to why she would if ever get a GF
The only thing I can remember..out of the 5....is that she wanted to make memories... but we were always doing what she wanted to do...never did she ask me anything of what I liked or wanted to do...it was one sided... what's your advice here?
Create video and content Apollonia - I would love to do a featuring with you to help your audience find long-lasting relationships through tech, let me know :)
She goes down on me on my balcony and my head hits her throat...while we listen to HTown..she got me emotionally whooped doing that to me on our first date..woman are tuff man
Why are the guys thinking that women manipulate when they say to a guy she misses him? Aka joke it all away or just respond nonsense? Or think needyness? I'm not afraid to tell someone how i feel and that has been a big problem for me. Men don't seem to like direct women. I'm 43 years old and ive had my share of beating around the bushes. This macho culture going on gotta stop and its very nice and refreshing to talk with guys who are on par with their feelings.
SHE WAS LOOKING FOR ME YESTERDAY AT WORK AND DIDN'T SEE ME SEEN ME TODAY AT WORK AND TOLD ME SHE WANTS TO SEE ME TOMORROW AT WORK.SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE HAS ATTACHMENT ISSUES.
I have a female friend who has come back to me 5 times within 21 months. She always had me firmly planted in her friend zone. She didn't view me as a person. She viewed me as a Financial resource. I've had to walk away 5 times. Don't tell me. I should have had to walk away once. That's on me. But she is a 29 year old cutie pie..😉😎
She’s setting you up to be that beta male provider in the end when she is done riding the CC. Beware dude if she doesn’t want you in her prime, don’t accept her in her decline. That wall is approaching since she’s 29.
She's unhealthy attached to me like I can't leave my phone for 10-15 minutes, she goes crazy blowing up my phone and it's not cute, sometimes it scares me how crazy she is, what should I do
What about when she says she feels guilty about how she can't reciprocate the same amount of love I give her, even though what she gives me is what I need.
Yep this is where I'm at..she says she feels like she isn't doing enough..my conclusion is she would do more if it's important..look and see if she has time for others..that will tell you if your a priority
Had a lady say to another guy she had a boyfriend. Then when I had a conversion with her and she said a friend. Not a boyfriend. Whom makes you wonder. She'd only been out of relationship for 2 years. Has 2 kids under 13.
I need help apollonia... there was this girl I worked with she always made it clear she like me without actually saying it but I took her for granted. I always like her back but I didn't want to commit now its been 2 years since I've seen her is there any chance for me? I've tried forgetting her but I can't its been 2-3 years!
Engage her emotions - don't be too predictable, purposely pull back every now and then cause if you don't she will. She needs to wonder where she stands with you not the other way around.
spend time with her , stand up for yourself don't let her use and abuse you and push you around so she respects you and feels you are worth the investment
Question: My ex and I are broken up or on a “break” for 2 months now and I have been in No Contact as she was the one who wanted the break, but we have spoken about a future together and everything else you have talked about in this video when we were together. Would she still be interested in that life even at this time with me or have an emotional attachment, as our break was not due to cheating or abuse or anything really negative like. It was because of a hiccup in a getaway weekend we were on.
We stopped talking 3.5 months ago after she cancelled our date. She asked to reschedule it but we haven’t talked since, I didn’t want to chase. Should I text her or never look back?
I would suggest not too. See yourself as high value, and contacting her after that would be needy. Remember, women break the rules for alphas and make rules for betas. But do whatever you want man.
I was texting a girl for the first time not too long ago and the conversation was going amazingly well. There was a lot of emotion from both sides and no indication that she wasn’t interested. Long story short I couldn’t reply to her last message for 8-9 hours because I was at work but when I finally replied, she never opened my our dms again. Straight from hot to cold. Any advice on what to do?
Yeah, dont text her anymore. If she texts you, arrange a date. If she can’t make it, tell her to get back to you when she’s free. Your phone is not for relationships, its for setting dates and appointments. Lastly, always be prepared to walk away and never look back - never put value in people who don’t value you, you’re worth more than that. Oh and don’t spew your feelings and emotions out to a woman, they just won’t respect that (Disney & Hollywood lied to us all) You’re welcome, 😉👍🏻
I haven't talk to this woman at my job because she ghosted me which she didn't explain why but I block her on social media and my phone so here's the kicker few days ago she tells me that she was worried about me and misses seeing me at work. Best of all i showed no sign of being a simp but Can someone please tell me whats going on here?
As a non-native English speaker, I find your speeches easy-to-understand. I always try to peak up your style in talking and organizing ideas. thanks a lot.
It's her doing her own modelling for the thumbnail that does it for me
•She always talks about how she feels about you
•She always talks about the future with you
•She questions when she doesn’t hear from you
•She wants to spend a lot of time with you
•She does things that solely benefit you
🔥📝❤📝🔥
you deserve respect. Thanks for boiling this down :')
I haven't been this kind of situation with any women in my entire life. How measurable it is. Even though I am the one who does cold approaches. So far 10,000 German Women. How perfect life I have.
True
damn it..2 out of 5 is not enough
Hi I'm single an out of my 65 years I've been married for 45 of those years, only two relationships in my life, 5 Beautiful children, 13 grandchildren, I really love what You do, more than Ever it's helps me out, love Your voice an I love Your clarity as You explain things, I'll be watching an learning, THANK YOU
Great video because all of this is true as a man you just have to have that luck she really loves you with this attachment signs then you are a lucky men. 👍🏽
Apollonia - this is really good...and true! It helped me a lot in figuring out what's happening between me and the woman I am in love with. However, I am afraid because there is some instability - she is in recovery - but she has so much feminine power that she could chew me up and spit me out. An uneasy feeling to be sure, and one that raises concerns. The pain...
When I started following you, i was very sceptical but you're doing an Amazing job. Loving all your Insights
I know it is kind of randomly asking but do anybody know a good site to stream new series online ?
Always a great general topic... Healthy vs Un-Healthy ways of being....
I have a girl like this at the moment and I am absolutely over the moon ❤️
Jesus. I’m completely emotionally attached to a girl and she rarely does any of these things for me.
Mike Casa... a woman who loves you will do that and if you love a woman more than she loves you, then you should reconsider being with her.
So, you’re saying that she’s not emotionally attached to you, then?
Maybe you're woman is going to do all of those things for you on Halloween.
Don't waste your time chasing. If she doesn't invest in you then let her go. Don't let a woman dictates your life. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Trust me.
Same :(
Appolonia Ponti..You are a very inspirational human being and as a man I am grateful for the advice given which is free here.
This really clarifies how badly my ex hated me….
A healthy attachment such as that sounds wonderful, Apollonia - you're an amazing partner for those acts of service and it's great you have one another. Definitely the kind of relationship I would aspire to having for myself some day.
Informative and well presented.Thank you for the personal insight and example of a selfless act you have done for your partner.
My girl does all of these ❤
Mine did NONE of these…..
The video is very encouraging. And is a big eye opener.
That is so nice of u do that for him❤️ that😊
I was at the Eye doctor Eric Jones and I have 20/20 vision. I really am awesomely amazed Thank You God and Trish Ault 🙏
She talks about how she hates me
She always talks about a future without me
She asks why I'm bothering her
She spends time with her Pooky
She could care less about what I want
.......wait a minute 🤔
Female logic 101
If she is a feminist it doesn’t matter if she is emotionally attached to you.
Her attachment to her feminist beliefs if stronger and more comprehensive than any emotional attachment she has to you; that is, unless you are also a feminist.
Apollonia,
Baking that banana nut bread for your love on those long hard days; is absolutely a beautiful thing to do. It's a gesture that he'll never forget. You get ✋🏾👍😉 for that!
God! Bless!
Welp, looks like I haven't had an emotionally attached relationship, ever.
😅😅😅 today is a new day..!
Haaa lol 😂
This was very insightful, thank you!!
Apollonia Ponti. Can you make a video about people pretending being someone they are not due to low self esteem, how this will effect them in the long terms?
That's a nice backdrop
Thats the truth mis Ponti
Excellent video👍
Love from Srilanka❤
Thank you! Cheers!
Banana nut bread!!! Give me that with a cup of coffee.. I’m an addict. He’s a lucky guy. I appreciate you tho’ Ms. Ponti.. your videos have been very encouraging for me through some tough times. Shukran Jazilan!! 🙏🏽
You are gorgeous and I noticed some signs that a woman could be attached to me or not.Even when I use to be in a relationship until it fell apart when my ex girlfriend was cheating on me smothering into bullshit I did right by her but it was too bad that it was never enough so I left her after that.
You are absolutely right!!
Good message.
Thank you so much Applonia❤
This will be very helpful moving forward.
Trying to follow the things you say but dang it hurts to hear your her best friend, she can’t live without you in her life but she doesn’t feel a romantic connection to you.
#friendszone 😕
My wife and I are divorced. However, we are considering reconciling our marriage. She pretty much contains all these qualities regarding Timmy, which is one of the reasons why I’m most likely taking her back. We all have our ups and downs, but not any woman can provide these five traits so when you find it, hold onto that person.
How long have you guys been divorced for?
There are days and weeks, where she does all of these and there are days and weeks when she ignores me for weeks.
Confusing.
You look good today and so is the video
Hopefully meeting her soon
Thanks, you really have intreating and useful things to say. I have seen also other video of other youtubers about this topic but usually people make 10 minute video telling nothing, just llike subscribe, look my this other video, share with frieds, but no real content, just waste of time. Your video are pure information, useful information, thanks for the time you put into it!
I like the way you speak your accent
Apollionia thats a really nice head of hair you have it looks very nice...
I like number one and number five. My ex was like that, bubbly, full of life, talented, lots of hobbies, very supportive at first but eventually her career ate her soul and took from her everything she loved.
Thank you for teaching us these things!!!! I didn't know about that!
You are so welcome!
I don't mean to bother you but when I search on on Instagram it says user not found. Can you please unblock me on Instagram?.i promise I won't message you on Instagram ever again. @@ApolloniaPonti
@@ApolloniaPonti k
Really impressed with this video. Yo topics are toujour on point!
I don’t know what kinda woman she’s speaking about but I haven’t encountered anyone like that in a loooonnnnggg time. But it sounds nice to have...I’m sure she’s around somewhere, positive thinking😉
That's facts bro. I gather that she's talking about a woman from mars. Lol.
Nice segment
You are awesome my friend
As a male, going through a separation. That I would get more direction and understanding from a female's perspective..
She's planning something. It could be children it could be buying a house it could be moving in it could be making your life a living hell.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 nothing safe anymore
Love your dress!
Greetings from Sweden 🇸🇪 😁
She ask why did you disappear you promise to stay? But she keep playing hard to get
Outstanding video! Thank you so much!
Glad you liked it!
Good Afternoon Ms. Appollonia you're an amazing & awesome Coach who does great work. Question, what if we are friends with benefits & she grows attraction to you but yet she saids the are complicated what does that mean 🤔
And all this time I thought she didn't like me.
Great video! You are gorgeous!
Thank you so much!!
Even if she does those things it doesn't mean she's emotionally attached to you. It can be tricky, Unless you really know/trust the person.
I really Love You Trish Ault
I dig all of this
Damn after watching this video. I got the confirmation she used me
This is very interesting and thanks
Good morning beautiful xo xo xo xo thank you
Healthy emotional attachment. I've never had with a woman I know a couple as friends still never dated. Acts of service that would not benefit her as a independent man too a point who can cook it would be confusing to why she would if ever get a GF
funny that she's attached to you but sleeping with tens of guys evry week 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Feliz Domingo Apollonia!
You are so smart.
The only thing I can remember..out of the 5....is that she wanted to make memories... but we were always doing what she wanted to do...never did she ask me anything of what I liked or wanted to do...it was one sided... what's your advice here?
Morning High value female
Thx dear, watching from Abu Dhabi
Thanks for watching
Create video and content Apollonia - I would love to do a featuring with you to help your audience find long-lasting relationships through tech, let me know :)
She goes down on me on my balcony and my head hits her throat...while we listen to HTown..she got me emotionally whooped doing that to me on our first date..woman are tuff man
Almost been a whole year later, what's the update on that situation, like how did it play out ?
Damn baby!!! Im getting emotionally attached to ur beauty
Why are the guys thinking that women manipulate when they say to a guy she misses him? Aka joke it all away or just respond nonsense? Or think needyness? I'm not afraid to tell someone how i feel and that has been a big problem for me. Men don't seem to like direct women. I'm 43 years old and ive had my share of beating around the bushes. This macho culture going on gotta stop and its very nice and refreshing to talk with guys who are on par with their feelings.
SHE WAS LOOKING FOR ME YESTERDAY AT WORK AND DIDN'T SEE ME SEEN ME TODAY AT WORK AND TOLD ME SHE WANTS TO SEE ME TOMORROW AT WORK.SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE HAS ATTACHMENT ISSUES.
Good points
I have a female friend who has come back to me 5 times within 21 months. She always had me firmly planted in her friend zone. She didn't view me as a person. She viewed me as a Financial resource. I've had to walk away 5 times. Don't tell me. I should have had to walk away once. That's on me. But she is a 29 year old cutie pie..😉😎
She’s setting you up to be that beta male provider in the end when she is done riding the CC. Beware dude if she doesn’t want you in her prime, don’t accept her in her decline. That wall is approaching since she’s 29.
Good afternoon how are you doing today?.
Hello Apollonia. Where has that beautiful studio you were filming from gone? The one with those nice view on the city in your old videos...
She is gave all the 5 signs
And then she stopped and blocked me for 4 months
She unblocked me after 4 months : And then I blocked
Happily ever after .
LoL. Too bad buddy ...next girl is waiting for u buddy
Man, if u r already not into someone, this will only feel very annoying.
Good advice & content as usual
Appreciate it! xoxo
@@ApolloniaPonti ur welcome
True Dat.
Thanks for sharing♡
I wonder how awesome it would be to date you, Appolonia❤️
C'mon man.
@Richard Francis ohh...sorry man, didn't know that..i did not intend any disrespect towards her..👍🏼
😂 I hate this because I'm not interested and I told her it's like she skipped that part
Appollonia: If this is related to love language, are the same tools useful for the man, or are they expressed differently?
Thank you Apollonia!
Natalie blocked me on twitter 😂😂😂😂
JDOGFTW nice hehe
She's unhealthy attached to me like I can't leave my phone for 10-15 minutes, she goes crazy blowing up my phone and it's not cute, sometimes it scares me how crazy she is, what should I do
Run
What about when she says she feels guilty about how she can't reciprocate the same amount of love I give her, even though what she gives me is what I need.
You're the man sceletor!👍
Yep this is where I'm at..she says she feels like she isn't doing enough..my conclusion is she would do more if it's important..look and see if she has time for others..that will tell you if your a priority
Had a lady say to another guy she had a boyfriend. Then when I had a conversion with her and she said a friend. Not a boyfriend. Whom makes you wonder. She'd only been out of relationship for 2 years. Has 2 kids under 13.
I need help apollonia... there was this girl I worked with she always made it clear she like me without actually saying it but I took her for granted. I always like her back but I didn't want to commit now its been 2 years since I've seen her is there any chance for me? I've tried forgetting her but I can't its been 2-3 years!
its over.
How do you get a girl emotionally attached?
Engage her emotions - don't be too predictable, purposely pull back every now and then cause if you don't she will. She needs to wonder where she stands with you not the other way around.
Have money 😂
get her to invest in you,simple
spend time with her , stand up for yourself don't let her use and abuse you and push you around so she respects you and feels you are worth the investment
@@arek6969 😏😏😏
I’m emotionally attached to you 😁
Pull yourself together
oliver lloyd 👆🏾
Shid me too
I have a question, how do you not be attached if you're with your soulmate ?
What if she says she misses you but when you say you would like to take her out she says "I can't promisse u that"🤷🏽♂️mixed signals
Question: My ex and I are broken up or on a “break” for 2 months now and I have been in No Contact as she was the one who wanted the break, but we have spoken about a future together and everything else you have talked about in this video when we were together.
Would she still be interested in that life even at this time with me or have an emotional attachment, as our break was not due to cheating or abuse or anything really negative like. It was because of a hiccup in a getaway weekend we were on.
Usually when girls ask for a “break” it’s over. Move on and see other women.
So are you still on a break
This sounds like my friends wife .
We stopped talking 3.5 months ago after she cancelled our date. She asked to reschedule it but we haven’t talked since, I didn’t want to chase. Should I text her or never look back?
It's over, move on.
Bret Halleran if she cancelled date in a disrespectful way, don’t text her.
I would suggest not too. See yourself as high value, and contacting her after that would be needy. Remember, women break the rules for alphas and make rules for betas. But do whatever you want man.
3.5 months ago? LOL. She already cancelled you from a while...
DO NOT TEXT HER BACK!!! let her look for you.
I was texting a girl for the first time not too long ago and the conversation was going amazingly well. There was a lot of emotion from both sides and no indication that she wasn’t interested. Long story short I couldn’t reply to her last message for 8-9 hours because I was at work but when I finally replied, she never opened my our dms again. Straight from hot to cold. Any advice on what to do?
Yeah, dont text her anymore. If she texts you, arrange a date. If she can’t make it, tell her to get back to you when she’s free.
Your phone is not for relationships, its for setting dates and appointments.
Lastly, always be prepared to walk away and never look back - never put value in people who don’t value you, you’re worth more than that.
Oh and don’t spew your feelings and emotions out to a woman, they just won’t respect that (Disney & Hollywood lied to us all)
You’re welcome,
😉👍🏻
@@wotaloadofI see you've been watching couch Corey Wayne lmao
She went away from my life.
So probably don’t look forward to a long term future with the person I feel like it’s just a vibe for who knows how long
I haven't talk to this woman at my job because she ghosted me which she didn't explain why but I block her on social media and my phone so here's the kicker few days ago she tells me that she was worried about me and misses seeing me at work. Best of all i showed no sign of being a simp but Can someone please tell me whats going on here?