I am so sorry ❤️ I was in a very similar situation a few years back. Depended a lot financially on my ex, we lived together, and we had moved to a new country together. I had never lived alone when we broke up. It felt like the world was crashing down on me and I would never be ok. I truly thought I would not be able to move forward. A few years later I am the happiest I ever thought I could be. Healing girl era is truly so important. A breakup is undoubtedly one of the hardest things to go through. Know you can get through this, youre so strong and you have tons of support. Sending so much love.
I needed to hear this more than you know. I truly feel so much heaviness and despair these days, but I know that there is a version of me that I haven't even met yet who is excited to meet me ❤
@@healwithkailin you’re going to discover a version of yourself you never even knew existed. The person you will become will feel so different from who you are right now, but in the best way possible. Time truly heals, and you’ll get through this and come out stronger, happier, and more at peace than you ever imagined. You‘re so strong and capable❤️
You’re going to get through this. You’re going to find that person that you never knew existed! You might think you were the happiest you have ever been but there is something greater planned for your life!
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. That’s so brave and supportive to talk to a therapist that will be so helpful on your journey. We love you and exactly what you said one day and one step at a time. So much love, thoughts, and prayers to you💛
I'm 28 and April this year me and my spouse of 7 years who I lived with. It's hard I had also never lived alone before. I'm in a much much better place, and I promise you have got this
Oh Kailin, my heart breaks for you, I can feel the depth of the heartbreak you are experiencing. You are such a beautiful soul and know you are held fully by this community xx
I am so sorry and I know this is so hard. Thank you for sharing this, though. I’m just honored to be a part of your community. You are in my thoughts and heart. We love you so much. You put so much good into this world. ❤❤❤
Girl. Thank you for being so open. I can promise you that someone out there is finding this video helpful and it's making them feel less alone, when I went through a breakup I turned to people who were going through a similar thing and it helped me, so just know that you are helping people. I'm proud of you! You'll get through this ❤
I’m so sorry kailin. You’re so amazing and I’ve been following you for years and you’ve helped me a lot. I am proud of your growth and how vulnerable you are. I know this hurts so much right now and things feel scary and out of control… it will get easier and you will find your light again. I’m sending you so much love and you have so much support ❤
thank you so much, Delanie! You were one of my very first subscribers and I appreciate you being here over the years for me in more ways than you know! x
I am a quiet watcher of your channel, but I can relate to you a lot and I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this painful time in your life♥ I am the same age as you and just went through a breakup with my first partner of 6 years, living in his country for the past 7 years. Moving back home and starting over alone can be very scary and overwhelming as the loss of your future and safety net is such a surreal experience to go through, but it gets better! Although it is a painful and lonely experience it can hopefully become an opportunity to fully explore what you want for your life and your own happiness when you feel ready 🤍Sending lots of love and support.
Oh Kailin this must be really hard for you! Sending you lot’s of strenght … also don’t think about changing yourself, you are good enough and you deserve the best!
I'm so sorry kailin, sending you so much love, healing, and virtual hugs! ❤ you are so strong and you can and will get through this, please remember you're never alone. We're all in our healing era together, we will all hold a safe place for you like you have for us. 💕
I'm so sorry you're going through this. Massive change leaves room for the greatest growth, and I'm sure you will look back on this time and see how far you've come, because you already have everything you need within yourself to make the most beautiful life in the years to come
You deserve the best, you bring so much light and joy but mostly you are someone we can rely to so much which makes you so lovable. Lots of courage for your healing period and sending you lots of support ♥
sending you so much love. breakups are sooooo hard especially when the future you thought you'd have goes away, and as you said, it wasn't because this is what you wanted. but often, life gives us what we need and not what we want, and i KNOW whatever comes next is exactly where you are meant to be. all things happen for a reason, which people throw that around and its so cliche to hear, but i do believe it is true. sending you so much love and support, i have been a silent watcher and instagram follower since the height of COVID and you have helped me through so much food anxiety... in this time i hope you allow US (your viewers) to provide you with the love and support you have given us. sending heaps of my love and lots of hugs your way
Sending warm hugs and mom energy your way. May you blossom from this painful time, a tender, yet stronger version of yourself. My heart breaks with yours. You deserve all the love and support in the world. And I know that all of us, who rely on you to support and help us heal, will be right here for whenever and whatever you wish to share. XO.
It hurts my heart to see you hurt. Sending you so much love absolutely adore you and I know you will continue flourishing. It will hurt now but one day make complete sense ❤️
Kailin, I'm so proud of you. It's interesting that going through a break-up is one of the most painful, lonely experiences, yet a universal one. I hope you know you're not alone. I look back on my healing girl era, and that girl was so sad but she was living through the most beautiful, transformative era yet, and I see her in you. Sending you a lot of love and healing energy right now. It will get better.
oh, tiffany ❤️ thank you so much for taking the time to write this thoughtful comment and check in on me. I appreciate your words more than you know -- I hope you know I am always here for you ❤️
So sorry you are having to go through this. I was in the exact same situation, 4 yrs ago this time exactly. 6 years, 2 dogs, a home. I got broken up with and took 1 dog with me too & moved states back home. Never thought id feel better. Especially w my abandonment issues from my mom kicking fully in. Then I met my now husband and I type this w my 5 month old. The partner that you have dreamed of forever is out there waiting for you…to meet them in the exact right moment. I’m sending you so many well wishes and good days ahead, Kailin. You deserve the best love.
I am so sorry that you’re going through this :( you don’t deserve this. You have inspired so many people and what you’ve done here are so much more than you can imagine! I have so much respect for you!! Take your time and heal. You got this!!
Oh Kaylin, i am so sorry. My heart breaks for you. I know how hard situations can like this can be. I respect you so much. It is not easy to come out in front of strangers or the internet and be this vulnerable and honest. Being broken up with hurts SO incredibly bad. Especially when it is not something you want. And its so incredibly hard peocessing things Especially when like you said, nothing bad can seeminly happen. But sometimes people just grow apart. Its also so refreshing to see someone be so honest and despite your pain but still being able to speak about him in a good light. My heart goes out to you. Please know that while it may feel so lonely you are not alone. Just like you have been a safe space for so many pf us for years i hope you know that we are your safe space too. You are beautiful. You are so important. Your so loved by people who have never even met you. It may seem like your world is crashing down. And You may not understand why this had to happen. But one day you will. This is when you find your true self. When there is no one else but you to pick up those peices you find out more about yourself than you ever thought. I have no doubt in my mind that you will overcome this pain and hurdle and come out shining even brighter than you ever have. Its blessing to fall in love. And while sometimes it doesnt always last forvever the love for yourself does. We are here for you. We love you ❤
thank you so much for making me feel so loved, heard, and seen. I have no words to describe how meaningful this message is to me and how much I needed to hear it. I love YOU!
I’ve been through something similar where we were together for nearly 6 years and you’re absolutely right that it makes it that much harder to wrap your head around when it wasn’t your decision. It hurts so much. Give yourself time and grace ❤
I am so sorry Kailin, but I truly believe that you are a strong woman and that you will see the light at the end of the tunnel. Live you emotions entirely and allow them to exist, but trust that you will get better and discover a new part of yourself et of your life :) I am sending you soooo much love and strength, I believe in you ma chérie! ♥️♥️🇫🇷
Oh Kailin 🩷 I'm so sorry you're going through this. Sending you lots of love and healing on this journey. It will be so worth it in the end, everything will be alright (you already know that but it's still good for other people to reassure you), and you will come out of this with so much more love and happiness in your life. I've been watching you for a few years now and your videos always warm my heart, so I hope the community you've built is able to give back some love and relief to you as well!
You are one of the most beautiful people I have ever seen, in every way. Your videos have brought me so much peace and comfort during times when I wasn't feeling well. It truly hurt me to see you like this. I'm sending you all my love, and I'll be here supporting you through your healing process, rooting for your recovery. You are going to be okay, I'm sure of it. ❤🩹
So sorry you're going through it bb. I know it sounds hard and scary but as someone who has lived alone for all of my adult life, I promise there are lots of amazing things about living alone. Developing your own routines, doing what you want when you want, not having to cater to anyone, not having to pick up anyone mess except your own, decorating exactly as you please, eating odd dinners that only you want, being fully in control of the tv show choice, doing weird things with no one to see them, picking up new hobbies without having to worry about how it'll affect someone else, sleeping starfished in the middle of a big bed...it can be pretty awesome. You'll get through it and come out the other end not just okay but a new person.
🥺😢🤗🧸💕💕💕😢🥺😢 Sending love and hugs. You WILL be ok. I know that sounds a long time away. But you WILL be ok. Everything happens for you not against you. ♥️♥️♥️💕💕🧸🧸
oh kailin, i'm so sorry you're going through this :( i've been living alone for the first time this past year and despite working through some really difficult stuff and struggling mentally/emotionally most of my days (plus the financial instability), it's an experience i am so grateful for. i didn't realize how little i knew myself and how hard it was for me to spend time with myself until this year, and i've never had a stronger relationship with myself than i do now because of it. i know you're not entering this out of choice and that this is a really difficult time for you, but i won't lie by saying i'm not also a little excited for what comes next for you, esp as someone who's never lived alone before
Sending you the biggest hug and moments of peace whenever you can find them. I’m sure your head is spinning and that’s such a hard place to be. You are amazing and you will discover so many new things about yourself as you walk through this hard time. Take it slow, take it easy, and do whatever you need to do to feel comforted right now ♥️
I feel so bad seeing you so sad. It is difficult,even impossible to find the right words which will you confort your heart. All I can say, it is I know how hearbreaking it is and I was scared for you, scared that you did not get the right suport when I sawthe title of the video but you have been very brave and courageous to reach for help with therapy. Not everyone would have the strenght to do it. I am sending you huge hugs and you are in my thoughts .
I’m so sorry 💔. I know how hard it is to be broken up with. I wish you all the best, and I truly believe there’s something much better out there for you!
I still watch you videos all the time. Haven't commented in a year or so. I am thinking about you today! Pull through! You are amazing, and don't let that leave your mind. And way to show your vulnerability. You've always been a role model! We've never met in person, but you are on of the strongest women I have ever known.
My heart is close to yours right now 💌 the most amazing thing of us humans is our resilience. even when we think we're breaking in the worst way possible, somehow we always manage to go through it. we underestimate how strong we are, but life is always ready to show us that our spirits can go through a lot of pain and still be able to find joy and happiness again eventually. it is going to be okay, my friend 💌 sending so much love and peace ❣
I’m 29 and my ex broke up with me a couple of months ago. I can totally get how you must be feeling. Especially when you said you had an idea of what you wanted your life to be like at your age. I’ve also had to let go of my dreams with that person who was a financial security. We will get through this!!!
What a difficult experience to go through. So sorry Kailin. Wishing you the strength to keep going and to be gentle with yourself. You will get through this and find so many new joys ❤
Hi Kailin. It is always awful to go through something like this, so we are all thinking of you. These things are not easy, and you are totally allowed to feel these bad feelings. Your thumbnail was correct, you are not okay right now, but you will be, and it definitely good that you know that. Love you
I was thinking of you and your video notification popped up 🥹 stay strong ❤ you should be proud of yourself at everything you’ve accomplished and got through, this is another bump in the road which u will get passed 😚💕
i’m sorry for everything you have to deal with right now but i hope you’ll feel better❤ we are your family and we will always going to support you, you are a very special person do not EVER stop believe that. i love you
I’m so sorry for all the pain you’re feeling right now. You let it suck for a while and then one day, you’ll look at your current life and be okay with it even if it isn’t what you expected. Coming from a wisened 36 year old who’s been through all kinds of shit out of their control and found a lot of happiness on the other side ❤
There are no words when it comes to times like these. Sending you strength, hope, peace, all the love in the world, and cute sweaters (like the one you’re wearing because it’s my favourite, and if you ever decide to part with it, let’s chat. I’ll pay top dollaaaa 🤭). On that note, how can we (your besties) best support you right now? Much much love, always 💕
you are so thoughtful and kind! just knowing someone is on the other side listening and holding space for me is more than I could ever ask for! and dog/cat/animal pictures! those are the best xx
Hey Kailin! I am so sorry you are going through this. Just remember to focus on yourself and on healing yourself. Sometimes crying your pains away also help soothe the heaviness that you feel in your heart. Just remember that you always have your supporters, who will always root for your happiness and prosperity. And another reminder, you are a beautiful human being inside and out. And I know that there is something better for you in the next chapter of your life. You deserve the best!!! ❤️ I will always be a silent supporter of yours through all the chapters of your life.
Oh Kailin. I am so sorry. It's complicated because the loss of a partner is to mourn so many things: the future you thought you had, imagined children, your home, losing your best friend like you said... it's a lot. :( But I hope over time that evolves from sadness to acceptance to excitement, even, at this new independent chapter of your life. I've lived alone before and it was lonely but also so freeing and it really helped to develop my faith in myself. Plus you'll have Harley by your side. Sending love and hugs friend. Please let me know if there's anything I can do from far away! We are all rooting for you.
Girl I am sending you a big big hug ❤️❤️❤️ I know how devastating it can feel, and right now all that matters is that you take one day at a time and take care of yourself in any way possible. You deserve all the best and beautiful things in this life ❤️❤️❤️ Lots of love!!
I’m sending you so much love and positive energy to you ! I’m sorry you’re hurting right now, we know and you know deep down that you will be okay ♥️♥️
Thank you so much for sharing your vulnerability - you are such a strong woman, and letting go sucks and always hurts, but this new chapter will be full of blessings. I send you soooo much power, you got this!
sending love ❤️ take care of yourself & know that you are seen and loved and going to make it through this time of pain and uncertainty and into healing and peace
I am really sorry, that you are going through this ❤ Sending you much love and strenght! Knowing that it gets a little bit better every day that passes by. Even though it know feels like the end of the world and includes so many different things one have to say good bye to. You really deserve the best. You bring so much joy in so many of our lifes, i am a 100 % sure, that the universe has more to offer for you! You will be okay ❤❤
Hi, Sorry for your situation but Remember that you have recovery an eating disorder and help 1000000 like me to recovery....im not brave as you and stuck in quasi recovery by years but we can have a better beautiful life🎉 Sorry for my bad enghish 😅but a big big hug from Roma 💝💝💝
Sending you so much love ❤️ your videos have helped me so much & I’m so sorry you’re going through this but I’m sending my love to you & I’ll be praying for you & sending all my support to you lovely ❤️❤️
I got divorced to my husband of 10 years this past spring, we have 2 kids together and now he lives in super cool So Cal 🙄 It gets better, and it makes sense as time keeps goin. My husband also was the one to leave me ❤ But still, good really does come from it, you start to see things you couldn’t see before 🙏🏻 Also, I didn’t even meet him until I was 28- you truly have plenty of time. 28 feels old but it is not
I’m so sorry 😞 it hurts to see you hurt 😞 Thank you for trusting us enough to let us into your life❤️ You have all my well wishes, hugs, and love right now❤️ ilysm, you sweet, beautiful girl❤️🥺
I am so so sorry you have to go through this. I can’t even imagine how hard and heartbreaking it must be. You are not alone, we love and support you, always ❤️🩹
Never have I wanted to give someone a hug more than watching you talk about your pain in this video!!❤🥺 I can't imagine how hard this must have been to express yourself in a very vulnerable phase. I'm relieved that the both of you are still on good terms. You've been a light to me going through some difficult times in my life. You are such a big inspiration to me and where I am now today, so it's why it hurt that much more to see you hurting. I wish the both of you the very best going forward, and i'm planning on sticking around as you continue your journey. Much love your way ❤🫶
Oh my gosh, Kailin I'm so sorry. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and hoping the sun starts to shine a little brighter for you with each passing day. I'm so amazed at your strength in seeking help and accepting where you are right now. I hope you can find some comfort and solace in therapy and perhaps this community that you've built here on youtube can shoulder some of the weight for you. I know you've always been a safe corner of the internet for me, so I hope we can somehow return the favour to you. Sending lots and lots of love your way. Big hugs!!! Like you say, you will be okay
LOVE you girl and wouldnlove to to be an outlet for you!! Going though the same thing, I know I'm a totally stranger on the internet but I'm here for you and just a video call away to prove I'm not a total weirdo!
This must be very tough to talk about but you are so brave Kailin! Thank you so much for wanting to give us an update even this maybe such a hard time for you...Your videos has been giving me a lot of energy and hope, and although I can't really do much for you, I hope I can at least comment and keep supporting you! :) Please take as much time as you need to heal! We will be waiting for you :)
I am sorry, I wish you all the best for the future… you did so much for me with your what i eat in a day videos ❤ I‘m gonna join the healing girl era… i am so desperately in love but this love is not mutual so yeah 😢❤
I’m so sorry, Kailin. My heart goes out to you during this period - we’re all thinking of you and sending you a world of love. We’ll be with you on your healing girl era. Sending you hugs 💗💗💗💗💗 take care of yourself.
Kailin my heart is so broken for you and i cant even begin to express how much i hate that this is something you are going through, all i can say from being your friend these past years is i know the strength you hold and i know that you are going to get through this just like everything else, i adore u
I’m so sorry you are going through this 😢 I love you kailin you are beautiful inside and out please don’t forget to take care of yourself you deserve all the best 🩶
I am so sorry Kailin ❤️🩹 I am (we all are) here for you, exactly lile you said - your besties. You WILL be okay, please be kind to yourself. You are a very very very nice, loving, kind, gentle human and that’s something to be proud of. I’m sending you so much love and hugs!! ❤️🩹
My heart is broken for you. 😢 I just know that you’ll think back on the memories you had with him and know it was the best step towards the better version of yourself. You’re strong and you’ll get through this. Love you, Kailin.
This is heartbreaking, Kailin, but yes, eventually you will be okay. Sending you lots of love and hugs❤ Please take care of yourself first. All our love and support for you❤
I am so sorry ❤️ I was in a very similar situation a few years back. Depended a lot financially on my ex, we lived together, and we had moved to a new country together. I had never lived alone when we broke up. It felt like the world was crashing down on me and I would never be ok. I truly thought I would not be able to move forward. A few years later I am the happiest I ever thought I could be. Healing girl era is truly so important. A breakup is undoubtedly one of the hardest things to go through. Know you can get through this, youre so strong and you have tons of support. Sending so much love.
I needed to hear this more than you know. I truly feel so much heaviness and despair these days, but I know that there is a version of me that I haven't even met yet who is excited to meet me ❤
@@healwithkailin you’re going to discover a version of yourself you never even knew existed. The person you will become will feel so different from who you are right now, but in the best way possible. Time truly heals, and you’ll get through this and come out stronger, happier, and more at peace than you ever imagined. You‘re so strong and capable❤️
You’re going to get through this. You’re going to find that person that you never knew existed! You might think you were the happiest you have ever been but there is something greater planned for your life!
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. That’s so brave and supportive to talk to a therapist that will be so helpful on your journey. We love you and exactly what you said one day and one step at a time. So much love, thoughts, and prayers to you💛
thank you so much, lindsay
I’m sorry you have to go through this. I hope you know that we are here for you. Sending you so much love to you from Japan ❤️
I'm 28 and April this year me and my spouse of 7 years who I lived with. It's hard I had also never lived alone before. I'm in a much much better place, and I promise you have got this
thank you so much for sharing with me
Oh Kailin, my heart breaks for you, I can feel the depth of the heartbreak you are experiencing. You are such a beautiful soul and know you are held fully by this community xx
thank you so much for being here ❤️
I am so sorry and I know this is so hard. Thank you for sharing this, though. I’m just honored to be a part of your community. You are in my thoughts and heart. We love you so much. You put so much good into this world. ❤❤❤
thank you for being part of the good in this world, too
Girl. Thank you for being so open. I can promise you that someone out there is finding this video helpful and it's making them feel less alone, when I went through a breakup I turned to people who were going through a similar thing and it helped me, so just know that you are helping people. I'm proud of you! You'll get through this ❤
i find a lot of peace knowing this
I’m so sorry kailin. You’re so amazing and I’ve been following you for years and you’ve helped me a lot. I am proud of your growth and how vulnerable you are. I know this hurts so much right now and things feel scary and out of control… it will get easier and you will find your light again. I’m sending you so much love and you have so much support ❤
thank you so much, Delanie! You were one of my very first subscribers and I appreciate you being here over the years for me in more ways than you know! x
I am a quiet watcher of your channel, but I can relate to you a lot and I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this painful time in your life♥ I am the same age as you and just went through a breakup with my first partner of 6 years, living in his country for the past 7 years. Moving back home and starting over alone can be very scary and overwhelming as the loss of your future and safety net is such a surreal experience to go through, but it gets better! Although it is a painful and lonely experience it can hopefully become an opportunity to fully explore what you want for your life and your own happiness when you feel ready 🤍Sending lots of love and support.
thank you so much for sharing part of your story with me
@@healwithkailin ♥
Oh Kailin this must be really hard for you! Sending you lot’s of strenght … also don’t think about changing yourself, you are good enough and you deserve the best!
love you and love this reminder, thank you x
Big hugs 🫂 we are here for you! One day at a time, you will be ok ❤
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I'm so sorry kailin, sending you so much love, healing, and virtual hugs! ❤ you are so strong and you can and will get through this, please remember you're never alone. We're all in our healing era together, we will all hold a safe place for you like you have for us. 💕
thank you so so much
I'm so sorry you're going through this. Massive change leaves room for the greatest growth, and I'm sure you will look back on this time and see how far you've come, because you already have everything you need within yourself to make the most beautiful life in the years to come
thank you so much for this beautiful reminder
You deserve the best, you bring so much light and joy but mostly you are someone we can rely to so much which makes you so lovable. Lots of courage for your healing period and sending you lots of support ♥
thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
sending you so much love. breakups are sooooo hard especially when the future you thought you'd have goes away, and as you said, it wasn't because this is what you wanted. but often, life gives us what we need and not what we want, and i KNOW whatever comes next is exactly where you are meant to be. all things happen for a reason, which people throw that around and its so cliche to hear, but i do believe it is true. sending you so much love and support, i have been a silent watcher and instagram follower since the height of COVID and you have helped me through so much food anxiety... in this time i hope you allow US (your viewers) to provide you with the love and support you have given us. sending heaps of my love and lots of hugs your way
wish i could give you the biggest hug ❤️❤️ thank you so SO much for this
Sending warm hugs and mom energy your way. May you blossom from this painful time, a tender, yet stronger version of yourself. My heart breaks with yours. You deserve all the love and support in the world. And I know that all of us, who rely on you to support and help us heal, will be right here for whenever and whatever you wish to share. XO.
thank you so much! you are such a kind and beautiful soul x
It hurts my heart to see you hurt. Sending you so much love absolutely adore you and I know you will continue flourishing. It will hurt now but one day make complete sense ❤️
i love you so much, char
I'm sooo sorry for you.... You'll definitely be okay later. Sending you lots of courage and virtual hugs ❤
sending so many virtual hugs back xx
Kailin, I'm so proud of you. It's interesting that going through a break-up is one of the most painful, lonely experiences, yet a universal one. I hope you know you're not alone. I look back on my healing girl era, and that girl was so sad but she was living through the most beautiful, transformative era yet, and I see her in you. Sending you a lot of love and healing energy right now. It will get better.
oh, tiffany ❤️ thank you so much for taking the time to write this thoughtful comment and check in on me. I appreciate your words more than you know -- I hope you know I am always here for you ❤️
I am so sorry Kailin! Love you lots!! Take care ❤️❤️
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I am so sorry❤️🩹 take care of yourself and big hugs!
thank you so much
So sorry you are having to go through this. I was in the exact same situation, 4 yrs ago this time exactly. 6 years, 2 dogs, a home. I got broken up with and took 1 dog with me too & moved states back home.
Never thought id feel better. Especially w my abandonment issues from my mom kicking fully in.
Then I met my now husband and I type this w my 5 month old.
The partner that you have dreamed of forever is out there waiting for you…to meet them in the exact right moment.
I’m sending you so many well wishes and good days ahead, Kailin. You deserve the best love.
congratulations on your beautiful baby!! thank you so much, this means the world to me xx
I am so sorry that you’re going through this :( you don’t deserve this. You have inspired so many people and what you’ve done here are so much more than you can imagine! I have so much respect for you!! Take your time and heal. You got this!!
thank you SO much!!!
Oh Kaylin, i am so sorry. My heart breaks for you. I know how hard situations can like this can be. I respect you so much. It is not easy to come out in front of strangers or the internet and be this vulnerable and honest. Being broken up with hurts SO incredibly bad. Especially when it is not something you want. And its so incredibly hard peocessing things Especially when like you said, nothing bad can seeminly happen. But sometimes people just grow apart. Its also so refreshing to see someone be so honest and despite your pain but still being able to speak about him in a good light. My heart goes out to you. Please know that while it may feel so lonely you are not alone. Just like you have been a safe space for so many pf us for years i hope you know that we are your safe space too. You are beautiful. You are so important. Your so loved by people who have never even met you. It may seem like your world is crashing down. And You may not understand why this had to happen. But one day you will. This is when you find your true self. When there is no one else but you to pick up those peices you find out more about yourself than you ever thought. I have no doubt in my mind that you will overcome this pain and hurdle and come out shining even brighter than you ever have. Its blessing to fall in love. And while sometimes it doesnt always last forvever the love for yourself does. We are here for you. We love you ❤
thank you so much for making me feel so loved, heard, and seen. I have no words to describe how meaningful this message is to me and how much I needed to hear it. I love YOU!
I’ve been through something similar where we were together for nearly 6 years and you’re absolutely right that it makes it that much harder to wrap your head around when it wasn’t your decision. It hurts so much. Give yourself time and grace ❤
I'm sending you so much love and hope that you have healed/are on your healing journey
I am so sorry Kailin, but I truly believe that you are a strong woman and that you will see the light at the end of the tunnel. Live you emotions entirely and allow them to exist, but trust that you will get better and discover a new part of yourself et of your life :) I am sending you soooo much love and strength, I believe in you ma chérie! ♥️♥️🇫🇷
thank you so much, Hanna! You are such a light in this world and in my life. thank you for being here xx
So much love to you Kailin! Be kind and gentle with yourself 💛
thank you so much x
Oh Kailin 🩷 I'm so sorry you're going through this. Sending you lots of love and healing on this journey. It will be so worth it in the end, everything will be alright (you already know that but it's still good for other people to reassure you), and you will come out of this with so much more love and happiness in your life. I've been watching you for a few years now and your videos always warm my heart, so I hope the community you've built is able to give back some love and relief to you as well!
i find so much love and peace within this community we've created! thank you for playing a role in that xx
You are one of the most beautiful people I have ever seen, in every way. Your videos have brought me so much peace and comfort during times when I wasn't feeling well. It truly hurt me to see you like this. I'm sending you all my love, and I'll be here supporting you through your healing process, rooting for your recovery. You are going to be okay, I'm sure of it. ❤🩹
wish i could give you such a big bear hug. thank you for being here, you are an earth angel ❤️
So sorry you're going through it bb. I know it sounds hard and scary but as someone who has lived alone for all of my adult life, I promise there are lots of amazing things about living alone. Developing your own routines, doing what you want when you want, not having to cater to anyone, not having to pick up anyone mess except your own, decorating exactly as you please, eating odd dinners that only you want, being fully in control of the tv show choice, doing weird things with no one to see them, picking up new hobbies without having to worry about how it'll affect someone else, sleeping starfished in the middle of a big bed...it can be pretty awesome. You'll get through it and come out the other end not just okay but a new person.
i am trying my best to see the silver linings and appreciate this (and you) tremendously!
🥺😢🤗🧸💕💕💕😢🥺😢 Sending love and hugs. You WILL be ok. I know that sounds a long time away. But you WILL be ok. Everything happens for you not against you. ♥️♥️♥️💕💕🧸🧸
appreciate this mindset a lot! thank you from the bottom of my heart
oh kailin, i'm so sorry you're going through this :( i've been living alone for the first time this past year and despite working through some really difficult stuff and struggling mentally/emotionally most of my days (plus the financial instability), it's an experience i am so grateful for. i didn't realize how little i knew myself and how hard it was for me to spend time with myself until this year, and i've never had a stronger relationship with myself than i do now because of it. i know you're not entering this out of choice and that this is a really difficult time for you, but i won't lie by saying i'm not also a little excited for what comes next for you, esp as someone who's never lived alone before
thank you so so much! it's a new journey that I'm forced to embark on but I am eager to see who I become in the process x
so sorry to hear, even though its cliche i always tell myself time heals everything and that months/years from now i know there will be a better day
i think it's cliche for a reason!!! i also believe time is the biggest healer x
Sending you the biggest hug and moments of peace whenever you can find them. I’m sure your head is spinning and that’s such a hard place to be. You are amazing and you will discover so many new things about yourself as you walk through this hard time. Take it slow, take it easy, and do whatever you need to do to feel comforted right now
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I appreciate you and this comment endlessly xx
I feel so bad seeing you so sad. It is difficult,even impossible to find the right words which will you confort your heart. All I can say, it is I know how hearbreaking it is and I was scared for you, scared that you did not get the right suport when I sawthe title of the video but you have been very brave and courageous to reach for help with therapy. Not everyone would have the strenght to do it. I am sending you huge hugs and you are in my thoughts .
thank you so much
I’m so sorry 💔. I know how hard it is to be broken up with. I wish you all the best, and I truly believe there’s something much better out there for you!
thank you so much!!!! i know that there is a different version of me out there and I'm looking forward to meeting her x
I still watch you videos all the time. Haven't commented in a year or so. I am thinking about you today! Pull through! You are amazing, and don't let that leave your mind.
And way to show your vulnerability. You've always been a role model! We've never met in person, but you are on of the strongest women I have ever known.
thank you SO much!! I remember your username and comments and always will!
@@healwithkailin I still order Canadian peanut butter!
I am very glad that you have people to talk to and support you, that is one of the most important aspects
very grateful
My heart is close to yours right now 💌 the most amazing thing of us humans is our resilience. even when we think we're breaking in the worst way possible, somehow we always manage to go through it. we underestimate how strong we are, but life is always ready to show us that our spirits can go through a lot of pain and still be able to find joy and happiness again eventually. it is going to be okay, my friend 💌 sending so much love and peace ❣
thank you! you are so right!! we are resilient creatures. one day at a time ❤️
I hope you all the best in the moving and moving on process. It’s so difficult but know you’re incredible and you will get through it all!
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I’m 29 and my ex broke up with me a couple of months ago. I can totally get how you must be feeling. Especially when you said you had an idea of what you wanted your life to be like at your age. I’ve also had to let go of my dreams with that person who was a financial security. We will get through this!!!
Sending you so much love and healing xx
What a difficult experience to go through. So sorry Kailin. Wishing you the strength to keep going and to be gentle with yourself. You will get through this and find so many new joys ❤
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Kailin! i’m so sorry to hear that you’re going through this. sending you so much love 💕 you will get through this. breakups are sooo rough.
one of the toughest things!!!! but we are tough, too! sending a hug xx
Hi Kailin. It is always awful to go through something like this, so we are all thinking of you. These things are not easy, and you are totally allowed to feel these bad feelings. Your thumbnail was correct, you are not okay right now, but you will be, and it definitely good that you know that. Love you
i love you so much, thank you
I was thinking of you and your video notification popped up 🥹 stay strong ❤ you should be proud of yourself at everything you’ve accomplished and got through, this is another bump in the road which u will get passed 😚💕
thank you so much ❤️❤️
I'm so sorry 😔
appreciate you xx
i’m sorry for everything you have to deal with right now but i hope you’ll feel better❤
we are your family and we will always going to support you, you are a very special person do not EVER stop believe that. i love you
i love you so much, thank you xx
I’m so sorry to see you hurting😣Sending you the biggest hug. I’m always here for you❤️🩹
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I’m so sorry for all the pain you’re feeling right now. You let it suck for a while and then one day, you’ll look at your current life and be okay with it even if it isn’t what you expected. Coming from a wisened 36 year old who’s been through all kinds of shit out of their control and found a lot of happiness on the other side ❤
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Sorry that you are going through this. You are not alone. Everything you share helps so many people and your community is here for you. ❤
thank you, Erica!! xx
Sending love. A breakup is incredibly hard and painful but you will get through this ❤❤
thank you so much, Jule!
Im so sorry Kailin, you are a very strong person. I know you can get through this. ❤
thank you so so much xx
There are no words when it comes to times like these. Sending you strength, hope, peace, all the love in the world, and cute sweaters (like the one you’re wearing because it’s my favourite, and if you ever decide to part with it, let’s chat. I’ll pay top dollaaaa 🤭). On that note, how can we (your besties) best support you right now?
Much much love, always 💕
you are so thoughtful and kind! just knowing someone is on the other side listening and holding space for me is more than I could ever ask for! and dog/cat/animal pictures! those are the best xx
Hey Kailin! I am so sorry you are going through this. Just remember to focus on yourself and on healing yourself. Sometimes crying your pains away also help soothe the heaviness that you feel in your heart. Just remember that you always have your supporters, who will always root for your happiness and prosperity. And another reminder, you are a beautiful human being inside and out. And I know that there is something better for you in the next chapter of your life. You deserve the best!!! ❤️
I will always be a silent supporter of yours through all the chapters of your life.
crying always makes me feel so much better
Oh Kailin. I am so sorry. It's complicated because the loss of a partner is to mourn so many things: the future you thought you had, imagined children, your home, losing your best friend like you said... it's a lot. :( But I hope over time that evolves from sadness to acceptance to excitement, even, at this new independent chapter of your life. I've lived alone before and it was lonely but also so freeing and it really helped to develop my faith in myself. Plus you'll have Harley by your side.
Sending love and hugs friend. Please let me know if there's anything I can do from far away! We are all rooting for you.
I love and appreciate you so much, Lex
I am so sorry you’re going through this ❤ here for you
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Girl I am sending you a big big hug ❤️❤️❤️ I know how devastating it can feel, and right now all that matters is that you take one day at a time and take care of yourself in any way possible. You deserve all the best and beautiful things in this life ❤️❤️❤️ Lots of love!!
so much love for you ❤️❤️
I’m sending you so much love and positive energy to you !
I’m sorry you’re hurting right now, we know and you know deep down that you will be okay ♥️♥️
thank you so so much xx
Thank you so much for sharing your vulnerability - you are such a strong woman, and letting go sucks and always hurts, but this new chapter will be full of blessings. I send you soooo much power, you got this!
thank you endlessly!
I'm so sorry ... My heart hurts for you. I hope this new chapter in life is better than the last ❤
appreciate this and you 💕💕
Oh Kailin I'm so sorry. I know you're so strong, and I can't wait to see what life has in store for you when you're ready.
thank you so much ❤️❤️
I'm so sorry you're going through this Kailin. I'm sending you so much love, healing, and support 🧡
thank you so so much 💕💕
I’m so sorry. You are such a kind person. You are strong and beautiful. I hope you can find your happiness again. I am here rooting for you always. ❤️
I hope so, too! thank you 💕🥹❤️
sending love ❤️ take care of yourself & know that you are seen and loved and going to make it through this time of pain and uncertainty and into healing and peace
thank you ❤️❤️ day by day and hour by hour is what I'm reminding myself of x
Kailin, I‘m sending you so much love
thank you so much xx
Take it day by day, Kailin. Sending you all the positive vibes.
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I'm so sorry ❤take care of yourself! You will get through this! Proud of you!
thank you so so much! xx
I am really sorry, that you are going through this ❤ Sending you much love and strenght!
Knowing that it gets a little bit better every day that passes by. Even though it know feels like the end of the world and includes so many different things one have to say good bye to. You really deserve the best. You bring so much joy in so many of our lifes, i am a 100 % sure, that the universe has more to offer for you! You will be okay ❤❤
thank you so much for the beautiful reminder and thoughtful words xx
Hi, Sorry for your situation but Remember that you have recovery an eating disorder and help 1000000 like me to recovery....im not brave as you and stuck in quasi recovery by years but we can have a better beautiful life🎉 Sorry for my bad enghish 😅but a big big hug from Roma 💝💝💝
sending a big hug to you xx
I’m so sorry, sending you lots of love 💕
thank you so much, Lizzie xx
Sending you so much love ❤️ your videos have helped me so much & I’m so sorry you’re going through this but I’m sending my love to you & I’ll be praying for you & sending all my support to you lovely ❤️❤️
thank you so much for keeping me in your thoughts ❤️❤️
I got divorced to my husband of 10 years this past spring, we have 2 kids together and now he lives in super cool So Cal 🙄 It gets better, and it makes sense as time keeps goin. My husband also was the one to leave me ❤ But still, good really does come from it, you start to see things you couldn’t see before 🙏🏻
Also, I didn’t even meet him until I was 28- you truly have plenty of time. 28 feels old but it is not
absolutely!! I know that I have so much time -- just going through the waves of grief. you are so strong and i am so proud of you ❤️
I am so sorry, but we will be here holding space for you and relating to your content
sending you a big hug xx
I’m so sorry 😞 it hurts to see you hurt 😞 Thank you for trusting us enough to let us into your life❤️ You have all my well wishes, hugs, and love right now❤️ ilysm, you sweet, beautiful girl❤️🥺
i love you always
I am so so sorry you have to go through this. I can’t even imagine how hard and heartbreaking it must be. You are not alone, we love and support you, always ❤️🩹
so much love for you, Chloé ❤️
Sending you so much love, Kailin. We’re all here for you every step of the way ❤🥰
thank you so much, Kas xx
Sending you all the love in the world please take care of yourself Kailin and give yourself whatever time you need to heal we’re supporting you ❤❤❤❤
wish i could give you a big squeeze! thank you xx
Never have I wanted to give someone a hug more than watching you talk about your pain in this video!!❤🥺 I can't imagine how hard this must have been to express yourself in a very vulnerable phase. I'm relieved that the both of you are still on good terms.
You've been a light to me going through some difficult times in my life. You are such a big inspiration to me and where I am now today, so it's why it hurt that much more to see you hurting.
I wish the both of you the very best going forward, and i'm planning on sticking around as you continue your journey.
Much love your way ❤🫶
you are such a kind soul!! thank you for spreading love and kindness, i wish I could give you the biggest hug, too!
we love you bestie 🫶 we're here for you, take the time you need 🤍
love you so much bestie
Oh my gosh, Kailin I'm so sorry. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and hoping the sun starts to shine a little brighter for you with each passing day. I'm so amazed at your strength in seeking help and accepting where you are right now. I hope you can find some comfort and solace in therapy and perhaps this community that you've built here on youtube can shoulder some of the weight for you. I know you've always been a safe corner of the internet for me, so I hope we can somehow return the favour to you. Sending lots and lots of love your way. Big hugs!!! Like you say, you will be okay
thank you so much
@@healwithkailin Always always
LOVE you girl and wouldnlove to to be an outlet for you!! Going though the same thing, I know I'm a totally stranger on the internet but I'm here for you and just a video call away to prove I'm not a total weirdo!
you are an ANGEL!
Sending you love and light Kailin 💛
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I'm so sorry to hear this, sending you love xxxx
thank you ❤️🥹
I’m so sorry😢
love you
Bless your heart I'm so sorry this is happening to you , be kind to yourself you will be fine sending big HUGZZ Xx
sending you the biggest hug right back xx
I'm so sorry. 🙏💜
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This must be very tough to talk about but you are so brave Kailin! Thank you so much for wanting to give us an update even this maybe such a hard time for you...Your videos has been giving me a lot of energy and hope, and although I can't really do much for you, I hope I can at least comment and keep supporting you! :) Please take as much time as you need to heal! We will be waiting for you :)
you mean so much to me, thank you xx
I am sorry, I wish you all the best for the future… you did so much for me with your what i eat in a day videos ❤ I‘m gonna join the healing girl era… i am so desperately in love but this love is not mutual so yeah 😢❤
im so sorry you are experiencing heartbreak too. we are in this together ❤️
I'm sorry you are going through such a painful experience. It was really brave of you to film this video. I wish you strength and peace ❤🩹
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Kailin my heart is so heavy and broken for you. Sending you so so much love reach out anytime if you need to talk.❤
thank you so much, Zo. needed this and thankful for you ❤️
I’m so sorry, Kailin. My heart goes out to you during this period - we’re all thinking of you and sending you a world of love. We’ll be with you on your healing girl era. Sending you hugs 💗💗💗💗💗 take care of yourself.
sending so many hugs right back! thank you for being here, always xx
Kailin my heart is so broken for you and i cant even begin to express how much i hate that this is something you are going through, all i can say from being your friend these past years is i know the strength you hold and i know that you are going to get through this just like everything else, i adore u
i adore you forever and always ❤️
Sending healing love and light. And prayers
thank you 🥹❤️💕
I’m so sorry you are going through this 😢 I love you kailin you are beautiful inside and out please don’t forget to take care of yourself you deserve all the best 🩶
thank you ❤️❤️❤️🥹🥹
Sending you a LOT of love !
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I am so sorry Kailin ❤️🩹 I am (we all are) here for you, exactly lile you said - your besties. You WILL be okay, please be kind to yourself. You are a very very very nice, loving, kind, gentle human and that’s something to be proud of. I’m sending you so much love and hugs!! ❤️🩹
thank you for your kind heart, now and always!!!
@@healwithkailin ❤️❤️❤️
Sending you so much love ❤️
thank you hannah ❤️
My heart is broken for you. 😢 I just know that you’ll think back on the memories you had with him and know it was the best step towards the better version of yourself. You’re strong and you’ll get through this. Love you, Kailin.
Love you so so much x
@@healwithkailinlove you too 😊
This is heartbreaking, Kailin, but yes, eventually you will be okay. Sending you lots of love and hugs❤ Please take care of yourself first. All our love and support for you❤
thank you so so much! needed this more than you know x
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I'm so so sorry.
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Sending so much love ❤
big love xx