When a Man Says "I'm Alright" | Men Often Suffer in Silence
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ส.ค. 2024
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Brothers, be sure to check on each other. And, pay attention. As men, we are not only responsible for learning how to properly articulate our thoughts but we should also learn how to recognize when another man is not "alright".
There is nothing wrong with asking another man what's on his mind.
Men often suffer in silence.
I watched my mum die two weeks ago and not a single person outside my family has contacted me to ask how I am. Luckily I'm alright.
I can’t imagine that pain, I wish the best for you, your mum would probably want you to try your best to stay positive and take care of yourself so make her proud
Oh so sorry for your loss Joe. Am sending you many hugs and lots of love. You are so strong ❤️ Much love. Those people are gonna come looking for you one day. You are a blessing am telling you.
Stay strong brother
I have been there.Its not alright but men and women would want you to contact them.
Im sorry for your loss...
Shes watching from above to let you know.
I think what hits harder about this video is that the men watching it are very likely just silently nodding as he says it. The silent conversation we can all understand.
I'm embarrassed for him.
@karlgustov9648 why is that?
@@karlgustav999why
I wait till I’m alone to cry usually at night and during the day I can’t tell anyone how I really feel because I’ll be seen as weak
Thank you
3 suicide attempts and still battling those demons. We can all get through it, just takes a lot of pain and suffering, but we eventually break free.
Oh dear..... I don't know who you are but please hold on to life. The enemy wants you gone so bad, he has failed to do it himself that he now wants you to do it to your self. Please choose life regardless, no situation lasts forever. As long as you are standing you are winning. Sending you many hugs and love. Hugs to you. You will be fine okay?. Dont forget. Love you.❤️
I feel you brother, went through a similar thing and I just wanna say I'm glad you're still with us here
Find something u want to live for 🙂🙂
Good luck Brother,we are stronger than we think!
If you haven't already gotten out of those times, you will. You are important and you have ppl who love you. You may not know me, and I may not know you. But you need to stay strong. Think about how other ppl's lives have been impacted by you. You are an important part of this world. Stay strong and stay alive. Love from a stranger. ❤
Most men live quiet lives of suffering and desperation wishing they could escape.
I been living like this for 22 yrs
God bless u
I'm living in this phase from 2007 but every passing days is bringing more pain and dipression
@@Broken_Men I have also been suffering with depression for most of my life
@@Paragonscales Just because Mens don't cry, people, government always support women over men.
So true, and I'm alright.
I'm all right, too, brothers!
And strangely enough, that’s where I’m comfortable.
It sucks when your expected to take care of everything and when they need help they always expect you to bail them out but when you need help you’ve got no one to turn too but yourself so yeah I’m alright too
I feel this so deeply. I had a breakup with my ex and got tossed to the wolves for the first time in my life. I at least had a job lined up and have done everything i can do for myself to make my situation work. But when I started getting my "mess" together the most is when I noticed that I had the least support, and no one seems to care how I feel or what I have to go through daily except my spouse, who is also a male and been through the same. Only perk i've ever found in being gay is that at least I found someone who understand exactly how I feel, because they've been treated exactly the same.
Outside of that, no one, especially my family, seems to care if I lose my job tomorrow and have to sleep in the street. And although it pays well, I absolutely despise being micromanaged like a child by someone 10 years younger than me who is otherwise clueless about life, and have to obey everything he says, just to get a decent paycheck. I truly hate my job.
I feel both of these comments im currently struggling with getting lead on by a girl i thought was my world and she was perfect for me i mean perfect and she went back to her ex and even tho i sense regret on her end i still cant change it i hoping one day i can still marry her but for right now im crying over everything letting it all out over a poor paying job probably getting forced to move and also losing friends left and right. But im alright
This cuts deep..."I'm alright..."
Me2....just keep going ...❤
I feel you 2 brother
Felt this on a deeply personal level.
As an 18 year old man who is struggling financially, stressed over College, and battling addictions, I'm alright as well.
Keep on going when you cry, alone and dont let them see you got this god loves you bro i prayed for you ❤
Keep....on keeping on....❤
Hey
I feel you I’m alright too
I showed this too my dad(step dad that Raised me) and he just looked at me then said yep and I swear I saw a tear in his eye when he said it Olney seen him cry three times my whole life i can't Believe this got him that close.
This hit hard!! Very true!
Especially when you're a big dude. Nobody f***ing cares!!!
Bro....keep...on....keeping on......
This hits hard! I have literally said "I'm alright" to hundreds if not thousands of people. Very few people really get it. But just so you know I'm alright as I'm right beside you.
Me too, hope your doing good
Mee too but after I say I’m alright I usually go alone and cry because I can’t cry in front of anyone else
@@Waltyworld it's difficult for me to cry but yea can't cry infront of anyone that would be showing weakness which they will exploite
"I'm alright, too." This hit hard
🥺.. Thanks, I'm blessed.
This video hits sooo hard. I recently discovered my wife of 17 years.... mother of my 2 youngest daughters.....had a 2 year affair with my oldest daughters ex boyfriend. Now....I live with this realization....my choices are lose my kids and financial stability and divorce or stay with a woman I'll never love or trust again. I did nothing to deserve this....I try my best to be a good husband and father. I work 40-50 hours a week to support my family and provide them with everything they need. I go to work then come home.....every day. Not chasing bitches....not playing video games...not being a drunk or addict. Even after working a long hard day...(I work construction) I find the time to help around the house, spend time with the kids, plus fix the cars or things around the house that need it. And she does THIS to me.....now I'll admit our communication wasn't as good as it could of been....but par communication in a marriage so NOT a reason to fuck your husbands daughters ex boyfriend. That is so disrespectful, out of line, biggest f$#k you you could hand a man that did nothing but loved you and tried his best to provide....but hey.....I'm alright.
I'm alright too, there are very few women in this world who will understand your emotions so be careful with whom you share your feelings.
True words
I'm alright too
Legit tried to open up to my mother and she threw it back in my face the first chance she got never will I ever open up to that dumb bitch ever again.
@@wxlfgangfree_sx_sadd4469 I once opened up to my mom about a very painful incident of my life she didn't even try to console me.
@@drakecliff8378 sorry for you brother same happened with me.
I’m alright too.
35:23 🙌💙💯 Luv this message
Im allright too.
This preaches. I can see real men response on here. Simps will never understand. Glad to see there is still real around. Love you brother’s. Keep on fighting!!!
Thanks, comrade!
To the core....just keep on keeping on....grind on.....this day then next
I am alright also my brothers. And it's ok. We are in this together.
This is so true. I feel like I don't even matter to anyone anymore. Society has made me feel like complete garbage. Just because someone says something doesn't mean that they always mean it.
Literally what i say when anyone's bothered to ask how i am
Most of the men gets their first flower at their funeral 🥀
It's a sad reality that we live in guys , keep pushing 🫂🫡
CHEERS to the those that are alright
my heart broke since i was a kid,and i hide it till now im 20s
Makes it hard when kids are involved. I’m constantly hiding it from my 9 year old son.
@@georgesrassi9327 I know,we don't want they feel the same
I lost my grandma when I was about to turn 9 on Sunday I'm about to turn 22
You ain’t the only one. I hide my shit 24/7
@@redneckjohn117maeby9 it can't be heal, you just being cold and ruthless to hide your pain
My wife left me after 25 years. Said she didn't love me anymore. I hurt every day and I don't trust anyone now.
I hate to say this brother but usually whenever a woman hits you with those words that usually means that she's been seeing somebody else behind your back. But all good though, she did you a favor and time will eventually heal your wounds. Stay strong brother 💪
I feel you bro. Recently found out my wife of 17 years had a 2 year affair with my daughters ex boyfriend. Shit hits harder than a ton of bricks.....but....I'm alright.
I'm going through it right now !! Trying to cope!
@@drzoidberg7310thats terrible brother im sorry for you keep pushing hard do not lose it. Dont forget that there are guys like you still keep going forward
"Cast all Your care upon CHRIST JESUS, because HE Cares for You All. Be strong and of good Courage ". It is written. "He who endures to the end shall be saved". AMan.
Im all right brother
In the last year and a 1/2 I've watched this video several 100 times
Me2....❤.....just keep on keeping on........day after day...❤
I cried! 😟
In few words the message penetrates deepest of heart.
I’m alright too brothers….
I’m alright too brother…
Me too mate
Amen, wish I could have shown this to my brother before he lost that fight…
Was there in my darkest time was in a toxic relationship with a crazy bipolar mess, financially fucked, living in an old rv that broke down all the time and had no where to legally park it and no car, if it broke down that was is it and could barely afford to keep going for two years my life was chaos. And I survived that. Alone, no one there for me but myself and I had to give all I had just to keep myself from falling off the edge. I survived that and now I'm doing what I love everyday god damn day, and thank God and thank myself for getting through to be where I am now. The grass is greener on the other side. Never give up. Never slow down. Never stop learning, struggling to get better. Never settle for less. Don't let anyone hold you back. There's no shame in taking a few steps back so you can take several steps forward. You got this. You deserve it. You're worth it. Get after it.
Fighting an addiction problem. Never understood why people did when I was younger just to end up like them. (No disrespect intended). Motorcycle project is on hold, nightshifts getting more & more depressing, bills are always stacked, people aren’t genuine anymore other than the ones that just go unnoticed but I’m alright though & I hope that you’re all alright. I don’t normally throw my little problems out there but I know that ALL of you in this section understand. Y’all hang in there, stay safe, & keep breathing.
This man speaks 100% truth and it hit every man that is falling apart and... I am alright too
It may not only be because nobody cares. It may be a big part of it, but it may not always be the sole reason. We say that we are all right because we do not wish to burden others with our own problems.
Tell this to a woman and watch her get offended af. She'll lecture you on how women have it harder blah blah blah
Man. My mom told me this. She said she had a harder life growing up and I have no excuse.
@@rsolo9294 if she says that she had a harder life because she is a woman, she is a misandrist.
You're exactly right about that. Which is why a man LEARNS to INTERNALIZE his World.
For real
I love what he is doing.. We as women think that men don’t have the same problem ❤❤ stay strong ❤
So true, thanks
Romans 8:18
: "The Pain that you're been feeling can't compare to the joy that's coming."
These years have gotten the best of me every time but 22 years after being born I’ve been alright and I’m still alright 💯💯 I think this is just what I needed to hear thank you so much for this!!!
The most sad truth is - he's absolutely 100% right... Sometimes I can't keep this struggle, pain is overwhelming, but I can't tell anyone, because nobody gives a fuck about my mental health... My issues... Nobody cares if I'm in pain, they're telling "your problems is shit, grow up and endure it" but nobody thinks how much pain I've endured before showing signs of breaking down
Thanks you for telling people that brother I’m also alright
When my uncle died, it was so hard to focus on anything else so whenever someone ask me anything, I always said I’m all right, and they always believe me
Be a reason to keep going tell your Bois your there
The struggle is real. I'm alright too brother
People, even the kind ones, will eventually grow weary of hearing about my struggles, and start asking the "What are you going to do about it?" type of questions.
And the answer is "Yes, I know what I should do. Get my act together, and there is a whole to do list of ideas how to do it. I have tried and tried, but again and again I slip back to the old crappy habits." This is why I keep telling "I'm fine." and try to carry on. Maybe some day light will shine.
Homeless and living with a friend. Lonely and constantly feeling exhausted. But, I’m alright too.
Wow, man this brought tears to me eyes. I’m alright to though, but, something has to change..
I have a bunch of mental problems I was abused I have repressed memories and this man spoke 100% facts
I'm alright too. Can't be anything but alright.
"Be strong and of good Courage ", "He who endures shall be saved", pray without ceasing, and watch". The Holy LORD GOD JESUS CHRIST of Host's will give Us Beauty for ashes and Joy for sorrow". It is written.
im alright too. im always gonna be
I'M ALL RIGHT TOO, but I'm use to it!!!
We alright Brothers !
I’m alright too brother.
Right now, I'm alright too.
💖🙏more compassion and grace for people.
I'm ok , I'm alright brothers....
I come back to this video often, because of the truth in the message. In a few days, I face the day where, 2 years ago, I lost one of my very best friends to cancer. For those of us who knew and loved him, we each take on a little bit of pain so he no longer has to. I miss him dearly every day, but I'm alright.
Sorry for your loss brother
I'm all right.
This cracked my bottle of emotion
Keep it up brothers, cause the only things that left for us are each other, and our invincible soul.
Wahhh wahhh wahhh
@@HKona7Shut it.
Only many men are dealing with their own problems, so they don't often have the time.
Yes, its true.
Thanks man.
Pray for all of y’all
All too real.
This describes me 💯 percent !
Thanks man!
Men should be able to be in touch with their emotions and have support, without it seeming like they're any less than a man. Women don't understand the difficulty that men have because of the dumbass society that has been built. Women are pampered when men are treated like shit. This is unfair, but the world is used to it unfortunately.
Not a man claiming the world is unfair. Give us equal wages, then we’ll talk about your fragile little feelings
@@HKona7 What are you even talking about?
@Liberal Canki77themselvs wasn't this wage gap myth debunked already?
@@shaunvoges4820 Frequently but society at large refuses to acknowledge this, let alone spread the information.
@@HKona7 common courtesy precludes me from telling you what sex act you can perform on yourself with a cactus.
100 percent, I’m alright….
Honestly needed this after the year I had.. lost two cousins and feels like nobody cares and I just try to shut down any feeling.
I’m sorry for your losses and I hope you keep on going with your life
@@lonewolf-gd5wg thanks man maybe this year might get better.
Hopefully
We’re all brought up to feel we are special by our parents, and we are to them. But really we aren’t special in the bigger picture, unless we do something special.
Feel yeah man I’ve been alright for what feels of a life time
We have to move forward and I'm not afraid of anyone or I just want to live.
Keep on going my brother's life is unforgiving for a man but we will persevere I'm 2days sober from alcohol an drugs all I know is my purpose is to love the stranger I once saw as myself I want to quit but we must keep going much love to all you guys suffering in silence nothing stays bad forever fellas you can do this
still sober my bro?
Yeah bro.. im alright
I am alright too Brother
sometime saying that your alright is a lot easier than explaining the reasons why “im alright “ the truth is your right nobody f*king cares a man is not supposed to show emotions not supposed to cry but luckily we have those words and it takes only a man to know what a mans going through…. sad but true
Solid. This really hit home. I'm alright aswell
I feel you brother.
I feel ya all brothers, I am alright too.
rest in piece sean… i love u brotha
Someone finally said it, thank you.
I'm alright too brother
I'm alright too.
Us that carry more than most have heard no so long as those that don't only hear yes. Pole reversal. Now we will hear yes when it's exactly what God created for us and they'll hear no. Karma doesn't forget who's fruitful who's fruitless. You're not alone. May God anoint those that anoint God. 🕊️⚡🌎⚡🕊️
Man ive lost two friends to suicide its taken such a toll on my life i hear the word demons and i cry so hard rest in peace boys look after my dog and bamp for me love you jasper and Ralph
thanks man, Needed this today.
I’m alright too!!
I learned about this when I was 12, during that time I would share how I felt about things and my problems omce I turned 16 I realised how much people like my family and friends were just humoring me when I mentioned my problems but I could tell they cared less and less so I gave up on even mentioning my problems or showing emotion I shut myself off and focused on what needed done and did it. The one thing I will say is that I listen to and help my friends with there problems but I dont ask for or expect the same treatment even when they want me to open up, but the part the was the worst for me was realising the people I wanted to care about my problems just didnt
I'm all right too brother
I can relate. Tremendously.
To all men that read this! Hold it down for yourselves and remember God loves us and tests our strength ❤️💪🫶🏼
I don’t even say I’m fine or I’m alright anymore. I say “I’m here” because I’m tired of lying.
Im also alright brother even when darkness consume us we have god who he show the light for the heavens to guide us