I went through a breakup and lost my friendships all within a year as well. The grief and sadness I went though was immeasurable. But God was my friend through it all and he taught me so much. Thank you Jesus!
I went through a breakup 8 months ago & although I didn't lose mutual friendships, I definitely grieve the loss of the friendship I had with my ex. Its been tough, but has definitely gotten better with time. Keep your head up, sis🙏🏽
Same girl! And the crazy thing about is when you feel like it was a God ordained friendship or relationship and something sooo small and minor causes it to end. With no closure or reconciliation. It can really make people cautious about friendships. Which isn’t such a bad thing, but also if we’re not careful with that cautiousness it could easily turn into a wall that’s built to not let anyone in or give people a real chance, because your scared to be hurt again and lose someone over a simple mistake. We are all human and we all will forever make new mistakes, so knowing that makes it hard to even try in a relationship or friendship. Praying that God will heal all the broken and confused hearts and that God will send a true friend to all that’s searching 🙏🏽 in Jesus name I pray amen
This has changed my whole perspective on friendships! “We often place the responsibility on people to be God”‼️ I pray I don’t mishandle my friendships from this day forward
Has anyone experienced a change within themselves in a healthy way and realised that none of your friends kinda match you anymore ? I have alwayssss been the Joan of the group ( girlfriends sitcom), the ultimate people pleaser, let people speak over me, not be acknowledged but acknowledges everyone else, getting birthday presents for friends and literally getting nothing in return ... The list goes on. But since i turned 30, had therapy, ended a bad relationship I have blossomed so much as a person and alot of my friendships don't align with me anymore. I genuinely know im a good friend and know my worth in God and in general that i won't put up with mistreatment anymore. Very lonely road realising youve outgrown nearly all your friends but God is our provider and he has given us everything we need for each step in our life.
I used to be like this. Quick to throw people away because they didn't "align with me" anymore, but all this did was leave me lonely and filled with grief. I realized I was treating people like pairs of shoes. Loved them until they just didn't fit my style anymore, then I'd search for a new pair. For me, this wasn't a healthy way to be. I realized I was seeking perfection in my relationships, something I couldn't even give. Just like my life, other people are going to have highs and lows. All relationships have highs and lows, but it's about being willing to communicate, work through things and love each other through it all. I'm learning to truly see people, whether family, friends or more, as human, not a player piece in a game called life. There are times when a relationship (platonic or not) is genuinely not healthy and better to leave than stay. I realized that wasn't the case with everyone and many of the people that I thought didn't align with me anymore, were truly just at a point where we needed to relearn the new persons we each were becoming. To learn how our friendship can grow and adjust together, as we internally and externally grow and adjust as individuals. Jesus doesn't treat us like throwaways. So let's not treat each other that way. ❤
Me being a person that tends to flight vs fight also probably played a part. I was quick to leave whatever I felt would've been to tough to muscle through. So I deemed them unworkable and flew. I became a flight risk lol. Stemming from childhood trauma where I was not allowed to flight or fight. Just numbed myself through it. So as an adult I became a flyer and sought perfection in everything. I'm unlearning these things now. God has graciously blessed me to see these things now and is healing me from it. Now my situation, or anything similar to, may not apply to you. Who am I to know you better than you. But I pray that for those that this may apply for, that Jesus shows you the truth and the way. God bless. - ❤ your sister in Christ
@@Kiersten-sv9zx thankyou for your lovely perspective I really appreciate it. I think in my situation though I've had to take a step back and really evaluate who is a good friend to me and act accordingly cause I haven't had great experiences and put up with alot if I'm honest. I've also had time to look into myself and see the error of my ways too. We are all learning and growing, I genuinely pray God guides me on this journey of friendship and you aswell 🤍
THIS. I put so much on them being self centered and thinking my problems trump theirs even though they never expressed it but just through self reflection, I wish I realized sooner.
Whew, hearing this hit so deeply for me. I'm requiring something my friend doesn't have the capacity to be or give in our friendship. Knowing the role of my friends is key.
THHHHHIIIIISSSS EPISODE!!!! My best friend of 20 years and I have been in this space since last year and y’all nailed everything I haven’t been able to put into words. Our lives are changing and we need to figure out how to show up in our friendship in a new way. This was a blessing.
I lost a lot of friends when I paid attention to how they responded to me when I set boundaries & said No. I was hurt but healing... God makes no mistakes 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I've been watching since the 1st episode of KFS and I must say Meghan sound soooooo different. The way you talk the way you conduct yourself Im just in awe of the evolution of you Meghan. ❤❤❤❤❤
Just yesterday I told God to please speak to me about something I'm going through with my friend and the next thing I see this episode on my timeline. God is so intentional and I'm grateful to Him. Thank you guys so much for letting the Holy spirit through you
The genuine, peace, joy and light that resonates from Megan is undeniable! Im so glad that whatever the burden was lifted from her and she is living in her purpose. I pray much success to her!
Full transparent moment...I'm the friend that was cut off for not being a good friend and being there for my friends. I was so caught in my grief from losing my mother that I didn't realize life was happening to them, too. This episode was right on time for me to take accountability and try to move forward❤
Mean girls absolutely exist in adulthood! I NEVER thought I would experience bullying from my peers in my adulthood but I did and it broke me. It triggered something inside of me that I simply could not stand. Even still, God used my disappointment and misery to show that I was idolizing friendships. He allowed me to lose people I thought were my friends, my actual best friend, etc. in order to seek Him.
This episode was right on time. I’m currently still grieving a friendship that had a nasty fall out and that I know cannot be repaired so I’ve been navigating my healing in solitude but I know I’m gonna need outside resources to help me get to the core of why I cannot let go just yet. I’m so excited to grab this book and boo-hoo cry while making an effort not to point the finger at the negative images in my head of those who I loved so dearly at one point. Thank you for this Megan and Trinity.❤
This was so necessary. We most times don't know how to navigate through friendship that end. We try to keep forcing a friendship that may just be over....God reveals all. Thank you Megan
Megan, I don’t think you understand how TIMELY this episode is. Like, needed to hear this TODAY. God is good and thank you and Trin for your authenticity and vulnerability.
i thoroughly enjoyed this episode. im in a very quiet female friendship season and i have reached a place of acceptance in this. Trusting that God, in His time , will bless me with company that makes sense to my life.
I've been in this space for the past 2 years, I realized after 2 female friendship fallout's I needed to step back and keep to myself until the Lord heals me, but in the process the Holy Spirit ministered to me through a conversation that part of healing is trusting again, you heal through relationship, ofcourse the right kind but through relationship. May God lead us to the right friendships and help us be good friends aswell.
I had a friend group at church, consisting of a pastors kid and 2 children of church staff. About 7 people total. We were all really close, prayed, fasted together, and even prophesied to one and other. Until drama started entering into the church and started screwing with relationships, lies were told, drama was started, and a massive breakup within the group happened too. Everybody took sides, and others lied to make each other look bad. Not something people would really expect from the “core Christian kids of the church” but the enemy really got involved into our friend group. I still pray that we can all come back together in Christ one day… this episode really changed my perspective on things, please pray that God would revive us all.❤️✝️🫶🏾
Whewwwww! This struck so many nerves in the best ways. When she said people will look at you like “I hate that it’s you, but I still need what you can do for me” and how that energy can be felt, it hit me soooo hard. This is such an important topic and conversation in our community. I LOVED this episode!
I can totally resonate with when you said you felt you were leaving your friend behind when the year passed. When I lost my mom in 2021 when 2022 was coming in I felt like I didn’t want 2021 to leave so I could hold on to my mother. Every year I feel like I’m moving further away from my mom. And I definitely lost a huge part of myself when she passed.
God is definitely doing something through this platform he entrusted you with Megan. Just this episode healed something inside of me. Thank you for obeying his instructions🤍
I had someone that I considered to be my friend. I thought we were as close as sisters. But, I was quite needy because of my upbringing. I realized I was asking too much of her, and it made her hate me. I really believe that. She talked behind my back with her other friends and it let me see that she didnt value me as I valued her. I let her go even though its very hard for me to let go of the very few people I let in. I am so happy that I did. I was angry with her at first but after the anger has subsided into acceptance. APTTMH 😊 whats for you is for you.. and that means people, places and things.
I’m pre- liking. Because I’ve already listened to this episode 4 times ( no cap ) I love both of these ladies and they have both impacted my life in the area of friendships ! I often forget about TH-cam. Because when I listen to the podcast I listen on Apple Podcasts due to not having signal when I’m at work. But I love Meg. The way I resonate with her is scary. I’m glad she decided to step into this space if speaking and podcasting. and didn’t stop after KFS ended. And glad she has leaned into intimacy with the Lord sincerely because I often feel that The Lord knew I also needed her YES Too !!!
Listen a national breakup indeed... My heart is still breaking over you and B fallout and praying that one day the Lord restores your friendship if the Lord wills... I really really loved this Episode just wow. TRin I just love you sis, ima be getting this book❤️ Megan, thank you sis I am just here waiting for your book. Thank you for your transparency and always being authentic. God sees your heart.
It’s so refreshing to hear this degree of honesty. I think B Simone just isn’t gifted in speech like Meg to let us in to her side. And, I still truly pray for their friendship ❤️. People just get TIRED after a while.
Good morning Megan! I am so proud of you and your authentic Pisces journey. I absolutely resonate. I loved this real, multi-layered conversation. Thirteen years ago I went through the worst relationship of my life because he was such a morally decrepit human and MOST of my "friends" and family abandoned me. But I became the Alpha female of my life, following ONLY God, because that's all I had to rely on. And for Pisces, we almost need to remind ourselves of that so that if we are being called to let go of a friendship or connection or take time away from family for our own God/self focus, we can. But I learned so much. And your podcast is like a spiritual current of fresh air. Keep going.. peace and love 😌😌🙏🏽🙏🏽🩷🌼🌼🍄🍄
I’m a cutter offer, if I feel like you’re draining me I cut you off and keep it pushing but listening to this conversations could have been had and I do believe friendships could have been saved.
Don't just go with the flow in relationships... set a pace of how you want to friend!!! That is sooooo GOOD!!! Clear communication, expectations, boundaries, follow-through, etc. is sooooo IMPORTANT in friendships! I am learning that more and more now!!
Whew... making friendship an idol?!?! MYYYYY GOD!!!! I feel you on that!!! God has gifted me the same way - empowering me to be "that friend", being strong for people, showing up for people, giving and sowing, etc... whew!!!! We can make our gifts an idol - MY GOD!!!!
"Your friends can hep carry you to the One who can give you rest."- Megan WOW. I love how you said that because we all often times place so many expectations on those around us when we truly need to be seeking the Lord. That's why we continue to feel unfulfilled and low because we aren't looking in the right place and in turn, darkening our perception of the people around us. The enemy will try and cause division but it's our responsibility to keep our eyes on the Lord and turn our heart posture towards Him so that we are able to maintain and pour into those relationships around us!
I had to learn this practically when I was going through the hardest seasons of my life. I relialized that I was placing God expections on human beings and after God revealed that, I am learning to properly place people in the right categories and it's been a game changer🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
This whole podcast we needed for me for sure!! This just showed how much I’ve placed things, people, positions before the Lord and allowed those things to fill my wound and validation for myself. Pride and ego was in the way of truly letting God! I’m so thankful for is Mercy and Grace over my life because God could’ve left me and not convicted my heart of things but he love me so much. That is still right beside me pouring my heart and showing me who truly is has my Father is a blessing! ❤️👏🏾
@1:08:25 "You are upset that I'm pursuing what God has given me to pursue and you are scared to pursue it." That is so true. Fear was keeping me trapped, stuck and uninspired to even try, but I set myself free by the power in the name of Jesus; Amen! I bind every fear and decree that I shall achieve ALL that God has purposed for me to achieve; in Jesus mighty and matchless name; Amen!
Making the grieving part worse by acting like they aren’t who they were in your life ! That’s good! God don’t make mistakes. And sometimes we end relationships too quick that God literally put together.
It’s so crazy how we are all having the same experiences. They put word to what I’ve really been feeling. I’ve been in solitude for a couple months.. losing friends over petty feud has been my portion. But I will say I found a true friend in God. I learned a lot listening to this episode. Convicted for sure. I’m praying to God how to go about this now.
Trinity’s story about her friend that passed got me chocked up. I did the exact same thing of not listening to the Holy Spirit thinking that I had time and he was gone.
I absolutely LOVE that you have decided to discuss this topic, in particular. It has been my life struggle to find real and authentic friendships and it has made me somewhat bitter towards people. However, until watching this, I hadn't even realized that I've made an idol of it, which is why I have struggled. Now, the prayer is for God to send me people instead of choosing my own! Thank you for this, Megan. You are so appreciated and also, necessary!! 💜❤️ Also, I would remiss if I did not acknowledge how bomb Trinity is! I mean, "harpo...who dis woman?!" Lol def getting this book! Love, Love, LOVED this episode!
Wow! Megan, every episode has been a blessing to me in some way. But the way this episode and the episode with John Bervere has convicted me and changed my life is unmatched. Continue to lean into God and allowing him to use you. This is truly kingdom work on your podcast. God bless you and your family! ❤
God is so good! I’ve been chain gang since the beginning and at first I was sad because of the breakup, NOW I see that God wanted TWO podcasts that allows us to strip bare and connect with HIM. Thank you for being obedient! You inspire me so much. I love you girl!
I really truly enjoyed this episode. So relatable it was scary, I felt like I was in the room. So intimate, so peaceful, so wholesome. I loved this episode! Taught me so many lessons, thank you !
Megan, you are such a light. I'm so excited for you in this season because it is very clear that this is your time to know love like you never have before. You are cultivating connections that will elevate you further and bring you closer to God. Trinity, thank you for this message. It is so needed, and your approach is so digestible as it just kind. I think we forget how powerful kindness can be. God bless!!
I think this may be the first time I have commented on a video. I just want to say thank you for this video. Thank you for the open dialogue and transparency. I learned so much about myself watching this and I can't wait to read the book
Recall your history with people even during times of hurt. Don't filter everything through the lens of the hurt... process through prayer and the Word of God!
I resonated soooo much when she said she felt guilt and like she was leaving her friend that passed away when the year changed. I felt the same exact way about my mom when she passed in 2021.
The way that this channel will take off!!! I am here for it, glory to God. Every word, example is speaking to me. Glory to God, thank you both for your transparency!
I’m so proud of you Meg, your journey makes me wants to keep going & showing up as a better healed version of myself. We are soo Blessed to know you & love you. Wow wow wow!!! Keep going
1:10:53 that’s real! We as women definitely have that issue. It’s not a competition you have something I don’t, I have something you don’t let’s put those things together and be powerful!!
WOW I’m 10 minutes in and her story sounds similar to mine, my BFF passed in 2015 and my Dad passed in 2015 WOW 😢😢 Trinity definitely described the grief of losing a best friend. This has been a blessing already, I know it’s going to bless me!
I absolutely love this platform you have created Megan! You are killing it! Every episode is more POWERFUL and ANOINTED than the last. God bless and keep you!
I had couple of friends been friends for about 15 to 20 years lost all in one year. This shed some much light. This was a great episode! I have learn a lot by this one episode ❤ #MeganissuchablessingfromGod🙏🏾
Not sure why this popped up on my feed but thankful to God it did. Currently struggling in a season with a long term friend. The quote that people don’t just have the capacity they don’t have the ability resonated deeply with me.
YES - that SO POWERFUL... lean into intimacy WITH GOD, not only into intimacy with friends. We have to realize that God has given us friends as a part of His glory story for us - NOT to be the end all be all in our lives - they are NOT the source of glory, HE is. We can often idolize the very things (and people) GOD has given us... and put HIM on the backburner.
Thank you so much for this!! The last couple months the Lord has really been convicting me about this and I'm realizing i was not a good steward of my friendships in the past. The big thing for me is recognizing that when the friendship is changing in a season, not to "ghost" a person but to communicate first and then make a decision.
Thank you to both ladies. So much confirmation in this sit-down. I have some work to do with my friendships. I took a mental health day and the Holy Spirit click on this episode. It was so refreshing. Like a refreshing course. Amen!!!! I praying for the best of you. Trinity I decree and declare that many households and friendships will be blessed by your book. ( I will be purchasing soon). Megan... Thank you for your obedience
This whole episode blessed me and is an answered prayer! Dealing with being hurt & areas where I’ve hurt! This brings hope and comfort to knowing I’m not alone and there is grace for me!
I love this episode and can’t wait for the book It’s really need now because all the self love and self care guru’s have people just cutting people off if you feel and even some godly folks don’t ask God before you move on it
Spot on... Cos boundaries this boundaries that 🎯 you captured it so well. People literally out-here fumbling God assigned relationships, that's what lack of discernment will have you doing.
I just watched this and bought the audio book and finished it!!! OMG!!! This book is so amazing ladies!! It nearly brought me to tears. MUST READ. Blessings to you both ladies🫶🏽🙏🏽🌸
Not really sure what/why happened in your friendship that was lost with B. Simone. But i see you reaching to refill the space you held for her (not the space she left behind) I watch her as well and she seems to find comfort in busy/avoidance and maybe that's because acknowledgement of being seen and made to stand in the hard part of friendship is scarier than she thinks she can handle. Sometimes a "hollow" life is welcomed. Who was fault is irrelevant, please continue fill your spirit with the joy, the growth, the beauty, the blessings, the lessons and the patience you are given. I wish that for both of you (together or apart)
I agree with everything you said about B, I been watching her too and really pray God sends her good people. People after God's heart who will help her grow as an individual like she did when she was friends with Meg. It's a lot of wolves out there especially in her industry.
I can’t wait to read this book. I ended a friendship last month with someone I’ve known since elementary school. Listening to this conversation just affirms so much about that situation. This was good.
This was so good. Felt like I was in the room listening with you ladies. I'm only 20 minutes in but Trinity's honesty about her part in the friendship conflict, and her self awareness, is so refreshing.
I understand how Megan could’ve idolised being a best friend because their friendship with B Simone was praised constantly, and it’s easy to then attach your identity to being a besty❤️
Wow!! This message is sooo ON TIME!! With so many conversations and conflicts that are happening right now. I wasn’t familiar with Miss Trinity prior to this episode. But what a beauty and what a glow ❤.
Amen!! Thank you Jesus, James 1:17 NLT [17] Whatever is good and perfect is a gift coming down to us from God our Father, who created all the lights in the heavens. He never changes or casts a shifting shadow. Also, I meant to comment in your last video, congrats and happy borthday to your mother. May the Lord strengthen her. Amen
I also held a grudge way too long, my childhood friend passed on and for years I was bitter, angry and disappointed in myself. I would light a candle on her birthday to celebrate the one thing that I could hold onto, for the life of me I can't seem to hold onto other memories that we shared
You describe how I am with the only child comment. I'm the same way in my thinking. Can't be fake, neither. I feel dimissed & took the same actions as you. Love this conversation. I can relate to so much & taking notes. Absolutely can relate to Trinity ways of acceptance of ppl especially after having my daughter. My life changed so quickly I'm in that space as well.
"Healthy friendship" - that's the beautiful thing... knowing and learning appropriate boundaries and staying within those boundaries helps us to be effective friends and to always point our friends to JESUS and not to us.
I went through a breakup and lost my friendships all within a year as well. The grief and sadness I went though was immeasurable. But God was my friend through it all and he taught me so much. Thank you Jesus!
I went through a breakup 8 months ago & although I didn't lose mutual friendships, I definitely grieve the loss of the friendship I had with my ex. Its been tough, but has definitely gotten better with time. Keep your head up, sis🙏🏽
Same girl! And the crazy thing about is when you feel like it was a God ordained friendship or relationship and something sooo small and minor causes it to end.
With no closure or reconciliation. It can really make people cautious about friendships. Which isn’t such a bad thing, but also if we’re not careful with that cautiousness it could easily turn into a wall that’s built to not let anyone in or give people a real chance, because your scared to be hurt again and lose someone over a simple mistake. We are all human and we all will forever make new mistakes, so knowing that makes it hard to even try in a relationship or friendship. Praying that God will heal all the broken and confused hearts and that God will send a true friend to all that’s searching 🙏🏽 in Jesus name I pray amen
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I'm still trying to come out on top. I never saw it coming and I took it extremely hard.
This has changed my whole perspective on friendships! “We often place the responsibility on people to be God”‼️ I pray I don’t mishandle my friendships from this day forward
Has anyone experienced a change within themselves in a healthy way and realised that none of your friends kinda match you anymore ?
I have alwayssss been the Joan of the group ( girlfriends sitcom), the ultimate people pleaser, let people speak over me, not be acknowledged but acknowledges everyone else, getting birthday presents for friends and literally getting nothing in return ... The list goes on.
But since i turned 30, had therapy, ended a bad relationship I have blossomed so much as a person and alot of my friendships don't align with me anymore. I genuinely know im a good friend and know my worth in God and in general that i won't put up with mistreatment anymore. Very lonely road realising youve outgrown nearly all your friends but God is our provider and he has given us everything we need for each step in our life.
I used to be like this. Quick to throw people away because they didn't "align with me" anymore, but all this did was leave me lonely and filled with grief. I realized I was treating people like pairs of shoes. Loved them until they just didn't fit my style anymore, then I'd search for a new pair. For me, this wasn't a healthy way to be. I realized I was seeking perfection in my relationships, something I couldn't even give. Just like my life, other people are going to have highs and lows. All relationships have highs and lows, but it's about being willing to communicate, work through things and love each other through it all. I'm learning to truly see people, whether family, friends or more, as human, not a player piece in a game called life. There are times when a relationship (platonic or not) is genuinely not healthy and better to leave than stay. I realized that wasn't the case with everyone and many of the people that I thought didn't align with me anymore, were truly just at a point where we needed to relearn the new persons we each were becoming. To learn how our friendship can grow and adjust together, as we internally and externally grow and adjust as individuals. Jesus doesn't treat us like throwaways. So let's not treat each other that way. ❤
Me being a person that tends to flight vs fight also probably played a part. I was quick to leave whatever I felt would've been to tough to muscle through. So I deemed them unworkable and flew. I became a flight risk lol. Stemming from childhood trauma where I was not allowed to flight or fight. Just numbed myself through it. So as an adult I became a flyer and sought perfection in everything. I'm unlearning these things now. God has graciously blessed me to see these things now and is healing me from it. Now my situation, or anything similar to, may not apply to you. Who am I to know you better than you. But I pray that for those that this may apply for, that Jesus shows you the truth and the way. God bless.
- ❤ your sister in Christ
@@Kiersten-sv9zx thankyou for your lovely perspective I really appreciate it. I think in my situation though I've had to take a step back and really evaluate who is a good friend to me and act accordingly cause I haven't had great experiences and put up with alot if I'm honest. I've also had time to look into myself and see the error of my ways too. We are all learning and growing, I genuinely pray God guides me on this journey of friendship and you aswell 🤍
The Lord is calling you to him to be healed. Let it happen
Yes going through this now. Can totally relate. Its scary at the same time.
I wish I didn't bleed on my friends as much as I did... Instead of taking it to the Lord...FELT THIS!!
Very much felt, same here!
THIS. I put so much on them being self centered and thinking my problems trump theirs even though they never expressed it but just through self reflection, I wish I realized sooner.
Same here! This line, made me a new subbie...
I felt this wholeheartedly!
“We want people to be good in areas they aren’t able to be” whew
Whew, hearing this hit so deeply for me. I'm requiring something my friend doesn't have the capacity to be or give in our friendship. Knowing the role of my friends is key.
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THHHHHIIIIISSSS EPISODE!!!! My best friend of 20 years and I have been in this space since last year and y’all nailed everything I haven’t been able to put into words. Our lives are changing and we need to figure out how to show up in our friendship in a new way. This was a blessing.
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I'm also going through the same situation
“Paying attention to how people respond to you “ THIS ☝🏾
I lost a lot of friends when I paid attention to how they responded to me when I set boundaries & said No. I was hurt but healing... God makes no mistakes 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
“I can take accountability for something but i cant deal with rejection… telling you how i feel and it getting dismissed” this is me right here
I wish i could repost this ep. So good
@@abidedbloomerwhy can’t you? Serious question. Can we not share?
I've been watching since the 1st episode of KFS and I must say Meghan sound soooooo different. The way you talk the way you conduct yourself Im just in awe of the evolution of you Meghan. ❤❤❤❤❤
Megan seems a lot happier, too.
Just yesterday I told God to please speak to me about something I'm going through with my friend and the next thing I see this episode on my timeline. God is so intentional and I'm grateful to Him. Thank you guys so much for letting the Holy spirit through you
“One thing that women have in common is that we live unhealed” wowwww a word.
“Who am I, not to forgive” hit differently 😮💨😮💨
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The genuine, peace, joy and light that resonates from Megan is undeniable! Im so glad that whatever the burden was lifted from her and she is living in her purpose. I pray much success to her!
Full transparent moment...I'm the friend that was cut off for not being a good friend and being there for my friends. I was so caught in my grief from losing my mother that I didn't realize life was happening to them, too. This episode was right on time for me to take accountability and try to move forward❤
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This podcast is so anointed. Every single episode is perfect timing!
Mean girls absolutely exist in adulthood! I NEVER thought I would experience bullying from my peers in my adulthood but I did and it broke me. It triggered something inside of me that I simply could not stand. Even still, God used my disappointment and misery to show that I was idolizing friendships. He allowed me to lose people I thought were my friends, my actual best friend, etc. in order to seek Him.
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This episode was right on time. I’m currently still grieving a friendship that had a nasty fall out and that I know cannot be repaired so I’ve been navigating my healing in solitude but I know I’m gonna need outside resources to help me get to the core of why I cannot let go just yet. I’m so excited to grab this book and boo-hoo cry while making an effort not to point the finger at the negative images in my head of those who I loved so dearly at one point. Thank you for this Megan and Trinity.❤
Same.No one talks about this. I'm in tears watching this 😢
@@adrienneanthony1018 sending you love! ❤️
God does his best work with us when we are placed is a space of solitude.
Yesss 😭
This was so necessary. We most times don't know how to navigate through friendship that end. We try to keep forcing a friendship that may just be over....God reveals all.
Thank you Megan
Megan, I don’t think you understand how TIMELY this episode is. Like, needed to hear this TODAY. God is good and thank you and Trin for your authenticity and vulnerability.
Omg Megan please go on tour ❤️ finally I have someone who speak the TRUTH.
Creation! FALL! AND redemption ❤️
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉Megan Ashley.....hunnie you bringing it & serving it 🔥. So many women are going to level up with their healed versions of themselves. Love it❤
i thoroughly enjoyed this episode. im in a very quiet female friendship season and i have reached a place of acceptance in this. Trusting that God, in His time , will bless me with company that makes sense to my life.
I've been in this space for the past 2 years, I realized after 2 female friendship fallout's I needed to step back and keep to myself until the Lord heals me, but in the process the Holy Spirit ministered to me through a conversation that part of healing is trusting again, you heal through relationship, ofcourse the right kind but through relationship. May God lead us to the right friendships and help us be good friends aswell.
I had a friend group at church, consisting of a pastors kid and 2 children of church staff. About 7 people total. We were all really close, prayed, fasted together, and even prophesied to one and other. Until drama started entering into the church and started screwing with relationships, lies were told, drama was started, and a massive breakup within the group happened too. Everybody took sides, and others lied to make each other look bad. Not something people would really expect from the “core Christian kids of the church” but the enemy really got involved into our friend group. I still pray that we can all come back together in Christ one day… this episode really changed my perspective on things, please pray that God would revive us all.❤️✝️🫶🏾
Megan!! I am so grateful for your obedience. This podcast give me life! Any talk about God, I'm ALL IN!!
Whewwwww! This struck so many nerves in the best ways. When she said people will look at you like “I hate that it’s you, but I still need what you can do for me” and how that energy can be felt, it hit me soooo hard. This is such an important topic and conversation in our community. I LOVED this episode!
I can totally resonate with when you said you felt you were leaving your friend behind when the year passed. When I lost my mom in 2021 when 2022 was coming in I felt like I didn’t want 2021 to leave so I could hold on to my mother. Every year I feel like I’m moving further away from my mom. And I definitely lost a huge part of myself when she passed.
🙏🏾🫶🏾 sending love and prayers your way as you continue to navigate your new normal 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I feel the exact same way with my dad wow
Sending love ,prayers and healing your way love ❤️🥰
God is definitely doing something through this platform he entrusted you with Megan. Just this episode healed something inside of me. Thank you for obeying his instructions🤍
God bless her husband! I can only imagine what both were going through after that loss, being freshly married 😢
I had someone that I considered to be my friend. I thought we were as close as sisters. But, I was quite needy because of my upbringing. I realized I was asking too much of her, and it made her hate me. I really believe that. She talked behind my back with her other friends and it let me see that she didnt value me as I valued her. I let her go even though its very hard for me to let go of the very few people I let in. I am so happy that I did. I was angry with her at first but after the anger has subsided into acceptance. APTTMH 😊 whats for you is for you.. and that means people, places and things.
I’m pre- liking. Because I’ve already listened to this episode 4 times ( no cap ) I love both of these ladies and they have both impacted my life in the area of friendships ! I often forget about TH-cam. Because when I listen to the podcast I listen on Apple Podcasts due to not having signal when I’m at work. But I love Meg. The way I resonate with her is scary. I’m glad she decided to step into this space if speaking and podcasting. and didn’t stop after KFS ended. And glad she has leaned into intimacy with the Lord sincerely because I often feel that The Lord knew I also needed her YES Too !!!
Listen a national breakup indeed... My heart is still breaking over you and B fallout and praying that one day the Lord restores your friendship if the Lord wills...
I really really loved this Episode just wow. TRin I just love you sis, ima be getting this book❤️
Megan, thank you sis I am just here waiting for your book. Thank you for your transparency and always being authentic. God sees your heart.
It’s so refreshing to hear this degree of honesty. I think B Simone just isn’t gifted in speech like Meg to let us in to her side. And, I still truly pray for their friendship ❤️. People just get TIRED after a while.
Whew. The Holy Spirit told me to take myself to dinner and sit. This came up for me to listen to and confirmed so much.
Good morning Megan! I am so proud of you and your authentic Pisces journey. I absolutely resonate. I loved this real, multi-layered conversation. Thirteen years ago I went through the worst relationship of my life because he was such a morally decrepit human and MOST of my "friends" and family abandoned me. But I became the Alpha female of my life, following ONLY God, because that's all I had to rely on. And for Pisces, we almost need to remind ourselves of that so that if we are being called to let go of a friendship or connection or take time away from family for our own God/self focus, we can. But I learned so much. And your podcast is like a spiritual current of fresh air. Keep going.. peace and love 😌😌🙏🏽🙏🏽🩷🌼🌼🍄🍄
I’m a cutter offer, if I feel like you’re draining me I cut you off and keep it pushing but listening to this conversations could have been had and I do believe friendships could have been saved.
Don't just go with the flow in relationships... set a pace of how you want to friend!!! That is sooooo GOOD!!! Clear communication, expectations, boundaries, follow-through, etc. is sooooo IMPORTANT in friendships! I am learning that more and more now!!
Whew... making friendship an idol?!?! MYYYYY GOD!!!! I feel you on that!!! God has gifted me the same way - empowering me to be "that friend", being strong for people, showing up for people, giving and sowing, etc... whew!!!! We can make our gifts an idol - MY GOD!!!!
“I can’t stand that it’s you but since you have the ability” WHEEEEWWW OMGGGGGGG
"Your friends can hep carry you to the One who can give you rest."- Megan
WOW. I love how you said that because we all often times place so many expectations on those around us when we truly need to be seeking the Lord. That's why we continue to feel unfulfilled and low because we aren't looking in the right place and in turn, darkening our perception of the people around us. The enemy will try and cause division but it's our responsibility to keep our eyes on the Lord and turn our heart posture towards Him so that we are able to maintain and pour into those relationships around us!
I had to learn this practically when I was going through the hardest seasons of my life. I relialized that I was placing God expections on human beings and after God revealed that, I am learning to properly place people in the right categories and it's been a game changer🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
This whole podcast we needed for me for sure!! This just showed how much I’ve placed things, people, positions before the Lord and allowed those things to fill my wound and validation for myself. Pride and ego was in the way of truly letting God! I’m so thankful for is Mercy and Grace over my life because God could’ve left me and not convicted my heart of things but he love me so much. That is still right beside me pouring my heart and showing me who truly is has my Father is a blessing! ❤️👏🏾
@1:08:25 "You are upset that I'm pursuing what God has given me to pursue and you are scared to pursue it."
That is so true. Fear was keeping me trapped, stuck and uninspired to even try, but I set myself free by the power in the name of Jesus; Amen! I bind every fear and decree that I shall achieve ALL that God has purposed for me to achieve; in Jesus mighty and matchless name; Amen!
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Making the grieving part worse by acting like they aren’t who they were in your life ! That’s good! God don’t make mistakes. And sometimes we end relationships too quick that God literally put together.
It’s so crazy how we are all having the same experiences. They put word to what I’ve really been feeling. I’ve been in solitude for a couple months.. losing friends over petty feud has been my portion. But I will say I found a true friend in God. I learned a lot listening to this episode. Convicted for sure. I’m praying to God how to go about this now.
Yessssss Meg! I too can take accountability, but I can’t take the rejection or invalidation of my feelings! ❤❤❤❤
Ladies you look stunning and I love Trinity's hair cut and makeup
Trinity’s story about her friend that passed got me chocked up. I did the exact same thing of not listening to the Holy Spirit thinking that I had time and he was gone.
Yesss i made friendship an idol and God said no ma’am I have other plans
I absolutely LOVE that you have decided to discuss this topic, in particular. It has been my life struggle to find real and authentic friendships and it has made me somewhat bitter towards people. However, until watching this, I hadn't even realized that I've made an idol of it, which is why I have struggled. Now, the prayer is for God to send me people instead of choosing my own! Thank you for this, Megan. You are so appreciated and also, necessary!! 💜❤️
Also, I would remiss if I did not acknowledge how bomb Trinity is! I mean, "harpo...who dis woman?!" Lol def getting this book! Love, Love, LOVED this episode!
I laughed, cried, reflected, prayed. I am grateful for this time we spent together!
Y’all I am crying watching this interview, my goodness! This is blessing me and healing me so much!!!!
Wow! Megan, every episode has been a blessing to me in some way. But the way this episode and the episode with John Bervere has convicted me and changed my life is unmatched. Continue to lean into God and allowing him to use you. This is truly kingdom work on your podcast. God bless you and your family! ❤
This video was a blessing it taught me how I’m a ghoster and I can’t expect people to do things or fill something only God is able to do🦋
God is so good! I’ve been chain gang since the beginning and at first I was sad because of the breakup, NOW I see that God wanted TWO podcasts that allows us to strip bare and connect with HIM. Thank you for being obedient! You inspire me so much. I love you girl!
I really truly enjoyed this episode. So relatable it was scary, I felt like I was in the room. So intimate, so peaceful, so wholesome. I loved this episode! Taught me so many lessons, thank you !
Love how vulnerable and accountable you ladies are . May God continue to bless yall. I want friends like y’all. ❤
This blessed me tremendously! Thank you ladies for your vulnerability and obedience! -Your Faith Filled Friend 💚
Megan, you are such a light. I'm so excited for you in this season because it is very clear that this is your time to know love like you never have before. You are cultivating connections that will elevate you further and bring you closer to God. Trinity, thank you for this message. It is so needed, and your approach is so digestible as it just kind. I think we forget how powerful kindness can be. God bless!!
Such a raw, pure and transparent conversation. Love this episode Megan 🥺💗💗
I think this may be the first time I have commented on a video. I just want to say thank you for this video. Thank you for the open dialogue and transparency. I learned so much about myself watching this and I can't wait to read the book
Recall your history with people even during times of hurt. Don't filter everything through the lens of the hurt... process through prayer and the Word of God!
So proud of you Megan! 🤍🌊💐
What an amazing episode. Thank you so much Megan. - From Montreal
I resonated soooo much when she said she felt guilt and like she was leaving her friend that passed away when the year changed. I felt the same exact way about my mom when she passed in 2021.
Sending lots of love ,prayers and healing your way my love ❤️
The way that this channel will take off!!! I am here for it, glory to God. Every word, example is speaking to me. Glory to God, thank you both for your transparency!
I’m so proud of you Meg, your journey makes me wants to keep going & showing up as a better healed version of myself. We are soo Blessed to know you & love you. Wow wow wow!!! Keep going
Megan.....keep going the world needs to hear you.❤🎉
1:10:53 that’s real! We as women definitely have that issue. It’s not a competition you have something I don’t, I have something you don’t let’s put those things together and be powerful!!
So glad Meagan has this space! God is good!
WOW I’m 10 minutes in and her story sounds similar to mine, my BFF passed in 2015 and my Dad passed in 2015 WOW 😢😢 Trinity definitely described the grief of losing a best friend. This has been a blessing already, I know it’s going to bless me!
I absolutely love this platform you have created Megan! You are killing it! Every episode is more POWERFUL and ANOINTED than the last. God bless and keep you!
I had couple of friends been friends for about 15 to 20 years lost all in one year. This shed some much light. This was a great episode! I have learn a lot by this one episode ❤
#MeganissuchablessingfromGod🙏🏾
Currently going through the same, it hurts.
Here from dear future wifey pod showing some love ❤️
Not sure why this popped up on my feed but thankful to God it did. Currently struggling in a season with a long term friend. The quote that people don’t just have the capacity they don’t have the ability resonated deeply with me.
YES - that SO POWERFUL... lean into intimacy WITH GOD, not only into intimacy with friends. We have to realize that God has given us friends as a part of His glory story for us - NOT to be the end all be all in our lives - they are NOT the source of glory, HE is. We can often idolize the very things (and people) GOD has given us... and put HIM on the backburner.
Thank you so much for this!!
The last couple months the Lord has really been convicting me about this and I'm realizing i was not a good steward of my friendships in the past.
The big thing for me is recognizing that when the friendship is changing in a season, not to "ghost" a person but to communicate first and then make a decision.
This episode served me in ways I can’t even express. I sooo needed this word and God delivered it right on time.
Thank you to both ladies. So much confirmation in this sit-down. I have some work to do with my friendships. I took a mental health day and the Holy Spirit click on this episode. It was so refreshing. Like a refreshing course. Amen!!!! I praying for the best of you. Trinity I decree and declare that many households and friendships will be blessed by your book. ( I will be purchasing soon). Megan... Thank you for your obedience
The anointing in this is wild,glory to the lord❤️
My favourite episode thus far!!!! God spoke and spoke... and spoke some more through you ladies
This podcast has been a BLESSING to me in so many ways! My God!
THIS WAS VERY VERY GOOD. THANK YOU BOTH! THANK YOU, LORD.
This whole episode blessed me and is an answered prayer! Dealing with being hurt & areas where I’ve hurt! This brings hope and comfort to knowing I’m not alone and there is grace for me!
I love this episode and can’t wait for the book It’s really need now because all the self love and self care guru’s have people just cutting people off if you feel and even some godly folks don’t ask God before you move on it
Spot on... Cos boundaries this boundaries that 🎯 you captured it so well. People literally out-here fumbling God assigned relationships, that's what lack of discernment will have you doing.
I absolutely love when I see a new episode alert omg. I make sure I go in my safe space and get an awesome word. Megan your podcast is the best ever.
This was sooo good. I love the wisdom these ladies dropped and the friendship they have. Beautiful!
I just watched this and bought the audio book and finished it!!! OMG!!! This book is so amazing ladies!! It nearly brought me to tears. MUST READ. Blessings to you both ladies🫶🏽🙏🏽🌸
Not really sure what/why happened in your friendship that was lost with B. Simone. But i see you reaching to refill the space you held for her (not the space she left behind) I watch her as well and she seems to find comfort in busy/avoidance and maybe that's because acknowledgement of being seen and made to stand in the hard part of friendship is scarier than she thinks she can handle. Sometimes a "hollow" life is welcomed. Who was fault is irrelevant, please continue fill your spirit with the joy, the growth, the beauty, the blessings, the lessons and the patience you are given. I wish that for both of you (together or apart)
I agree with everything you said about B, I been watching her too and really pray God sends her good people. People after God's heart who will help her grow as an individual like she did when she was friends with Meg. It's a lot of wolves out there especially in her industry.
I can’t wait to read this book. I ended a friendship last month with someone I’ve known since elementary school. Listening to this conversation just affirms so much about that situation. This was good.
I am struggling in this area right now , I cannot wait until her book come out. Who I consider friends , and HOW I show up as a friend .. whew
This was so good. Felt like I was in the room listening with you ladies. I'm only 20 minutes in but Trinity's honesty about her part in the friendship conflict, and her self awareness, is so refreshing.
I understand how Megan could’ve idolised being a best friend because their friendship with B Simone was praised constantly, and it’s easy to then attach your identity to being a besty❤️
Your videos are timed to perfection and so on point with where I’m always going in my life. Megan I thank you! ❤
I almost hate how on-time this conversation is for me! This has been my FAV episode thus far. Thank you!
Wow!! This message is sooo ON TIME!! With so many conversations and conflicts that are happening right now. I wasn’t familiar with Miss Trinity prior to this episode. But what a beauty and what a glow ❤.
Amen!! Thank you Jesus, James 1:17 NLT
[17] Whatever is good and perfect is a gift coming down to us from God our Father, who created all the lights in the heavens. He never changes or casts a shifting shadow.
Also, I meant to comment in your last video, congrats and happy borthday to your mother. May the Lord strengthen her. Amen
THIS THE ONE ‼️‼️‼️ Every woman needs to hear this !
I also held a grudge way too long, my childhood friend passed on and for years I was bitter, angry and disappointed in myself.
I would light a candle on her birthday to celebrate the one thing that I could hold onto, for the life of me I can't seem to hold onto other memories that we shared
You describe how I am with the only child comment. I'm the same way in my thinking. Can't be fake, neither. I feel dimissed & took the same actions as you. Love this conversation. I can relate to so much & taking notes. Absolutely can relate to Trinity ways of acceptance of ppl especially after having my daughter. My life changed so quickly I'm in that space as well.
"Healthy friendship" - that's the beautiful thing... knowing and learning appropriate boundaries and staying within those boundaries helps us to be effective friends and to always point our friends to JESUS and not to us.
JESUS!!!!! this whole episode snatched my edges back.