My Ex broke up with me for this reason. He done this 6 months into the relationship and then he decided he still wanted to be with me. He said the first time he didn't know what was wrong with him and why he was feeling this way. I asked him if it scared him and he said yes. Then the next day he came back and we were together for a further 9 months so we were together almost a year and a half until he broke up with me over a month ago. I asked him if it was anything to do with us but he said that it was he didn't want to commit to something right now and didn't want to settle. He shows huge signs of an avoidant attachment and I feel like he fears commitment as he never had a serious relationship before me or maybe he thinks the grass is greener. I spoke with him last over a week ago and since then he voluntary said he's not been with anyone and it seems he's focusing on his studies and his new job. I am leaving him to give him what he wants but I still am not sure if it was a excuse and maybe that's something I'll never know.
My ex just gave an excuse. I gave him space and agreed to be friends with him. I thought at first it was the truth but I found out he was already with another woman. Sucks, right?! I truly felt betrayed. And guess what?! He wants to reconnect and pursue me in the future. I declined.
My Ex said she wasn't ready for a relationship, she ended up in 2 other relationships since and still on Tinder lol definitely used it as an excuse. Also one of my friends is now on her Fb liking all her pics, I confronted him about it instantly he messaged her and she tried to ask me why they can't be friends haha..... this video hits home, love it! Great work coaches
Yeah, had this last year. After 5 months she ended it which I accepted and moved on. A month later she got in touch and met again later just once. When we were talking she said she is scared of relationships, so I was thinking to myself why you came back? She also started playing games again so I thought I had enouhh and decided to let go. Since she did not hear from me she started getting in touch and was nice enough to respond but since her messages where just general, when she messaged again I ignored her so she was becoming desperate so I told her to make up her mind or leave me alone. 2 days later she send me a missed video call and sent me a messsage to say sorry but it was her kid that called by mistake. In the mean time I deleted her no. And 3 months later she texted me merry christmas which I did not reply too, a month later she sent me a message with cartoon emoji which I ignored and I suspected that if I reacted to it she would use the kid excuse so I decided to block her. She was the one saying she was scared of relationships but when you dissappear they get scared. I did not want anything serious all I wanted is for her to decide what she wants and tell me but not play games with me.
you prolly dont care but does anybody know of a method to log back into an Instagram account?? I stupidly forgot the account password. I would appreciate any tricks you can offer me
My long distance relationship ex-girlfriend said she that a week before we broke up. What she really meant is she's not ready for a relationship with me but not with other guy which she meant she has cheated on me.
Craig, I know this does not apply to this video but I am just curious regarding my situation. I believe that my ex has an avoidant attachment style, but for some reason, I was able to get her to gain her trust, and have her say that I was different from all her exes and she truly trusts and loves he. However, as time went I, due to my mistakes, I slowly distinguished her trust and pushed her away. I did not realize how much she meant to me until it is too late, and now she is showing the avoidant attitude you mentioned in other videos. She has yet to block me on social media, but I am unsure about what I can do.
I would never Date any of my friends ex bf that can cause conflict . I am sure my trashy neighbor wanted to hang out with my ex bf after she was the cause of our breakup . I no longer associate myself with her , she has no morals and is known to mess with other women’s men .Coach Marg is so funny when she called him sleazy😀😀
the ex of my friend wanted me, I asked him if he would mind.. he said he didn't mind.. but I knew it would bother him by the way he said it.. so out of respect, I did not engage with her. I didn't want to hurt my friend.. years later.. it seems that I was a good friend to him, but he was never a good friend to me, just a long-term acquaintance. still many years later he is still drooling over the idea of getting that ex back. obviously he's still stuck in the shallow end of the pool.. trying those immature manipulative ideas, of course that is not the way he will get his needs met.. any of us that have done the work can easily see that. so might I remind everybody, wake up, do the work.. I'm trying to be nice about it lol
My Ex broke up with me for this reason. He done this 6 months into the relationship and then he decided he still wanted to be with me. He said the first time he didn't know what was wrong with him and why he was feeling this way. I asked him if it scared him and he said yes. Then the next day he came back and we were together for a further 9 months so we were together almost a year and a half until he broke up with me over a month ago. I asked him if it was anything to do with us but he said that it was he didn't want to commit to something right now and didn't want to settle. He shows huge signs of an avoidant attachment and I feel like he fears commitment as he never had a serious relationship before me or maybe he thinks the grass is greener. I spoke with him last over a week ago and since then he voluntary said he's not been with anyone and it seems he's focusing on his studies and his new job. I am leaving him to give him what he wants but I still am not sure if it was a excuse and maybe that's something I'll never know.
My ex just gave an excuse. I gave him space and agreed to be friends with him. I thought at first it was the truth but I found out he was already with another woman. Sucks, right?! I truly felt betrayed. And guess what?! He wants to reconnect and pursue me in the future. I declined.
My Ex said she wasn't ready for a relationship, she ended up in 2 other relationships since and still on Tinder lol definitely used it as an excuse. Also one of my friends is now on her Fb liking all her pics, I confronted him about it instantly he messaged her and she tried to ask me why they can't be friends haha..... this video hits home, love it! Great work coaches
Yeah, had this last year. After 5 months she ended it which I accepted and moved on. A month later she got in touch and met again later just once. When we were talking she said she is scared of relationships, so I was thinking to myself why you came back? She also started playing games again so I thought I had enouhh and decided to let go. Since she did not hear from me she started getting in touch and was nice enough to respond but since her messages where just general, when she messaged again I ignored her so she was becoming desperate so I told her to make up her mind or leave me alone. 2 days later she send me a missed video call and sent me a messsage to say sorry but it was her kid that called by mistake. In the mean time I deleted her no. And 3 months later she texted me merry christmas which I did not reply too, a month later she sent me a message with cartoon emoji which I ignored and I suspected that if I reacted to it she would use the kid excuse so I decided to block her. She was the one saying she was scared of relationships but when you dissappear they get scared. I did not want anything serious all I wanted is for her to decide what she wants and tell me but not play games with me.
you prolly dont care but does anybody know of a method to log back into an Instagram account??
I stupidly forgot the account password. I would appreciate any tricks you can offer me
My long distance relationship ex-girlfriend said she that a week before we broke up. What she really meant is she's not ready for a relationship with me but not with other guy which she meant she has cheated on me.
Craig, I know this does not apply to this video but I am just curious regarding my situation. I believe that my ex has an avoidant attachment style, but for some reason, I was able to get her to gain her trust, and have her say that I was different from all her exes and she truly trusts and loves he. However, as time went I, due to my mistakes, I slowly distinguished her trust and pushed her away. I did not realize how much she meant to me until it is too late, and now she is showing the avoidant attitude you mentioned in other videos. She has yet to block me on social media, but I am unsure about what I can do.
I would never Date any of my friends ex bf that can cause conflict . I am sure my trashy neighbor wanted to hang out with my ex bf after she was the cause of our breakup . I no longer associate myself with her , she has no morals and is known to mess with other women’s men .Coach Marg is so funny when she called him sleazy😀😀
the ex of my friend wanted me, I asked him if he would mind.. he said he didn't mind.. but I knew it would bother him by the way he said it.. so out of respect, I did not engage with her. I didn't want to hurt my friend.. years later.. it seems that I was a good friend to him, but he was never a good friend to me, just a long-term acquaintance. still many years later he is still drooling over the idea of getting that ex back. obviously he's still stuck in the shallow end of the pool.. trying those immature manipulative ideas, of course that is not the way he will get his needs met.. any of us that have done the work can easily see that. so might I remind everybody, wake up, do the work.. I'm trying to be nice about it lol
Good morning coaches!
Does no contact work if you were only together for a year?
Yes
Hell yea lol
You guys are awesome!
Craig I think you are almost as gorgeous as Marg 🌻
Wow! These are wrong on so many levels. 💀
Mark Michael LePianka huh