I am so proud of you 3 hero religious big brothers, really 👏 you nailed it MashaAllah and very much addressed the elephant in the room. Allah bless you all 🙏
Shame sister this is sad I don't have problems with islam, but women have very less rights nd cant do much when make children nd go do haram than they want divirce to start new life left women helplessly..
I am so sorry but use words before you do research you know what they say little knowledge is dangerous in Islam it is clear that (husband has rights over her wife and wife has rights overhis husband )so don't take Islam in this matter it has given All the rights to women. If there issue in your marriage discuss it with your spouse or you both can go to the sex therapist and if the problem doesn't resolve than take desicion by your own. Now your point is right woman can't take divorce even if it is really necessary but is due to this society in which we live not the islam@@Zoya288z
That's not Islam, that cultural beliefs. Please don't confuse Islam with cultural practices. It is NOT permissible to force anyone to get married in Islam.
What is the ruling about a husband that don’t have sexual intimacy with the wife after some months and when he comes around he refuses to fulfill his wife’s desire simply because they had misunderstanding that was settled even b4 he came around? Using it an an excuse not to me with the wife and she has to beg the husband b4 he agrees
He is sinful. Wife must entice him and if he uses this against her then a wife may do something haram. So to avoid haram wife must tell him about his responsibility and her rights if he refuses then she can move on.
This is crap. People should marry because of living each other and being in each other companies and having fun together. It should not be just for sleeping and then the woman have to stay home and doesnt have a life anymore. Many woman dont get statisfied by there husband you know. It is True like they say both sides, but 9 out of 10 times the man wants to overpower woman and using the wrongs against them.
صحيح دين متخلف، الدين يقع على الفتاة دون الذكر. واضح الرسول كان يؤمر ويذكر أشياء من منظوره كرجل وحتى يكون لصالحه. الرسول رجل تزوج ١١ مراه ادعاءا انهم زوجاته، لكن الواقع انه لا يعرف كيف يتحكم بشهوته. ما الفرق بين ذلك والرجال الذين لديهم صاحبات متعدده. قال المرأة تلعنها الملائكة إذا ما خضعت لفراش زوجها، مهما تعددت طلباته باليوم الواحد، والرجال لهم حق بالزواج من اربع، لماذا لم يقل الدين ان على الرجال ان يتحكموا بأنفسهم وان لا يتبعوا شهواتهم،فنحن في الدنيا ليس بالجنه حتى يكون مكان راحة ٢٤ ساعة مفتوح المرح واللعب لهم نحن لسنا بحور عين. فكل شيء باعتدال. لا طبعا الرسول لاعب بالدين حتى يلبي رغباته وفتح المجال للرجال كالحيوانات.
@Mohammed-yc6nn its not only about finances. Its mostly about time, spending time together and be there for your family and kids, having fun and laugh together. From experiences what I have seen the man mostly thinks all he has to do is work and come with money, and the wife has to do everything else. There is almost very little to none effort from a man when it comes to sitting and spending time with the family. It is almost that the wife is becoming a slave/made and that there a little rights for her coming from the husband. Many man dont understand that Its not all about money. Its quite sad actually.
Bro. Mufti literally says in the beginning marriage has other purposes (its a whole package), but the topic is specific. Like bro do you not see the title, hear the sheikhs and what they’re saying. Are you purposely missing the entire point? Are you here to push an agenda as IF ANYONE in this video is claimining marriage is JUST for sleeping? Women can be business women, women can be teachers and more, and they have been. Now I agree it seems many men do not knoq how to satisfy their woman, which is just whack from a man’s perspective, cause on paper its not hard, execution only requires one to be a man.
islam is not a feminist religion 😂 man if provider and woman is nurturer “Men are the caretakers of women, as men have been provisioned by Allah over women and tasked with supporting them financially. And righteous women are devoutly obedient and, when alone, protective of what Allah has entrusted them with.1 And if you sense ill-conduct from your women, advise them ˹first˺, ˹if they persist,˺ do not share their beds, ˹but if they still persist,˺ then discipline them ˹gently˺.2 But if they change their ways, do not be unjust to them. Surely Allah is Most High, All-Great.” (4:34) clearly defined roles. the MAN is the breadwinner, not the woman
Tbh I think a lot of scholars nowadays are mixing personal opinion they have with islam. For example when they say if your husband cheats because you did not sleep with him allah is angry with you for not sleeping with him..people cheat because they are not evil people. The wife is not the one to hold accountable for your own sins
Sorry. Iam really sorry some parts are not realistic. A woman should never say no to his husband, when he invites her to bed. Please think real, there could be 1000 reasons why she wants to say now. And this is her right. Never say no, is Nonsens. Always say no, that is a fault.
What's the point of man marrying then wife doesn't have desires, specially after the kids arrive. Religion can't work pressurising the woman, it's pointless. Better to not marry. Truthfully woman who complain about sex shouldn't marry in the first place.
I am so proud of you 3 hero religious big brothers, really 👏 you nailed it MashaAllah and very much addressed the elephant in the room. Allah bless you all 🙏
One of the biggest reason for someone to make nikaah is that they don't do zinaa
Jazakallah khayra for this topic
جزاك الله خيرا كثيرا ❤
Sheik Mufti Menk, "They call it "foreplay and romance.'" So funny, he is learning some new words in 2024. You gotta love these brothers. MashAllah
Nd what if the groom sleeps on another bed is that right
No not at all... But is this all happening with you ?
How does a marriage work when the groom doesn't talk to the bride
That depends of them (if they talk or not)
I suffered in a similar situation & got divorced finally Alhamdulillah All praise to the Almighty ❤
I dont understand from 11:30 can someone explain. What can not be doing?
It is haram to have an*l s*x
It is haram to have an*l s*x
his rights. sounds like the old argument " if she doesn't want sex why did she get married?' civil law has advanced ahead of islamic law
What if husband dont fulfill wife for years?
Shame sister this is sad I don't have problems with islam, but women have very less rights nd cant do much when make children nd go do haram than they want divirce to start new life left women helplessly..
I am so sorry but use words before you do research you know what they say little knowledge is dangerous in Islam it is clear that (husband has rights over her wife and wife has rights overhis husband )so don't take Islam in this matter it has given All the rights to women. If there issue in your marriage discuss it with your spouse or you both can go to the sex therapist and if the problem doesn't resolve than take desicion by your own. Now your point is right woman can't take divorce even if it is really necessary but is due to this society in which we live not the islam@@Zoya288z
It definitely shouldn't be one sided, you have your right over him too. 😅
What if the groom is forced to marry to please his dad is that right
No, in Islam
That's not Islam, that cultural beliefs. Please don't confuse Islam with cultural practices. It is NOT permissible to force anyone to get married in Islam.
My husband hasn’t fulfilled my rights for 10 years and decided to get married again
What is the ruling about a husband that don’t have sexual intimacy with the wife after some months and when he comes around he refuses to fulfill his wife’s desire simply because they had misunderstanding that was settled even b4 he came around? Using it an an excuse not to me with the wife and she has to beg the husband b4 he agrees
He is sinful. Wife must entice him and if he uses this against her then a wife may do something haram. So to avoid haram wife must tell him about his responsibility and her rights if he refuses then she can move on.
How does it work to b forced to marry 🎉
That’s a culture thing not Islam
It doesn't. Islam prohibits forced marriage.
You had done 3 comments about forced marriage. But why is it you are interested to know the answer or is it happening to you
*no
This is crap. People should marry because of living each other and being in each other companies and having fun together. It should not be just for sleeping and then the woman have to stay home and doesnt have a life anymore. Many woman dont get statisfied by there husband you know. It is True like they say both sides, but 9 out of 10 times the man wants to overpower woman and using the wrongs against them.
صحيح
دين متخلف، الدين يقع على الفتاة دون الذكر. واضح الرسول كان يؤمر ويذكر أشياء من منظوره كرجل وحتى يكون لصالحه. الرسول رجل تزوج ١١ مراه ادعاءا انهم زوجاته، لكن الواقع انه لا يعرف كيف يتحكم بشهوته. ما الفرق بين ذلك والرجال الذين لديهم صاحبات متعدده.
قال المرأة تلعنها الملائكة إذا ما خضعت لفراش زوجها، مهما تعددت طلباته باليوم الواحد، والرجال لهم حق بالزواج من اربع، لماذا لم يقل الدين ان على الرجال ان يتحكموا بأنفسهم وان لا يتبعوا شهواتهم،فنحن في الدنيا ليس بالجنه حتى يكون مكان راحة ٢٤ ساعة مفتوح المرح واللعب لهم نحن لسنا بحور عين. فكل شيء باعتدال. لا طبعا الرسول لاعب بالدين حتى يلبي رغباته وفتح المجال
للرجال كالحيوانات.
I wonder what your opinion is towards the role of a man being a provider for the wife. Should they split the finances equally? What about protection?
@Mohammed-yc6nn its not only about finances. Its mostly about time, spending time together and be there for your family and kids, having fun and laugh together. From experiences what I have seen the man mostly thinks all he has to do is work and come with money, and the wife has to do everything else. There is almost very little to none effort from a man when it comes to sitting and spending time with the family. It is almost that the wife is becoming a slave/made and that there a little rights for her coming from the husband. Many man dont understand that Its not all about money. Its quite sad actually.
Bro. Mufti literally says in the beginning marriage has other purposes (its a whole package), but the topic is specific. Like bro do you not see the title, hear the sheikhs and what they’re saying. Are you purposely missing the entire point? Are you here to push an agenda as IF ANYONE in this video is claimining marriage is JUST for sleeping? Women can be business women, women can be teachers and more, and they have been. Now I agree it seems many men do not knoq how to satisfy their woman, which is just whack from a man’s perspective, cause on paper its not hard, execution only requires one to be a man.
Disappointed mufti menk pulled out the blame the feminist card.
Islam is a feminist religion.
islam is not a feminist religion 😂 man if provider and woman is nurturer
“Men are the caretakers of women, as men have been provisioned by Allah over women and tasked with supporting them financially. And righteous women are devoutly obedient and, when alone, protective of what Allah has entrusted them with.1 And if you sense ill-conduct from your women, advise them ˹first˺, ˹if they persist,˺ do not share their beds, ˹but if they still persist,˺ then discipline them ˹gently˺.2 But if they change their ways, do not be unjust to them. Surely Allah is Most High, All-Great.”
(4:34)
clearly defined roles. the MAN is the breadwinner, not the woman
Tbh I think a lot of scholars nowadays are mixing personal opinion they have with islam. For example when they say if your husband cheats because you did not sleep with him allah is angry with you for not sleeping with him..people cheat because they are not evil people. The wife is not the one to hold accountable for your own sins
Sorry. Iam really sorry some parts are not realistic. A woman should never say no to his husband, when he invites her to bed. Please think real, there could be 1000 reasons why she wants to say now. And this is her right. Never say no, is Nonsens. Always say no, that is a fault.
What's the point of man marrying then wife doesn't have desires, specially after the kids arrive.
Religion can't work pressurising the woman, it's pointless. Better to not marry.
Truthfully woman who complain about sex shouldn't marry in the first place.