Stop Overthinking Get Out of Your Head

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  • Dr. Dawn-Elise Snipes is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Qualified Clinical Supervisor. She received her PhD in Mental Health Counseling from the University of Florida in 2002. In addition to being a practicing clinician, she has provided training to counselors, social workers, nurses and case managers internationally since 2006 through AllCEUs.com Stop Overthinking Get Out of Your Head Chapter time stamps below
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    00:00 Objectives
    01:20 Causes of Overthinking and Taming Monkey Mind
    08:25 BETA test and back up plans
    11:50 growth mindset
    17:46 Q & A section
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    08:25 BETA test and back up plans
    11:50 growth mindset
    17:46 Q & A section

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  • @DocSnipes
    @DocSnipes  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @travisnunya7960
    @travisnunya7960 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Love hearing these messages. As somebody who has only been sober 100 days I'm stuck in my head a lot overthinking every social situation I have right now

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.

    • @stephenhoffman578
      @stephenhoffman578 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Congratulations Travis! Keep up the great work and keep coming back! Just do what you know to do and let time take care of itself. We do recover!

    • @spiritualservicesgodbless7641
      @spiritualservicesgodbless7641 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes I agree that is why I listen to these video always an encouraging message !!!!!!!! = )

    • @chasehim3761
      @chasehim3761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Congrats on your sobriety.

    • @mamachungus
      @mamachungus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      i’m on day one. proud of you.

  • @Uzimaki9t
    @Uzimaki9t 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I am learning to stop and observe my own thoughts and feelings instead of reacting I try to push observation outward and listen and stay in subject

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for watching and commenting.

  • @iCa11
    @iCa11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This lady is a blessing 🙂

  • @minhchaupho8955
    @minhchaupho8955 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Thank you for sharing! Overthinking has been my bad habits for years due to my depression and anxiety, and I'm struggling to get better. It's not easy, but your informative videos and tips really help me through my hard times.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for watching.

  • @ghostworld89
    @ghostworld89 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I am so glad I found your channel.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am glad you are here as well!

  • @sicilyny5375
    @sicilyny5375 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As a writer, I'm never alone in my head and new roommates come in often, but most never leave.😎

  • @mirelladlima5278
    @mirelladlima5278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    it's so important to be able to give ourselves a pat on the back because very often we don't have anyone to be the cheerleader that we might need to reinforce the efforts made towards our own self development, healing and growth🤗🙏

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching! Wishing you peace, health, and, happiness.

    • @deannag5007
      @deannag5007 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It IS very important to reward ourselves in some sort of form for us being diligent in our personal growth to better ourselves. My hat is off to those who have just made the first steps in wanting self improvement all the way to those leading by example and showing support and proving that sticking with it does pay off. Buy yourselves a present or do something you love. I did. 🤟

  • @mirelladlima5278
    @mirelladlima5278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Focus on the probability that things will go right. This is the positive mindset we need to change our thoughts to...🙏

  • @iCa11
    @iCa11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Priceless help this woman is.thanks God for her.what have needed an excellent mentor

  • @qimeng3039
    @qimeng3039 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Dr snipes you are such a blessing. This talk sealed my determination to act not just think and analyze. Time to actually do work. 💪

    • @nellajoensalo2316
      @nellajoensalo2316 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ♥️🙏🏽

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.

  • @yavor_zlatanov
    @yavor_zlatanov 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Dr. Snipes, you are just awesome. The energy in your presentations is fantastic. Consider an alternate route as a motivational speaker.
    p.s. You had me at: I am what I do. I am not my thoughts.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow, Thanks so much!

    • @michellekop1872
      @michellekop1872 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I needed to know what to do when I am overthinking. God is in control. I am not.

  • @deborahleskowsky8913
    @deborahleskowsky8913 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was thinking and thinking and thinking that I could be an over- thinker.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching.

  • @deborahedwards5004
    @deborahedwards5004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Chunking and deadlines is a great idea! Getting feedback and mentorship helps! Starting action! It does help tremendously!

  • @favored81
    @favored81 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I feel like my therapy session went horrible... been in my head since yesterday 😩 next session is in a few weeks hopefully it will be better

  • @deannag5007
    @deannag5007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Oh my…you nailed it. This is already helping me so much. I used to be on top of everything and experienced trauma and spiraled. For years I have been stuck in my head. If I am stressed I can’t even focus at all. Overthinking has damaged me in many of ways you mentioned and now I have secluded myself. I could not pin point the reason for my behavior and thought it was depression (for years?). So now I can work on improving myself and think I will feel a lot better.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.

    • @deannag5007
      @deannag5007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you. I have been working hard for years and I am finally able to keep a good job for over 3 years now and support myself 100%. I have changed many of my poor characteristic traits and made progress in my mental stability nearly every year. I will watch all your Extremely Helpful often and share with friends. Thank you for responding.

    • @leannehansen5478
      @leannehansen5478 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I can relate to how trauma ( especially multiple) can change the brain and therefore our lives!😪

    • @deannag5007
      @deannag5007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@leannehansen5478 so many of us have experienced trauma in some form but sometimes it is overwhelming and we feel we are stuck in a slippery pit. I am fortunate enough to have had an excellent counselor who truly understood. That is key. I went through intensive counseling for seven months 3x a week and 3 hour sessions. Some in group and some one on one. I would not be where I am today without counseling and putting action to what my counselor (Carol) taught me. I did the right thing even when others around me were not. Life is so much better. I was even able to get off anti depressants after 15 years. I will keep you in my thoughts and wish you blessings and the best life possible.

  • @Giselle332
    @Giselle332 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You're such a great woman. You explain things so well. ❤️

  • @outpost31737
    @outpost31737 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am suffering with anxiety at the moment. Seems to have come out of nowhere and it's absolutely horrible. I feel paralysed and unable to attend to even simple tasks with my work. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy. Very helpful video. Thank you.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re most welcome. I am sorry you are struggling with anxiety and I appreciate you watching. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at: th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=anxiety

  • @mirelladlima5278
    @mirelladlima5278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you for helping me to understand myself better and also for making so many important concepts easy to understand with the use of examples or anecdotes from your own personal experience.🤗🙏

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @operationlivefree4536
    @operationlivefree4536 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I do this. It can really mess up your perception overthinking, thank you as always for your videos

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so welcome

  • @MHLivestreams
    @MHLivestreams ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's true what you say about getting started,, when I've been cleaning my home, it really wasn't so bad, whereas carrying that weight of outstanding housework. It's rarely as bad as I believed.. still got 10 rooms to do though. Haha. Have a great day.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  ปีที่แล้ว

      I appreciate you watching

  • @everberry51
    @everberry51 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really need ALL these videos THANK YOU!!

  • @vegan_tanya
    @vegan_tanya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks for being empathic towards everyone :) I'm learning by watching and imitating, not sure if it's a good thing :)

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is a process for everyone.

  • @onlyinsedona8532
    @onlyinsedona8532 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I can't thank you enough for these videos, Doc Snipes. I know they are intended for professionals. However, as a messed up individual who hasn't always had access to professional therapy, they have been a LIFELINE. Understanding what's going on in my head gives me the ability to stop my maladaptive behaviors (at least usually) before I make bad situations even worse. Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU for making this vital information available to folks like me!

  • @blkpaladin7992
    @blkpaladin7992 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love hearing these messages Dr Snipes.🙏

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching.

  • @Speakupok
    @Speakupok 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I always overthink everything and then i procrastinate and then i give up and feel defeated lol.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching and commenting.

    • @llararulens8895
      @llararulens8895 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can relate. It's exhausting

  • @mechanicalrob7260
    @mechanicalrob7260 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much for making these educational videos. I am a borderline and I've found the best treatment for a borderline is cognitive behavioral therapy. But it's almost impossible to find a cognitive behavioral therapist. So these videos help in the best way while I continue to search and find a therapist near me

  • @kaaskt
    @kaaskt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much for your channel. You are so helpful.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very Welcome.

  • @sharonrookwood357
    @sharonrookwood357 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love this topic, I was over thinking just this morning. Thanks for talking on this topic.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.

  • @jaypearson2055
    @jaypearson2055 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the second video of hers that I have liked and saved. Very concise and easy for me to digest. Especially as a chronic overthinker. I've subscribed. Thank you!

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wonderful!

  • @AllIn1Studio
    @AllIn1Studio ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your generosity in sharing your wisdom, insights coming from experience. Really appreciate you!

  • @ninab7542
    @ninab7542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You're truly gifted Madam. Thank u for sharing wisdom 🙏

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Too kind. Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.

  • @Orgnl1
    @Orgnl1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much for your support help and hard work ..god bless ..!

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are very welcome. Bless you as well.

  • @AntonisExplores
    @AntonisExplores 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    love this

  • @rcz2023
    @rcz2023 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for sharing these videos!

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re so welcome. How are you planning to start addressing overthinking?

    • @rcz2023
      @rcz2023 ปีที่แล้ว

      To stop thinking and start acting 😅

  • @Progamers0.0
    @Progamers0.0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    love this channel ! love how u bullet point and structure it every time that takes work but it helps your watchers so much ! i wish i could get a print out of them all instead of taking notes lol

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks so much. We are working on a way to make the powerpoints / notes available.

    • @NoemieMarcianoKinzel
      @NoemieMarcianoKinzel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree. Her structured (particularly well structured at that) presentation style is very commendable as it must take quite a lot of time and effort, and it is VERY helpful. Makes a marked difference. Yet another great aspect about Dr Snipes and her presentations 😊. I feel so lucky to have found her.

  • @workingwithwood1528
    @workingwithwood1528 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for educating us!
    Eric from Seattle

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re most welcome. I appreciate you watching

  • @sicilyny5375
    @sicilyny5375 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Primal Screaming...yes..love it...
    I also write out my negativity in a mood journal and music still lifts my spirits along with aromatherapy.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching.

  • @boostmobile9249
    @boostmobile9249 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I m going to Listen again & again to this information. So very helpful insightful!!! Thanks SO MUCH!!!! 👍👍👍👍👍💖🏆

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Too kind. Thanks for watching! Wishing you peace, health, and, happiness.

  • @lindahebb4832
    @lindahebb4832 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video is a gem. Thank you for posting

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  ปีที่แล้ว

      I appreciate you watching. If you don’t mind me asking, what is the first thing you are planning to do to stop overthinking?

    • @lindahebb4832
      @lindahebb4832 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ve been listening to a lot of meditations that help me when I’m over thinking refocus my thoughts and other than that really helps me get into action set timer sleep to help me clean or get ready for work because sometimes I’ll just sit and Daydream.

  • @richardwilsonavena
    @richardwilsonavena 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Overthinking is the probably the main thing that has kept me from fulling living the life I want to.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I am sorry about that and I appreciate you watching the video. What tips will you use first to address overthinking?

    • @richardwilsonavena
      @richardwilsonavena 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@DocSnipes honetstly, I feel the hardest part for me is being aware. It seems to difficult to become aware when i am in a deep rumination that can last hours. I feel that if I can just learn to recognize the thoughts, it willl allow me to apply the skills,

  • @popitzikaliou7
    @popitzikaliou7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank u! ❤️

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your Welcome.

  • @danielledinallo3635
    @danielledinallo3635 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tjis is just what I needed. Ty

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching.

  • @elizabethseiden9938
    @elizabethseiden9938 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lately, I go to the grocery store almost daily goto binge shopping.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching. Are you buying things you need?

  • @brittweir8844
    @brittweir8844 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great video thank you for the tips

  • @valenciawalker6498
    @valenciawalker6498 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So true, very intuitive. I hate uncertainty as well. Psych grad works out for me online. I considered this concerning my new job recently. it's not forever will be going into psychology after the master's and Doc are completed.

  • @sicilyny5375
    @sicilyny5375 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love in my head and it's very crowded in there.
    I'm being held captive in my head and can't break free.
    I moved into my head around age 4 and never moved out

  • @kalabasrate2221
    @kalabasrate2221 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Is not enough....I really appreciate the help Doc ...

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching.

  • @Heather-lc2nt
    @Heather-lc2nt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks!

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks SO much for the tip. Your support is appreciated! 😃

  • @stephencaudill2422
    @stephencaudill2422 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    your lectures are my favorites! very informative and you're great presenter!

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, thank you!

    • @kathrynmccabe6401
      @kathrynmccabe6401 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you. Your presentations are so clear and help me very much.

  • @WackadoodleMalarkey
    @WackadoodleMalarkey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    _Crawls terminator style into the class_
    I'm a Gemini in retrograde and bless you for this

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      :) Thanks for watching.

  • @uncapabrew4807
    @uncapabrew4807 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your video

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are welcome

  • @boostmobile9249
    @boostmobile9249 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks SO MUCH FOR YOUR KNOWLEDGE EFFORTS for us!!! Very interesting information: better identify the culprits.
    😲😁😺💝💛💖🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆

  • @normanjefferychester882
    @normanjefferychester882 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So welcome. I appreciate you watching

  • @happinesshotel5375
    @happinesshotel5375 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Seriously saving my life right now. Had a gun on my lap for the first few hours of the night. Now I’m making spaghetti at four in the morning.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am glad you were doing a little better and making food.
      You may want to look for a local, licensed professional counselor to help.
      -You can find other therapists via Psychology Today search:
      allceus.com/Psychology_Today_Therapist_Search
      -If you are in crisis, there is a national Suicide Hotline available at:
      allceus.com/Suicide_Prevention_Lifeline
      -There is a Domestic Violence hotline at:
      allceus.com/Domestic_Violence_Hotline
      OR Dial 911 for assistance in the U.S.
      Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.

  • @billthelen6524
    @billthelen6524 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Dr. Snipes. You have been extremely helpful. My monkey mind at times runs a thousand miles a minute. In my thoughts, I'm constantly second guessing my actions was what I did right or wrong. I feel that most of the time my actions are wrong but this is a cognitive distortion. Excellent see suggestions to see stop and check the facts, breathing before acting, and set plans before acting. Mindfulness skills and distress tolerance skills are excellent skills to help me stay in the moment and to be aware of how I am feeling and what I am thinking in the moment and to improve the moment. Thank you once again Dr. Snipes for your help.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re so welcome, Bill!

  • @Red23165
    @Red23165 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks your a blessing

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching.

  • @n.d8001
    @n.d8001 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're most welcome

  • @shyaaammeneen63
    @shyaaammeneen63 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Nice video and information. One posiible solution--- Reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. Slowly the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Day or night, when taking a walk, when reading, on the phone, before sleep etc sit or lie down and observe your breath. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching and commenting.

  • @kerriebarton9016
    @kerriebarton9016 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow, thanks so much for the tip!

  • @kesheamedley2987
    @kesheamedley2987 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so much for helpful tips very resourceful

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching.

  • @annehettick8285
    @annehettick8285 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great stuff

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching.

  • @hannahbeghi8148
    @hannahbeghi8148 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m going through overthinking right now that’s why I’m watching this video and It’s tough, and it causes me procrastination and depression, I don’t do much I’m not productive, I barely do things I have to do. I’m going to school and thank God I still do my homework but I’m not focused. I would do better if I’m focused. I’m 34 years old, I left my job because I took the decision to start school, I worked in jobs and I don’t stay because of the load of studying. I also feel that I want to have my own family and I’m looking for a partner and someone who I talked to before came back and said that he is interested in me for a serious relationship, I thought about the past and what happened that things didn’t work out in the beginning, his sister refused me and now he said she passed away, he said he was not thinking about himself and letting his family deciding for his own life. Things I like in him, he’s educated he has a good job he’ll provide for his family, but I asked him that I want to continue my education and he seems reluctant…he thought he would pay for my education I told him he won’t. I’m just lost I don’t like myself in this situation

  • @tippermocha8599
    @tippermocha8599 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have been told by so many different people that I'm very insightful. Might sound like a compliment, but for me, it's a symptom of trauma.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am sorry about that and I appreciate you watching the video

  • @cherylnathanodette
    @cherylnathanodette ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Dr. Snipes this was really helpful, I do completely understand the communication via music and songs, think I actually had a bit of an online romance doing just that, but unfortunately the person who I really liked never let me know how they really felt, or communicated their wants and needs. Such a shame. Maybe an episode on opening up and being able to express emotions would be good.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching.

  • @Trying_very
    @Trying_very 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like this format better than the one with the red background. It’s nice to see you closer up, but it is easier for me to focus on these slides on the white background and questions at the end. I’m sure there are many constraints on your time and covering the questions while running the presentation simultaneously is perhaps quicker - I miss bits while I’m writing a question though.
    Perhaps I can find out how to access the community tab. Not sure how to do that, if anyone can point me in the right direction, I’d be grateful.

  • @fiercenarcopathfighter6453
    @fiercenarcopathfighter6453 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know I need this😽🌼

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching

  • @spiritualservicesgodbless7641
    @spiritualservicesgodbless7641 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THANK YOU SWEETY FOR THE VIDEO

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching.

  • @KariDempsey
    @KariDempsey 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate your suggestions, but EASIER SAID THAN DONE!!

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching.

  • @juyse9907
    @juyse9907 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you i have found a right yt channel

  • @ChrisBanuchi
    @ChrisBanuchi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Some chapters for these videos would be very helpful !

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for the suggestion

  • @Trying_very
    @Trying_very 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a problem with over- explaining - overthinking in written form I suppose

  • @operationlivefree4536
    @operationlivefree4536 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Also I always over explain in text bc I stress I'm not accurately saying what I need to say and have been accused of being "guilty of hiding something " or "manipulative " and I can say this constant picking apart has me just beside myself in shambles. I try so hard doc. Every single day. And it's never enough. I'm always at fault always to blame and always the bad guy. No matter what the situation is.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.

    • @operationlivefree4536
      @operationlivefree4536 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DocSnipes 🙏 you as well doc

  • @juanrivera6375
    @juanrivera6375 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like listening to songs I would not dare impose it on others.

  • @sicfish420
    @sicfish420 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello . I love your videos . I’m learning a lot . I have a question? What hardcore metal do you listen to?:)

  • @cornellford2004
    @cornellford2004 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im a in real time person also.

  • @margaretalwanda4443
    @margaretalwanda4443 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the presentation. What is your recommendation for recharging the energy when you feel emotionally drained from work and family commitments??

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  ปีที่แล้ว

      I appreciate you watching

  • @gaildowiswhonic9076
    @gaildowiswhonic9076 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Definitely me

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching.

  • @ikesheareed2718
    @ikesheareed2718 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is a good example or tools of Distress tolerance how do you use it

  • @USMARSHALL2011
    @USMARSHALL2011 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cool

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching.

  • @stellasole3720
    @stellasole3720 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ooooohhhhh I'm always collecting information!

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching.

  • @deborahedwards5004
    @deborahedwards5004 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How do you control your emotions and overthinking

  • @franthonyagbovi
    @franthonyagbovi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks for your channel.. it helps me but I have a question in the case of you being In a situation where you don't have a friend or partner that can motivate you in your goal. When you feel lonely on your journey to achieve a goal how do you stay motivated

    • @carola.phillips4508
      @carola.phillips4508 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Self-Affirmation, positive reenforcement, Nurture your inner mind and physical, modify your environment to motivate and propel you forward, refuse to stagnate, LIVE!

  • @maryramsey7505
    @maryramsey7505 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What are some "distress tolerance skills"? (Mentioned around 19 minutes).

  • @sylviab.791
    @sylviab.791 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️

  • @rondadepenbusch8152
    @rondadepenbusch8152 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What do you do when someone doesn’t show you as in hug you , hold you In their arms , any emotions , sympathy, empathy, or to let you know that they care and they want to be there for you but don’t do it because they don’t know what to do ?? Or know what to say, So they don’t do or say anything???? And you’re left feeling like they just don’t care ????

  • @pgbergeron5569
    @pgbergeron5569 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Wednesday Doc, Doc got anything on full blown burnouts redirecting the rage to a new direction for new beginning's?
    I just can't find a way to go right now and it's just been way too much for too long.
    Like seriously including what one of my old PCP's called torture and couldn't get over what had been done to me. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Never had the heart to tell him it hadn't been the first time.
    People can only endure so much for so long, before loosing all direction.
    Still a glimmer of hope. But not much and it's tenuos at best!
    Just thought I'd ask.
    Take care Doc..

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Burnout: th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=Burnout
      Anger: th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=Anger
      Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.

    • @pgbergeron5569
      @pgbergeron5569 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DocSnipes You're Awesome & Gorgeous Doc, thanks a mint! Just had a feeling you might have something! Take care beautiful! No kiddin Doc not hitting on you or anything like it. Just being honest!

  • @richardwilsonavena
    @richardwilsonavena 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What advice would you give to people like me who just cant seem to take that first step in regards to learning to accept uncertainty, getting out of your comfort zone, engaging instead of avoiding? It seems that there are iron gates in my mind. I get so excited and motivated to work on these things and do them because I know they will help, but I can never seem to make that first step. Just to frightened.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Taking the first step towards accepting uncertainty, getting out of your comfort zone, and engaging instead of avoiding can indeed feel daunting, especially when fear seems to create mental barriers. Here are some strategies to help you overcome these challenges:
      1. Acknowledge and Accept Your Fear
      Recognize that fear is a natural response to stepping into the unknown. Instead of fighting it, try to accept it as part of the process. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) emphasizes the importance of accepting your reactions and being present.
      2. Start Small and Gradual
      Begin with small, manageable steps. For example, if engaging in social activities feels overwhelming, start by participating in a small group or even just saying hello to someone new. Gradual exposure helps build confidence and reduces anxiety over time.
      3. Use Fact-Based Reasoning
      Challenge catastrophic thoughts by focusing on facts rather than emotions. Ask yourself, "What are the actual facts in this situation?" This helps to ground your fears in reality and reduces the tendency to overestimate risks.
      4. Develop a Resilient Support Circle
      Surround yourself with supportive people who can provide encouragement and wisdom. Having a resilient circle can cushion you during periods of uncertainty and provide a sense of safety.
      5. Practice Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques
      Engage in mindfulness practices such as deep breathing, guided imagery, or meditation. These techniques help calm the mind and reduce the physiological symptoms of anxiety, making it easier to face your fears.
      6. Visualize Success
      Envision yourself successfully taking the first step and achieving your goals. Visualization can help reduce fear by mentally preparing you for the experience.
      7. Reflect on Past Successes
      Think about times when you successfully handled uncertainty or stepped out of your comfort zone. Reflecting on past successes can boost your confidence and remind you of your capability to manage new challenges.
      8. Embrace Tragic Optimism
      Adopt a mindset of tragic optimism, which involves finding meaning and growth in difficult situations. This perspective helps you to see challenges as opportunities for personal development.
      9. Set Clear, Value-Driven Goals
      Identify your core values and set goals that align with them. When your actions are guided by your values, it becomes easier to take steps towards them, even in the face of fear.
      10. Reward Yourself
      Celebrate small victories along the way. Positive reinforcement can help create new, positive associations with stepping out of your comfort zone.
      By implementing these strategies, you can gradually build the courage to take that first step and continue progressing towards a life that embraces uncertainty and growth. Remember, it's okay to take things one step at a time and seek support when needed.

  • @okAngelface
    @okAngelface 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How does one determine when it is an actual disability?

  • @marvalaurie8760
    @marvalaurie8760 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do your certification help students achieve their BS in Psychology or MS in Psychology and what is the area of concentration in Psychology? Or are these studies self betterment classes only. Please comment can these courses meet the requirement for university requirements? if so how which Universities on line accept your program? Thank I am planning to complete my BS degree in Psychology? Thanks

  • @uncapabrew4807
    @uncapabrew4807 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What about overthinking Major purchases? Especially economy way is? Worse case major purchase If goes south Can grab 401k - Not much in there. How about the employee - Do you Fire them or not?

  • @sicilyny5375
    @sicilyny5375 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A Psychiatric Nurse keeps a head of everybody😁

  • @jaheimrose900
    @jaheimrose900 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My lady

  • @jamesjackson1355
    @jamesjackson1355 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How do I contact Dr snipes for a email consult

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  ปีที่แล้ว

      You can message support@docsnipes.com. Thank you for watching

  • @elizabethseiden9938
    @elizabethseiden9938 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is it true that Lexapro causes seizures?

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  ปีที่แล้ว

      All medicines can cause unwanted side effects. Please talk to your doctor before taking any medication.

  • @CanadianBear47
    @CanadianBear47 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like that u like metal. How do u deal with over attaching with a special other.

  • @robportillo503
    @robportillo503 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Metal!!!

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching.

  • @alinamoskalenko1905
    @alinamoskalenko1905 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How to stay connected with your partner when you’re at work busy

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for that suggestion.

  • @joaquinromolor8413
    @joaquinromolor8413 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So what you do you do if you have 3 traditional medicine nature healers like my Master Navigator Carolinian Chief, then there is my Grandma a real natural healer who heal a lot of families in taking in orphans as her own like Mother Teresa, my Grandma raised me as a premature 50-50 to live or die, my own Mother seek my Grandma help to make live today to tell my deadly culture & custom life story, then there's my Dad, a master Navigator healer himself so? Do you really think I can overcome their high standard they set in my beliefs natives spirits.
    Please make me understand.? Please.

    • @joaquinromolor8413
      @joaquinromolor8413 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      They all talk to dead spirit Ancestors its very creepy to me.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not something I am personally familiar with, sorry. Thanks for watching and commenting.

  • @cw5657
    @cw5657 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🤘🏻

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for watching the video