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  • @jazminee_
    @jazminee_ ปีที่แล้ว +4876

    the part where she literally searched to see if he got in a car accident broke my heart.. she put her heart and soul into this boy.

    • @elizabethannee19
      @elizabethannee19 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      ive had the same experience happen when I was in my first relationship back in 2019. I was young and dumb and in love and when he answered the phone he cussed me out for adding his friend on snapchat to see if he's okay because he was with his group of friends. Obviously he has matured over the years and we are both in new relationships but having to deal with that at 14 was just enough to learn about who I need in my life so really this is a good lesson for Emma. She deserves the best and never feel bad for loving someone.

    • @nessalynnae
      @nessalynnae ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@elizabethannee19 I’m happy you found someone who is worth your time & energy . You deserve to be happy❤️

    • @outroseok
      @outroseok ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I had this happen with my most recent ex and he turned it around on me and made me seem like the bad guy, he was out all night DRINKING with his friends and I didn’t hear from him until the next morning. of course I’m gonna worry about the worst case scenario 🤦🏻‍♀️ cheating crossed my mind too but my main concern was that something happened to him.

    • @bonniemickle5213
      @bonniemickle5213 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You don’t need him Emma

    • @nessalynnae
      @nessalynnae ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@outroseok Guys will always have the audacity , so sorry love !

  • @amylovo5076
    @amylovo5076 ปีที่แล้ว +9562

    the clarity in her voice, no stuttering, and simply blank expression you can tell she’s hurting and being completely raw right now. I believe you, im with you, and i feel for you. so proud of you for standing up for yourself ❤️

    • @analizfrancisco123
      @analizfrancisco123 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      That's why I love Emma she's always been 100 percent real and if its bothering her she will always address it before its taken to far or blown out of portion I know she's hurt and I feel for her

    • @paris1263
      @paris1263 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      She’s not fake and she just knows how to express herself in a humble way

    • @sincerelyalexya
      @sincerelyalexya ปีที่แล้ว +9

      amen, so so proud of her. she deserves the world, and she'll get it one day.

    • @sfhhgrfvbhjuhh
      @sfhhgrfvbhjuhh ปีที่แล้ว +6

      hi just a reminder i pray your having a blessed day! Jesus loves and is with you all and God has a wonderful plan for you all! Don’t fear for the Lord is with you all! Joshua 1:9!❤️

    • @sfhhgrfvbhjuhh
      @sfhhgrfvbhjuhh ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@sincerelyalexya hi just a reminder i pray your having a blessed day! Jesus loves and is with you all and God has a wonderful plan for you all! Don’t fear for the Lord is with you all! Joshua 1:9!❤️

  • @joshuarandall5452
    @joshuarandall5452 ปีที่แล้ว +537

    The fact that you're able to realize that he's the one in the wrong and not putting the blame on yourself is a sign of strength. Probably the hardest thing to do after the breakup or even right before.

    • @cananary
      @cananary ปีที่แล้ว +12

      you can tell she has a good support system because a lot of people lose themselves in relationships to the point where they have no one to talk to. and when something goes wrong people often times blame themselves even if it’s the other person’s fault

  • @val64354
    @val64354 ปีที่แล้ว +596

    I’m slightly older than you, and I had this exact situation right out of high school. Do not let anybody gaslight you that this is not cheating, it broke a boundary you had in a relationship which therefore is cheating. Nobody else’s opinion matters. I’m so sorry you are having to deal with this.

    • @laurafabianmarrero
      @laurafabianmarrero ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I'm SO SO sorry
      This happens to You.
      Nobody deserves to be treated this way.
      Hope everything is great with You
      I don't usually comment like this.
      God Bless 🙏🙏🙏

    • @junem57
      @junem57 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      you are 100% right

    • @happy2beesaved
      @happy2beesaved ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes! Cheating for sure. My husband didnthis. He asked another girl on a dinner date after months of talking to her behind my back. He didn't end up going out to eat but the fact he talked to her for konths and then asked her out is cheating. I was home with our toddlers whole all this was happening. He would yell at me and telk.me he never cheated on me cuz it wasn't physical. He was full of crap.

  • @hannahhh2967
    @hannahhh2967 ปีที่แล้ว +2286

    he may has a town on his side but you have 1 million of us on ur side emma we are standing by you we love you emma!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @Saraa89764
      @Saraa89764 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Fax 💕💕💕💕

    • @makenahluvsu
      @makenahluvsu ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agreed 💯

    • @qlvslut4469
      @qlvslut4469 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      agreed

    • @hannahhh2967
      @hannahhh2967 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@princesskadi7 did u not watch the vid?

    • @MC-qq5ol
      @MC-qq5ol ปีที่แล้ว +5

      We’ve got your back emma

  • @micadegani
    @micadegani ปีที่แล้ว +1859

    u were doing charity emma tbh. u deserve so fucking better, don’t worry, everything and everyone its gonna be in the place they deserve

    • @Megan-1234
      @Megan-1234 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      This is fantastic! She was doing charity! Haaaha!! Love it! And so true!

    • @laurafabianmarrero
      @laurafabianmarrero ปีที่แล้ว

      This is a good one
      Doing charity 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
      You are right
      She does deserves better
      She Will get the one for her
      So this is not a Lost
      Cause is obvious
      This guy was for everyone else.
      She deserves better than this trash

  • @melwasf0und
    @melwasf0und ปีที่แล้ว +656

    as someone who's been cheated on, without the physical aspect as well, it hurts. you're so strong, props to you for handling everything like a champ. you don't deserve this

    • @jagyaaseni
      @jagyaaseni ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Girl you're so strong ❤️ i hope you're doing amazing now

    • @melwasf0und
      @melwasf0und ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@jagyaaseni i’m doing better. the girl and i are actually good friends now so that’s a bonus :)

    • @bellatrevino8057
      @bellatrevino8057 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I just found out I got cheated on, on thursday totally unexpected i don’t even know how to move on with my life right now

  • @cecegymnastics
    @cecegymnastics ปีที่แล้ว +208

    PLEASE KNOW, you’re completely right

  • @kaylenhughes959
    @kaylenhughes959 ปีที่แล้ว +8910

    girl don't worry about who's on his side. you got 1.41 million of of rooting for you always!! so proud of you for standing up for yourself. stay strong emma!!!💕💕

    • @sanlian7913
      @sanlian7913 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      wait what happen I jus saw this

    • @isha3523
      @isha3523 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @@sanlian7913 he cheated on her, so she broke up with him. Everyone thinks shes the problem but she isnt.

    • @jeffdunn6793
      @jeffdunn6793 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I love you so much what shoes do you like to wear dress shoes black flats

    • @macbbyy1978
      @macbbyy1978 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Amen forget who’s on his side he was wrong and we love you emme

    • @analizfrancisco123
      @analizfrancisco123 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @isha nah she's not the ones that are on his side are just scared cause she's speaking the truth

  • @shelby9368
    @shelby9368 ปีที่แล้ว +648

    That’s 100% cheating. Anyone who doesn’t see how wrong he is has never been in a relationship with someone they truly loved.

  • @yashvi_v
    @yashvi_v ปีที่แล้ว +630

    14:27 no one deserves to be looked at like that by their partner. emma u are an angel, thank you for speaking your truth, you deserve everything and more.

    • @nevaehmarie25
      @nevaehmarie25 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      that made me tear up..

    • @Itsezyyyy__
      @Itsezyyyy__ ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Fr he was literally looking at her with disgust as if she was the one who’s broke his trust time and time again🙄

  • @jacindarose4561
    @jacindarose4561 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    It honestly scares me sooo much that someone you love can lie straight to your face right through their teeth

  • @jesspryor
    @jesspryor ปีที่แล้ว +1734

    All of that is cheating to me. There’s different types of cheating. Good for you for sticking up for yourself!! Everyone is proud of you and has your back. Just remember you are beautiful and deserve so much more.

    • @jesspryor
      @jesspryor ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @Tornadochaserchick33 I know that’s what I said

    • @analizfrancisco123
      @analizfrancisco123 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yup if you have to hide it say the girl was nothing its cheating

  • @shannonkelly8552
    @shannonkelly8552 ปีที่แล้ว +2041

    This video was so painful to watch. You can hear the pain in her voice as she explains everything that went wrong. No one should ever have to experience the emotional turmoil & manipulation that you have gone through Em. Nothing anyone says will cure the hurt you’re feeling, but we want you to know that you did nothing wrong!! You will get through this & end up being so much stronger, with new boundaries to look for in your next relationship.

    • @littlecute2958
      @littlecute2958 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      What happened?
      Sorry I don't
      understand much English but I watch
      your videos. I hope you are well🥺

    • @Princessnae342
      @Princessnae342 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@littlecute2958 he cheated on her and everyone took his side and blamed her about it

  • @urmom-qg4lp
    @urmom-qg4lp ปีที่แล้ว +344

    see this has made me gain so much respect for emma. the way she expresses herself in this video shows how much it hurt her but here she is still being able to articulate the situation and show her side.

  • @cmk3599
    @cmk3599 ปีที่แล้ว +296

    Girl this is sick. You deserve so much better and one day you’ll find someone who is not toxic and someone that respects you and deserves you. It’ll get better I promise.

  • @ffcol9067
    @ffcol9067 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    first of all, if someone uses snapchat as a form of communication. HELL NO

    • @ariannarivera8254
      @ariannarivera8254 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I use Snapchat including my moms friends but I literally have no drama on there at all it’s peaceful actually which is strange. Like a lot of people I know have a lot of drama on Snapchat and Instagram but I literally have no drama on either platform which is good cause I hate drama and toxic people cause I choose people very carefully.

  • @cara5475
    @cara5475 ปีที่แล้ว +2024

    Oh girl your in the right. I would flip shit if my boyfriend went to a different state w another girl and her family. You are the sweetest most genuine person I’ve came across on here, and hearing the timeline make me think back to watching your videos and him in it, what you were going through and you still put on a happy face. Hope you can find peace and spend some time with your self and find your self again!

    • @urterakauskaite8407
      @urterakauskaite8407 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

    • @ashb6582
      @ashb6582 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amennnnn

    • @anaornelas8297
      @anaornelas8297 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ESPECIALLY after seeing that letter she wrote to him, talking about at night you will get horn** I would flip shit there!

  • @itsmayraparedes2258
    @itsmayraparedes2258 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    The soo many lies, manipulation girl he’s gonna do that to every other girl he goes with. I’m so glad you got away from the toxicity of that boy, at least you can grow from this experience and heal though it will be hard but trust me loving yourself Is the best love you can ever have ! Makes u not settle for anything less than u deserve:) and u deserve a lot more 💕

  • @tavigrace9726
    @tavigrace9726 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    this broke my heart… and just seeing how genuinely happy she was not knowing that he was with the one girl from the get go of the relationship just goes to show how much she truly loved him. you’re way too good for him Emma!!! his loss 💕

  • @brittanygutierrezcuevas7558
    @brittanygutierrezcuevas7558 ปีที่แล้ว +3230

    I can't imagine how insecure and betrayed you felt during these moments. You did not overreact at all and you are so strong by handling all of this maturely and saying nothing but the truth.

    • @sfhhgrfvbhjuhh
      @sfhhgrfvbhjuhh ปีที่แล้ว +21

      hi just a reminder i pray your having a blessed day! Jesus loves and is with you all and God has a wonderful plan for you all! Don’t fear for the Lord is with you all! Joshua 1:9!❤️

    • @brittanygutierrezcuevas7558
      @brittanygutierrezcuevas7558 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@sfhhgrfvbhjuhh Amen🙏

    • @PrincessDreDre
      @PrincessDreDre ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m ur 1k like on ur comment

  • @megm3824
    @megm3824 ปีที่แล้ว +713

    The fact that he immediately felt the need to say he never had feelings for her shows him covering up the fact that he did. My heart breaks for you 🤍 You are so strong and are onto bigger and better things E!

    • @BethanyARojas
      @BethanyARojas ปีที่แล้ว

      who is the guy she’s talking about lol, I’m lost

    • @brookemorgan8847
      @brookemorgan8847 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg wait when did he say say ?!!

  • @ellabadenhop2326
    @ellabadenhop2326 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    Who in their right mind would cheat on Emma?! Absolutely disgusting. It is 100% cheating and the fact that you gave him so much love through it all shows how compassionate you are. I’m so glad that you finally chose yourself. You will find someone who treats you amazingly because you are so beyond worthy of love. Take care Emma❤️

  • @pamelaleannefreeland9025
    @pamelaleannefreeland9025 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    My advice to you, as someone older and who’s been through this more than once: Stop giving him any of your energy. He’s not worth worrying about, talking about, defending yourself over. The people who matter will know you well enough to know the truth of the situation. As for the others, they aren’t anyone. Literal strangers or people you shouldn’t want in your life anyway. Sounds like this guy is a real piece of work- and like he’s enjoying the attention and power he feels in the situation. Don’t give him the satisfaction of even acknowledging him. Move on with your life. Focus on yourself and finding your happiness as a single individual. That will bother him more profoundly than he’ll ever admit. Best of luck to you.

  • @kianadoescod6402
    @kianadoescod6402 ปีที่แล้ว +866

    He consented to being on your videos you have every right to explain what happened just like you had the right to keep it to yourself if you wanted too. People need to stop trying to defend that shitty behaviour. Cheating starts with hiding things. As a 21 year old who’s been dating since she’s was 13 I’ve learned a lot.
    You classify it as cheating if that’s how you felt about it.

    • @Chloe-lw5ti
      @Chloe-lw5ti ปีที่แล้ว +11

      This ^

    • @MC-qq5ol
      @MC-qq5ol ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Exactly. He knew what he was doing. No one should feel bad for him EVER!

    • @akshijay1775
      @akshijay1775 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Girl that fuglying things cheated on her multiple times idk what he’s trying to lie abt.

    • @MC-qq5ol
      @MC-qq5ol ปีที่แล้ว

      @@akshijay1775 fr bestie

    • @kianadoescod6402
      @kianadoescod6402 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@akshijay1775 and the fact that he’s done this to multiple girls? Disgusting. Grow up or disappear man child 🫡

  • @allisonntaylorr
    @allisonntaylorr ปีที่แล้ว +1626

    don’t ever let anyone gaslight you into thinking this isn’t cheating. that is absolutely ridiculous. i’m so sorry this happened to you but you need to know that you deserve someone SO much better.

  • @c7091
    @c7091 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    Do not question your gut. Even if some people don't think that is "cheating" (which it is), that still DOES NOT make it OK! Lying and hiding things and being distant are grounds to break up with someone.

  • @juliahaikoti
    @juliahaikoti ปีที่แล้ว +48

    The fact that Emma even had to explain herself is Heartbreaking

  • @alexandraedwards7870
    @alexandraedwards7870 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    Once a cheater, always a cheater! Thank goodness it was only 8 months. I was with a guy who cheated on me for 5 years. You deserve so much better and I am beyond proud you stood up for yourself. We love you Emma, be strong!!

    • @lilyw9324
      @lilyw9324 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💗💗

  • @savannahromero6771
    @savannahromero6771 ปีที่แล้ว +4400

    I've literally never heard Emma cuss before. Just goes to show how much this is affecting her and how real she's being with us.

    • @nessareadav
      @nessareadav ปีที่แล้ว +92

      i completely understand how it affects her and how hurt she feels and stuff but on the level of swearing she’s an adult and she isn’t the same person we once watched like age 11. i’m not trying to hate on you in any way just that she changed and she can swear or whatever

    • @savannahromero6771
      @savannahromero6771 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      @@nessareadav Yeah I know she's grown and I figured she probably cusses when she's not on camera. I just noticed how now she's not hiding it and that shows me how real she's being with us.

    • @nessareadav
      @nessareadav ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@savannahromero6771 exactly! like she really said i’ve hid enough and now it’s time for people to actually see my side

    • @Emily-qd9bq
      @Emily-qd9bq ปีที่แล้ว +13

      She literally even said before that she didn’t cuss because she didn’t find it necessary, must make that video even more true

    • @biancadupree
      @biancadupree ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I LOVE HER GROWTH! EMMA IS MATURE NOW! LOL

  • @peytoncollins8641
    @peytoncollins8641 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Thank you for being so raw and honest. I'm sorry your having to go through this

  • @breannakerforreal
    @breannakerforreal ปีที่แล้ว +28

    The same thing happened to me when I was 18! All I can say is run as fast as you can and never look back to him! He will never stop doing this shit. Someone else will come along, and won’t treat you like this. You got this! Stay strong!

  • @taydream
    @taydream ปีที่แล้ว +2574

    I will never understand this pattern especially in small towns where the man’s side is almost always taken. Any all excuses are made to cover their butts. You’re 100% in the right girl. What boyfriend goes on a trip with another WITHOUT telling his girlfriend? For people saying nothing went on, please. He’s a serial cheater.

    • @rebeccawilde8975
      @rebeccawilde8975 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      Cereal 😭😭 I know you meant serial* but that just sent me lmfao

    • @taydream
      @taydream ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@rebeccawilde8975 the fact that I didn't even notice 😭😭🥣

    • @lyndsaysrebornnurseryoffib4241
      @lyndsaysrebornnurseryoffib4241 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Exactly why would a guy want to go on a trip with a girl who isn’t his girlfriend!

    • @casswashwash1070
      @casswashwash1070 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup small towns always back up the [frat looking]boys. 💀always doing the girls/women dirty

    • @Itsezyyyy__
      @Itsezyyyy__ ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@lyndsaysrebornnurseryoffib4241 yea it’s fckn weird and he was probably entertaining her instead bc Emma would leave him on read for a few days smh

  • @5oncloverst86
    @5oncloverst86 ปีที่แล้ว +729

    The people in your hometown, high school… that keep defending him are just jealous of you! They envy most things about you because they can’t have it or be YOU! So any little things that goes wrong they will always have something to say. So I’d just advice to not let them bring you down. I know it can be annoying and bothersome but never let them be the cause to hurt you where you believe them. YOU are special and all ur social media fans will support you 💯!

    • @fay3tv
      @fay3tv ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Facts

    • @abigaillll._
      @abigaillll._ ปีที่แล้ว +5

      THISS!!!!!

    • @layneegirlgaming4731
      @layneegirlgaming4731 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yep! ^^^ You deserve so much better than him.

    • @pearlxsara
      @pearlxsara ปีที่แล้ว +2

      facts

    • @Naomi-sn3jy
      @Naomi-sn3jy ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true. I’ve heard multiple stories of influencers and celebrities having to leave their home town or do homeschooling due to the bullying and harassment they get from their peers. :/

  • @tanleighjeffreys383
    @tanleighjeffreys383 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Oh, Emma, the hurt in your eyes tells the story on its own. I’ve never doubted you or your story for a minute. The people that do are not worth your time. He’s not worth your time. Your so strong to come out and tell ur story! Much love

  • @shauneecebrandon4206
    @shauneecebrandon4206 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    No one should ever have to go through what you were put through. You are strong for putting out your story.💕

  • @reginarobles8050
    @reginarobles8050 ปีที่แล้ว +1144

    I hope everyone in your home town is watching this and is embarrassed that your telling the truth and your showing proof! We love you Emma you have so many supporters !!!! I hope the people who belived in your ex bf feel life shit rn

  • @Heyxlexx
    @Heyxlexx ปีที่แล้ว +1470

    I’m so proud of you for sticking up for yourself, you deserve the world, he’s been basically gaslighting you, pretty much your whole relationship & it makes me uncomfy because you are so sweet and you don’t deserve any of that.

    • @avahgrace6333
      @avahgrace6333 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Facts

    • @bigdeal9729
      @bigdeal9729 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BB-gl8em Thanks for always watching and commenting! You have been selected as a winner in my lucky draw. Winners should text on telegram to claim their prize.(Winners only)📥🎉🎊

    • @Saraa89764
      @Saraa89764 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

  • @idcntunderstand9991
    @idcntunderstand9991 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    oh my gosh. when i read the HANDWRITTEN NOTE that he wrote that just made me so upset - he lied to you completely and pretended that he cared when he was talking to so many other girls. i can't believe people don't believe you, but we do. i'm SO sorry this happened to you & also that this isn't the first guy to do so - you deserve WORLDS better and i pray that you will find someone who loves you genuinely and deserves you.

  • @breem3074
    @breem3074 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I just got out of a relationship in a very similar situation as yours. I felt completely disrespected during the end of the relationship it took a big mental toll on me. Now that I'm out of it and ended it I feel like I can be myself and focus on myself. You did the right thing! Believe me none of this was your fault.

    • @katieboniface4669
      @katieboniface4669 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I literally felt like I could relate to a lot of what Emma went through

  • @babyfrog357
    @babyfrog357 ปีที่แล้ว +1309

    WOW. I never expected this from him. How disgusting. Stay strong emma you’re worth so much more than this

    • @raskolnikov6443
      @raskolnikov6443 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stop believing any party in this case. You don’t know them.

    • @sofiarodriguez4465
      @sofiarodriguez4465 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@raskolnikov6443 do you? there’s literally multiple sources of proof

    • @Hannah-rd7yr
      @Hannah-rd7yr ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@raskolnikov6443 Regardless if we know them or not, Emma has screenshots to back up every single one of her points. Mr Jeffery is in another state hiding with his side piece. Be fr🤣

    • @analizfrancisco123
      @analizfrancisco123 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jeffrey must be really scared right now that's if he even saw the video cause he's to busy with his side atm

  • @tiararenae_19
    @tiararenae_19 ปีที่แล้ว +2257

    completely cheating no matter what. And I can’t believe a guy would ever cheat on you, you are the complete package. Gorgeous, amazing personality, beautiful smile, perfect body, hair, and everything. You truly deserve the world

    • @maddiechimienti4402
      @maddiechimienti4402 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      You could be the prettiest girl ever and a guy would stilll cheat on you. It has nothing to do with looks.

    • @joycereece5420
      @joycereece5420 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@maddiechimienti4402 Exactly! Emma is sweet, honest, caring and trusting. But apparently Jeffery wanted a loose girl with no morals. He didn't deserve someone like Emma.

    • @joycereece5420
      @joycereece5420 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@BB-gl8em I think it was more than his looks. Lets face it Emma could get any guy she wants. I think he made himself seem like someone he actually wasn't. I think this experience has taught her a lot about about what to look out for. Like she said she is done with being treated badly.

    • @kaydenceking5548
      @kaydenceking5548 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yassss praying for you emma!!!! Jesus loves YOU!!! Cast your burdens on HIM, HE CARES❤️❤️

    • @desclark5268
      @desclark5268 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@joycereece5420 he could have cheated on her w a very nice girl & lied to the other girl … just cause Jeffrey acted like a jerk doesn’t mean the other girl is a villain!

  • @romnilynne3063
    @romnilynne3063 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Oh my heck, the same exact thing that you are describing within the first minute of the video is what I am going through. It’s so tough. I’m so happy for you. I’m trying to get comfortable with sharing my side and story with people as well.

  • @KylieBison
    @KylieBison ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I'm so sorry you were treated like this. Take this time to focus on yourself and your career!

  • @laurennnn3023
    @laurennnn3023 ปีที่แล้ว +861

    i am in shock emma. you don’t deserve that. that’s not fair for such a sweet and kind person like you. He is completely in the wrong, there is no excuse for what he did.

  • @emily-dh3sg
    @emily-dh3sg ปีที่แล้ว +810

    i’m genuinely so sorry emma. your such a sweet soul and deserve so much better. sending all love ❤️

    • @ruthtoner3936
      @ruthtoner3936 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I agree Emma has the sweetest soul and a heart of gold, That’s why we love her so much, She’s the sister I wished I could have had.

    • @kaylaporter6317
      @kaylaporter6317 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sorry Emma

  • @melodypesqueira2988
    @melodypesqueira2988 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Don’t even trip about him girl, focus on yourself and your goals. That’s the most important thing you can do and you have your family by your side as well. This will all take time but I’m positive enough you will get through this 🤍

  • @kayleerupp6900
    @kayleerupp6900 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    I don’t know how anyone could be on his side wtf! This is most definitely cheating. We are all here for you and love you ❤️

    • @camedbeans
      @camedbeans ปีที่แล้ว

      They’re just kiss a**es cause even a mother would see the wrong in his actions

  • @LaeLaMarley
    @LaeLaMarley ปีที่แล้ว +638

    Emma, we as your subscribers didn’t expect you to make a “the truth/ your side of the story” video, but I guess this is a good video given the video being published.
    Emma, you are absolutely amazing and beautiful and you didn’t deserve to have this happen to you, you show us as subscribers, your beautiful and given personality.
    You’re beautiful within and out Emma. I hope you’re taking this time to heal and learn yourself all over again. I hope you be kind to yourself and focus on your true happiness and feelings.
    Friends help a lot too, they help to get your mind off of the hurt you went through since it happened.
    I know how you feel seeing as I got broken up with 7 going on 8 months ago, and really it does hurt but truly all I can say, Emma, you deserve the world.

    • @TeamTNT69
      @TeamTNT69 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      she was making it for his friends and ppl they went to school with. she knows her followers dont need this.

  • @georgieee165
    @georgieee165 ปีที่แล้ว +417

    Unfortunately most people always take the man’s side and find any way to blame the woman for any situation. Regardless of your town being against you, you have all of us. I’ve been a supporter since 2015 and I’m so proud of the woman you have become, so beautiful and strong. Hang in there

    • @sianetaylor4626
      @sianetaylor4626 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Yes omg when my bf and I had a big disagreement my friends since year 7 (basically family) were making sure he was ok when I needed them. Most always take the man’s side :(
      Been watching her for so long hope she’ll feel better soon

    • @Unknown2345girl
      @Unknown2345girl ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not true

    • @georgieee165
      @georgieee165 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Unknown2345girl out of personal experience it’s very true, according to almost 400 other people it’s true too :)

    • @Raymoni1
      @Raymoni1 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@peoplethesedaysberetarded How is she to blame ?? the person that cheats is in the wrong, and it’s very true, whenever a man cheat people always take the man side and tell the women how it’s her fault and everything, but whenever a women cheats, women get called all types of name and everything and they tell the man to leave her and every thing,( as they should because cheating isn’t love), but it should go both ways, the same way how people bash women for cheating they need to bash mean for cheating as well, and it shouldn’t matter what gender you are cheating is wrong.

  • @madeleineongena
    @madeleineongena ปีที่แล้ว +46

    i feel sick for you, I'm so sorry you went through this :( it was absolutely cheating regardless of what anyone says because you set boundaries and he didn't respect them, several times! i hope you're doing okay now and can heal from what he put you through

  • @florramirez6085
    @florramirez6085 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    This video has been getting recommended to me pretty much daily. I didn’t have any context so I was not going to watch it, but you know, I was just bored. I’m glad I decided to watch it. There’s always comfort in not being alone. 🧡

  • @allysonshyanne
    @allysonshyanne ปีที่แล้ว +439

    I'm 25, and let me tell you how calm you are being. It's amazing! You absolutely did not deserve any of this. And for the people who think that you are "blasting " him online, you're not. His choice was to do this to you, and he knew he was on videos on this public platform. You are allowed to tell your side, and you are telling it with all honesty. We are so proud of you Emma. Standing up for yourself and how you are and how you deserve to be treated. 👏

    • @madiacosta7994
      @madiacosta7994 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      is it the bf she posted 2 weeks ago?

    • @urmomismydad1965
      @urmomismydad1965 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@madiacosta7994 I’m not sure, but I know there are videos with him still up on her channel.

  • @mariao2306
    @mariao2306 ปีที่แล้ว +264

    In my opinion it's a good thing you posted this because your saving future girls from all his lies,manipulation,secrets, and a heart break. He knows he's in the wrong hence why not one word has came out of his mouth. you did the right thing and you deserve way more than what was given to you the last 8/9 months.

  • @morganolsen8272
    @morganolsen8272 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i love how honest you are about the situation!! and how your sooo string about telling us what happened.

  • @candicenoelle729
    @candicenoelle729 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m so sorry you had to go through this, you’re so strong for being so raw about everything. Now is the time where you treat yourself right and work on yourself so others can see how you deserve to be treated

  • @hannahmcculloch4771
    @hannahmcculloch4771 ปีที่แล้ว +918

    i’m really sorry emma. you’re so strong and better off without him. this story is so familiar to me and the gaslighting is unreal. take time for yourself and spending time with your family and friends ❤️ your fans love you

    • @sfhhgrfvbhjuhh
      @sfhhgrfvbhjuhh ปีที่แล้ว +8

      hi just a reminder i pray your having a blessed day! Jesus loves and is with you all and God has a wonderful plan for you all! Don’t fear for the Lord is with you all! Joshua 1:9!❤️

  • @miablack14
    @miablack14 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    the people defending him don’t see the behind the scenes. they don’t see what it’s like to be in a relationship with him. they should have no say if they’ve never experienced it for themselves

    • @theresabeenhere5059
      @theresabeenhere5059 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Her town is also full of terrible boys who get away with lots of stuff. Venice High had soooo many SA and bullying cases they just cover it all up

    • @miablack14
      @miablack14 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@theresabeenhere5059 that’s so disgusting.

  • @adiukss
    @adiukss ปีที่แล้ว +4

    only breakup video I’ve sat through the whole video without skipping & you can tell she’s hurts, who wouldn’t be ? here to support you💕💕

  • @samaram1959
    @samaram1959 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Wow I am so so sorry. That is genuinely THE WORST pain next to loosing someone to death. Like no one understands that pain until you go through it wow

  • @audreyv7280
    @audreyv7280 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    The first girl he was with is a real one for helping you out and giving you details about the other girl he ran away with

  • @frances8323
    @frances8323 ปีที่แล้ว +254

    I AM SO PROUD THAT YOU FINALLY SAID UR SIDE OF STORY! YOU DESERVE SO MUCH MORE, AND PEOPLE KEEP WALKING OVER YOU

  • @WifeyZoomer12222
    @WifeyZoomer12222 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I honestly feel so bad for you girl I’ve been subscribed to you since like 2016-2017 and to see this just absolutely breaks my heart. Guys are so cruel and this guy definitely didn’t deserve you

  • @angelbrown8570
    @angelbrown8570 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I've been watching you since i was 12 Em, its like i've grown up with you. i know how you feel and I'm so sorry you had to go through this. You have been such a positive influence in my life and deserve so much more than this. Take as much time as you need to heal, and please don't let this experience darken your bright personality. You are so strong and you will get through this. Someone once told me, "if you loved them so much and they weren't for you, imagine how much you will love the person who is meant for you".

  • @alannaneldon8616
    @alannaneldon8616 ปีที่แล้ว +720

    go you for sticking up for yourself, this is definitely cheating. you aren't in the wrong. love you!!!

  • @martinarocio
    @martinarocio ปีที่แล้ว +253

    you have every right to be mad and feel betrayed by him. even if he didn't physically cheat (which honestly i doubt that he hadn't) going on a trip with a girl without letting you know is wrong on so many levels. you deserve so much better. don't listen to people of your school or your town if they stay on his side. what really matters is that you (and your loved ones) know how things actually happened. 💕

  • @helengrugett
    @helengrugett ปีที่แล้ว +55

    sending you so much love and support girl. you know whats true and what happens in your life, not random people on the internet and old schoolmates, never forget that💗

  • @rachelxox1391
    @rachelxox1391 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’m so sorry Emma. I’ve been through this as well and I know the pain is immense. But I promise that you will be okay, and you will find someone who treats you right. For now just live your life for you. Love yourself, appreciate yourself, and the right person will come when it’s time. Every failed relationship is a learning experience, and now you know for your next relationship what the red flags are early on. And you can get outta there sooner! Much love and hugs to you hun❤️❤️❤️

  • @emmae1257
    @emmae1257 ปีที่แล้ว +725

    I clicked immediately, I'm really happy you're talking about this and being the bigger person, you got this bae 💕💕

  • @kileneacosta3182
    @kileneacosta3182 ปีที่แล้ว +427

    I’m so sorry Emma. You deserve the best and shouldn’t be treated like this. We love you stay strong❤️

    • @melanie5795
      @melanie5795 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wait what happened im lost🥲

    • @bigdeal9729
      @bigdeal9729 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@melanie5795 Thanks for always watching and commenting! You have been selected as a winner in my lucky draw. Winners should text on telegram to claim their prize.(Winners only)📥

  • @ljtenn
    @ljtenn ปีที่แล้ว +2

    so incredibly mature of you emma. you did the right thing standing up for yourself. you are so strong going through a public breakup like this. i hope things get better ❤️❤️❤️

  • @pascalegoguen1426
    @pascalegoguen1426 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    sending so much love to you, i'm sorry this happened you deserve the world!

  • @ninayaras6274
    @ninayaras6274 ปีที่แล้ว +402

    I'm so sorry Emma, no girl should ever go through this. We are all here for you.

  • @destinylamont
    @destinylamont ปีที่แล้ว +127

    YOU KNOW when EMMA CUSSES , it was bad, Normally she isn't one to cuss. But I'd be doing the same thing. Emma, I'm sorry that you got dragged into the mess with this boy. But the beginning of the 'Relationship' (Talking) stage is a red flag. Its, honestly disgusting that be blatantly thought that it was OK for that to happen. I truely hope you never have to go through that again.

  • @mackenziewelle
    @mackenziewelle ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Even when people say these things are not a big deal its still more than enough to not want to spend the rest of your life with.

  • @abigailmarie299
    @abigailmarie299 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    girl ive been in the same situation and I feel for you so whole heartedly. I promise it will get better and you deserve so much better. proud of your for speaking up.

  • @jazgarcia15
    @jazgarcia15 ปีที่แล้ว +537

    OH SHE CAME THROUGH WITH THE FACTS AND RECEIPTSSS!!! I’m SO glad you made this video emma wow, we love you girl we already knew he was trying to save face but this video just put a stamp on his BS lmaoooo

    • @amarii6481
      @amarii6481 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Ik its not my place but I REALLY wanna know what her sister and parents have to say about it.

    • @jazmynegarcia7231
      @jazmynegarcia7231 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Off topic but we have the same name

    • @penguinlove801
      @penguinlove801 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@amarii6481 Heather went live on TikTok and is so disappointed in him. Said the first time this happened he sat with her balling for hours wondering how to fix it. Then he does it again

    • @amarii6481
      @amarii6481 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@penguinlove801 damn I wish I didn’t miss it

  • @shhaaaarr
    @shhaaaarr ปีที่แล้ว +419

    i’m so sorry em… you truly don’t deserve this, just know that your fans, friends, & family loves you so much and will continue to support every step of your way! ❤️

    • @AbiPotts.
      @AbiPotts. ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes that is so true. Love you like a sister💗

  • @mila-tg1si
    @mila-tg1si ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i’m going through a similar situation, my boyfriend had been entertaining this girl (we were long distance) i’m so sorry, we will go through this together 💗💗 stay strong!!

  • @gisela9375
    @gisela9375 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    oh my god Emma i am so sorry. This sounds like something I went through. And it’s crazy how we all go through similar things. You are so strong.

  • @daniellekohut2213
    @daniellekohut2213 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I don’t know why this video popped up for me. However, as a 35 year old woman with years more of experience than you, let me tell you this. Emotional cheating may be even more painful and damaging than physical. Don’t you EVER second guess how you handled this. The standards that YOU have, dear young girl, will inevitably lead you to a happy, healthy relationship in the future. Because you will find someone with the very same standards as you…it just make take a few duds to find a good one. Do not ever compromise your standards. I do believe, sweetheart, that you may be wise beyond your years to see that what he did to you is absolutely unacceptable. Not everyone will agree, and that is perfectly fine - you may not agree with what they find acceptable or unacceptable in their relationships. Don’t you ever compromise your standards, darling. You are justified. You are wise. And you are……..so much better without him. 💜All my love, sweetheart.

  • @victoriahunt4394
    @victoriahunt4394 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    i said this on emma and ellie. and i’ll say it on this channel too. i genuinely don’t understand how parents can sit back and watch their child do this and not call them out on their bullshit. call your child out on their bullshit. as a parent, that is your JOB. to raise your children right.

    • @izabellakeadle6741
      @izabellakeadle6741 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      right! 🤷‍♀️

    • @sincerelyalexya
      @sincerelyalexya ปีที่แล้ว +7

      THANK YOU for saying this. I see way too often parents who have their kids side in every situation EVEN if they are wrong, and it blows my mind.

    • @remorbits
      @remorbits ปีที่แล้ว +1

      THIS

    • @victoriahunt4394
      @victoriahunt4394 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sincerelyalexya it drives me CRAZY. call your child out when they’re wrong. that’s not raising a child right. they learn from mistakes

  • @aikocassidy251
    @aikocassidy251 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    staying true to yourself and following your intuition already puts you above everyone else. heartbreak sucks but it's really true when they say time heals everything and this will only make you stronger!

  • @bernedettelopez8374
    @bernedettelopez8374 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    it hurts so much more when it's emotional cheating and not just physical

  • @anna-claireweems2351
    @anna-claireweems2351 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    I’m just a little past halfway of the vid and nah girl yeah that’s cheating and you have every right to be upset and have the mindset you have about it, literally same thing happened to me smh but it all gets better and you’re so strong for taking that time for yourself In June I always have a problem with constantly putting other people above me. we’re all here for you tho Emma and I hope you have a Goodnight and you keep that strength and confidence it looks the best on you!!!

  • @JaylaAulani
    @JaylaAulani ปีที่แล้ว +308

    She didn’t have to explain anything but I appreciate her for doing so and trying to stay strong! She didn’t deserve what happened to her and he’ll get his karma from it we’re all here for you Emma 🥰

  • @laylakate4458
    @laylakate4458 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    emma you are SUCH an inspiration. ur beautiful, so mature and im so thankful for your strength.

  • @Laila-gs6tc
    @Laila-gs6tc ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I’m sorry girl. You’re beautiful inside and out and he doesn’t deserve you. You’ll find someone a whole hell of a lot better! Stay awesome

  • @zoew_
    @zoew_ ปีที่แล้ว +275

    on another note, i feel like coaching and getting back into cheer and having ellie, elisabeth and your family around is really gonna help. i see a whole new chapter starting for you! we all love and support you no matter what!

    • @taytengraef2479
      @taytengraef2479 ปีที่แล้ว

      she’s getting back into cheer??

    • @zoew_
      @zoew_ ปีที่แล้ว

      @@taytengraef2479 yes! shes coaching and taking tumbling classes. she mentioned it in her update video

  • @qlvslut4469
    @qlvslut4469 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    i had to pause this video. you are genuine, you are pretty you’ll find someone one day who will make you feel loved and happy . jeffery did not deserve you . you don’t annoy us when you talk , it’s completely brings light to our days when you talk . i’m so sorry you went through this i understand how you feel . i love you emma

  • @yajairalicano2221
    @yajairalicano2221 ปีที่แล้ว

    im so sorry you went through this, im really glad you stood up for yourself because you do deserve so much better.

  • @l0velyquiet194
    @l0velyquiet194 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm sorry you had to endure this. You're amazing and will get through this. Though it will leave a scar. I've followed you since you lived in Indy and you deserve so much better. Please seek a therapist or at least confined in some one that's non-judgmental.

  • @karlaalejandra4390
    @karlaalejandra4390 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    We are on your side Emma! You have millions of supporters and we are all here for you ❤️

  • @cierraboyd2434
    @cierraboyd2434 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    it breaks my heart to see you like this emma. im so sorry this happened. just because you know you deserve BETTER doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt. we are all here for you baby

  • @caylaosborne
    @caylaosborne ปีที่แล้ว +13

    girl i’m shaking and crying for you that is absolutely disgusting of him to do that to you and lie to you like that. I hope you are doing better now you deserve the world

  • @audicak12
    @audicak12 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i love you so much Emma!! i’m so proud of you for sharing your side.

  • @Alyssa-th8ko
    @Alyssa-th8ko ปีที่แล้ว +117

    One day you will find a guy that will love you as much as you love them. So sad that he treated you like that. He did not deserve you

  • @tommi-leighgunlock8921
    @tommi-leighgunlock8921 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    i am so proud of you girl. you speak your truth and you say it loud. you deserve the world and he can get pushed in a bush. not okay what so ever. don’t think one thought about who might believe you and who won’t. the people you are close to will have your back no matter what. you have so many people (fans), more like family on your side. by the end of this you will be so happy you said your side and he will have no one left. good for you emma

  • @adrianaduncan9773
    @adrianaduncan9773 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Emma i’m so sorry that you had to go through this and nobody believed that you weren’t the problem i am definitely on you side!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @bethcoleman3276
    @bethcoleman3276 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m just proud of you for being so strong!! You are beautiful I promise girlie. You will find someone that will never ever have a thought to do something like this to you. Even though you love him so much you will find someone better.