I can’t forget that this man who loved me so much put me in jail for three years|Chinese drama

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  • @emmd2120
    @emmd2120 4 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    The energy he used to prepare that expensive gift, he should have channeled it into being a decent human being.

    • @salty5966
      @salty5966 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Real talk !

  • @insoromanoworries7923
    @insoromanoworries7923 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    The actress Ruyi is really good. Her reaction when she saw the emperor was so spot on. You can feel her disappointment in him

  • @kathygorgas9525
    @kathygorgas9525 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Ruyi went through a lot in the cold palace and she is finding out that the emperor only cares about himself and not her

  • @MemineAussi
    @MemineAussi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The actress is amazing. When she was told to trust him, her eyes were utterly empty. She no longer has any faith in him.

  • @louisa8788
    @louisa8788 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Zhou Xun (Ruyi) is so beautiful. She's absolutely luminous, her voice is so pleasant to listen to and her acting skills are peerless.

  • @Rohlaren
    @Rohlaren 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I really don't know how Ruyi could even stand the Emperor's touch. He's a empty shell of a man without remorse where feelings are concerned. He doesn't know a thing about love, respect, or compassion. I truly think he's one of the worst emperors ever depicted in a drama. She deserved so much better than what she got. Her disappointment in him was palpable.

  • @mmfalcon7068
    @mmfalcon7068 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Typical male. He saw the frostbite but not her emotional pain and despair...

    • @RavenSutcliffe
      @RavenSutcliffe ปีที่แล้ว

      Ironically, the frostbite scene is symbolic.
      He says that he sees it, because it's a visible symbol of what she went through in the Cold Palace. When he applied the medicine himself and Ruyi said "this isn't something you should do" it's because that is a task for a servant; at most for a physician, if the matter was very grave. So he said "but I want to" because he wanted to lower himself to the level of a servant as an apology.
      It's true that he is short-sighted in that apology but at this stage he isn't at his worst yet. It would have been better if he'd told her about the plan but he thought it was too risky.
      So basically he's bad but he's still trying; he hasn't gotten to his super awful stage yet

  • @shaylataylor9525
    @shaylataylor9525 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The childhood sweetheart bond is so dangerous...

  • @sailoraurora
    @sailoraurora 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    I love this scene the most out of all the other scenes!

  • @lanilani1769
    @lanilani1769 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    All she wanted to hear was sorry and have some affection to let her know she's loved. Instead she gets make up.💔

  • @tistabhattacharya3671
    @tistabhattacharya3671 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    " to allow your complexion to be pearly white " YEAH. For HIS pleasure

  • @AmareKr
    @AmareKr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    I don't really understand why Ruyi loved him so much? All he did was cause her sorrow, hurt and mostly didn't trust her.

    • @ellenhage3611
      @ellenhage3611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don't get it either.

    • @loveisinfinite1997
      @loveisinfinite1997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      They were childhood sweethearts. Ruyi hoped he would love her the same, but the emperor's lack of trust in others & refusal to accept responsibility for his actions led him to wrongly accuse her of so many things. This drove her love for him away.

    • @AmareKr
      @AmareKr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@loveisinfinite1997 I srly hoped that he would improve in every episode, but that never happened. I was so disappointed

    • @artismylife2641
      @artismylife2641 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@loveisinfinite1997 Sadly, if you know who Consort Xian is in real life, you'd know that was bound to happen.

    • @edwinababy4208
      @edwinababy4208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@artismylife2641 why who was she?

  • @mamafb8462
    @mamafb8462 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    What a jerk! Don’t let him touch you! She should not have forgiven him so easily.

    • @nataliee1257
      @nataliee1257 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Bruh exactly just because they are the king bruh smHHH

    • @ellenhage3611
      @ellenhage3611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      She didn't really have a choice and she also made up so she could take revenge on those that hurt her.

    • @lawwhi4204
      @lawwhi4204 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Her words of forgiveness were spoken as his words of love ... With no true feeling

    • @terimcintyre6288
      @terimcintyre6288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lawwhi4204That was so poetic! Lol

  • @CatsMore
    @CatsMore 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Ah the more I watch of these the more I’m so very sad for her, she is so kind and sweet and then to be treated like she has/will be is heartbreaking

  • @marionsmith4728
    @marionsmith4728 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is when my relationship with him would have come to an end period

    • @jewelmathews1444
      @jewelmathews1444 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I can't imagine having to live a life like that!

    • @lawwhi4204
      @lawwhi4204 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Her life is in his hands
      She has no power
      She is being gracious in order to survive

  • @wandaashley4399
    @wandaashley4399 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The emporer did not deserve the love Ruyi had for him. He made her suffer for no reason.

  • @therealfinnaspring8585
    @therealfinnaspring8585 4 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    I think her life would have bern happier if he had just divorced her and let her go home to her clan

    • @lizdubois2390
      @lizdubois2390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      It doesn't work like that. Once you're inside the palace there'll be no ways out. If his love for her has gone then he'll just won't care about her anymore but he won't let her go. He might jailed her or jailed her in her own palace. There's nothing called divorce in this place because once you're his's, you'll always be his's. If he let her out of the palace that's even worse. Because that's when she lost her standing and everyone will despise her even her own clan

    • @k-potato3593
      @k-potato3593 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      She has duties of helping her clan especially after her aunt has been dethroned and the clan’s power has greatly weakened. Also if she go home to her clan that’s a big disgrace to her and her clan. She won’t be able to remarry and everyone will know that she’s lost her purity (virginity). (That’s pretty serious for women back then because their duty is to marry and give birth to carry the family line.)

    • @michxshao
      @michxshao 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      That could never happen. This is no such thing as divorce back those days. Women just die in palace.

    • @k-potato3593
      @k-potato3593 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      michxshao in the past, only the husband can divorce his wife and not the other way around. However, in the palace theres no such thing as divorce because once you become the emperor’s concubine/consort, you belong to him so you can only stay and die in the palace.

    • @TheHattaru
      @TheHattaru 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@lizdubois2390 so weird, that the emperor won't let woman go, inlet them leave to go home, it's interesting but kind of creepy at the same time.

  • @janahcoaching
    @janahcoaching 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Many people don't seem to put the emperor in the right context. He was raised to implement rules, follow many of them himself within a strict protocol. Having to deal with people who all wanted something of him. His concubines, he has to try to keep them all at ease so they don't fight and give birth to as many heirs as possible. Even being the ruler, his mother and others constant want to spy on him, gain influence and fool him. To show true love to Ruyi, isn't always easy for him cause he mistrusts nearly everyone and cannot slways show that he favors her, more than others in a special way. He researching and taking action to prepare this gift for her, isn't superficial to him. For him it's showing his care for her.

  • @YukiKuran92
    @YukiKuran92 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    He isn’t a man of his word.
    He never truly loves her.

  • @TheTruthHurts6666
    @TheTruthHurts6666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Those are empty words emperor.

  • @meme-bu8qu
    @meme-bu8qu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Yeah, it's called letting her in that you knew and have her help you figure out the problem faster.
    Edit: And having a backbone and treating her with respect.

  • @sunnysideupbrown
    @sunnysideupbrown 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    They would have been happy together if he was a duke

    • @vanisanthiran5850
      @vanisanthiran5850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Once a slut, always a slut. He might have recruited a HOUSE full of concubines...

    • @aureliajesical.1569
      @aureliajesical.1569 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@vanisanthiran5850 Agree,but maybe...just maybe his ego and unhinged paranoid attitude towards Ruyi could be a little more controllable since he would have no emperor ego specifically attached to him. Being an emperor really messes Hongli big time

    • @emmd2120
      @emmd2120 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He's not a good person so I highly doubt that.

    • @Cat-px8ck
      @Cat-px8ck 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Vani Santhiran Having consorts and concubines was the norm for royalty and nobility. You have more than one wife so that you have lots of children. You have the main wife, your legitimate wife, and a bunch of consorts and concubines that have a single job: having kids.

    • @therealfinnaspring8585
      @therealfinnaspring8585 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've thought that too

  • @janerubybell
    @janerubybell 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I have no idea what this story is but the music is sooooo on point!!

  • @charlottelovelynyc246
    @charlottelovelynyc246 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Turns out makeup made out of lead is not such a great gift

  • @yapmagi4701
    @yapmagi4701 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    She has to be kept in cold palace to protect her from other evil and wicked concubines pending slow investigation. Consort Xian carry herself and play her card well and right. She needs to stay alive and come out from the cold palace and eventually she came out. She maintained good relations with others.

  • @tajmahal6889
    @tajmahal6889 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tres años de separación en una pareja, es una vida. Que dolor. Tan joven Ruyi tuvo que atravesar semejante dolor. Además, en ése trayecto, perdió a su padre o, mejor dicho, mataron a su padre, el sabía quién lo hizo y no tomó ninguna medida contra esa criminal.

  • @kayakichikun
    @kayakichikun 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    李玉也是暖男一枚

  • @tiffalouise
    @tiffalouise 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    The emperor is all about lip service underneath.

  • @kathyconner51
    @kathyconner51 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Well all know he is a man of his word. Ha just lip service. She truly love him but he never loved her as she loved him

  • @kathygorgas9525
    @kathygorgas9525 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    He didn't owned up by what his so called first wife has done and is still doing

  • @wendyabraham1934
    @wendyabraham1934 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Beautiful,if it could only be reality.

  • @Angel-mr4pt
    @Angel-mr4pt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I keep getting confused. Is this a Japanese drama or a Chinese drama. I enjoy it so much but I will like to know what I am hearing. 🙂✌️

  • @lithara5302
    @lithara5302 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If he never became emperor and was a prince and they married it might not have been so bad.
    But lead in the makeup? I know it used to be popular to look lighter but if they are wearing lead no way they would all have such perfect skin.

  • @kateli1880
    @kateli1880 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What is dunouxiang ?

  • @nataliewalters5212
    @nataliewalters5212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Lead in makeup no wonder these poor women were so sick

    • @bearhakuna514
      @bearhakuna514 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      well if u live in that era u must also.using it...

  • @ceciliabernabe9751
    @ceciliabernabe9751 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This emperor is selfish at all!!

  • @mayarimarjorie5624
    @mayarimarjorie5624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Umm, so I got curious by the ingredient of the make up so I tried to search them up and I found something intriguing, though who know if its the same. Borneol may cause eye, skin, and respiratory irritation; it is harmful if swallowed. lol

  • @kateli1880
    @kateli1880 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    7:42 oh no! So bad if it’s lead.. 😬or is it mistranslation?

    • @rye9758
      @rye9758 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Well lead was a beauty ingredient in the past and still use till the time of queen elizabeth

    • @smirgutt
      @smirgutt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      rye yep in my native language we have a saying that (loosely) translates to. If you want to be beautiful you must suffer, ‘cause in the old days they would put all kinds of poison on their skin to make it “pretty”

  • @elzbietabetlej4085
    @elzbietabetlej4085 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    he may be considered a good ruler but as a husband and as the father he is the worst worm

    • @margaritanoir
      @margaritanoir 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Unfortunately he wasnt even a good ruler. His father was. He did many horrific genocides and other stuff you can read on Wikipedia. If you click the wiki sources, it's scarring to read..

  • @highlithouse6481
    @highlithouse6481 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Weak