First time seeing your channel and literally cried as you talked about Garrett. My husband and I have a son in wheelchair and just to see you support and care for him makes my heart warm. You truly are a beautiful person inside and out.
Hey don't worry about it God is Great and as long as you tell him he can do anything and not baby him because of his disability he'll be fine I know it's hard and you wonder why God gives his strongest Warriors the hardest battles because he knows you will prevail your son will find a beautiful wife and have lots of kids in Jesus name...God bless and know King Jesus is in control. .
yes you so right...life its so unpredictable....my fiancee died in motorbike accident 7 months ago....my world ended without him....but I am still alivie learning to live again. We should appreciated what we got....life is sooo unfair! You are a amazing person and good luck!!!
Even though I'm sure with the hundreds of comments on here, you'll probably never see this, but I just felt so moved by this video that I had to say thank you for sharing this new part of your life! I used to be very into fitness and a healthy, balanced life. Up until a car accident a few years ago that completely turned my life upside down. It's a very long story, but right now I am in a wheel chair most of the time. I am not paralyzed, and am very grateful for the capabilities I do still have, but I now suffer from neurological damage that, among many other problems, makes it very difficult- some days impossible- to stand without passing out. Up until this past year, I was doing pretty well with staying positive and fighting to get better, despite the fact that there is no cure for my conditions. But life, as it often does, decided to throw more than a few curveballs and I've been really lost and beaten down. Seeing this video actually brought me to tears and relit a fire inside me to push on again, harder than ever. I'm ready to 'play the hand I was dealt' again... Terrible joke, but appropriate!! lol 😂 anyyyywayyyy... Just wanted to say thank you so much for sharing and I wish you both so much happiness and love and learning and all the good there is in life! 💖
Angi Anarchy haha! I love corny jokes! Thank you so much! I pray you get better. Keep your head up and always a positive attitude because I believe it really does help heal. You inspire me and keep me posted with your recovery!🙏🏼
Angi Anarchy love your story girl! thank you so much for sharing, you sound like such am amazing fighter i pray everything works out as god intended and that you find true peace and happiness:)
Thank you all so much! It's truly amazing how much inspiration and support I've found through social media; it absolutely blows my mind! There's plenty of negativity out there, but for me, it's worth wading through the 💩 to connect with awesome ladies like yourselves! Nothing but positive vibes girls! ✌🏼️☺️🌈💖🦄✨
Jessica Arevalo People don't understand how much your mindset affects you physically!! It's so true that positivity has healing capabilities! I mean, they say it takes more muscles to frown, but I'm willing to lose some gainz! 😂 *slaps knee* omg I'm awful 😭 lol Anyway, I believe everything happens for a reason. I literally opened TH-cam earlier thinking I needed to find a new channel and your video popped up first in my suggestions. I'm a brand new subscriber and excited to binge watch your vids and get to know you! Hope you had a great time in Montreal! 💕
Us disabled men need more women like you in the world. You can't imagine how many women see a chair and automatically stop themselves or hold back from feeling. For seeing the man past the chair. A lot of us are amazing men, know how to be great partners and still live life to the fullest. It is painful when we see great women settle for less than they deserve emotionally, just because of physicalities. Bless you both, and cheers to a healthy and loving future.
My boyfriend's in a wheelchair we've been dating now for only a month and a half and I absolutely adore him we're trying to figure out how to close the distance gaps from Texas to California so we can start a life and building memories together. Some women can't handle disabled person to care they don't have the patience. Where is me on the other hand find it incredibly worth it!
FADeD Inc. Thank you for your comment. You have opened my eyes to something I have done subconsciously. I automatically hold back feelings when I see people in a wheel chair. I'm never sure how to interact. I want to be kind and friendly but I don't want them to think I'm staring or being rude so I just shut down. I didn't realize I was doing that until now. I will be more aware of that in the future. Thank you for opening my eyes!
my husband is in a wheelchair and he treats me like a queen and he is just the sweetest he makes me happy and its the littlest things that he does everyday to show me everyday he loves me
hey girl I just want to tell you my story I met my husband 10 years ago and he also is on the wheelchair .he have a car accident 27 years ago. we got married 6 years ago I'm the most happy person on the planet because he treat me like a princess.I have to say that was the best decision in my life .I give him a chance and space in my heart.
Growing up with a disability, watching this video made me cry, this is so awesome! We are just like everyone else with limitations just like everyone else 😊
Awww im so happy for you both. How stupid am I for worrying about my son who wear cochlear implants due to his hearing loss? Some great woman will love him just the way he is. Who needs a shallow woman anyways?
I work with a man who has cochlear implants. He loves and lives life to the fullest. He's in a band. Is married. Has put his grown son through university. He's amazing and has a cochlear implant on one side. It doesn't stop him and just as long as u do not treat your sons implant(s) as a disability than he will thrive and nothing can stop him. It's all in the parents approach and attitude.
Both my wonderful parents are half deaf. They get along just great and even joke that their hearing loss has helped their marriage. They claim they can rant and the other won't hear so won't argue back. Haha. I'm also deaf and my boyfriend just learnt how to best communicate. I'm sure your son will find a wonderful partner because his mama will show him he deserves that.
It's not just the fact that he's gorgeous, but his character is absolutely amazing, I could totally see why he was so attractive. You can't stop real love, and I've known for a fact, that those with disabilities have such great characteristics and hearts that people tend to pass them by and only focus on the outward, instead of the inward
This is amazing. There aren't that many people who would look passed a person's disability and see them for who they really are. Although his disability is a huge part of your relationship, it can't and will never compare to the way he makes you feel, which to me is the most important thing. We have all searched for love in the wrong places because we search for this ideal that really isn't right for us and then BAM, someone unexpected walks into your life and not in a million years did you think you would adore and be head of heels in love with that person. God definitely sent him to you to teach you what's important - kindness, happiness, contentment, gratuity etc. This got me a little bit emotional and I am so happy that you've both found eachother . Keep inspiring us Jessica, you're also an amazing human being.
My dad is in a wheelchair too, my mom only knows him in a wheelchair and they are married for 28 years now :) and they got me! haha. All the best for the future!
I just heard the part about his injury and it's basically the same as my dad, although my dad has less hand function than your boyfriend. Just wanted to say that you don't have to be scared for hate comments because it IS possible to live a happy life. It's just different than "normal" but if you accept that it's fine :)
I am so glad you decided to share this!! Forget the instagram models, this is what true fitness inspiration is and what fitness is all about! Definitely puts things into perspective, when we complain about going to the gym or make excuses, we should really be thinking how lucky we are to be capable to do so. I hope you do keep sharing his story, and "when you know, you know" is so true, I said that within the first week of meeting my boyfriend and 4 years later still rings true!! 💜
I was told when I had a wheelchair that I would never be able to walk again☹️But look at me now, I run marathons and races❤️good luck to him I wish him the best
this is the definition of true love. I know you said its early but I started to tear up. You're able to see past his disability, and really appreciate who he is as a person. Im happy for you Jessica! :) He seems like a keeper
As a paraplegic (T3-4 Complete) it definitely takes a strong person to genuinely want to be with a person with a spinal cord injury. It's not even about the person, it's the incontinence, no sensation, non sexual ability that's the tough part for the person without a disability to accept. I personally live a normal life but it's definitely an eye opner for people
dom obertein I have spina bifida too, take a look at the comment I left on this video a few minutes ago. I've never once felt like I'd be a burden to anyone, you shouldn't either.
thats exactly what i worry about, dealing with incontinence (i call it the unmentionables) and lack of sensation just makes me feel bad for them that they cant please me properly and i cant please them properly, sexually speaking
My husband of 27 years has spina bifida and we live a pretty normal life. Yes there are some adjusts that have to be made, but just remember to treat him as a normal person, not someone who is unable to do everything.
Wtf she talked way too much there was no need for all that if your so proud and so in love he should have been right there as soon as video started...Cruel your cruel..Being afraid of a disability is something wrong here n did she just say he came from nothing..I watched entire video just to see Garret n no I have no questions.
Good for you Jessica!!! God provides us exactly what we need when we need it. Remain steadfast and always seek Him for counsel and you two will be just fine. I see your genuine happiness and let that light continue to shine.
17:55....when he arm around you..... I love how you asked God immediately what to do after you guys met! That is such an amazing thing to hear you say as well! I am so happy for you two!!! He has himself an amazing girl!
Is a there a spot on your camera on your neck? A Smudge on the lens? I thought it was my phone screen. He's a fresh of breath air. You are so cute. It's so obvious that you are in love. So happy for you. He's gorgeous! And I am happy that you are happy.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I am in tears watching this video. I am forever grateful that you both chose each other. You can look at him and tell he is an angel. Keep him close and hold on to him tight! It will not always be easy for him but i promise it will be worth it. My mother is a quadriplegic and i watch her and she motivates me so much to move my body and to be very appreciative of the functions of my limbs but she NEVER lets this world get her down and on the few days that she does i remind her that she was chosen for a special assignment here on earth. Love seeing you two together!!!!
My fiance and I have been together for 16 years.....9 years ago he was in a car accident that left him paralyzed from the waist down but he keeps going he is one of the strongest people I know so thank u for this video...we need to shed more light on parapelegics and there struggles and how they over come so much
not gonna lie. I stopped following you on IG almost a year ago because I felt like your relationship with your previous significant other seemed so forced. I got a little tired of it. but seeing this side of you and how you treat him like a normal person (all disabilities aside) is truly beautiful. I knew you were always a wonderful person, but it is so refreshing seeing stories like these. following you again not because of pity, but because I made a mistake and am so happy I came across this video.
I think this so sweet as someone who has had 12 surgeries on my right leg and sometimes after I over do it in the gym my knee gets stiff and have a limp i feel self conscious about it lately and sometimes I think no one will truly love me again because of what I've been through . This is encouraging and love is love the people that went through hard times have a completely different outlook on life . ❤️❤️
This is, hands down, the most amazing thing I have EVER seen. What an amazing man & woman together. Jessica, God is so present in your life & I can see all the blessings you have & feel in this ❤️ Love that I follow you and I hope to run into you some day and give you a big hug. I love you! God loves you xoxo
JESSICA! I FUCK LOVE YOU SOO MUCH! I literally keep up with your social media stuff and i know i always freaking say this in comments lol, but you are just such a great person man!!!! Your heart is in the right place. Im literally tiring up right now! You just make me feel so happy. You guys are both soooo amazing! Thank you for sharing these vlogs with us🙏🏻 im just so touched! Keep being the person you are! Im happy for both of you! Soo inspirational! 💜💜💜✨
I can tell when you were talking about him in the beginning that you are truly in love and happy. I am so happy for the both of you. Very inspiring video as well :)
I love learning so much from you. On a daily we all go through things but you are like a big sister to me. Telling your stories and what you go through is truly inspiring
Roger Lee im not sure if ur being sarcastic or not. But life isnt easy. He probably doesnt like that he is challenged but he seems like he accepts it and keeps moving on. God helped him stay alive so whats not to be thankful for
Roger Lee ohhh I get it now since this is twice I've seen you say this, you're just being a sad no life troll. I pity you, I really do. and I just want to say that whilst I don't necessarily do religion I wake up every morning perfectly happy as the differently able person I am, if you can't see how people like me can do that that's your problem, not ours.
😢 awww you are a sweet heart aswell for being patience with him....beautiful you are a Angel... he does look like a happy person...God Bless you both🙌🙌
Literally just found your channel. Alone the fact that you are dating a guy in the wheelchair made me hit subscribe, because that shows exactly what type of person you are!!! Love it ❤️
I pretty much just sat here crying watching this. This is so moving, and what an inspiration. You see past the disability, and I bet half the time you would forget Garrett is even immobile. This is actually beautiful. Garrett is a very attractive man, but has a great personality as well from what I can see. I wish you both nothing but happiness, and many many years of these inspiring videos ❤️
You're an angel . You are so unselfish and the fact that you love him no matter what his condition and situation is and not care what anyone says makes you an amazing woman.
People with disabilities are normal as everybody else. I have Cerebral Palsy and nonverbal, but I'm an author, a TH-camr, a public speaker, and computer programmer. If you don't trust me, just watch my videos. I edit my own videos myself.
Chris Lenart you are so right! We can achieve anything if we put our mind to it , I have metals all over my legs and I was bullied in Toronto gyms , but I still bodybuild and I never quite , I felt like these bullies wanted me dead , so I commit suicide or something , I still face this behaviour even from proffesours at university who knew about this incident , I was being video recorded and posted on social media and stories Mekong fun of my body by mostly white boys and Asian too including blacks , also lots of females who were envious were apart of this . It was hell but I made it with my Beyoncé face and flo jo body , I look at myself in the mirror and I can totally see why they hate !God has my back , I been through a lot in this life “ no weapon formed against me shall prosper”!
Like why am I crying while I'm watching this😭 #dramatic U have the biggest heart and such a wonderful warm soul. Ur new babe is very handsome btw and ur very beautiful.. I really loved when u were talking about life! How u both get ur inspiration with one another ❤😊👍.. New subbie.. P.S I'm 31 today it's my birthday and im glad I ran into ur video..
First time on your channel and this video really touch my heart. It's crazy how someone can come into your life so unexpectedly and show you a whole new meaning of life. The way you talk about Garrett and the look in your eyes say a lot. You admire and adore him. As a new subscriber, I just want to say thank you for sharing your life with us and opening up. Pretty damn brave of you! Keep it up gorgeous. ❤️
Omg he's so cute and his smile is so contagious. Made me instantly smile. I'm so glad that you 2 are inspiring each other. Enjoy....love does come when you least expect it.
I am SO happy for you. Life is a wild ride and everything happens for a reason! Sounds like you found your person♡ live every day to the fullest and never take a moment for granted. Have fun you two!
I really hope you're with him for all the right reasons. Just a couple weeks ago you were talking about being single for a long time and now because you find someone that's completely different from someone you would normally date you think he's automatically the one when really it could just be that you're still searching for yourself. I hope you had enough time to really think about this. The only reason I say this is because I had a really close friend of mine have the worst breakup ever and then she dated a death guy because he was completely different from what she "normally dates". They didn't last very long and he was left heartbroken, which broke my heart because I know what really happened and what she was really thinking and feeling. I genuinely do wish you guys the best hun and hope that you have the best intentions with him and not for your own reasons. Xo
I got emotional watching this video, the love, courage, will, health, peace and positive thinking is very strong. And that's amazing you both share your story. xoxo
It feels different because you are learning a different type of love called devotion. It the kind of love that stays committed no matter what. All the best two both of you.
He is so handsome I'm just going to say it! I love how inspiring he is and how positive he is, I can tell everything you had told us about him is 100% true! I am so incredibly proud of the both of you and so happy for your guys' journey, I also have a very good feeling about the both of you. You guys definitely bring out the best in each other and I'm so excited to see your guys' journey together. This is my first time on your channel but it won't be the last for me, you have earned a subscriber. I already love you both so much! ❤
Bro God bless her. She's strong as fuck. In a wheelchair, having a disability, etc. Thank you Ms. for loving ppl like us and not having eyes of judgement. Thats love.
There is nothing more beautiful then meeting someone you KNOW you are intended to be with! My husband lived over 3,000 miles from me the very first time I laid eyes on him I knew he was my husband. It's a different feeling from being attracted to someone or liking how someone looks physically! Love TRUE LOVE has no defining characters and it is certainly surprising who your heart attaches itself to! Congratulations on finding love and believe the sayings or not , EVERY soul has it's mate! Beautiful story! :-)
Jessica! I love you! You look so so happy! But, can I offer just one little tiny piece of advice, I have a client who is in a wheelchair and one thing I've learned from her, please don't offer to help so much!! I mean this in the nicest way possible because I love you and I want you to have a happy and healthy relationship but please try to just treat him like abnormal person. I understand you're helping him workout. Just a friendly piece of advice. I know you said you've never been around people in wheelchairs. But maybe look up some articles written by people in wheelchairs or people in relationships. Love you! I hope he's the one for you!
I respect you in a deferent level... I'm a PTA and have worked with spinal core injury patient and I can appreciate what you are doing.. props to you 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
omg dont ever hide this! This is so awesome i love you jess! Yes how freaking cute! goodluck to you and your relationship. i hope nothing but the best!
First off I wanna say how jealous I am that you've felt that "magic" love at first sight moment... not a lot of people can say that. Second I think this video will open a lot of minds (including mine) about what it's like to be with someone in a wheelchair... cause tbh never thought about It. It's amazing to see how much love you have for each other. Ps he is so cute 😉 thank you for sharing! ❤️
First time seeing your channel and literally cried as you talked about Garrett. My husband and I have a son in wheelchair and just to see you support and care for him makes my heart warm. You truly are a beautiful person inside and out.
mrsaliciab I felt the same way!! I'm a new subbie as well
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Hey don't worry about it God is Great and as long as you tell him he can do anything and not baby him because of his disability he'll be fine I know it's hard and you wonder why God gives his strongest Warriors the hardest battles because he knows you will prevail your son will find a beautiful wife and have lots of kids in Jesus name...God bless and know King Jesus is in control. .
yes you so right...life its so unpredictable....my fiancee died in motorbike accident 7 months ago....my world ended without him....but I am still alivie learning to live again. We should appreciated what we got....life is sooo unfair! You are a amazing person and good luck!!!
Maadziara86 lots of love for you girl💗
I wish you all the best!
Maadziara86 I'm really sorry to hear that. Wishing you nothing but the best!
So sorry for your loss... just remember that although he's gone, he will always be right by your side. Stay strong
Maadziara86 omg that is so horrible, i am sooo sorry for your loss may god bless every second of your life.
He's still with you. Talk to him. How heartbreaking for you.
Even though I'm sure with the hundreds of comments on here, you'll probably never see this, but I just felt so moved by this video that I had to say thank you for sharing this new part of your life! I used to be very into fitness and a healthy, balanced life. Up until a car accident a few years ago that completely turned my life upside down. It's a very long story, but right now I am in a wheel chair most of the time. I am not paralyzed, and am very grateful for the capabilities I do still have, but I now suffer from neurological damage that, among many other problems, makes it very difficult- some days impossible- to stand without passing out. Up until this past year, I was doing pretty well with staying positive and fighting to get better, despite the fact that there is no cure for my conditions. But life, as it often does, decided to throw more than a few curveballs and I've been really lost and beaten down. Seeing this video actually brought me to tears and relit a fire inside me to push on again, harder than ever. I'm ready to 'play the hand I was dealt' again... Terrible joke, but appropriate!! lol 😂 anyyyywayyyy... Just wanted to say thank you so much for sharing and I wish you both so much happiness and love and learning and all the good there is in life! 💖
Angi Anarchy God bless you. Hope you find love and someone that make your life more joyful.
Angi Anarchy haha! I love corny jokes! Thank you so much! I pray you get better. Keep your head up and always a positive attitude because I believe it really does help heal. You inspire me and keep me posted with your recovery!🙏🏼
Angi Anarchy love your story girl! thank you so much for sharing, you sound like such am amazing fighter i pray everything works out as god intended and that you find true peace and happiness:)
Thank you all so much! It's truly amazing how much inspiration and support I've found through social media; it absolutely blows my mind! There's plenty of negativity out there, but for me, it's worth wading through the 💩 to connect with awesome ladies like yourselves! Nothing but positive vibes girls! ✌🏼️☺️🌈💖🦄✨
Jessica Arevalo People don't understand how much your mindset affects you physically!! It's so true that positivity has healing capabilities! I mean, they say it takes more muscles to frown, but I'm willing to lose some gainz! 😂 *slaps knee* omg I'm awful 😭 lol Anyway, I believe everything happens for a reason. I literally opened TH-cam earlier thinking I needed to find a new channel and your video popped up first in my suggestions. I'm a brand new subscriber and excited to binge watch your vids and get to know you! Hope you had a great time in Montreal! 💕
Us disabled men need more women like you in the world. You can't imagine how many women see a chair and automatically stop themselves or hold back from feeling. For seeing the man past the chair. A lot of us are amazing men, know how to be great partners and still live life to the fullest. It is painful when we see great women settle for less than they deserve emotionally, just because of physicalities. Bless you both, and cheers to a healthy and loving future.
I love it yall are the good men. Alot of people turn away from people with disabilities. I would love have yall
My boyfriend's in a wheelchair we've been dating now for only a month and a half and I absolutely adore him we're trying to figure out how to close the distance gaps from Texas to California so we can start a life and building memories together. Some women can't handle disabled person to care they don't have the patience. Where is me on the other hand find it incredibly worth it!
FADeD Inc. Thank you for your comment. You have opened my eyes to something I have done subconsciously. I automatically hold back feelings when I see people in a wheel chair. I'm never sure how to interact. I want to be kind and friendly but I don't want them to think I'm staring or being rude so I just shut down. I didn't realize I was doing that until now. I will be more aware of that in the future. Thank you for opening my eyes!
you guys are going to have me in tears...
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my husband is in a wheelchair and he treats me like a queen and he is just the sweetest he makes me happy and its the littlest things that he does everyday to show me everyday he loves me
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Wow very nice l hope l will find mine in the future🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈
@Mansur Zaman maybe it's their business only...?
Yeah he's nice so you won't leave his ass he won't find another girl that will accept him in a wheel chair
@Mansur Zaman i also wonder no offence but i really cirous
hey girl I just want to tell you my story I met my husband 10 years ago and he also is on the wheelchair .he have a car accident 27 years ago. we got married 6 years ago I'm the most happy person on the planet because he treat me like a princess.I have to say that was the best decision in my life .I give him a chance and space in my heart.
Aggy Poo ❤️
Aggy Poo That's so sweet! one day maybe I'll feel like a princess😍💕
Thank you
Aggy Poo yay you both Deserve Each Other Princess May God bless you and you're Family ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
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Growing up with a disability, watching this video made me cry, this is so awesome! We are just like everyone else with limitations just like everyone else 😊
damn girl u found a keeper.. hes so humble and not full of himself you can tell hes so handsome omg ..
I don't know how you are getting so much crap in the comments. I think he is incredibly inspiring and REALLY HANDSOME. You go girl!
Taylor Jenkins I don't know what you're reading, but the comments are all full of positivity.
Anita Mmayie Right lol I think she was less busy to talk lmao
The only crap comment is yours lol everyone else is positive but you
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Awww im so happy for you both. How stupid am I for worrying about my son who wear cochlear implants due to his hearing loss? Some great woman will love him just the way he is. Who needs a shallow woman anyways?
lisette rojas May god bless your little boy
I've been mostly deaf my entire life. I will gladly date a deaf or hard of hearing person.
lisette rojas I'm hearing impaired and I live an amazing and creative life!!!
I work with a man who has cochlear implants. He loves and lives life to the fullest. He's in a band. Is married. Has put his grown son through university. He's amazing and has a cochlear implant on one side. It doesn't stop him and just as long as u do not treat your sons implant(s) as a disability than he will thrive and nothing can stop him. It's all in the parents approach and attitude.
Both my wonderful parents are half deaf. They get along just great and even joke that their hearing loss has helped their marriage. They claim they can rant and the other won't hear so won't argue back. Haha. I'm also deaf and my boyfriend just learnt how to best communicate. I'm sure your son will find a wonderful partner because his mama will show him he deserves that.
He's gorgeous!!!!!! 😍
It's not just the fact that he's gorgeous, but his character is absolutely amazing, I could totally see why he was so attractive. You can't stop real love, and I've known for a fact, that those with disabilities have such great characteristics and hearts that people tend to pass them by and only focus on the outward, instead of the inward
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Handsome not gorgeous
Cristina Mihaila guys can be gorgeous too
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I love seeing this, being a quadriplegic myself, its nice to see someone look past the wheelchair itself. Good for you.
This is amazing. There aren't that many people who would look passed a person's disability and see them for who they really are. Although his disability is a huge part of your relationship, it can't and will never compare to the way he makes you feel, which to me is the most important thing. We have all searched for love in the wrong places because we search for this ideal that really isn't right for us and then BAM, someone unexpected walks into your life and not in a million years did you think you would adore and be head of heels in love with that person. God definitely sent him to you to teach you what's important - kindness, happiness, contentment, gratuity etc. This got me a little bit emotional and I am so happy that you've both found eachother . Keep inspiring us Jessica, you're also an amazing human being.
Every man in the world can look at this video and learn a lot about women. they are so sweet together.
My dad is in a wheelchair too, my mom only knows him in a wheelchair and they are married for 28 years now :) and they got me! haha. All the best for the future!
I just heard the part about his injury and it's basically the same as my dad, although my dad has less hand function than your boyfriend. Just wanted to say that you don't have to be scared for hate comments because it IS possible to live a happy life. It's just different than "normal" but if you accept that it's fine :)
That is excellent to hear.... it really is.. :-)
i legit want to cry reading this comment. it makes me so happy and gives me hope for mine and my boyfriend's future.
@@88Mikje123 hi i am disable person
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I am so glad you decided to share this!! Forget the instagram models, this is what true fitness inspiration is and what fitness is all about! Definitely puts things into perspective, when we complain about going to the gym or make excuses, we should really be thinking how lucky we are to be capable to do so. I hope you do keep sharing his story, and "when you know, you know" is so true, I said that within the first week of meeting my boyfriend and 4 years later still rings true!! 💜
This video makes me so happy. I can't wait to meet Garrett! 😭🙏🏼
Heidi Somers you and Jessica are me heroes!!!!
You 2 are my fav!
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Gave me a new perspective on the shallow and self-obsessed fitness women.
Just when I thought she was done talking, she started all over again 😂😂😂 had to fast forward... Way to much talk..
i thought i was the only one. hahahahah
Lisbeth Jacobsen lol! Thought I was alone.
Lisbeth Jacobsen same😂😂😂
I was told when I had a wheelchair that I would never be able to walk again☹️But look at me now, I run marathons and races❤️good luck to him I wish him the best
I’m proud of you. May god continue to bless you. I have hope that my friend will walk again someday soon.
this is the definition of true love. I know you said its early but I started to tear up. You're able to see past his disability, and really appreciate who he is as a person. Im happy for you Jessica! :) He seems like a keeper
I have cerebral palsy. I go to the gym every day I did a half marathon
***** where are you from
Lovepreet Deo me too
Josefa Orio me too
Lovepreet Deo Great job!!!! Keep on going!!!! Yeah!!! I am cheering you on.
Lovepreet Deo .
Forget what people say you will never please everyone as long as your happy! He looks like a genuine person take care of him🙌🏽
Would you date a man in a wheelchair?
As a paraplegic (T3-4 Complete) it definitely takes a strong person to genuinely want to be with a person with a spinal cord injury. It's not even about the person, it's the incontinence, no sensation, non sexual ability that's the tough part for the person without a disability to accept. I personally live a normal life but it's definitely an eye opner for people
well said, spinabifida here and have never had a gf cuz i dont wanna be a burdon on anyone, btw i deal with the same things that u mention
dom obertein I have spina bifida too, take a look at the comment I left on this video a few minutes ago. I've never once felt like I'd be a burden to anyone, you shouldn't either.
thats exactly what i worry about, dealing with incontinence (i call it the unmentionables) and lack of sensation just makes me feel bad for them that they cant please me properly and i cant please them properly, sexually speaking
Kayla Blount
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My husband of 27 years has spina bifida and we live a pretty normal life. Yes there are some adjusts that have to be made, but just remember to treat him as a normal person, not someone who is unable to do everything.
My mother has the same condition and she and my father have been together since she was sixteen. She is now 50.
Wtf she talked way too much there was no need for all that if your so proud and so in love he should have been right there as soon as video started...Cruel your cruel..Being afraid of a disability is something wrong here n did she just say he came from nothing..I watched entire video just to see Garret n no I have no questions.
I'm 35 same condition I just miss opportunities with women even when they show interest because of my fear of being a problem
Good for you Jessica!!! God provides us exactly what we need when we need it. Remain steadfast and always seek Him for counsel and you two will be just fine. I see your genuine happiness and let that light continue to shine.
17:55....when he arm around you..... I love how you asked God immediately what to do after you guys met! That is such an amazing thing to hear you say as well! I am so happy for you two!!! He has himself an amazing girl!
Is a there a spot on your camera on your neck? A
Smudge on the lens? I thought it was my phone screen. He's a fresh of breath air. You are so cute. It's so obvious that you are in love. So happy for you. He's gorgeous! And I am happy that you are happy.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Haha same!!
therealnagemable hahaha I noticed that too fresh of breath air
therealnagemable Omfg! I was wiping my screen really hard turn it around haha funnyyyyyy.
I am in tears watching this video. I am forever grateful that you both chose each other. You can look at him and tell he is an angel. Keep him close and hold on to him tight! It will not always be easy for him but i promise it will be worth it. My mother is a quadriplegic and i watch her and she motivates me so much to move my body and to be very appreciative of the functions of my limbs but she NEVER lets this world get her down and on the few days that she does i remind her that she was chosen for a special assignment here on earth. Love seeing you two together!!!!
My fiance and I have been together for 16 years.....9 years ago he was in a car accident that left him paralyzed from the waist down but he keeps going he is one of the strongest people I know so thank u for this video...we need to shed more light on parapelegics and there struggles and how they over come so much
such an inspiration you two! my favorite couple in social media! thank you for sharing this with us jessica and for being so transparent
plus yes, as others have mentioned, face of an angel 😍. handsome and very inspiring!
why not a guy in a wheelchair. it doesn't define who you are and still a normal person who deserves the same as everyone else does
sure. why dont u try dating one?
Roger Lee i have before thanks !
Karin kemp i guess it didnt work out.
Roger Lee no he died you idiot .. now rack off
Karin kemp hell yeah
who cares about the wheelchair, damn he's hot!
Tiffany Brown Exactly! He also acts very sweet and tender towards Jessica :)
that is 100% how i feel about my boyfriend too. :)
Did anyone mention how cute he is? 😻
nolły H that is one ridiculously handsome man! And together they are a gorgeous couple.
nolły H
very cute 🙂
First thing i noticed abt him, only after did i see the wheelchair. Lol
not gonna lie. I stopped following you on IG almost a year ago because I felt like your relationship with your previous significant other seemed so forced. I got a little tired of it. but seeing this side of you and how you treat him like a normal person (all disabilities aside) is truly beautiful. I knew you were always a wonderful person, but it is so refreshing seeing stories like these. following you again not because of pity, but because I made a mistake and am so happy I came across this video.
Kelita K he is a normal person
How could anyone dislike this video??? It's so moving, heartfelt, genuine, and honest!
IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE! Lol
Esmeralda Campos me too!!
Am I the only one that noticed "the fresh of breath air"
Haha yes!!
Ashley Tyler lol! I noticed too! She too cute
Ashley Tyler I came to the comments to see if anyone else noticed 😂
LOVE IS ALL THAT MATTERS. I CAN'T WAIT FOR MY TURN... HE'S OUT THERE
Shana Lee YOU GO GIRL
I think this so sweet as someone who has had 12 surgeries on my right leg and sometimes after I over do it in the gym my knee gets stiff and have a limp i feel self conscious about it lately and sometimes I think no one will truly love me again because of what I've been through . This is encouraging and love is love the people that went through hard times have a completely different outlook on life . ❤️❤️
This is, hands down, the most amazing thing I have EVER seen. What an amazing man & woman together.
Jessica, God is so present in your life & I can see all the blessings you have & feel in this ❤️
Love that I follow you and I hope to run into you some day and give you a big hug. I love you!
God loves you xoxo
JESSICA! I FUCK LOVE YOU SOO MUCH! I literally keep up with your social media stuff and i know i always freaking say this in comments lol, but you are just such a great person man!!!! Your heart is in the right place. Im literally tiring up right now! You just make me feel so happy. You guys are both soooo amazing! Thank you for sharing these vlogs with us🙏🏻 im just so touched! Keep being the person you are! Im happy for both of you! Soo inspirational! 💜💜💜✨
Biviany DBT Fitness we love you toooo biviiiiii
Honestly this video humbles you so much! I think this is one of the most incredible honest videos I've seen on youtube. Thank you for sharing this.
just because he is in a wheelchair dosent take away from the fact that he is genially handsome. I SUBSCRUBED!!!XOXO yall are soo beautiful
she's so sweet, he's so brave, he's blessed to have her and her to have him
I can tell when you were talking about him in the beginning that you are truly in love and happy. I am so happy for the both of you. Very inspiring video as well :)
I love learning so much from you. On a daily we all go through things but you are like a big sister to me. Telling your stories and what you go through is truly inspiring
Yas!!!!!! Jes I am so happy for you! God works in wonderful ways. Blessings on blessings
Jasmine Gascon God is great. "We plan, God laughs"
lmao. I'm sure he thank God every morning he wakes up in his crippled body.
Roger Lee the word crippled is fucking offensive a hole.
Roger Lee im not sure if ur being sarcastic or not. But life isnt easy. He probably doesnt like that he is challenged but he seems like he accepts it and keeps moving on. God helped him stay alive so whats not to be thankful for
Roger Lee ohhh I get it now since this is twice I've seen you say this, you're just being a sad no life troll. I pity you, I really do. and I just want to say that whilst I don't necessarily do religion I wake up every morning perfectly happy as the differently able person I am, if you can't see how people like me can do that that's your problem, not ours.
😢 awww you are a sweet heart aswell for being patience with him....beautiful you are a Angel... he does look like a happy person...God Bless you both🙌🙌
This is so beautiful, your relationship is vibrating such good vibes, i'mm all bout it :D
btw your bf is so cute and you're a keeper, so you guys are officially my otp haha
P E N E L O P E L A B R i think she said they're just dating :)
P E N E L O P E L A B R would you date someone in a ♿ wheelchair. ?
It definitely takes a special woman to make it work. Being paralyzed in any part of the body is horrible. I wish them the best.
It definitely has its challenges P. It takes a special woman.
Literally just found your channel. Alone the fact that you are dating a guy in the wheelchair made me hit subscribe, because that shows exactly what type of person you are!!! Love it ❤️
she said a fresh of breath air lol 3:18
Vanessa Melendez i caught that too 😂😂 just hows how happy she is 😊
some one should start keeping a list of these "jessicaism" she does a lot of these word switches
Vanessa Melendez she alsonsaid he called her his moose lol
Kaylie Jordan that was pretty cute lol
Hehe so cute when she said that :)
The way you talk about this man is so genuine and deep. You can feel the true love. I love true stories like this 💕💕💕💕💕💕
I pretty much just sat here crying watching this.
This is so moving, and what an inspiration.
You see past the disability, and I bet half the time you would forget Garrett is even immobile.
This is actually beautiful.
Garrett is a very attractive man, but has a great personality as well from what I can see.
I wish you both nothing but happiness, and many many years of these inspiring videos ❤️
You're an angel . You are so unselfish and the fact that you love him no matter what his condition and situation is and not care what anyone says makes you an amazing woman.
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god blessed him by making him handsome but his positive attitude and smile took it to amother unreal level wow so happy for you jessica
Watched three times 😭 brought me to tears in a good way. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing.
He is very handsome to match your beauty. I can't wait to see progress, in all the aspects of all the new things going for you two
People with disabilities are normal as everybody else. I have Cerebral Palsy and nonverbal, but I'm an author, a TH-camr, a public speaker, and computer programmer. If you don't trust me, just watch my videos. I edit my own videos myself.
Chris Lenart Sir you are saying correct I am muscular dystrophy patient and I am also Mbbs doctor and writer and MOTIVADOR.
FML qqqq
Vee Lin Chin Huh?
Chris Lenart you are so right! We can achieve anything if we put our mind to it , I have metals all over my legs and I was bullied in Toronto gyms , but I still bodybuild and I never quite , I felt like these bullies wanted me dead , so I commit suicide or something , I still face this behaviour even from proffesours at university who knew about this incident , I was being video recorded and posted on social media and stories Mekong fun of my body by mostly white boys and Asian too including blacks , also lots of females who were envious were apart of this . It was hell but I made it with my Beyoncé face and flo jo body , I look at myself in the mirror and I can totally see why they hate !God has my back , I been through a lot in this life “ no weapon formed against me shall prosper”!
@@adamjensen518 hi
I love how your patient and help him. Its so beautiful
Like why am I crying while I'm watching this😭 #dramatic U have the biggest heart and such a wonderful warm soul. Ur new babe is very handsome btw and ur very beautiful.. I really loved when u were talking about life! How u both get ur inspiration with one another ❤😊👍.. New subbie.. P.S I'm 31 today it's my birthday and im glad I ran into ur video..
happy birthday
Chinwe Mishael Aww thanks beautiful ❤❤ bless u
Andrea Lopez happy belated birthday I also shed a few tears watching this couldn't even finish it.
Thank you both for sharing your lives with us. So inspiring
He has such a light in his eyes. I'm a new subscriber. so happy for you two.
Portia Mitstifer me too right!!!
Jessica I love how you are a real person not to throw shade to any other fitness person, but you are REAL. And its much appreciated.
Did noone else hear the "fresh of breath air??" :'D 3:20
Omg I was looking for this comment ahah. I heard it too lol
Sarah W I was searching for this comment too! 😂
Haha! Yes 😂😂😂
Give her a break, she’s newly in love so obviously she can’t speak correctly!
haha yes v cute I thought I had imagined it .
First time on your channel and this video really touch my heart. It's crazy how someone can come into your life so unexpectedly and show you a whole new meaning of life. The way you talk about Garrett and the look in your eyes say a lot. You admire and adore him. As a new subscriber, I just want to say thank you for sharing your life with us and opening up. Pretty damn brave of you! Keep it up gorgeous. ❤️
Omg he's so cute and his smile is so contagious. Made me instantly smile. I'm so glad that you 2 are inspiring each other. Enjoy....love does come when you least expect it.
I am SO happy for you. Life is a wild ride and everything happens for a reason! Sounds like you found your person♡ live every day to the fullest and never take a moment for granted. Have fun you two!
Love has no race no gender and no disability 💙💙💙💙 absolutely beautiful video thanks so much for sharing😘
Would you date a man in a wheelchair?
@@QQ0000 yes I would
When he first said hello to the camera I literally screamed. I've never felt so blessed to have ears.
I really hope you're with him for all the right reasons. Just a couple weeks ago you were talking about being single for a long time and now because you find someone that's completely different from someone you would normally date you think he's automatically the one when really it could just be that you're still searching for yourself. I hope you had enough time to really think about this. The only reason I say this is because I had a really close friend of mine have the worst breakup ever and then she dated a death guy because he was completely different from what she "normally dates". They didn't last very long and he was left heartbroken, which broke my heart because I know what really happened and what she was really thinking and feeling. I genuinely do wish you guys the best hun and hope that you have the best intentions with him and not for your own reasons. Xo
3:19 A Fresh of Breath Air! Love it girl, he's got you tongue twisted. Glad you're happy and Love is Love you don't have to explain it.
I use a wheelchair and this video is so encouraging in so many ways. thank you!
Hai Sara, where is your country..
I got emotional watching this video, the love, courage, will, health, peace and positive thinking is very strong. And that's amazing you both share your story. xoxo
It feels different because you are learning a different type of love called devotion. It the kind of love that stays committed no matter what. All the best two both of you.
PLEASE keep making these videos! I love this. I think a lot of people will love this!
i wish u a million well wishes
This video just gives me chills all around. I love this so much! I'm so happy for you!
I have A friend that is dating a guy who is in a wheelchair. They have been together for 4/5 years now and I know she's the happiest person alive.
you guys are beautiful individually and together you're beyond that, congrats that you guys found each other ❤️
wow that was super inspiring Jess! I'm so glad you are finally happy with a good soul by your side! thanks for sharing, it really opens people's eyes
My heart is so warm, omg you are GLOWING!
He is so handsome I'm just going to say it! I love how inspiring he is and how positive he is, I can tell everything you had told us about him is 100% true! I am so incredibly proud of the both of you and so happy for your guys' journey, I also have a very good feeling about the both of you. You guys definitely bring out the best in each other and I'm so excited to see your guys' journey together. This is my first time on your channel but it won't be the last for me, you have earned a subscriber. I already love you both so much! ❤
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Bro God bless her. She's strong as fuck. In a wheelchair, having a disability, etc. Thank you Ms. for loving ppl like us and not having eyes of judgement. Thats love.
Anyone who disliked this story/video needs a damn wake-up call. I was so moved. I wish you guys all the very best.
Dude I'm a dude and this touched me. That's awesome congrats!
"Fresh of breath air" you're definitely in love 😂😍 so happy for you!
There is nothing more beautiful then meeting someone you KNOW you are intended to be with! My husband lived over 3,000 miles from me the very first time I laid eyes on him I knew he was my husband. It's a different feeling from being attracted to someone or liking how someone looks physically! Love TRUE LOVE has no defining characters and it is certainly surprising who your heart attaches itself to! Congratulations on finding love and believe the sayings or not , EVERY soul has it's mate! Beautiful story! :-)
He is so handsome. I wish you two the absolute best.
Jessica! I love you! You look so so happy! But, can I offer just one little tiny piece of advice, I have a client who is in a wheelchair and one thing I've learned from her, please don't offer to help so much!! I mean this in the nicest way possible because I love you and I want you to have a happy and healthy relationship but please try to just treat him like abnormal person. I understand you're helping him workout. Just a friendly piece of advice. I know you said you've never been around people in wheelchairs. But maybe look up some articles written by people in wheelchairs or people in relationships. Love you! I hope he's the one for you!
Inspirational couple!!❤️💖❤️ you inspire him, as he does to you.
He truly brings out a glow in you! So happy for you! You deserve to feel loved and appreciated :)
he's actually gorgeous!!
I'll never moan about going to the gym again
I respect you in a deferent level... I'm a PTA and have worked with spinal core injury patient and I can appreciate what you are doing.. props to you 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
this says a lot about you. i think you are amazing for being there for him.
omg dont ever hide this! This is so awesome i love you jess! Yes how freaking cute! goodluck to you and your relationship. i hope nothing but the best!
In a chair myself your a rare woman :) Most times a person automatically puts you in the friend zone when you're disabled
Best wishes to you.
First off I wanna say how jealous I am that you've felt that "magic" love at first sight moment... not a lot of people can say that. Second I think this video will open a lot of minds (including mine) about what it's like to be with someone in a wheelchair... cause tbh never thought about It. It's amazing to see how much love you have for each other. Ps he is so cute 😉 thank you for sharing! ❤️
I'm so happy for you Jessica!
You really inspire me.
Thank YOU!