Scolded by driver, toll booth worker in China forces herself to smile
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A toll booth worker in eastern China’s Zhejiang province was filmed being scolded by a driver to the point of tears. She then had to force herself to smile as she turned to serve other drivers.
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Customer services Industry is the only industry where everyone else is right except you
Not true. I was told that customer is always right but i disagree and give them the tough love. When they ask for unreasonable thing i told them im not a miracle worker. And if they push i will show them the door
@@lionolee5480 actually he's using sarcasm.
indeed
rightttttt !!!!
@@dspower7017 actually he meant that "everyone else is right" being customers
When you can freely cry your problem out to your boss, you know he's great boss.
Nah he’s manipulative and controlling affff if that was a man acting like her y’all would IMMEDIATELY scan all the abuse .. smh
@@cynthiaschellen3751 I think he's talking about the guy in vid.
@@cynthiaschellen3751 No, the boss wasn’t the person scolding her.
@@cynthiaschellen3751 your reply history... yikes. The video was not even a minute and a half long and miraculously, you still formed some twisted and rediculous narrative of women hating in this video... How desperate are you??
@@Gaurav_Mukherjee hey I see you in other channel also
Her face literally lit up when she smiled even if it was fake I can only imagine her real smile
Ez E no one cares about your insecurities dude. Just because your ex got a train ran on her, does not mean that she is
Ez E who hurt you
Her smile wasn't fake. She humble herself. Which is precious 😊
@@Cryptech1010 Its not gone. New update of TH-cam when a few ppl report on you, youre comments will be automatically dissappeared. Ive seen other comments too and it is same like this 🤔
cool
People that abuse minimum wage workers just doing their jobs are one of the most infuriating things in life
And they don't deserve to have any jobs for doing so!!
I hate those people...
@@sangriad.938 Me too!
This is in China. They are a communist society. There's no such thing as minimum wage there.
Tell me about it. When I was a Starbucks barista, I had a scalding cup of coffee hurled at me because it wasn't "hot enough".
"Everyone should work in Customer Service at least once, to learn how NOT to treat people who work in Customer Service." - Unknown
Actually true I remember doing work experience and being like dude customers are so troublesome sometkmes
So true man!
I think this everyday at work cause some customers are so freaking rude to me and my coworkers.
That’s true
This is true. Seriously
Laughing forcibly after a hard breakdown is most worst than anything.. she's so brave and strong
Indeed meghana
Simp bro, stop subbing to Chinese onlyfans.
@@ltechnobozo2600 be quiet
@@ltechnobozo2600 oi wth!?
Yes
Forcing yourself to smile when u are in verge of a breakdown is the toughest job ever...
Agreed😩 I sadly know all too well
Indeed. But it proves that u are strong :)
I have done that pretty much all my life. My friends always tell me how I am always positive and smiling. They don't know my internal/mental battles.
@@jyn88 ikr :C
why was she scolded?
I remember getting yelled at at work as a teen. I was getting screamed at by some guy twice my age at the time and I couldn’t help but start crying, I was the only person at work and had no one to back me up. When he saw me crying he only started to insult me in front of other customers, luckily they backed me up. It’s been a few years since this happened and it still makes me upset.
I wish people would try and understand rather than go straight to yelling, especially at kids.
I'm a guy that loves all people and I spread love everywhere I go 🙂 I help people for a living and I changed many lives, I learned through this that all human beings need to be treated with utmost care and compassion 😊 this made it really pleasant for all the people who work around me, the results of kindness and love from both coworkers and customers in the work place is absolutely AMAZING 😃
I’m glad that there were other customers to back you up. That’s a very stressful situation and I feel very sorry that you had to go through like that as a teen.
someone who acts like that in public is someone who is so far gone and stuck in their own angry, bitter world
Imagine what you would have to feel inside to be acting like that to strangers in public, just remenber those people are suffering to be acting like that so dont feel bad for crying, feel bad that such a person is so angry with the world that they act like that.
I'd rather be happy friendly and likeable than a bitter, angry person who has embarassing outbursts in public, cant imagine people like that have many genuine relationships in their life
Lol
@samuelmason5491 Imagine if you were that person
When she started sobbing like a kid, I felt that. Cos I cry the same way.
Same 😭😭
It's the kind of cry that literally breaks you
Ik the way she moved is really relatable
Same
Same.
People may thinks she’s just overreacting but they just don’t know how hard it is to work with people
i bet they're masochists😂😂😂
Yeah but once you’ve been working with customers for a while you build a thick skin. This girl is either new or got really badly verbally abused.
Adele N
or she was having a horrible day and this just set her over the edge? or shes naturally sensitive no matter how many times shes been yelled at? not everyone is exactly the same, you know. its a big world.
Kicksno1fan if someone’s naturally sensitive then like I said no matter who you are you build a thick skin over time.
Adele N not necessarily - i’m naturally sensitive, and no matter how many times i get yelled at i still cry a little. it’s completely okay for her to be crying in this situation.
im a waitress and ITS SO HARD dealing with rude and entitled people every day
You still have a chance to major in philosophy and become a politician, and then ruin their lives!
People these days
Harlow loll most of the rude ones are old so by the time i did that they’d all be gone
@@anar2813 Then once you know it, we'll eventually take over...
@@anar2813 I hope you won't become one of them when you go old
As someone who works in the food industry I understand how she feels. I’ve been verbally abused by many customers, people forget that words can cause emotional pain. I have nothing but respect for this young woman!
What exactly did they told you?
@@fvwak an infinite amount of things, usually cursing me out or threatening to get me fired over the smallest things. However I’m currently switching jobs and in February I’m going to become a Teacher
@@Jess-gb5mi really sorry that happened, wish you all the best dude
@@Jess-gb5miI feel that! I worked at flanigans in Miami yuck! Talk about nasty hygiene in there and also the attitudes. Hey we are better off❤ everything always works out for us
It's a bit different, she was assaulted. You had your feelings hurt by words.. Man up.
Customer service is tough, people are extremely rude and most of the time they don’t even know it.
true
Working with public? f'ck that I'd rather coal mine
@@anakjaksel3243 no some people are criminals no ethics
@Paul Chen i think the video said that the manager tried to comfort her or something
Including me and you.
That type of crying is the most painful because whenever you open your mouth you have to gasp it happens when you are stressed or really overwhelmed
Yessssss then the hiccups
@Lil RE Bruh sorry to hear your story. Hope you are fine now
When your parents orders you to stop crying, and you tried but it just won't stop 😂. Those memories.
Idk why I like those the most.
Nyahahaha oh my gahd i remember that soo much!! my mom got mad at me even more because i wouldn’t stop crying but i wasn’t crying, it was just the hiccups that wouldn’t go awayyyyy
Glad the manager tries to comfort her instead of blaming her more. ❤️ I hate abusive works.
Hoi im also here
I am with you. Absolutely
Yess
Yes defiendtlyuœ
I believe the manager also has been in that situation , that why he knew what is going on.
Life is so hard. I couldn't remember how many times I cried at work 🙁
At the end of the day, only people whose are better at handling stress will go far in life. Its hurt, but it will toughen us more if we get throught it.
Same here brother
We people ourselves are the ones that making life hard for eachother
Dont care about that dear❤ Be strong❤🎉
You can tell she’s trying so hard to smile and not cry. I feel horrible for her she was just trying to do her job but people had to ruin her day
Ushijima you should've come to japan
Yeah. I still don't understand why she is crying tho. When a customer scolds you you're supposed to be upset and angry, not sad.
Still sad tho.
Maybe she was crying of anger? 'Cause I know ANY emotion in excess generates crying so...
>:O Oikawa will nevah
@Supreme Wendy’s it's sad.
You know you’re hurt for real when you can’t even breathe while crying. This just makes me sad
That happen to me a lot when I was a kid
@@masternick4361 same dude, it's a different kind of sad
...I remember crying like that once because some people misunderstood me as a rude and bad person
Seeing her I really felt bad
Propaganda of the ccp.
It is all staged
@@thereasoninlifeisthatthere5326 I mean could be, considering the channel but atleast for me the crying looked real
😢she's was just doing her job. She didn't make the rules. Some people can be so horrible.
Yeah.....aaaaa Loooooot of people. Clients can be really mean and horrible
Yeah working as a cashier this is so relatable. People need to understand that we're human too, it's disgusting.
@@HusseyStars
We really appreciate what you do 😁 don’t mind those rude customers, they’re probably having a bad day
@Kelvin Guru
😬
dont inforce the rule problem solve duh
I'm praying for her. She seems like a sweet person who deserves a beautiful life.
her day was destroyed but she chose not to ruin the others, respect.
That's what heroes....nah that's what legends do....
@@TheWaffertful yeah meanwhile a lot of service workers makes my hand itch to slap them sometimes.
@@MinutePlant ikr.Like they do be rude af-
@@MinutePlant oh come on, that's just exaggeration. It's a horrible job, I don't blame them for being blunt.
Yes indeed.
Humans are just jerks.. I remember Steve Irwin saying “I’d rather work with Crocodiles than humans, humans are really the monsters”. Or something like that anyway.
And then an animal killed him.. guess you can’t trust neither of em 😂
@@Angry_divorced_dad not cool
@@Angry_divorced_dad I don't think the laughing emoji is the right emoji when someone has legendary as Steve Irwin died
Daniel he speaking fax tho
Jeffrey how about sad, and not funny.
To people who never worked in a customer service related industry, dealing with people is a stressful job...
I feel you, i had to deal with all kinds of people
I don't work in customer service, but having to talk to other people is stressful. Especially if they're yelling at you.
@@imperialspecialforce5769 yes , i had people telling me junk , all these offensive things, its not easy handling that since im an introverted guy
@@imperialspecialforce5769 just beat the *"#@ outta them. Problem solved.
Yes, it is!
The level of Professionalism that young woman has is commendable.
And people come on it will not take your much to talk politely to a person doing his/ her job.
Thats the kind of crying where you cant breathe or speak because everytime you open your mouth you have to gasp for air. I hate crying like that and working in customer service, it happens far too often.
The crying of 5 years old girl..
@@bamboo9666 so we can say you have muscle like little boy.
@@bamboo9666 wow, what an intelligent, compassionate thing for you to say to another human being. I bet mommy and daddy are real proud of you. I bet if you had to look an actual person in the face, you'd never say that. How about you show us your face or your actual name? Spineless coward.
Bam boo if we weren’t meant to cry, we wouldn’t have tear ducts. Crying is a release. When you cry, it releases endorphins. Its a natural human response to stress. Other ppl would lash out in a similar situation, especially when they’re made to feel small. Better to cry and pick yourself up than take it out on other ppl. Where you see weakness, I see strength. I wish you growth in your journey. Compassion is the best gift. You’ll get there
Lol
I don't even know her but I feel that she is a beautiful person.
She definitely seems that way. Poor girl :(
I feel the same way
she seems like a sweetheart :(
You never know tho..
her fault is she is reminded him of his ex gf who dumped him i guess
That person broke such an innocent woman. That man or woman must be a karen. A big one.
What's a Karen
@@mikhalwilliams1933 basically dumb people
But this girl is the heather 😃
Oh wait i just said that
@Connection Lost And your comment sound likes your not okay :) (im sorry but im just annoyed by people who exaggeratly complain to nice people.)
Aw! Poor girl! She seems sweet! It’s hard seeing her cry. She’s just doing her job! Be nice people! We are human. We have feelings!
Hello Andrea
How are you doing today?
She look so pure and innocent like a child, it's heartbreaking to see her crying
yeah 🥺
Ikr. She seems so sweet and gentle.
yes
I'd have given her a tight warm hug
Yes, until you marry her.
That feeling when you try to hold your tears and someone comes and ask if you’re okay then you started to cry openly 😭😭😭
Trueee
That's hardest 😭
Ouf... just don't remaind me... I am so happy it was my bestfriend and not someone else how shouldn't know that.
I've never experienced such a situation, I guess nobody asks me if I'm okay huh
@@Kain1805 My friend did and I'm like "Hah! You fell for my acting"
She can't even notice that im actually crying
People should never be scolded for doing their job right.
Or wrong. No one should be scolded regardless. That's utter rude. Rather point out that they have done something wrong but in a normal/rigid tone. Why abuse.
Kelvin Guru bro they work for you so that you can live and this is how ur talking? bro u need to learn ur place
Not hating, but sometimes it is necessary. She's scolded most likely because of a mistake, although being mean is different with scolding.
@Kelvin Guru hOw RiCh ArE u KeLvIn?!
Kelvin Guru they have families to feed and sometimes that’s the only way to feed them. How dare you do “your best” to make them cry? Do you realize how passive aggressive that sounds?
You cannot read another persons heart or mind. A little bit of kindness can make the difference between a person seeing light in the midst of darkness or letting the dark atmosphere around them consume them. Always be ready to show compassion.
I jus don’t get why people scold these people They’re jus doing their work
Especially young people who don't have a lot of experience. People need to be more understanding.
This is what people in the service sectors have to face.
Maybe the driver just having a real bad day exploded some how .Who knows sometime you hurt people unintentional.
@Sami Hag Her Manager is talking to her because She is late for work, then she cried. She can't help but need to continue working with her smiling face. (I don't know if she gets scolded by the driver or not, because we do not see the video that driver was scolding her )
Because the workers follow the rules so they get upset about it
Aww I just wanna give her a hug. People need to keep in mind that staff aren’t the rule maker. They need to put themselves in their shoes before lashing out on innocent ones.
👏💓
So brave!
You might get the virus if you hug her
@@glenndsouza5447 bruh
Perv
In India, toll workers are the one who make drivers cry.
Yeah right
😂 Bhai
I can confirm this is 100% true!
Lol, never been to India but this is hilarious
😂 😂
Those who smile the most, hide the biggest pain -A Wise Man
My mum always used to say to me “manners cost nothing “. Treat others as you would like to be treat. Wise words!
Same.
THIS MADE MY DAY THANKYOU :D HAVE A WONDERFULL LIFE
That pretty words to fool the weakling
@@ifonlyhappinesscouldlast4882 are you from the strongests?
This is an old saying
this poor lady, looks like she was hyperventilating, shame on people for being rude to workers, they're people too!
I read that as "shame on her for being rude to people!" And almost threw hands until I reread it after being confused lol
@@mireya5085 lollolol
Yeah
i hate hyperventilating when i cry cause it makes it 10x harder to stop crying and you can barely control your body 😭 like pleaseeee
Drivers usually have a much harder life than toll booth operaters. We dont even know what she did wrong here.
That man who tried to cheer her up deserves as much love as this woman does.
Thanks
@@KennyGuite what
I agree, it's kind of him to go and console her. She was just doing her job 😔
Reborn you know youre not in the place to bargain here right?
@Reborn Nice way to scam people
She is just a teenage working on her first job after graduated.. So sad. What if she is your daughter.😩 Heartless driver
The worst type of cry is when u need to breathe every second and keep on gasping 💔
Exactly.
And then when u need to explain why you cried but you stutter a lot and gasp, uhh i hate it 💔
100% agree
You might have just said something no one else might have been able to
bruh everytime i cried thats what i do and my mom used to copy me, like if she was hyperventilating :(
I hate it when customers are rude. Who tf raised you? Be kind people!
@Kelvin Guru lol
Kelvin Guru you joking?
Kelvin Guru when did they ask for how much money you have?
@Kelvin Guru I mean it really doesn't help I tell you this, I'm pretty sure it won't have an effect. But you need psychological help for sure, is all I can say.
@Kelvin Guru pale abah kau
Everyone's saying she's someone's daughter and stuff like that you forgot the most important that SHE'S SOMEONE isn't that enough for your respect
Very well said.
Aye.
Very true, but from a chinese stand point, this is how they say it. Because insulting a person also indirectly insults their family (parents). This comes from their filial piety culture.
Exactly just like how people call her pretty like that has anything to do with the situation. Shes a person crying nothing else matters
@@warfighter1988 exactly like if she isn't pretty she doesn't deserve respect?
I was a toll collector for 9 years at the Benjamin Franklin Bridge. The extremes that some people would go to be abusive towards the collectors amazed me. Throwing objects including hot liquids, even heating up coins with a lighter and dumping them from a car ashtray into the collector's hands. People would drive with quarters in their ears, money tucked under their arm pits, bra, pants etc. That being said more people were nice as they stopped to pay and briefly exchange pleasantries.
In mother India tol collectors make drivers cry
😂😂
Oh man that sounds so bad.
@@Squish_that_cat haha yea kinda true
I am a waitress and this group of people treated me terribly the entire time. I couldn’t take it anymore and I went to the back where I broke down crying. I remembered I had other tables that needed me so I came back out. This one couple could tell I had been crying over the mean group of people and they told me it’s gonna be alright and that I was handling the situation ver well and tipped me $30 when their bill was only $12. I can’t even put into words how much that meant to me ❤️❤️
Ashley Kohn aww that’s great! No one deserves any ill treatment tbvh especially people that are just trying to do their job, hope everything goes well for you :))))
itzmeshawn _30 thank you so much! 😊
If I were there, I would have punched that guy troubling you
awww thats so nice :( I am sorry you had to deal with that, customer service really is way harder than people imagine :/
I can relate to you and you really did great. You should always have in mind that a waitress needs skills in communication and thinking. You have both so feel proud and dont let some idiots get the better of you!
This is why we need to be nice to everyone because we really don't know what they are going through .... Everyone's fighting their own battles in life...
I’m crying after watching & im crying whilst reading your message. It’s soo true. Such a reminder this early Sunday morning as I wake up and see the 1st light of the day.Sometimes o feel like I’m the only 1 struggling.
Many customers/clients do not think that way. So sad that they do not know how to show kindness to other people. They think they have the right to be rude bec they are the ones giving you a job.
🥺🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭😭😭 your comment
@@missmelaniesblackrosary i can feel your pain baby😚😚
True,after watching so many anime like fruits basket I understand
Suicide note left by someone who jumped off the Golden Gate Bridge: “I'm going to walk to the bridge. If one person smiles at me on the way, I will not jump.”
Be kind. It makes a difference.
🤲🏻💮
Live in my country...and you will see smiling faces everyday😊 ph
That's sad, but don't depend on other people for your happiness. Cos if that's the case then there aren't enough bridges in this world.
Weak
pure love well if the note is there then he’s probably.. not with us anymore.
Aw she's just a grown up child. And I mean that in the most endearing way possible. I want to give her a hug
Having done this job, I feel for her. People are nasty, rude, flat out physically disgusting.
I agree with you!
so true!
That’s humans for you
some people are. important distinction
@@Blueberryminty all people are. Just depends what day you catch them on.
To the guy who make her cried. She still smile to everyone afterward. What's a lady, take that.
james dinh it’s the guy that tried to comfort her :) but she is one strong person to overcome her emotions :)
Lunar Moony oh, sorry, :(, my bad 😅
@@lunarmoony3278 don't blame him too much, you weren't too specific either.
@@lunarmoony3278 oops my bad, i meant they weren't too specific. they kept referring as him, he, and such.
Your english makes me wanna cry
Also props to the manager, he must be a kind person; the toll worker is comfortable to cry in front of him. Usually we are scared of higher ups, especially in Asian societies, that many of us are not open enough to express our emotions in front of them, let alone having them comfort us.
I noticed that too! Props to him for being so comprehensive
@@camilamorales1939 I would replace that last word in ur sentence with reasonable or lucid, btw first time seeing that word had to search it up if u could also give an explanation what does it mean by ur words I already read google's thought, just wanna learn btw, ty!
True 👍🏻
I'm not afraid of who I am, I'll speak if I need to..if asked about my opinion I'll say with all honesty...
@@Hqmzlch I'm not sure what they meant by comprehensive. Maybe they meant to say "considerate" and autocorrect changed it. Anyway "comprehensive" usually means that someone or something deals with every part of something else. So for example, you could say the manager has a comprehensive understanding of how to manage employees, because he comforted her in a bad moment (unlike a manager who just trains and disciplines employees and doesn't consider their emotional needs). Someone with a comprehensive understanding of how cars work would understand the different parts in a car, different kinds of cars, etc.
This is how one day you become tough, and people call you rude.
Wait, what?
She makes me want to give her a hug and tell her “Everything is going to be alright”.
and then you realize you have been infected by the coronavirus.... sad situation over there in china
You make me want to puke
@@faker3033 😂😂😂😂
Imagine if it was like 3 people in a row that mad, after she corrected herself, and just kept crying even worse
@Club Soda they eat koalas why would they be happy people
Bro this driver probably haven't accomplished a single thing in life and yet he's scolding a poor booth worker. Who tf do you think you are?
I'm a student
He passed elementary school so he already accomplished things lol
@@whore_knee yes but youre still young lol, you still have a lot of potential.
@@betxlvr4836 90% of ppl accomplish that lol.
@@God-hm5dt Well obviously i was just saying 1 accomplishment he did >_
May this angel always keep smiling.
“Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a harder battle.” - Plato
I almost cried when I read this.
Greeks knew a lot, philosophy is the key.
The Analog Kid ya but most of the people I’ve met don’t realize that.
I never said that - Plato
The Analog Kid I’ve met millionaires
Lesson learned here: Be kind to everybody... always. You’re not the only one who’s having a bad day.
It doesnt work like that
@@lazarilic490 it’s basically from the drivers perspective
Indeed true sir
Nah
@@lazarilic490 then you are not a nice person
These people are working very hard to earn bread.
They deserve respect.
Hens Uwis CCP make them like that
@@baymax500 …
And bread
They're getting paid with bread...?
@Gaurav Malviya when I start working my goal is gonna be to get some *BrEaD* not a house just bread.
How innocently she's cried and how strongly she hold back the tears and tried to put smile on her face ✨✨
Yep being a Customer Service was stressful, you deal with everyone problem, and sometimes they pour out their anger to you.
P Jeffery I am imagine that. Some people really don’t hold back when on the phone because they aren’t face to face.
soft.
Ok boomer
Faktorial very true and sometimes you need to deal with people who doesn’t even speak your language very accurate
Trea Montejo it should be require for people to work in customer service. The ones that are rude are the same ones who have never worked in customer service and have no idea what it is like.
I love how the manager spoke to her
Yeah...
Yeah, glad he went to talk and comfort her.
A rare person to sight indeed
Wait..how did yall know he is a manager?
@@preciousnourishment oh haha thanks armin!
To anyone reading this, I hope someday you’ll find a job that makes you want to get up in the morning and be excited about it.
Thank you💙💙💙 means a lot
Thanks a lot
Thank you so much 🙂
Thanks a lot!
Yazzz
I am a student nurse and I get bullied in the clinical area where I do my placement. The worst bit is when I tried to tell my supervisor, I was told that I was a student and that I shouldn't complain. Even patients felt sorry for me. There is alot of unfairness going around in the world. Sometimes I feel like dropping out of uni.
Don't dropout complete your university then try to get low stress jobs.
I don’t get this how do they bully you just ignore them it’s not like school bro
I dropped out of nursing school and don't regret it. I don't want to have to deal with rude patients and coworkers ever. No thank you
How can you abuse that kind of smile
Man cruel world out there
Because there are Monsters everywhere.
Yes im the 1000 like i know no one cares
She's beautiful ❤️
Exactly
I get so sad everytime someone in the customer service industry says to me "thank you for being so patient" like how badly do they get treated that they're thanking me for being a decent human being? 😢
Badly. It builds up until you cry , quit or start swinging.
I say that sometimes when I'm going a bit too slow or a problem happens whenever I'm being a cashier and a bagger. It's my first job so I'm not as fast or skilled as others
Worse than you know that stuff takes a toll😔
Gosh that's horrible. I'm sorry for all the nasty things people say to you guys
Yeah it's crazy how some take it out on cashiers.
I was a cashier/bagged food/cleaned the front house. And some people had the nastiest attitude. I always hated it when they would give me a hard time for the owners raising the prices. Or when the cooks were lazy and let food run out and I had to tell them "oh sorry we dont have that". And they would get mad at me. Or when the cooks would make a mistake in their burrito.
This guy got his nachos put in a Togo box thanks to the cooks instead of it being in a regular plate. He got mad ripped the lid and threw at my coworkers face.
Or when this guys food took a while to get made he got so mad that he threw his bag of salsas over the counter and it splattered every where. I was shocked on that one. Or when we try to mop and we put wet floor signs and some still have the nerve to walk on the wet floor and walk past me. Or complain "why are you mopping I'm here right now" knowing there they can go to their left where its dry.
Poor kid, she's a sweetie & shouldn't have been abused by anyone.
shes a grown woman wdym
@@Cugzayhulls I mean old people can say young adults as kids
@@Cugzayhulls maybe original comment is way older, thus a dress her as a kid
Wait why do u said kid I don't understand
Oh my bless her heart..she doesnt deserve to be treated like that.
Shoulda been a housewife then. That is the reality of a career woman at every level.
This lady has 100% character and integrity. Whoever hired her has discovered gold.
More like do your job or get a hit on your social credit. No buying cars or homes for you.
@jay haha, I know, right?
@jaytrying to laugh again after a cry is a hard job u know, only those with big heart can do that. For u n me we would only be showing our anger to other customers, at least she tried.
@jay because she's a hardworking woman & a professional
@@rikarahmadhania1539 you don't know what you are talking
so basically stop being a Karen
i worked in a huge bakery and trust me even a smile or a nice thank you made my day
Lol I'm a Karen and I promise u I am definitely not THAT Karen 😊
@@karenn5674 a Karen is a Karen. they don't deserve love and so do you
@@vincentdreemurr I think you are the one that needs the love more than I do. 👍
@@karenn5674 shut it karen
@@vincentdreemurr well this is THE only Karen WE can trust.
The way tears work is still intriguing, they won't come when we are hurt, they start pouring when someone starts comforting us about it🥺
an open heart across from a hurting heart helps it open and release the pain. ♥
It's when you come into terms with your emotions
It’s because when people sympathise with you and comfort you, you feel safe.
tears are pain leaving the body
It’s enter to cry than to hold it in…
Poor girl! I wish I could hug her and tell her not to let the awful people of this world hurt so much and tell her also that I'm so proud of her strength and bravery to smile in the wake of her pain. What a beautiful person she must be💕 I hope in the future she is surrounded by love and care 💖
The saddest thing is that everyone who have been through that situation, only few have someone comforting them.
You are so right. I work at a bar and we don't have managers like that, I just have to fake a smile and keep serving.
@@circasurviver3 More power to you, ❤.
*Sending virtual hug from here* .❤❤
my manager would scold me again, probably!
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true
You’re all gonna freak out but, according to my work experience, she should be transfered to a job with minimal human contact, as she seemingly lacks the necessary skill to not take conflict too personal. She obviously has a mental breakdown over it. To be clear, it’s not her fault nor should she be a target for others anger, but that’s how work society is. Everyone, and I mean everyone who works with people, especially new people every day, will be a target of abuse or mobbing sometimes. It’s how it is. Most people can handle it, and find a stress relief after work. Some don’t. Some of those start abusing drugs or gambling. I personally know a few of those. So the best thing we can do to help this pure girl is transfer her to a job more suited to her personality.
There were a few people who came to my dad's funeral and they introduced themselves as janitors, with glistened eyes they said that my dad was the only one who showered them with so much respect and love. Rip Dad
Edit: thank you all for your encouragement and love . You've all made me feel better 100% 🥺💙💙💙
I totally agree with that it happens.
When we are respectful to people who are rich and powerful they think they owed that.
And when we are kind generous to those who are not rich or powerful, they pay back more kindness.
@@keepmovingforward8080 couldn't agree more. Well said, mate !
@@shirleyrobert2987 yes ☺️
Your dad has beautiful soul. I hope you pass on his kind & emphatic traits. RIP
@@wmmv2019 true. Now there's a new problem , my dad's non biological relatives claim that my mum had killed my dad. But the truth is different, my dad died in my mothers arms, my mum is a very beautiful soul. I'm just feeling so lost rn and my mother's feeling even worse for being blamed blindly for what she hasn't done 😔
It's the worst feeling to have those uncontrollable gasp-sobs. It's impossible to force them to stop or to hide them, and they always seem to get worse when someone is there. So so humiliating.
And trying to talk in between. And ur words coming out all jumbled
Yeah my mom instead smacks me to stop doing it
I know
That means you're fighting your emotions, which makes it even worse. Just let it out and don't bottle up your emotions because they WILL come back to haunt you if you keep at it... as someone whos going through therapy for doing that for the majority of my life I can tell you... Just dont its not worth it and if someone doesn't agree with you showing it or letting it out then they are not the type of people you need in your life, PERIOD! You are the only thing that is most important in life (until you have children) so take care of yourself! Because you can't take care of others if you don't take care of yourself first!
I used to cry like that and it was very difficult to stop, my mom always forces me to stop the crying even though i couldn't she would get more and more angry at me the more i cry, so she gets more angry and the cycle continue until i just turn my back or get in my bed to block my view.
She's awesome. It takes some serious inner strength to pull yourself together and smile when you're that upset. This whole thing reflects really badly on the drivers who hurled abuse at someone just doing their job but it reflects brilliantly on her for handling it.
Also, I like that the manager came to comfort her. You need to look out for your people!
I used to work at a fast food chain and a woman who worked for doordash yelled at me for nothing and because "I" didn't work fast enough she told me to learn how to do my job and that I was worthless. I was raised in a verbally abusive home and I held back the tears. My manager noticed I was crying and I explained to her the situation. The next day I came into my work and my coworker said they had fired the lady for her nasty attitude because I wasn't the only one. My manger told me I wasn't worthless and I worked so hard. It meant a lot. So thank you for all the supportive managers out there.
😉
The people around u got ur back
Love the story! But spell manager right atleast . We aren’t talking mangers here we aren’t In a barn .
As a service staff this is so relatable.
@@Revan-cn9ej what if english isn’t her first language? are people still so dumb to point out someone’s spelling and grammatical mistakes where it is absolutely not necessary?
It's not easy living in this world, she didn't deserve to be mistreated .
Lesedi Gaogane you don’t know she was ‘mistreated’.
It's easy living and enjoying in this world. You realize the sad because you were happy once. There are both the aspects to living and we should be strong with everything.
@@willcookson2194 how you missed this 1 minute video say she was abused... idk.
Will Cookson we do
did you not read the part where it said she was abused by drivers?
What does it abuses like physically or?!
I got yelled at and that thing literally ruined my whole week because i couldn’t stop thinking if it was my fault . This really takes a toll on a person’s mental health
Hi, you’re not alone. This happened to me a month and a bit ago and it still ruins my mood at times. But how other people react to us isn’t necessarily a statement about ourselves, but a statement about them.
@@swanepoel4714 And remember that others are not always correct in their judgements and reactions.
That happened to me as well when i was working in a restaurant ..even now i can help but to think about it whenever i remembered a certain tune that was played that day…it just keep coming back
It really does. I work at a museum at the front desk and I got shouted at once and the vile woman told me I was disrespectful at bad at my job. The sad thing was that I had a wonderful interaction with her daughter just an hour earlier, she was so embarrassed.. These things upset me but I have become more used to it. I found out a year ago I have social anxiety, and it can turn bad when I’m stressed. I’ve decided to not work in service my whole career. But I’m also kinda stuck there since it’s the only thing I’ve done in my career. Strength to all of you in this comment section ❤
Hmm, soft as baby faeces springs to mind here
I don't pity her. Instead im proud and inspired. Such a strong woman
Above average but average at best.
As my mom says “all it takes is one person to ruin your day.” Sometimes even one person being nice isn’t enough to cheer people up
Well said. Hate is easy and kindness is hard.
It's so true :(
The other day I went to get a blood test because I'm ill, and I was tired and worried for my health and studies that are affected by my health and I accidentally bumped into a woman with the car door and I apologized many times but she gave me the coldest look and I couldn't stop crying after that because it really wasn't necessary to be mean like that
@@myheartwillstopinjoy8142 I hope you are doing well now. Sometimes its just better to leave it be and relax.
Sounds like y'all needa man tf up. Y'all are adults
@@sleeperboi8701 It takes TIME. Not everyone comes to a point instantly. There are more factors as well.
She is so generous. Someone made her upset and she would not pass the bad mood to another person.
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it’s tough working in customer service, we have to force ourselves to smile and remain calm when a customer throws words at us. i salute this girl!
Sorry but you can't complain about something you're been paid for and you voluntarily agree to do. Makes no sense. If it's tough move to a different job.
If it's to her and get another job that's your fault if you stay
It's her own fault
@@JT-xj1pg some people are forced into jobs they dont want to do just so they can earn money, just because you can be mean to people and have no consequence to it doesnt mean you should be.
@@orange1293 preach 👏🏼
I've been in this situation several times. I'm a teacher and not once did I have to gather my courage to face my students after being treated unfairly by my supervisor. It's hard to smile while you are crying inside.
When you breath like that while crying, it shows you were holding it in.
I was like this when I got bullied on high school
@@jesrelsanchez1010 are you male or female?
Al Thomas everytime ..
@@101-r4k1u male
@@jesrelsanchez1010 why you not just punch them instead of crying, in indonesia we just grab a sword and fight the bully ( tawuran ) ( by one di tempat sepi )
The worse part is that there’s many more people out there like her forcing themselves to smile for the sake of other people not worrying about them.
Welcome to service-based economy!
that's the reason you have to be nice to everyone, you know
never know what somebody is going thru
Ngl it's why I like wearing mask now. Because if you have to deal with someone whose literally brutalized you for doing job. You dont have to force a smile on your face for next person. You can focus on the job x
welcome to life.
"Forcing themselves to smile for the communist party" there I fixed it for ya
Who TF cares that she's young and pretty, she was a person in distress
I was thinking the same thing. How come whenever there's a story about a young woman, her looks are always brought into it? As if that's the most important factor in her struggles as a person? It's insulting.
ikr!
VultureClone because people are so shallow.. they dont care about anything except looks
Because as I put in my comment, there are some very jealous people about and it might have been someone jealous of her beauty, being nasty to her for nothing other than envy.
Thank you, I wanted to write this but checked beforehand so I wouldn't double comment. Outer appearance has nothing to do with how we should treat people. Thats whats wrong with the world now
I’ve learned that people who are verbally abusive to people have not emotionally grown up. When your child throws a temper tantrum, teach them how to handle their emotions. If you yourself don’t know how then you need to learn because they need your help so they can be mature adults.
I use to work in customer service and had to deal with disrespectful from men and women and sometimes I can tell they wanted to get physically abusive. Smh.
It saddens me that this young lady and many others go through this and I will be forever grateful for my experience in the customer service field. It has taught me a great deal in human relations.
"Don't forget that service staff are people too" - No one in America ever
Right!?? Totally!!
@@AaronFromGuildford sadly, yes. I speak from my experience in a call center. Mostly rude, entitled customers. I can relate to this woman, putting up a great attitude while you have people treating you like you are beneath them. Yeah it may not be about you, but the constant abuse gets to you eventually.
ScopeDog KAREN
Even Canada!!!
DonovanAenslaed. True, especially boomers, they’re the rudest customers
I can’t believe she’s that strong to hide her tears, she deserves better.
That'll be 50$ for the can of soda. Dont argue with me Mr. Customer.
AHAHAH you just described ALL of customer service. Tbh she IS strong, but when you say that, include the rest of those working in customer service
Your like count is on 666, you are welcome.
*“Smiles are not always the best medicine. It can also be the best disguise.”*
Nice
;((
It is for millions of people.. smiling doesn't mean someone's okay
@@darkcosmos8476 that's so true, i can relate much 😢
Relatable.
Hope the driver apologizes. She is so sweet and kind.
Yea I worked at McDonald’s and so many people were rude to me. I’ve cried in the back because people just act like they are so much better than you and it puts you down. It’s sad because they keep tissues in the back for the workers if they start crying. Please be kind to people!
Spit in their food, clearly they're don't treat you like a human, so why should you? But for customers like me, thank you for your hard work, especially in these times. 😊👍
ChainL!nkz thank you so much! Really appreciated. I try my best to be as nice as possible. :)
I feel you, I worked there a few years ago and people can be extremely mean and ungrateful
ChainL!nkz if you’re honestly recommending this I hope u get extra mayo every time you order fast food
@@Aatish2k8 nah, if she spits on a customers food then it means that she's just exchanging the rudeness to them. It isn't always right to be bad to the customers just because they're bad to you. You should always treat them with kindness even if they're toxic in able to be the "bigger man".
No matter what the job is, when you see a person working remember that is someone’s child.
there are 2 types of Customers:
1.) Kind and Understanding
2.) Rude and doesnt give a fak BUT
theres also 2 type of Workers:
1.) Kind and Helpful
2.) Rude and disrespectful
nah remember that’s a living person, like yourself
So what
Thanks for reminding me that.
Yea remember that they’re human like us
This is why I left customer service and refuse to return. It’s not natural to force emotions. If you’re hurt, you deserve to have your moment. I’m not doing this to myself anymore.
Exactly right! They should be able to defend themselves without the fear of losing their job.
Girl, I worked at four different Starbucks. If it’s not the customers it’s the manager and staff. I refuse to do customer service ever again!
Agree. I used to work in phone customer service it was horrible, people shouting to you, insulting, treating you like garbage and it's no even because you did something wrong! They are just angry with the company but you are the one they blame :(
@@maatascended47 yes! Walk away, it’s so many other opportunities out here that also pay well where there’s little to NO public interaction.
@@naomi-USA yep, i got sick of apologizing for mistakes that weren’t my own and taking abuse from strangers.
Seeing this my throat got sore and oh! this heart ache....but the way she took breathe and tried to smile and got back to work is everything.
Poor thing. I've been there. Atlesst she can pull herself together so quickly. Doin a great job, girl!
I swear!
Shouldn't do it too often though... It's not very healthy for the mind (I think) to put up a front like that...
Totally agree. I just mean at work you have to push through it sometimes.
@James You've been listening to too much Western govt propaganda...
James no, your comment wasn’t funny.
She looks just like a child crying. That makes me even more sad. I remember being young and thinking that the world is a wonderful place where everyone is happy helping each other and everyone's smiling. I miss those days
Same.
Not same
Same
,😰😢😭
The world is a mean and nasty place.
Welcome to customer service: You're forced to smile while people treat you like garbage.
That seems like an awesome job
The plot of my life.
I am pretty sure she was not forced since the manager came to comfort her
😂 im a flight attendant and I know what it feels but I LOVE my job.
Yeah go to the extreme in customer service that's not liveable wage.
She’s so beautiful she didn’t deserve that 😢
To all the entitled people out there who start yelling and always wanna speak to the manager, this is what you can cause behind the scenes.
Just because you're the customer doesn't mean you're always right and just because people get paid to do that job, doesn't give you the right to treat them inhumanely.
Edit: Why is it a DEBATE when it comes to people treating other people right? If yall dont agree with me, just dislike and leave aint nobody gonna make treating people right, wrong.
this is to all the karens out there
Your right man my manager is a male Karen I work at a paintball field and he will try and pay his employees with paintballs
Well said!!!
Well said. ❤
I worked at McDonald's from when I was 16-22, during high school until I graduated college... it's a real eye opener into the real world and I am grateful for it because it made me a stronger and better person. I have the utmost respect for customer service because it really is a thankless job.