HOW?! Seriously, how can you become jealous of a cat?!?! My fiancé had cats before we met and she takes soooo good care of them. They seem to have adopted me as their father/slave. I feel so honored.
You'd be surprised how many people (in my case women) say that. Like dude I love my cats one way and I will love you in another way, why is it an issue? I will never ever give up a pet for a gf. The pet is a family member, no random girl will take its place.
Some people have such issues that the attention a pet gets, makes them jealous.... They may have attachment issues or just can't stand seeing their partner give too much attention to someone (or something) else. It's messed up, I know. However SOME people treat their pets waaaayy better than their partner. The "jealousy" isn't really about the pet, but the fact that they don't get any attention at all
My ex was VERY jealous of my heart dog, who I was always cuddling with. He even made a comment once when the dog was laying between my legs in bed. "You're letting him lay there like that?!" As if there was something wrong or sexual about it. What an insecure freak. He always asked me who I loved more, and I always told him he didn't want to know the answer.
Years ago, went on a date with a girl from POF. We had texted, talked, and flirted for a couple weeks, and decided to meet for a dinner date one night. Picked her up at her place, and we went to Applebee's. Seemed like everything went well, we had a good time, food was good, had some great conversations. Drove her back to her place afterwards, walked her to the door, gave her a hug and quick kiss. Later that night, texted her, and she responded "umm I'm not sure if I'm feeling this. I didn't care for the way you acted." I was quite puzzled, and asked her what she meant. She responded with something like "well, you opened the door and went in first, you didn't hold the door open for me, or pull out my chair, or anything." I tried to salvage the situation, and said something like "I didn't realize that was such a big thing to you," but got no response. She texted me randomly a few weeks later, saying that she was stressed, and asking if I knew anyone she could buy drugs from. No idea what her deal was, but somehow can't feel like I dodged a bullet.
@@tonychan8558 Agreed. If you pursue too much, you're smothering them and being creepy, if you don't pursue enough, you're not "chasing" and earning her. Ultimately, need to put your goals, passions, and career first and be happy with yourself, and then worry about finding someone you like to be along for the ride.
My best friend was accused of rape after a POF encounter. His Text messages proved him innocent. The judge saw right through her as she kept on telling lies in an official capacity. I'm sure if it were someone else it would have been believable to an extent. However, my friend has Aspergers and the things she was insinuating were completely out of character for him. Plus he has a security camera in his living room with audio that totally saved him from her lies.
"Those who dont trust others, are'nt very trustworthy themselfs" Feels like that person had the privilege of not being backstabbed by people he trusted that much.
Not a relationship, but a friendship. She constantly punched me in the upper arm every time she wanted to make a point. I told her to stop hitting me again and again and again. Her response? 'I didn't hit you THAT hard. Don't be such a pussy'. Final straw was when she threw a shoe at me. I asked her if the tables were turned, what would she do. In an instant, she said she would call the police if I ever hit her. Even with this reasoning, she still doesn't think she did anything wrong to this day. Noped out of that friendship.
This mentality is not uncommon and I think it stems from the fact that as children, boys are taught specifically not to hit girls under any circumstances whatsoever (rather than, you know, being taught not to hit other people in general) whereas girls are never taught not to hit boys. As a result, there are girls who grow up thinking that they can hit the opposite sex as much as they want because they know there won’t be ramifications, because boys won’t dare lay a hand on them. I understand to some extent why this rule exists- males do tend to be physically stronger than females, especially as adults. But unfortunately there are girls and women who abuse this rule.
@@DarkPrince784 Case in point Amber heard. shesh now a days i say if a dumb broad throws the first punch they get a punch back i dont care if your a girl or not you play dumb games you get dumb prizes.
I'm sorry you dealt with that. Unfortunately, most of us are working on recognizing where society went wrong and figuring out how to fix it. A lot of toxic teachings over the years and decades. Glad you're out of that
My first ever relationship. He was much older than me (9 years difference) we were about to live together. He started to mess with my head. For example he hid something like a jar or a cup and tried to tell me that i put it there, trying to make me sound crazy "are you sure it was there when you last saw it? I saw you putting it somewhere else" etc then it escalated to him breaking things and then trying to blame me "it wouldnt fell if you put it correctly, its your fault, you didnt close the fridge door" if you forget one more time im gonna hit you, etc. I knew i didnt do these things but he wouldnt talk to me for days if i wouldnt take the blame, apologise and make up to him. He was ghastlightning me in literal sense. I started to thing that im going crazy, that i have memory problems and so on. One day when he was drunk he told me with a genuine smile on his face that "he just loves making me cry and seeing me hurt and confused and crying brings him so much happiness that he cant even describe the feeling". I just stood there mouth open, shocked while he went to bed and at that moment it clicked for me you have to get out of here. The next day i broke it up with him, he went to my job basically begging me to come back and i asked him "do you truly regret how did you treated me and will apologize to me?" At a second, he stopped "crying" got up from his kness, his face totally emotionless and said nothing. "Then its over you can go now, i wont let you make my cry everyday go find another victim" and he left. That was my first ever relationship i was really scarred after that, was terrified of people especially men. I couldnt trust people, i was shut down for 4 years after that. Didnt talk to anyone. I still have trust issues but im in a really wonderful relationship now and now i cry sometimes but from happiness
I was accidentally the crazy ex. A guy I was seeing while I was in nursing school was pretty adamantly non-religious (we agreed on that) and felt uncomfortable around people who were very religious. Fine with me, i like philosophical discussions but i ultimately don't have a dog in that race. One day he's helping me study flashcard for an exam, and I'm super sick with a sinus and ear infection so I can't really hear and my brain feels like pudding. He suddenly asks me to explain how catholicism works, i guessed because my family is catholic and he was raised a different religion, and I was surprised but explained what I remembered from my childhood. He gave me a super weird look, like sooo uncomfortable, and I reassure him that we don't have to talk about it anymore if he doesn't want to, and ask him to do another flashcard. After that I don't hear from him for weeks, he blocks me on everything. I'm bummed and confused but figured it was his business and moved on. Years later, a mutual acquaintance tells me about how his buddy (the same guy) had told him about a crazy girl who tried to convert him into catholicism and it weirded him out. I ask for more details. Turned out he had asked the girl (me) to explain *CATHETERIZATION*, a very common medical procedure, from my study flashcard, and I had just started spouting off about salvation and Satan and repentance and noped out. Ooops.
Y’know a small part of me gets the feeling that in some of these stories the exes were trying to get out of the relationship by saying or doing the most bizarre shit possible to get them to leave
@@DarkPrince784 I think it was more looking for a reason than excuse. When people lead relatively easy lives it is hard for them to contemplate how dark things can get.
Years ago I dated a guy who was 11 years older than me. He was nice but got drunk on the first date. Told me later that he got drunk because he was nervous. I gave him another chance... And after three months I left because I discovered he had a huge issue wish alcohol, could get angry really quick when I had panic attack, and he even got super angry at me when I told him I was worried about his drinking habit... So I nopped out of there and I'm currently in a 5 years relationship with a dream like guy.
This was a friend but I had to nope out. I kind of got the feeling he wanted a relationship though. Mainly because he would want to spend the night and spoon. I never made a move because I thought we were just friends. He had a fight with his family over keeping his little dog and I offered to let him split rent and move in with me and my cousin. I said we can throw out the couch since its old and put a bed downstairs because there were only two rooms. He said can't I sleep with you in your bed. I said ok, I used to sleep in my bed with my best friend so I didn't think it was a big deal. I asked him to take me to Walmart to pay something and to buy some window fluid for my car. He said, give me the money and I'll go pay while you look for the fluid. I didn't really like that since it's my money and my bill but I said ok sure. He came back and gave me the money because the place to pay was closed and I counted it and put it back in my pocket. He flipped nutz that I didn't trust him. I pointed out I just offered to let him move into my own room and I always count money when i get it, I was a cashier for many years and it is habit besides if someone makes a mistake and I don't catch it until later then it will make needless static. Anyway he yelled at me in Walmart walked out super fast and I refused to walk faster to catch up, he dropped me off, yelled again, got his dog and left. He had been my only ride to work so I had to quit to find something closer and a few months later he had the nerve to say I should have called him for help instead of quit. Sure. Like I would beg his crazy azz to pick me up when he has anger issue and is much bigger than me. And I am not small. He was both very tall and muscular and I am not putting myself into the position to be beaten.
Had an ex that ruin her own (NEW) car on purpose by putting diesel in the gas tank, drove it to work (we both work in the same place) and waited for me to come out. When I finally walked out, she came running to me asking me to take a look at her car. I didn't know what was wrong with it. Didn't want to start up and ended up giving her a ride home. She was trying to start something by holding my hand when I drop her off. Didn't find out about the gas until she called me to me the status on her car (as if I'm paying for the fucking thing) and that's when she said the mechanic found diesel in the tank. Still work in the same place. Still see her everyday. Still pist at me for not getting her pregnant. I'm not the smartest man in the world but I know when someone is trying to baby trap me.
A male friend was seeing a girl he had crush on for a little while. They were more then friends but not officially dating. Up until he broke it off. Apparently while they were trying to passionately hug for the first time, she admired she had a rape fetish and she wanted him to force himself onto her. He was very uncomfortable with that and left as soon as he could.
I hate running but I'd run home without stopping. Rape fantasies are weird and dangerous. What if a switch flips in her had and claims rape while having secretly recorded you? Never ever mess with that..
I've had multiple girlfriends with this kink. I don't feel it's uncommon, and I don't feel like it's that crazy either. We all have weird things that turn us on, and as long as it doesn't hurt anyone, it's fine.
I used to date someone. They had a weird obsession with the color green. When I asked them why that was, they replied “Green is the color of Envy” Later found out they had a strange obsession with being envious of others. Which I never really understood, but they were also really overly possessive of me to the point I kept me paranoid.
Let’s see. - She cried when I didn’t want to be BF/GF after a few dates (I said I didn’t want to be her boyfriend YET.) - I fell for her manipulation and asked her out the next day - She proceeded to pretty much shame me for having a photographic vision - Talked shit about my best friend without meeting him because he was a different political party than her, yet expected me to be cool around her religious friend and his wife (I’m agnostic.) Might I add that she used to date this guy and was getting all dolled up for him. - She wanted to move in after graduating college, which at that point, we had been dating for a couple months. But hey, I’m the subject of a TikTok video that gave her a bunch of views and follows, so there’s that.
Was engaged to this guy for 5 years and lived together. I usually take my engagement ring off when I went to work (I worked in a pizzeria so I didn't want it getting all dirty) but right after work I was going to board a train to visit friends in Toronto who I hadn't seen in years (the only train I could get made it so I couldn't go back home first) he knew I was going to visit friends... but when he saw I didn't have my engagement ring, he blew up my phone and accused me of cheating and giving off really threatening vibes. My friends overheard this and told me "is he always like this?" And it kind of dawned on me that he actually was. Called my mom who lived 2 hours away and she and my grandma sped up to meet me at the station where they said my now ex was circling the station waiting for me with a derranged look
I just no ped the fuck outta a relationship with a dude who told me he was waiting for my dog to die so I could move in with him, none of this was discussed lol, worse was because it was 3 days after my dog died, and I had found another and was considering keeping her, if I didn't find her person with a good reason for her being skin and bones
2:58 Even if it's a joint account, you're only responsible for transactions with your signature; you can literally audit the credit company and divide up the debt appropriately. My source is a lawyer from Shell Gasoline.
Never confirmed it but I'm pretty sure she shared our private "activities" with her family, Started to notice when both her parents gave me a smirk and called me stud her mom gave me a wink and her dad a pad in the back called me their son after just 2 months and when ever we ate with her parents her mom proceeds to stuff my plate stating that big strong men need to fuel up for a hards nights work... She was an only child and spoke of her parents like her best friends Yeah Nope!
Ooh ohh this is my tome to shine. 1. The first one i dont remember what he got angry over but we were driving up to a family vacation and we were on a highway bridge and he jerks the steering wheel of his 7in lifted truck towards the side of the bridge saying "i could drive both of us off this bridge rn" 2. I told him that my mom wanted to have a family trip just her me and my siblings and he told me i wasnt allowed to go and if i did we would break up. 3. On christmas eve we were at his grandparents and i got a message on Instagram from my best friends brother who replied to my political story saying how he agreed with it and my bf sees it and starts screaming im a whore, cheater, slut and pulls a knife on himself in front of his grandma. 4. I asked him if i could take a fun road trip with my best friend to the beach (he was asleep when i texted him the question) at 4am my mom comes into my room telling me he called my mom 6 times and then saw 20 threatening texts on my phone from him saying I wasnt allowed to go blah blah blah. He also called my best friend screaming at her. He called me screaming at me as well. 5. He got jealous of my mom bc she has a successful career and work and struggled to get to the point shes at now and he started calling her names and saying horrible stuff bc he grew up in a bad home (my mom grew up in a bad home too) I was with him through all of this over a year of this. But him calling my mom at 4am and screaming at my best friend over the phone was my limit. I ended it with him the next day.
I dated a girl for a summer. She sometimes said things that made no sense or drew conclusions from random things. Sometimes she got angry out of the blue. When I broke up with her I said, I'm sorry but you're too crazy for even me. She got crazier over the years and was completely dependent on her parents. She began having catatonic episodes where she would shut down for a while. She died in her thirties and I think she overdosed on her prescription medicine.
I realized he was controlling everything I did, keeping my physically apart from my family and friends by moving me away long distance and then having HIS family move close to us. Plus he knew all his coworkers, I had to start over. He also criticized every. single. thing I did, from my appearance to how I cooked in the microwave. Hw was slowly driving me nuts and killing my self esteem. As my health began to decline and he was completely insensitive and did nothing to help me around the house or with our pets, it was clear he wasn't the person he represented himself to be before we lived together and he had me far from home and isolated. He knew I had health problems and may need to stop working eventually, but then he said if I didn't work he would leave me. So I called his bluff and left him first. I'd been miserable for a long time, and he gave me my excuse and the courage to call home and ask for helping moving back. My dad was on a plane the next morning and we drove my car towing a small U-Haul. Best thing I ever could have done for myself, and for my Mom who missed me as much as I missed her those 5 years away. His family was stuck up and cold, and I could always tell they didn't think I was good enough (read: My parents weren't wealthy enough) for their son.
10:12 You should have started barging in on him every time he took a dump and just stared at him. But seriously, smart move getting away from that creep. 22:34 If a TA asks out a student, report them. They can and should be fired for even asking out a student
After two dates with a woman it was far beyond the point of giving her the benefit of the doubt (told me she’d been having a rough couple of weeks). Through someone that knew her well who I also happened to know, it came out that she lied about having a Master’s Degree and also about where she worked! There was no third date.
Years ago, I went to a halloween party where my gf at the time proceeded to make a bunch of suicide jokes in a room full of people she didn’t know. Someone even spoke up and told her to shut up. I was mortified and knew I was done with her then.
Four times in one day? Look, I love the thrills I get from Avatar: Flight of Passage and GotG: Cosmic Rewind, but if the wait times are that consistently long, bet your waxed turtle shell I'm doing at least something different the rest of the day. You might like Seven Dwarves Mine Train, but at least let me have my Sci-Fi Drive In.
Alot of ex friends only took and took and never gave and exes well they kept telling me stuff that never added up so yea that was the problem that i cut out
It's SO GOOD that these people read the signs. I've known people realise that the other person has serious mental issues and STILL MARRY THEM. Guess what, it does NOT lead to happiness. On this, I've known people really close to me and it's terrible all round.
Dated a guy for awhile who told me it wasn't right for a woman to be intelligent. I wasn't about to stifle who I was, and he didn't like it. Broke it off, and nearly 20 years later married the right guy, one who loves the fact that I'm intelligent, and we've been married almost 25 years.
Aye the girl that wanted to do it in the woods prolly just wanted to be in control of her trauma. It's not uncommon to try and recreate the situations we were in to get over them.
Worshipped Corey Taylor from Slipknot like he was God. Like no joke literal worshipping the man. I mean I like Slipknot and Stone Sour as much as the next guy but there has to be a limit on how diehard someone should be as a fan.
yeah,found out my ex was a pathological liar after 3 years of marriage..She was a single mother when we met.I should have known since a spent a week in jail after our divorce..
Just to be clear I’m the crazy one(I have ptsd and highly functioning sociopath) and I have always been clear with anyone that I date that I’m not dangerous but I do have issues. My now wife then possible girlfriend went to a Comic-Con with her family (her family has known me for years and know I have issues) Part her costume had a corset as part of it. she must have tightened it to much, because she couldn’t breathe. I grabbed her and pulled her behind a curtain to cut her loose while giving her some levels of Montasy. Unfortunately he dad say me pull her behind a curtain and stormed over to break it up only to find me sawing through her costume. I was on the group with a torn rotator cuff😅. Luckily she explained what happened and know she complains in a joking way that I spent too much time with her father
Went on a second date with a guy I kinda liked...I knew he had a criminal record but he "didn't want to talk about it". I had a weird feeling about it so I did a quick search..... yep. Something about using a computer to entice a minor. On the sex offender registry. That was it. (I had a young child who hadn't met him yet but he knew I was a single mother)
Dated a woman for about a month. After a lot of communication and dates we decided to take things further by becoming physical in the best sense of the word. The night comes and we're both ready. I forgot the condoms and left them in the other room. When I mention this she responds by saying. "It doesn't matter, I don't care if I get pregnant." Instant reevaluation of plans and did not go all the way with her that night or in the future. I mean, if a woman is that flippant about getting pregnant she's either trying to trap you or has the intelligence of a mentally challenge Koala bear. I noped out soon after.
Anyone else think the communal space story got a wrong rating? If my community communal area was completely in use I'd be upset too considering its for residents to use and if they don't have access that to more than just a corner the party is probably too big for the area. Communal doesn't mean you can claim the whole area. One grill should be enough, taking both is ridiculous.
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HOW?! Seriously, how can you become jealous of a cat?!?! My fiancé had cats before we met and she takes soooo good care of them. They seem to have adopted me as their father/slave. I feel so honored.
You'd be surprised how many people (in my case women) say that. Like dude I love my cats one way and I will love you in another way, why is it an issue? I will never ever give up a pet for a gf. The pet is a family member, no random girl will take its place.
Some people have such issues that the attention a pet gets, makes them jealous.... They may have attachment issues or just can't stand seeing their partner give too much attention to someone (or something) else. It's messed up, I know. However SOME people treat their pets waaaayy better than their partner. The "jealousy" isn't really about the pet, but the fact that they don't get any attention at all
My ex was VERY jealous of my heart dog, who I was always cuddling with. He even made a comment once when the dog was laying between my legs in bed. "You're letting him lay there like that?!" As if there was something wrong or sexual about it. What an insecure freak. He always asked me who I loved more, and I always told him he didn't want to know the answer.
It makes more sense to be jealous of who your cats love more 😂
Years ago, went on a date with a girl from POF. We had texted, talked, and flirted for a couple weeks, and decided to meet for a dinner date one night. Picked her up at her place, and we went to Applebee's. Seemed like everything went well, we had a good time, food was good, had some great conversations. Drove her back to her place afterwards, walked her to the door, gave her a hug and quick kiss. Later that night, texted her, and she responded "umm I'm not sure if I'm feeling this. I didn't care for the way you acted." I was quite puzzled, and asked her what she meant. She responded with something like "well, you opened the door and went in first, you didn't hold the door open for me, or pull out my chair, or anything." I tried to salvage the situation, and said something like "I didn't realize that was such a big thing to you," but got no response. She texted me randomly a few weeks later, saying that she was stressed, and asking if I knew anyone she could buy drugs from. No idea what her deal was, but somehow can't feel like I dodged a bullet.
hello fellow somewhat late man
Bro Dodged a tactical nuke
I was told by a date NOT to open doors or pull out a chair for her. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Us men can't win!
@@tonychan8558 Agreed. If you pursue too much, you're smothering them and being creepy, if you don't pursue enough, you're not "chasing" and earning her. Ultimately, need to put your goals, passions, and career first and be happy with yourself, and then worry about finding someone you like to be along for the ride.
Maybe but you still need to learn proper manners. She was right about that.
My best friend was accused of rape after a POF encounter. His Text messages proved him innocent. The judge saw right through her as she kept on telling lies in an official capacity. I'm sure if it were someone else it would have been believable to an extent. However, my friend has Aspergers and the things she was insinuating were completely out of character for him. Plus he has a security camera in his living room with audio that totally saved him from her lies.
That's a smart investment, props to your friend and I hoped that girl got in serious trouble
I Hope she got in trouble !
My god 😲😲
"Those who dont trust others, are'nt very trustworthy themselfs"
Feels like that person had the privilege of not being backstabbed by people he trusted that much.
Not a relationship, but a friendship. She constantly punched me in the upper arm every time she wanted to make a point. I told her to stop hitting me again and again and again. Her response? 'I didn't hit you THAT hard. Don't be such a pussy'. Final straw was when she threw a shoe at me.
I asked her if the tables were turned, what would she do. In an instant, she said she would call the police if I ever hit her. Even with this reasoning, she still doesn't think she did anything wrong to this day. Noped out of that friendship.
This mentality is not uncommon and I think it stems from the fact that as children, boys are taught specifically not to hit girls under any circumstances whatsoever (rather than, you know, being taught not to hit other people in general) whereas girls are never taught not to hit boys.
As a result, there are girls who grow up thinking that they can hit the opposite sex as much as they want because they know there won’t be ramifications, because boys won’t dare lay a hand on them.
I understand to some extent why this rule exists- males do tend to be physically stronger than females, especially as adults. But unfortunately there are girls and women who abuse this rule.
@@DarkPrince784 Case in point Amber heard. shesh now a days i say if a dumb broad throws the first punch they get a punch back i dont care if your a girl or not you play dumb games you get dumb prizes.
I'm sorry you dealt with that. Unfortunately, most of us are working on recognizing where society went wrong and figuring out how to fix it. A lot of toxic teachings over the years and decades. Glad you're out of that
Sounds like my ex and she asked why I brought a friend with me to grab my stuff.
My first ever relationship. He was much older than me (9 years difference) we were about to live together. He started to mess with my head. For example he hid something like a jar or a cup and tried to tell me that i put it there, trying to make me sound crazy "are you sure it was there when you last saw it? I saw you putting it somewhere else" etc then it escalated to him breaking things and then trying to blame me "it wouldnt fell if you put it correctly, its your fault, you didnt close the fridge door" if you forget one more time im gonna hit you, etc. I knew i didnt do these things but he wouldnt talk to me for days if i wouldnt take the blame, apologise and make up to him. He was ghastlightning me in literal sense. I started to thing that im going crazy, that i have memory problems and so on. One day when he was drunk he told me with a genuine smile on his face that "he just loves making me cry and seeing me hurt and confused and crying brings him so much happiness that he cant even describe the feeling". I just stood there mouth open, shocked while he went to bed and at that moment it clicked for me you have to get out of here. The next day i broke it up with him, he went to my job basically begging me to come back and i asked him "do you truly regret how did you treated me and will apologize to me?" At a second, he stopped "crying" got up from his kness, his face totally emotionless and said nothing. "Then its over you can go now, i wont let you make my cry everyday go find another victim" and he left. That was my first ever relationship i was really scarred after that, was terrified of people especially men. I couldnt trust people, i was shut down for 4 years after that. Didnt talk to anyone. I still have trust issues but im in a really wonderful relationship now and now i cry sometimes but from happiness
I was accidentally the crazy ex. A guy I was seeing while I was in nursing school was pretty adamantly non-religious (we agreed on that) and felt uncomfortable around people who were very religious. Fine with me, i like philosophical discussions but i ultimately don't have a dog in that race. One day he's helping me study flashcard for an exam, and I'm super sick with a sinus and ear infection so I can't really hear and my brain feels like pudding. He suddenly asks me to explain how catholicism works, i guessed because my family is catholic and he was raised a different religion, and I was surprised but explained what I remembered from my childhood. He gave me a super weird look, like sooo uncomfortable, and I reassure him that we don't have to talk about it anymore if he doesn't want to, and ask him to do another flashcard. After that I don't hear from him for weeks, he blocks me on everything. I'm bummed and confused but figured it was his business and moved on. Years later, a mutual acquaintance tells me about how his buddy (the same guy) had told him about a crazy girl who tried to convert him into catholicism and it weirded him out. I ask for more details. Turned out he had asked the girl (me) to explain *CATHETERIZATION*, a very common medical procedure, from my study flashcard, and I had just started spouting off about salvation and Satan and repentance and noped out. Ooops.
*Accidentally?????*
@@Osai1234 when you have an ea infection it can be hard to understand what they said,but she should've asked them to repeat the question.
Y’know a small part of me gets the feeling that in some of these stories the exes were trying to get out of the relationship by saying or doing the most bizarre shit possible to get them to leave
honestly if you're willing to go to all these lengths to avoid just leaving them yourself, you might still just be genuinely crazy
That's funny, because I got the impression that a couple of the posters were actually the crazy ones.
The fact that you’re looking for an excuse to justify unhinged behavior in a relationship is a bit worrying.
@@DarkPrince784 way to miss the point
@@DarkPrince784 I think it was more looking for a reason than excuse. When people lead relatively easy lives it is hard for them to contemplate how dark things can get.
I like to think the cat hired the alligator as a hitman, for revenge after being abused.
That panic attack one with the boyfriend mocking her happened to me pretty much exactly the same way. That relationship was toxic to say the least.
I've been there too. It hurts but it really shows what kind of person your boyfriend is, and it's the signal to leave.
@@ChiyoriMizushima it was my girlfriend
Years ago I dated a guy who was 11 years older than me. He was nice but got drunk on the first date. Told me later that he got drunk because he was nervous. I gave him another chance... And after three months I left because I discovered he had a huge issue wish alcohol, could get angry really quick when I had panic attack, and he even got super angry at me when I told him I was worried about his drinking habit... So I nopped out of there and I'm currently in a 5 years relationship with a dream like guy.
This was a friend but I had to nope out. I kind of got the feeling he wanted a relationship though. Mainly because he would want to spend the night and spoon. I never made a move because I thought we were just friends. He had a fight with his family over keeping his little dog and I offered to let him split rent and move in with me and my cousin. I said we can throw out the couch since its old and put a bed downstairs because there were only two rooms. He said can't I sleep with you in your bed. I said ok, I used to sleep in my bed with my best friend so I didn't think it was a big deal. I asked him to take me to Walmart to pay something and to buy some window fluid for my car. He said, give me the money and I'll go pay while you look for the fluid. I didn't really like that since it's my money and my bill but I said ok sure. He came back and gave me the money because the place to pay was closed and I counted it and put it back in my pocket. He flipped nutz that I didn't trust him. I pointed out I just offered to let him move into my own room and I always count money when i get it, I was a cashier for many years and it is habit besides if someone makes a mistake and I don't catch it until later then it will make needless static. Anyway he yelled at me in Walmart walked out super fast and I refused to walk faster to catch up, he dropped me off, yelled again, got his dog and left. He had been my only ride to work so I had to quit to find something closer and a few months later he had the nerve to say I should have called him for help instead of quit. Sure. Like I would beg his crazy azz to pick me up when he has anger issue and is much bigger than me. And I am not small. He was both very tall and muscular and I am not putting myself into the position to be beaten.
Had an ex that ruin her own (NEW) car on purpose by putting diesel in the gas tank, drove it to work (we both work in the same place) and waited for me to come out. When I finally walked out, she came running to me asking me to take a look at her car. I didn't know what was wrong with it. Didn't want to start up and ended up giving her a ride home. She was trying to start something by holding my hand when I drop her off. Didn't find out about the gas until she called me to me the status on her car (as if I'm paying for the fucking thing) and that's when she said the mechanic found diesel in the tank. Still work in the same place. Still see her everyday. Still pist at me for not getting her pregnant. I'm not the smartest man in the world but I know when someone is trying to baby trap me.
She asked, without an ounce of irony, "is it too much for me to expect to be treated like a queen?"
"Yes, bitch...yes."
"Well, you don't treat me like a king, so...... yeah!"
What an arrogant spoiled brat...
A male friend was seeing a girl he had crush on for a little while. They were more then friends but not officially dating. Up until he broke it off. Apparently while they were trying to passionately hug for the first time, she admired she had a rape fetish and she wanted him to force himself onto her. He was very uncomfortable with that and left as soon as he could.
I've run into that a few times and I'm told it's not all that uncommon. Which I find disturbing as Hell.
As a large and kinda rough-looking dude, I've run into that on multiple occasions. Ran away 100%, like my ass was on fire.
I hate running but I'd run home without stopping. Rape fantasies are weird and dangerous. What if a switch flips in her had and claims rape while having secretly recorded you? Never ever mess with that..
Good on your friend for GTHO of there.
I've had multiple girlfriends with this kink. I don't feel it's uncommon, and I don't feel like it's that crazy either. We all have weird things that turn us on, and as long as it doesn't hurt anyone, it's fine.
Mad respect for that alligator
I used to date someone. They had a weird obsession with the color green. When I asked them why that was, they replied “Green is the color of Envy”
Later found out they had a strange obsession with being envious of others. Which I never really understood, but they were also really overly possessive of me to the point I kept me paranoid.
They? The whole family?
Let’s see.
- She cried when I didn’t want to be BF/GF after a few dates (I said I didn’t want to be her boyfriend YET.)
- I fell for her manipulation and asked her out the next day
- She proceeded to pretty much shame me for having a photographic vision
- Talked shit about my best friend without meeting him because he was a different political party than her, yet expected me to be cool around her religious friend and his wife (I’m agnostic.) Might I add that she used to date this guy and was getting all dolled up for him.
- She wanted to move in after graduating college, which at that point, we had been dating for a couple months.
But hey, I’m the subject of a TikTok video that gave her a bunch of views and follows, so there’s that.
And those dumb simps probably ate up every word
Was engaged to this guy for 5 years and lived together. I usually take my engagement ring off when I went to work (I worked in a pizzeria so I didn't want it getting all dirty) but right after work I was going to board a train to visit friends in Toronto who I hadn't seen in years (the only train I could get made it so I couldn't go back home first) he knew I was going to visit friends... but when he saw I didn't have my engagement ring, he blew up my phone and accused me of cheating and giving off really threatening vibes. My friends overheard this and told me "is he always like this?" And it kind of dawned on me that he actually was.
Called my mom who lived 2 hours away and she and my grandma sped up to meet me at the station where they said my now ex was circling the station waiting for me with a derranged look
I just no ped the fuck outta a relationship with a dude who told me he was waiting for my dog to die so I could move in with him, none of this was discussed lol, worse was because it was 3 days after my dog died, and I had found another and was considering keeping her, if I didn't find her person with a good reason for her being skin and bones
On our first date, she told me she had to have three guys paternity tested to figure out who the father of her kid was.
"Who the fuck starts a conversation like that? I just sat down!"
Jesus, the one with a chick almost gets murdered by the psycho is absolutely insane!
2:58 Even if it's a joint account, you're only responsible for transactions with your signature; you can literally audit the credit company and divide up the debt appropriately. My source is a lawyer from Shell Gasoline.
Never confirmed it but
I'm pretty sure she shared our private "activities" with her family, Started to notice when both her parents gave me a smirk and called me stud her mom gave me a wink and her dad a pad in the back called me their son after just 2 months and when ever we ate with her parents her mom proceeds to stuff my plate stating that big strong men need to fuel up for a hards nights work...
She was an only child and spoke of her parents like her best friends
Yeah Nope!
To sum up the video
"My boyfriend almost killed me so I left."
"My girlfriend said weird stuff so I left."
Way to overgeneralize it
Yup, picking the most extreme example vs one of the most mundane.
Ooh ohh this is my tome to shine.
1. The first one i dont remember what he got angry over but we were driving up to a family vacation and we were on a highway bridge and he jerks the steering wheel of his 7in lifted truck towards the side of the bridge saying "i could drive both of us off this bridge rn"
2. I told him that my mom wanted to have a family trip just her me and my siblings and he told me i wasnt allowed to go and if i did we would break up.
3. On christmas eve we were at his grandparents and i got a message on Instagram from my best friends brother who replied to my political story saying how he agreed with it and my bf sees it and starts screaming im a whore, cheater, slut and pulls a knife on himself in front of his grandma.
4. I asked him if i could take a fun road trip with my best friend to the beach (he was asleep when i texted him the question) at 4am my mom comes into my room telling me he called my mom 6 times and then saw 20 threatening texts on my phone from him saying I wasnt allowed to go blah blah blah. He also called my best friend screaming at her. He called me screaming at me as well.
5. He got jealous of my mom bc she has a successful career and work and struggled to get to the point shes at now and he started calling her names and saying horrible stuff bc he grew up in a bad home (my mom grew up in a bad home too)
I was with him through all of this over a year of this. But him calling my mom at 4am and screaming at my best friend over the phone was my limit. I ended it with him the next day.
I dated a girl for a summer. She sometimes said things that made no sense or drew conclusions from random things. Sometimes she got angry out of the blue. When I broke up with her I said, I'm sorry but you're too crazy for even me. She got crazier over the years and was completely dependent on her parents. She began having catatonic episodes where she would shut down for a while. She died in her thirties and I think she overdosed on her prescription medicine.
She was telling me what our children would look like. This was on the first date
I realized he was controlling everything I did, keeping my physically apart from my family and friends by moving me away long distance and then having HIS family move close to us. Plus he knew all his coworkers, I had to start over. He also criticized every. single. thing I did, from my appearance to how I cooked in the microwave. Hw was slowly driving me nuts and killing my self esteem. As my health began to decline and he was completely insensitive and did nothing to help me around the house or with our pets, it was clear he wasn't the person he represented himself to be before we lived together and he had me far from home and isolated. He knew I had health problems and may need to stop working eventually, but then he said if I didn't work he would leave me. So I called his bluff and left him first. I'd been miserable for a long time, and he gave me my excuse and the courage to call home and ask for helping moving back. My dad was on a plane the next morning and we drove my car towing a small U-Haul. Best thing I ever could have done for myself, and for my Mom who missed me as much as I missed her those 5 years away. His family was stuck up and cold, and I could always tell they didn't think I was good enough (read: My parents weren't wealthy enough) for their son.
So, beating and robbing drug dealers is a turn-off?
Now you tell me.
10:12 You should have started barging in on him every time he took a dump and just stared at him. But seriously, smart move getting away from that creep. 22:34 If a TA asks out a student, report them. They can and should be fired for even asking out a student
After two dates with a woman it was far beyond the point of giving her the benefit of the doubt (told me she’d been having a rough couple of weeks). Through someone that knew her well who I also happened to know, it came out that she lied about having a Master’s Degree and also about where she worked! There was no third date.
Years ago, I went to a halloween party where my gf at the time proceeded to make a bunch of suicide jokes in a room full of people she didn’t know. Someone even spoke up and told her to shut up. I was mortified and knew I was done with her then.
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This is just the opening of Jaws but with an alligator instead of a shark
Four times in one day? Look, I love the thrills I get from Avatar: Flight of Passage and GotG: Cosmic Rewind, but if the wait times are that consistently long, bet your waxed turtle shell I'm doing at least something different the rest of the day. You might like Seven Dwarves Mine Train, but at least let me have my Sci-Fi Drive In.
He said “I love you” after a week.
My girl started leavin the cap off of the toothpaste. You know who does that? A synth.
That first story reminds me of the horror movie The Loved Ones.
Alot of ex friends only took and took and never gave and exes well they kept telling me stuff that never added up so yea that was the problem that i cut out
It's SO GOOD that these people read the signs. I've known people realise that the other person has serious mental issues and STILL MARRY THEM. Guess what, it does NOT lead to happiness. On this, I've known people really close to me and it's terrible all round.
Dated a guy for awhile who told me it wasn't right for a woman to be intelligent. I wasn't about to stifle who I was, and he didn't like it. Broke it off, and nearly 20 years later married the right guy, one who loves the fact that I'm intelligent, and we've been married almost 25 years.
Aye the girl that wanted to do it in the woods prolly just wanted to be in control of her trauma. It's not uncommon to try and recreate the situations we were in to get over them.
Worshipped Corey Taylor from Slipknot like he was God. Like no joke literal worshipping the man. I mean I like Slipknot and Stone Sour as much as the next guy but there has to be a limit on how diehard someone should be as a fan.
21:21 What could he have said that made even the Scientologists nervous?
5:53 that's just kind of sad.
First time she came to my flat she took everything of mine in the bathroom and put it in drawers, then spread all her bathroom stuff out everywhere.
The fist one was done “get out” type shit
yeah,found out my ex was a pathological liar after 3 years of marriage..She was a single mother when we met.I should have known since a spent a week in jail after our divorce..
I'm sorry man
They get so mad over the smallest things .
Is everybody… just gonna ignore the “TWO” brothers story?
Some stories here are really scary
5:53 average day in Florida
Just to be clear I’m the crazy one(I have ptsd and highly functioning sociopath) and I have always been clear with anyone that I date that I’m not dangerous but I do have issues.
My now wife then possible girlfriend went to a Comic-Con with her family (her family has known me for years and know I have issues)
Part her costume had a corset as part of it. she must have tightened it to much, because she couldn’t breathe.
I grabbed her and pulled her behind a curtain to cut her loose while giving her some levels of Montasy.
Unfortunately he dad say me pull her behind a curtain and stormed over to break it up only to find me sawing through her costume. I was on the group with a torn rotator cuff😅.
Luckily she explained what happened and know she complains in a joking way that I spent too much time with her father
2:20 Sweet Home Alabama
So no one is gonna talk about how this is just a blatant re upload? Not a single thing has changed and the previous one is still up.
Lazy.
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This one is kind of understandable if he had been cheated on before
Went on a second date with a guy I kinda liked...I knew he had a criminal record but he "didn't want to talk about it". I had a weird feeling about it so I did a quick search..... yep. Something about using a computer to entice a minor. On the sex offender registry. That was it. (I had a young child who hadn't met him yet but he knew I was a single mother)
Relationships are overrated anyway.
Dated a woman for about a month. After a lot of communication and dates we decided to take things further by becoming physical in the best sense of the word. The night comes and we're both ready. I forgot the condoms and left them in the other room. When I mention this she responds by saying. "It doesn't matter, I don't care if I get pregnant."
Instant reevaluation of plans and did not go all the way with her that night or in the future. I mean, if a woman is that flippant about getting pregnant she's either trying to trap you or has the intelligence of a mentally challenge Koala bear.
I noped out soon after.
He never smiled. Not unless I asked him to. Not even for prom photos
That dude in the last story did NOT have good intentions
But does the cat okay
he told me he was raised by wolves
Was he Mowgli?
my god
These women are weird
Another repeat but with added comments, and you left out three of the best stories from the previous vids
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Why?
@@shellydrelly bruised 💜😔
@@DWPersianExcursion haha what do you mean bruised?
@@shellydrelly I think I did that, because of the times I've been in contact with *craziness*
@@DWPersianExcursion Who was your worst crazy ex?
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Donald Trump
Anyone else think the communal space story got a wrong rating? If my community communal area was completely in use I'd be upset too considering its for residents to use and if they don't have access that to more than just a corner the party is probably too big for the area. Communal doesn't mean you can claim the whole area. One grill should be enough, taking both is ridiculous.