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0:20 from Reddit: “From OP: “He actually wanted it for a gene test because he recently found out he had one that isn’t all that great so he wanted to see if I did. The problem was that this e-mail was also connected to my mom, which she has a lot of things connected to her. It was too dangerous to just give him out the e-mail as my dad has a history of falling for scams””
My older sister did a 23& me , she is very taned and has quite exotic features ( we have different dads) so she was really surprised when her results came back that she is uber white/ celtic we know are family is Scottish with Irish connections but not completely . 😂
That's a stupid reason
now again, why did he not say it in the first place... sheesh
TY for providing that MyrielT, but I'm still confused here. It sounds like one of those skeezy FBI scams where none of this makes sense to regular people.
He has a "bad' gene test? He wants to email the kid or have someone email the kid something and that tells him that the kid has a 'good' one?
He can use the kid's mom's email if he has the kid's email? Having the kid's email helps him fall for scams?
WTH is going on❔ Whether or not the dad is a crackpot, the kid sounds like he smoked the paranoia pot.
@@CarlosThadeu i bet he in a typical dad way lost his shit after they didnt obey immediately and decided to not give the reason "because the kid has to obey without a reason"
poor robin getting the angry subreddits 😭😭
After April fools he gets no happy
I feel bad for him😢
oh no
ANGY BIRDIE
@@Ballin_Cat4 dawa
And this is why I love the "found family" trope in fiction so much
yes
frfr
reminds me of a clumsy black haired girl that eventually became evil and then not evil and then web comic maker frfr….
@@iloveyellowpikminIt's Marcy Wu isn't she?
@@giasca perhaps
Ah, insane parents... A stark reminder that every child deserves a parent, but not all parents deserve children.
If someone out there is reading this and you've got lousy parents, just remember there will come a day you're free from them. Play the long game and in the end *you will win.* Hang in there!
my mother can be a very crappy one... im leaving ASAP when im old enough (15 y/o rn)
@@the_master-kit soon hopefully you can get yourself emancipated, but not sure if you quite should, considering I don’t know quite how bad it is. Think about it though. Edit: well, assuming you’re in the us
Thank u 😊
Not if I me and my sledgehammer have a say in it.
@@Enderia2 nope, im in Italy, and yes, its bad, really bad
Please let Robin do a wholesome subreddit.
Yes just for his sanity
@@johntrad806 Exactly! He deserves a subreddit that won't make him angry.
Give him memes or blessedimages
Give Robin r/cursed images
9:33 i love how robin respected their pronouns zero thought was even input.
I'm with you on that whole "not living to old age" thing; that's a lie, we WILL get to live until old age. The thing that will *actually* happen is that we will live to old age, have to keep working, not be able to retire, and not get social security.
I have so much appreciation for Robin switching to he/him when he realized the person was talking about her FTM son, not her daughter. A lot of people don't do that and it was nice to hear.
Came here to say this as well. Good on Robin, love to see it
Was going to say the same thing. So much respect.
same. Robin did good :)
That struck me too, was very sweet of him.
I came down to say that too. Really lovely of him to do that. I hope that guy is doing ok and his mother is not.
A thing I thought of the other day was if "love for a mother is unconditional" then isn't the love of a mother to a son/daughter also unconditional?
Should be.
I think love is unconditional both ways, even if you absolutely hate them you probably still feel love for them, it's a biological thing. Respect is never unconditional though and anyone that tells you it is is probably trying to control you.
It's a complex thing. I have love for my parents, and they have love for me. But I also hate them to a degree, because they were abusive as hell and took advantage of that love. Now we sporadically talk here and there, but I'm just glad I'm an adult and out of that hell-hole. The love is there, but it's not healthy love. Love isn't always enough, unconditional or not, love itself isn't what can save a relationship between parent and child.
It should be. I've seen too many parents (including mine) go with "I gave birth to you, so you owe me your life."
@@treepotato9273Well, people that have horrible paréntesis still love them in some way, but that obly happens because the kid is a good person.
The parents on the other hand, are not.
9:46 I love how Robin immediately switched the pronouns for the person’s son, it’s so respectful
Woo!! 🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️
idk, kinda seems like a bare minimum to me
@@riverthecrybaby9448 Unfortunately, the bare minimum is too much for many people.
For real, I was like "Wait, that was misread--O-oh! D-damn, Robin's too fast! Robin's on PC Ultra Instinct!"
I was gonna say the same thing
I appreciate how Robin respects a persons choice even if the parent does not. Cheers.
Coming from somebody who's dealt with insane parents my entire childhood (shouldn't call it that cause it didn't exist), I sympathize with every one of these kids/adults dealing with their parents. I know adults can cut that out of their lives but the kids are unable to till a later age..
Can't wait for them to grow older and finally leave the toxic hellhole that is their family 🥺
4:23 dude told his mom "touch grass" 😂
12:13 I've had my parents SAY they'd go in with trash bags and get rid of it all if I didn't clean my room, but they never actually DID it, even if I didn't clean my room.
0:40 my mom does this all the time, she'll ask me to come over or do something and i'll ask "why" and she'll always respond "because i asked you to" she says she hates when i ask why and i've asked her why she can't just tell me what she wants from me and she never gives me an answer, i can only assume it's something along the lines of "you should just do it and not ask questions" but she knows i'm autistic and hate not knowing exactly what's going on, and even if it wasn't the case i feel like it's reasonable to want a preview of what you're being asked to do
It *is* reasonable to know what you're committing to before committing to it. The only time it's reasonable for someone to expect you to act immediately when told is when it's time critical and it's been discussed before hand, and these things are usually hobby or work related anyway. Anyone who refuses to tell you what you're getting involved in before you make the choice to be involved has no respect for your agency.
You are lesser to them. It is your duty to unquestioningly do as you are told. Your question is an act of defiance as it implies there are reasons that could be given that would make you decline their demand. It's a narcissist power dynamic issue.
“Because I said so” is the laziest argument of all time. It simply shows how a person’s status makes them better than the one being asked to do something. If you don’t want to explain something, you can simply say that. (If you live in the USA) you have the right to silence, but the other party should have the right to refuse. Show them that they aren’t just a puppet and that they can say no. But if you make a decision that you strongly believe is a good idea and the child disagrees, then “I’m your parent and I said so” can be a valid argument, but it should be used as much as martial artists try to fight. Rarely, but when necessary
my mom always does this when I have to get my hair done (painful as hell for me bc sensory issues and also trauma) so it freaks me out when she says we’re going somewhere and won’t tell me why. I wish people would stop thinking this is an acceptable answer. Telling someone why the hell they have to do something is like basic human respect
9:50
I LOVE HOW ROBIN REPLACES “SHE” WITH HIM
I’m sorry but I’ve seen some people just read the post without correcting anything. This is why Emkay is one of my, if not best, Favorites.
I think he should read what the original post said. Reading it with the original pronoun shows how insane the parent is. Maybe he should emphasize "her" by saying it in a way that makes him sound annoyed
@@coindog6336 that would be extremely disrespectful to the subject of the post, a transgender son. Using “she/her” pronouns would imply that the subject’s pronouns are entirely optional. I promise, I see where you’re coming from, but someone’s pronouns should be respected no matter what.
3:52 one thing people need to learn about dealing with parents like that in text messages is to stop going back and forth and getting dragged into arguments. instead of typing out a response just give one word answers like "ok" and then when they try to lead you into an argument just stop responding
I started doing this every time (instead of just sometimes), and hoo boy does it get them mad to not get a reaction out of me.
Feels weird that with how crazy this sub gets, that the overprotective mother worried about traffic is almost cute in comparison
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No, no, they has a point.
My grandmother actually bordered a lot on insane parent territory while my mom was growing up, i think the worst thing she did was throwing my aunt's and uncle's stuff (separate rooms, separate occasions) out the windows of their rooms because they were a mess
Like, even the goddamn beds, the entire rooms went out the 2nd floor window and they had to pick it all up and haul it back to their bedrooms on their own
She's really nice and is the family member i respect and trust the most, but her way of discipline was KIND of extreme
I grew up in a very Cristian home and whenever i asked my parents something like my anger issues and how to cope they would always respond "PRAY" and to this day i still felt like they never knew what they were doing or that they didn't want to help me.
also they were the white equivalent to the Asian parent stereotype, being disappointed in me if i got a B in a class even if it was my worst class. and i would say "at least i passed" and they respond with "backtalk"
I also want to join the USMC and they say that the Marines wont take me if i "nearly" failed a class back in freshman year. so i tell them that the Marines dont really care and my mom lost it saying that apparently i know more even though i looked up more info on the Marines than she ever will in her life.
I do love this SubReddit though
Me too for the subreddit thing
I also may want to try to join marines but I’m afraid my parents will say “IS IT BECAUSE YOU THINK ITS LIKE CALL OF DUTY!?!?” Cause I want to to help people and my country
@@sporkythebeardeddragon5672 good luck
I mean, if you really want to join the Marines, then go for it! Just make sure to do a lot of research outside of military sites, talk to former Marines, and just know that any recruiter will lie to you to get you to sign your life away to them.
@@mook_butt8037 yeah but its that fact that my parents act like they know all about the marines when for the past year I’ve been researching as much as possible about the marines and other military branches and when I tell my parents that they freak out and say “Oh so apparently you know all since you’re a teen” or ground me for taking back
I mean, I love my parents and all but they can be such jerks and hypocrites sometimes and very very repetitive
Maybe one day I’ll look back and see what they were trying to get across my head
Someday
The people in this sub deserve at least one very good hug.
I hope most of them break free from the shackles of insane parents in due time without too much permanent trauma.
Sheesh..
How did these parents even get together, stay for long enough to marry each other, have children and still be able to stay together?!
Anyway I think Robin has Aphasia too.
horrible people love horrible people, its a match made in hell
Robin, it makes me so happy that when you read a transphobic post you just correct the gender without really making a big deal out of it, makes me feel very affirmed ❤
why does robin get all the bad subs
He angy
We wanna hear the rage
I love it tbh
Justice for robin
He is a pissy piss boy who hate everything and find negative things in positive
re: the trash bag one, my mom would do this but just throw everything away. no thrift store donation or anything, just straight in the garbage. I'm 31 now and having to unlearn hoarding tendencies because I'm just scared to throw things out, and my room STILL doesn't get cleaned often (executive dysfunction). so in case you're thinking about doing this, DON'T. it DOES NOT WORK the way you want it to.
Whenever you see Robin on an insaneparents or antiwork video you already know it’ll be a banger
This subreddit always makes me wonder about my parents. I can’t tell if I truly have insane parents or if my relationship with them is toxic.
same. like my moms definitely manipulative but i question if I’m just being edgy or she’s genuinely a shitty patent
Yeah... Regardless, if you're getting gut instincts like that, it's best to run.
9:50 as a trans man, I want to thank Robin for correcting that mother missgendering her son when reading the post. Really put a smile on my face.
Common Robin W
I know this is a year later, but I was honestly about to comment that I thought that was wholesome as fuck that he did that. He seriously has a heart.
10:00 can we all please appreciate the fact he said “he’s” instead of the “she’s” that the psycho mom typed
I was looking for this comment!
**Appreciation**
Robin is a respectful guy
Love that robin immediately corrected pronouns on that fasting post. Love robin and his support ❤
Sometimes, I think my parents are insane. But then I see these people and go “I am glad I am not alone”
God the first one is soooo damn relatable
This should not be relatable...
@@1cubealot yeah i wish it wasn’t
It is very relatable and it’s sad that it is. Sometimes I contemplate running away and just being homeless. At least no more of this bs.
@@izzybizzy1121 if its that easy, i have too much stuff thats way too valuable at home sadly.
Robin needs to get more wholesome subs...cute animals or something..
5:00 the end of the world thing hits home so hard. since i was in middle school my mom was shoving that shit down my throat. absolutely terrifying
🤨
Gotta say, I love when he reads the story about the mom wanting to fast over their transkid and as SOON as he says "transitioning to male" he stops reading "She/her" and uses male pronouns. ^ ^
it's so beautiful how robin respected him and his identity!!
I'm glad my mom isn't this bad, but I feel bad for those whose parents are
Same
I love how robin changes the pro noun of the transman after given context, it's beautiful 9:37
I really appreciate how at 9:45 ish he changed the “she/her” pronouns to “he/him” to align with the son’s new pronouns. Very respectful of him. Thanks Robbin :) (Btw you’ve always been my favorite, just sayin’)
Did it so smoothly too.
Gotta love it.
Guys, I know there are a ton of us with parents like this or with parents where this is just the tip of the iceberg. I just want to say, I feel you. And after nearly 21 years of living with them, I was finally able to move 500 miles away and live my life! It's been amazing and freeing! And it has made me realize the depths of what I went through with them. There is a light at the end of the tunnel! Just hold on y'all, you don't have to be stuck with these people forever.
It saddens me that this (cutting family off) is even a thing people need to do for their own mental wellbeing. A family no matter how it looks should be a support network. These insane parents are no what normal parents look like or act like.
the fact "sans." is playing in the background makes my day, thanks Robin
Remember, if your parents aren't like any of the people in this video show them some love.
9:56 I love how he says "him" despite it saying "her". Good man you are
Wonder what robins parents are like, I've never heard him talk about them, in all of the 1000 videos he has voiced.
i think he mentionned he was raised mormon, I could be wrong though
10:00 Love that you corrected the "moms" comments from She/her to He/Him Keep up the good videos emkay
This sub reminds me a lot of my own mother. Over the years, I've realized people can change given a sufficient amount of time, but my mom taught me there are people you shouldn't waste your energy on. She destroyed my life from a young age and still acts like I owe her my life simply because she's my mom. When she dies, I won't be able to live anymore because of her. But at least I'll be free.
I love y'all videos so much I watch them before going to bed
2:32 remember child psychologists say spanking is child abuse
Yea it is
You misspelled "normal people"
3:35 Some people really are that anxious/paranoid that their child is a walking target for cars.
Me and my mom are like that for trauma reasons. That post was understandable, I think.
this sub makes me feel so proud of my parents
Lancer’s song from deltarune in the background for a sub about insane parents really made me laugh.
(Yes maybe King is a bit less evil in second chapter, but come on the threat being so serious and tense in chapter 1 definatly fits with insane parents)
Love Robin for the fact that for the post with the parent upset that their son is on testosterone and corrected the parents pronoun use without a second thought. How thoughtful
Holy hell! 7:07 is my post. I watch this channel, but never thought I'd end up on it. I'm hanging out with the friend in question today (an amazing trans fella), and I'm definitely showing him this. Much love :-)
Mom: lose my number
The child (probably): bet.
9:29 HE GENDERED HIM CORRECTLY ☹️💗💗💗 WHAT A CHAMP MAN
More evidence that respect is earned, not deserved
That’s common sense which is unfortunately not known by these insane parents
Technically been with emkay since 100k subcribers, not a huge accomplishment since it too them awhile to get there. But i genuinly appreciate all the work all of the voice actors (especially damian. Not because he's better than any others I just vibe with his voice tone more than the others. Love the others too but damian is my pie yknow?)put in yknow? they're top notch and super under appreciated. Like imagine the effort that goes in before editing. The video length u see is mayeb 6% of what was actally recorded. That's a lot of amazing time they spent for us. For basically free(Yes they allow ads to be put in but youtube actuall charges creators with over 750k to deny ads, it costs them 10% revenue)
Patiently waiting for Robin to get a good subreddit
"Just because your older or the parent doesn't mean respect can't be taken from you" is a quote I live by respect is not granted automatically because your older
emkay has uploaded
humanity is saved
Note to the first post: Dad was asking for the email for a gene test
Doesn't matter if the kids old enough to use email on their own and social media they can tell them why by sending a quick text like commentator said they could be signing up the email for spam or something they don't want there's no context or dad can create another email for it but that requires knowledge of technology from what I've seen a lot of parents like this don't have.
Seeing these vids just reminds me to be grateful that I have awesome parents 😭
11:55
My mom did that a lot when me and my siblings were younger (she just wouldn't sell them she would throw the stuff away or donate it, I can't exactly remember.) She would give me and my sibling a time limit to clean our room (we shared a room at the time- and this was only when we took too long to clean) and then come in with a trash bag and make us just sit there while she threw all of our stuff away, and then take the bag away and we never saw it again.
13:02 i feel like this parent really isnt that bad she is genuinely concerned for her kid
I agree, she just wants her kid to graduate and get a better future.
@abnelmartinez324 how old is the kid? This goes for the other one.
Great subreddit
11:51 you mean this is crazy?? I get threatened with that almost ever day…
Yeah but have they ever carried out that threat?
The one with the bugs bunny and sylvester is a quick and surefire way to guarantee that your child, DIL/SIL, and grandchild will have nothing to do with you.
13:10 Yeah, bother them until they can't take it anymore and finally answer the question. The mom is violating the custody agreement, and she needs to be in jail
Bro the switch to she/he was so fast, true supporter 9:52
2:01 I dunno, Lucifer's been real chill as of late
I love this subreddit
2:13 God, any answer to this question that is not "I have never spanked my child" is the wrong answer.
Beating children under any circumstance, unless it's for like actual self-defense, is horrendous and wrong.
Hitting your kid because they misbehaved or something isn't going to stop them from misbehaving, it's going to make them live in fear of you for the rest of their lives.
Can confirm, still slightly fear my dad. Luckily my relationship with him has greatly improved. But i will never forget the fucking fear of pissing him off.
Or, you know, make him hate you deeply for your actions and always be judged silently, because, he didn't forget, never will.
*I hope you're reading this, father, and my mother as well, screw you.*
9:50
I like how Robin said the correct pronouns when reading over the incorrect ones
Back into the reason why you should appreciate your parent(s)
Stay innocent for us please 🙂
The entire sub is literally a reason not to though, depending on the parent you've got at the very least
@@rezerasaltaccount861 that's what I was trying to say
@@lamarasawyer850 too late for that ............
@@nocontextcrew7380 Hang in there. It'll be ok...
LES GOOOO
INSANE PARENTS
BEST SUBREDDIT
7:04
Kinda just funny, I don’t know why it is in insane parents.
11:30 Robin couldn't think of omniscient.
Thanks for the great videos
2:33 unnecessary chores like creating messes with the intention of making the child clean it. This is but one miniscule example. Also, there's military torture that can happen, like with my sorry ass. Thanks mom for giving me mental issues!
*You got therapy coupons!
This whole subreddit reminds me of a quote I saw (I can’t remember it exactly but it was something like this)
‘A child cannot hate a mother without the mother hating the child first’ honestly think it applies for both moms and dads but it’s so true
9:55 thanks for correcting the mother on the pronouns Robin. Im sure this would infuriate the mother and make the child happy.
Robin is reading r/insaneparents? Time to get the popcorn
"So many people feel like explanations are required"
The only time I personally feel like explanations could be required is things like someone genuinely wanting to know what mistake they made so they could get better but even then, or if y'know you're at the doctor wanting to know what's wrong
No one owes explanations for themselves
11:30 I think the word is 'ubiquitous', or maybe 'omnipresent'
Throwing in an 'omniscient' for good measure.
This makes me appreciate my parents even more
I saw the title and knew what I was getting into
This is making me realize how abusive my parents are, Thank you kindly, Robin
6:21 assuming this is the usa, there are 26 states where it is illegal to track people without their consent
My response to the end of the world fearmongering: “twelve time survivor, either way. I either make it to thirteen, or it’s not my problem…wtf your point?”
my dad called me fat. im not actually even that fat, my belly just sticks out a tiny bit
oh wow! like organs dont exist!
srsly tho i hope that didnt hurt, hang in there!
@@natalie-chanistrash7214 yea, like im not a teenage tiktok girl or something lol
i know it is out of the topic of the video but, damn how i was happy to know there some people that also play Muffin Time and that i'm not a oddball within the rest 6:49
Robin using the right pronouns when the post doesn’t ✨🕺💃 it’s such a simple thing to do but it’s still so nice to hear :)
This makes me thankful that I have good parents!
Robin is so nice to the persons son at 10:00 for it using preferred pronouns
these parents... I wouldn't even give them a cardboard box
The transphobic mom one around 7:30, that's adorable if they picked that name, Rain
For context, Rain was a long-running trans webcomic. The protagonist of which was named, ya guessed it, Rain!
Rain is also a cool name.👍
@@BergenDev agreed
Whenever I read posts from this sub, I wish I could give all of these people hugs
I swear, there should be a license we’re having kids. I know that will come with a whole host of issues, but quite frankly, it would be better than having insane people having children.
12:02
Ok as someone who has trauma from this sort of thing I can tell exactly what's going on.
Kid has been told many times to clean room but never does. Parent perceives them as a pig and a hoarder and the kid is further plugged into having no motivation to better the situation. Being unable to clean a room that desperately needs cleaning can happen for multiple reasons like depression and ADHD paralysis. Also if you just scream at the kid to clean room then they won't learn to do it in any sort of process which can lead to them running into the same issue in the future. They may also feel pressured by expectations.
How to address this, sort of situation with the child appropriately:
Use it as a learning opportunity. Section the room. After a section you can quit for awhile and start again a few hours later or the next day. Teach the kid to associate some sort of entertaining background noise to be cleaning music like a specific artist. Music is the best motivation for cleaning. DO NOT THREATEN THE KID WITH THROWING EVERYTHING AWAY. and do not throw things away without permission. This has caused a huge fight in my family.
*vine boom sound effect*
4:24 I effectively did that to my grandma, she's a religious nut who had me being one for a decent chunk of my childhood. I'm still fucking livid over that.
6:50 I don’t think this is insane I think this is more funny than anything really on this subreddit.
It’s a bit weird to say to a kid but still kinda funny ig