r/Insaneparents | thanks i guess???
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 25 พ.ย. 2022
- Top posts from r/Insaneparents on Reddit. Join the community subreddit at / emkay ! Video credits below.
Narrator ► / xycronva
Also check out:
r/Technicallythetruth | not wrong..
• r/Technicallythetruth ...
r/Madlads | GORILLA GRIP
• r/Madlads | GORILLA GRIP
r/Cursedcomments | YANK THEM OUT!
• r/Cursedcomments | YAN... - ตลก
![[LIVE] : ONE ลุมพินี 72 วันนี้!! คู่เอก "ก้องศึก vs โจอาคิม"](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/hT1EOSsRPac/mqdefault.jpg)
Imagine making a 12 year old pay for their own portion for a trip to cuba... I wonder what the parents would've said if he had wanted to stay home alone instead of using up all her savings.
if you're not financially stable enough to go on vacation- ie making your kids help pay- then you shouldn't be going on vacation...
that poor 12 yo...
My dad made my brother and I pay our own way on our trip to Disney World earlier this year. Brother is 24, I’m almost 31 and we both have jobs so his reasoning was we’re old enough and responsible enough to take care of it ourselves. Well I think technically we reimbursed him for our portions. Can’t remember if he made the payment before or after we transferred the money over.
I think making the 20 year old pay for her way is reasonable as she is an adult. As for the other two…yeah sure the 15 year old may have a job but I doubt it pays enough to go to Cuba and making a 12 year old spend her savings on a family trip instead of a phone which is an absolute necessity in this day and age is fucking insane.
For reference the WDW trip was like 1200 each and we live in the US. So a trip to Cuba from the US would be miles more expensive.
@@Boundwithflame23 I'm 32, if my parents invited me anywhere, they would pay for the trip.
Final solution: don’t go to Cuba, it’s THE dog-eat-dog island.
This a joke If you didn’t notice btw
Yeah, assuming this is in the US and depending on the state, this kid can't legally get a job until they are at least 14 and basically they are giving their parents all the allowance and birthday/christmas money.
If my mom told me “I carried you for 9 months”, I’d answer:
“Not my fault you decided to get pregnant.”
"How is it MY problem YOU couldn't keep your knees together?"
I tell my parents that since they carried me for 9 months, I'm still their responsibility.
Yea your the one who decided to have a baby
And that’s where the beating started
no you wouldnt you'd sit there looking like you saw death
"I carried you for 9 months!!!!"
"And whose fault is that?"
"Excuse me?"
"Whose fault is that? Who made the conscious decision to get pregnant?"
"I never chose to be in your womb, so who did?"
r/munderedbywords
r/damnthatstrue
@@MeTheLoverOfEatingNuggets r/ihavereddit
@@SomeDudeCauseYes r/ihadastroke
"I carried you for nine months"
And I gave you tax benefits
"I carried you for nine months!"
*And then you put me down for 20 years.*
DAMN BRO THAT WAS COLD🧊🧊🧊
That's kinda dark actually...
GOD DAMN BRO
Bro got unlimited rizz
Anyone that has bad parents like the video, SAY THIS TO THEM WHEN THEY SAY THAT. please
Every kid deserves a parent, but every "parent" doesn't deserve a kid
"I didn't ask to born"
@@AkioKaneko mood
@@AkioKaneko “uhhhhh YOUR GROUNDED!”👩
The I want to punt everyone subreddit
@@AnIgniSign "you cant ground me, ill not do it, gonna spank me? do it i still wont do. Gonna whatever? Do, i will not be grounded."
As an adopted person,I am glad I don’t have to deal with the “I carried you for 9 months” card.
Well, I do. But they haven't used it yet.
“We chose you.”
@@Kevin_da_piano_bsian😂😂😂
@@Kevin_da_piano_bsian a new card has been added to the deck!
I think the worst aspect of most "parents" is their obsessive need of comparing your struggles to their own, they think they are helping by "showing you it can be worse" or "at least you don't have it like this" when all it does is undermine the kid's feelings and confidence.
I mean jobs ARE harder arent they?
@@cubebutpro298 don't have a job yet so (i'm getting one next summer) but id imagine school + homework, especially if you are taking advanced classes, is harder and takes longer than a 9-5. it's the rest of being adult (taxes, finances, cooking, housekeeping, etc.) that make it more difficult. might be completely wrong though. i've heard many adults say that highschool was hell compared to being an adult, and ive heard many say the opposite
@@graygravity3856 thats interesting,good luck on that!
one of the few redeeming qualities of getting stage 3 cancer as a teenager is i win every argument over who had the harder childhood. "oh you ran away from home at 15 because you and your mom kept butting heads and neither one of you wanted to compromise? I spent 5 years in and out of hospitals, went bald before i could vote, and nearly died a handful of times". Check. Fucking. Mate.
@@cubebutpro298school is easily far harder, if you have a job you get much more time to rest while in school sometimes you might have to study the entire day for multiple days in a row
2:10 Hearing him screaming like there absolutely no tomorrow is the best thing i saw today.
I want to hear you scream in my basement
Yo this guy can see sound
sums up this subredit
Dramatic sound recreation: rAAAAAAAAUGHHHH
how tf u seeing sound
From being mentally torture for 10 years of my life. The amount of people telling me i should not be angry with them and be nice is astounding.
SAME, LIKE DAMN
Arson
@@yinggamer7762 Arson :)
No, you should be nice. Be so nice that it’s off putting. Do what they tell you, stroke their egos, make them entirely dependent on you. And then leave them. Let them flounder as they realize you left with all their money, stopped paying their bills, and leave them in massive debt. Move to a Stand Your Ground state and if they show up at your house you can legally shoot them because you thought they were a threat to your life
@@PikachuLittle hi satan
4:50
"Blood is thicker than water"
The full saying
"The blood of the covenent is thicker than the water of the womb"
Just cause they are family does not mean you cant cut them off
Reminds me a bit of my parents, my dad beat me often, often accused me of being a liar, belittled and disregarded my feelings, my mom did the same thing, plus emotionally manipulated me, constantly called me lazy bc I was never interested in anything, she even went so far to call me a psychopath bc I told her I'd feel nothing if her CT scan came back cancer positive, in all reality, I was hoping it did, then I wouldn't have to deal with her anymore, the day I heard my dad was dying from COPD, I started laughing hysterically, then called him up and asked to be in the hospital so I can watch them unplug the life support.
I understand that you went through a lot, and I agree that your parents are horrible, horrible people that pretty much deserve what they’re getting… but Jesus Christ
it sounds to me that you are the problem
My god, something tells me they broke an already fragile mind.
@@CarlosChacon-fs4kutheir parents literally abused them both emotionally and physically so bad that they seem insane, but they really dont seem like the problem afger reading carfully. i see why youd think that they might be the problem tho
They are right,becuase no one in their right mind would do that
People who come at you with “Blood is thicker than water” hit ‘‘em with the whole verse “the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb” essentially the family you choose has a better bond than the family you were born into
I can't tell if that's what you meant, but that's actually what the expression is in its full form. I think people just assume it's like blood relation or whatever, but yes, it's talking about friends.
It's interesting how people sometimes create a meaning out of something that's the opposite of what was intended.
You are a freaking genius
or Syrup is thicker than blood
i shall use this thank you
As a kid who has had parents that are in no way like this, I feel so bad for these tortured souls. Sure I've been through crap of losing a parent, but the abuse here is unimaginable to me
Same
Half these are fake and the other half blown out of proportion
@@buddhull3657 I wouldn’t be surprised if some of them were.. but there are terrible people like that. Many people are horrendous
@@buddhull3657You do have some point here. While some of these may have been created for entertainment or for clout and aren’t actually true, there are definitely people who go through abusive and in general messed up things with their parents. There’s a lot of proof of this on the internet and the news, along with some other sources.
@@buddhull3657 MMM I think not someone I know has an abusive mentally, and been SA by her boyfriend. Yeah CPS and shit did jack shit
My egg donator used the "1, 2, 3" threat on me. Hearing other parents use it to this day, at nearly 40 years old, can still be triggering. Because it wasn't an empty threat. If I hadn't complied by the "3," I would regret it, and learned quickly to jump as soon as I heard "1." Sometimes she would keep counting even as I ran to do what she wanted.
i genuinely hate other things like this where they say like "get this done in 30 minutes" even after you start doing it
This sort of shit disgusts me. If a person has to resort to threats, violence, and intimidation, they shouldn’t be a parent.
@@wyzololbrooo yes. I used to be terrible at keeping up on school work, but now I am hitting high school, I know I have to turn it around. But my parents are living in the past. They will still ask me if I have homework, which isn’t bad, but because of my previous behavior my dad will always have you done your homework, as if I have some and I haven’t done it. He also almost never believes me, even when I definitely telling the truth. It goes on and on too, but the rest more annoys my mom than anything else. And honestly, this is probably tame compared to others.
😊
@@Frogman920tf is wrong with you
12:24 is too relatable, my parents frequently threaten to contact the police on me and file a missing persons report if i don't answer their calls after a day or two- I'm 22 and moved out a while ago. I actively ignore them since theyre incredibly insane, narcissistic, abusive.
I really appreciate how the elder EmKay gods give Robin the subs they specifically know will cause him to burst an artery in his forehead
O Emkay lords
“Dear Emkay lords, please grant me a subreddit that will not make my blood boil, and I will be forever grateful.”
“lmao get a load of this guy”
and they give lexi the hardware/software subs
@@Rainbow- and the cute/wholesome subs
I can never understand parents like these..at all and I feel bad for those who have to deal with it.
I was lucky to have my dad, who respects my privacy, helps me with my hobbies and passions and always knows how to make me smile when I'm down. He even tells stories of him and my mom that passed away to remind me she's still here as long as we remember her
My parents scream at me until I no longer feel SAFE IN OUR OWN HOUSE. Meanwhile I get BULLIED at school also they take my only source of happiness away. :(
@@WolfYT. stay strong. if it ever comes to the point of screaming back, just tell them "this is how you'll end up in the nursing home"
Same here, if the mother passed away, saw all the bad in the world and woke up with a vengeance the next day.
bruh i’m not even allowed a door
Bro samee-
I have a super cool dad and a mostly cool mom. Most of my friends have the worst type of parents and it honestly just like- makes me sad and worried. I do not understand the type of people who would just do the worst things to people that don't even have fully developed brains- It's just wrong
My dad and my stepmom had been talking about going to Mexico for months. Everything was planned and my little brother was so excited to go (I had moved out by that point). Then the day before leaving, my father just told my brother, who had packed his things and everything "Yeah you're not coming with us" and dropped my brother off at our mom's while he, his girlfriend and her kids went.
I endured 18 years of this kind of bullshit, my brother 19. And this doesn't even make it to the top 30 of the worst things he's done.
These videos always remind me of how grateful I am to have had a loving and kind family
same fr
Same
But a bit strict
real
Same....
i'm pretty angry at my parents right now (i'm a teenager, so that explains most of it lol) but after watching this i'm glad that i'm lucky enough to have good parents
As a fellow teenager, I can relate. Trying not to get angry at parents when a teenager is especially hard and annoying, but thankfully most parents are not evil people and want to help you achieve the best you can.
Y’all are good kids.
I have the exact same thing. This makes me feel so grateful.
fuel that anger and grab a knife...and..AND!
make a sandwhich it always helps with my anger :]
They had us in the first half not gonna lie
In the US, the punishment for wasting police resources (i.e. calling the cops to remove someone from their own home when they have committed no crimes) is up to 6 months in jail and possibly a fine
That only works when you don't have a parent who is buddy buddy with a bunch of cops...
Which hopefully is most kids nowadays, but there are likely still some out there
Depends on the state. Different states have different laws on it.
well that never gets implemented
0:02
Dads version:
I carried you for 15 years 🪑🪑🪑
I mean technicallynit since you know the average guy c*ms
Watching these is helping undo the years of manipulation and reminding me that my parents were not good parents
Nothing like memes to get you through your trauma
@@kadeisstuck8802 it's the best form of free therapy
Damn, hope you’re in a better place now
@@whitd8946 I am, thank you :) I live in my own home now with my two best friends who are helping me get through this.
Hope you’re having an amazing day/night
Oh yeah, helps a lot to recognize those patterns. So much makes so much more sense looking back
Mom: i carried you for 9 months
Me: did u give you permission to do that?
It's kinda crazy but listening to you read these psycho sub reddits is actually making my work less stressful and go by faster.
Parents when I was a child: “Your so useless”
Parents when I won the lottery: “I’m SoRrY pLeAsE cOmE bAcK”
*You know they’re not actually sorry. They’re just going to use you.*
dont let them in to ur life again
Yep
I think the thing that infuriates me the most in this video is the mom reselling the vr headset her son bought with his own money pretending he should ask for permission to buy something like AAAAAA i'm screaming in frustration
Bro idk the law but shouldn't he be allowed to press charges or some shit? Bc that's HIS stuff
@@ghastlygavin no. Legally it belongs to the parents.
@@theeclipsemaster i think that depends on how old he is, if he's above legal age then I'm pretty sure he can press charges since the warranty or whatever could be in his name and her attempting to sell it would be a crime since her name isn't on it
@@jacksixterror last I checked, the age for that is 18. Considering he could just leave if he were that old, he must not be.
@@theeclipsemaster true, but getting a house or apartment in this day and age is an absolute nightmare, costs way too much to have your own place nowadays
Thats 100% true. Parents always think your making excuses and its killing me from the inside.
these parents in this subreddit makes karens look like saints
_"Why did you leave me in the worst nursing home in the state??"_ -These parents
[insert trollface here]
>:D i dont know parents why did we leave you there hmHMHMMHMHMMHhmhhmmhmmhmHmMhmhmhmmHHm
I don’t know, that “YoU wiLL dO aS I sAy!” when I wanted to wear baggy pants as a kid, and calling my bio father a female dog, and plenty of other shit that will take more time to explain than you’ve got left, Mom.
bold of them to assume ill be sending them anywhere at all. no, you get dumped on the curb too.
Whenever my dad says something about not putting us in his will (this is a joke he’s not insane) we always say we’re gonna put him in the cheapest nursing home we can find (also a joke my family’s pretty chill ngl)
I read these as an older man that started to repair motorcycles at 10 and left my parents home at 14 and they're quite funny to me. The level of entitlement is amazing.
You remind me of my grandpa, he also left his parents around that age and said he never looked back. Quite unfortunate actually :(
I'm glad you were able to get out! You worked hard, it can't have been easy
how did you escape, so I can determine the risks
Dude same. I was born on a rainy day in Liberia. During my youth, in the turbulent period that was the First Liberian Civil War, I was adopted by Solidus Snake, who named me and became my godfather after he killed my parents. I was subsequently raised as a child soldier and later fought in the country's Civil War in 1989. I and other children were shown Hollywood action films daily for "image training," and were given food mixed with gunpowder containing toluene to make us more controllable. I and the other members of the Small Boy Unit were forced to kill POWs and civilians. On one occasion, I was injected with an unknown substance during a physician's experiment. On another, I witnessed Solidus demonstrate to me that blades were a "noble weapon" compared to guns, by slitting another soldier's throat in front of me. I had to fight and kill, just to survive! Kids are so spoiled these days
@@rassesse1293 Raiden! You are my idol, and I do agree that many are spoiled these days. May I ask how to learn the true meaning of based?
I've actually experienced with my terrible ex the horrors of insane mothers. Saint Patrick's day, he drove HIS car to my parent's house to have dinner with us (he was 25 I was 21). We hear a knock on the door and as it turns out, his psychopath mother followed him in her car to my house, told him to come with her (he did but that's another story), threatened us with legal action and screamed at my mother. Psychotic moms are nothing to mess with and I feel bad for anyone with one.
4:25 and the worst part is, is that when we tell parents WHY we’re failing and how THEY turned off the internet, it’s always “Don’t you dare talk back to me!”
These stories make me really grateful to have had at least one good parent, and, honestly, the second, lazy parent is still better than almost all of these people.
Honestly, it's great to have at least one parent on your side when the other just isn't willing to parent
I'm adult... but hearing/reading stories like this makes me want to punch someone in the face.
Fr
Makes me realize how blessed I am to have great parents
Almost the same, Mom eliminated student debt, dad existed and had cool cars
*relatable noises intensify*
Parents: restricts child's freedom, watches their every move, and requires child to reply 24/7
Child: hates them and leaves them
Parents: WhY dOes mY cHiLd HaTe mE 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Me too
Help me that's my grandparents (the men in my family)
Hmmm yes I do wonder why your child hates you
This really depends on the age of the child, If it's a child then it is justified.
If it is a Teenager, It is less justified.
And you have to count all the other factors too.
Edit : let me rephrase, age has a factor in determining if someone is a bad parent or not but there are a lot of other factors to consider too.
This makes me grateful for the mother I have. She’s got her issues, but she’s still a good parent.
Whenever I'm mad at my parents I watch this and it makes me feel alot better
This stuff is terrifying, honestly. Specially when you're in an argument with these kinds of people. There even exist counter arguments for stuff like "I carried you for nine months" or "I'm your parent and you'll do as I say". But there's hardly any worth in them, because what these people want is not to argue, but to control you, and they often can do just that.
I love how parents are almost always self righteous.
mine are the almost ☺️
@@enemysamurai same
@@enemysamuraican't say the same about my parents.
Because they are
@@cubebutpro298hello Satan! how was your day? (ok fr parents aren't always right.)
It's nice to see robin do wholesome subreddits for once
bot
Yea this is very wholesome
0:25
I love how the person here doesnt even try to fight, he/she just scares the other person XD
i watch this sub for 2 reasons
1. i like all EmKay narrators
2. because i want to convince myself that my parents arent that bad
yeah always turns out my parents are pretty bad considering they have done most things ive seen on all EmKay r/Insaneparents
I'm sorry, that's awful. Hang in there, I've been there too
its gonna be good soon bro, just turn 18 and get the hell out of there, even 17 is ok if you can afford it by that time.
Same.
Perhaps you should also share your stories on the sub as well, you'll feel much better
@@oopsiexist maybe but that makes me feel like im accepting that my parents were shit when i was growing up and then it makes me feel like im just being dumb
Insane parents are more infuriating than Karens mistreating workers. How will you treat your own kids like that?
I have no idea and it horrifies me.
The venn diagram of Karens mistreating workers, and insane parents....is a circle.
I want to go on a crusade against insane/abusive parents.
20:48 you may face drug charges for unlawfully possessing prescription medications, theft for stealing the drugs, burglary for braking into her house (if she lives on her own), and tresspassing for being on her property with out consent (if she lives on her own).
for unlawfully possessing prescription medications is one life sentence, theft would be 1000 dollars, burglary would be 7-20 years in prison, and tresspassing would be 250 dollars
I loved how Robin pretty much encapsulated my anger with these people in that one moment, beautifully done and you did it with such grace too😂
Man, this video made me realise just how nice my parents are.
Kind of same.
My parents were a bit unstable, but even they weren't as bad as some of these parents.
yeah even though one of my parents got angry and threatened to not let me use any devices for a day, because i didnt get him water
This kinds of videos make me realize how unstable my guardians really are. And they also brought back memories of the time my grandma told me to kms
@@olivercharles2930 same
Gotta love how parents scream at you but then not expect you to yell back
16:45 actually, yes, that IS part of why you send them to a school. To learn how to socialize and deal with drama. Any parent who thinks otherwise doesn't know how school works.
moms say you can talk to her about anything then get really angry when you say something negative about her
I am so happy that my dad was accidentally like these (he. Had very bad anger management problems) but he realized that it was a problem. After that he made it his goal to make up for what he did, he still shows me that everyone could change. These people are horrible and I just wish that they would find the same realization that he did.
11:35 So this is actually a thing set into the Apple settings-
Like I am a teenager and this is on my phone because of “poor choices”. It is called screen time and it can limit accessibility to your contacts, apps, and safari tabs.
If parents/legal guardians decide to put this on a Apple device they can limit their phone to only be able to call known numbers (the contacts you have in ur phone) and nothing else.
So if you are in need of help from either police or something you cannot get a hold of them.
As a person who has had a difficult past in suicidal thoughts if I needed to call for help to the suicide hotline, I cannot.
I believe this is a good way to limit a child’s access to a phone at a young age. Though I feel the need as a person gets older the need for this slowly goes away. :)
I love how my mom tried to “jokingly” slash me with a kitchen knife after I wouldn’t get her cigarettes from her car (i lived with her at the 3rd story apartment on the top) in -19 degree weather and when I said It’s too cold I can get it in the morning. When I confronted it about her she said “you know I wouldn’t stab you stop being so dramatic. I HAD TO MOVE OUT OF THE WAY SO FAST OR I WOULD HAVE A GIANT GASH IN MY FACE.
gosh, you ok now?
And she almost stabbed you over some cigarettes. That is dumbest reason to ever do that. And why is she trying to stab HER OWN KID?!?!!!!
@@UserUserUserUserUserUserUserUs yep. I live with my brother half way across the country now.
@@Koji_lol that’s good. i genuinely hope everything goes well for you. no one should have to experience that
She is INSANE. ABUSIVE- I- SHE IS THE WORST. I read your replies btw, and glad to hear your away from her!
ok so insane parent storytime: a few months ago i was hospitalised cuz i opened up a bit too much at a therapy appointment lol. after i finally got sent home after a few days in hospital, my mum spent 4 straight hours crying and yelling at me about how useless and weird i am and stuff like that and that she demanded i get added to the location-tracking app that my siblings are already on. she didnt care about *why* i was hospitalised and she didnt even ask if i was ok or anything. she was upset cuz i didnt tell her i had been going to therapy. she cries and yells at me like this pretty often though. my dad drove me to the appointment and since then she has always referred to it as the time my dad "kidnapped" me. and she's serious. she tried getting police involved lmao
oohh lord, i had almost same thing. be strong mate, someday we will be able to leave and finally feel happy
Ur mom needs mental help lol
I also have 2 stories. This first pne took place in september of this year, my dad has been absent amd avoiding me amd my family and decided to call after a year or two. We talked and then he saod he'd be in town soon, and has never been in town or called since. He lied to his kids saying that he'd see them again after years and never did.
This second story took place on my birthday. Months before my birthday, i told my mom that i wanted a job and she said " it would be nice for you to have your own money" my birthday came up and i applied for a job and showed her. She told me to not apply for any jobs again. Any time from then to now and probably from now on, she asks if i have any money if i ask for anything even though i can't get a job to get a ny money. i feel like is bs that i need money but cant get any
@@decidueye3680 damn thats fucked up
In every situation like this, there is one good important quote "Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child."
More like "Every child deserves a parent, but not every adult deserves to be a parent."
@@Asertix357 no I think it's what they said
@@G0bl1n_067 but what he said makes more sense
@@metaparalysis3441 what who said?
@@Asertix357 That literally what the original comment means
I'm 14 and my mother has been a heavy drinker for as long as I can remember, to the point where she passes out on the couch/floor most nights. I recently got surgery and had my appendix taken out due to swelling. This causes you to eat less than normal, both before and after the surgery because it irritates your stomach. I've always been highly underweight, but I've been doing a lot better recently due to some medicine that a dietician prescribed me, but when my mom asked me to weigh myself a day after the surgery, I told her my weight, which was abt 3 pounds down from what I was before the surgery, and my mom said that I couldn't use screens for anything besides school until I got back to where I was before the surgery. Luckily my dad stepped in and stopped her from doing that because he's somewhat reasonable, but it was scary for the moment that I thought that might actually happen. Was this a reasonable action, and is it normal for parents to be drunk every night?
No, it is NOT normal for a parental unit to be drunk 20/4/7. I hope life gets better for you soon.
@@alicebreyyou mean 24/7
Im pretty much 12, (Turn 12 in 3 days)
My mother is never home. Today she said she needed to bring my stepdad his lunch for work. His work is only 20 minutes away, and its been 2 hours. If she was stuck in traffic she would let me know.
Thats not the worst part.
Im old enough to cook simple things to eat for lunch and dinner. The thing is, i cant cook dinner, when all i have to cook is pasta, toast, or a tuna fish sandwhich. Half the time, the only times i eat lunch and breakfast, is at school. Then i come home and dont eat dinner because i have nothing to eat. The other times i actually eat, is at my dads house. Hes doing pretty badly. He works instacart. Earns about 80 bucks a day. He buys me snacks, food, and even treats and things when i ask for them. He doesnt drink, he only smokes cigars once a day. He treats me better than my mom who is a travel nurse, earns about $30 an HOUR (I believe, im not exactly sure.), And works 12 hours a day, 7 days a week. She never takes me out to do anything, maybe we'll go out to dinner once a couple months, but thats really it. Shes a severe alcoholic, and smokes daily. All the time. She claims she doesnt have enough money to buy simple party decorations for my birthday, yet the only things she actually spends money on is food for the pets, cigarettes, beer, and alcohol. Aswell as candy and snacks for her and her boyfriend. Im not professional in law at all, like, at all. But i believe this is negelct, is that true? Professionals, tell me, is what ive described illegal? Is my mom relly as bad as i think she is?
Yes. Saying you don't have enough money to buy YOUR OWN CHILD food, yet spending hundreds, perhaps thousands of dollars on cigarettes and beer, really goes to show just how much of an asshole "Loving Parents" can be. I honestly hope you can move in with your dad so you don't have to deal with your mom's abuse ever again.
Big hug to everyone who struggles with their family like this, whether you're underage or in a toxic relationship.
It does get better as you gain independence, so keep that goal in mind and don't underestimate your mental health, it's important to have a support group.
My dad legit thinks I'm going to forgive him after he practically threw me across the kitchen and choked my, trying to call it restraining. It was a while ago but I'm traumatized. I'm only 12.
Edit: I am now 13. Arguing still occasionally happens between my parents.
If that's true, and (hopefully not) recurring behaviour, that's really messed up. Maybe talk to a trusted family member, teacher or something? Obviously I don't know anything outside that little snapshot, but that's really not okay.
If you can, try to play along. Maybe it'll prevent it from getting worse. If it doesn't, I am sincerely sorry. I am not a professional.
Is your name bart simpson?
@@Disbanded9998 Lol no it's not
The only situation I think this would be acceptable, is if you were trying to set the house on fire. Anything else and it’s, at least, abuse of power. I swear some dads think they’re “building character” or some shit. Or maybe he doesn’t know how strong he is?
The stories in this sub helped me realize how horrible some of the shit my mom did was, i wouldn't have been aware of most of it otherwise
I’ve had amazing parents all my life and hearing all these stories sends chills down my spine. It really makes me want to text my mom and dad and tell them how much I love them
Imagine being told “I carried you for 9 months” every time your mom’s losing an argument only to later learn they brought the wrong baby home.
That doesn't really happen and in the very rare cases that it does you'd be notified pretty quickly cause the hospital has to legally pay attention to that stuff. One wrong baby home could mean a lawsuit.
Imagine replying with "dad's balls carried me before that"
Parents like these are the reason I came up with the idea of government approved parental licensing.
Extreme? Yes.
Its because if there's anything in the world I hate, is abusive parents and toxic households.
Yes!!!!!!! Having children should be a privilege, not a right.
yeah, lots of people have said this, and I feel you. it's a cool idea in theory but unfortunately humans are messed up and in all likelihood a license like that will just be used for eugenics or some similar crap. if there was one objective set of parenting qualifications that everyone agreed on that'd be great, but unfortunately that's...never happened in human history. you have to think, who would be in charge of something like that? how could anyone make sure their intentions are pure? what about all the infinite ways that could be used for discrimination? what agendas or biases could be intentionally or unintentionally contained in the test material?
and if people _do_ get pregnant prior to receiving a license and don't get one, (which _will_ happen, and frequently) what are they gonna do, forced abortion? removal of the child from their birth parents as soon as they're born? it's unenforceable at best, and a dystopian nightmare at worst. It'll also probably cause an economic labor crisis like the one China is dealing with right now due to having their one-child law for so long. And it almost undoubtedly will discriminate against low-income people, and through that other minorities, particularly disabled people and certain ethnic groups. It's the same reason we can't have a test for who can vote, there are just too many opportunities for bias and discrimination for it to ever be practical.
It's a utopian idea, basically. Would be nice, but only works in some kind of perfect controlled environment.
It's not that extreme. Wanting to kill LGBTQ people is extreme and insane. Having parenting licenses just seems like it could be necessary at this point. Or at the very least give child services more power to investigate abusive families.
Think about how many bad drivers you've seen. Virtually all of them are licensed to drive, by the government. Passing a test only proves that you could pass a test, not actually use the knowledge.
This subreddit makes me thankful for my own parents and also wish for reforms to things like foster care and CPS
My mom used to threaten to “delete my games” off the computer we use, never seeming to realise that i could just redownload them and the data it stored in the cloud lol.
14:58 I wonder FUCKING why the dog runs when she gets near. (In case if you don't know, dogs usually run away from people who hurt them because they are afraid of them.)
robin screaming into a pillow is something i did not expect to see on this channel. but this is insane parents. i feel like i should have expected it.
I have a dad who gives me no privacy and a short temper and my mom says he is ‘bipolar’ as an excuse which is really mean because it’s more of anger issues that he decides cursing me out and breaking things sometimes is the answer and he never listens to me or cares about me and he never lets go of something and will bring up a mistake I made almost a year ago back up to make me feel bad. Then sometimes out of nowhere he will pretend he’s been there for me and has always treated me amazing and will get angry or upset if I don’t treat him with kindness and like we have a stable relationship and will proceed to throw a tantrum and ground me. The worst part is my mom always takes his side and dosent try to say anything to him.
And absolutely 0 privacy or freedom as a teenager.
I've always had problems with managing my emotion, and I often get overwhelmed and break into tears. My mom doesn't like this very much. After a while I couldn't say it's because I'm a bit stressed out, because I'm "always stressed."
I get the vibe that my parents don't really think to much about what I'm feeling a lot, and that sucks because I put so much effort into understanding why *they* do things. I feel like if your kid is always one mistake away from a spiral, you'd start to be a little concerned.
My mom only started showing any form of concern about half a year ago, which, by all rights, shouldn't have thrown me for as much of a loop as it did
I get there are a lot of people out there who have legitimately horrible parents, but this video stirred up some stuff and I needed to vent for a second
20:39
I don’t know the law, but it has to be illegal, right ? Antidepressants are HEAVY medicine, stopping the medication suddenly can literally k!ll you.
It always annoys me so much when me and my mother are having an argument about something serious, if she thinks it's not going to go her way or she just gets too annoyed with me, she'll just walk away and sulk in her room. But whenever I try to walk away from an argument, she gets mad at me and doesn't let me leave. One time, I needed to be alone, and I couldn't properly communicate that to her. She was standing in the doorway of my room and wouldn't let me leave, so I had to force my way past her. After that, a bunch more garbage ensued, I ended up trying to hide from her in the basement, and she was going to send me to live with my grandparents two provinces away. She still thinks she was in the right because I didn't explicitly tell her that I needed to be alone, and I was just saying, very clearly distressed, "I don't want to talk to you, can you please just go away?" Wow, quelle suprise that after being raised by her, someone who gets annoyed instead of comforting her children when they're in distress, and was raised by someone who didn't show any emotions other than anger, I wouldn't be able to properly portray my emotions and how I feel.
For anyone who read that whole thing, thank you for reading, but also sorry you had to read all of that.
Nah bro, I’ve been through the same thing, except my mother knew I’d be happy to live with my grandmother, so she’d threaten to abandon me at an orphanage we lived near. It always makes me feel a little better knowing I’m not alone in thinking I wasn’t being the asshole during those moments. I’m sorry for what you’re going through, and I’m sorry to say it won’t change. But it may lessen the older you get, it did for me. I have to deal with new shit now about “hiding from my family” and “ignoring people”, but it’s better than dealing with the emotional abuse. It’s too bad seeing your child visually suffering isn’t enough for most parents to stop and question what they’re doing. I hope your mother looks at you someday, sees your heartbreak, and finally just listens. It’s all I’ve ever wanted, and I believe you deserve it too.
While growing up, man I spent HOURS of my life stomping... KOOPAS... in the original Mario Brothers arcade game. At my local laundromat. And then of course it came out on Nintendo, and I played that, I mean, maybe years of my life, uh, it's an HONOUR, truly, to be able to speak as the man, who created those memories for me, and it's an honour to work alongside them. It's been a lifelong dream of mine to become Mario.
Um... that uhh, that-that dream, like all dreams, faces one critical challenge...As in the film. I must face off against an UTTERLY, ruthless, scene stealer. *self jumpcuts* Every great hero needs a diabolical enemy, and I could promise you I could not have been paired with a more perfect king of the koopas... BOWSER...And...my friend, the great and hilarious, and supremely talented, mister JACK BLACK.
I haven’t been through anything like this and I’m just sorry for you, I know a lot of people who would say: “Well why didn’t you tell your mum? Surely she would have respected your privacy.” It’s just annoying how stuff like this can happen.
Edit: How old were you at the time, if it’s not a breach of privacy
The hoops some parents will jump through just to avoid literally sitting down and talking to their children are astronomical.
And then there are people who say "RESPECT YOUR PARENTS EVEN WHEN THEY SELL YOUR BODY PARTS"
This sub helps me know how amazing my parents are. They are so kind. My mom has only one problem she talks to much at events so when i wana leave we stay an extra 20 - 60 min. Nothing compared to everyone on this sub.
my mom too haha, but im more talkative than her
Same lol, my dad also yells a lot, but they still love me and try their best to support me(ps. My dad yells at random stuff, not necessarily at me)
My mom talks during movies and keeps up a running commentary. She loudly laughs (it's wonderful hearing her losing her shit) or gasps at character deaths or asks questions. It's honestly really great.
Thank goodness my dad's not intentionally abusive, he's kind of just an idiot
How to be a good parent:
Watch this and do the exact opposite of all the posts.
Gigagigagigagigachad
fr
@@paolarei4418 gigagigagigagigaparent
whats even worse than worse parents is people thinking they have terrible parents because they did something that was purposely bad, and got punished for it.
This makes me happy I have the parents I have. I have bipolar dissorder and they've been there the whole way to support me, paying for the meds and therapies.
I love how they say "i carried you for 9 months" when we didn't even ask to be born
"I carried you for nine months"
"And I would have supported your abortion, but here we are!"
Honestly i say this to my mother all the time and she always gives me THAT face, you know that face every mother has? Yeah.. that one 😂😭
@@Amoral_Crow I somehow got which face you are talking about lol.
2:02 I honestly enjoyed your reaction. The death stream at the end is hysterical and I don't know why.
The family laughing at the person's interests, reminds me of something I heard growing up if I expressed interest in something they didn't understand. "You would". Like, I like this or that, "you would". Meaning that's so freaking stupid and you are too because u like that. Even tho my mom was great otherwise, it was hurtful and a definite put down.
18:00 Screw all that, literally just call CPS and say that it's been 5 days and your parents are refusing to allow you to bathe.
Lemme go on a rant here.
So this mainly happens to me.
Parents can be stupid.
Your child is upset, crying even, having a tantrum and a break down. What do you do?
A: Calm them down, comfort them, give them their favorite thing (such as playing a movie on tv, etc)
B: Leave them alone until they calm down, then talk to them.
C: Spank them. Take away the things that keeps them calm. Lock them in a room, sometimes with the lights off when you know they’re scared of the dark.
Know what most parents do (from my experience and some friends)
They choose option C. That option isn’t good, it’s no bueno. Wanna know why? It teaches them to bottle up their anger, sadness, etc, tells them to NOT use things to calm them down, and sometimes even starts SH.
The fact that my parents have told me that “Just find something else to calm you down.” When they literally lock me in a room, with nothing In it, disappoints me. It even makes it worse when people like me try to tell them “Hey, can you leave me alone for a bit, let me calm down?” And then they don’t let you do that,and then complain “Why didn’t you calm yourself down?” Or when your calming yourself down and then they keep pestering you.
Like.
Bro.
Wtf.
And then when you tell the truth like “Hey, whenever you do this it really affects me mentally- it feels like abuse. Sometimes it even makes me SH or worse” they go
“No no, that’s discipline. Stop overreacting you cry baby.”
Parents, if they somehow get this message and they’ve chosen one of the things in option C, please stop. Try Option A or B instead of taking things away, locking them up, or spanking them.
Thank you for coming to my Ted talk.
I was a single mom of 2 boys, when they got older things got ruff. But I could easily say go to your room and calm down. We will talk later. When things cool down you talk, like talk about what happened. It usually calmed down when I brought food, or would ask them to help me do something and we'd talk while we were doing something
My parents have been saying “shut up.” for whenever i cry since i was 5.
@@dejus_e bru
Robins distant screaming is my new favorite thing, laughing my ass off
I swear, my dad ALWAYS had some sort of reason to get mad at me. It was constant "Want to explain why (random thing that either didn't happen or was so extremely insignifigant, or even something he should be happy for)" followed by my explanation THAT HE ASKED FOR and him saying that he didn't ask me to talk back to him. A big issue that always came up was him texting me during school. At my school, we weren't allowed to take phones out of or lockers, and he would send one text while I was in class, and within a minute tell me that I "shouldn't have a phone if I'm never going to reply to me." Not only that, but I have long hair and am generally one of the least masculine guys I know of, and I had a trans brother. My dad was already on me about how I should be more "boyish," but after my brother transitioned, oh boy, he never shut up about it. He was also pretty transphobic, and he always introduced my brother as "his daughter, Caroline." Hell, one time he yelled at my brother and I for not knowing a certain basketball player. My brother and I genuinly had some of our best bonding moments over talking about our dad being a jerk. We eventually ended up creating a game called *How did we F*ck up this Time!?* where we placed bets on what he would get mad at us for.
Story from my teenhood, listen if you want to be angry:
I was 15, I wanted new clothes since my old clothes were wearing out, I asked them for new clothes, they said: "get a job"
I then asked, "Okay, and if I want new clothes then?" They said "Oh, you'll pay for them yourselves"
ugh, that sucks. clothing is a necessity, not a "want." selfish parents
I'd get it if you were talking about super expensive high-fashion brands, but it doesn't sound like that's the case here. It's a parent's responsibility to provide the basics: roof, food, clothes, and love. They wouldn't even do that. Smh
To be fair at one point you do need a job, but it’s unfair to make your child buy clothes if they’re still in school (if your graduated high school I should expect you to be able to pay for your own clothes, especially if you don’t pay rent living with your parents)
@@fatcatlord8066 The story makes specific mention of “from my teenhood”. I would think they have severed ties with their parents by now if they are this selfish.
kool
I talked to my dad about mental health days because of stress, his response was "school should not be stressful"
Have you heard of "School is Hell" by Matt Groening?
He's right. It shouldn't be.
I don't think you took it the right way, either that or you're purposefully leaving something out here.
@@razztastic It SHOULDN'T be stressful, yet it is.
@@razztasticschools fault.
I just watch this out of sympathy and also it gives me a shaudenfreude satisfaction that my parents aren't like this. I'm sorry to everyone that have parents like this, I hope you one day escape these assholes that got to raise you, you don’t deserve it 💗
“Those who say you can’t choose your family are f***ing wrong”
Yep. Thank you for validating this for me. My father used to say that phrase as a way to manipulate me and still tries to this day. I’m driving back to what was the home I grew up in tomorrow and taking a bunch of my things and hopefully never returning.
Him trying to make me shut up when I decided to finally talk about taking further action against a family member who sexually assaulting me as a child was the last straw. I’m tired of having to suffer in silence just to not cause an inconvenience. I deserve better.
Honestly yes screaming in pillows is good therapy. Join a screamo band!
Also, as a side note, I feel as though letting your parents have a relationship with YOUR children is a privilege. If you've had a bad relationship with your parents, or you have trauma from things that happened in your childhood, for example, it's not hard to understand why you don't want to be in contact with them. And the amount of people that don't understand that is ridiculous, imo.
I started writing music and doing martial arts.
I can take my anger out on my guitar (in a gentle manor because I don't wanna break it-) and on a punching bag and both ways are constructive :D
@@bombdotcom2168 yeah i totally get what you're saying!! it's funny I've wanted to do that for a while now but I just haven't had the motivation lmao
music is a really great way to express your feelings, convey them, and understand them so yeah that's even better tbh
@@lillyplaysguitar Music is a great outlet, and I like to combine it with my other hobbies like martial arts and creating artwork.
Whatever your talents or hobbies are, I hope you're able to find a way to use them in a way that benefits you and your mental health.
@@bombdotcom2168 thank you, genuinely, so much. I've now been inspired to actually make music!!
Best wishes in whatever you decide to do, and thank you again. I hope you're successful in whatever you decide to do in life!
@@lillyplaysguitar I'm sure your music will be incredible ^^
I wish you luck in life as well
using "i carried you for nine months" is a terrible excuse "oooh look at me i am the only woman carrying a child i'm super special" no because you are not the only one who did that
0:00
My response to this answer is always, "And dad carried me first."
I’ve learned that when my mom yells at me for some stupid reason and grounds me, I just respond with ok and show no emotion. Then she can’t punish me more. I just moved away for the first time and my mom took my computer “because I was rude” cutting off my only way of contacting my best friends.
4:44 I know I don't know the mechanics of this app but... It locks their phones until they respond to their parents? How tf are they supposed to respond if their phone is locked?
I'm assuming it locks every thing except their messages app(?)
Mom: "I carried you for nine months"
Me :"Yep, and then I lived with you for x years"
2:03 "no the fuck you won't talk to me tomorrow" would be such a fantastic response to that
Ahh, I remember that day when I helped a friend leave his parents house for good. After hearing all kinds of fuckery I can't even begin to remember, his last words to them were something to the effect of "This manipulative bullshit is why I don't respect you" and it brings joy to my heart knowing he was confident enough to say it.
0:14 their first mistake was expecting a boy named Jaden to stop playing Yu-Gi-Oh. Excuse me, Yugigo
No yuiogiuogiuo
@@threeawesomekids8316 no yuigog
@@lucasvidz9488 no yooigu
@@lucasvidz9488 no yguigoogigu
@@whydoiexist no yoigogui
That quote from Fairly Odd Parents being in the insane parents subreddit is oddly fitting considering Timmy’s parents are incompetent for the most part
I’m so glad that I actually had parents that treated me like a human being because I’ve read some shit on R/entitled people and it makes me wanna throttle every single one of those entitled parents
Everytime I see these vids I realize how lucky I am to have normal, chill parents