Never open the marriage just leave. It's clear she didn't want him to date anyone, she figured he'd always be busy to date and now that he is she's terrified she'll lose her cushy position.
That's why she was angling to take on more debt. She doesn't want him to date or even enjoy the money he has earned. She's disgusting on so many levels.
I wouldn't say open relationships are always bad but being real it's something on the level of having children or not. If that is what you want you should out that fact by the 3rd date
@@kingofgames2992open relationships (OR) like this (one party outrules the other's by forcing them to an OR) 99% of times end up in a breakout. Also OR are really rare (12% of couples in the us alone are in an OR) and have around a ~92% to fail so only a .1% of relationships are """strong""" enough to work as an OR
The Open marriage thing that was suck a hustle by the wife. She wanted the freedom of being single, the financial support of being married but none of the "work" of maintaining a marriage. She only wanted to change things when the OP was out of a situation where he was a work horse, where he had time for self improvement and free time to enjoy. 74 hours a week means only work and parenting. She liked that deal, and knows now that husband doesn't have his nose to the grindstone all the time he will fully realize she is using him, that to her he is an atm and nanny not a husband. The OP's mistake was accepting an open marriage because when he did that he severed the emotional connection, he killed the marriage. Now he realizes he's just been clinging to the corpse of that relationship while overworking himself self to secure a future for his kids. He did it and now the wife doesn't want things to change for her. She suggested buying a new house because she wanted to make sure the husband went back to a life if only work and home, working long hours and helping with the kids while she just spent his money on herself and her sexual appities.
She was happy when he was working 74 hours a week and she had a free pass to sleep around. She refuses to get a job but wants him to buy her a bigger house. As soon as he cut back on his hours and began dating, she no longer wanted to stick by the rules. Dude getting played for a complete fool. How did it not occur to him that he was her sugar daddy. He even stopped sleeping in the same room as her... what is his reason to stick around???
WAIT. DID ANYONE ELSE PICK ON THE RULES lol, "not hook up with people we know like friends, FAMILY, co-workers" I hope this was a typo while typing the story
Open marriage = over marriage. If your partner asks you for an open marriage it's time to divorce. They are either already cheating or planning to. The open marriage is just their way to try and have their cake and eat it too.
Open relationships and open marriages are stupid and not worth it, if you want to f*** other people do that before getting into a commited relationship.
Story1: honestly, for this OP I’d say it best to end it.It’s Always them wanting an excuse to cheat, and they already have somebody in mind. Being able to come home staying married while the same time having somebody on the side and the OP wife trying to close the relationship or add more restrictions is just her insecurities of her, just wanting to be the only one to enjoy the open relationship, all the OP waiting peacefully for her at home. because people like this are genuinely insecure that if their partner engages in the open relationship stuff that that personal end up finding somebody better than the person who suggested the open relationship in the first place, and in fact, the OP did so now she’s trying to backtrack. Because for me, it’s best to end things since the minute she suggested the open relationship there was nothing to save, and the fact that she’s trying so desperately to keep you on a leash despite being the one who suggested this kind of just shows that she wanted to be the only one to enjoy it..
Love built on cheating will never last Love built on money might work for a little But love built on trust and compassion is the only relationship that will truly last ❤
OP should have dug a hole in the woods after his wife asked for an open marriage or she would divorce him. Take her out into the woods and later tell the kids “Mommy went out for milk/cigarettes…”
When a wife suggests an open marriage, it means she wants to have her fun with whomever she wants and still have the safety and security of a marriage. It's never about saving or fixing a marriage. She thinks in an open marriage, she will go out and get laid and her husband will go out and "try" to get laid... and usually fail. When he starts actually getting a lot of women interested in him, she panics and usually wants to close the relationship. If a woman wants to open a relationship, 90% of the time, the marriage is pretty much over anyway. Just make it official and get a divorce.
The only reason why open relationships work irl, if starts out as an open relationship. I dislike how married couples, in a closed relationship want to open it up after. You built your relationship being commited. I've been in a few open relationships, they all started off that way. Yeah, sure, at times there was some weird times, but nothing drastic like from other closed relationships go. I mean, you never hear stories about people in an open relationship and one wants to close it only to break up, because one didn't want to close it. But it's less drastic, because all parties entered in agreement about it being open.
There it is. She suggested to opening the marriage because she was operating under the assumption that men have an infinitely harder time getting dates, or at least getting dates that lead to more dates of even 'teh seggs'. As soon as that happened she started, like the hypocrit she is, adding more rules. This always happens. Women will never suggest an open marriage/relationship unless they're certain it's heavily in their favor. Always remember this guys. Never agree to this if it's not a lifestyle you're interested in. Said lifestyle only works for particular people, don't let yourself be gaslighted or guilt tripped into it. Walk away instead because you're wife/girlfriend is already, or planning to cheat. She has someone lined up already or is looking to absolve herself of the guilt of cheating.
I have no sympathy for you dude you should have divorced her for bringing up the idea of a open marriage which there is no such thing just a excuse to cheat and you went along with it chances are she already was going around
![[Full Story] My Sister-in-Law is Planning a Wedding at My House And I'm Not Invited, But](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/5vQQ0Elu-mc/mqdefault.jpg)
Never open the marriage just leave. It's clear she didn't want him to date anyone, she figured he'd always be busy to date and now that he is she's terrified she'll lose her cushy position.
That's why she was angling to take on more debt. She doesn't want him to date or even enjoy the money he has earned. She's disgusting on so many levels.
It's F-ed up how the Law is willing to give the undeserving spouse 50-50 even if it's at the cost of their child's education
Never let things be open. Opening is Cheating.
I wouldn't say open relationships are always bad but being real it's something on the level of having children or not. If that is what you want you should out that fact by the 3rd date
@@kingofgames2992open relationships (OR) like this (one party outrules the other's by forcing them to an OR) 99% of times end up in a breakout.
Also OR are really rare (12% of couples in the us alone are in an OR) and have around a ~92% to fail so only a .1% of relationships are """strong""" enough to work as an OR
Opening legs to other people
The Open marriage thing that was suck a hustle by the wife. She wanted the freedom of being single, the financial support of being married but none of the "work" of maintaining a marriage. She only wanted to change things when the OP was out of a situation where he was a work horse, where he had time for self improvement and free time to enjoy. 74 hours a week means only work and parenting. She liked that deal, and knows now that husband doesn't have his nose to the grindstone all the time he will fully realize she is using him, that to her he is an atm and nanny not a husband. The OP's mistake was accepting an open marriage because when he did that he severed the emotional connection, he killed the marriage. Now he realizes he's just been clinging to the corpse of that relationship while overworking himself self to secure a future for his kids. He did it and now the wife doesn't want things to change for her. She suggested buying a new house because she wanted to make sure the husband went back to a life if only work and home, working long hours and helping with the kids while she just spent his money on herself and her sexual appities.
She was happy when he was working 74 hours a week and she had a free pass to sleep around. She refuses to get a job but wants him to buy her a bigger house. As soon as he cut back on his hours and began dating, she no longer wanted to stick by the rules.
Dude getting played for a complete fool. How did it not occur to him that he was her sugar daddy. He even stopped sleeping in the same room as her... what is his reason to stick around???
'Update two story 2" , like common 💀
WAIT. DID ANYONE ELSE PICK ON THE RULES lol, "not hook up with people we know like friends, FAMILY, co-workers" I hope this was a typo while typing the story
Assume they meant each other's family not their own, lol.
Open marriage = over marriage. If your partner asks you for an open marriage it's time to divorce. They are either already cheating or planning to. The open marriage is just their way to try and have their cake and eat it too.
Update just went to story two wtf?
AI have done its job
Open relationships and open marriages are stupid and not worth it, if you want to f*** other people do that before getting into a commited relationship.
Right answer is Divorce.
Story1: honestly, for this OP I’d say it best to end it.It’s Always them wanting an excuse to cheat, and they already have somebody in mind. Being able to come home staying married while the same time having somebody on the side and the OP wife trying to close the relationship or add more restrictions is just her insecurities of her, just wanting to be the only one to enjoy the open relationship, all the OP waiting peacefully for her at home. because people like this are genuinely insecure that if their partner engages in the open relationship stuff that that personal end up finding somebody better than the person who suggested the open relationship in the first place, and in fact, the OP did so now she’s trying to backtrack. Because for me, it’s best to end things since the minute she suggested the open relationship there was nothing to save, and the fact that she’s trying so desperately to keep you on a leash despite being the one who suggested this kind of just shows that she wanted to be the only one to enjoy it..
Wife was deciding everything and the guy was handling the things like an ATM & slave.... pathetic wimp husband....
No such thing as an open relationship, you're either in a relationship or your single.
What happened to the first story. That can not be the end. There has to be more.
Love built on cheating will never last
Love built on money might work for a little
But love built on trust and compassion is the only relationship that will truly last ❤
Doing tests is so stupid that’s how you ruin relationships.
Bruh the first 30 seconds where he said okay was annoying
So this story about a 304 and a toilet paper...funny
OP should have dug a hole in the woods after his wife asked for an open marriage or she would divorce him. Take her out into the woods and later tell the kids “Mommy went out for milk/cigarettes…”
yes nothing like switching stories in the middle of nothing...
Avoid this!
Give me a break. Didn't finish the first story before starting a new . Stop wasting my time..
They always love it until the man starts getting some play.
Last story cut off
When a wife suggests an open marriage, it means she wants to have her fun with whomever she wants and still have the safety and security of a marriage. It's never about saving or fixing a marriage. She thinks in an open marriage, she will go out and get laid and her husband will go out and "try" to get laid... and usually fail. When he starts actually getting a lot of women interested in him, she panics and usually wants to close the relationship. If a woman wants to open a relationship, 90% of the time, the marriage is pretty much over anyway. Just make it official and get a divorce.
The only reason why open relationships work irl, if starts out as an open relationship. I dislike how married couples, in a closed relationship want to open it up after. You built your relationship being commited.
I've been in a few open relationships, they all started off that way.
Yeah, sure, at times there was some weird times, but nothing drastic like from other closed relationships go.
I mean, you never hear stories about people in an open relationship and one wants to close it only to break up, because one didn't want to close it. But it's less drastic, because all parties entered in agreement about it being open.
Why the heck do you cut off a story, unsubscribed ..
I'll divorce my wife make sure she doesn't get any money then I'll start dating again
This man is pathetic leave the marriage she using u as a back up option.
There it is. She suggested to opening the marriage because she was operating under the assumption that men have an infinitely harder time getting dates, or at least getting dates that lead to more dates of even 'teh seggs'. As soon as that happened she started, like the hypocrit she is, adding more rules.
This always happens. Women will never suggest an open marriage/relationship unless they're certain it's heavily in their favor. Always remember this guys. Never agree to this if it's not a lifestyle you're interested in. Said lifestyle only works for particular people, don't let yourself be gaslighted or guilt tripped into it. Walk away instead because you're wife/girlfriend is already, or planning to cheat. She has someone lined up already or is looking to absolve herself of the guilt of cheating.
S2 APOLOGIZE FOR *WHAT?*
7:34 story 2
The Ai loves the name emma
I have no sympathy for you dude you should have divorced her for bringing up the idea of a open marriage which there is no such thing just a excuse to cheat and you went along with it chances are she already was going around
$$$
Where was the update?